i lvoed this video! i studied psych in undergrad and i sometimes consider going back to grad school for it as well. its so important that people are aware of the true definitions of these disorders because sometimes people just throw them around and self diagnose!
Heya Natalia, loving the new hair btw. This video was very interesting to watch- it's so important. Like, if you didn't have this diagnosis, I can only begin to imagine how confused you would be when describing the consuming emotions as well as the inconsistent emotions (when you spoke about the switch in your mood). I'm sat here thinking about people who haven't got access to this information and experience this all daily with no explanation at all, in fact it's getting me quite emotional. It annoys me that people don't take you seriously (and others) when you hit those really bad feelings, I am so sorry this is something you experience. Even listening to this all, it is making me think of ways to be very aware to others. When you were talking about SH, it made me realise an insight I have never had before, I have never understood why, as ignorant as that sounds, but now I get it... you have a really great way of helping others sympathise and imagine situations (like putting us in your shoes). I can imagine it being really hard for teenagers that align with all of these feelings and behaviour but cannot be tested until adult (as you said, in some places like Australia) but it makes sense, like again, I am learning so much! I dislike the "crazy" term also, it's so invalidating in so many ways. Everyone is so full of worth and deserves understanding people around them and that's exactly what video's like these create- I have become so much more aware of so much in the space of 20minutes!! Your self awareness is amazing; even the accountability of saying like yeah I have had these negative behaviours but I do not align with them- you are right, having BPD doesn't make you abusive- being abusive makes you abusive, it's something you align with or not, the two don't come hand in hand. You have been so vulnerable in this video being so open and honest and I am telling you now we appreciate it. This was so informative but also insightful to you Natalia. You touch up on your relationships with other people and how much this affects you and all I can say is that you're truly inspiring to share all of this. I really do feel as though I have learn't so blooming much watching this and for that I am really thankful. Sending you all of the love Natalia, thank you for this video and this type of content in general... so many people appreciate it xx
This was really informative and a deep topic to talk about. I didn't know much about BPD but I hope we learn more about these topics everywhere so there are less misunderstandings and sigma towards this P.S. I love your hair 💕
Hey Natilie ☺️ happy Friday ! I have learnt alot from this video. Ever since I heard or BPD, I have always been trying to find out more information on it to be more aware and educated on it. Thank you so much for sharing this 💓
I'm a 24 year old male, and I suspect that I might have BPD for the following reasons. My number one symptom is probably the fear of rejection. I feel a lot of pressure to please others and worry all the time that they will explode at me and/or hate me if I screw up in the slightest. The fear of rejection is even worse with my friends and family, not only because of the stuff I already mentioned but also because I'm into some really weird stuff. I worry all the time that my friends and family will shun me if they ever find out, and live in constant paranoia about them finding out. The fear of rejection is 1,000X worse in the romantic and sexual contexts, and I worry every day that no woman will ever love me in those ways. I also feel like if I don't seize everything in front of me that even remotely looks like an opportunity, it will never happen. This fear has caused me to act in ways that I know have scared at least one woman away from me. On the occasions that a woman actually does say yes to going on a date with me, I experience a lot of anxiety over that too. I think it's because part of me is afraid of commitment and vulnerability, even though another part of me desperately wants to be able to commit myself to a woman, make myself totally vulnerable to her, and have her love and accept me despite my flaws, my mistakes, and my weirdness. It makes no sense, I know. I often just feel like I'm just too socially inept, ugly, and just plain weird to ever be loved. I also struggle with anger and jealousy quite a bit. Things that would be a minor annoyance to most people can upset me for hours, and I sometimes lose my temper with others. I can hold a grudge for years, and often have fantasies of doing horrific, violent things to those I hate, even though I have no intention of actually doing these things. I feel a lot of jealousy for others, especially other men who are in fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships. As easy as it is for me to get angry at others, I'm often even harsher to myself. I can beat myself up over the smallest mistakes and often feel stupid over minor mistakes that I make, and also frequently call myself ugly and socially inept like I did above. I tend to second guess a lot of the decisions I make, and often find myself saying that every decision I make is wrong. I'll never know how a given decision would have turned out had I made the other choice, but I always tell myself that the other choice could not possibly have turned out worse than the one I actually made. Going back to what I said about feeling like I have to seize every relationship opportunity in front of me, I tend to call myself a coward when I fail to act on a perceived opportunity. Alternatively, I may also call myself an idiot for failing to see an opportunity or tell myself that my standards are too damn high. I'm not sure if they are or not, but that is another topic for another post. Finally, I just feel like a bad person a lot of the time. I grew up in a religious household and still have lingering fears of going to hell. Does this sound like BPD?
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i lvoed this video! i studied psych in undergrad and i sometimes consider going back to grad school for it as well. its so important that people are aware of the true definitions of these disorders because sometimes people just throw them around and self diagnose!
i love the candid chat about mental health and all the information you have shared along with your personal experience. Thank you for sharing 💕
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Heya Natalia, loving the new hair btw. This video was very interesting to watch- it's so important. Like, if you didn't have this diagnosis, I can only begin to imagine how confused you would be when describing the consuming emotions as well as the inconsistent emotions (when you spoke about the switch in your mood). I'm sat here thinking about people who haven't got access to this information and experience this all daily with no explanation at all, in fact it's getting me quite emotional.
It annoys me that people don't take you seriously (and others) when you hit those really bad feelings, I am so sorry this is something you experience. Even listening to this all, it is making me think of ways to be very aware to others. When you were talking about SH, it made me realise an insight I have never had before, I have never understood why, as ignorant as that sounds, but now I get it... you have a really great way of helping others sympathise and imagine situations (like putting us in your shoes).
I can imagine it being really hard for teenagers that align with all of these feelings and behaviour but cannot be tested until adult (as you said, in some places like Australia) but it makes sense, like again, I am learning so much!
I dislike the "crazy" term also, it's so invalidating in so many ways. Everyone is so full of worth and deserves understanding people around them and that's exactly what video's like these create- I have become so much more aware of so much in the space of 20minutes!!
Your self awareness is amazing; even the accountability of saying like yeah I have had these negative behaviours but I do not align with them- you are right, having BPD doesn't make you abusive- being abusive makes you abusive, it's something you align with or not, the two don't come hand in hand.
You have been so vulnerable in this video being so open and honest and I am telling you now we appreciate it. This was so informative but also insightful to you Natalia. You touch up on your relationships with other people and how much this affects you and all I can say is that you're truly inspiring to share all of this. I really do feel as though I have learn't so blooming much watching this and for that I am really thankful.
Sending you all of the love Natalia, thank you for this video and this type of content in general... so many people appreciate it xx
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First off, your so brave opening up about this! 💗 also your gorgeous!
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This was really informative and a deep topic to talk about. I didn't know much about BPD but I hope we learn more about these topics everywhere so there are less misunderstandings and sigma towards this
P.S. I love your hair 💕
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Hey Natilie ☺️ happy Friday ! I have learnt alot from this video. Ever since I heard or BPD, I have always been trying to find out more information on it to be more aware and educated on it. Thank you so much for sharing this 💓
thank you so much for watching!! it means the world when people pay attention to this topic
this topic is so so important ♡
i agree!!
I'm a 24 year old male, and I suspect that I might have BPD for the following reasons.
My number one symptom is probably the fear of rejection. I feel a lot of pressure to please others and worry all the time that they will explode at me and/or hate me if I screw up in the slightest. The fear of rejection is even worse with my friends and family, not only because of the stuff I already mentioned but also because I'm into some really weird stuff. I worry all the time that my friends and family will shun me if they ever find out, and live in constant paranoia about them finding out. The fear of rejection is 1,000X worse in the romantic and sexual contexts, and I worry every day that no woman will ever love me in those ways. I also feel like if I don't seize everything in front of me that even remotely looks like an opportunity, it will never happen. This fear has caused me to act in ways that I know have scared at least one woman away from me. On the occasions that a woman actually does say yes to going on a date with me, I experience a lot of anxiety over that too. I think it's because part of me is afraid of commitment and vulnerability, even though another part of me desperately wants to be able to commit myself to a woman, make myself totally vulnerable to her, and have her love and accept me despite my flaws, my mistakes, and my weirdness. It makes no sense, I know. I often just feel like I'm just too socially inept, ugly, and just plain weird to ever be loved.
I also struggle with anger and jealousy quite a bit. Things that would be a minor annoyance to most people can upset me for hours, and I sometimes lose my temper with others. I can hold a grudge for years, and often have fantasies of doing horrific, violent things to those I hate, even though I have no intention of actually doing these things. I feel a lot of jealousy for others, especially other men who are in fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships.
As easy as it is for me to get angry at others, I'm often even harsher to myself. I can beat myself up over the smallest mistakes and often feel stupid over minor mistakes that I make, and also frequently call myself ugly and socially inept like I did above. I tend to second guess a lot of the decisions I make, and often find myself saying that every decision I make is wrong. I'll never know how a given decision would have turned out had I made the other choice, but I always tell myself that the other choice could not possibly have turned out worse than the one I actually made.
Going back to what I said about feeling like I have to seize every relationship opportunity in front of me, I tend to call myself a coward when I fail to act on a perceived opportunity. Alternatively, I may also call myself an idiot for failing to see an opportunity or tell myself that my standards are too damn high. I'm not sure if they are or not, but that is another topic for another post. Finally, I just feel like a bad person a lot of the time. I grew up in a religious household and still have lingering fears of going to hell.
Does this sound like BPD?
It seems that you check in some of the criterias but to be sure I think it would be good to go a therapist. :)
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