OMG the bride that had everyone wear a wedding dress that was diabolically petty I absolutely loved it. Not to mention how fun is it to wear your wedding dress again that's just awesome.
I'm lowkey considering this for my wedding if I ever have to plan one. I love that it gives people the option to use a dress they love one more time. I'm still not sure how to do it but I'm also nowhere close to getting married so I have time to think but I think at least having my best friend being my MoH and have her in her wedding dress would look stunning!
@GubbiGap that sounds fun but I have a feeling that a majority of people likely won't fit into their wedding attire if it's been more than a few months. Me and my SO would have no chance of fitting into our wedding day clothes.
Funfact, engagement rings (atleast in some western cultures) where actually meant to be sold if the wedding did not take place! Since in the oldie times, if a woman got abandoned before the wedding she would be "less desirable" it was meant to ensure her financial well being in case the man would not go through with his promise. So... technically she did what was intended, culturally, with the ring :D
Plus his great grandmother would have approved, you don't treat people that way, especially someone you are supposed to have loved and should have spent the rest of your life with.
@aysiababyyy3664 People can be an A hole to some people while still being nice to others. My husband's paternal grandmother wasn't particularly fond of his mom, but she liked me before we even started dating and shortly before she passed away she gave him her wedding ring and the matching necklace to give to ME specifically (like, she outright told my husband they were intended for me) when we were ready to get married. Honestly, we were surprised she still had the items despite being divorced from her husband considering they had been separated since my FIL was a teenager.
Yes, that was the whole point of the engagement ring (or whatever was given - not always a ring). It was meant as a pledge that the bride was now under the care of her husband-to-be, so if anything happened to him before the wedding (not just abandonment, a lot of men died in combat or by illness at young ages) , she had something she could sell to support herself until she found a new suitor.
I wore red to my own wedding. The priest commented that I was the first bride that wore red at a wedding he officiated. He then talked about how red is the color of fidelity in the sermon. Very nice.
@@flamefangstar In certain countries wearing other colors than white is the normal and even now we have people wear colored dresses that aren’t other off white colors(with a slight pink tone etc. ). So could be normal for the person to be in red for the first poster. 😅 If talking about the bride not the pastor.
To wuwen your wedding. 😂😂 Princess Bride. "Mawage. Mawage is what bwings us togethah today. Mawwiage, that bwessed awwangement, that dweam wifin a dweam!" 🤣🤣🤣
@@UselessShyteoh, I didn’t know you knew her personally! Hook me up with her contact info since you know so much about her, because there’s noooo way you’d say some shit like that off of only seeing someone’s life through videos. Right?! ESPECIALLY when said person is quite literally a comedian so when they’re single they’re most definitely going to make jokes about these terrible bridezillas finding husbands and they can’t and more of the sort. Either way I pity you, only a miserable person would see someone happy and feel the need to shit on their parade.
@@UselessShytewhy do you say that? She and Mike seem very much in love and suited to one another. Their videos together are some of my favorites of hers.
Agreed! Obviously I dont know either of them personally but can't help being so happy for them both, what an incredible couple! Sending love and best wishes for your special day Charlotte and Mike!
First story: If the heirloom was so dear to his family as he said it was, he would've gone out of his way to get it back from her ASAP. But he didn't. He just sat on his ass thinking he could call her bluff until it was too late. Now he has to face the consequences of his actions.
To be entirely fair, just because *he* didn't care about the ring, doesn't mean the rest of his family didn't. Maybe he started caring because a sibling or his mom asked for it back.
@@kou7191that's still not the jilted bride's problem. He cheated, then tried to stiff her with all the bills for the wedding HE destroyed. She warned him multiple times. He had every chance to get that ring back, but ultimately it was hers to sell if she wanted to.
@@lollypip5653 To be clear, I am NOT defending the ex, I'm just saying that that ring had value to other people too (the rest of his family). He 100% screwed it all up, but they dragged more people into what should've been a drama between only them. It'd be a different story if the rest of the family didn't care about the ring either.
41 years ago, my MOH, two bridesmaid and three little girl attendants wore white. I picked out their dresses. I clearly stood out as the bride and it was a beautiful ceremony.
Mom payed for sis’s wedding,all 800+ people. My wedding? So much B.S. between family we cancelled wedding and eloped having 10 people ,no family! Sweet, beautiful wedding and next month we celebrate 33 years together! Friends are our chosen family!
@ it was truly beautiful and a grand time was had by all. Biggest bar bill in the clubs history! I suggested a Prozac girl instead of a flower girl because of family dynamics. I was voted down. I took large doses!
I hope some people find this interesting. I am a South Indian, specifically from the northern region of Karnataka. We actually get to change saris in between the wedding ceremony. The bride comes in one gorgeous sari from her home. Then after a set of ceremonies the mother-in-law actually presents the bride with a sari and the bride has to change into the new sari. My sisters and one cousin were nominated as my aides and I rushed to the dressing room with my new sari and they helped me change . You have to understand that changing involves a matching blouse, underskirt and jewellery apart from the sari. Usually the mother, bride and mother-in-law go shopping together. The bride chooses the sari which the mother in law will gift during the ceremony.
@@Fran_Glass Tell me! the sarees are very heavy because they have shit ton of embroidery with gold thread or a contrasting border with gold thread etc.
@@Fran_Glass Not at all. They use real gold wire not thread.I misspoke the first time around. I wish I could post some pictures of how gorgeous saris can be. But if you are interested you can Google Kanchipuram silk saris or Banarsi silk sarees.
*neighbor calls* Please keep it low Charlotte: Ok, I will The sec she end thee call: POOP STAIN ON HER WEDDING DRESS!!!! (on the top of her lungs) I on theee floor laughing my ass off 😂😂😂😂😂❤
That heirloom story is among my top five favorites! “HERE ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS!” Textbook definition of FAFO. She warned him twice and he did owe her. In a situation like that, he cheats, he owes. He only wouldn’t owe if he weren’t the one who dropped the ball! Maybe she could’ve been nice and given his family the option of buying it back from her, but at the same time I understand not wanting to enable his shirking the consequences of his actions.
She should have spoken to his parents first. They are the ones who probably gave the ring to him. You are also supposed to return a ring if the wedding falls through in almost all the states. Selling the ring is a dick move if she didn’t speak to anyone else. They are both assholes.
Who says he created the debt? Did he sign the contracts? The bride was delusional to go into debt for a wedding. Bride overspent and will likely have to pony up the cost of the ring if it goes to court. Groom could sue for the insured value, which is much higher than the actual replacement cost and much much higher than the wholesale cost she would have gotten from an online vendor
Dont matter in a lawsuit. Heirloom are considered family property and she didn't marry into the family. If the guy had sued her, she would have lost GOOD AND EASY
I dunno, I believe he thought she was gonna be a walkover & a soft touch. She gave him more than enough plenty of notices & warnings, but he never listened, he left her in debt, she done the right thing, if it meant so much to him then he should have tried to buy it back. But he was just a typical spoiled boy, spoiled all his life, a brat that never grew up, got everything easy, & he learned the hard way, but did he learn his lesson??? How many other girls would he have given that ring to??? False promises me thinx!!!
I seen a vid where the bio dad stopped his daughter half way down the aisle to go grab the stepdad so all 3 could finish the walk. As long as my kids stepmother loves them and treats them like her own and doesn't tell them bad things about me and my husband I'm OK with everything. Even them calling her mom. They know the difference
Yes Queen, YES!!! I originally hated my son's step mom but we ended up the best of friends. My grandma helped me realize it's more people to love my son. Sadly we lost him October 2021 but she is still every bit my son's other mom.
Right? It's supposed to be about how he treated my child - which was good and he made a strong connection with her so he did good - make her day so much more special and not bring any b.s to her after I brought enough when she was growing up
I not only love your pink jacket, I think your shirt is stunning with it. The different necklines are so complimentary to each other. And btw, I noticed your outfit before you mentioned it because it’s so striking!
Years ago I wore red to my best friend's wedding because I was really, really broke and it was the only dress I had that was nice enough to go in. Otherwise I'd never have gone looking so...bright, lol. But I also didn't know this double meaning it apparently has? I dunno. I was just trying to look nice enough to attend a wedding thrown by very well off people when I sometimes had trouble affording bread.
Charlotte: I am 67 years old & randomly came across your channel. I absolutely love your work, your look & your personality. I get some great laughs from you & I definitely don’t laugh enough anymore, in general. Thanks & congrats on your wedding. I think you have more than enough info for your wedding, it’s gonna be perfect… ❤ 👰♂️
People are "allowed" to feel however they feel. THAT BEING SAID, no one is allowed to blame anyone for making and honest mistake. ALSO!!! OP in that situation was horrified at what ended up happening with her white dress AND offered to step down as MOH or leave completely! But the BRIDE INSISTED that OP stay and THEN turned around and said she ruined her wedding???? No way does that make any fucking sense. That bride honestly needed to direct her anger inwards where it belongs because SHE WAS THE ONE WHO FUCKED UP
Like most folx on here, I can’t get enough of dishing about wedding drama with Charlotte, especially the petty bridezilla/bridesmaids/mother-in-law freak outs. Too funny. However, regarding the “surprise wedding” manufactroversy, I can’t speak for brides because I was a groom at my wedding and so was my husband (which saved us a lot of money by the way ☺️). But if he had gone around after that beautiful experience saying it was “ruined” because of some color dress a guest wore, I would promptly get the marriage annulled. I would have come to the heartbreaking realization that he and I weren’t there for the same reasons. Any bride who would accuse a close friend of “ruining her wedding”-which was supposed to be about celebrating the commitment and love between her and her husband-for ANY reason (let alone something as ridiculous as the color of the dress she wore), has proven that although she is capable of planning and paying for a wedding, she hasn’t earned the privilege-and it is indeed a privilege-of marriage.
12:38 this is how REAL FRIENDS would act. I would die laughing if I was the bride in this scenario, and my bestie wore white to my SURPRISE WEDDING. The fact that it was a surprise wedding totally absolves OP, in my opinion.
I was going to say the same thing. I would've also apologized profusely for not clarifying what my SO and I were planning to do. We'd all have a good laugh about it and just enjoy the ceremony.
And it could be an awesome memory forever to laugh about.... Inviting someone to an event that's not what you tell her it is, then getting mad she didn't read your mind? Is like asking me to heat up the pasta,then getting mad that your pasta is warm😂😂😂🤦🤷🇨🇦
at 1:09:00 the guy that got cold feet and the bride continued with the wedding anyways. GIRL i gotta say. That man lost a great gift. A woman that confident and selfless is a complete jewel. I can only dream to love myself that much.
Gurrrrl!!! You are bringing the heat!!! I look forward to your videos every day💖🥰 I’m so grateful you upload a few times a week!!!🙌😻 I snuggle in the bed with my cat and my “420” and watch your videos before bed.😹
First story, NTA. If the family heirloom meant so much, he shouldn't have cheated, he should have been a man and stepped up to help pay back the expenses, and he should have taken her seriously when she told him what she would do.
Only thing is that in a lot of places, he could take her to court over this and win. Engagement rings are often considered a conditional gift and if you don't get married, for any reason, it has to go back. Also, if she can't prove that he'd agreed to cover the expenses, she'd still be legally on the hook for the wedding. In the end she could end up having to pay him back the value of the ring AND still pay back the loan. Petty might feel nice, but it can ruin you in the end. Much better not to take loans out for anything that isn't an essential; a big wedding isn't an essential.
@selinesbeau, and if he did sue her, she can bring the friends as witnesses. He said several times that he didn't care, and him not responding to the last text is proof right there. Nta, he can go kick rocks.
@@selinesbeau I'd assume the paperwork for the prenup would be registered with a lawyer, so that is an indication he had agreed, maybe she has witnesses who can testify that he verbally agreed to split the costs, but sadly I think he has no legal obligation to cover the costs, and she could be in the shit, I doubt she sold the ring for anywhere close to the valuation.
The best part of the weekends is kicking my socks off (I’m Norwegian and we don’t wear shoes indoors 😉) and watch Charlotte in my couch all day. It’s always making me smile and giggle, so my husband sometimes asks me what I’m watching. Now I just turn my phone to him, and he knows I’m just enjoying the tea 😂 Keep’em coming. Thank you ❤
Of course, that's what they wanted, because they're awful people who are too cowardly just to say they didn't want OP to be a bridesmaid even though OP didn't expect it in the first place.
The updates on reddit shown that the now wife is isolating op's brother and baby trapped him. The wife was pushing out everyone relating to the bro, not just OP. This was a long standing issue.
@@emmasmombradswifeRight now he's the one who's sorry for marrying her because he didn't listen 😩 cus it was a "ladies issue" to his ears, rather than the bullying it was
If I was the bride with the heirloom ring, I think I would contact the ex-groom's parents and explain the situation, giving them the opportunity to buy the ring from you if they want it. If you've given them the right of first refusal, sell to whomever you want. You absolutely don't owe it back for free, that would be ridiculous.
I wouldn't give a toss about this family who are apparently okay with their son ghosting OP and sticking her with the bill for the wedding. But OP probably would have got more money from them than from some website--which she more than deserves for the aggravation. Then they can go get the money from their baby boy. Or not.
@@floraposteschild4184 I'm not saying she should do something nice for them because she likes these people, but she can keep her hands clean and avoid a potential lawsuit or claims of theft. Maybe she can pay a small fee to a local jeweler to facilitate the sale, so that there's a paper trail and she gets the money before handing it over.
I agree, I’d have called maybe any siblings aunts and uncles too to see if they want to buy his right to the ring from him. 🤷🏻♀️ likely there was someone else in the family who wanted it but he was first in line to it etc
@@floraposteschild4184Maybe they weren't okay with it. They only heard his side of the story, after all. You're making assumptions on information that we don't know.
Too many people make too big a deal of the wedding! REMEMBER! A wedding is just a day. A marriage should be a lifetime! If more people would keep this in mind, maybe fewer would end in divorce.
Nah, she missed the chance to be ultra petty by the slide before that being the engagement announcement from her wedding. Hammering in the "If you can't take it, don't dish it out."
The "Carla" & "Rick" wedding story. I would've said I completely understand their feelings & they can have their wedding at the property & vacate for the whole weekend completely respecting their feelings. Then I would give them a full list of costs for doing as they requested :- 1- Cost of insurance to cover any damages, accidents, etc etc. 2- Cost of security to protect the property & to keep all guests safe. 3- Cost of ( spa / fancy ) hotel, with dinner & breakfast. As you are unable to stay at your own home & cook etc, as per their request to not be there. 4- Cost of clean up of entire property from the weekend. Then I would say this would be our pleasure to accommodate your request for their happy day. Passive aggressive petty, think smart not hard. 😂🎉
Giving the bill after the fact, they would not pay. There's no contract so even in civil court, you would have no case.... However, I would have handed them an inflated bill beforehand along with a contract. Might as well make money since they aren't friends.... And in the contract, my hubby would have to be the hired bartender at a flat rate of 300$ and tips are his! No way I'm leaving random strangers alone to sniff panties and snoop garbage cans 🤗
I love these compilations! And we get over an hour of Charlotte as a bonus to some great story choices. A best of the best kinda thing is how I see it. Anyway, keep em coming!
And seeing her so genuinely happy & in love is so sweet... She's really come into her own & it's so much deserved. Her & Mike make such a cute couple. She will be adorable when she's pregnant... The glow of gals in love or becoming a Mama is like no other energy in life ❤
@1:08:13 in the vid, He may have left her, but her victory was 2-fold. She not only continued with the reception and having making the best she could, but she decided to work on herself and lost a lot of weight and looked even more amazing... it was his loss all the way around and she was the one that got away! Very proud of her for what she was able to accomplish and keep her head up.
1:34:00: Last Story- When I was 17yrs old I was asked to sing at a dear friend of mines wedding. I was honored to be asked, and wanted to do so, but knew that I'd need to buy a fancy dress for the ceremony. When my friend found out why I was hesitant, she told me her family WANTED to purchase anything I needed for the wedding. So my friend and I went dress shopping and we found one that we BOTH liked. YES, it was white, BUT it had huge mint green polkadots all over it. Bride APPROVED😊 I didn't walk down any aisle, or anything, just stepped outta the corner and sang the song the bride picked. 98% of the invited guest KNEW who the bride was, and that SHE bought the dress that I was wearing, and that I would never try to "upstage" or do anything to take away from her beautiful wedding, such as wearing white .. My Bride friend had an amazing wedding, and the reception was lovely as well. 🙂
I wore a white dress with a BIG multicolour flower print. It was straight & airy.. nothing near bridal. The ceremony was held at a botanic garden in summer & the dress code was casual. It was my friends wedding & I asked her about the dress beforehand & she was OK with it. I spec told her to please tell me if she has ANY issue with it but she didn't. I worse a darker pink cardigan over the dress to tone down the white. The dress fit the wedding theme perfectly.. but I would never had wore it without asking the bride beforehand..
1st story: nta. He cheated and tried to put her in 20K dept, screw him. These are the consequences of his actions, if he didn’t want it to happen, he should have listened to her warnings
I would have been a little against OP's actions had she not warned him and he chose to call her bluff. Sure, this hurts his family as well, but he is responsible for the care of the ring and instead tried to play games with that care. With luck they can hunt it down but either way he has a lesson to learn if only he is willing to learn it.
The fact that he tried to put her in $20K in debt is diabolical. What the heck is wrong with him to not only cheat on her, but to be this determined to leave her destitute?
Aagreed she gave him a chance, he said he didnt care thats on him. He could have asked his family and they could have purchased the ring back from her if his fanily cared. Its her, he gave it to her therefore its no longer his.
The one where the bride's ex (hubby cousin) and the UNINVITED friend go together is because she was uninvited, not because they want to date each other hahahahaha is effing petty and i love it!! he's taking her as his plus one
I love these long ones. Makes it easy to do my dishes without having to stop and dry my hands to click on the next video. YOU SAVING ME FROM MY DEPRESSION GIRL! 🎉
When you said "do you have 150 close family members" I was like yes... I do.. I have like 85 cousins I can name off and I get 3-4 new ones every year.. and then you said "what are you Italian" and the answer is yes 🤣🤣🤣
I went to a wedding where the couple requested everyone wear white. One lady said "You don't wear white to a wedding" and she wound up standing out more in the photos with all of the other white-clad guests with her blue dress.
Literally, if it was importent to him, he would have reached, it was not, he did not and him breaking the engagement and causing those expenses entitled her to the ring as colateral to motivate the damage he caused, thats what an engagement ring is for!
Yep, this is how I feel also. If it was my families’ heirloom, I’d have been extremely mad at HIM for not fixing his own mistakes and losing an heirloom over it
@@SingingSealRianathis is actually an excellent point. I’m pretty sure it’s customary that a woman gets to keep the ring if the wedding is called off. 🤷🏻♀️
@@laurynholling2309 no it is not customary to keep the ring. The opposite is true. The ring is given for a promise of marriage. If it doesn’t happen it is returned.
Massachusetts recently determined the ring belongs to the giver of the ring; regardless of the reasons for the engagement breakup. I gave back my ex husband's 2 carrot flawless ring when our marriage ended; it had been his mother's and his dad found the diamond years before he met his wife. That said- it's understandable that she sold it; but she could have reached out to his family ahead of time and asked them to pay towards wedding expenses and she would return the ring to them
Was semi planning an engagement and wedding with my ex, for them to break up with me and become a not good person 4 days after our 8 year anniversary. Hearing these petty wedding stories have been healing 😂
I really enjoy your videos. I’ve been married twice but have never had a wedding. Justice of the peace in 1967 & a Notary Public in 1977. I never felt it was all that important and remember what my mother had told me. Put your effort into the marriage, not the ceremony and that was okay for me. My first marriage didn’t work after 9 years but my second husband was the best father, grandfather, & great grandfather. He loved me and I loved him. After 46 years, he died from cancer and when I look back at our years together, I have no regrets about not having a “wedding”. I have only been to one wedding and that was our youngest daughter’s. It was amazing and everyone said it was the best wedding they had ever been to. My daughter & her husband kept it simple but elegant. She didn’t make demands of dresses or anything like that. The food was perfect, the cake adorable and delicious. The DJ did a great job as well. Now 19 years later, they are still together & have 3 kids, great jobs, & a nice home. They didn’t spend more than they could afford which is the whole point. Why add financial stress on top of the normal pre wedding stress?
legally speaking an engagement ring only belongs to the woman if the marriage happens. In the case of divorce she can keep it and sell it, but if the marriage gets called off before it actually happens then the ring belongs to the man and he should be able to get it back with a lawyer.
I am loving these compilations, even if I’ve seen them before, it makes me feel like we are all contributing towards her wedding. 💒 👸 Our potato queen give us SO much…it is literally The Least we can do for Her. ❤🥔♥️💯
About the red dress - in Asian countries red is a colour of the wedding gown, there are beautiful red dresses so if the story with a cousin wearing red came across f.ex. traditional Chineese family that cousin would commit a double insult.
39:57 I LOVE THIS LOL how everyone is just encouraging the pettiness 😂😂😂 Like not knowing what will happen like… they shouldn’t date(idk) but encouraging the two to be petty together
Those on line people will appraise the ring but replace stones with fake ones while they are at it. I might have set a high price and offered the family the chance to buy it. Asking enough to cover absolutely everything of course 😂😂
This is 100% on the cheating fiance. If the family is mad, it should be at him. He had the funds to pay for the wedding costs he had promised to, he was warned multiple times, and given plenty of time to respond. This was NOT on the OP. Now he can use the funds to get the ring back. FAFO.
Omg story around 46 min chef's kiss i love that how she turn the news about the IL in wedding dresses into such a beautiful petty party!!!! And I love that the bride with the rich hubby, even though wasn't really into extravagant, fully supported her hubby in what he wanted and matched his excitement. I love that for you both ♥️
The insertion of "Nock nock.... who's there? shhhh!" At the perfect time 😂😂😂😂😂 Also I wish that someone reads this quotr at the exact same time it's being said in the video (because that happens to me so often lol).
My mom and step dad got married when I was 7, my bio dad was still in my life but it wasn’t consistent so my step dad pretty much raised me (he is who I refer to as my dad) but I still love my bio dad and do have a somewhat relationship with them so when I got married I of course had both of them walk me down the isle. My bio dad would have never tried to not let my step dad walk me down the aisle as he knew the magnitude he had on my life and how much he did for me when he wasn’t able to. So yes that dad was def the A**hole!
Heirloom ring guy is 100% to blame. She gave him multiple opportunities and he didn't think she'd follow through. He effed around and his entire family found out... 😂😂
31:31 LMFAO, NOOOOO that is literally the absolute MOST he could do! 🤣🤣🤣 The least RICK could do is just let OP go to the wedding but sit at a back table, or something… the audacity and entitlement of some human beings never ceases to shock me! 🤯🤣🤨
Bruh... the stern look on Charlottes face when she said "Thats a petty hill you need to die on" ... I wasn't expecting it and about spit my drink out. 100%!!!
I thank God for this prayer. The first week I started. I have no seem my oldest son since before covid he came for a visit. I've been praying for about five weeks now. God is still speaking and blessing me and my family😂
I as the mother of my children work 50+ hours per week, but you betcha that as soon as I get home those 2 hours each night with my kids they are whole focus and I make the most of them. You can for sure still be there for your kids and work that much
Exactly. He wasn’t there because he couldn’t be bothered to. Sounds like a massive a hole to me from the moment he said about calling him dad and not betraying him-to a 7 year old child 🤦🏼♀️
I watch A LOT of your videos (actually have been binge watching them for the last couple of weeks) and when this video started, I said to myself “WOW, love the jacket….excuse me blazer”. It looks amazing and so do you as always. Your blazer and nails match perfectly with your room too. Love you, your channel and all your hard work.
I just found your channel this morning, I love it!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Tell the Grinch Bride who doesn't like Disney that she can rent a "washroom trailer" for her guests on her dime. If you feel like being petty, you can tell the Grinch Bride that you have concerns about guests consuming alcohol entering your home and possibly damaging your collectibles. If there's any pushback simply say that the only way you'll allow the guests into your home is if the wedding is dry...No alcohol on your property, no exceptions. 😂
Omg I get so angry when I think about how NO ONE told me not to wear anything that could resemble white at the VERY FIRST wedding I’ve ever attended.. there were like three other people who could’ve said something to me but no. The only thing that gives me a sense of comfort is the fact that the bridesmaids and groomsmen wore navy blue and cream (cream white was the color I wore alone) with no hint of any blue.. honestly doesn’t give me enough comfort needed when I think about how embarrassing that is.. ugh!
Giiiiiirrrrrrllll! I had literally no idea or concept that there was a whole lists of do’s and dont’s for attending a wedding… gawd just ew you know? Like, that’s so mean to just let someone stroll into a wedding like that.. all I knew was that I needed to wear something nice.. 🙄 and then I was like confused by the looks I was getting.. I wasn’t even a bridesmaid just a random acquaintance.. literally so sad. Did anyone say anything to you?
Ya, like anyone who knew what you were planning to wear could have told you lol .. even the dress shop .. maybe they need to post the do's & don'ts of wedding rules
Everyone should know that. Did you know the bride will wear white? Do you think it's okay to wear the same color? This is a thing that a CHILD knows. Are you people homeschooled or what?
Right? LITERALLY the first wedding I had ever attended. Unfortunately, I didn’t grow up thinking about my wedding and what the dos and don’ts for weddings were.. it was never a dream I had ever considered.. not necessarily sheltered as much as it was that it was never an option I had thought of.. does that make any sense? I never liked wearing dresses, was never considered a “girly girl” and I would always hang out with boys (as annoying as that is) I didn’t have a Pinterest board about my wedding dream.. hell, I didn’t even know Pinterest existed lol and I was 18! (Nearly a decade ago) (thus the reason that when I was invited to the wedding, I had actually asked someone what I should wear and all they told me was “a nice dress” so, I saw a nice dress and bought it. The first dress ID EVER BOUGHT IN MY ENTIRE LIFE MIND YOU!) I know that’s hard to believe but sadly, it’s true. It’s also not like I realized that RIGHT at the wedding in those moments lol I wasn’t like “OMG! What?! All the knowledge I ever lacked about weddings has been just now downloaded into my mind literally like right now in this moment, UNBELIEVABLE! How could they?” No… actually, I didn’t find that out until years later when coming across channels like this on UA-cam… or when I finally realized what Pinterest was.. lol
So growing up in a small town, my sister tried to have a normal wedding but it was somewhat open. Somewhwere between 500 to 600 people showed up. When i got married a few years later i insisted on am immediate family only ceremony with a wide open reception a couple of weeks later. Then number of offended people was insane but i didnt want to be overstimulated to the max on my wedding day.
You are so funny in this post 😂 wish I could go back and be petty, always too worried what people , thought - now I’m 70 ..and forgetting to be petty 🤪🤪🇨🇦
🎉 Hey, Charlotte! I just wanted to thank you for everything you're still doing. Even though you're planning a wedding, and as you become more busy (because you are a boss b) , you still upload videos for us to escape into, and I appreciate that so much. No matter what I'm going through or have been through, I can count on a smile from you, Charlotte. Thank you so much! 😊 ( p.s. I hope your wedding planning is drama Lama free.)
Funny thing: when husband and I wed (May, 40 yrs ago) the color of the BM/MOH dresses were candy-apple red. I like the hue because so many other colors I liked could play off it (pink, magenta, navy/royal blue, etc.) I know candy-apple red is nor "normally" a color of a Spring Wedding, but hey, the wedding party looked FABULOUS; and, to quote Queen Charlotte, "It was MY day, damn it!" 😉😁🤣🤣🤣 In fact my Matron of Honor had JUST had her first baby right before the wedding, and he looked NOTHING like my husband! Ha haha, LOL! too funny!
OMG the bride that had everyone wear a wedding dress that was diabolically petty I absolutely loved it. Not to mention how fun is it to wear your wedding dress again that's just awesome.
Right? It all worked out❤😊
I'm lowkey considering this for my wedding if I ever have to plan one. I love that it gives people the option to use a dress they love one more time. I'm still not sure how to do it but I'm also nowhere close to getting married so I have time to think but I think at least having my best friend being my MoH and have her in her wedding dress would look stunning!
I also think this sounds really fun! A sea of white flowers - I bet it would look beautiful for photos too!
I used to wear my wedding dress for Halloween!
@GubbiGap that sounds fun but I have a feeling that a majority of people likely won't fit into their wedding attire if it's been more than a few months. Me and my SO would have no chance of fitting into our wedding day clothes.
Funfact, engagement rings (atleast in some western cultures) where actually meant to be sold if the wedding did not take place! Since in the oldie times, if a woman got abandoned before the wedding she would be "less desirable" it was meant to ensure her financial well being in case the man would not go through with his promise. So... technically she did what was intended, culturally, with the ring :D
Plus his great grandmother would have approved, you don't treat people that way, especially someone you are supposed to have loved and should have spent the rest of your life with.
@@lisajasinski2339unless his great grandmother was the A hole 😅
@aysiababyyy3664 People can be an A hole to some people while still being nice to others. My husband's paternal grandmother wasn't particularly fond of his mom, but she liked me before we even started dating and shortly before she passed away she gave him her wedding ring and the matching necklace to give to ME specifically (like, she outright told my husband they were intended for me) when we were ready to get married. Honestly, we were surprised she still had the items despite being divorced from her husband considering they had been separated since my FIL was a teenager.
Yes, that was the whole point of the engagement ring (or whatever was given - not always a ring). It was meant as a pledge that the bride was now under the care of her husband-to-be, so if anything happened to him before the wedding (not just abandonment, a lot of men died in combat or by illness at young ages) , she had something she could sell to support herself until she found a new suitor.
In most places, engagement rings are the exception to the gift laws, if no wedding occures. So she would have been legally in the wrong.
I wore red to my own wedding. The priest commented that I was the first bride that wore red at a wedding he officiated. He then talked about how red is the color of fidelity in the sermon. Very nice.
I would've roasted or demanded payment back, like damn
@@flamefangstar fidelity =/= infidelity (then again i haven't finished the compilation so roast me if i misunderstood here lol)
@@flamefangstar In certain countries wearing other colors than white is the normal and even now we have people wear colored dresses that aren’t other off white colors(with a slight pink tone etc. ). So could be normal for the person to be in red for the first poster. 😅 If talking about the bride not the pastor.
That is amazing. And now I have beautiful mental images of red bridal gowns.
@@motorcyclegirllunaleon I wore black to my wedding and our two daughters wore red as bridesmaids.
To wuwen your wedding. 😂😂 Princess Bride.
"Mawage. Mawage is what bwings us togethah today. Mawwiage, that bwessed awwangement, that dweam wifin a dweam!"
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
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I went to a wedding where the couple had the pastor actually use that speech (without the lisp though)
The pagan wedding is one of the best stories ive heard. I love the priest being a MC. The op has pure gold/boss moves.
An atheist had a pagan wedding? She may as well have had a Catholic one.
@realretta all catholic traditions were stolen/adapted from pagan ones.
It’s cute to listen to Charlotte’s past comments about never having had a wedding now that we know that she’s about to have a wedding.
I know, I love it! Especially when we know she's found her absolute lobster.
Lol, let haters be haters I suppose
@@UselessShyteoh, I didn’t know you knew her personally! Hook me up with her contact info since you know so much about her, because there’s noooo way you’d say some shit like that off of only seeing someone’s life through videos. Right?! ESPECIALLY when said person is quite literally a comedian so when they’re single they’re most definitely going to make jokes about these terrible bridezillas finding husbands and they can’t and more of the sort. Either way I pity you, only a miserable person would see someone happy and feel the need to shit on their parade.
@@UselessShytewhy do you say that? She and Mike seem very much in love and suited to one another. Their videos together are some of my favorites of hers.
@@UselessShytewhat makes you say that?
can we all appreciate how Mike tries to be so fast and inconspicuous about going past the door? His crouch is hillarious
Agreed! Obviously I dont know either of them personally but can't help being so happy for them both, what an incredible couple! Sending love and best wishes for your special day Charlotte and Mike!
First story:
If the heirloom was so dear to his family as he said it was, he would've gone out of his way to get it back from her ASAP. But he didn't. He just sat on his ass thinking he could call her bluff until it was too late. Now he has to face the consequences of his actions.
To be entirely fair, just because *he* didn't care about the ring, doesn't mean the rest of his family didn't. Maybe he started caring because a sibling or his mom asked for it back.
How is he not EMBARRASSED 😂😂😂
@@kou7191that's still not the jilted bride's problem. He cheated, then tried to stiff her with all the bills for the wedding HE destroyed. She warned him multiple times. He had every chance to get that ring back, but ultimately it was hers to sell if she wanted to.
@@lollypip5653 To be clear, I am NOT defending the ex, I'm just saying that that ring had value to other people too (the rest of his family). He 100% screwed it all up, but they dragged more people into what should've been a drama between only them. It'd be a different story if the rest of the family didn't care about the ring either.
@@lollypip5653If the family had any honor, they'd deal with cheating son's debt to the ex bride.
41 years ago, my MOH, two bridesmaid and three little girl attendants wore white. I picked out their dresses. I clearly stood out as the bride and it was a beautiful ceremony.
😂 😂 I forgot about the chocolate fountain story and the neighbour pettiness during it. So it was great being able to laugh about it all over again.
Mom payed for sis’s wedding,all 800+ people. My wedding? So much B.S. between family we cancelled wedding and eloped having 10 people ,no family! Sweet, beautiful wedding and next month we celebrate 33 years together! Friends are our chosen family!
33 years god bless ya
@@gwillypdawg Thank you, we’re still in love! And to think one side said, including the reverend, it wouldn’t last a year!
Oml 33???
Eight hundred?? What a nightmare
@ it was truly beautiful and a grand time was had by all. Biggest bar bill in the clubs history! I suggested a Prozac girl instead of a flower girl because of family dynamics. I was voted down. I took large doses!
have i binge watched all the individual videos already? yes.
will i still watch all the compilations? absolutely.
I didn’t even realize this was a compilation 😂
Same here. Love the compilations
Hahaha same!!!
I have to try and remember not to watch Charlotte with headphones on.
Same 😅
I hope some people find this interesting. I am a South Indian, specifically from the northern region of Karnataka. We actually get to change saris in between the wedding ceremony. The bride comes in one gorgeous sari from her home. Then after a set of ceremonies the mother-in-law actually presents the bride with a sari and the bride has to change into the new sari. My sisters and one cousin were nominated as my aides and I rushed to the dressing room with my new sari and they helped me change . You have to understand that changing involves a matching blouse, underskirt and jewellery apart from the sari. Usually the mother, bride and mother-in-law go shopping together. The bride chooses the sari which the mother in law will gift during the ceremony.
PS. I changed saree 3 times during the ceremony.
@@akankshapatwari4167that sounds beautiful, but exhausting. Lol
@@Fran_Glass Tell me! the sarees are very heavy because they have shit ton of embroidery with gold thread or a contrasting border with gold thread etc.
@@akankshapatwari4167 does all of that embroidery make them itchy? That was my immediate thought. Lol
@@Fran_Glass Not at all. They use real gold wire not thread.I misspoke the first time around. I wish I could post some pictures of how gorgeous saris can be. But if you are interested you can Google Kanchipuram silk saris or Banarsi silk sarees.
I am super impressed with the dress shop that called the bride❤ awesome customer service
*neighbor calls*
Please keep it low
Charlotte: Ok, I will
The sec she end thee call:
POOP STAIN ON HER WEDDING DRESS!!!! (on the top of her lungs)
I on theee floor laughing my ass off 😂😂😂😂😂❤
That heirloom story is among my top five favorites! “HERE ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS!” Textbook definition of FAFO. She warned him twice and he did owe her. In a situation like that, he cheats, he owes. He only wouldn’t owe if he weren’t the one who dropped the ball!
Maybe she could’ve been nice and given his family the option of buying it back from her, but at the same time I understand not wanting to enable his shirking the consequences of his actions.
And she absolutely would not have kept it if he was willing to help pay the debt he helped create
She should have spoken to his parents first. They are the ones who probably gave the ring to him. You are also supposed to return a ring if the wedding falls through in almost all the states. Selling the ring is a dick move if she didn’t speak to anyone else. They are both assholes.
Who says he created the debt? Did he sign the contracts? The bride was delusional to go into debt for a wedding. Bride overspent and will likely have to pony up the cost of the ring if it goes to court. Groom could sue for the insured value, which is much higher than the actual replacement cost and much much higher than the wholesale cost she would have gotten from an online vendor
@@Threecrazydogs63 it’s not her fault she warned ex she was gonna sell it he chose not to act so it was all in her ball park
his ball park*
He didnt care about said heirloom until she sold it... If it actually mattered he wouldn't have let her have it that long after the break up
Dont matter in a lawsuit. Heirloom are considered family property and she didn't marry into the family. If the guy had sued her, she would have lost GOOD AND EASY
@@ianesgrecia8568 absolutely
I dunno, I believe he thought she was gonna be a walkover & a soft touch. She gave him more than enough plenty of notices & warnings, but he never listened, he left her in debt, she done the right thing, if it meant so much to him then he should have tried to buy it back. But he was just a typical spoiled boy, spoiled all his life, a brat that never grew up, got everything easy, & he learned the hard way, but did he learn his lesson??? How many other girls would he have given that ring to??? False promises me thinx!!!
Love the blazer!!!
Exactly.
I seen a vid where the bio dad stopped his daughter half way down the aisle to go grab the stepdad so all 3 could finish the walk. As long as my kids stepmother loves them and treats them like her own and doesn't tell them bad things about me and my husband I'm OK with everything. Even them calling her mom. They know the difference
I solved the problem easily. My stepdad walked me down the aisle and my bio dad got the father-daughter dance. They both were totally fine with that.
Yes Queen, YES!!!
I originally hated my son's step mom but we ended up the best of friends. My grandma helped me realize it's more people to love my son.
Sadly we lost him October 2021 but she is still every bit my son's other mom.
Right? It's supposed to be about how he treated my child - which was good and he made a strong connection with her so he did good - make her day so much more special and not bring any b.s to her after I brought enough when she was growing up
I not only love your pink jacket, I think your shirt is stunning with it. The different necklines are so complimentary to each other. And btw, I noticed your outfit before you mentioned it because it’s so striking!
Rolling around laughing at MIL’s wig afire. Best story ever…picture perfect.
I wore red to my son’s wedding, it was requested. The brides side wore lavender and the groom side wore red. It was lovely.
Years ago I wore red to my best friend's wedding because I was really, really broke and it was the only dress I had that was nice enough to go in. Otherwise I'd never have gone looking so...bright, lol. But I also didn't know this double meaning it apparently has? I dunno. I was just trying to look nice enough to attend a wedding thrown by very well off people when I sometimes had trouble affording bread.
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You made the same choices I would have in that situation. I’ve never heard of that double meaning of wearing red at a wedding either.
Like flowers 💐🌼
Wow I remember the time you were single, had an annoying neighbor and I remember the naked guy in the apartment opposite of your window 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Ah the naked guy. Memories.
Charlotte: I am 67 years old & randomly came across your channel. I absolutely love your work, your look & your personality. I get some great laughs from you & I definitely don’t laugh enough anymore, in general. Thanks & congrats on your wedding. I think you have more than enough info for your wedding, it’s gonna be perfect… ❤ 👰♂️
40:52 this is my all time favourite story on your channel. Sometimes i go back on your channel to watch the original video😂
1:02:32 girl the glow up you've had. No more noise complaints, you're engaged, and even more successful. I love this for you, babe 🖤
People are "allowed" to feel however they feel.
THAT BEING SAID, no one is allowed to blame anyone for making and honest mistake.
ALSO!!! OP in that situation was horrified at what ended up happening with her white dress AND offered to step down as MOH or leave completely!
But the BRIDE INSISTED that OP stay and THEN turned around and said she ruined her wedding????
No way does that make any fucking sense. That bride honestly needed to direct her anger inwards where it belongs because SHE WAS THE ONE WHO FUCKED UP
Like most folx on here, I can’t get enough of dishing about wedding drama with Charlotte, especially the petty bridezilla/bridesmaids/mother-in-law freak outs. Too funny.
However, regarding the “surprise wedding” manufactroversy, I can’t speak for brides because I was a groom at my wedding and so was my husband (which saved us a lot of money by the way ☺️). But if he had gone around after that beautiful experience saying it was “ruined” because of some color dress a guest wore, I would promptly get the marriage annulled. I would have come to the heartbreaking realization that he and I weren’t there for the same reasons.
Any bride who would accuse a close friend of “ruining her wedding”-which was supposed to be about celebrating the commitment and love between her and her husband-for ANY reason (let alone something as ridiculous as the color of the dress she wore), has proven that although she is capable of planning and paying for a wedding, she hasn’t earned the privilege-and it is indeed a privilege-of marriage.
12:38 this is how REAL FRIENDS would act. I would die laughing if I was the bride in this scenario, and my bestie wore white to my SURPRISE WEDDING.
The fact that it was a surprise wedding totally absolves OP, in my opinion.
I was going to say the same thing. I would've also apologized profusely for not clarifying what my SO and I were planning to do. We'd all have a good laugh about it and just enjoy the ceremony.
100% my bestie and I would make jokes that she or I wore white because we were actually marrying each other lol
And it could be an awesome memory forever to laugh about.... Inviting someone to an event that's not what you tell her it is, then getting mad she didn't read your mind? Is like asking me to heat up the pasta,then getting mad that your pasta is warm😂😂😂🤦🤷🇨🇦
To the Goth Lady who made it a wedding themed wedding...GOOD ONE!
@@roxxyredandsweetiemow4028 I loved that story too! And her unexpected new friendship with the priest was icing on the black lace cake!
I still hope the mom and those sips got wine spilled on the dresses
Do you know the timestamp
After 40 mins
at 1:09:00 the guy that got cold feet and the bride continued with the wedding anyways. GIRL i gotta say. That man lost a great gift. A woman that confident and selfless is a complete jewel. I can only dream to love myself that much.
Gurrrrl!!! You are bringing the heat!!! I look forward to your videos every day💖🥰 I’m so grateful you upload a few times a week!!!🙌😻 I snuggle in the bed with my cat and my “420” and watch your videos before bed.😹
I do appreciate that one bride didnt take her trauma out on the poor priest when he didnt create said trauma
First story, NTA. If the family heirloom meant so much, he shouldn't have cheated, he should have been a man and stepped up to help pay back the expenses, and he should have taken her seriously when she told him what she would do.
Only thing is that in a lot of places, he could take her to court over this and win. Engagement rings are often considered a conditional gift and if you don't get married, for any reason, it has to go back. Also, if she can't prove that he'd agreed to cover the expenses, she'd still be legally on the hook for the wedding. In the end she could end up having to pay him back the value of the ring AND still pay back the loan. Petty might feel nice, but it can ruin you in the end. Much better not to take loans out for anything that isn't an essential; a big wedding isn't an essential.
@selinesbeau, and if he did sue her, she can bring the friends as witnesses. He said several times that he didn't care, and him not responding to the last text is proof right there. Nta, he can go kick rocks.
@selinesbeau the judge would be in her favor, it's consudered a gift
And she tried many times to arrange for him to come pick it up and he didn’t than he cries to his mama after it s sold. His fault all around.
@@selinesbeau I'd assume the paperwork for the prenup would be registered with a lawyer, so that is an indication he had agreed, maybe she has witnesses who can testify that he verbally agreed to split the costs, but sadly I think he has no legal obligation to cover the costs, and she could be in the shit, I doubt she sold the ring for anywhere close to the valuation.
a Charlotte compilation while having period cramps is everything i needed right now... Thanks Charlotte!!
IM GETTING MINE TOO DOES THIS MEAN YOU ARE MY ALPHA
😭😭😭 started mine this morning! I am dying and having to be at work til 330pm! Everyone feel better with some chocolate and a good cry 😂
Same. Synced Sisters 🙌
@@CharlotteDobre LMAO XD
@@CharlotteDobre Oh Gods no! The Queen has been infected by the Omegaverse 😂😂
The last story had me hollering 😂😂😂🎉🎉❤❤I’m glad somebody protected the bride to make sure her dress didn’t catch on fire
The best part of the weekends is kicking my socks off (I’m Norwegian and we don’t wear shoes indoors 😉) and watch Charlotte in my couch all day. It’s always making me smile and giggle, so my husband sometimes asks me what I’m watching. Now I just turn my phone to him, and he knows I’m just enjoying the tea 😂
Keep’em coming. Thank you ❤
After the 3rd "what color" i would have stopped communicating
Of course, that's what they wanted, because they're awful people who are too cowardly just to say they didn't want OP to be a bridesmaid even though OP didn't expect it in the first place.
The updates on reddit shown that the now wife is isolating op's brother and baby trapped him. The wife was pushing out everyone relating to the bro, not just OP. This was a long standing issue.
@@siennaforrester2166 that is so sad. She will be sorry....in the end. And there WILL BE AN END. 😢
@@emmasmombradswifeRight now he's the one who's sorry for marrying her because he didn't listen 😩 cus it was a "ladies issue" to his ears, rather than the bullying it was
After the first what color I would have been said nope!
If I was the bride with the heirloom ring, I think I would contact the ex-groom's parents and explain the situation, giving them the opportunity to buy the ring from you if they want it. If you've given them the right of first refusal, sell to whomever you want. You absolutely don't owe it back for free, that would be ridiculous.
Contacting the grooms parents is a good idea I hadn’t thought of… hmmm…
I wouldn't give a toss about this family who are apparently okay with their son ghosting OP and sticking her with the bill for the wedding. But OP probably would have got more money from them than from some website--which she more than deserves for the aggravation.
Then they can go get the money from their baby boy. Or not.
@@floraposteschild4184 I'm not saying she should do something nice for them because she likes these people, but she can keep her hands clean and avoid a potential lawsuit or claims of theft. Maybe she can pay a small fee to a local jeweler to facilitate the sale, so that there's a paper trail and she gets the money before handing it over.
I agree, I’d have called maybe any siblings aunts and uncles too to see if they want to buy his right to the ring from him. 🤷🏻♀️ likely there was someone else in the family who wanted it but he was first in line to it etc
@@floraposteschild4184Maybe they weren't okay with it. They only heard his side of the story, after all. You're making assumptions on information that we don't know.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
I need the Petty like I need air.
good morning!
Good morning!
Same, bestie.
Same😂😂😂😂😂
Hey bestie ❤️🥔
Too many people make too big a deal of the wedding! REMEMBER! A wedding is just a day. A marriage should be a lifetime! If more people would keep this in mind, maybe fewer would end in divorce.
The phone calls with the Charlie Brown adult voice 😂
I love that the bridesmaid with the ultrasound played the long game with her petty revenge and it was so brilliant! 😂❤❤❤
Nah, she missed the chance to be ultra petty by the slide before that being the engagement announcement from her wedding. Hammering in the "If you can't take it, don't dish it out."
The "Carla" & "Rick" wedding story. I would've said I completely understand their feelings & they can have their wedding at the property & vacate for the whole weekend completely respecting their feelings. Then I would give them a full list of costs for doing as they requested :-
1- Cost of insurance to cover any damages, accidents, etc etc.
2- Cost of security to protect the property & to keep all guests safe.
3- Cost of ( spa / fancy ) hotel, with dinner & breakfast. As you are unable to stay at your own home & cook etc, as per their request to not be there.
4- Cost of clean up of entire property from the weekend.
Then I would say this would be our pleasure to accommodate your request for their happy day. Passive aggressive petty, think smart not hard. 😂🎉
I wondered if he defrocked her and that is why Rick thinks he owes him. Dumb either way.
Giving the bill after the fact, they would not pay. There's no contract so even in civil court, you would have no case.... However, I would have handed them an inflated bill beforehand along with a contract. Might as well make money since they aren't friends.... And in the contract, my hubby would have to be the hired bartender at a flat rate of 300$ and tips are his! No way I'm leaving random strangers alone to sniff panties and snoop garbage cans 🤗
Ahahahhahaha SAVAGE :D
Love the biker goth bride story that was a cool wedding would love to see her dress
Always a favorite lol
“Diamonds are a guuurls best friend” 🎵 🎶 TOOK ME OUT 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣😮💨
I love these compilations! And we get over an hour of Charlotte as a bonus to some great story choices. A best of the best kinda thing is how I see it. Anyway, keep em coming!
Saturday compilations are a great way to spend a lazy Saturday morning
I wore a RED dress to my bff's wedding. Her mother was so pissed but the bride chose the dress for me, so... :P
I put my bridesmaids and maid of honor in dark red 😂 it’s my husband’s and one of my favorite colors
I love that Char now lives in a place where she can be her full, loud, authentic self.🎉
Life is way too short to not live it as your fabulous authentic self!!!!
And seeing her so genuinely happy & in love is so sweet... She's really come into her own & it's so much deserved. Her & Mike make such a cute couple. She will be adorable when she's pregnant... The glow of gals in love or becoming a Mama is like no other energy in life ❤
the story about the MIL's wig catching on fire will always be my favourite one 🤣
@1:08:13 in the vid, He may have left her, but her victory was 2-fold. She not only continued with the reception and having making the best she could, but she decided to work on herself and lost a lot of weight and looked even more amazing... it was his loss all the way around and she was the one that got away! Very proud of her for what she was able to accomplish and keep her head up.
1:34:00: Last Story- When I was 17yrs old I was asked to sing at a dear friend of mines wedding. I was honored to be asked, and wanted to do so, but knew that I'd need to buy a fancy dress for the ceremony. When my friend found out why I was hesitant, she told me her family WANTED to purchase anything I needed for the wedding.
So my friend and I went dress shopping and we found one that we BOTH liked. YES, it was white, BUT it had huge mint green polkadots all over it. Bride APPROVED😊
I didn't walk down any aisle, or anything, just stepped outta the corner and sang the song the bride picked. 98% of the invited guest KNEW who the bride was, and that SHE bought the dress that I was wearing, and that I would never try to "upstage" or do anything to take away from her beautiful wedding, such as wearing white .. My Bride friend had an amazing wedding, and the reception was lovely as well. 🙂
I wore a white dress with a BIG multicolour flower print. It was straight & airy.. nothing near bridal.
The ceremony was held at a botanic garden in summer & the dress code was casual.
It was my friends wedding & I asked her about the dress beforehand & she was OK with it. I spec told her to please tell me if she has ANY issue with it but she didn't. I worse a darker pink cardigan over the dress to tone down the white.
The dress fit the wedding theme perfectly.. but I would never had wore it without asking the bride beforehand..
@ingridakerblom7577 #BrideApproved ✔️
@@rachaelgibson2330 she is beautiful inside & out
1st story: nta. He cheated and tried to put her in 20K dept, screw him. These are the consequences of his actions, if he didn’t want it to happen, he should have listened to her warnings
I would have been a little against OP's actions had she not warned him and he chose to call her bluff. Sure, this hurts his family as well, but he is responsible for the care of the ring and instead tried to play games with that care. With luck they can hunt it down but either way he has a lesson to learn if only he is willing to learn it.
Or sprung for a different ring.
The fact that he tried to put her in $20K in debt is diabolical. What the heck is wrong with him to not only cheat on her, but to be this determined to leave her destitute?
Aagreed she gave him a chance, he said he didnt care thats on him. He could have asked his family and they could have purchased the ring back from her if his fanily cared.
Its her, he gave it to her therefore its no longer his.
The one where the bride's ex (hubby cousin) and the UNINVITED friend go together is because she was uninvited, not because they want to date each other hahahahaha is effing petty and i love it!! he's taking her as his plus one
I love these long ones. Makes it easy to do my dishes without having to stop and dry my hands to click on the next video. YOU SAVING ME FROM MY DEPRESSION GIRL! 🎉
When you said "do you have 150 close family members" I was like yes... I do.. I have like 85 cousins I can name off and I get 3-4 new ones every year.. and then you said "what are you Italian" and the answer is yes 🤣🤣🤣
I love Charlottes facial expressions, they are everything
As he was bragging that you wouldn't sell it - ha 😀
You showed him !!!!!
He was almost giving her permission to do what she wanted. It’s basically a dare.😅😅
I feel like there’s more that story, and I’d like to hear His story, or at least a third party. Something about it feels very off.
I went to a wedding where the couple requested everyone wear white. One lady said "You don't wear white to a wedding" and she wound up standing out more in the photos with all of the other white-clad guests with her blue dress.
Why can't people just do what they're asked man.....
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Story 1: if he's so upset about the family heirloom, he can take out a loan and buy it back from the website. 🤷♀️
Babe
In
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It is a compliment!
He is the one who lost the ring by ignoring her text. If it was that important he had a chance to work it out but he chose to ignore her.🤷🏼♀️
And he did say he didn’t care. Soooo..
Literally, if it was importent to him, he would have reached, it was not, he did not and him breaking the engagement and causing those expenses entitled her to the ring as colateral to motivate the damage he caused, thats what an engagement ring is for!
Yep, this is how I feel also. If it was my families’ heirloom, I’d have been extremely mad at HIM for not fixing his own mistakes and losing an heirloom over it
@@SingingSealRianathis is actually an excellent point. I’m pretty sure it’s customary that a woman gets to keep the ring if the wedding is called off. 🤷🏻♀️
@@laurynholling2309 no it is not customary to keep the ring. The opposite is true. The ring is given for a promise of marriage. If it doesn’t happen it is returned.
Massachusetts recently determined the ring belongs to the giver of the ring; regardless of the reasons for the engagement breakup. I gave back my ex husband's 2 carrot flawless ring when our marriage ended; it had been his mother's and his dad found the diamond years before he met his wife. That said- it's understandable that she sold it; but she could have reached out to his family ahead of time and asked them to pay towards wedding expenses and she would return the ring to them
Was semi planning an engagement and wedding with my ex, for them to break up with me and become a not good person 4 days after our 8 year anniversary. Hearing these petty wedding stories have been healing 😂
I really enjoy your videos. I’ve been married twice but have never had a wedding. Justice of the peace in 1967 & a Notary Public in 1977. I never felt it was all that important and remember what my mother had told me. Put your effort into the marriage, not the ceremony and that was okay for me. My first marriage didn’t work after 9 years but my second husband was the best father, grandfather, & great grandfather. He loved me and I loved him. After 46 years, he died from cancer and when I look back at our years together, I have no regrets about not having a “wedding”.
I have only been to one wedding and that was our youngest daughter’s. It was amazing and everyone said it was the best wedding they had ever been to. My daughter & her husband kept it simple but elegant. She didn’t make demands of dresses or anything like that. The food was perfect, the cake adorable and delicious. The DJ did a great job as well. Now 19 years later, they are still together & have 3 kids, great jobs, & a nice home. They didn’t spend more than they could afford which is the whole point. Why add financial stress on top of the normal pre wedding stress?
legally speaking an engagement ring only belongs to the woman if the marriage happens. In the case of divorce she can keep it and sell it, but if the marriage gets called off before it actually happens then the ring belongs to the man and he should be able to get it back with a lawyer.
I am loving these compilations, even if I’ve seen them before, it makes me feel like we are all contributing towards her wedding. 💒 👸
Our potato queen give us SO much…it is literally The Least we can do for Her. ❤🥔♥️💯
About the red dress - in Asian countries red is a colour of the wedding gown, there are beautiful red dresses so if the story with a cousin wearing red came across f.ex. traditional Chineese family that cousin would commit a double insult.
Love a Charlotte compilation! The blue petals is the best one in my opinion.
The pink jacket was beautiful! You look stunning!! Thanks for this petty compilation!!! 🫵🏽🪨💗🫵🏽😘🫂😘
39:57 I LOVE THIS LOL how everyone is just encouraging the pettiness 😂😂😂
Like not knowing what will happen like… they shouldn’t date(idk) but encouraging the two to be petty together
Those on line people will appraise the ring but replace stones with fake ones while they are at it.
I might have set a high price and offered the family the chance to buy it. Asking enough to cover absolutely everything of course 😂😂
Okay I have made it to 0:31 but I need to say MAAM that suit jacket is gorgeous on you! ❤❤❤❤
For real!
Yes I thought the same as soon as I saw it!
This is 100% on the cheating fiance. If the family is mad, it should be at him. He had the funds to pay for the wedding costs he had promised to, he was warned multiple times, and given plenty of time to respond. This was NOT on the OP. Now he can use the funds to get the ring back. FAFO.
To the Goth who had everyone else wear white, THAT IS NEXT LEVEL PETTY REVENGE!!!! Keep it up
Now I want a tea kettle that doesn't whistle, but instead squeals like Charlotte!😂❤
Omg story around 46 min chef's kiss i love that how she turn the news about the IL in wedding dresses into such a beautiful petty party!!!!
And I love that the bride with the rich hubby, even though wasn't really into extravagant, fully supported her hubby in what he wanted and matched his excitement. I love that for you both ♥️
I always love a story that includes an unlikely friendship...
The insertion of "Nock nock.... who's there? shhhh!" At the perfect time 😂😂😂😂😂
Also I wish that someone reads this quotr at the exact same time it's being said in the video (because that happens to me so often lol).
My mom and step dad got married when I was 7, my bio dad was still in my life but it wasn’t consistent so my step dad pretty much raised me (he is who I refer to as my dad) but I still love my bio dad and do have a somewhat relationship with them so when I got married I of course had both of them walk me down the isle. My bio dad would have never tried to not let my step dad walk me down the aisle as he knew the magnitude he had on my life and how much he did for me when he wasn’t able to. So yes that dad was def the A**hole!
Heirloom ring guy is 100% to blame. She gave him multiple opportunities and he didn't think she'd follow through. He effed around and his entire family found out... 😂😂
The pink blazer looks amazing!!! With the hair oh my! You look gorgeous Charlotte
31:31 LMFAO, NOOOOO that is literally the absolute MOST he could do! 🤣🤣🤣 The least RICK could do is just let OP go to the wedding but sit at a back table, or something… the audacity and entitlement of some human beings never ceases to shock me! 🤯🤣🤨
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Bruh... the stern look on Charlottes face when she said "Thats a petty hill you need to die on" ... I wasn't expecting it and about spit my drink out. 100%!!!
I thank God for this prayer. The first week I started. I have no seem my oldest son since before covid he came for a visit. I've been praying for about five weeks now. God is still speaking and blessing me and my family😂
I as the mother of my children work 50+ hours per week, but you betcha that as soon as I get home those 2 hours each night with my kids they are whole focus and I make the most of them. You can for sure still be there for your kids and work that much
Exactly. He wasn’t there because he couldn’t be bothered to. Sounds like a massive a hole to me from the moment he said about calling him dad and not betraying him-to a 7 year old child 🤦🏼♀️
not if you are divorced and not living with said child. Or maybe the fact that you work day shift, not everyone has that luxury.
Story: Yes it does affect the family, he should have thought about that before ignoring all of OPs warnings
Absolutely. NTA. That family lost that valuable item because HE screwed up.
I watch A LOT of your videos (actually have been binge watching them for the last couple of weeks) and when this video started, I said to myself “WOW, love the jacket….excuse me blazer”. It looks amazing and so do you as always. Your blazer and nails match perfectly with your room too. Love you, your channel and all your hard work.
This whole look for you is so good. Idk what it is but the makeup is perfect. Highlights your natural beauty, and that pink compliments you so well. 💗
I just found your channel this morning, I love it!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Tell the Grinch Bride who doesn't like Disney that she can rent a "washroom trailer" for her guests on her dime. If you feel like being petty, you can tell the Grinch Bride that you have concerns about guests consuming alcohol entering your home and possibly damaging your collectibles. If there's any pushback simply say that the only way you'll allow the guests into your home is if the wedding is dry...No alcohol on your property, no exceptions. 😂
Omg I get so angry when I think about how NO ONE told me not to wear anything that could resemble white at the VERY FIRST wedding I’ve ever attended.. there were like three other people who could’ve said something to me but no. The only thing that gives me a sense of comfort is the fact that the bridesmaids and groomsmen wore navy blue and cream (cream white was the color I wore alone) with no hint of any blue.. honestly doesn’t give me enough comfort needed when I think about how embarrassing that is.. ugh!
Same here! It wasn’t a formal dress in any sense and I was massively pregnant but it was white 😢 felt like a setup!
Giiiiiirrrrrrllll! I had literally no idea or concept that there was a whole lists of do’s and dont’s for attending a wedding… gawd just ew you know? Like, that’s so mean to just let someone stroll into a wedding like that.. all I knew was that I needed to wear something nice.. 🙄 and then I was like confused by the looks I was getting.. I wasn’t even a bridesmaid just a random acquaintance.. literally so sad. Did anyone say anything to you?
Ya, like anyone who knew what you were planning to wear could have told you lol .. even the dress shop .. maybe they need to post the do's & don'ts of wedding rules
Everyone should know that. Did you know the bride will wear white? Do you think it's okay to wear the same color? This is a thing that a CHILD knows. Are you people homeschooled or what?
Right? LITERALLY the first wedding I had ever attended. Unfortunately, I didn’t grow up thinking about my wedding and what the dos and don’ts for weddings were.. it was never a dream I had ever considered.. not necessarily sheltered as much as it was that it was never an option I had thought of.. does that make any sense? I never liked wearing dresses, was never considered a “girly girl” and I would always hang out with boys (as annoying as that is) I didn’t have a Pinterest board about my wedding dream.. hell, I didn’t even know Pinterest existed lol and I was 18! (Nearly a decade ago) (thus the reason that when I was invited to the wedding, I had actually asked someone what I should wear and all they told me was “a nice dress” so, I saw a nice dress and bought it. The first dress ID EVER BOUGHT IN MY ENTIRE LIFE MIND YOU!) I know that’s hard to believe but sadly, it’s true. It’s also not like I realized that RIGHT at the wedding in those moments lol I wasn’t like “OMG! What?! All the knowledge I ever lacked about weddings has been just now downloaded into my mind literally like right now in this moment, UNBELIEVABLE! How could they?” No… actually, I didn’t find that out until years later when coming across channels like this on UA-cam… or when I finally realized what Pinterest was.. lol
Me, doing a double take, because years ago I was a maid of honor for a Sarah, and I am an Emma. But that's definitely not us. 😂
So growing up in a small town, my sister tried to have a normal wedding but it was somewhat open. Somewhwere between 500 to 600 people showed up.
When i got married a few years later i insisted on am immediate family only ceremony with a wide open reception a couple of weeks later. Then number of offended people was insane but i didnt want to be overstimulated to the max on my wedding day.
You are so funny in this post 😂 wish I could go back and be petty, always too worried what people ,
thought - now I’m 70 ..and forgetting to be petty 🤪🤪🇨🇦
1:30:33 the picture up for 13 years changing the frame LOVE THIS!!!!
🎉 Hey, Charlotte! I just wanted to thank you for everything you're still doing. Even though you're planning a wedding, and as you become more busy (because you are a boss b) , you still upload videos for us to escape into, and I appreciate that so much. No matter what I'm going through or have been through, I can count on a smile from you, Charlotte.
Thank you so much! 😊
( p.s. I hope your wedding planning is drama Lama free.)
It's not your fault you wore white to a wedding you didn't even know was happening. Sort of the bride's fault for pulling a surprise like that
Let’s get our petty on!!! 🤗🤗🤗
16:42 omg I’m dying. That woman is a petty QUEEN and I am SO here for it!! That story was a MASTER CLASS in petty, LOVE
Funny thing: when husband and I wed (May, 40 yrs ago) the color of the BM/MOH dresses were candy-apple red. I like the hue because so many other colors I liked could play off it (pink, magenta, navy/royal blue, etc.) I know candy-apple red is nor "normally" a color of a Spring Wedding, but hey, the wedding party looked FABULOUS; and, to quote Queen Charlotte, "It was MY day, damn it!" 😉😁🤣🤣🤣 In fact my Matron of Honor had JUST had her first baby right before the wedding, and he looked NOTHING like my husband! Ha haha, LOL! too funny!
I went to an event where Baccarat glassware was the gift bag for all 500 guests.😅