Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@@OsobBeauty Hello dear Miss. Osob how do you do if you don't mind Can I ask you are question please thanks a lot dear????? I have a boyfriend he's a Muslim and me I'm a Christian he's a married person you know what Miss. Osob he love's me so much and me too wallah the problem is he can't marry me because of his wife I'm a Christian I can't do that it's not good at all the devil is a lie a pretty 7 years we are dating when i was in Dubai Long Distance R'sp I told to him leave me alone but he said never Please help me what Can I do thanks a lot Miss. Osob🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Allah bless you always🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@katshudson6398 I’m sorry hun but he’s definitely taking advantage of you and has no plans of making this serious. Don’t waste your time on someone like that.
I’m going through this process of figuring out my exit. I know for a fact I want a divorce, and the feeling of shame because I don’t have kids is a mountain I’m trying to climb and overcome. Please pray for me. Being 32, it’s super overwhelming because you feel your time ticking away, but I would never want to bring a child into chaos and unhappiness. May Allah swt alleviate all of our pain and grant us relief.
Sis I cry three times a day and three times a night 😭😭😭 and I laugh double the amount I cry but wallah all I know is nothing will happen to us besides what Allah has wrote down for us 💖💖
I don't usually comment on UA-cam videos but I cried when you cried.. sis, may Allah protect you and your daughter. You're such a strong woman mashaAllah and my Allah continue to bless you and all the single mothers out there.. may Allah make it easy for you to find a good person for you and your daughter... you are a role model for so many.. continue to create real videos like this one.. love you for the sake of Allah ❤
Your video was recommended, I’m not divorced yet going down that road we’ve exhausted everything after 6 years ... 3 kids later... everything you said is what I’m living exactlyyyyy May Allah grant us all ease sister EASE and take what he takes from us and replaces it with something far better than we can imagine for all us divorcees and those struggling internally -externally Ameen!
I’m christian but I feel like I needed to see this, I’m so scared for my future. You’re so beautiful and I’m glad you’re taking it one day at a time, thank you for sharing your story💜💜
We never overcome this chapter in out lives, we simply place it into perspective and forge forward with Allah's help. You are never alone, Allah is always with us.
First 5yrs of marriage is difficult, specially if there's kids. I "hated" her.😂 Now going on 12yrs. I'm glad we stuck through it. Divorce should be the absolute last resort
Assalamu aleikum sister , I live in Russia , and women looks weird when sees divorced Muslim girl , so I feel always ashamed when I reply that I’m separated and feeling uncomfortable in society as single mum , May Allah help us to meet worthy and decent good man 🙂🤲🏼
Yes!!!! 1. Things don’t “go wrong” when you get a divorce. In the end, often, it just comes down to two people who aren’t compatible!!! If they are then they will figure it out and Allah let’s you divorce multiple times and get back together. But mostly it’s just two people who aren’t symbiotic! And 2. “It’s more important that her parents are in a good relationship than together.” YESSSSS GIRL!!!! THIS!!!! To all kids!!!! I grew up with parents that should have got a divorce and that pain was SO DEEP!!!!
Absolutely not!!! It’s no secret you can know someone for 10 years and not know them until you marry them. Happens all the time. There are things they hide/fail to share or insidious beliefs that creep up or they just change. We were NEVER meant to avoid divorce. It’s a part of life and a necessary one at that. The whole problem is peoples view of divorce, like this some terrible thing. No!! Being stuck with a life you hate is terrible. Sleeping around for decades is terrible. Just live life and divorce when necessary. Divorce is easy on Islam. The west made it a ridiculous thing!!!
@@lisal440 There you go with myth about you don't know the person until you wake up next to them lol that's what people who are for arranged marriaged say. "The love will come later" this guy will take you home like he did with his car from the dealership. Get ready for the awkwardness of living with a stranger who you share no bond with, a stranger who doesn't know what makes happy or angry. All these sisters being used like a butler that makes babies. Relationship before marriage doesn't mean you have sex by the way.
I’m sorry abyo! I’m in my late 20’s and never married. The only thing I had a problem is overthinking what it will look like my life with my partner coz I don’t like divorce due to a trauma of my mother as my father couldn’t manage their marriage after 27yrs with 10+ beautiful kids 😭! All are encouraging me to get marry at least for testing myself and get divorce if it didn’t worked me well! My heart shall never accept until I will met with my soulmate naturally! Those who have good ❤️ will one day be in good life, please do a lot of istiqfaar du’a insha Allah.
Just cause you get divorced people think you’re a lesser of a human being. They it’s better for you to live in misery than get divorced. They doubt your decision to find a better man and live a better life. Allah already said he will provide for them from sources they could never imagine. And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then He ˹alone˺ is sufficient for them. Certainly Allah achieves His Will. Allah has already set a destiny for everything. I’m a living proof of this alhamdulilah. We need to move on and find something to do in-order to move on otherwise we will always contemplate on the past. Sis thank you for sharing your story it will inspire many people if Allah wills. We should never ever worry about other peoples belittling comments when Allah already honored all human beings.🙏😘
You are such a strong woman walashay qurux. Mashallah tabarakallah. May Allah bless you, May Allah protect you from the evil eye (isha baxarka) Amiin ya rabi.
There’s definitely a toll for being a single parent vs a single mom. Having someone to help you in any way makes a difference. When I divorced it took me soooo long to accept it. Almost embarrassed to say how long it took me to divorce my ex husband but I finally did it. Alhamdulillah Someday I’ll be married again Inshallah
It's my 1st time coming by you, happy I came by, I am going through a divorce too, so can't wait to be free. I understand how you feel but saying something, you are helping someone else. Thank you for sharing this video. I will be coming around again. Greetings from Jamaica 🇯🇲.
I got a divorce two years ago. My husband was abusive he didn't want me to visit my family. I got out when he kicked me on the face when I woke him up to talk to his mother who had just broken her coller bone. I left n never looked back thank God for my mother n father they supported me. Family is everything I have never been happy Alhamdulilah I got up before I lost myself
Wow sis May Allah heal you 🤲🏾🤲🏾 glad you did not tolerate that nonsense due to society pressure and self doubt. May Allah give you better and much more.
Divorce is really hard and the stigma, especially when a woman asks for divorce.It was the toughest time of my life I honestly nearly died. Glad to see anyone whose come through and are ok.
That is because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Woman who ask for divorce and women who contend unnecessarily with their husbands are hypocrites." (Saheeh Al-Jaami #1934). The hypocrites are cursed by Allah (Glory be to Him).
I just found you and I'm so glad I did. I've never related to something more than this. Im also an avoudant when it comes to things like this. When my divorce happened I didn't have time to have a breakdown. I just kept going and doing what needed to be done. I never allowed myself to heal because I was so scared I was going to have a nervous break down if I stopped enough to process what happened. It wasn't until pandemic when I was forced to slow down and I had my break down. Cried, reflected, journaled, did my affirmations, healed my inner child. Working on my worthiness is an everyday challenge. But I'm getting there day by day. My advice to others going through this, pls allow yourself to grieve. The grieving process will allow you to heal and reclaim your sense of worth. When you're to ashamed to admit to divorce, it's a sign you haven't processed it yet.
It's been a few months and it's difficult i really don't want anyone to kno, still going to school.......I want to be able to accept the things be strong, and do good and be successful in lyf ...... I understand if u feel sad coz there's always z part of u zat hoped things will be okay and live happily ever after, but Allah has bigger plans inshaallah he will make us happy just have to have faith in him and pray to help us get through the hard tyms.........smone told me behind evry successful women zers a divorce, Just shows hw a women culd achieve a lot if she sets her mind to it I'm glad to hear u talk bout it makes me feel like it's okay
Hey! Someone else who is more powerful and provide a faster way to restore broken relationship helped me bring my ex back within 48hours and he can help you too
I loved this video. MashaAllah Allah increase u and grant u better than what u lost sis. Ameen. I left my ex husband when I was 8.5months pregnant and finalized the divorce when my baby was 5months old. I completely relate to u when u say how scared u r and not know how u will get through, but Alhamdulilah 2years on and I look back feeling so happy and grateful for our beautiful life. Allah swt continue to make things so good and so easy for us. Ameen!
osobeyy your soo beautiful allahum barik and strong and wise may allah swt protect you and your family and make you all amongst those who he is pleased with allhuma ameen. may allah swt ease you worries and hardships and grant you sucess , health and an everlasting strengthened imaan ameen xxx. i pray allah accepts all your duas and keeps you happy always.
After being in a marriage for over 25 years. I am so unhappy and now that my daughters are in their twenties. I think it is time for me to leave my marriage. The unhappiness is so bad that l really don't want to wake up. I am thinking of doing a video for over 50s being unhappy in the marriage and making that final decision.
You are so young and beautiful.just stay strong and stay healthy. In case u need help ,let me know dear . I’m so sorry on behalf of men if you go thru something you didn’t expect
Avoid watching divorce programs and avoid involving people in your marriage make your husband your best friend and remember divorce is not an option to fix your problem always pray you’re five daily prayers make Dua for Allah to protect your marriage
I am glad to see that you are creating your support group and doing this with the wisdom of the creator to support you my love. As women opening up to other women emotionally is so important to enhance our greatest feminine being 🐝✨
My daughter is 4 and I’m concerned about how my upcoming divorce is going to affect her. I think in these situations it’s very important for the children’s sake to be civil and do things peacefully.
@@zixzizia1066 it’s been tough, my daughter was struggling a lot with not seeing her dad as much and still does from time to time, but I’m managing somehow alhamdulillah
Masha Allah sister, you're strong and beautiful. Dunya is imperfect world, only Jannah is perfect. What ever happens, we always have to say alhamdullah and accept what is ridden for us from Allah.
Love to see it gorgeous ❤️ So glad you are in a better place and that you are at peace with it. Naag nool!!! You are incredibly strong and such a great role model for your daughter 🤍
Osob i watched your video twice, i really cant explain how much your honest and strength have helped me. May Allah make everything easy for you. I am so happy you shared with us your journey. May Allah make it easy upon all women going through divorce/ those who are single mother
Walaal I feel for you iam somali boy I have three kids and Izard going through divorce for the first time and I don’t know what to do it hurts when some one you love so much decides that is it as if it’s some thing you can turn on and off.saying that I made a lot of mistakes like but I have sincerely apologised and what is even waste I have to deal with allah and repent but I found out she didn’t love me I was just means to an end it hurts when you wonder if you kids was even born out of love or for the sake of having kids.markaaa xurma fiican you are may allah give you a good brother that’s ahlu deen and do right by you aamiin and do dua for us brothers too may allah guide us all and may Allah give us good hearts to love and care for our hurdle ein sisters dry your tears I say
Masha'Allah Tabarakallah you're beautiful sis. Walahi I was shocked when I saw your video, evil 👁 is true. May Allah keep giving you strength, peace of mind and grant you the best in this world and the next 🤲❤💕
My daughter went throw the same thing feeling not normal like all her friends but now she is dealing with it better just give her extra love from u and ur family and never ever talk bad about her dad let her see things for her self girls that come from single mothers are the most strongest and indépendant girls trust me she will be ok Incha allah Im ok now after 15 year marriage it took me 2 years to fully feel ok with the divorce loads of dua prayer helps xx
As someone who went through a separation in 2016, then again in 2018-19, culminating in a divorce in 2020 (which my case has still dragged on to this day), im happy for you. My experience has been the complete opposite. I feel like im only starting to rebuild my life again, while also mourning the fact that ive already lost five years of my life.
Hold your head up, you got this sis. Continue building both your empires for this dunia and the next, leave the rest to Allah....your one of the real ones ❤️
I needed this video!! I’m a divorced single Somali mum too and I love everything you spoke about! Please do a dating video cus im at the stage where I’m ready to meet new men too! Thanks sis❤️❤️
MashaAllah sis, thank you for sharing. I admire your strength and vulnerability. May Allah continue to bless you and your baby girl with lots of love and happiness. ❤️
You're divorced but you're doing good, your house is good and you look so good, I myself I'm looking older than my age for being a single mother and having all responsible for my 3 girls alone,
I’m going through this now. We have a 13 year old son. The first time “divorce” was spoken, I was very immature and made lots of threats to him about never letting him see his child and fighting for everything. It was my way to manipulate the situation. Now I regret it. I have found out I still love him enough to want him to be happy and apparently I can’t. So I’d rather swallow my pride and be his best friend so our son still has his father and mother loving and caring and providing for him. He has another girlfriend now I make myself have a relationship with her and respect his decision because he works almost all day and she is the one taking care of our son. I my son decide if he liked her or not. Never spoke ill of her in-front of our son. I’m happy because we actually have a lot in common. I’ve been blessed having her co-parent with us
I can imagine this phase.. i can't say I've totally healed but i believe every situation happens for a good course.. I love your speach! May Allah increase us in wisdom..amin.
Am new here .am also a UA-cam ,a Muslim and am also devoice with four kids and at the same time working at the hospital as and RN .am happy to come across your channel
Don’t we Men think it’s inhuman to see our own Muslim sisters undergoing such challenges and we’re not able to make them happy by being good men and marry them... It’s a big Sunnah to marry divorcee and widows... May the almighty Allah bless you ladies who are single,divorcee and widows good men to marry... Even if they are married n want to marry you as second,third or fourth wife don’t hesitate and get into a halal union...
Wow, you're so amazing sis! Mash Allah. You said everything on point. I'm currently going through what you went through and I'm slowly overcoming it alhamdulillah. I thought the shame and guilt was just me, but you showed me that many other single mothers feel the same way. Thank you for sharing. ❤️
Masha'Allah sister your an amazing woman, you are so well spoken and the fact that you didn't talk negative about your ex husband says a lot about you as a person.
In Islam, in particular the women’s perspective, if the first divorce happens, and say you love that person again that you once had married, in order to marry that person, you have to marry another person first (second marriage/husband), and if that didn’t work, divorce, in order to marry first husband with new Nikkah contract right?
I got divorced. Wife divorced me, pressured me into signing over email. I regretted almost immediately , I had so much remorse and guilt, tried so hard to reconcile but she didn’t. I just don’t understand how you wouldn’t forgive your spouse, if it’s not cheating or abusing etc, I acknowledged my mistakes , felt so bad for her, and she had nothing but harshness to me. I still cry to this day, 4 months later
Can Jesus be God? Is it wise for God to call Himself “son of man”?! Is it wise for God to say He does NOT know something someone else knows?! Is it wise for God to look forward for the day when He will be sitting next to another God?! Bible : * No one knows about that day or hour, not even the Son, but the Father only. (Matthew 24:36) * Jesus answered.“ Soon you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right side[a] of God” (Mark 14:62) * Will you be surprised when you visit any Christian church in any of the 22 countries of the Middle East where “ Jesus” lived and open any Bible there and find the only name for God is Allah ?! • Doesn’t it fit your liking that Allah says this about Himself : In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful. 1 Say, “He is Allah, the One. 2 Allah, the Absolute. 3 He begets not, nor was He begotten. 4 And there is none comparable to Him.”(Quran 112) In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful. Allah - there is no deity except Him, the Ever-Living, the Sustainer of [all] existence. Neither drowsiness overtakes Him nor sleep. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. Who is it that can intercede with Him except by His permission? He knows what is [presently] before them and what will be after them, and they encompass not a thing of His knowledge except for what He wills. His Kursi extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation tires Him not. And He is the Most High, the Most Great. . (Quran 2:255) In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful. The Messiah, son of Mary, was no more than a messenger. ˹Many˺ messengers had ˹come and˺ gone before him. His mother was a woman of truth. They both ate food. See how We make the signs clear to them, yet see how they are deluded ˹from the truth˺! Say, ˺ “How can you worship besides Allah those who can neither harm nor benefit you? And Allah ˹alone˺ is the All-Hearing, All-Knowing.” (Quran 5: 75-77) In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful. Say, "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited to you. [He commands] that you not associate anything with Him, and to parents, good treatment, and do not kill your children out of poverty; We will provide for you and them. And do not approach immoralities - what is apparent of them and what is concealed. And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed] except by [legal] right. This has He instructed you that you may use reason." And do not approach the orphan's property except in a way that is best until he reaches maturity. And give full measure and weight in justice. We do not charge any soul except [with that within] its capacity. And when you testify, be just, even if [it concerns] a near relative. And the covenant of Allah fulfill. This has He instructed you that you may remember. And, [moreover], this is My path, which is straight, so follow it; and do not follow [other] ways, for you will be separated from His way. This has He instructed you that you may become righteous. (Quran 6:151-153) In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful. O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm in justice, witnesses for Allah, even if it be against yourselves or parents and relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allah is more worthy of both. So follow not [personal] inclination, lest you not be just. And if you distort [your testimony] or refuse [to give it], then indeed Allah is ever, with what you do, Acquainted. (Quran 4:135)
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
One thing about Somali women, we are gona figure it out! Period.
Period!
Women in general sis! Mashallah wa inshallah xx
@@TVOE_12 don’t do that, if someone wants to uplift their own community don’t come in with all lives matter bullshit mind ya business
Facts abayo
Most women’s do
It was a tough break walahi
Insha Allah you got a better Life
❤🌹 you are not a single mom but you have Single Heart and Strong Heart
Having supportive parents is everything wlhi no matter what u are going though
Can you marry a Christian according to your deen?
no
@@OsobBeauty would you marry a Christian?
@@OsobBeauty Hello dear Miss. Osob how do you do if you don't mind Can I ask you are question please thanks a lot dear?????
I have a boyfriend he's a Muslim and me I'm a Christian he's a married person you know what Miss. Osob he love's me so much and me too wallah the problem is he can't marry me because of his wife
I'm a Christian I can't do that it's not good at all the devil is a lie a pretty 7 years we are dating when i was in Dubai Long Distance R'sp I told to him leave me alone but he said never
Please help me what Can I do thanks a lot Miss. Osob🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Allah bless you always🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@shamounian Hi
God is good all the time dear🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@katshudson6398 I’m sorry hun but he’s definitely taking advantage of you and has no plans of making this serious. Don’t waste your time on someone like that.
I’m going through this process of figuring out my exit. I know for a fact I want a divorce, and the feeling of shame because I don’t have kids is a mountain I’m trying to climb and overcome. Please pray for me. Being 32, it’s super overwhelming because you feel your time ticking away, but I would never want to bring a child into chaos and unhappiness. May Allah swt alleviate all of our pain and grant us relief.
I’ll keep you in my duas sister Tiyya!
@@foreverme171 JazakAllahu khair!
You’ll definitely be in my prayers. May Allah make it easier for you in shaa Allah 💞
You’ll be just fine sis! Take it one day at a time❤️
@@nh2119 Aallahuma Aameen
Sis I cry three times a day and three times a night 😭😭😭 and I laugh double the amount I cry but wallah all I know is nothing will happen to us besides what Allah has wrote down for us 💖💖
You will be fine inshallah. Your brother here is praying for u
indeed Allah is best of planner ,everything will work out
@Jenny June you here to advertise a doctor we don't know about him,stop scamming people together you and that so called doctor.
Please pray for me that 🙏Allah SWT make it easy on me and all of us. I'm a male going through the same thing.
I am from azerbaijan 🇦🇿
And I find somali women so pretty 😍 🤗
I love your cuisine too 🤩
We love you 2 dia
I don't usually comment on UA-cam videos but I cried when you cried.. sis, may Allah protect you and your daughter. You're such a strong woman mashaAllah and my Allah continue to bless you and all the single mothers out there.. may Allah make it easy for you to find a good person for you and your daughter... you are a role model for so many.. continue to create real videos like this one.. love you for the sake of Allah ❤
Thank you sis! I love you too ❤️❤️❤️
@@OsobBeauty don worry Allah is always with you we love you sister keep going you are strong woman You deserve to be diamond gal masha allah
Your video was recommended, I’m not divorced yet going down that road we’ve exhausted everything after 6 years ... 3 kids later... everything you said is what I’m living exactlyyyyy May Allah grant us all ease sister EASE and take what he takes from us and replaces it with something far better than we can imagine for all us divorcees and those struggling internally -externally Ameen!
I’m christian but I feel like I needed to see this, I’m so scared for my future. You’re so beautiful and I’m glad you’re taking it one day at a time, thank you for sharing your story💜💜
Her story is universal, I am glad she shared it with us.
God has never given us a spirit of fear. Seek Him daily, you have joy and peace beyond understanding. Be blessed!
We never overcome this chapter in out lives, we simply place it into perspective and forge forward with Allah's help. You are never alone, Allah is always with us.
First 5yrs of marriage is difficult, specially if there's kids. I "hated" her.😂 Now going on 12yrs. I'm glad we stuck through it. Divorce should be the absolute last resort
Assalamu aleikum sister , I live in Russia , and women looks weird when sees divorced Muslim girl , so I feel always ashamed when I reply that I’m separated and feeling uncomfortable in society as single mum , May Allah help us to meet worthy and decent good man 🙂🤲🏼
Walaikum Salam sis, you don’t owe anyone that explanation. Just say you’re not married and move on. That’s my plab
Yes!!!! 1. Things don’t “go wrong” when you get a divorce. In the end, often, it just comes down to two people who aren’t compatible!!! If they are then they will figure it out and Allah let’s you divorce multiple times and get back together. But mostly it’s just two people who aren’t symbiotic!
And 2. “It’s more important that her parents are in a good relationship than together.” YESSSSS GIRL!!!! THIS!!!! To all kids!!!! I grew up with parents that should have got a divorce and that pain was SO DEEP!!!!
Absolutely not!!! It’s no secret you can know someone for 10 years and not know them until you marry them. Happens all the time. There are things they hide/fail to share or insidious beliefs that creep up or they just change. We were NEVER meant to avoid divorce. It’s a part of life and a necessary one at that. The whole problem is peoples view of divorce, like this some terrible thing. No!! Being stuck with a life you hate is terrible. Sleeping around for decades is terrible. Just live life and divorce when necessary. Divorce is easy on Islam. The west made it a ridiculous thing!!!
@@lisal440 There you go with myth about you don't know the person until you wake up next to them lol that's what people who are for arranged marriaged say. "The love will come later" this guy will take you home like he did with his car from the dealership. Get ready for the awkwardness of living with a stranger who you share no bond with, a stranger who doesn't know what makes happy or angry. All these sisters being used like a butler that makes babies. Relationship before marriage doesn't mean you have sex by the way.
I’m sorry abyo! I’m in my late 20’s and never married. The only thing I had a problem is overthinking what it will look like my life with my partner coz I don’t like divorce due to a trauma of my mother as my father couldn’t manage their marriage after 27yrs with 10+ beautiful kids 😭! All are encouraging me to get marry at least for testing myself and get divorce if it didn’t worked me well! My heart shall never accept until I will met with my soulmate naturally! Those who have good ❤️ will one day be in good life, please do a lot of istiqfaar du’a insha Allah.
Sister stop overthinking everything comes from Allah if you are good you will get good
Can you elaborate on this sentence “ I will meet my soulmate naturally” I noticed that finding someone to marry igetting harder due to these views.
@@abdirahmanfarah5123 means not to force yourself to someone to convince being partners!
Ma sha Allah.. All the time pray istikhara before you make important decisions please it is sunnah to ask Allah to guide you...
Just cause you get divorced people think you’re a lesser of a human being. They it’s better for you to live in misery than get divorced. They doubt your decision to find a better man and live a better life. Allah already said he will provide for them from sources they could never imagine. And whoever puts their trust in Allah, then He ˹alone˺ is sufficient for them. Certainly Allah achieves His Will. Allah has already set a destiny for everything. I’m a living proof of this alhamdulilah. We need to move on and find something to do in-order to move on otherwise we will always contemplate on the past. Sis thank you for sharing your story it will inspire many people if Allah wills. We should never ever worry about other peoples belittling comments when Allah already honored all human beings.🙏😘
We don’t know how strong we are until we have no choice but to be strong !
I see how you felt... emotional ... but you're such a strong beautiful human being... and you'll overcome obstacles
You are such a strong woman walashay qurux. Mashallah tabarakallah. May Allah bless you, May Allah protect you from the evil eye (isha baxarka) Amiin ya rabi.
It’s funny what about ishabaxarka
I love your approach. Not talking bad about your exes behind their back. You set a great example to others 👍🏻 👏 ❤️
There’s definitely a toll for being a single parent vs a single mom. Having someone to help you in any way makes a difference. When I divorced it took me soooo long to accept it. Almost embarrassed to say how long it took me to divorce my ex husband but I finally did it. Alhamdulillah
Someday I’ll be married again Inshallah
Inshaallah
I'm also divorced man. Looking for a pious Muslim woman in the United States.
It's my 1st time coming by you, happy I came by, I am going through a divorce too, so can't wait to be free. I understand how you feel but saying something, you are helping someone else. Thank you for sharing this video. I will be coming around again. Greetings from Jamaica 🇯🇲.
interested in hearing the dating video!!
Thank can never our next girl chat inshallah
I got a divorce two years ago. My husband was abusive he didn't want me to visit my family. I got out when he kicked me on the face when I woke him up to talk to his mother who had just broken her coller bone. I left n never looked back thank God for my mother n father they supported me. Family is everything I have never been happy Alhamdulilah I got up before I lost myself
Wow sis May Allah heal you 🤲🏾🤲🏾 glad you did not tolerate that nonsense due to society pressure and self doubt. May Allah give you better and much more.
Oh am soory for you sister. May Allah make it easy for you
Im so sorry❤️🌹🌹
Am here waiting to be married after a failed first one InshaAllah I get to marry & those in same situation as I'm yarabb grant us pious partners
Be good that’s all u will get best insha allah
May Allah ease every hardship a single mother has in their life and bless you all. #The StrongestWomen
Divorce is really hard and the stigma, especially when a woman asks for divorce.It was the toughest time of my life I honestly nearly died. Glad to see anyone whose come through and are ok.
You will be fine.
That is because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Woman who ask for divorce and women who contend unnecessarily with their husbands are hypocrites." (Saheeh Al-Jaami #1934). The hypocrites are cursed by Allah (Glory be to Him).
Same to me can't imagine the pain and the hardship😭😭
@@mamasawo7812
i will marry you.where do you?
@@nmmuslim8313 Allah swt neither Muhammad saw said thulma is ok or to stay in an abusive marriage.Don’t try to justify something you don’t know.
I just found you and I'm so glad I did. I've never related to something more than this. Im also an avoudant when it comes to things like this. When my divorce happened I didn't have time to have a breakdown. I just kept going and doing what needed to be done. I never allowed myself to heal because I was so scared I was going to have a nervous break down if I stopped enough to process what happened. It wasn't until pandemic when I was forced to slow down and I had my break down. Cried, reflected, journaled, did my affirmations, healed my inner child. Working on my worthiness is an everyday challenge. But I'm getting there day by day. My advice to others going through this, pls allow yourself to grieve. The grieving process will allow you to heal and reclaim your sense of worth. When you're to ashamed to admit to divorce, it's a sign you haven't processed it yet.
Can you do an apartment/house tour please?
It's been a few months and it's difficult i really don't want anyone to kno, still going to school.......I want to be able to accept the things be strong, and do good and be successful in lyf ...... I understand if u feel sad coz there's always z part of u zat hoped things will be okay and live happily ever after, but Allah has bigger plans inshaallah he will make us happy just have to have faith in him and pray to help us get through the hard tyms.........smone told me behind evry successful women zers a divorce, Just shows hw a women culd achieve a lot if she sets her mind to it
I'm glad to hear u talk bout it makes me feel like it's okay
Hey! Someone else who is more powerful and provide a faster way to restore broken relationship helped me bring my ex back within 48hours and he can help you too
This is completely unrelated but I'm obsessed with your sectional.. it looks so comfy.. where did you get it from?
Thank you, it’s from a shop in Mississauga called “sofas by fancy” you can make it custom sized!
Sending you lots of love and dua from the UK sis. You sound like amazing strong young woman. Best wishes in your next chapter ❤️
I loved this video. MashaAllah Allah increase u and grant u better than what u lost sis. Ameen.
I left my ex husband when I was 8.5months pregnant and finalized the divorce when my baby was 5months old. I completely relate to u when u say how scared u r and not know how u will get through, but Alhamdulilah 2years on and I look back feeling so happy and grateful for our beautiful life. Allah swt continue to make things so good and so easy for us. Ameen!
Look at that! Alhamdulilah so happy for you!
osobeyy your soo beautiful allahum barik and strong and wise may allah swt protect you and your family and make you all amongst those who he is pleased with allhuma ameen. may allah swt ease you worries and hardships and grant you sucess , health and an everlasting strengthened imaan ameen xxx. i pray allah accepts all your duas and keeps you happy always.
After being in a marriage for over 25 years. I am so unhappy and now that my daughters are in their twenties. I think it is time for me to leave my marriage. The unhappiness is so bad that l really don't want to wake up. I am thinking of doing a video for over 50s being unhappy in the marriage and making that final decision.
Please do! It would be so insightful
Oh Wow
You deserve to be happy
Try if anything can work out.. Pray qiyamul leyl and make alot of dua..
💞💞 May Allah always protect you and Alina from the evil eyes and always keep you happy and healthy.
Ameen❤️
You are so young and beautiful.just stay strong and stay healthy. In case u need help ,let me know dear . I’m so sorry on behalf of men if you go thru something you didn’t expect
Please I need a help am a single mother of 2 beautiful daughters am from Nigeria 🙏🙏🙏
Honestly Mashallah I am just busy looking how beautiful she is and her home lol Mashallah again
I got married 15 days ago and now watching this makes me scared . May Allah make it easy for everyone and heal all those who are broken🥲😔
inshallah ur marriage lasts
Avoid watching divorce programs and avoid involving people in your marriage make your husband your best friend and remember divorce is not an option to fix your problem always pray you’re five daily prayers make Dua for Allah to protect your marriage
@@loveallah6355 noted, shukran jazaakllah
@@sayhaanqudqud5799 may Allah protect our marriage and give strength to our divorce sisters
@@loveallah6355 ameen
I am glad to see that you are creating your support group and doing this with the wisdom of the creator to support you my love. As women opening up to other women emotionally is so important to enhance our greatest feminine being 🐝✨
God bless you sis, and you will find the ONE Inshallah x May you continue to heal in peace 🥰
My daughter is 4 and I’m concerned about how my upcoming divorce is going to affect her. I think in these situations it’s very important for the children’s sake to be civil and do things peacefully.
Yes to that!
You will be fine Dear
How are things going for you now? In sha Allah everything worked out ok.
@@zixzizia1066 it’s been tough, my daughter was struggling a lot with not seeing her dad as much and still does from time to time, but I’m managing somehow alhamdulillah
Masha Allah sister, you're strong and beautiful. Dunya is imperfect world, only Jannah is perfect. What ever happens, we always have to say alhamdullah and accept what is ridden for us from Allah.
Ameen 🥰🥰
Love to see it gorgeous ❤️ So glad you are in a better place and that you are at peace with it.
Naag nool!!! You are incredibly strong and such a great role model for your daughter 🤍
Thank you sis ❤️
Sallam aleehkum dear sister, am a Nigeria lady, am also a single mother of 2 beautiful daughters,, it's not a easy tasks,, but Alhamdulilah 🙏🙏🙏
I love in somalia, but i just came to a conclusion that somalis do not have long lasting love.
They do Sis....but it's not common
Really ? Every Somali person in my circle has been married 10 years plus. All I have been around is long term 😂
Lol who lied to u. Somalis have long lasting marriage and it's rare to see single mothers in our community especially back home.
You are so beautiful so please see your beauty not your divorce papers!
Somali woman are so strong mashallah ❤️
You seem like a strong woman 💜💜being married young isnt for everyone, Allah has a plan for everyone and love has no age limit ❤
Osob i watched your video twice, i really cant explain how much your honest and strength have helped me. May Allah make everything easy for you. I am so happy you shared with us your journey. May Allah make it easy upon all women going through divorce/ those who are single mother
I’m so glad to hear that’s sis ❤️
May allah keep you and your family safe - amin
Masha Allah Tabarakallah Naag Nool Hore usoco walalo ILahayna Hakula Koriyo Single mother Nabigena wanagsan Scw Duceeyay AYaba u Duceeyay 😘
May Allah make it easy for u sis and May Allah protect u and ur daughter and make you overcome everything Ameen
Ameen ❤️
Walaal. A divorce doesn't define you. Your amazing 👏 honestly
Don’t cry you are the price Believe your lord have a connection with your lord don’t worry about what ppl think worry about what Allah is thinking
Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Walaal I feel for you iam somali boy I have three kids and Izard going through divorce for the first time and I don’t know what to do it hurts when some one you love so much decides that is it as if it’s some thing you can turn on and off.saying that I made a lot of mistakes like but I have sincerely apologised and what is even waste I have to deal with allah and repent but I found out she didn’t love me I was just means to an end it hurts when you wonder if you kids was even born out of love or for the sake of having kids.markaaa xurma fiican you are may allah give you a good brother that’s ahlu deen and do right by you aamiin and do dua for us brothers too may allah guide us all and may Allah give us good hearts to love and care for our hurdle ein sisters dry your tears I say
Friends, family, many therapists make your insecurities worse. It’s good you didn’t talk about it with them while you were not feeling well.
im so glad that there’s coparenting i love ur maturity and how u prioritize the relationship ur daughter has between u & her father
Dont feel bad if the relationship is toxic you rather leave then stay. Wish you the best❤️🥰❤️🙏
Exactly!
Relationship is not toxic
“As women, we just know to be flirtatious” sis, do we 👀💀😭😭! Cuz I be questioning myself 😂😂
Girl it’s like riding a bike 😂❤️
Masha'Allah Tabarakallah you're beautiful sis. Walahi I was shocked when I saw your video, evil 👁 is true. May Allah keep giving you strength, peace of mind and grant you the best in this world and the next 🤲❤💕
Sabar walaal wax walba wa calaf waxa heli doonta mid kaaga sii Qeyr badan insha alah waxa tahay Gabar Dadaal Badan oo Asturan waadna Qurux Badan tahay masha alah
MashaAllah! You should be very proud 👏🏾 may Allah continue to bless you and your daughter! ❤
My daughter went throw the same thing feeling not normal like all her friends but now she is dealing with it better just give her extra love from u and ur family and never ever talk bad about her dad let her see things for her self girls that come from single mothers are the most strongest and indépendant girls trust me she will be ok Incha allah Im ok now after 15 year marriage it took me 2 years to fully feel ok with the divorce loads of dua prayer helps xx
*single mums* are always strong we love You ♥️🙏
As someone who went through a separation in 2016, then again in 2018-19, culminating in a divorce in 2020 (which my case has still dragged on to this day), im happy for you. My experience has been the complete opposite. I feel like im only starting to rebuild my life again, while also mourning the fact that ive already lost five years of my life.
Hold your head up, you got this sis. Continue building both your empires for this dunia and the next, leave the rest to Allah....your one of the real ones ❤️
I love that 👏🏻
I needed this video!! I’m a divorced single Somali mum too and I love everything you spoke about! Please do a dating video cus im at the stage where I’m ready to meet new men too! Thanks sis❤️❤️
But plzzz always pray for a good husband after every salarh. Pray alot. ❤
May all sinhle.muslims women marry there soulmates here and hereafter .Amen.
@@zunairajutt3461 yessss sis for sure always making dua ❤️🌺🤲🏾
@@zunairajutt3461 ameen yaa rab❤️
Intaadan seexan laba rakaca tuko inshaAllah mid qayr qaba baad heleesaa
MashaAllah sis, thank you for sharing. I admire your strength and vulnerability. May Allah continue to bless you and your baby girl with lots of love and happiness. ❤️
You're divorced but you're doing good, your house is good and you look so good, I myself I'm looking older than my age for being a single mother and having all responsible for my 3 girls alone,
The same
She only has 1 child so you can’t compare Sis it’s about building your life and looking after yourself
You are truly Amazing 🤩. Manshallah very strong 💪🏾 life is a learning journey. ✨
I’m going through this now. We have a 13 year old son. The first time “divorce” was spoken, I was very immature and made lots of threats to him about never letting him see his child and fighting for everything. It was my way to manipulate the situation. Now I regret it. I have found out I still love him enough to want him to be happy and apparently I can’t. So I’d rather swallow my pride and be his best friend so our son still has his father and mother loving and caring and providing for him. He has another girlfriend now I make myself have a relationship with her and respect his decision because he works almost all day and she is the one taking care of our son. I my son decide if he liked her or not. Never spoke ill of her in-front of our son. I’m happy because we actually have a lot in common. I’ve been blessed having her co-parent with us
May Allah subuhanawatahala helps all singles mother 🙏🙏🙏
To divorced it's not shame not bad it's best option to leave toxic relationship that tortures Evey single time
I can imagine this phase.. i can't say I've totally healed but i believe every situation happens for a good course.. I love your speach! May Allah increase us in wisdom..amin.
My I say you deserv 200 camels🐪 walah ❤️🌹. Walalo cadimatihid Mashalah 🙌🏻
Literally Osob is a friend in my head, may Allah SWT bless you in life! Btw, you literally look like Tyra Banks mA! 🕊❤️
Walashey mcn adi raali ah luqadada wa somali ku hadal iyada oo ku faan marar ku hadal luqadada kale lkiiin luqadad horamari
You such a strong woman ma sha allah ❤❤❤ love you osob
Thank you sis love you too 🥰🥺
U don’t have to cry no more bbz dry ur eyes I got ur back😂
Am new here .am also a UA-cam ,a Muslim and am also devoice with four kids and at the same time working at the hospital as and RN .am happy to come across your channel
Me too, we got this 💪🏾
I saw you on Instagram, I didn’t know you had UA-cam, I just came across your channel.. and yea love your accent.. good luck beautiful
I was thinking this her voice is beautiful
Haha I’m not a big fan of my voice! That’s why I don’t like watching my own videos back 😂
@@OsobBeauty oh no way sis your voice is amazing
Don’t we Men think it’s inhuman to see our own Muslim sisters undergoing such challenges and we’re not able to make them happy by being good men and marry them...
It’s a big Sunnah to marry divorcee and widows...
May the almighty Allah bless you ladies who are single,divorcee and widows good men to marry...
Even if they are married n want to marry you as second,third or fourth wife don’t hesitate and get into a halal union...
Tell as how bad was your husband
i see so much of myself in you
Was your husband that bad
Wow, you're so amazing sis! Mash Allah. You said everything on point. I'm currently going through what you went through and I'm slowly overcoming it alhamdulillah. I thought the shame and guilt was just me, but you showed me that many other single mothers feel the same way. Thank you for sharing. ❤️
Am new here today is my first time to watch your videos
Thanks for joining us 🥰
Keep it up. From Somalia
Please post more frequently ❤️❤️❤️
Real bomb take away
Beautiful girl
My daughter don't cry! You will be fine! Everthing has ameaning!!!
Masha'Allah sister your an amazing woman, you are so well spoken and the fact that you didn't talk negative about your ex husband says a lot about you as a person.
In Islam, in particular the women’s perspective, if the first divorce happens, and say you love that person again that you once had married, in order to marry that person, you have to marry another person first (second marriage/husband), and if that didn’t work, divorce, in order to marry first husband with new Nikkah contract right?
I got divorced. Wife divorced me, pressured me into signing over email. I regretted almost immediately , I had so much remorse and guilt, tried so hard to reconcile but she didn’t. I just don’t understand how you wouldn’t forgive your spouse, if it’s not cheating or abusing etc, I acknowledged my mistakes , felt so bad for her, and she had nothing but harshness to me. I still cry to this day, 4 months later
Can Jesus be God?
Is it wise for God to call Himself “son of man”?!
Is it wise for God to say He does NOT know something someone else knows?!
Is it wise for God to look forward for the day when He will be sitting next to another God?!
Bible :
* No one knows about that day or hour, not even the Son, but the Father only. (Matthew 24:36)
* Jesus answered.“ Soon you will see the Son of Man
sitting at the right side[a] of God” (Mark 14:62)
* Will you be surprised when you visit any Christian church in any of the 22 countries of the Middle East where “ Jesus” lived and open any Bible there and find the only name for God is Allah ?!
• Doesn’t it fit your liking that Allah says this about Himself :
In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful.
1 Say, “He is Allah, the One.
2 Allah, the Absolute.
3 He begets not, nor was He begotten.
4 And there is none comparable to Him.”(Quran 112)
In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful.
Allah - there is no deity except Him, the Ever-Living, the Sustainer of [all] existence. Neither drowsiness overtakes Him nor sleep. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. Who is it that can intercede with Him except by His permission? He knows what is [presently] before them and what will be after them, and they encompass not a thing of His knowledge except for what He wills. His Kursi extends over the heavens and the earth, and their preservation tires Him not. And He is the Most High, the Most Great. . (Quran 2:255)
In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful.
The Messiah, son of Mary, was no more than a messenger. ˹Many˺ messengers had ˹come and˺ gone before him. His mother was a woman of truth. They both ate food. See how We make the signs clear to them, yet see how they are deluded ˹from the truth˺! Say, ˺ “How can you worship besides Allah those who can neither harm nor benefit you? And Allah ˹alone˺ is the All-Hearing, All-Knowing.” (Quran 5: 75-77)
In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful.
Say, "Come, I will recite what your Lord has prohibited to you. [He commands] that you not associate anything with Him, and to parents, good treatment, and do not kill your children out of poverty; We will provide for you and them. And do not approach immoralities - what is apparent of them and what is concealed. And do not kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed] except by [legal] right. This has He instructed you that you may use reason."
And do not approach the orphan's property except in a way that is best until he reaches maturity. And give full measure and weight in justice. We do not charge any soul except [with that within] its capacity. And when you testify, be just, even if [it concerns] a near relative. And the covenant of Allah fulfill. This has He instructed you that you may remember.
And, [moreover], this is My path, which is straight, so follow it; and do not follow [other] ways, for you will be separated from His way. This has He instructed you that you may become righteous. (Quran 6:151-153)
In the name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful.
O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm in justice, witnesses for Allah, even if it be against yourselves or parents and relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allah is more worthy of both. So follow not [personal] inclination, lest you not be just. And if you distort [your testimony] or refuse [to give it], then indeed Allah is ever, with what you do, Acquainted. (Quran 4:135)
Such a beautiful human being ❤️😍 wishing you best and blessings 💞
Thank you love ❤️
Are an amazing person and Mashallah you still have an amazing smile after you went through this Mashallah proud of you girl 😍👏👏