I have never felt such heartbreak as when my ex DA discarded me after a two year relationship He was always so loving and caring. He turned into a cold hearted stranger. I never want to be with an avoidant again. I gave him love support and space always. He gave me a shattered heart as his going away gift.
@@michaelbland7689 i never felt such a heartbreak too. he was so loving and carin. always. and the day my father died, he wrote me a massage with the words: we should left when te realationship is beautiful. i love you. but is better for you. he never read my massages again.he just ignores me. and my stuff he didnt bring me, he gave it to a friend. till now i dont understand what happend. after this day we planed our first 2 month travel. he goes alone like he is happy. sometimes i wih i can talk to him or he miss me..but he dont respond anymore like i am nothing. he went so so cold. sometimes i wish he come back..i feel you when you say that you never felt such a heartbreak.
When an avoidant leaves it is a good thing. Even better if it is for the last time. But why wait? He may be coming back but he will leave again soon. When he is there he will make sure to keep a distance and to be in full control. Just leave. Dont let him back in. The one thing about avoidants that is SO hard to understand is why they try to be with others at all. If they hate so much to be with others in any kind of commited relationship why not just stay single and stay away from commitment? Why all those false hopes and lies? In many countries there are not laws against loose connections.
But the thing is you do matter . They are very damaged and you need to see this and have sympathy for them . Take.your eyes off feelings amd see it for what it is that they lack the ability to genuinely connect. They will not give the next person whatnyou believed they where going to give you . They are unable to
31 years and he left me.. we hsve two sons and he stonewalls and ghosts. It's been a six month nightmare. I will have to initiate a divorce now. I can't take it anymore.
I have never felt such heartbreak as when my ex DA discarded me after a two year relationship He was always so loving and caring. He turned into a cold hearted stranger. I never want to be with an avoidant again. I gave him love support and space always. He gave me a shattered heart as his going away gift.
i feel u with all
Yes. It is shocking. Had a similar experience and could not believe how cold he became-overnight.
Bless you
@@michaelbland7689 i never felt such a heartbreak too. he was so loving and carin. always. and the day my father died, he wrote me a massage with the words: we should left when te realationship is beautiful. i love you. but is better for you. he never read my massages again.he just ignores me. and my stuff he didnt bring me, he gave it to a friend. till now i dont understand what happend. after this day we planed our first 2 month travel. he goes alone like he is happy. sometimes i wih i can talk to him or he miss me..but he dont respond anymore like i am nothing. he went so so cold. sometimes i wish he come back..i feel you when you say that you never felt such a heartbreak.
I had similar I can’t recover it is 4 month now horrible
I will never forget how I felt when he hurt me! I will never forgive that feeling!!! 😢 I will never want that person back in my live again ever!
When an avoidant leaves it is a good thing. Even better if it is for the last time. But why wait? He may be coming back but he will leave again soon. When he is there he will make sure to keep a distance and to be in full control.
Just leave. Dont let him back in.
The one thing about avoidants that is SO hard to understand is why they try to be with others at all.
If they hate so much to be with others in any kind of commited relationship why not just stay single and stay away from commitment?
Why all those false hopes and lies? In many countries there are not laws against loose connections.
Me neither. Same thing happened to me. You’re not alone. Like you never mattered. 😢
But the thing is you do matter . They are very damaged and you need to see this and have sympathy for them . Take.your eyes off feelings amd see it for what it is that they lack the ability to genuinely connect. They will not give the next person whatnyou believed they where going to give you . They are unable to
31 years and he left me.. we hsve two sons and he stonewalls and ghosts. It's been a six month nightmare. I will have to initiate a divorce now. I can't take it anymore.
😢
Good video ..thank you
They destroy you ..some come back
i feel you