Forgiving Our Parents, Cheating & Manhood
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
- Conversations With My Conscience - Episode 16
The premise of this podcast is that I am having a conversation with my conscience. That is the male voice you hear; my father.
We tackle all things life by going through all the lessons I’ve learned with him as my mentor. The ups, the downs, the pain, and the joy. All of it.
My conscience, my ego and myself. This is it.
With God at the centre of it all.
Enjoy 🤍
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Love how she relates eveeything to Islam and ultimately gives the best advice
think this was a good episode for papa not to be here! we needed it from a girls perspective only today! would love to hear more about just trying to see the positivity in relationships instead of always looking at the negative!
“ I’m not too focused on me “
I loved that
I only listen for Dad
This background is much better !
Can you give tips on how to more eloquent and articulate.
Best video so far!
Great ep!
Feminist come out with pitch forks. 😂 thats so true, its sad
You said husband and wife are one in God's eye... How?
I forgive you
I wouldn't necessarily agree that it takes 2 to tango because it's not true. It always starts with one person leading the other to do something stupid or play along even if they want to avoid it. By this saying we're literally defending an enabling those who do evil to continue doing evil to other person or people because it "always takes two to tango". People who do evil, do it because they're chosing to. An evil person can do you wrong and you can still choose to act back like a decent human being because you're simply not like them. My ex cheated, abused, was aggressive, used me, stole from me, betrayed me whenever and how ever but in the end, I was the one who choose to keep my dignity. Yeah we argued and stuff because I chose to defend myself and not play along with his bullshit but it doesn't make me at fault for him cheating or abusing me as it was his choice all along and no excuse can justify that fact. I was doing everything, I was doing both my duty as a gf/fiance and his duty as well. Until I realized he is a simply narcisstic-sociopathic asshole who was raised that way. He was never held accountable for anything, everyone else including his parents were getting along with his behavior and actions because they didn't want to be "bad" parents who are nagging their children, and in the end, he turned out to be the worst possible creature on the planet. He knows he will never ever be held accountable for anything he does to anyone else. And it's his own choice to be that way for the same reason. Going around, abusing other girls, using them, cheating and then blaming them cause society said: it takes 2 to tango. And that's the exact same thing he would tell me after being the one creating chaos and problems : "it can't just be my fault, it takes 2 to be in a relationship". And he would justify his behavior through the exact same quote. And because of that, evil and bad people will never change, they will go around destroying others and create problems because society said: "it takes two".
It still holds true, as you let him abuse you. If a women does that to me I am dropping her like a bad habit. It is not possible for him to be so smooth that certain traits of him you couldn't see before getting into a relationship with him. It is simply not possible. You got into a relationship without knowing him all that well, this was your first problem. You didn't try to understand his intent for "liking" your or other things is your second problem or possibly he lied but you didnt care to verify. And as a result this happened to you. You cant really blame someone else for being wishy-washy and dumb no offense. But take this as advice, whether you like it or not there is such a thing as called stupid tax, for people being stupid. And them not being any wiser, as you weren't you suffered for it as a gambler deserves his ruin, a drug addict his destruction. Hope you are doing well and wiser.
You need to find a Godly man because when you do, he will love you as he loves christ. And he will bring you closer to God.
jay-z lost most of his popularity when he cheated on beyonce…
Please come back to hijab sister
Why?
I wonder, she has such a beautiful faith and knowledge of Allah, but why not putting on Hijab, i pray she finds her self soon in the dignity and beauty of Hijab.
Why does she have to put hijab?
I hate the fact that you talked about other ppl pain as if it’s nothing. You never know unless you try so if you haven’t being abused by your one of your parents physically and emotionally since such a young age(7yrs) till adult life don’t even dare to say well it’s about you not them. who’s gonna solve years and years of violence?. Shame on you and one me for listening to you