The main reason of shyness for me is my height... Everyone teases me bcoz of my short height...And so I don't like to socialize thinking that everyone will make fun of me!!😢😢
the clickbaity thumbnail gave me a bad first impression and in fact this video has come up recommended before and I didn't click on it for that reason. But after giving it a chance the content was good
Shy, quiet or introverted people thumbs up! Let's see how many of us there are. 😊 There's nothing wrong with us! We are who we are, we are perfectly fine and we are not on our own. 😄 Lots of love to each of you 😘
To Priscilla Owusu Pankyee Your initial reaction might be to feel embarrassed or you have an option to concentrate on something positive about yourself. At the end of the day, most shy or introverted people are perceived badly by themselves not by others.
Introvert is far from being shy 🙄Im an introvert too I prefer silence over talking but that doesn’t mean that I dont want to socialize,there are certain times when I just want to blurt everthing inside my mind and become an extrovert or maybe im both lol cant understand myself
That’s the same for me because last year I would get in trouble and would talk a lot but now all my friends aren’t in my class anymore so I barely talk anymore
It's annoying how people say "do you talk"??? Or they ask your friends "does she talk??" And when you finally say a word they are all like "OMG, she can talk!!!"
I can't even talk to my aunt or any side families without them talking to me first. Like back then I was really close to my cousins but then I grew up and now I can't even have a conversation with them.
I had no idea anyone else felt this way! I jus hope my cousins and extended family know how much I love them even tho I feel shy around them cause I hardly ever c them anymore
Same, I also feel awkward around relatives especially when our families don't see and interact with each other as much, we rarely visit each other so it's so awkward sometimes, my dad has like 5, 6 or 7 siblings who are my aunts and uncles and they have all have children close to my age and older, my mom was an only child. When we go visit them my siblings and I are always hesitant and even don't want to go since we don't interact much with them especially me since I'm so shy and socially awkward, my mom gets hesitant too but she say we've gotta make an effort, I don't interact with my cousins much except with my two cousins who are women, both in their mid twenties, I'm 19, they are so nice to me and I enjoy talking to them, we are like the only few girls in our family tree, I'm the youngest girl, I have another cousin who lives in mexico, she is 30 and I barely know her, the rest of my cousins are guys and so are most of my dad's siblings, he has two sisters. When we visit them, I only shake hands and greet and ask how they are doing and they ask me the same but I feel so awkward inside and from there I go sit somewhere and just be on my phone, this is how is it at parties and social gatherings, there are so many people and they all interact sometimes my dad be interacting with so many people, my mom interacts with a few, my brothers sometimes interacting together with some of our boy cousins and then there is me who is just sitting there on my phone, it's so hard to start a convo even with my relatives 😭😭😂😂
I'm very shy to Asking question or answer to teacher even I know the answer I just don't want to say... It's hard to change 😕 I really didn't expect there are so many people felt the same feeling.... Guys I'm really happy to let u know this...Everyday, I am reading so many quotes and learn to do it in my life... U guys always should need to think that different people need to be don't care about others... Just live for u & for u only 🤗🤗🤗 Confident is the key of success 🗝️🎹 If u want success, come n join with me friends....We are confident squad 😘😘😘
Are you here because you are shy?? Once Stephan hawking said that quiet person has loudest mind. Edit: If you are shy and quite, then you got some super power. Don't think about your superpower as how others think instead search how you are benefited by it. You know, I m quite person and I don't tend to be shy- it comes automatically.(You don't really need to control it, but be prepare for next time, when you gonna visit others- they may point you out like why are you so quite?why are you shying? So be ready for those situation.) Learn how to deal with them. Let me tell you one more thing- quite and shy person do best in the society. So smile & go ahead in your journey, you are going right way!
I'm sensitive. I'm shy. I'm lonely. I'm quite. I feel insecure. Weak. Cries easily. But... ✨💛but i still love myself💛✨ Edit:uthtcmbngvbvgdd jgjbjhgggjgjgufvhhfurefhv MAMA I'M FAMOUS 😭😭😭😭😱😱
Ugh I relate so much! like if I'm in a group and they ask my opinion, they look at me and wait for me to speak, I usually don't know what to say, I stutter and end up saying something awkward making it awkward cause they're just like what?😭
Me too omg It just makes me feel like defined and labeled and people won’t allow me or accept me to be any other way. It’s ruined my life too, in so many ways. Not having any friends at all for your entire life changes your life. Because of it I’m a stripper because I have no friends anyway, so who is even going to judge me for being a stripper? Every time I try to go out and make friends I get bullied and targeted for being shy and awkward, in turn making me even more shy and awkward as well.
that was in the past and unfortunately affects the present now but the past cannot be changed, right, i have to move on, be confident so i won't fuck my future as well. Don't let your shyness destroy your life guys, don't look back, don't look around, look ahead and smile. Peace
The Hound I've overcome self doubt and other internal problems and have discovered self love. I encourage you all to believe in yourselves and fuck any and all negativity. If nobody else gives a damn know that I do and I believe in y'all. I just graduated high school I'm 18 and I don't know if I'm ready for this fucked up world yet. Smh 😔
I think I'll be shy forever. When I'm talking to someone I do some very weird movements because I feel extremely discomfortable and nervous. I can't even pay attention to the conversation because I think the person that I'm talking to is thinking about how awkward I am all the time. It's an infinite loop and I can't get out of it or even control it. (Yeah, I need some serious help)
I'm jaelous with my classmates because they can actually talk infront of class with confidence and I'm just looking at them trying to imagine that's me
dear… creat your best version of yourself.. just creat how and who you want to be.. how you want to live.. and imitate it.. you’ll be what you want when you face your fear and stay away from your comfort zone
Honey don't feel lonely many of us can relate I just don't understand why some of us are nervous like this I know it's natural but when I act awkward I feel embarassed.
You lie to yourself ... Deep down you want have friends and a love life .. don't let's your anxiety fuck your future and make you a desperate person without life
It feels good while reading the comments that there are so many people like me. I hardly find a shy person like me in the actual life. I am always in the search of a person who is shy like me, does anyone else do that? Btw never found anyone like me so far.
@Deuz Lobusta No one ever tries to talk to me in real life I feel like I'm living in a fucking ghost world, as for me I never know what to say to anyone so I never end up talking to anyone
I've experienced the same. You just gotta be positive about yourself, don't listen to those people you can change that. All you need to do is practice, it really will get better, trust me! :3
You why we loose confidence? It is because we think looking confident is looking good and we can’t look bad. There is nothing wrong with looking bad. After all we’re still human being, don’t need to be perfect all the time. Embrace looking bad and free yourself from that mental trap.
Shmu10 me too I cannot talk to someone I don't know unless they talk to me first. Even then I really only give one/two word answers. My family and two of my friends are the only people I'm completely open with and even with them I keep a lot closed off and hidden.
I am very very shy..I have met millions of shy people but not one if them are as shy as me...😭...at school I'm known as the "quite shy girl"...I try not to be shy I try to talk but no words come out of my mouth...I often shake extremely during presentations...I can't control it....i dont say not one single word at school ..not one word comes out of my mouth..and the days I do, the whole class gets shocked coz they hardly ever hear my voice ..i jus wish someone was like me. Edit:! I'm so glad that I found out I'm not the only one!..I feel more confident now and not so alone. Thank you all and Its great to know that there are still some beautiful hearts left in this world. ❤
Honey I understand you I'm also shy know that you're not alone in this there are many people like you and I.There are many famous singers and performers who have achieved a lot they didn't allow their shyness to hold them back.Personally I feel shyness can't be overcome shy people are naturally born this way.But I believe you can achieve a lot.
hey dear.. i use to be the same when I was at school, i never use to talk to anyone but girl u know we shy people are very creative but feels shy to tell anyone about our talent...im sure u must be having lot of talent, just believe in yourself and don't think what others will think. just enjoy and do what ever you like n you will see that slowly ull overcome from ur shyness. not completely but yes ull feel good n confident. today I m not the same person as I use to be in school I've changed a lot. n i believe that you too can do that😊🌻
kratika lad thankx i feel much better knowing I'm not the only one..yes you are right I am very talented, and I'll try to believe in myself.❤ thank you for giving me hope that things will turn out better. 🏆👑🔥
Whoever made this video, you don’t understand. To get rid of social anxiety and shyness isn’t something we can do on 1.2.3. It takes lots of lots of time
@@lara-vu4ie hi!! I'll use dictionary definitions to clarify this, so u know it's not just coming from me :) to be a shy person: "nervous or timid in the company of other people." social anxiety: "an overwhelming *phobia* of social situations like meeting or speaking to people." social anxiety is a *disorder* that possibly stems from childhood or certain social experiences the person has been through, while shyness is more of a trait and can be more temporary + isn't necessarily a part of your personality but also isn't a disorder. In general, the main symptoms that separate shyness from SAD are: -The impairment of functioning that it causes in a person’s life -The intensity of the fear -The level of avoidance according to an article about this, "People with social anxiety disorder don’t just feel nervous before giving a speech. They may worry about the speech for weeks or months beforehand, lose sleep due to anxiety, and have intense symptoms of anxiety during the feared situation such as a racing heart, shortness of breath, sweating, or shaking. The symptoms usually do not go away but get worse as the situation progresses. The person with SAD usually realizes that their fears are unfounded but is still unable to control them." I hope this helped!
I was so shy back then. But I decided to overcome my shyness by engaging myself in customer service kind of work. I deal with local and foreign clients and tend to adjust my self into different kinds of people with different kinds of attitude. Now I can see that I'm improving and saw that I developed my skills in approaching people. When something scared you, don't try to walk away. You need to face your fear. You'll eventually see the best version of your self😃
One time our teacher was chatting with us, a group of 8 people, and suddenly told everyone not to talk except for me. All of them waited for me to talk but I didnt say anything. After a few seconds of silence, they continued their conversation. It was really uncomfortable.
I didn't know that Im shy until I watched this. Its just that Im talkative when Im with my friends. But if its just a classmate or stranger I tend to be quiet and shy. And these tips will surely gonna help me. Thank you!
Me too. I'm not really at all shy when my friends are around. But I become shy to school teachers I don't know y. With tuition teachers also I'm not shy
Ever heard the saying "Ignorance is the root and stem of every evil"? Well it applies here. Shyness isn't always a bad thing. Being quiet doesn't mean you have anxiety or something. It means you just perfer being quiet. It isn't something one 6 minute video can cure. Introverted people can't change who they are. They should embrace it. This video is probably very offensive to most shy people. By posting this you make them feel like they have to change. To those introverts reading this: you are amazing just the way you are. Don't change for anyone. You are beautiful on the inside and outside and you are very unique. Be proud of yourself.
Ashley Marie that’s the thing. Being shy is different from preferring to be quiet. Being quiet isn’t myself. I’m very goofy but I can’t overcome it. This video is just to help. I don’t want to give up though. I want to embrace being me rather than quiet.
I am shy + afraid I am active when I am alone but when I see people my character suddenly changes I behave like seeing humans for the first time and that is so weird
Because of the fear of for example not giving a correct answer to a question the teacher asked. There is this weird feeling when u disappoint someone when they just complimented you.
Shyness is a disease for me high school sucks for me because I am lonely because of my shyness. Some people asked me if I wanted to sit with them. I really wanted to say yes but my shyness prevented me from sitting with them. I always wish there was a shyness club where a group of shy people are gathered together and become friends.
Kinda similar to your situation but I don't consider myself shy (only around women) But I do suffer from social phobia , it prevented me from making new friends. As a result , I didn't have many friends in high school. I didn't have any friends at all in college. I'm 23 years old and I still don't have a girlfriend. But its okay because who says you need a woman to make you happy. I'll just get a pet to keep me company.
I can give a presentation perfectly without feeling awkard But I don't know why I can't talk with my relatives without felling insecure My lot of relatives calls me dumb for this. next year I try to change myself And be socialize
It's really awkward when you try to speak and get frequently interupped by someone else whose normal speaking voice is louder than yours after waiting for a lull in the conversation to try to jump in
I m very shy that I am not talking with anyone that I m very emotional ... I don't make friends for the worry of I lose them🙄 ; I even not able to talk confidently..😣 Edit - I see all comments all are relatable...I m very happy that anyone is like me!! Thnks for reading 😜❤
Once in my School.... In a Parents-Teacher Meeting.... When no one else was there, One of Teachers "seriouslly" asked my mother,"Is it True that your son is unable to speak?" . One day... our class was making a LOT of noise when there was no teacher in class. ... A teacher came in with a lot of anger. Ready to punish whole class, .... But as she entered, she saw me and just.... just thought that I was also making noise. (But that is totally untrue. ... I think I was just smiling on something) .... She Forgave whole class just becauce of my rare smile. ... and some other these type of incidents also happened in my life Like When I try to say something, All of My Friends say something like... "Shut Up Guys!! Romil is saying something ! Listen!! ( as its very rare. ) 😧
Go to a bar and ask someone if there is another bar near by, it sounds stupid at first, but they may think you're from another town, act like you are, ask how is the crowd there, happy hour, music, dancing, whatever. Trust me you could strike a long conversation. You might make new friends. This always works for me.
I always critisize and compare myself to people's standards, and it always made me anxious and depressed. This video was helpful, I feel like trying to socialize and meet new people.
I hate how people will be like " omg you can talk!" and then my confidence goes⬆↗➡↙⬇ and in class i never raise my hand because i will turn into a literal tomato and because i hate how everyone has to look at you and i hate that
SAME. I literally can't handle too many eyes on me when i speak, my mind goes blank and forget what i was going to say and i will talk very quietly almost whispering.
There are a few components to treating shyness at home. One resource I discovered which successfully combines these is the Seans Shy Program (google it if you're interested) definately the most helpful guide that I have ever seen. Check out all the incredible information .
How to be you???😍 We are opposite before i use to be happy go lucky and happy person but now it slowly fades and now i cant even continue conversation to my colleagues😭How to be you po?!😱
I'm a shy and introverted person when I meet new people. But I do talk to them with a 'not so comfortable' feeling. And when I start to know them, I become the most talkative and extorverted person
Step one: accept yourself Me: closes video *I knew this was going to be impossible* Edit: Heyyyyy its been 2 years since I've commented that and I just wanted to say that I am now confident in myself and less shy, no I didn't follow the video but things do get better
"No. 1 accept yourself" But what if I can't accept myself... Edit: I just read the comments...what's up with y'all calling me a pedophile, rapist, killer, etc.??? Wtf I just said i can't accept myself that's it
You don't know nae pi ttam nunmul? You can if you believe in yourself and think by good way and don't listen to haters because we all not perfect we do have mistakes like anyone else so if you trust yourself you will be more happy with your life :) goodluck
Whether you think you can or you think you cant, you're right!Its all about the mindset.Change your mindset and you change your life.Practice kindness towards yourself.You are what you tell to yourself.❤️
If u don't accept urself thn u can't accept others...if u can't accept others thn ur life will be full of unlimited problems. The more u accept urself, more u can accept other people and situation ....and the more u accept other, U WILL BE MORE HAPPY EVERY SINGLE DAY.. DONT TRY to see the things as you want,instead see and accept as thy are.
Ya I was invited to a birthday party and I didn't really talk to anyone and when my parents told me I didn't talk to anyone and I'm ngl I cried myself to sleep cuz I was thinking people were caring for me a lot and I wasn't caring for them at all
I use to be shy growing up but now I love interacting with people, makes me feel really great. Being self conscience is terrible and a false way to live your unique life. There's only one of you in this universe, awesome. I remember Dr Phil's father said to him that you wouldn't care so much about what people thought of you if you realized they didn't. Regards from Brisbane Australia.
Yes it's to bad that's the mask the world likes to see. When I see people react to how I behave and talk I've come to understand that they think I'm confident or something. That's only the mask I wear because else I fear people will think I'm boring or stupid. Inside I don't know what to say or how to behave in front of another person. But lately I'm letting more and more go of the mask, and feel that vulnerable feeling that arises when I stay quiet when I'm with other people. I just don't know what to say and are really scared to do or say something wrong. It makes me feel a bit like I'm paralysed but I know now this feeling is what I've been avoiding for such a long time and it will help me understand how to really deal with this problem instead of putting on a mask like I have done before.
I used to be a very talkative person and had a lots of friends. Then I moved to another country. Here I'm so shy even though I've found some good friends. I'm not fluent in their language. So, I talk less. Anyway this video helps me a lot. Thanks. Thanks for the people who've read this.
I'm over thirty and I still think it's stupid to come up and talk to people without an official reason. I don't even talk to my friends unless I really have stuff to tell them.
I get you people tell introverts to talk more to people but honestly the reason why I don't talk to a lot of people is because I don't have anything to say to them I don't know what to tell them in the first place.
The key for me is start convos with people and put attention on them. Ask questions and find a topic that the person has with you. Just keep practicing. At times I feel like know one talks to me and I kind of lack that confidence especially talking to girls but people will open up if you talk to them first. Make eye contact and always answer with words. Smile and be positive. Talk loudly and clear which is my problem too. Have confidence. Join clubs organizations and go to events also. You can network with more ppl. But still yet there are times in convos where people are talking about things and I can't offer anything in the convo or ppl stop talking to me after a while. As a introvert it's hard to break out of your shell and be out there. I like being by myself but sometimes it can get lonely. I think being who we are makes us unique too.
Keep a balance between shyness and being Frank.....don't make yourself even more shy as you'll get subject to being bullied....(personal experience)...be frank...and shy too...it's your decision where to be shy and where to be frank
Practice a combat sport for at least 1 year. I recommend boxing, kickboxing or self-defense. That'll do wonders if you're lacking confidence. It worked for me. Good luck and take it easy! :)
I'm always shy every time I speak in front of the class especially when explaining, I feel like what I'm saying is wrong and sometimes I even murmur. I'm afraid to go to college because I'm ashamed to talk to other people even on stage I'm ashamed. please, I CAN'T TAKE IT
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The main reason of shyness for me is my height... Everyone teases me bcoz of my short height...And so I don't like to socialize thinking that everyone will make fun of me!!😢😢
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the clickbaity thumbnail gave me a bad first impression and in fact this video has come up recommended before and I didn't click on it for that reason. But after giving it a chance the content was good
Shy, quiet or introverted people thumbs up! Let's see how many of us there are. 😊 There's nothing wrong with us! We are who we are, we are perfectly fine and we are not on our own. 😄 Lots of love to each of you 😘
Lol I agree but being socially awkward is embarassing honestly.
To Priscilla Owusu Pankyee
Your initial reaction might be to feel embarrassed or you have an option to concentrate on something positive about yourself. At the end of the day, most shy or introverted people are perceived badly by themselves not by others.
Introvert doesn't mean shy though
Introvert is far from being shy 🙄Im an introvert too I prefer silence over talking but that doesn’t mean that I dont want to socialize,there are certain times when I just want to blurt everthing inside my mind and become an extrovert or maybe im both lol cant understand myself
raul castaneda
Maybe you're an ambivert?
with my friends, you wouldn't even know I'm a shy person but once I'm in a class without my friends I instantly become so shy
Maggie Same😖😖😖
my butt hurts
Same 😭 it’s nice to know that there’s other people though
Maggie omg same
That’s the same for me because last year I would get in trouble and would talk a lot but now all my friends aren’t in my class anymore so I barely talk anymore
I’m so shy I feel like everybody is judging me even when they’re not
Same I feel uncomfortable around some people
I wanna be a judge in the future
yea me too
Same
Same army💜
My problem:
1.Bad at making friends
2.Always quiet
3.Insecure always
4.Looks at yourself in the mirror too much
5.Always different from other ppl
5. It is ok to be different. You will develop your own identity.
Same
omg you're so different and quirky and unique!!! you're always different from other people wow!!!1!1!1!!
@@suryanshu_jha sometimes it's sadly true
I also looks at the mirror to myself too muchhh ...
We all shy people are very active and comfortable on internet but in real life we're exactly opposite.
Yes. I feel like the internet is like a safe spot to do whatever we want (minus telling personal information)
super true ;-; i hate this
y so accurate
Yes you are right
Yes you are right bro
I used to be talkative when I was a kid but so much happened to me I turned into a completely shy introvert. I can't even make an eye contact.
YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING IF YOU WANT BETER LIFE! ITS YOUR LIFE
@@finter6827 what do i gotta do? Please tell me
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@@susankoech I believe this youtuber can explain better name is "How To Beast" and
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@@susankoech thats one good video
i’m going through the comments and i finally feel like someone understands me
Same
Same
Same I'm here for you
Same😌
@@saoirsehegarty2764 hahaahaha,I was thinking the same thing!😂
It's so easy to say "accept yourself, don't be shy, be open with people, trust yourself!"
But they can't understand how hard it is for me :(
I can accept myself easily but that is difficult for me to talk with relatives friendly
If you don't accept yourself, don't expect someone will.
Nobody helped me with that so i started to help myself
True
@@callmeflower6901 which procedures are you doin to help ur self
To all the shy people out there
Let's be friends
Faith Darden yay
Hi
Ok
Hii
We should make a shy group
I'm not a shy person. The problem is that sometimes I don't know what to say I always run out of topics
Josue lopez ikr me too
Me tooo!!!! I would talk to everyone if I would know what! It's annoing!I'm not shy I just don't know what to talk about!
I got the same problem.
Yeah me too. But i am also shy and socially awkward.
I have the same problem. I just can't find a way to start a conversation with someone.
It's annoying how people say "do you talk"??? Or they ask your friends "does she talk??" And when you finally say a word they are all like "OMG, she can talk!!!"
Punch them
Duyfer fur you don’t just punch random people, and you’d get In trouble
People dont realize how hurtful those comments are.
Ik so annoying
@@bprvgtim9603 Ya that was my situation about 2 yrs ago thankfully not anymore but gurl it is really annoying
I can't even talk to my aunt or any side families without them talking to me first. Like back then I was really close to my cousins but then I grew up and now I can't even have a conversation with them.
I also have experienced this
Finally someone who feels like me. The awkwardness between our family members, trust me I know that feeling
Exactly like me I didn't even talk with them still now sometimes they asks "is she dumb?"but what to do I am so shy to talk with others😢
I had no idea anyone else felt this way! I jus hope my cousins and extended family know how much I love them even tho I feel shy around them cause I hardly ever c them anymore
Same, I also feel awkward around relatives especially when our families don't see and interact with each other as much, we rarely visit each other so it's so awkward sometimes, my dad has like 5, 6 or 7 siblings who are my aunts and uncles and they have all have children close to my age and older, my mom was an only child. When we go visit them my siblings and I are always hesitant and even don't want to go since we don't interact much with them especially me since I'm so shy and socially awkward, my mom gets hesitant too but she say we've gotta make an effort, I don't interact with my cousins much except with my two cousins who are women, both in their mid twenties, I'm 19, they are so nice to me and I enjoy talking to them, we are like the only few girls in our family tree, I'm the youngest girl, I have another cousin who lives in mexico, she is 30 and I barely know her, the rest of my cousins are guys and so are most of my dad's siblings, he has two sisters. When we visit them, I only shake hands and greet and ask how they are doing and they ask me the same but I feel so awkward inside and from there I go sit somewhere and just be on my phone, this is how is it at parties and social gatherings, there are so many people and they all interact sometimes my dad be interacting with so many people, my mom interacts with a few, my brothers sometimes interacting together with some of our boy cousins and then there is me who is just sitting there on my phone, it's so hard to start a convo even with my relatives 😭😭😂😂
IM SO SHY AND I THINK PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING AT ME 😧
Ugh! I feel you..
It's fine!!stay strong your amazing!!
Shout at them "WHAT ARE YOU STARING AT ME FOR?" or stare back
Youre the only one who thinks of that. That's what my friend told me.
Same here when I go out
I'm very shy to Asking question or answer to teacher even I know the answer I just don't want to say... It's hard to change 😕
I really didn't expect there are so many people felt the same feeling....
Guys I'm really happy to let u know this...Everyday, I am reading so many quotes and learn to do it in my life...
U guys always should need to think that different people need to be don't care about others...
Just live for u & for u only 🤗🤗🤗
Confident is the key of success 🗝️🎹 If u want success, come n join with me friends....We are confident squad 😘😘😘
I'm the same way
Same
What exactly came in to your mind that time ?
Same and there was a time that my teacher call me in front of my classmates and hold chin then forcing me to talk in front of them
It is 😔
Are you here because you are shy??
Once Stephan hawking said that quiet person has loudest mind.
Edit: If you are shy and quite, then you got some super power. Don't think about your superpower as how others think instead search how you are benefited by it.
You know, I m quite person and I don't tend to be shy- it comes automatically.(You don't really need to control it, but be prepare for next time, when you gonna visit others- they may point you out like why are you so quite?why are you shying? So be ready for those situation.)
Learn how to deal with them.
Let me tell you one more thing- quite and shy person do best in the society. So smile & go ahead in your journey, you are going right way!
Not all quiet people have loud minds.
True i don't talk but i think a lot in my mind.
Ive social anxiety
True
@@user-cq8pq8hq8e same as me I think alot!
I'm sensitive.
I'm shy.
I'm lonely.
I'm quite.
I feel insecure.
Weak.
Cries easily.
But...
✨💛but i still love myself💛✨
Edit:uthtcmbngvbvgdd jgjbjhgggjgjgufvhhfurefhv MAMA I'M FAMOUS 😭😭😭😭😱😱
You nice, keep going 😌
One word for u :
Army?
@@gt-8353 Let's start with Boy scouts first
Cool story. Sensitive is good and all but you need to have a pair at the same time.
Yeah I’m not buying it lol but do you
The problem is when I try to push myself to talk I end up making situation awkward. I dont even know how to talk like a normal person anymore.
Same here
Same
Ikr like sometimes i don’t even know what i am saying
Ugh I relate so much! like if I'm in a group and they ask my opinion, they look at me and wait for me to speak, I usually don't know what to say, I stutter and end up saying something awkward making it awkward cause they're just like what?😭
Same here 🥺 and it feels so fake , and I tell myself it's not me , why I'm doing this
All my life i was told that im shy and too quiet...that did nothing but fed my shyness
Me too omg
It just makes me feel like defined and labeled and people won’t allow me or accept me to be any other way.
It’s ruined my life too, in so many ways. Not having any friends at all for your entire life changes your life. Because of it I’m a stripper because I have no friends anyway, so who is even going to judge me for being a stripper?
Every time I try to go out and make friends I get bullied and targeted for being shy and awkward, in turn making me even more shy and awkward as well.
that was in the past and unfortunately affects the present now but the past cannot be changed, right, i have to move on, be confident so i won't fuck my future as well. Don't let your shyness destroy your life guys, don't look back, don't look around, look ahead and smile. Peace
Same
Everyone at my school just labels me as shy and quiet. It’s really depressing :\
The Hound I've overcome self doubt and other internal problems and have discovered self love. I encourage you all to believe in yourselves and fuck any and all negativity. If nobody else gives a damn know that I do and I believe in y'all. I just graduated high school I'm 18 and I don't know if I'm ready for this fucked up world yet. Smh 😔
I always feel like my life would be so much more exciting and meaningful if I didn’t have social anxiety
True.
Social anxiety is bad men
I think I'll be shy forever. When I'm talking to someone I do some very weird movements because I feel extremely discomfortable and nervous. I can't even pay attention to the conversation because I think the person that I'm talking to is thinking about how awkward I am all the time. It's an infinite loop and I can't get out of it or even control it. (Yeah, I need some serious help)
Hitlerzinho Kawaii I can relate sooooooooooooo much
Yeah
Me too some times
I'm jaelous with my classmates because they can actually talk infront of class with confidence and I'm just looking at them trying to imagine that's me
dear… creat your best version of yourself.. just creat how and who you want to be.. how you want to live.. and imitate it.. you’ll be what you want when you face your fear and stay away from your comfort zone
Same me 😭
People: why are you so quite? Are you shy type?
Me: why tf are you so noisy? Are you annoying type?
thats what im thinking to.
😂 haha
You are right 😂
Good one
Quiet* 😅
am very happy to know that there's many people like me. Sometimes I feel like am not normal
Same here
HAHAHAHA
I always feel as tho there's a wall between me and my friends/family.
I'm nothing like them.
I feel the same way
Same we feel you
Why don't they teach these stuff at school 😭
OMG thanks for the likes💓
Yes..
Because increase our confident is so hard
there is nothing wrong with being shy though
@@raninafisah23 no because learning that Mitochondria is the power house of a cell is more important than this!!😂
Ha trust
Exactly
I wish my whole classmates were shy and awkward just like me:')
They are
Same
I also 🙁😗
Same
Yes
I'm not quiet...I just afraid if I'm being ignored...😂
Exactly what i feel
"what if i say something and get ignored that would be soo awkward maybe i should just stay quite" i am way to shyyy
I’m really quiet when I talk so sometimes people don’t hear me and that just makes me feel like oof I don’t wanna talk.
Same tho 😗
Yaaa i think im too!!
Same here but i can't make eye contact with the person 😔🤦♀️, i think i'm kind of a shy girl 😌
Judgement is the top reason of shyness and lack of confidence. Sad but true.
Twice Tzuyu x Itzy Ryujin Ik I’m always scared that someone is gonna judge me for who I am so that’s why I keep to myself...
Twice Tzuyu x Itzy Ryujin
100% agree. This is the reason I changed and became shy... No matter what, someones always going to have something to say.
People talk bad about me when I didn't even do anything
Same,I don't say anything because I think I sound dumb.
So true 100%
when i realize how many people are like me i dont feel alone anymore, i just cant relate to all the annoying people out there
Me too
Yeah I feel like making friends with some peeps here
Ikr so many ppl out there are introverted, shy, quiet, ext, but the thing is..I CAN NEVER FIND THEM AT SCHOOL AND STUFFFF
Shy people seems to have two characters....i.e. comfortable in online but shy and timid in reality😁. It's me🤣
Same 2ll
What?! We're the same 😅😅🤣🤣
Exactly 🤕🤧
Same dude
count me in hahaha
I'm even feeling shy to comment on some video
True
kkkkkk
Same
You'll get over it just do it more often
@@mepmop616 i believe in you♡
I am feeling happy that there are the people like me shy.
Yeah...
I am also feeling happy
Kya hum iss baare mein ek dusre se baat kr skte hain....
✋ same amma
Nowadays I am learning to be myself and also learning to not care about others thoughts 😤😤😀
same so hard for me
👍👍me tooo
Same! It takes time but you know the saying, "the best things take time" 🙂
I already thought of this a year ago I didn't help
I hate being shy!! I'm crying knowing that I have to watch this video so people would stop saying i am shy!!
I'm in the same boat
I feel sorry for you
Sorry hun
Nita Bailey having social anxiety disorder is like being tortured, unfortunately it never goes away.
I ABSOLUTELY HATE IT!😭😭😭
'making eye contact '...thats really difficult for me. I can't even last one second looking at someone else 😭
me either but im working on looking at people straight in the eye when im talking to them.
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Try looking at the thing above the others eyes no idea what's it called in English ^^ it's "stirn" in German
Honey don't feel lonely many of us can relate I just don't understand why some of us are nervous like this I know it's natural but when I act awkward I feel embarassed.
purple herbiscus me too
1. Accept yourself
Well that'll be easy, I've only been trying to do that for a whole *year*
Accept the whole year🐷
Cat Crazy Caticorn riiiiiight🤧🤦🏽♀️😔
I've been trying to accept myself for 5 years now and still trying :/ so yeah lol same
i’ve been trying to do that for my whole life 😍
Ah I have finally found my kind of people who understand the struggles
I never thought I was shy but like every person in my class is like “your so quiet you never talk”
Sooo now I’m here😑😓
That's what I do. I don't care If any of my classmates find me in here, all they have to do is read how i feel
Sameee😭🤣
I've just accepted I don't like being around people
You lie to yourself ... Deep down you want have friends and a love life .. don't let's your anxiety fuck your future and make you a desperate person without life
Faith Greene perfectly fine as long you enjoy it
Fahrudin Catic thank you
Faith Greene I’m with you Faith
Me too
It feels good while reading the comments that there are so many people like me. I hardly find a shy person like me in the actual life.
I am always in the search of a person who is shy like me, does anyone else do that?
Btw never found anyone like me so far.
Shashwat Choudhary ; me too
@@iduiniemmanuel9422 I guess I am not alone then.
Ya
shashwat did you use to study in central school Dubai before?
stop findind yrr try to make youeself more confidentt u have no need to find other nake special as much special others try to find uu but not u
When I talk people I feel shy but when I chat I'm different 😂😂
mohammad al amin same
mohammad al amin *MEEEEEEEEE*
mohammad al amin that was me a year ago, believe me shyness get worse by the time
mohammad al amin same lol!
Same
Is anyone else confident but just an introvert or their mind goes blank when meeting someone new? Just me? Ok
I'm exactly the same.
I like meeting new people. ...hi
@Deuz Lobusta No one ever tries to talk to me in real life I feel like I'm living in a fucking ghost world, as for me I never know what to say to anyone so I never end up talking to anyone
@Deuz Lobusta Thanks for the response it helps, good luck to you
@@krispysback happens with me most of time
I am so shy I can talk to you in text about anything but in person i won’t talk to you lmao
Did i just find my sister in the chat i say so much in real life i cant even say hi
alfred aquino same here
Me too.
Me too
same
*When you're still shy after watching this...*
Same
Same ;-;
Me 1
Me too
😆😆😆
Everyone says i am to quiet and shy or i can't speak it's just make's me lose my confidense 😢
alpha wolf me too bro
patriarch wolf same😢
I've experienced the same. You just gotta be positive about yourself, don't listen to those people you can change that. All you need to do is practice, it really will get better, trust me! :3
You why we loose confidence? It is because we think looking confident is looking good and we can’t look bad. There is nothing wrong with looking bad. After all we’re still human being, don’t need to be perfect all the time. Embrace looking bad and free yourself from that mental trap.
@@roundlaker007 Yeah, it's ok to be shy. Just be yourself :)
Sometimes when l walk l feel like l'm on the red carpet when everyone stares at u
Exactly
I end up walking like a zombie.
@@idonthaveaname.7911 ,😂👍🤣
Exactly same I feel very shy to walk when people are around
Why is this so true??
I can talk to people if they strike up a conversation with me but I feel shy when others don't try to talk with me.
Same
Holy shit!!!! The exact same thing happens to me
Shmu10 me too
I cannot talk to someone I don't know unless they talk to me first.
Even then I really only give one/two word answers.
My family and two of my friends are the only people I'm completely open with and even with them I keep a lot closed off and hidden.
Mee too
Same here but I been just asking peoples name and some of them open up after awhile
I am very very shy..I have met millions of shy people but not one if them are as shy as me...😭...at school I'm known as the "quite shy girl"...I try not to be shy I try to talk but no words come out of my mouth...I often shake extremely during presentations...I can't control it....i dont say not one single word at school ..not one word comes out of my mouth..and the days I do, the whole class gets shocked coz they hardly ever hear my voice ..i jus wish someone was like me.
Edit:! I'm so glad that I found out I'm not the only one!..I feel more confident now and not so alone. Thank you all and Its great to know that there are still some beautiful hearts left in this world. ❤
Honey I understand you I'm also shy know that you're not alone in this there are many people like you and I.There are many famous singers and performers who have achieved a lot they didn't allow their shyness to hold them back.Personally I feel shyness can't be overcome shy people are naturally born this way.But I believe you can achieve a lot.
Priscilla Owusu Pankyee 😢thank you
hey dear.. i use to be the same when I was at school, i never use to talk to anyone but girl u know we shy people are very creative but feels shy to tell anyone about our talent...im sure u must be having lot of talent, just believe in yourself and don't think what others will think. just enjoy and do what ever you like n you will see that slowly ull overcome from ur shyness. not completely but yes ull feel good n confident. today I m not the same person as I use to be in school I've changed a lot. n i believe that you too can do that😊🌻
kratika lad thankx i feel much better knowing I'm not the only one..yes you are right I am very talented, and I'll try to believe in myself.❤ thank you for giving me hope that things will turn out better. 🏆👑🔥
m here
Whoever made this video, you don’t understand. To get rid of social anxiety and shyness isn’t something we can do on 1.2.3. It takes lots of lots of time
You right
100% Agree.
Yesssirrr sadly
Ya exactly
Yes, it would be easier for someone scared of heights to jump out of a plane than a shy person to speak to a crowd.
At school when the teachers call for me for attendance my anxiety goes 📈📈
But then at home I'm literally *the opposite*
being shy is different from social anxiety.
@@nalaerii2362 what’s the differences??
@@lara-vu4ie hi!! I'll use dictionary definitions to clarify this, so u know it's not just coming from me :)
to be a shy person: "nervous or timid in the company of other people."
social anxiety: "an overwhelming *phobia* of social situations like meeting or speaking to people."
social anxiety is a *disorder* that possibly stems from childhood or certain social experiences the person has been through, while shyness is more of a trait and can be more temporary + isn't necessarily a part of your personality but also isn't a disorder.
In general, the main symptoms that separate shyness from SAD are:
-The impairment of functioning that it causes in a person’s life
-The intensity of the fear
-The level of avoidance
according to an article about this,
"People with social anxiety disorder don’t just feel nervous before giving a speech. They may worry about the speech for weeks or months beforehand, lose sleep due to anxiety, and have intense symptoms of anxiety during the feared situation such as a racing heart, shortness of breath, sweating, or shaking.
The symptoms usually do not go away but get worse as the situation progresses. The person with SAD usually realizes that their fears are unfounded but is still unable to control them."
I hope this helped!
1:10,this is what my mother tells me "No one is looking at you,they are busy looking at themselves,don't feel shy".😂😂😂
Thats true
😅😅it's right
I'm too afraid of what people think of me. Hence, I try avoid conversation with them 🙄
I cant even look at someones eyes i tried but my eyes is looking away on its owner
+Qurrota A'yuni Mar'atut Tabrizah thats paranoia😌
*How UA-cam knew that I am shy and quite and recommended me this?*
Happened for me too bro
I dont got this video im not shy
There everywhere
If you know what i mean
Same😅
Haha same.
I’m so shy I hardly even talk in school
Same here
I am so low confident....i feel like a loser...
Me too #😥
i’m so glad i have people i can relate too
Same but when its lunch time and im with my friends im the loudest😂😂😂
After reading some of the comments It makes me feel happier to know that I'm not alone and can relate :)
I was so shy back then. But I decided to overcome my shyness by engaging myself in customer service kind of work. I deal with local and foreign clients and tend to adjust my self into different kinds of people with different kinds of attitude. Now I can see that I'm improving and saw that I developed my skills in approaching people.
When something scared you, don't try to walk away. You need to face your fear. You'll eventually see the best version of your self😃
Great saying 👍
One time our teacher was chatting with us, a group of 8 people, and suddenly told everyone not to talk except for me. All of them waited for me to talk but I didnt say anything. After a few seconds of silence, they continued their conversation. It was really uncomfortable.
Kari Cast this was me for a year but with the whole class instead of 8 people.
You guys are not alone
kari kari was your teacher trying to embarrass you, or hoping to spark your brain into action.
ikr and it would feel like a long time
Girl! i hate those teachers, do they even realise that it makes us more uncomfortable.
I feel less shy when I pretend to be an alien from space.
Dawn Captain lol
Haha
Dawn Captain think others as your long lost siblings 😋
Lol
Dawn Captain 😆😆😆Alien? ?
First of all when I go outside I feel people are staring at me .and the second things is that I don't know how to talk to others without any fear 🥺
I didn't know that Im shy until I watched this. Its just that Im talkative when Im with my friends. But if its just a classmate or stranger I tend to be quiet and shy. And these tips will surely gonna help me. Thank you!
Same here... its like if you start talking to strangers ..but I totally forget what to talk in the next moment...
Were same!
So similar
Asereth Enyaj same
Me too. I'm not really at all shy when my friends are around. But I become shy to school teachers I don't know y. With tuition teachers also I'm not shy
I don't like being with people for a long time they drain me..
same my parents thinks it werid not my fault I need alone time with cats and sleeping
Yea especially at a place with a lot of people. I like small groups or just being by myself lol. Gives me anxiety.
Same i thought im the only one like i even make excuses just to get out
hi. what does ( drain) mean
So youre an introvert
Ever heard the saying "Ignorance is the root and stem of every evil"? Well it applies here. Shyness isn't always a bad thing. Being quiet doesn't mean you have anxiety or something. It means you just perfer being quiet. It isn't something one 6 minute video can cure. Introverted people can't change who they are. They should embrace it. This video is probably very offensive to most shy people. By posting this you make them feel like they have to change. To those introverts reading this: you are amazing just the way you are. Don't change for anyone. You are beautiful on the inside and outside and you are very unique. Be proud of yourself.
yup tnx for it...
Agree with you all my life I been labeled the quiet one shy timid, just came to a realization it's who I'm we should embrace that quality we have
Introverts make the world balance from annoying people
Good point sister
Ashley Marie that’s the thing. Being shy is different from preferring to be quiet. Being quiet isn’t myself. I’m very goofy but I can’t overcome it. This video is just to help.
I don’t want to give up though. I want to embrace being me rather than quiet.
I am shy + afraid
I am active when I am alone but when I see people my character suddenly changes
I behave like seeing humans for the first time and that is so weird
Me too
Me too
Same. Here
That's me
Mee too 😭😭😭. Infront of other my body movement transform to more shy movements.
Is it Just me Or whenever i get a Compliment I became Shy as Hell.
Mystic Donutz yes sameee
Yeah it’s personality.
Yes i becomo tomato
Because of the fear of for example not giving a correct answer to a question the teacher asked. There is this weird feeling when u disappoint someone when they just complimented you.
its not just you
Shyness is a disease for me high school sucks for me because I am lonely because of my shyness. Some people asked me if I wanted to sit with them. I really wanted to say yes but my shyness prevented me from sitting with them. I always wish there was a shyness club where a group of shy people are gathered together and become friends.
I can understand u😯
i m also very shy
Me too. I've got that too.
Kinda similar to your situation but I don't consider myself shy (only around women) But I do suffer from social phobia , it prevented me from making new friends. As a result , I didn't have many friends in high school. I didn't have any friends at all in college. I'm 23 years old and I still don't have a girlfriend. But its okay because who says you need a woman to make you happy. I'll just get a pet to keep me company.
Can relate although I think I would've said yes if people wanted to sit with me
You know back when I was 7 years old, I always used to be an extroverted person. But ever since I grew older, I feel left out and became an introvert.
Same here
😓😓😓
Introverts don't equal shy tho
@@Lee-qy8zs same
IKR so unfair 😢😭
is it just me but i get sweats all over my body just because of the thought that everyone is looking at me and judging my whole being.
I see “ She’s so Dumb” look everyone’s face. It’s terrible, I’m some situations I feel everyone thinks I’m ugly and stupid.
I can give a presentation perfectly without feeling awkard
But I don't know why I can't talk with my relatives without felling insecure
My lot of relatives calls me dumb for this. next year I try to change myself And be socialize
It's really awkward when you try to speak and get frequently interupped by someone else whose normal speaking voice is louder than yours after waiting for a lull in the conversation to try to jump in
😂😂😂
Exactly!
Samee :(
It really is awkward....
I shy at school but teachers like me that why since I'm the good kid. Every teacher loves me cause I'm so good at being quiet.
Me too
Same
Exactly like me
Kailey Toro me too😀😁
Same ❣😆😂
I thought I was only one who is like this but their are many 😮
Hi
I know :o
Hi IAM Tamil
I m very shy that I am not talking with anyone that I m very emotional ... I don't make friends for the worry of I lose them🙄 ; I even not able to talk confidently..😣
Edit - I see all comments all are relatable...I m very happy that anyone is like me!!
Thnks for reading 😜❤
Once in my School.... In a Parents-Teacher Meeting....
When no one else was there, One of Teachers "seriouslly" asked my mother,"Is it True that your son is unable to speak?"
.
One day... our class was making a LOT of noise when there was no teacher in class. ... A teacher came in with a lot of anger. Ready to punish whole class, .... But as she entered, she saw me and just.... just thought that I was also making noise. (But that is totally untrue. ... I think I was just smiling on something) ....
She Forgave whole class just becauce of my rare smile.
... and some other these type of incidents also happened in my life Like When I try to say something, All of My Friends say something like... "Shut Up Guys!! Romil is saying something ! Listen!! ( as its very rare. )
😧
Congratulations, you saved the whole class! It's like you are a hero
this is something I can completely relate to
😂😂🤗
*claps hardly*
Same happens to me lol
Go to a bar and ask someone if there is another bar near by, it sounds stupid at first, but they may think you're from another town, act like you are, ask how is the crowd there, happy hour, music, dancing, whatever. Trust me you could strike a long conversation. You might make new friends. This always works for me.
Your weird bro
I accepted myself. Now I dont wanna change my shyness. I like to remain introverted. Few friends is good for me. I love the way I am.
Are you sure you have a friend💜
I always critisize and compare myself to people's standards, and it always made me anxious and depressed. This video was helpful, I feel like trying to socialize and meet new people.
I hate how people will be like " omg you can talk!" and then my confidence goes⬆↗➡↙⬇ and in class i never raise my hand because i will turn into a literal tomato and because i hate how everyone has to look at you and i hate that
Sameeeee I rarely raise my hand in class and my teachers are always like RaIsE YoUR hANd MoRE
Same and one time this boy force me to read something out loud
SAME I GO RED LIKE A TOMATO
I luv is when I raise my hand people just close their eyes And ears .😂 I am sure i always raise my hand
SAME.
I literally can't handle too many eyes on me when i speak, my mind goes blank and forget what i was going to say and i will talk very quietly almost whispering.
“Do you find yourself declining invitations?”
*where are the invitations?!*
Facts
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@@nerdysuzcategui3811 thanks
Gandu
@@omkartawde6739 that's you
When i was young like between 13 to 22 i was so shy! Now am 27 and i don't feel any shyness. Am feeling like m proud of my self.
For me it's the opposite I used to be not shy at all but now I can't even talk I don't even know why
Lol exactly I preached that to many people here , shyness will die as a. Person gets old
How to be you???😍 We are opposite before i use to be happy go lucky and happy person but now it slowly fades and now i cant even continue conversation to my colleagues😭How to be you po?!😱
World King Sameeeeee😂
I'm getting there too but it took me 35 years so far, lol.
I'm a shy and introverted person when I meet new people. But I do talk to them with a 'not so comfortable' feeling. And when I start to know them, I become the most talkative and extorverted person
I wish I had invitations to decline...
Justlaura i feel u
Same 😭
Hahaha ikr
Justtamara me too😭
hahah same here
Step one: accept yourself
Me: closes video
*I knew this was going to be impossible*
Edit: Heyyyyy its been 2 years since I've commented that and I just wanted to say that I am now confident in myself and less shy, no I didn't follow the video but things do get better
Nailed it
You can change this
@@musabadam3059 how-
haha.. same xd
fr
This video is really helpful, I was even to shy to comment. I remember a guy in my class saying "woah! 'it' speaks".
“Easiest way to overcome social anxiety is to say whatever is on your mind” - Axel Dobbins
"No. 1 accept yourself"
But what if I can't accept myself...
Edit: I just read the comments...what's up with y'all calling me a pedophile, rapist, killer, etc.??? Wtf I just said i can't accept myself that's it
You don't know nae pi ttam nunmul? You can if you believe in yourself and think by good way and don't listen to haters because we all not perfect we do have mistakes like anyone else so if you trust yourself you will be more happy with your life :) goodluck
then fucking try it, it‘s basically just your choice& you‘re the only one who can change it.
Whether you think you can or you think you cant, you're right!Its all about the mindset.Change your mindset and you change your life.Practice kindness towards yourself.You are what you tell to yourself.❤️
Accept the fact that you cant accept yourself
If u don't accept urself thn u can't accept others...if u can't accept others thn ur life will be full of unlimited problems. The more u accept urself, more u can accept other people and situation ....and the more u accept other, U WILL BE MORE HAPPY EVERY SINGLE DAY..
DONT TRY to see the things as you want,instead see and accept as thy are.
Im so shy and tommorow we have a experiment show individually in front of the class one by oneeee!! Im so scareddd!!!😭😭😭
How did it go??
I hate presentation
I hate being in front of class and im insecure about myself :
Ive read your comment girl, keep going!
Omg these things kill me!!!! I understand youuu😭
Ahahaha I remember when a teacher asked me, "why do u NEVER talk" n I felt so upset coz I didn't know why 😂😂
It was kinda hurtful
@@cazzabear I know right
Ya I was invited to a birthday party and I didn't really talk to anyone and when my parents told me I didn't talk to anyone and I'm ngl I cried myself to sleep cuz I was thinking people were caring for me a lot and I wasn't caring for them at all
So truee
It actually happened today 😣
I'm anxious talking and chatting with my new classmates. I don't know what to do until I saw this video. Thank you!
Nobody :
My teacher choosing a student to solve the questions : I need someone new.......hey, you ! The one writing in the last desk!
Me : *ah crap.*
Literally every quiet kid:
*Ah seep, here we go again*
I'm stating the truth pls don't come and @ me
Same man.... 😓😓😓
EVERYTIME I PUT MY HAND UP SOMEONE FUCKING SHOUTS OUT. LIKE BRUH GO AWAY
I use to be shy growing up but now I love interacting with people, makes me feel really great.
Being self conscience is terrible and a false way to live your unique life. There's only one of you in this universe, awesome.
I remember Dr Phil's father said to him that you wouldn't care so much about what people thought of you if you realized they didn't.
Regards from Brisbane Australia.
I wish that there are shy people in my school so that I can talk to them😅 But most of the students at my school are very brave and confident
Yes it's to bad that's the mask the world likes to see. When I see people react to how I behave and talk I've come to understand that they think I'm confident or something. That's only the mask I wear because else I fear people will think I'm boring or stupid.
Inside I don't know what to say or how to behave in front of another person. But lately I'm letting more and more go of the mask, and feel that vulnerable feeling that arises when I stay quiet when I'm with other people. I just don't know what to say and are really scared to do or say something wrong. It makes me feel a bit like I'm paralysed but I know now this feeling is what I've been avoiding for such a long time and it will help me understand how to really deal with this problem instead of putting on a mask like I have done before.
And so athletic
Not like me at all
I used to be a very talkative person and had a lots of friends. Then I moved to another country. Here I'm so shy even though I've found some good friends. I'm not fluent in their language. So, I talk less. Anyway this video helps me a lot. Thanks. Thanks for the people who've read this.
Stop being too much self conscious and stop judging yourself.
That's how to overcome shyness.
Lovers Pro tOtAlLy thaT eAsY.
If it was that easy no one would be shy
I'll be the judge of that🎂
Lol...
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That's why you need to put effort and practice. Practice makes perfection.
I'm over thirty and I still think it's stupid to come up and talk to people without an official reason. I don't even talk to my friends unless I really have stuff to tell them.
I get you people tell introverts to talk more to people but honestly the reason why I don't talk to a lot of people is because I don't have anything to say to them I don't know what to tell them in the first place.
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Yes and you might also hurt or offend them without knowing which is bad
And another problem is whenever you try to talk to them for a reason their attitude sucks.Hate cooperating with others
Same 😁😁 why to bother people unnecessarily
The key for me is start convos with people and put attention on them. Ask questions and find a topic that the person has with you. Just keep practicing. At times I feel like know one talks to me and I kind of lack that confidence especially talking to girls but people will open up if you talk to them first. Make eye contact and always answer with words. Smile and be positive. Talk loudly and clear which is my problem too. Have confidence. Join clubs organizations and go to events also. You can network with more ppl. But still yet there are times in convos where people are
talking about things and I can't offer anything in the convo or ppl stop talking to me after a while. As a introvert it's hard to break out of your shell and be out there. I like being by myself but sometimes it can get lonely. I think being who we are makes us unique too.
It is true. You have to overcome your shyness. People don't care what you do. They are always busy improving themselves.
How??
I'm very shy at boys i can't even make eye contact with boys.
I'm a very shy girl but in my school every body love me because I'm a very shy girl
Being shy can look good to woman
Expt me i hate u😂😂😂😂😂
Abu Bakarr Daramy really??
Keep a balance between shyness and being Frank.....don't make yourself even more shy as you'll get subject to being bullied....(personal experience)...be frank...and shy too...it's your decision where to be shy and where to be frank
Abu Bakarr Daramy same. I neveeer talk to any boy. Only to girls. If i’m talking to my girl friends and a boy comes over to us i’ll just stop talking
But making eye contact is difficult
Gaurav Tiwari it makes u more nervous.YUP!I agree with u
Now u know what i mean!
Absolutely
The most difficult part yerr!!
I'm also very shy to eye contact wid d people...
October 14, 2019 - Shy
now i will edit this soon if i really overcome my shyness
all the best !
Como foi?
Are you still shy???
@@rihanaadams5967 yh
I guess its not happening😆
I've been really shy for the last 3 years, I never tried to fix it but thanks for the video, I'm gonna try these, hopefully they work 😀
Eye contact is most difficult thing for me. Any way I'll try it. Thanks for the video dude
Shyness and social anxiety destroyed my life and turned my life into hell now no one loves me real lonely
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I feel ya
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Doppelganger 😢😢😢
I can relate.
I can't look people in the eyes. If I do my eyes get dry and then watery. Anyone else having this issue?
Lycidas just blink
Kaylen Scott I'm too shy to blink when I'm making an eye contact :3
Practice a combat sport for at least 1 year. I recommend boxing, kickboxing or self-defense. That'll do wonders if you're lacking confidence. It worked for me. Good luck and take it easy! :)
It happens to me as if I would start crying for no reason.
Oh my god! Same!!
I'm always shy every time I speak in front of the class especially when explaining, I feel like what I'm saying is wrong and sometimes I even murmur.
I'm afraid to go to college because I'm ashamed to talk to other people even on stage I'm ashamed. please, I CAN'T TAKE IT