To anyone saying "Oh, well she's just playing a character," let me quote the amazing Robert Pattinson: "Isn't it funny how whenever some says they're playing a character, it's always a character that happens to be an asshole?"
yeah like at multiple points she specifically says that's not what she wants to do. It was really just another way for a manipulative person to try to paint herself as the victim (and it was clever because making it in song and then copyrighting the song is a devious way to give her recourse against other people using the "apology" in their videos).
Nah, the sending to a minor part is wrong ofc but sending videos/images of a pcrnstar is NOT revenge pcrn. She sells nude photos and videos of her having sex and engaging in sexual acts, it’s simply behind a paywall. It’s no different to pcrn sites that charge a subscription to access their premium videos, and people sharing the content they paid to access for free on Reddit pcrn subs. Leaking only fans content is not revenge pcrn and to label it as such does a disservice to actual victims. If I have an only fans, anyone can purchase that content, and if it gets into the hands of someone who didn’t purchase it the only “harm” that was done is that it was not paid for, so piracy essentially. An example of actual revenge pcrn would be if I send a nude to my boyfriend and he then puts it on the internet after we break up.
@@DosYeobos Actually I do think what Colleen did to Trisha falls in the revenge porn category (or borderlines). The example you gave is a correct example, but I believe the term is broader than just a previous partner spreading explicit photos without consent (it feels like the most common tho). The definition of revenge porn: revealing or sexually explicit images or videos of a person posted on the internet, typically by a former sexual partner, without the consent of the subject and in order to cause them distress or embarrassment. Although Trisha did release those photos on the internet herself, I think the fact Colleen was sending them to people who weren’t suppose to have access to her content just to make fun of her is at least in the grey area around revenge porn. Edit: I think it’s also the fact Colleen is literally famous and sending to fans also plays into the fact that it’s not just two friends talking badly about an adult content maker. It is far more public than a private conversation looking at the bigger picture.
@@DosYeobosI believe it IS revenge porn. Even if Trisha put the photos out there herself, it was behind a pay wall. Her former friend, Colleen, sent these photos to fans as a way to shame her and make fun of her body. In what way is this not revenge porn?
@@DosYeobos Even if it isn't revenge porn, which i think it is, it is still illegal because those pornographic images and videos are behind a paywall which falls under copyright, due to the Digital Millennium Copyright Act (DMCA). Also this was talked about in the video but it would also be illegal if she sent them to Adam, and even if she didn't send it to Adam, it would still be illegal and the victims have proof of it.
@@jandjproductions2817 Copyrights disputes between individuals often don't qualify for prosecution under criminal copyrights law, so people rarely go to jail for them, but showing p*rnography to a child under 16 falls under US federal obscenity laws that protect minors, and I believe some states can have stricter laws around that as well, which would make her actions truly criminal. Revenge p*rn is also criminal as it's sexual exploitation.
seeing the actual context of the “cheeseball” joke is shocking. the whole joke… is her teaching kids how to go on a date with an adult, in the woods where “no one can hear you”, and encouraging them to touch her genitals. and you know this is the exact joke she’s making because she follows it with “it’s not what it seems like, there’s snacks in my pants”. she knows what it seems like, and it seems like an adult molesting a child. she doesn’t pretend the Miranda character is a child, evident by her telling the nine year old boy she’s too old for him. it’s actually insane. the whole entire skit is a grooming and molestation joke! that doesn’t happen by accident.
Imagine if a grown up male did the same thing with a girl. _Colleen has been on my radar for years, and I cannot wrap my head around the fact that she has gotten away with all of this for such a long time. When I posted about her on some parenting forums I was attacked...._ 😡
Her character is 39, but speaks, writes, and perceives things like a child. The character can't spell or do simple math. Yet she *insists* that the character is just based on her old egotistical theater classmates... sure Colleen. Seems like her way of making fun of intellectual disabilities and using that underdeveloped mindset to attract children at the same time with poop jokes. Her ability to do so much wrong all at once is impressive in the worst way
The same thing happened with the underwear incident. Literally immediately after a child asked her to send him her underwear, she commented that his parents would think that her doing that would be so inappropriate and upset them a lot, but she still did it anyway! Like she makes it so obvious that she KNOWS the things she's doing are wrong but she just does them anyway. After a while it becomes either baffling or damning evidence that there's a certain p or g word reason why she's doing these things. Like, even if a child asked her to send her underwear, why would she actually agree to it when she immediately responds to the request by admitting she knows she shouldn't be doing it
Also think about all the teams of people and corporations who have funded Miranda Sings shows/ netflix series etc. etc. they all thought it was a GOOD idea?! A GOOD PROFITABLE idea?! Does she remain delusional about the whole thing because she's lived her whole adult life surrounded by others who encourage this behaviour? I mean she's been popular up until now so I think a lot of us were also delusional about how inappropriate it all was. I completely agree with what you're saying by the way, just adding my 2 cents thinking about how many people were in on her 'jokes' :(
@@loganmiller7827if I understood what I saw in the live stream correctly, she offered him the bra first and then he tweeted about it after her suggesting it. Just to contribute to the context- or def correct me/let me know if I missed something.
@@babzsichu Now, now, don't jump down into misinformation station. She said sorry exactly twice. Both times to be condescending to the audience. "Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't realize - That all of you are perfect, so please, criticize" and "I know that you wanted me to say that I was 100% in the wrong - Well, I'm sorry, I'm not gonna take that route" It'd be better if she never actually said those words, that way she could pretend she never knew what the word for it was. Better excuse than whatever she comes up with when she inevitably comes back.
In my opinion the saddest part of this whole situation is and as pathetic as it sounds, Colleen is the oldest person in the situation, but is still to this day, acting the most childish!
She's so flagrant about how little she cares. "I was younger" but I'm 27 and I wouldn't dream of talking to a teenager about my sex life 👀 totally gross
@annabanton5442 exactly my point. I'm 3 years shy of how old she was when she did all this weird crap and it wouldn't even cross my mind to send someone's nudes to a minor or talk to them about my sex life or even worse theirs
I’m 24 and I have an 18 year old coworker. I literally feel like I’m interacting with a child. I can’t imagine being in your 30s and wanting to be friends with 12 year olds
Fun Fact: In "Ralph Breaks The Internet", Ralph crushes someone's avatar and disconnects their internet that person being Colleen Ballinger. So, you could say Ralph tried to stop her from messaging more minors.
Another UA-camr named Film Cooper explained it best - she's not grooming these children because she's sexually attracted to them, but because she wants to create her own personal army who would do anything and everything for her without second-guessing their actions. She succeeded for a few years, but I think she genuinely didn't think that these kids would grow up and realize the f*cked up things that she's done.
She is obsessed with their sexuality though. Trying to get them to stick their hands down her pants. Asking about their period and virginity status is. What their fav sex position is. Asking for pictures of their body parts. The sexual fanfiction. There is just so much
Unfortunately this might not happen since Adam doesn't have the texts himself and I'm sure Colleen has the money to buy the best lawyer and get away with things scott free. If nothing else I hope at least her following is lost after this...
I feel like "Colleen" was a character like "Miranda". The real Colleen is the person we are seeing now, a plotting, self-centered, mean girl with a lack of remorse or empathy for what she's done.
This is really common with narcissists. They have a seperate face they put on for the public but truly they are just plotting away at everything for self-gain. Manipulatively.
I genuinely think she suffers from a personality disorder, be that narcissm or something like sociopathy (little to no remorse or empathy, high sense of self, warped perception of situations, ...). People with these disorders often hide behind a mask. Seeing their "real" self is very uncommon, especially if you're not a family member but someone of the public. They put on whatever mask they think you'll like and only when you criticize them or question their image, does the mask begin to crumble.
@@LaraOlinaI think you’re right. And I have an inkling that the more people are in the spotlight and the more attention they get, this sort of behavior gets exacerbated
Trisha showed Coleen WAY more grace than she deserves. You can see how hurt she is. She did not deserve that. (And yes I know Trisha has been awful in the past but she absolutely did not deserve, nor does anyone deserve, to have their nudes leaked, especially to a minor.)
This is, uh... not the priority right now. Her explicit material was shown to children. Oh boo ho, lost a friend- *who cares!?* Kids were hurt using her image.
@@JoshSweetvalecrazy how you feel as if focusing on the victims shouldn’t include ALL the victims…. Almost as if you think some criminal actions are okay…..
And considering the fact is that Trisha is one of the most problematic UA-camrs in this platform, That just shocks me. Still don’t like her, but I do feel bad for her that Colleen would pretend to be her friend just for her own personal gain.
I haven’t seen anyone comment on this but here’s how Colleen is a groomer, she’s grooming children to be perfect targets for pedophiles. She might not have the intent of sexualizing minors but she is setting them up perfectly for someone who does. Normalizing this behavior for kids as if trusted adults act like this. It is AWFUL what she has done.
@wormie1312 this perspective makes it way harder to not think she grew up with some sick adults in her childhood. Not an excuse, just a sad realization
Colleen's only defense is that she's a stupid loser, which can only go so far when you're a woman in her 30s with a long history of horrible behavior. After a certain point, intent doesn't matter, and she's a child predator no matter how she tries to spin it. The most charitable explanation is that she's a disgusting person that never had anyone tell her no, but that's still no excuse, especially when you consider that she committed actual child sex crimes.
THANK YOU! whether or not she actually does anything to those children, just teaching them that this is acceptable behavior (its not) and that this is a normal way to interact (its not) can be incredibly damaging. Because those children are then so much more susceptible to accepting this kind of behavior from other adults, without realizing that there is anything wrong with it and that its inappropriate. So then you get a kid who doesn't think they'd anything weird about reaching an adults pants for "snacks" especially because they not only got positive reinforcement for it before (with the audience laughing and having a good time), but their parents also have our their tacit approval by allowing it to happen and doing nothing. So the next time they're coached to do something like that, by an adult who DOES have indenting to hurt them, they think it's just a fun, silly game and have no idea that they're being preyed join and groomed for abuse. And as someone who suffered that kind of abuse as a child under the guise of "playing grown up games" this shit makes me absolutely sick
Paired with that “my boney little back” line, I guarantee she befriended Trisha so she could have a fat person to make fun of and feel better about herself.
She has a LONG history of body shaming and slut shaming. She one hundred percent only got close to Trisha to make fun of her and try to feel better about herself
yeah i gave the slightest benefit of the doubt before, but even at the time the bony little back line was so infuriating because it sounded like a way to humble brag about being skinny while pretending to be a victim from the people she victimized at the same time. knowing what she thinks about people who are fat now...
Exactly! Every once in awhile you’ll see someone doing audience work with the one kid who came to a show that’s not meant for kids and clearly the parents knew and decided it was okay for the kid and the family. That is not what Colleen did. She intentionally brought children onstage. She can’t pretend that she didn’t know there were children there
Last month on UA-cam has been a fever dream: -Ballinger’s Ukulele vid -Trisha Paytas being tolerable in video -EDP’s pitiful apology -Ian & Anthony regaining control of Smosh I’d say Smosh’s rebirth and iNabber hitting 1M are wins~
@ville__ Look bud, I don’t know if Colleen is trying to work you over behind the scenes but maybe you should be paying attention to these vids. She doesn’t give a crap about you, and if she ever thought you to be a problem she would have you attacked as well. For your own sake, please look at just look at Colleen and what you are actually defending. She will toss you aside just as quickly as she has done to many others who loved her.
@@laveyndarschroeder5250legality ≠ morality For the record, I also feel bad for and sympathize with Trisha in this scenario, but I don’t think it’s right to minimize the terrible things she has done
@@domino6239 no I agree it’s not okay to minimize what Trish has done but it’s also not okay to send someone’s explicit photos to anyone let alone minors. That’s why I said Trish is far from perfect but what Colleen has done is illegal I agree that just because it’s not illegal doesn’t mean it’s morally okay but you can be sympathetic for someone without minimizing what they have done
I have a hard time feeling bad for Trisha because Adam said that she has known about most of the inappropriate allegations that came out about Colleen FOR YEARS and continued to defend her and even BLOCKED AND DELETED COMMENTS THAT WOULD ASK TRISHA TO ADDRESS HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT IT. She never said a fucking word until she became one of Colleens victims, and NOW she wants nothing to do with her. Sorry, but Trisha is not innocent in this either.
Sorry , but it is that bad ! I thought it wasn’t that bad when everything else came out , thought is was a case off someone with really bad self confidence who was trying to be the cool auntie and didn’t realize she was using the creativity of a child before and panicked once something bad came of it and then blame it on a child ! Which is bad enough ! I didn’t however think it was any type off creepy sexual behavior for children ! Just extreme lack of judgement and someone who forgot the ages of the ages of people she interacted with , which is easy in a virtual set ! But sending unsolicited porn to anybody, especially underage people, even for some type of lols , especially to be cruel is just plain insane ! I always thought she wasn’t fine in the head but thought it was due to being dumb but turns out it is much more malicious ! She is a textbook 17 year old mean girl still , despite being almost 40 and that is enough of a lack of common sense ! She what she did was a crime and predatory even if the ultimate goal was making fun of someone or using someone’s creativity for free and not for her own sick sexual gratification ! She is sick !
@@SakiBlablablashe is using the character as a way to avoid any responsibilities. She is not dumb she is just using people that think that. She is a predator someone that uses everything to get to children to be close and to be there star. She is dangerous 😳
I don't think a lot of people are grasping the full extent of Colleen's creepiness with this whole situation. She's not just being weird, she's showcasing behaviors that are *pedophilic* and *predatory*. Sending underwear to an underage fan, coercing kids into shoving their hands down her pants- she's a predator. She's a *pedophile*.
So what part of Colleen's entire personality is NOT about making fun of someone? Because she created Miranda to make fun of people, she shared Trisha's content to make fun of her, the chat room seemed to largely focus on making fun of people, her friendships and podcasts all seem to revolve around making fun of people, she pulled kids on stage to put them into situations to make fun of them. Where exactly does she display any personality that is not somehow directly related to being awful to other people?
She literally made fun of one of her biggest fans (who has painful lifelong chronic illness) by making a character on her Netflix show faking her fibromyalgia for attention. The bigger the fan the more sadistic she seems to be.
shane dawson said in an interview YEARS ago that when he met her she immediately asked who he doesnt like and basically scouted out people to make fun of and talk bad on
Brilliant in what way? I have no desire to watch and I only know the character she plays from all this drama. I’m curious because to me the small amount of it I’ve seen was insufferable lol.
I think Colleen referring to the incident with Becky as 'a fart joke' is the most telling part of her whole excuse video. Even if she 100% believes what happened was okay, it very obviously wasn't 'a fart joke'. It ended with a fart joke, but that's demonstrably not the part that Becky cited as the source of her discomfort. The fact Colleen chose to obfuscate it in that way is basically up front proof of dishonest intentions.
It was a queef joke, not a fart joke. And she stood there staring down between that child's spread legs, leering at her. Holding the pose and the direct look so long it was obviously predatory. Then as soon as the sound effect played she leapt away in faux disgust - look how gross this girl is! She's a monstrous predator. Humiliation fetish is a thing and I believe that Colon Bellender has one.
(Irish here) There are really strict laws in Ireland about sharing explicit photos of people without the person in the photos' consent and even stricter laws with regard to sending explicit photos to minors. Even if the person sending the photos is in a different country with different laws, they can be prosecuted by Irish law. So Colleen is fucked if this goes to court.
Sadly, Adam is barely 20 and I don't think he has the means or even the energy to pursue this. It's not quite easy to sue someone who is so much more influential and richer than you.
Irish law student here - logistically it would be unlikely due to the distance and issues of jurisdiction. Even if Adam wanted to pursue this, it probably wouldn't result in any criminal charges. They could sue them in a civil trial but it would likely taken a few years to see any real result. And that's without considering the financial and mental toll of it all. Obviously most people aware of this fucked up situation would prefer a legal consequence for colleen.
That's a really important law, more countries should have it. However it is very unlikely that she will be tried and even more unlikely that she will be extradited there. That takes a lot of co-operation on both countries to facilitate extradition and therefore very unlikely in this situation.
however if she lives in the united states, it is illegal to send sexual content (including pictures of adults) to anyone under the age of 18. She might be possibly tried for that. I wouldn't know how the statue of limitations and the victim being in another country would work with it.
“This isn’t online drama anymore” it was never “online drama”. Nothing in this story is drama. Truly and honestly fuck the Beauty Community for turning serious allegations into “drama” and “tea, sis” with “receipts”. Drama is James Charles promoting Sugar Bear Hair over Halo Beauty despite his friendship with Halo’s founder, Tati. Not what happened with that but that event itself. Drama is that TikTok “psychic” trying to sue iNabber for calling her “nutty”. Drama is NOT domestic abuse or child abuse.
It's: 'bad stuff happening to people o'er there.' Also known as *fun.* There's a reason Hunger Games and Squid Games are popular, and it isn't the 1984 social commentary.
Some people take the argument that Becky "chose to volunteer" or "chose to go to the show" where she was sexually assaulted on stage, but fail to mention the events leading up to it. Becky stated that she dressed in a revealing way because Colleen gave preferential treatment to kids dressing in a revealing way. That is Colleen making the active choice to include a bit in her show that will lead to more kids dressing revealing. She then chose to call up a child dressing in the way she encouraged for a bit that Becky did not dress for, and both physically and socially forced her into a sexual position in front of a large audience of more children. Obviously Becky could not have said "No, I'm not doing that" when she's on stage in front of a ton of screaming kids who idolize Colleen. Becky was a child. Colleen was 30 years old. This is sexual assault.
"Oh but becky chose to dress revealingly!" OKAY BUT WHY DID A 30 YEAR OLD WOMAN TELL A CHILD TO DRESS IN A REVEALING WAY? THAT'S NOT NORMAL. IM NINETEEN AND I WOULDN'T DO THAT!
I can't get over hearing Trisha use the phrase "mum friend" when talking about this issue. Trisha found out her friend, her MUM friend, used images of her, to commit a sexual crime towards children, and to mock her while doing it.
Stabbed in the back by your mum friend, with revenge porn sent to a minor...that's a new low. I've never heard of Trisha before this, but I agree - I'm embarrassed for Colleen. Trisha seems very sweet and hurt by this.
@@Kiefstimy dude Trisha Paytas is insane and not someone whose judgement you should trust. Not that I’m defending Colleen, she deserves whatever is happening to her, but Trisha Paytas is just as bad as she is.
@@ems3991they’re meant for consuming on the basis that you won’t exploit said person and send them to minors, as an ADULT AND FRIEND you keep it yourself, let’s not do the backhandedness
Trisha is not non binary. Just another thing she lied about before for attention. FYI. Like almost everything else she has hoped on the bandwagon for a few days. She even said she was trans race and trans gender
@@ems3991 she wasn't consuming them, that is the problem. she was sending them to a minor and insulting Trisha's body with said minor, and then she was pretending like that never happened, was in Trisha's house and met her kid.
Absolutely agree. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. And yeah, sure, she put nudes out there and some people are gonna poke fun. But by someone she considered a friend??? And sent to a minor??? Yeah that's vile
I always think about how Colleen has kids of her own and I would ask her how she would feel if her kids were being groomed, humiliated and treated like her victims.
I think she already does do that to them. Not accusing her of anything (legally) but I’m genuinely scared for how she treats her kids if this is how she repeatedly behaves with other people
Idunno in her book she has a chapter about how to make her kids into slaves, once they are toddlers. Granted the book was made before. But she might just be that insane
@@EdgyBarbieThe only reason it’s called that is because that’s a common scenario. Revenge porn laws cover any explicit photos shared without consent. It doesn’t literally mean things sent as revenge.
It depends on the terms of service for only fans, if they allow to share pictures obtained in the site then it would be a crime only if shared with minors… It doesn’t count as revenge porn because they weren’t shared in a private setting
@@KatherineAcosta20 afaik only fans content, which is behind a paywall, is illegal to distribute for free. It's like buying a movie and showing it to everyone for free. Also revenge porn can be shared in any setting, it doesn't have to be public. In order to be revenge porn, the explicit pictures only need to be shared with the intent to harm the victim in any way
Colleen is *literally* Shane Dawson 2.0 She refuses to take any real accountability, while also complaining about how everyone won't move on and accept her many deflected and down played apologies. She admits what she can't deny and denies what she can't admit... All of the creepy underage allegations, specifically with fans and of course, purposely and maliciously befriended another UA-camr only to use them and put them down, stabbing them in the back. She even has her own blackface accusation... I mean come on, the parallels between the two are wild!
I mean, Shane and her are/were friends right? I distinctly remember videos of them together. Awful people flock to each other to justify their f'ed up actions
They both even encouraged kids to put "phallic" things in their mouths.... Colleen with tampons in her group chat, Shane encouraging his niece/cousin to slowly eat a hotdog on camera 🤢
To give cultural context with the American Girl Dolls: these dolls are a big deal to young girls in America. They are high quality dolls that cost well over 100 dollars, so usually you only get it as a special gift from your family and most girls growing up I knew wanted one of these dolls. They're seen as so special that women will save their American girl dolls to pass onto their kids. So in other words, Colleen using American Girl dolls with someone she actually didn't like is extra twisted, because they are dolls of high financial and emotional value.
I never got an American Girl doll of my own and I don't plan on having kids, so if I got one, it would just be for fulfilling my inner child. Much like I still want to get an Easy Bake Oven at 34 😂
@@colleens.279Go and get one. I found a really old and broken dollhouse at the city dump, in 1997 when I was 28 years old, renovating & buying furniture etc has given me so much joy for many, many years. I still "play" with it, all the dollhouse dolls has names and so on. I'm over 50 years old now.( I never got a dollhouse, and I had a sh ^ tty childhood.)
I give Johnny more grace here. He saw what was happening to Adam and how Colleen could convince people to go after him. He was also sleep deprived, deprived of basic human needs like taking a shower, he was gaslit by her family that what happened was ok, and he was screamed at daily. As an abuse survivor, I understand how fucked your mind gets, and you're convinced by your abuser that you need to protect THEM. I agree that he had the responsibility to come forward knowing that a crime had been committed against a minor. I also acknowledge that Johnny is an abuse victim, and the fear, obligation, and guilt (survivors call it the FOG) influenced his judgement.
I never knew the fog was a real concept with survivors. I remember when I was just out of an abusive relationship, I did call my mind being foggy as well. It was just the best way to describe it.
And in spite of all that, Johnny made a complete and sincere apology, taking responsibility for his part in it. He even offered to apologize to Trisha personally, not just publicly. I don’t even think Colleen has acknowledged what she did.
Tbh it is absolutely insane that some people were SO SURPRISED when shit abt Colleen finally came out. Like if you looked at the book that Colleen wrote for kids that mentions PORN AND HINTS OF INCEST it ALL makes sense. Also HAPPY 1 MILLION (edit: yes she has a children’s book, she actually has 2 books in total which are called selp-helf, which is the one I was talking abt, and my diarrhe. The titles are how they’re actually spelled too.)
@@briannam916 I guess that’s true lol, but I’m rlly surprised that like there wasn’t that big of a deal when it first came out tho. Like there was a good amount of parents complaining about it.
it isn't just sending it to a minor that is illegal, it's sending it to anybody maliciously. that's revenge porn. that's illegal, period. At the very least, it can call for a lovely easy-win civil case.
unfortunately in this case it might not count as revenge porn bc this was paywalled content that anyone could access, not soemthing that trisha only sent colleen. so maybe there's a copyright thing there but even if they're in states where revenge porn is illegal (I have no idea where that is or isn't illegal) it's . not that. it's extremely fucked up but unfortunately not illegal 😁 she deserves to rot for that though fr trisha deserved far better
Johnny was working for Colleen at the time and might have had a civil case for sexual harassment by an employer -- since he was probably a contractor at the time, this would depend on what state he was technically employed in, I've been assuming California -- but unfortunately the window for opening such cases is very small and has passed.
Lordy. There’s so much she should be in court over. But she has hired the same lawyer “Prince” Andrew has, so they will have to be very careful taking her to court.😡
@@yuki97kirawell idk about everyone else, but I have to run back into the woods and return to being the local cryptid, giving paranormal hunters blurry photos and making weird noises to scare campers.
@@yuki97kiraI'm lucky, I live in the land of the future ace population, so I sink back into my sleeper argent mode. I am only allowed to blow my cover during pride week (locally)
It’s rare to see Trisha out of character. Their response to everything is so valid and so on point. It’s horrible and low for someone to attack another person over their physical appearance. I can’t even imagine how painful that was to see. I don’t like them and what they do but I like their response to this horrible situation.
to be fair.... and im not excusing her past behavior.... she has changed a lot since she had a kid for the better.... i feel so bad for her in this instance because she just wanted a friend. and everyone deserves a frined
@@reddd3369 It's crazy. After I saw Trisha's video, I got so confused. It's so far off from everything we've seen from her, even her extreme meltdowns. It made me wonder how much of all of her past stuff was an over-the-top performance for views because in that video, she's very well-spoken, logical, and calm. And not talking 2 octaves higher!
Same. Also, I had no idea of who Onision was until a couple of years ago when everything came out. Where can I apply to get my life from before I knew about Onision and Colleen Bellender back?
Trisha literally HAS a personality disorder and spoke about how it affected her behavior in the past. The fact that anyone would hold that up as a reason she deserves Colleen's BS is messed up.
She's lied about having disorders multiple times. I'm not inclined to believe anything she says. She could say "the sky is blue" and I'd still feel compelled to check.
@@BebbaDubbs I'm not going to give a new response to a stupid question I already answered. "She's lied about having disorders multiple times." That's why I think she'd lie.
honestly colleen’s uncle jokes made me think that my uncle was normal and that everyone went through what i did (i was never SA’d, at least that i recall- just made uncomfortable and harassed in that way) her book only furthered that for me, and it really sucks looking back just to realize that so much of my childhood was spent taking in content that only furthered my trauma (not even just miranda sings, plenty of other creators too, like onision, social repose, eugenia cooney, etc.)
SA isn't just r*pe (if you want a rapid way to understand various types of abuse/assault look up "s*xual violence pyramid" or "r*pe culture pyramid" and look at the images) Even if it wasn't r*pe itself, your experience and the trauma you got from it is just as valid, I sincerely hope you're better now and have someone to reach out to ❤ I unfortunately have to agree that children with a similar past are drawn to the same creators, and I hadn't stopped to think why I knew so many problematic ones until you pointed this out💔
@@nxcrorat this actually really validated something i’ve been trying to express but haven’t been able to put into words/when i’ve tried i’ve been overlooked or told “nothing happened” so thank you. this helped a part of me i never thought would be able to heal.
Shane reminds me of the cousin that m*lested me, and I formed a kind of trauma bond so badly that I was defending him after his cancellation (thank gods for therapy, well on the path to healing now)
Thats something I wish content creators would touch on more, the jokes aren't just bad for being dirty, the "humor" she's selling to kids sets up situations like yours to be normalized to them. Also her skits where she has random audience members touch her for comedy could also be dangerous since I've seen predators convince kids to do things under the guise of it being funny. It's pretty much doing the grooming work for the predators. Your comment confirmed my thoughts on all of that to unfortunately be a reality. I hope you're doing ok now
Not only was she fully aware of her child audience, but, as Rachel Oates pointed out in her videos about Colleen’s books, “Self-Help” was published by Simon and Schuster Children’s. So obviously the book was targeted and marketed towards and for children.
@@notmycircusnotmymonkeys3627 are you talking to me? npd has nothing to do with abuse. i dont really know how to explain this and i dont have npd so really just. do ur research n talk to someone who knows how to explain this
I remember when i was 8 my friend introduced me to Miranda Sings, at the time i thought she was hilarious but my parents made me stop watching her because they thought she was overly sexual. I used to be so mad because i didn’t understand how she was inappropriate but im so glad they did that because WOW 😟
i used to like miranda sings cause her videos were funny and i thought it was hilarious, i was 14 15 (or 12-13 idk it’s been a very long time) when i found her account, i showed my dad one of her videos and he just thought it was ignorant and silly and to stop watching her videos but i thought they were hilarious and made me happy so i kept watching them. (i also never saw the miranda videos as sexual prob because i was a child and didn’t understand what was happening) i got busy with life so i stopped watching her and her colleen vlog videos for idk how many years, 4? and now when i first saw colleens ukulele video “apologising”. i already know this was an “apology” video because i know that she does this when she gets caught or gets in trouble in the past, it’s the type of thing she does but now it’s 2023 i was like: *”why are you singing? it’s 2023”* i didn’t know the full context of what’s wrong, until i saw more videos of her, i used to like miranda and colleen and her videos from 2014/2012(?) but the past few years i missed a lot of things of what was happening to the people what about colleen until now i am now 20, i used to like her but i’m not sure how to feel about this anymore, i’m going to unsubscribe to her since i don’t really watch her anymore
You're very lucky your parents protected you here! Imagine they didn't realize how inappropriate it was. Imagine if you kept watchinf the show and godforbid entered that online chat or got called on stage at one of her shows. It feels like a lot, if not all of the kids who went on stage were either the victim of her sexual stuff or the victim of her bullying/mean personality. (Like Swoop said better than I can- imagine being Becky. You're called on stage to someone you admired. Wearing a revealing outfit because Colleen encouraged her viewers to do so. And then put into a sexual pose on the stage *and* made the butt of her stupid fart joke. I love bathroom humor and I didn't find it funny at all when I watched the clip, it just felt creepy and mean towards Becky. Like imagine being embarrassed like that in front of a ton of people, that could lead to self esteem issues especially when you're a teen. 😢 I watched a few Miranda Sinfs episodes just to see what her show was about as I never heard od her before a month or so ago. The show felt cringey to me, I couldn't get the humor and the sexual stuff hidden throughout the episodes gave me the creeps. I feel you really dodged a bullet, even if you never joined that online chat or saw a live show. I feel bad for the kids who watched a lot of her content, like their minds could be corrupted. It's disturbing that 8 year olds were even talking about her. I hope your friend who introduced you got away from it quickly as well. 😢
Part of the problem is parents don't automatically understand what grooming is. A lot of people seem to have blindspots around inappropriate humor and see it as harmless because "it's just a joke". I have a feeling Colleen won't disappear unless someone presses charges or sues her.
I agree,, I unfortunately was one of those people. But once I learned more I was disgusted and embarrassed that I was ever a fan of hers. Vile behavior 😢
I also used to be one of those people, usually I'd just get too swept up in a joke and as long as it's not actual porn or dick or boobs, I thought it was fine cus teens are not as innocent as people think. But once this happened and a few videos I realized, just because teens Might not be innocent children that don't know anything, doesn't mean me as an adult should be joking with them at way. I def cringe at some of my past actions. Luckily it wasn't anything visual but still shouldn't have gone so far
That's incredibly true. I mean, stranger danger and the idea of NOT trusting every adult with your child only started in like, what, the 70s or 80s? In the 60s and 50s you could let your kids go over to their teacher's house for lemonade after school without a worry. Nowadays that just screams "PEDOPHILE". Older people, particularly parents, know the idea of stranger danger and not leaving their kids with adults they don't trust, but they can't recognise the idea of an adult slowly planting seeds to groom a child to earn their trust, then violating them. That's probably why adults at her shows never really did anything - she's just an entertainer making a joke on stage right? She didn't directly do anything, so surely the jokes are nothing more and nothing less?
I'm not convinced that Colleen ever considered Trisha a friend. Colleen using her "friend" as a punchline reminds me of when my grade school bullies would pretend to be friends with me for a day to make fun of me. What I went through is not nearly as bad as what happened to Trisha, and I can only imagine how much worse the betrayal of trust was for them.
Took me a while to realize I had never been a person’s friend and had always been their preferred, chosen target. Sounds like what’s happening here. Bc I went to her house, she went to mine, we were at parties together, she invited me to her birthday after the worst of the abuse was no longer accessible to her, and I went. The assaults happened in my house and I thought it was fine, and something I consented to and wanted. Like I haven’t personally looked into it but :/ find me a person victimized by a pathological liar’s “friendship” who wasn’t sexualized in some way by them to assert control. Like does that even happen, because they always pick a few people to outlet the bulk of that onto.
I wonder if Trisha could sue her. Trisha’s OF content is a product people pay for. When they pay for it, part of the Terms and conditions is agreeing not to save or distribute the content. Colleen essentially stole it and violated that contract. Of course, giving it to children is the worst part, but it might be another way to hold her accountable.
not to excuse trisha’s past behaviours but imo they have really really grown as a person since becoming a parent and how they have conducted themselves during this whole debacle shows that. i hope they stay on this path
I actually feel bad for them. What Colleen did them is absolutely atrocious. Leaking nudes in general is terrible. But, to kids?!?! Trisha is handling this gracefully but I hope they go after Colleen for that. It’s absolutely horrible!
I have a sinking feeling she will re-emerge in a few months and nothing will have really changed for her. I’ve seen too many blind followers in her comments to believe her actual fan base will be affected. The negativity seems to be coming from outside her sphere.
Well, to be fair, the comments section of her video is monitored and purged of negativity, so while it may appear that most people who have seen it agree with her, that's just because it's impossible to express any other opinion.
That's because her fans are children. They will grow up too and reach the same conclusions the rest of us have. Even if she does come back, her days are numbered.
You know a situation is bad when Trisha paytas is the rational one. I actually feel bad for Trisha, no matter what you think of them they deserves basic human respect. Colleen is very talented at being hateable
Same! Especially since Trisha has BPD, has to feel like the end of the world to be rejected like that when you don’t have a deeper self reserve to scoop out of while being too scared to turn to anyone for comfort. I wish I could convince her and Adam that people care about them.
@@EEsUA-camChanelexactly. I don’t care how absurd Trisha acts on camera, no one deserves to be treated as less than human especially behind their back by someone they considered a friend. As for Adam, I was groomed as a 17 year old as well and it was bad enough feeling gaslit into thinking I was the problem, I can’t imagine having thousands of people against me. I want to give them both a hug.
Additionally to that she's been doing good recently and I actually think she's starting to get better and act responsibly so I really hope that this doesn't take too much of a toll on her and she can just carry on with her life and focus on herself and her kid
josh (colleen’s ex husband) is so incredibly nice and genuine. i used to work as a barista in his hometown & could not figure out why he looked so familiar until a coworker told me he was colleen’s ex & i remembered them & the divorce hitting youtube. him & his current wife were probably in my top 5 favorite regular customers & i cannot be happier for him that he dodged that bullet. so glad he is openly giving support and validation to the victims or her heinous acts 👏🏽 incredibly sorry for him that he is so often associated with that sorry excuse of a person
I have a feeling it's much worse than that. She put the song on a streaming platform (forgot which one) which means she can copyright claim videos that use her apology or clips of it. She probably made it a song so she could have some control over the response videos that would obviously come her way.
How disgusted her children will be when they are old enough to realize the warped criminal things she’s done to children and animals. That will be her worst punishment.
If these actions reflect who she really is as a person, she will guilt trip her kids for believing "internet rumours" instead of their own mother that has done everything for them. Some people truly believe they have never done anything wrong or don't care about it as long as they get what they want..
if this is who she is as a person those kids would and will suffer regardless of her actions online. she will be a manipulative and abusive person to those kids and this situation being public is just an extension of the abuse they will certainly go through.
I fear that since her and her brother seem to have had this behavior normalized to them by their family members, that it will be normalized to her children too. I hope they will see through it as they get older, I want this cycle to end.
She has a creepy brother… meaning those kids will grow up having the “weird uncle” that Colleen made Miranda’s character have for all these years (also just tossing in the allegations that she used a disabled family member as inspiration for her caricature version meaning there may already be a creepy uncle in the family)
I just noticed for the first time that in the description for her "hi." song/video, it just says: _"i do not condone or support any kind of online bullying or hate towards anyone. ever."_ Not only is this disgustingly ironic, given everything that's coming out, but.. she really truly did seem to think that people would be on HER side after she posted this video, so much so that she felt the need to put a disclaimer telling people not to harass the folks who's claims she was "addressing." 🤦♀️ She's delusional.
im not a fan of trisha. they have caused a lot of harm to *multiple* different communities with their actions. however, they did not deserve to have their nudes leaked, sent to minors, MADE FUN OF; any of that!!! that was simply vile.
What's horrifying to me is that she makes all those "jokes" about an abusive uncle as Miranda Sings but the uncle to her own children is almost certainly a predator.
@@whatever7959And she's very likely the kind of mother that will constantly dismiss any inconvenient feelings and that puts them in even greater risk of being victimized. (I have firsthand experience)
*kids she has 3 kids. Her son Flynn, and her twins Wesley and Maisy. She really ruined their lives. Because of her, they might have to suffer when/if she ever goes to jail or at least is punished for her actions. Poor kids😥
There are videos out there of the kids being treated odd by the family. Like I saw one earlier where a boy said “I have butterflies in my pen!s” and an adult parroted it back and laughed. Then the little boy said “I have a baby in my pen!s” and the adult laughed and copied the kid again. I’m gonna assume the adult talking was the dad, but I’m not sure as I don’t know their voices well enough to tell. So I seriously think those kids are in danger.
Even with Johnny being an adult she could probably still be charged with sending revenge porn because she shared Trisha’s explicit photos without her consent.
People are making concerning comments about Johnny being an adult. Yes, he was a victim who somewhat became complicit but he's nowhere on the level as Kodee and was definitely groomed by Josh. I don't know why people are letting this slide and acting like it's just a sour grapes situation for him when he was literally abused by his employer and potentially not paid?
Idk US laws but sb in another comment was pointing out how since the content was available behind a paywall it might not count as revenge porn; tho hopefully she can actually be sued in some way for that
Honestly, the timing speaks volumes. Colleen was insecure about her body after giving birth so needed to tear Trish down about hers. Colleen has a habit of body shaming and fixating on weight, to the point she's actually triggered body image issues in some of her fans. Also, in one of Adam's videos he does say that he was in touch with Trish about the NSFW stuff but she was reluctant to believe him. Unfortunately, it took Johnny leaking the stuff online for Trish to see the truth. Just a foul situation all round. 😔
I said so when she first released that ukulele apology video; she only did it as a song so that she could copyright it and use it to take down criticism. I'm convinced she planned that and did it deliberately.
I find it extremely ironic how she tries to debunk the child grooming rumours by singing a child-like, nursery rhyme sounding, sing-along song.. I mean congratulations Colleen, you played yourself! 😂👏 (Over 800 likes? Damn thankyou so much haha didn't think this would blow up!) (1k Geez Louise, mom look I'm famous..😂 Thankyou guys!)
@@Charharr Haha yessss! Oh dear oh my, Colleen really just decided; welp can't go against video evidence may as well go down with a tune to my demise! 😂
As someone who has been sexually harassed by men and women It's that "it was only meant as a joke you let me do it" manipulative attitude that sickens me. I had a guy try and successfully unhook my bra in a public library after I punched him in the face and told him no and he just smiled and told me he liked me or some shit but I remember being a minor or very young and cried on the bathroom. Another time he blocked me against a wall and he told me because I didn't instantly tell him it was messed up because I got scared I supposedly liked it And he was in his twenties while I was a minor. And he would hurriedly jump in my DM's and say he won't do it again only to repeat his actions and the adult in charge of the club didn't kick him out because she was also a cunt. So yes, it does matter that a grown ass adult woman is doing this to children who do not know any better or put their trust in an adult to treat them appropriately and she didn't........ The clips from these shows make me feel sick.
First off, I am so sorry that you went through all that bs. Second, I agree with people when they say that if the gender roles in Colleen's controversy were reversed, it'd probably be an bigger ordeal. In other words, if Colleen were a man or whatever, and Adam and the other minors were say like girls, then people would instantly be trying to take her down.
@@berrisfueller6221 yes, I do believe if Colleen was male she would be behind bars until the situation was further investigated and she would already be in a courtroom like setting. But because she's a female "entertainer " if you can call her that, more like professional gas lighter who is playing dumb and her victims are mostly male not including people from her shows it's annoying to see her be able to get away with a lot more. I think people like her need to be made am example of, evidence collected, and a statement put our regardless of gender that kind of power dynamic with fans shouldn't be tolerated or any person for that matter not just UA-camrs . And thank you , I know it's weird to read someone's story related to Colleen stuff but my point was as someone who has been manipulated and felt to be "othered" and told by other adults I was making a big deal out of supposedly nothing and that I was the problem I know what it's like first hand to be in those kids shoes and it sucks.
Disturbing how similar the personality of Colleen and Illuminaughti, makes you really think how many other narcissistic people who have big fan bases there are
Also for anyone who thinks she isn't doing anything wrong just change her gender to a man. If it's wrong for an adult man then it's wrong for an adult female. It's time we apply equal punishment for equal offenses
If you want to see Colleen face legal consequences, I’d recommend contacting the California attorney general’s office and demand they look into it. If enough people contact them, they’re guaranteed to at least want to figure out why people keep emailing them about it.
@@justarandomperson778 it shouldn't make any difference as long as she is an American citizen based in Cali, which she is. Feel free to drop them an email
Using "it's a character" as an excuse for her behavior is like Anthony Hopkins claiming it is okay for him to actually eat people because he's "in character" as Hannibal Lecter. When you actually do the thing that is the problem, it doesn't matter if you're "in character" or not
You and Swoop are the only two people that I’ve seen actually use Trisha’s pronouns. Thank you for that, even though they are a joke on the internet, misgendering is not okay. Also how is all of this going to affect Colleen’s kids?
@ville__ the bitch is blatantly and obviously gaslighting, she barely even mentioned what she did in her apology. Adam has shown receipts proving he's right, she skated over everything. She's fucking thirty and he was a child. He is a victim. I get you're probably a fan and you're probably a child, but that makes this comment worse. You won't want to hear this but teenagers are easily manipulated by older people because older people understand the world better. You can be incredibly smart and fall for something you don't understand yet. Don't talk to her. You should stay far away. You will wind up regretting it later in your life. If you do let yourself be manipulated by her, regardless of when you wind up regretting it I want to tell you that I'm sorry it happened to you and it's not your fault.
@ville__gosh you sound like a bot. You just keep writing the same comment over and over again and it's honestly pathetic that you keep trying to defend them. I don't understand how you can believe they're innocent, especially with so much damning evidence. In addition, the argument in your video is very flawed and biased. It is not well researched and is basically more of an opinion than it is some so-called proof. Sincerely, I hope you'll be able to come to your senses and realize all the damage Colleen has done to so many people. They are very much not a good person and absolutely *not* in the right.
trisha paytas has matured beyond belief since she had her baby. no one can deny that. old trisha would’ve turned the camera on and sobbed and destroyed colleen’s career but instead she was calm and collected. i’m genuinely so proud of her. even before this whole situation you could tell she had matured. having a baby was the best thing for her honestly.
Colleen was never friends with Trisha. She was always out to make fun of her, she makes fun of overweight people. She was NEVER friends with Trisha. Trisha mightve considered her a friend, but Colleen never considered her a friend.
I keep thinking about her children. Her baby. What she did and how she behaved victimized a lot of kids, and now her own children will feel the repercussions. As a mother, I don’t know how I could explain this behavior and this scandal to my daughter. Thinking about her kids should really bring this all home for her.
I saw a comment on her song video where they were basically saying "She would never do something like that! She has kids!" I keep stating this, and I still stand by it- Just because somebody has a family of their own, doesn't make them anymore innocent or incapable of doing sick and twisted things like what Colleen has done. How many times do you hear about murderers or sexual predators having a family of their own, seeming like a normal and good person? It's so common! Just because Colleen has children of her own, that doesn't mean that she's not incapable of sexualizing children and speaking to them in such ways!
not surprised that there are adult men who love colleen's "humor" she's created an entire audience of potential victims, obviously predators would want to hang around
That's like how Eugenia Cooney makes content involving children's media, resulting in a lot of very young people in her fan base and then she also panders to the adult male ana-fetishists who prey on the young teens that idolise her. That was why her discord closed, paedos using it as a place to find young, vulnerable people with EDs to creep on and give 'tips' to about their EDs. Eugenia initially didn't want to do anything about these people because they were 'nice' to her and that apparently mattered more than the fact that very young people were in danger.
@@lovecatxx Wowwwww I didn't know about all of that. Sketchy as heck. I knew people had beef with her for how she promotes EDs but didn't know it was because of that in particular.
Honestly....I feel terrible for all the victims in this situation but I really feel bad for Trisha as well. I'm getting the feeling they are genuinely trying to be better than they used to be and this has happened :/ It's one thing to be sending nudes around behind someone's back, which is awful on it's own, but imagine your nudes were being sent to a minor and the minor had been groomed to the point that they thought it was okay. Disgusting.
I really wish that UA-camrs' actions were taken more seriously by the law. I feel like Onision and Shane Dawson faced no repercussions for their actions or for what they were accused by the law, and I have a sinking feeling the same will happen with Colleen
I don’t remember who but a group of youtubers did a video where they pretended to defend youtubers in court, one person who actually had a law degree was given Shane Dawson and it turns out that, unfortunately Shane is considered not guilty by law (for the potential act of him fooling with his cat 😭😭😭)
What’s insane is I have a ex gf who reminds me of Colleen A LOT. She admitted to me sending fandom corn to minors. In 2016 we were dating and we were 22/23. We went to a convention and met some kids in the same fandom. I was like “hey hi” but she told me TWO WEEKS LATER she created a group chat with these kids and wanted me to meet up with them in a park without the parents and I said “Im not going to a park to hang out with a bunch of 12 year olds” which she took great offense too and basically called me ageist??? Yeah I dumped her so fast
I honestly don’t understand why she hasn’t been arrested yet. My minor cousin was arrested and had to go to court because she opened a text message of a nude picture of her classmate that was being sent around. A lot of kids got into trouble over it for just opening their texts and seeing the photo even if they weren’t directly taking part in the bullying of that student. I try to be open minded. Kids can be mean as hell and stupid as shit. I’m even accepting of 18 and 19 doing stupid shit because they’re still teens. They’re still kids in my eyes (I won’t go into why I think the age of consent should actually be lifted to 20 rather than 18, that’s for another time) This woman was in her 30s sending nudes to minors. She was a child icon sending her fans naked pictures of her so called friend. She should absolutely be in jail. If she were a man I’m sure she would be! Just know, There are no statue of limitations for felony CP which sending nudes to minors is.
@@justkiddin84100% agreed. If she was a dude, she no doubt would of been arrested and in jail…. Not a doubt in my mind … Just picture if a 31 (at the time) year old man was asking minor children to “send pics” of their @ss….. or a 31 year old man sent nude photos of Trisha paytas to minor children and commented on the photo…. Or if a 31 year old man was texting (group chat) under age children and talking to them about “their first sexual experience”…. Or if a 31 year old man was asking for minor children to put tampons in their mouth and send photos of it… Or if a 31 year old man was asking about minor females starting their period…. Or if a 31 year old man was asking minor children about what s.exua.l positions they liked…. 100% that 31 year old man would of been arrested already…. Also…. What’s coming to light now about s.exua.l abuse in Hollywood of children …. Maybe there is a more sinister thing going on here…. At first I was thinking she was just very bizarre and weird…..now… I’m starting to wonder if she’s an actual, true groomer… grooming children for some sort of real s.exua.l abuse….. Because everyone including her very own brother, was talking to children inappropriately…. There is more going on here….
She's the conductor of the toxic gossip train. and the stationmaster. She's even the toxic gossip. So it's really quite an efficient self-sustaining operation she's got going
"she didn't intend to harm anyone." My dad didn't intend to harm me when he didn't feed me as a child because his narcissistic personality disorder was so bad that he forgot I needed food, but guess what? I was harmed
I've only been sober for little over a month and knowing someone else is 3.5 years sober really helps. But it hurts to know people think less of other who struggle with addiction. I also know what it feels like to live with a toxic abusive person so I really feel for Josh and Adam and anyone else hurt by colleen
My dad has been sober from alcohol for over 30 years and my mom sober from narcotics for almost 20 years. You got this! One day at a time, be kind to yourself, and actually let yourself heal and forgive yourself for any fucked up thing you may have done on your subdtance ❤
Firstly- congrats on a month! The earlier times are the hardest from my understanding. Second- I don't know if it makes a difference but I definitely don't look down on you. I've never drank (for context, I'm 34) because I was abused by an alcoholic but I know you're fighting a battle here, not an inherently terrible person. And most importantly- you're doing the work, you actively fighting it. That's badass and I'm proud of you. I know it doesn't undo the stigma but my point is to let you know there are people out that, even with justification to be biased, don't hold your struggle against you. Keep it up- you're proving those idiots wrong every day and they could never fight that hard. (off topic shoutout to predictive text nearly making me say I was abused by an alchemist, I needed that giggle)
No one cares about josh being sober or not. Josh is also guilty of similar stuff. He gave his number to a young person as well. Manipulated them. He was complicit in all this.
…..she seriously thinks “it’s a joke” or “he asked for them” are good excuses for sending explicit shit to a literal minor….I’m gonna let that set in because that’s not how that works.
For real. It's so sad because I remember getting those custom dolls and crying because they meant a lot. Those dolls are hella expensive, they can be between 100 and 300 dollars. Matching dolls are a symbol of friendship, which is fucked up, because that friendship was violated.
It is heartbreaking and I hope she can find a friend that like Trisha herself and maybe take a break from social media influencers. I know there good people out there but the bad overshadow them.
I’m 23 and teach middle school, I can’t even begin to think what made her believe this was okay. Despite being close in age to my kids, part of the same generation AND having similar communication styles, I obviously recognize that they are literally CHILDREN. I have the desire to educate and serve as a mentor, and hopefully be some form of a second parent. I’m 23. She was 27?!?! AHHHHHHH When I was a kid, I always thought she used her character to justify her actions as some sort of loophole. I wonder what happened to her to make her think this way. It would not justify her behavior, but I’m curious. I’m glad I never became a fan of hers and just thought of it as this weird fake personality.
You know what, no matter how insane these all are, I'm actually relieved to know that the parents who were in those live shows were smart enough to understand what was wrong with Colleen. Also, it's insane that her adult fans have already came out to talk about how disturbing her shows were years before Adam even came out with his allegations. It's so messed up to think that the reason she got away with this for so long was because majority of her viewers are kids who don't know any better. She groomed these kids into becoming her "army". She urged kids into dressing suggestively so she could sexualize and objectify them infront of hundreds of people. She made a community of kids that are desensitized with grooming and power abuse and sexual harrassment so that when she's in trouble, they'd blindly protect and defend her. To them, this is normal. They've grown accustomed to it that they don't really understand how messed up this situation is. She buried little seeds inside these kids head. She'd talk shit about someone in their group chat so those kids would hate that person. She'd urge them to attack them and we have proof of that. That is not just speculation. She sends them as if they're her minions. She made these kids do her bidding. She's conditioning them to do everything she wants them to do. That's not just grooming, that's some cult stuff. I'm pretty sure that's cult leader behavior.
As someone who grew up in a high demand, high control religion, these are absolutely cult building tactics that I’ve seen firsthand. As often is the case with cult leaders, she has done criminal acts and she needs to be in prison.
God I'm genuinely so sad for Trisha, and the way she handled this was so real and mature. I hope this is the first kind of turning point we see of her, like the first genuine change.
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To anyone saying "Oh, well she's just playing a character," let me quote the amazing Robert Pattinson:
"Isn't it funny how whenever some says they're playing a character, it's always a character that happens to be an asshole?"
good quote
He’s right.
This!!!
If its not a movie its not a character because the material is all her. Comes from her brain, not some show writer and she just happens to play it.
@@tylerhelena11 That’s not quite it, but the thought counts.
People gotta stop calling the ukulele video an apology. She didn't apologise, she just denied everything.
Yes!!!! That god awful monstrosity of a song was nothing but a big f you to her victims
And now...a cash grab
yeah like at multiple points she specifically says that's not what she wants to do. It was really just another way for a manipulative person to try to paint herself as the victim (and it was clever because making it in song and then copyrighting the song is a devious way to give her recourse against other people using the "apology" in their videos).
It was honestly a poor attempt at a diss track imo
I’ve been thinking this. It clearly wasn’t even intended to be an apology
I’ve seen some commentary youtubers call it an “unapology video”
As they should!!!
We should really call what she did to Trisha what it is, revenge porn, which is another sex crime on top of sending it to a MINOR.
Nah, the sending to a minor part is wrong ofc but sending videos/images of a pcrnstar is NOT revenge pcrn. She sells nude photos and videos of her having sex and engaging in sexual acts, it’s simply behind a paywall. It’s no different to pcrn sites that charge a subscription to access their premium videos, and people sharing the content they paid to access for free on Reddit pcrn subs. Leaking only fans content is not revenge pcrn and to label it as such does a disservice to actual victims. If I have an only fans, anyone can purchase that content, and if it gets into the hands of someone who didn’t purchase it the only “harm” that was done is that it was not paid for, so piracy essentially. An example of actual revenge pcrn would be if I send a nude to my boyfriend and he then puts it on the internet after we break up.
@@DosYeobos Actually I do think what Colleen did to Trisha falls in the revenge porn category (or borderlines). The example you gave is a correct example, but I believe the term is broader than just a previous partner spreading explicit photos without consent (it feels like the most common tho).
The definition of revenge porn:
revealing or sexually explicit images or videos of a person posted on the internet, typically by a former sexual partner, without the consent of the subject and in order to cause them distress or embarrassment.
Although Trisha did release those photos on the internet herself, I think the fact Colleen was sending them to people who weren’t suppose to have access to her content just to make fun of her is at least in the grey area around revenge porn.
Edit: I think it’s also the fact Colleen is literally famous and sending to fans also plays into the fact that it’s not just two friends talking badly about an adult content maker. It is far more public than a private conversation looking at the bigger picture.
@@DosYeobosI believe it IS revenge porn. Even if Trisha put the photos out there herself, it was behind a pay wall. Her former friend, Colleen, sent these photos to fans as a way to shame her and make fun of her body. In what way is this not revenge porn?
@@DosYeobos Even if it isn't revenge porn, which i think it is, it is still illegal because those pornographic images and videos are behind a paywall which falls under copyright, due to the Digital Millennium Copyright Act (DMCA). Also this was talked about in the video but it would also be illegal if she sent them to Adam, and even if she didn't send it to Adam, it would still be illegal and the victims have proof of it.
@@jandjproductions2817 Copyrights disputes between individuals often don't qualify for prosecution under criminal copyrights law, so people rarely go to jail for them, but showing p*rnography to a child under 16 falls under US federal obscenity laws that protect minors, and I believe some states can have stricter laws around that as well, which would make her actions truly criminal. Revenge p*rn is also criminal as it's sexual exploitation.
seeing the actual context of the “cheeseball” joke is shocking. the whole joke… is her teaching kids how to go on a date with an adult, in the woods where “no one can hear you”, and encouraging them to touch her genitals. and you know this is the exact joke she’s making because she follows it with “it’s not what it seems like, there’s snacks in my pants”. she knows what it seems like, and it seems like an adult molesting a child. she doesn’t pretend the Miranda character is a child, evident by her telling the nine year old boy she’s too old for him. it’s actually insane. the whole entire skit is a grooming and molestation joke! that doesn’t happen by accident.
Imagine if a grown up male did the same thing with a girl. _Colleen has been on my radar for years, and I cannot wrap my head around the fact that she has gotten away with all of this for such a long time. When I posted about her on some parenting forums I was attacked...._ 😡
Her character is 39, but speaks, writes, and perceives things like a child. The character can't spell or do simple math. Yet she *insists* that the character is just based on her old egotistical theater classmates... sure Colleen. Seems like her way of making fun of intellectual disabilities and using that underdeveloped mindset to attract children at the same time with poop jokes. Her ability to do so much wrong all at once is impressive in the worst way
The same thing happened with the underwear incident. Literally immediately after a child asked her to send him her underwear, she commented that his parents would think that her doing that would be so inappropriate and upset them a lot, but she still did it anyway! Like she makes it so obvious that she KNOWS the things she's doing are wrong but she just does them anyway. After a while it becomes either baffling or damning evidence that there's a certain p or g word reason why she's doing these things. Like, even if a child asked her to send her underwear, why would she actually agree to it when she immediately responds to the request by admitting she knows she shouldn't be doing it
Also think about all the teams of people and corporations who have funded Miranda Sings shows/ netflix series etc. etc. they all thought it was a GOOD idea?! A GOOD PROFITABLE idea?! Does she remain delusional about the whole thing because she's lived her whole adult life surrounded by others who encourage this behaviour? I mean she's been popular up until now so I think a lot of us were also delusional about how inappropriate it all was. I completely agree with what you're saying by the way, just adding my 2 cents thinking about how many people were in on her 'jokes' :(
@@loganmiller7827if I understood what I saw in the live stream correctly, she offered him the bra first and then he tweeted about it after her suggesting it. Just to contribute to the context- or def correct me/let me know if I missed something.
Your 30 second apology for mispronouncing her name was better than her 10 minute one for literal crimes
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It actually included the word sorry unlike Colleen's lol
@@babzsichu Now, now, don't jump down into misinformation station. She said sorry exactly twice. Both times to be condescending to the audience. "Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't realize - That all of you are perfect, so please, criticize" and "I know that you wanted me to say that I was 100% in the wrong - Well, I'm sorry, I'm not gonna take that route"
It'd be better if she never actually said those words, that way she could pretend she never knew what the word for it was. Better excuse than whatever she comes up with when she inevitably comes back.
@@neryn9020well she still never said sorry for the actual problem.
@@neryn9020you're right 😂😭 both times she said sorry it was super condescending LOL
In my opinion the saddest part of this whole situation is and as pathetic as it sounds, Colleen is the oldest person in the situation, but is still to this day, acting the most childish!
I think both sexually and financially abusing children is a lot sadder
@@Raya-ir4tmI'm out to destroy her though :D
She's so flagrant about how little she cares. "I was younger" but I'm 27 and I wouldn't dream of talking to a teenager about my sex life 👀 totally gross
yeah she was younger but she was still 30-31
@annabanton5442 exactly my point. I'm 3 years shy of how old she was when she did all this weird crap and it wouldn't even cross my mind to send someone's nudes to a minor or talk to them about my sex life or even worse theirs
Me too im 27 now and when I was 23-25 I was a high school teacher and I couldn’t ever imagine crossing boundaries like that with teenagers
im 20 and i couldnt possibly think about getting literal children to put tampons in their mouths for my sick fetishes… shes so f’ing gross
I’m 24 and I have an 18 year old coworker. I literally feel like I’m interacting with a child. I can’t imagine being in your 30s and wanting to be friends with 12 year olds
Fun Fact: In "Ralph Breaks The Internet", Ralph crushes someone's avatar and disconnects their internet that person being Colleen Ballinger. So, you could say Ralph tried to stop her from messaging more minors.
What a hero
What a G
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True hero fashion
Another UA-camr named Film Cooper explained it best - she's not grooming these children because she's sexually attracted to them, but because she wants to create her own personal army who would do anything and everything for her without second-guessing their actions. She succeeded for a few years, but I think she genuinely didn't think that these kids would grow up and realize the f*cked up things that she's done.
I'll have to watch his video! 🖤
She is obsessed with their sexuality though. Trying to get them to stick their hands down her pants. Asking about their period and virginity status is. What their fav sex position is. Asking for pictures of their body parts. The sexual fanfiction. There is just so much
Well she’s never grown up herself and realised the fucked up things she’s done, so the logic checks out lmao
absolutely. people are calling her a pedophile and i think that’s a little off base
I fucking love his take on it 😂
if nothing else, colleen NEEDS to be in jail for sending explicit material to minors because that is considered a federal crime
Federal crime = federal prison. Jails are run by counties and cities.
Female predators need to be taken more seriously by society.
@@brandoniswhoiamabsolutely!! Whatever gender they are, they should be held accountable for their crimes.
Unfortunately this might not happen since Adam doesn't have the texts himself and I'm sure Colleen has the money to buy the best lawyer and get away with things scott free. If nothing else I hope at least her following is lost after this...
Then report her
I feel like "Colleen" was a character like "Miranda". The real Colleen is the person we are seeing now, a plotting, self-centered, mean girl with a lack of remorse or empathy for what she's done.
Exactly!
This is really common with narcissists. They have a seperate face they put on for the public but truly they are just plotting away at everything for self-gain. Manipulatively.
I genuinely think she suffers from a personality disorder, be that narcissm or something like sociopathy (little to no remorse or empathy, high sense of self, warped perception of situations, ...). People with these disorders often hide behind a mask. Seeing their "real" self is very uncommon, especially if you're not a family member but someone of the public. They put on whatever mask they think you'll like and only when you criticize them or question their image, does the mask begin to crumble.
@@LaraOlinayeah I get HUGE narc tendencies from her and also her lack of empathy and self awareness is truly something else... Totally agree
@@LaraOlinaI think you’re right. And I have an inkling that the more people are in the spotlight and the more attention they get, this sort of behavior gets exacerbated
Trisha showed Coleen WAY more grace than she deserves. You can see how hurt she is. She did not deserve that. (And yes I know Trisha has been awful in the past but she absolutely did not deserve, nor does anyone deserve, to have their nudes leaked, especially to a minor.)
This is, uh... not the priority right now.
Her explicit material was shown to children.
Oh boo ho, lost a friend- *who cares!?* Kids were hurt using her image.
@@JoshSweetvale In what way is the comment you responded to saying the contrary?
@@JoshSweetvalecrazy how you feel as if focusing on the victims shouldn’t include ALL the victims…. Almost as if you think some criminal actions are okay…..
@@maddieb.4282 Prioritize.
The fact that Trisha’s response is making her look more mature than Colleen is insane
And considering the fact is that Trisha is one of the most problematic UA-camrs in this platform, That just shocks me. Still don’t like her, but I do feel bad for her that Colleen would pretend to be her friend just for her own personal gain.
The day that Trisha acts mature is the day that the world ends... and I think the world just ended...
I haven’t seen anyone comment on this but here’s how Colleen is a groomer, she’s grooming children to be perfect targets for pedophiles. She might not have the intent of sexualizing minors but she is setting them up perfectly for someone who does. Normalizing this behavior for kids as if trusted adults act like this. It is AWFUL what she has done.
@wormie1312 this perspective makes it way harder to not think she grew up with some sick adults in her childhood. Not an excuse, just a sad realization
Exactly. Also she is then using them as free or very cheap labor. Johnny’s story is awful.
Colleen's only defense is that she's a stupid loser, which can only go so far when you're a woman in her 30s with a long history of horrible behavior. After a certain point, intent doesn't matter, and she's a child predator no matter how she tries to spin it. The most charitable explanation is that she's a disgusting person that never had anyone tell her no, but that's still no excuse, especially when you consider that she committed actual child sex crimes.
Good point.
THANK YOU! whether or not she actually does anything to those children, just teaching them that this is acceptable behavior (its not) and that this is a normal way to interact (its not) can be incredibly damaging. Because those children are then so much more susceptible to accepting this kind of behavior from other adults, without realizing that there is anything wrong with it and that its inappropriate.
So then you get a kid who doesn't think they'd anything weird about reaching an adults pants for "snacks" especially because they not only got positive reinforcement for it before (with the audience laughing and having a good time), but their parents also have our their tacit approval by allowing it to happen and doing nothing. So the next time they're coached to do something like that, by an adult who DOES have indenting to hurt them, they think it's just a fun, silly game and have no idea that they're being preyed join and groomed for abuse.
And as someone who suffered that kind of abuse as a child under the guise of "playing grown up games" this shit makes me absolutely sick
Paired with that “my boney little back” line, I guarantee she befriended Trisha so she could have a fat person to make fun of and feel better about herself.
this! especially given her habit of body checking and shaming with adam and other fans
She has a LONG history of body shaming and slut shaming. She one hundred percent only got close to Trisha to make fun of her and try to feel better about herself
yeah i gave the slightest benefit of the doubt before, but even at the time the bony little back line was so infuriating because it sounded like a way to humble brag about being skinny while pretending to be a victim from the people she victimized at the same time. knowing what she thinks about people who are fat now...
Yikes
Yess u can see how she was empty when Trisha talked to her
The fact she goes “sorry to the parents who were dragged by their kids” means she knows her audience is full of children
Exactly! Every once in awhile you’ll see someone doing audience work with the one kid who came to a show that’s not meant for kids and clearly the parents knew and decided it was okay for the kid and the family. That is not what Colleen did. She intentionally brought children onstage. She can’t pretend that she didn’t know there were children there
Last month on UA-cam has been a fever dream:
-Ballinger’s Ukulele vid
-Trisha Paytas being tolerable in video
-EDP’s pitiful apology
-Ian & Anthony regaining control of Smosh
I’d say Smosh’s rebirth and iNabber hitting 1M are wins~
Ong like wtf is even going on these days
Honestly, Ian and Anthony regaining control of Smosh has been the best thing from the last month.
@ville__bro stop commenting on all the Colleen videos a little obsessed
@ville__ hey dawg where'd ya get that crack you're smoking. seems to be very potent
@ville__ Look bud, I don’t know if Colleen is trying to work you over behind the scenes but maybe you should be paying attention to these vids. She doesn’t give a crap about you, and if she ever thought you to be a problem she would have you attacked as well. For your own sake, please look at just look at Colleen and what you are actually defending. She will toss you aside just as quickly as she has done to many others who loved her.
I really do feel bad for Trisha here. I'm not a fan, but this was a really cruel thing to do. For no apparent reason.
same. trisha has done some terrible things but that doesn’t make what colleen did any less terrible
@@cadyheron9951Trisha is far from perfect but she’s never committed a crime (that I know of)
@@laveyndarschroeder5250legality ≠ morality
For the record, I also feel bad for and sympathize with Trisha in this scenario, but I don’t think it’s right to minimize the terrible things she has done
@@domino6239 no I agree it’s not okay to minimize what Trish has done but it’s also not okay to send someone’s explicit photos to anyone let alone minors. That’s why I said Trish is far from perfect but what Colleen has done is illegal I agree that just because it’s not illegal doesn’t mean it’s morally okay but you can be sympathetic for someone without minimizing what they have done
I have a hard time feeling bad for Trisha because Adam said that she has known about most of the inappropriate allegations that came out about Colleen FOR YEARS and continued to defend her and even BLOCKED AND DELETED COMMENTS THAT WOULD ASK TRISHA TO ADDRESS HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT IT. She never said a fucking word until she became one of Colleens victims, and NOW she wants nothing to do with her. Sorry, but Trisha is not innocent in this either.
It doesn’t matter if YOU think it isn’t that bad. The CHILD thought it was that bad. That’s what matters.
Exactly! Literal CHILDREN felt violated by what she did to them. No context or downplaying of events can make that okay.
Sorry , but it is that bad ! I thought it wasn’t that bad when everything else came out , thought is was a case off someone with really bad self confidence who was trying to be the cool auntie and didn’t realize she was using the creativity of a child before and panicked once something bad came of it and then blame it on a child ! Which is bad enough ! I didn’t however think it was any type off creepy sexual behavior for children ! Just extreme lack of judgement and someone who forgot the ages of the ages of people she interacted with , which is easy in a virtual set ! But sending unsolicited porn to anybody, especially underage people, even for some type of lols , especially to be cruel is just plain insane ! I always thought she wasn’t fine in the head but thought it was due to being dumb but turns out it is much more malicious ! She is a textbook 17 year old mean girl still , despite being almost 40 and that is enough of a lack of common sense ! She what she did was a crime and predatory even if the ultimate goal was making fun of someone or using someone’s creativity for free and not for her own sick sexual gratification ! She is sick !
Not just the child, but their parents or guardians as well.
You are so right. It is classic abusive behavior. I worry for her child
@@SakiBlablablashe is using the character as a way to avoid any responsibilities. She is not dumb she is just using people that think that. She is a predator someone that uses everything to get to children to be close and to be there star. She is dangerous 😳
I don't think a lot of people are grasping the full extent of Colleen's creepiness with this whole situation. She's not just being weird, she's showcasing behaviors that are *pedophilic* and *predatory*. Sending underwear to an underage fan, coercing kids into shoving their hands down her pants- she's a predator. She's a *pedophile*.
Even if she isn’t attracted to minors, it doesn’t matter. She is assaulting and harassing them regardless of her motive
I think most people understand this and are not downplaying the seriousness of the situation
@@christalcavanaugh she most definitely has CP in her possession.
@@christalcavanaughI don't think there's even a "regardless of intent" when she literally forces kids into sexual acts and asks them for nudes
I concur!
So what part of Colleen's entire personality is NOT about making fun of someone? Because she created Miranda to make fun of people, she shared Trisha's content to make fun of her, the chat room seemed to largely focus on making fun of people, her friendships and podcasts all seem to revolve around making fun of people, she pulled kids on stage to put them into situations to make fun of them.
Where exactly does she display any personality that is not somehow directly related to being awful to other people?
She literally made fun of one of her biggest fans (who has painful lifelong chronic illness) by making a character on her Netflix show faking her fibromyalgia for attention. The bigger the fan the more sadistic she seems to be.
Right like I always thought her entire shtick was just cringey and negative
shane dawson said in an interview YEARS ago that when he met her she immediately asked who he doesnt like and basically scouted out people to make fun of and talk bad on
I mean the Miranda sings show on Netflix was pretty brilliant. She’s definitely talented-but also definitely crazy.
Brilliant in what way? I have no desire to watch and I only know the character she plays from all this drama. I’m curious because to me the small amount of it I’ve seen was insufferable lol.
Im 20 and the idea of a 9 year olds hand being anywhere NEAR my pants makes me sick to my stomach. How a 30 year old thinks its funny is beyond me.
congrats on the one million my guy 👍
thank you brother!!
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So so deserved!!! So happy for you!
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Yes!
When your response makes Trisha Paytas' response look measured and thoughtful and reasonable and mature, YOU DONE GOOFED.
I'm shocked more people aren't talking about her creepy ass books. One is made under a children's publisher yet Miranda isn't for children. Sure.
Rachel Oates and Alizee have-and the books are so inappropriate
Sav Writes Books also reviewed the books and discussed the situation from a business/branding perspective.
Lots of people are, actually
Oh they are gross all around.
She got fired from Disneyland or Disney World because she wouldn't stick to the choreography and would start being Miranda.
Imagine Trisha’s video playing in the courtroom as evidence. That would make me so happy to see Colleen’s face as her worst fear is real.
Omg yessssss! It needs to happen!
😅😮😅😅😮yÿÿ😊@@onceyouwheeinyoucantwheeout
I think Colleen referring to the incident with Becky as 'a fart joke' is the most telling part of her whole excuse video. Even if she 100% believes what happened was okay, it very obviously wasn't 'a fart joke'. It ended with a fart joke, but that's demonstrably not the part that Becky cited as the source of her discomfort. The fact Colleen chose to obfuscate it in that way is basically up front proof of dishonest intentions.
It was a queef joke, not a fart joke. And she stood there staring down between that child's spread legs, leering at her. Holding the pose and the direct look so long it was obviously predatory. Then as soon as the sound effect played she leapt away in faux disgust - look how gross this girl is!
She's a monstrous predator. Humiliation fetish is a thing and I believe that Colon Bellender has one.
Although it’s part of the humiliation, and humiliation WAS the “joke”
If she's hiding it, then that means she KNOWS damn well that what she's doing is wrong and that she doesn't care.
knowing that colleen approached Trisha and was getting friendlier with her AFTER Trisha had her baby really rubs me the wrong way
"Not blackface, her legal reps say." is my favorite new 6-word story.
(Irish here) There are really strict laws in Ireland about sharing explicit photos of people without the person in the photos' consent and even stricter laws with regard to sending explicit photos to minors. Even if the person sending the photos is in a different country with different laws, they can be prosecuted by Irish law. So Colleen is fucked if this goes to court.
Sadly, Adam is barely 20 and I don't think he has the means or even the energy to pursue this. It's not quite easy to sue someone who is so much more influential and richer than you.
Irish law student here - logistically it would be unlikely due to the distance and issues of jurisdiction. Even if Adam wanted to pursue this, it probably wouldn't result in any criminal charges. They could sue them in a civil trial but it would likely taken a few years to see any real result. And that's without considering the financial and mental toll of it all. Obviously most people aware of this fucked up situation would prefer a legal consequence for colleen.
That's a really important law, more countries should have it. However it is very unlikely that she will be tried and even more unlikely that she will be extradited there. That takes a lot of co-operation on both countries to facilitate extradition and therefore very unlikely in this situation.
however if she lives in the united states, it is illegal to send sexual content (including pictures of adults) to anyone under the age of 18. She might be possibly tried for that. I wouldn't know how the statue of limitations and the victim being in another country would work with it.
@@catherinedelauro6186 I think it depends on the reason for sending it too. At least, it would have to be proven why she did it.
I'm really looking forward to her bagpipe and banjo apology, this is absolute insanity and extremely disturbing
I'll only care when it's a harmonica from behind bars apology. 😊
@@meghanhenderson8417This is underrated 😭
“This isn’t online drama anymore” it was never “online drama”. Nothing in this story is drama.
Truly and honestly fuck the Beauty Community for turning serious allegations into “drama” and “tea, sis” with “receipts”. Drama is James Charles promoting Sugar Bear Hair over Halo Beauty despite his friendship with Halo’s founder, Tati. Not what happened with that but that event itself. Drama is that TikTok “psychic” trying to sue iNabber for calling her “nutty”. Drama is NOT domestic abuse or child abuse.
It's: 'bad stuff happening to people o'er there.' Also known as *fun.*
There's a reason Hunger Games and Squid Games are popular, and it isn't the 1984 social commentary.
Some people take the argument that Becky "chose to volunteer" or "chose to go to the show" where she was sexually assaulted on stage, but fail to mention the events leading up to it. Becky stated that she dressed in a revealing way because Colleen gave preferential treatment to kids dressing in a revealing way. That is Colleen making the active choice to include a bit in her show that will lead to more kids dressing revealing. She then chose to call up a child dressing in the way she encouraged for a bit that Becky did not dress for, and both physically and socially forced her into a sexual position in front of a large audience of more children. Obviously Becky could not have said "No, I'm not doing that" when she's on stage in front of a ton of screaming kids who idolize Colleen. Becky was a child. Colleen was 30 years old. This is sexual assault.
"Oh but becky chose to dress revealingly!" OKAY BUT WHY DID A 30 YEAR OLD WOMAN TELL A CHILD TO DRESS IN A REVEALING WAY? THAT'S NOT NORMAL. IM NINETEEN AND I WOULDN'T DO THAT!
@@clyne8835
Exactly.
What's scary also is that Becky expressed how there were grown men staring at her in a creepy way, after the show was over...
That was truly disturbing 🤢
Becky even mentioned that she saw Colleen’s eyes widen at her attire, which just has no good interpretations.
I can't get over hearing Trisha use the phrase "mum friend" when talking about this issue. Trisha found out her friend, her MUM friend, used images of her, to commit a sexual crime towards children, and to mock her while doing it.
Stabbed in the back by your mum friend, with revenge porn sent to a minor...that's a new low. I've never heard of Trisha before this, but I agree - I'm embarrassed for Colleen. Trisha seems very sweet and hurt by this.
@@Kiefstimy dude Trisha Paytas is insane and not someone whose judgement you should trust. Not that I’m defending Colleen, she deserves whatever is happening to her, but Trisha Paytas is just as bad as she is.
@@witchykittyy Thank you for your concern, but I'm a nearly 40-something woman. I'm not exactly concerned about trusting a UA-camr's judgement lol
@@Kiefsti eh no they're right. Trisha isn't as bad as Colleen but oh boy she is definitely not an innocent angel.
Say what you want about Trisha, I'm not a fan of them either, but I wouldn't wish what happened to them on my worst enemy. It's an absolute violation.
@@ems3991they’re meant for consuming on the basis that you won’t exploit said person and send them to minors, as an ADULT AND FRIEND you keep it yourself, let’s not do the backhandedness
Trisha is not non binary. Just another thing she lied about before for attention. FYI. Like almost everything else she has hoped on the bandwagon for a few days. She even said she was trans race and trans gender
@@ems3991 she wasn't consuming them, that is the problem. she was sending them to a minor and insulting Trisha's body with said minor, and then she was pretending like that never happened, was in Trisha's house and met her kid.
Absolutely agree. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. And yeah, sure, she put nudes out there and some people are gonna poke fun. But by someone she considered a friend??? And sent to a minor??? Yeah that's vile
@@SLD-bz9soI totally agree! And that's a perfect example
I always think about how Colleen has kids of her own and I would ask her how she would feel if her kids were being groomed, humiliated and treated like her victims.
I mean apparently Adam brought it up and she got super mad and accused him of bringing her child into it and threatening it with violence
I think she already does do that to them. Not accusing her of anything (legally) but I’m genuinely scared for how she treats her kids if this is how she repeatedly behaves with other people
@@Aeiouaaaaaaaaa Yeah she seems like the type who would at the least try to condition them into thinking this behavior is somehow okay.
Idunno in her book she has a chapter about how to make her kids into slaves, once they are toddlers. Granted the book was made before. But she might just be that insane
@@WolfieSilveira that is terrifying-
The Trisha situation could be filled under revenge porn. Which is very illegal.
can it? even if colleen wasnt avenging anything? i eman technically she just wanted to make fun of trisha not take revenge?
@@EdgyBarbieThe only reason it’s called that is because that’s a common scenario. Revenge porn laws cover any explicit photos shared without consent. It doesn’t literally mean things sent as revenge.
@@AgentChaos747 ahhh i see,thanks a lot 🖤
It depends on the terms of service for only fans, if they allow to share pictures obtained in the site then it would be a crime only if shared with minors… It doesn’t count as revenge porn because they weren’t shared in a private setting
@@KatherineAcosta20 afaik only fans content, which is behind a paywall, is illegal to distribute for free. It's like buying a movie and showing it to everyone for free. Also revenge porn can be shared in any setting, it doesn't have to be public. In order to be revenge porn, the explicit pictures only need to be shared with the intent to harm the victim in any way
Colleen is *literally* Shane Dawson 2.0
She refuses to take any real accountability, while also complaining about how everyone won't move on and accept her many deflected and down played apologies. She admits what she can't deny and denies what she can't admit... All of the creepy underage allegations, specifically with fans and of course, purposely and maliciously befriended another UA-camr only to use them and put them down, stabbing them in the back. She even has her own blackface accusation... I mean come on, the parallels between the two are wild!
Dude... she's way worse than Shane ever was... and trust... I'm not a fan of Shane but she makes him look like a saint.
I mean, Shane and her are/were friends right? I distinctly remember videos of them together. Awful people flock to each other to justify their f'ed up actions
@@Kadeda look into what Shane’s done to kids and animals again.
They both even encouraged kids to put "phallic" things in their mouths.... Colleen with tampons in her group chat, Shane encouraging his niece/cousin to slowly eat a hotdog on camera 🤢
To give cultural context with the American Girl Dolls: these dolls are a big deal to young girls in America. They are high quality dolls that cost well over 100 dollars, so usually you only get it as a special gift from your family and most girls growing up I knew wanted one of these dolls. They're seen as so special that women will save their American girl dolls to pass onto their kids.
So in other words, Colleen using American Girl dolls with someone she actually didn't like is extra twisted, because they are dolls of high financial and emotional value.
yeah no american girl dolls that are customized... that's like really special idk how to explain it
Oh yea? I have a niece in America, thanks for the birthday idea!
I never got an American Girl doll of my own and I don't plan on having kids, so if I got one, it would just be for fulfilling my inner child. Much like I still want to get an Easy Bake Oven at 34 😂
@@colleens.279Go and get one. I found a really old and broken dollhouse at the city dump, in 1997 when I was 28 years old, renovating & buying furniture etc has given me so much joy for many, many years. I still "play" with it, all the dollhouse dolls has names and so on. I'm over 50 years old now.( I never got a dollhouse, and I had a sh ^ tty childhood.)
@@NickanMI'm so happy you have dolls and still play with them and it makes you happy! That is amazing!
I give Johnny more grace here. He saw what was happening to Adam and how Colleen could convince people to go after him. He was also sleep deprived, deprived of basic human needs like taking a shower, he was gaslit by her family that what happened was ok, and he was screamed at daily. As an abuse survivor, I understand how fucked your mind gets, and you're convinced by your abuser that you need to protect THEM. I agree that he had the responsibility to come forward knowing that a crime had been committed against a minor. I also acknowledge that Johnny is an abuse victim, and the fear, obligation, and guilt (survivors call it the FOG) influenced his judgement.
I never knew the fog was a real concept with survivors. I remember when I was just out of an abusive relationship, I did call my mind being foggy as well. It was just the best way to describe it.
It’s so true. You aren’t doing any of it consciously, you just do it.
And in spite of all that, Johnny made a complete and sincere apology, taking responsibility for his part in it. He even offered to apologize to Trisha personally, not just publicly. I don’t even think Colleen has acknowledged what she did.
Wow. He really did gaslight everyone. Johnny was no victim. No victim at all.
Johnny was proven a liar ❤️
Tbh it is absolutely insane that some people were SO SURPRISED when shit abt Colleen finally came out. Like if you looked at the book that Colleen wrote for kids that mentions PORN AND HINTS OF INCEST it ALL makes sense. Also HAPPY 1 MILLION
(edit: yes she has a children’s book, she actually has 2 books in total which are called selp-helf, which is the one I was talking abt, and my diarrhe. The titles are how they’re actually spelled too.)
Well I think that's because most of us haven't seen the book lol
@@briannam916 I guess that’s true lol, but I’m rlly surprised that like there wasn’t that big of a deal when it first came out tho. Like there was a good amount of parents complaining about it.
Which one specifically? ... because there are 2, and they're both horrible
@@kaelin_cherise I think it was the “self-help” one, I haven’t checked out the other one, but I know for a fact that im gonna have a field day with it
@@askewhammer Oh wow, what year did that come out? Maybe they weren't posting about it like that?
it isn't just sending it to a minor that is illegal, it's sending it to anybody maliciously. that's revenge porn. that's illegal, period. At the very least, it can call for a lovely easy-win civil case.
That's actually not illegal in a lot of places unfortunately. It absolutely should be.
unfortunately in this case it might not count as revenge porn bc this was paywalled content that anyone could access, not soemthing that trisha only sent colleen. so maybe there's a copyright thing there but even if they're in states where revenge porn is illegal (I have no idea where that is or isn't illegal) it's . not that. it's extremely fucked up but unfortunately not illegal 😁 she deserves to rot for that though fr trisha deserved far better
Johnny was working for Colleen at the time and might have had a civil case for sexual harassment by an employer -- since he was probably a contractor at the time, this would depend on what state he was technically employed in, I've been assuming California -- but unfortunately the window for opening such cases is very small and has passed.
Lordy. There’s so much she should be in court over. But she has hired the same lawyer “Prince” Andrew has, so they will have to be very careful taking her to court.😡
@@aimoth9953pretty sure she can sue for distribution of her IP without her permission
"Gay people can only exist during June"
Damn it, he's onto us
Anyway. Congratulations on the one million my dude, you deserve it
Are you guys like werewolf..and like... Change on 1st of june? Or you just materialises for 30 days a year and then poofed out into another dimension?
@yuki97kira we are like ghosts that are only allowed to roam during June, and only noticed outside of that, on visibility days.
@@yuki97kirawell idk about everyone else, but I have to run back into the woods and return to being the local cryptid, giving paranormal hunters blurry photos and making weird noises to scare campers.
@@yuki97kiraI'm lucky, I live in the land of the future ace population, so I sink back into my sleeper argent mode. I am only allowed to blow my cover during pride week (locally)
@@JDM-is-my-nameDenmark?
It’s rare to see Trisha out of character. Their response to everything is so valid and so on point. It’s horrible and low for someone to attack another person over their physical appearance. I can’t even imagine how painful that was to see. I don’t like them and what they do but I like their response to this horrible situation.
(Not talking about her nsfw stuff, sex work is valid, I mean her controversial shit like fetishizing Jewish people and stuff like that)
Glad to see someone else feels this way, Trisha is absolutely kind of a shitty person but no one deserves that :(
to be fair.... and im not excusing her past behavior.... she has changed a lot since she had a kid for the better.... i feel so bad for her in this instance because she just wanted a friend. and everyone deserves a frined
I’ve always felt bad for Trisha over the fact that she clearly wants a genuine real friendship and I don’t think she’s ever really had it.
@@reddd3369 It's crazy. After I saw Trisha's video, I got so confused. It's so far off from everything we've seen from her, even her extreme meltdowns. It made me wonder how much of all of her past stuff was an over-the-top performance for views because in that video, she's very well-spoken, logical, and calm. And not talking 2 octaves higher!
I'm starting to live by the "I've learned about Colleen against my will" motto.
Yep we need tshirts with a broken ukelele
Where do I put in my pre-order?
Same. Also, I had no idea of who Onision was until a couple of years ago when everything came out. Where can I apply to get my life from before I knew about Onision and Colleen Bellender back?
Same 😂
Her "apology" wasn't even an apology. It was a narcissist twisting the blame onto other people.
🎯
Also in other words she basically said she doesnt want to accept what shes done
especially since she said “i’m sorry” ONE time in the video and that was her saying sorry for not telling everyone she was in the wrong
@ville__ are you blind?
She literally said everything was a lie but never showed how anything was a lie..
i honestly feel bad for colleen's kid, like imagine going to school and everyone knowing your mum's a nonce
Kid*s*
Whats a nonce? Is that british talk for something
@@tylerhelena11 it means p3do
@@tylerhelena11british for p3do
@@tylerhelena11 it's slang for sexual offender
Trisha literally HAS a personality disorder and spoke about how it affected her behavior in the past. The fact that anyone would hold that up as a reason she deserves Colleen's BS is messed up.
An explanation not an excuse 100%
Shes lied about having many personality disorders in the past :/
She's lied about having disorders multiple times. I'm not inclined to believe anything she says. She could say "the sky is blue" and I'd still feel compelled to check.
@@LegendaryDorkKnight so why dou think she'd lie? Do you understand personality disorders?
@@BebbaDubbs I'm not going to give a new response to a stupid question I already answered.
"She's lied about having disorders multiple times."
That's why I think she'd lie.
honestly colleen’s uncle jokes made me think that my uncle was normal and that everyone went through what i did (i was never SA’d, at least that i recall- just made uncomfortable and harassed in that way)
her book only furthered that for me, and it really sucks looking back just to realize that so much of my childhood was spent taking in content that only furthered my trauma (not even just miranda sings, plenty of other creators too, like onision, social repose, eugenia cooney, etc.)
SA isn't just r*pe (if you want a rapid way to understand various types of abuse/assault look up "s*xual violence pyramid" or "r*pe culture pyramid" and look at the images)
Even if it wasn't r*pe itself, your experience and the trauma you got from it is just as valid, I sincerely hope you're better now and have someone to reach out to ❤
I unfortunately have to agree that children with a similar past are drawn to the same creators, and I hadn't stopped to think why I knew so many problematic ones until you pointed this out💔
@@nxcrorat this actually really validated something i’ve been trying to express but haven’t been able to put into words/when i’ve tried i’ve been overlooked or told “nothing happened” so thank you. this helped a part of me i never thought would be able to heal.
Shane reminds me of the cousin that m*lested me, and I formed a kind of trauma bond so badly that I was defending him after his cancellation (thank gods for therapy, well on the path to healing now)
Thats something I wish content creators would touch on more, the jokes aren't just bad for being dirty, the "humor" she's selling to kids sets up situations like yours to be normalized to them. Also her skits where she has random audience members touch her for comedy could also be dangerous since I've seen predators convince kids to do things under the guise of it being funny. It's pretty much doing the grooming work for the predators. Your comment confirmed my thoughts on all of that to unfortunately be a reality. I hope you're doing ok now
Oh honey I’m so sorry you went through that. Sending you all my love 💛💛💛
Not only was she fully aware of her child audience, but, as Rachel Oates pointed out in her videos about Colleen’s books, “Self-Help” was published by Simon and Schuster Children’s. So obviously the book was targeted and marketed towards and for children.
Great notice! I didn't even think of that. 🖤
litteraly saying showing skin is p0rn to her young fanbase.
I'd like to thank Colleen for demonstrating narcissistic behaviors so flawlessly
please stop painting narcissists as automatic bad people.
She would be a perfect case study
Why not? I’m not assuaging the feelings of people who have a tendency towards abuse. FOH!
@@notmycircusnotmymonkeys3627 are you talking to me? npd has nothing to do with abuse. i dont really know how to explain this and i dont have npd so really just. do ur research n talk to someone who knows how to explain this
She is far worse than just a narcissist, she deliberately makes a choice to harm animals, children, and her friends, she’s a psychopath
I remember when i was 8 my friend introduced me to Miranda Sings, at the time i thought she was hilarious but my parents made me stop watching her because they thought she was overly sexual. I used to be so mad because i didn’t understand how she was inappropriate but im so glad they did that because WOW 😟
Your parents were smart.
i used to like miranda sings cause her videos were funny and i thought it was hilarious, i was 14 15 (or 12-13 idk it’s been a very long time) when i found her account, i showed my dad one of her videos and he just thought it was ignorant and silly and to stop watching her videos but i thought they were hilarious and made me happy so i kept watching them.
(i also never saw the miranda videos as sexual prob because i was a child and didn’t understand what was happening)
i got busy with life so i stopped watching her and her colleen vlog videos for idk how many years, 4? and now when i first saw colleens ukulele video “apologising”. i already know this was an “apology” video because i know that she does this when she gets caught or gets in trouble in the past, it’s the type of thing she does but now it’s 2023 i was like:
*”why are you singing? it’s 2023”*
i didn’t know the full context of what’s wrong, until i saw more videos of her, i used to like miranda and colleen and her videos from 2014/2012(?)
but the past few years i missed a lot of things of what was happening to the people what about colleen until now
i am now 20, i used to like her but i’m not sure how to feel about this anymore, i’m going to unsubscribe to her since i don’t really watch her anymore
You're very lucky your parents protected you here! Imagine they didn't realize how inappropriate it was. Imagine if you kept watchinf the show and godforbid entered that online chat or got called on stage at one of her shows. It feels like a lot, if not all of the kids who went on stage were either the victim of her sexual stuff or the victim of her bullying/mean personality. (Like Swoop said better than I can- imagine being Becky. You're called on stage to someone you admired. Wearing a revealing outfit because Colleen encouraged her viewers to do so. And then put into a sexual pose on the stage *and* made the butt of her stupid fart joke. I love bathroom humor and I didn't find it funny at all when I watched the clip, it just felt creepy and mean towards Becky. Like imagine being embarrassed like that in front of a ton of people, that could lead to self esteem issues especially when you're a teen. 😢
I watched a few Miranda Sinfs episodes just to see what her show was about as I never heard od her before a month or so ago. The show felt cringey to me, I couldn't get the humor and the sexual stuff hidden throughout the episodes gave me the creeps.
I feel you really dodged a bullet, even if you never joined that online chat or saw a live show. I feel bad for the kids who watched a lot of her content, like their minds could be corrupted. It's disturbing that 8 year olds were even talking about her. I hope your friend who introduced you got away from it quickly as well. 😢
Part of the problem is parents don't automatically understand what grooming is. A lot of people seem to have blindspots around inappropriate humor and see it as harmless because "it's just a joke". I have a feeling Colleen won't disappear unless someone presses charges or sues her.
female onision
I agree,, I unfortunately was one of those people. But once I learned more I was disgusted and embarrassed that I was ever a fan of hers. Vile behavior 😢
By one if those ppl I mean ignorant to the depths if grooming 😮not a groomer!
I also used to be one of those people, usually I'd just get too swept up in a joke and as long as it's not actual porn or dick or boobs, I thought it was fine cus teens are not as innocent as people think. But once this happened and a few videos I realized, just because teens Might not be innocent children that don't know anything, doesn't mean me as an adult should be joking with them at way.
I def cringe at some of my past actions. Luckily it wasn't anything visual but still shouldn't have gone so far
That's incredibly true. I mean, stranger danger and the idea of NOT trusting every adult with your child only started in like, what, the 70s or 80s? In the 60s and 50s you could let your kids go over to their teacher's house for lemonade after school without a worry. Nowadays that just screams "PEDOPHILE". Older people, particularly parents, know the idea of stranger danger and not leaving their kids with adults they don't trust, but they can't recognise the idea of an adult slowly planting seeds to groom a child to earn their trust, then violating them. That's probably why adults at her shows never really did anything - she's just an entertainer making a joke on stage right? She didn't directly do anything, so surely the jokes are nothing more and nothing less?
I'm not convinced that Colleen ever considered Trisha a friend. Colleen using her "friend" as a punchline reminds me of when my grade school bullies would pretend to be friends with me for a day to make fun of me. What I went through is not nearly as bad as what happened to Trisha, and I can only imagine how much worse the betrayal of trust was for them.
Took me a while to realize I had never been a person’s friend and had always been their preferred, chosen target.
Sounds like what’s happening here.
Bc I went to her house, she went to mine, we were at parties together, she invited me to her birthday after the worst of the abuse was no longer accessible to her, and I went. The assaults happened in my house and I thought it was fine, and something I consented to and wanted.
Like I haven’t personally looked into it but :/ find me a person victimized by a pathological liar’s “friendship” who wasn’t sexualized in some way by them to assert control. Like does that even happen, because they always pick a few people to outlet the bulk of that onto.
I wonder if Trisha could sue her. Trisha’s OF content is a product people pay for. When they pay for it, part of the Terms and conditions is agreeing not to save or distribute the content. Colleen essentially stole it and violated that contract. Of course, giving it to children is the worst part, but it might be another way to hold her accountable.
That could be (or a contributing factor, anyway) why Colleen has her song on iTunes. In case she gets sued or taken to court...
It wasn't OF since that didn't exist it was apparently a thing her and Trisha did as friends
not to excuse trisha’s past behaviours but imo they have really really grown as a person since becoming a parent and how they have conducted themselves during this whole debacle shows that. i hope they stay on this path
i believe they really will. after they had their baby, they seemed to chill out so i have high hopes
@@meep_maap0007that's normally what happenes hormones can be a wild thing sometimes.
I actually feel bad for them. What Colleen did them is absolutely atrocious. Leaking nudes in general is terrible. But, to kids?!?! Trisha is handling this gracefully but I hope they go after Colleen for that. It’s absolutely horrible!
This whole situation is just "but wait, it gets worse" physically embodied
@ville__ nice sock account.
@ville__ You wanna seat on the prison train?
I have a sinking feeling she will re-emerge in a few months and nothing will have really changed for her. I’ve seen too many blind followers in her comments to believe her actual fan base will be affected. The negativity seems to be coming from outside her sphere.
Well, to be fair, the comments section of her video is monitored and purged of negativity, so while it may appear that most people who have seen it agree with her, that's just because it's impossible to express any other opinion.
That's because her fans are children. They will grow up too and reach the same conclusions the rest of us have. Even if she does come back, her days are numbered.
Yeah like Shane Dawson! Still having 19 million subscribers 🥲
i hope she's affected and gets sent to jail. then we won't have to worry about her fanbase
That's literally how it always happens
You know a situation is bad when Trisha paytas is the rational one. I actually feel bad for Trisha, no matter what you think of them they deserves basic human respect. Colleen is very talented at being hateable
Same! Especially since Trisha has BPD, has to feel like the end of the world to be rejected like that when you don’t have a deeper self reserve to scoop out of while being too scared to turn to anyone for comfort. I wish I could convince her and Adam that people care about them.
@@EEsUA-camChanelexactly. I don’t care how absurd Trisha acts on camera, no one deserves to be treated as less than human especially behind their back by someone they considered a friend. As for Adam, I was groomed as a 17 year old as well and it was bad enough feeling gaslit into thinking I was the problem, I can’t imagine having thousands of people against me. I want to give them both a hug.
Additionally to that she's been doing good recently and I actually think she's starting to get better and act responsibly so I really hope that this doesn't take too much of a toll on her and she can just carry on with her life and focus on herself and her kid
You know it's bad when TRISHA is the rational one
@@swampratguttergoblin I think part of that change is because of her child, a lot of people become more mature once they become a parent
josh (colleen’s ex husband) is so incredibly nice and genuine. i used to work as a barista in his hometown & could not figure out why he looked so familiar until a coworker told me he was colleen’s ex & i remembered them & the divorce hitting youtube. him & his current wife were probably in my top 5 favorite regular customers & i cannot be happier for him that he dodged that bullet. so glad he is openly giving support and validation to the victims or her heinous acts 👏🏽 incredibly sorry for him that he is so often associated with that sorry excuse of a person
I really don't think that was an apology song. It was her swan song. She knows she's in trouble and this might be her last way of making money.
Yeah, no that’s EXACTLY what it is. It was never about taking accountability, it was an immature “fuck you haters, make me rich while you cancel me✌🏽”
I have a feeling it's much worse than that. She put the song on a streaming platform (forgot which one) which means she can copyright claim videos that use her apology or clips of it. She probably made it a song so she could have some control over the response videos that would obviously come her way.
@@Zeli2tearshe’s not making money from that video tho
@@Jack-zj1ugexcept she made that song an actual song you can buy. On top of that, she’s copyright claiming anyone who uses it in videos
@@Jack-zj1ugunfortunately she’s decided to sell it on itunes for $10 ;-;
How disgusted her children will be when they are old enough to realize the warped criminal things she’s done to children and animals. That will be her worst punishment.
If these actions reflect who she really is as a person, she will guilt trip her kids for believing "internet rumours" instead of their own mother that has done everything for them.
Some people truly believe they have never done anything wrong or don't care about it as long as they get what they want..
if this is who she is as a person those kids would and will suffer regardless of her actions online. she will be a manipulative and abusive person to those kids and this situation being public is just an extension of the abuse they will certainly go through.
I fear that since her and her brother seem to have had this behavior normalized to them by their family members, that it will be normalized to her children too. I hope they will see through it as they get older, I want this cycle to end.
You really think she's not hurting her own kids if she's willing to groom children in public?
She has a creepy brother… meaning those kids will grow up having the “weird uncle” that Colleen made Miranda’s character have for all these years (also just tossing in the allegations that she used a disabled family member as inspiration for her caricature version meaning there may already be a creepy uncle in the family)
I just noticed for the first time that in the description for her "hi." song/video, it just says:
_"i do not condone or support any kind of online bullying or hate towards anyone. ever."_
Not only is this disgustingly ironic, given everything that's coming out, but.. she really truly did seem to think that people would be on HER side after she posted this video, so much so that she felt the need to put a disclaimer telling people not to harass the folks who's claims she was "addressing."
🤦♀️
She's delusional.
I thought she put that in about herself because she wants to pretend like people calling her out for her behavior is bullying
im not a fan of trisha. they have caused a lot of harm to *multiple* different communities with their actions. however, they did not deserve to have their nudes leaked, sent to minors, MADE FUN OF; any of that!!! that was simply vile.
Super worried about how her kid is treated, considering this is how she acts publicly
Malnourished. Colleen glorifies being skinny so she def can’t have a fat kid
What's horrifying to me is that she makes all those "jokes" about an abusive uncle as Miranda Sings but the uncle to her own children is almost certainly a predator.
@@whatever7959And she's very likely the kind of mother that will constantly dismiss any inconvenient feelings and that puts them in even greater risk of being victimized. (I have firsthand experience)
*kids she has 3 kids. Her son Flynn, and her twins Wesley and Maisy. She really ruined their lives. Because of her, they might have to suffer when/if she ever goes to jail or at least is punished for her actions. Poor kids😥
There are videos out there of the kids being treated odd by the family. Like I saw one earlier where a boy said “I have butterflies in my pen!s” and an adult parroted it back and laughed. Then the little boy said “I have a baby in my pen!s” and the adult laughed and copied the kid again. I’m gonna assume the adult talking was the dad, but I’m not sure as I don’t know their voices well enough to tell. So I seriously think those kids are in danger.
Even with Johnny being an adult she could probably still be charged with sending revenge porn because she shared Trisha’s explicit photos without her consent.
People are making concerning comments about Johnny being an adult. Yes, he was a victim who somewhat became complicit but he's nowhere on the level as Kodee and was definitely groomed by Josh. I don't know why people are letting this slide and acting like it's just a sour grapes situation for him when he was literally abused by his employer and potentially not paid?
Idk US laws but sb in another comment was pointing out how since the content was available behind a paywall it might not count as revenge porn; tho hopefully she can actually be sued in some way for that
And behind a paywall! Which is also stealing
@@HetaleaIt's a form of piracy.
@@HetaleaI believe if someone distributed images from a site such as OnlyFans then the creators have the right to sue.
Honestly, the timing speaks volumes. Colleen was insecure about her body after giving birth so needed to tear Trish down about hers. Colleen has a habit of body shaming and fixating on weight, to the point she's actually triggered body image issues in some of her fans. Also, in one of Adam's videos he does say that he was in touch with Trish about the NSFW stuff but she was reluctant to believe him. Unfortunately, it took Johnny leaking the stuff online for Trish to see the truth. Just a foul situation all round. 😔
Her eating disorder is so noticeable to anyone who has had an ED.
I said so when she first released that ukulele apology video; she only did it as a song so that she could copyright it and use it to take down criticism. I'm convinced she planned that and did it deliberately.
It was a manipulation video…there was no apology.
@@wldncrzy1971 are you pointing this out to correct me, or as a further dunk on Colleen?
@@sarahelizabeth6713 both.
I find it extremely ironic how she tries to debunk the child grooming rumours by singing a child-like, nursery rhyme sounding, sing-along song.. I mean congratulations Colleen, you played yourself! 😂👏
(Over 800 likes? Damn thankyou so much haha didn't think this would blow up!)
(1k Geez Louise, mom look I'm famous..😂 Thankyou guys!)
She pretty much has to play herself, because she sure as hell can't play that ukulele.
@@kattriella1331
Hahaaaaaa this actually made me laugh out loud. Good one! 😂👍
Time to pull out the old IASIP quote: _"There is no quicker way for people to think that you are diddling kids than by writing a song about it!"_
@@Charharr Haha yessss! Oh dear oh my, Colleen really just decided; welp can't go against video evidence may as well go down with a tune to my demise! 😂
HER BOOKS THOUGH
As someone who has been sexually harassed by men and women
It's that "it was only meant as a joke you let me do it" manipulative attitude that sickens me.
I had a guy try and successfully unhook my bra in a public library after I punched him in the face and told him no and he just smiled and told me he liked me or some shit but I remember being a minor or very young and cried on the bathroom.
Another time he blocked me against a wall and he told me because I didn't instantly tell him it was messed up because I got scared I supposedly liked it
And he was in his twenties while I was a minor. And he would hurriedly jump in my DM's and say he won't do it again only to repeat his actions and the adult in charge of the club didn't kick him out because she was also a cunt.
So yes, it does matter that a grown ass adult woman is doing this to children who do not know any better or put their trust in an adult to treat them appropriately and she didn't........
The clips from these shows make me feel sick.
First off, I am so sorry that you went through all that bs. Second, I agree with people when they say that if the gender roles in Colleen's controversy were reversed, it'd probably be an bigger ordeal. In other words, if Colleen were a man or whatever, and Adam and the other minors were say like girls, then people would instantly be trying to take her down.
@@berrisfueller6221 yes, I do believe if Colleen was male she would be behind bars until the situation was further investigated and she would already be in a courtroom like setting.
But because she's a female "entertainer " if you can call her that, more like professional gas lighter who is playing dumb and her victims are mostly male not including people from her shows it's annoying to see her be able to get away with a lot more.
I think people like her need to be made am example of, evidence collected, and a statement put our regardless of gender that kind of power dynamic with fans shouldn't be tolerated or any person for that matter not just UA-camrs .
And thank you , I know it's weird to read someone's story related to Colleen stuff but my point was as someone who has been manipulated and felt to be "othered" and told by other adults I was making a big deal out of supposedly nothing and that I was the problem I know what it's like first hand to be in those kids shoes and it sucks.
Disturbing how similar the personality of Colleen and Illuminaughti, makes you really think how many other narcissistic people who have big fan bases there are
Exactly my thoughts
Yessssss I've been thinking this too! Wild.
Ohhh there’s LOADS 😅
Also for anyone who thinks she isn't doing anything wrong just change her gender to a man. If it's wrong for an adult man then it's wrong for an adult female. It's time we apply equal punishment for equal offenses
And Amber Turd. 🤮
Trisha could absolutely wreck Colleen’s life with legal proceedings. And I hope she does.
Here's what I have to say in regards to your mispronunciation: Make it even worse and call her Colleen BELLENDer from now on
😂 💀
THIS!!😂
Yess!!! That's her name now lol.
colon bellender
If you want to see Colleen face legal consequences, I’d recommend contacting the California attorney general’s office and demand they look into it. If enough people contact them, they’re guaranteed to at least want to figure out why people keep emailing them about it.
Link to California AG complaint form: oag.ca.gov/contact/general-comment-question-or-complaint-form
Can you still contact them if you're UK based or do you have to be in America?
@@justarandomperson778 it shouldn't make any difference as long as she is an American citizen based in Cali, which she is. Feel free to drop them an email
@@justarandomperson778 As long as the crime was committed in California, which we know it was, you should be all good
Whoa, this is a great idea. I'm so glad you brought this up! I feel like that would actually get something done. Or i hope...
Using "it's a character" as an excuse for her behavior is like Anthony Hopkins claiming it is okay for him to actually eat people because he's "in character" as Hannibal Lecter. When you actually do the thing that is the problem, it doesn't matter if you're "in character" or not
“Your honour, my client was simply in his ‘Slim Shady’ character when he murdered that guy.”
You and Swoop are the only two people that I’ve seen actually use Trisha’s pronouns. Thank you for that, even though they are a joke on the internet, misgendering is not okay. Also how is all of this going to affect Colleen’s kids?
Trish uses all pronouns
Misgendering isnt a thing. No one is obligated to ignore objective reality to appease a stranger.
@@Mink_Tracksok mink
@@Mink_Tracksso if you’re a girl I can call you he? Or if you’re a boy I can call you she? Sounds good to me just don’t get mad
An important note on Johnny: yes he was an adult at the time (22), he was also only 15 when Josh and Colleen started interacting with him.
We all know when Trisha makes sense the situation is really serious and really really bad
@ville__ the bitch is blatantly and obviously gaslighting, she barely even mentioned what she did in her apology. Adam has shown receipts proving he's right, she skated over everything. She's fucking thirty and he was a child. He is a victim. I get you're probably a fan and you're probably a child, but that makes this comment worse. You won't want to hear this but teenagers are easily manipulated by older people because older people understand the world better. You can be incredibly smart and fall for something you don't understand yet. Don't talk to her. You should stay far away. You will wind up regretting it later in your life. If you do let yourself be manipulated by her, regardless of when you wind up regretting it I want to tell you that I'm sorry it happened to you and it's not your fault.
@ville__Seek help, Colleen doesn't care about you and never will
@ville__gosh you sound like a bot. You just keep writing the same comment over and over again and it's honestly pathetic that you keep trying to defend them. I don't understand how you can believe they're innocent, especially with so much damning evidence.
In addition, the argument in your video is very flawed and biased. It is not well researched and is basically more of an opinion than it is some so-called proof.
Sincerely, I hope you'll be able to come to your senses and realize all the damage Colleen has done to so many people. They are very much not a good person and absolutely *not* in the right.
@ville__Here’s the attention your father never gave you.
@ville__ Stop spam commenting, Colleen.
Saying she has 4 brain cells left is generous
Saying she's got anything above -5000 braincells is generous
She has that many because children are doing most of her work for her. Those braincells are theirs
@@jewels3400that's what the brainwashing is really for /hj
Her two brain cells are racing for third place, and they're winning
trisha paytas has matured beyond belief since she had her baby. no one can deny that. old trisha would’ve turned the camera on and sobbed and destroyed colleen’s career but instead she was calm and collected. i’m genuinely so proud of her. even before this whole situation you could tell she had matured. having a baby was the best thing for her honestly.
Colleen was never friends with Trisha. She was always out to make fun of her, she makes fun of overweight people. She was NEVER friends with Trisha. Trisha mightve considered her a friend, but Colleen never considered her a friend.
Also Colleen's video is not an apology. It's simply shittily addressing parts of whats going on.
I keep thinking about her children. Her baby. What she did and how she behaved victimized a lot of kids, and now her own children will feel the repercussions. As a mother, I don’t know how I could explain this behavior and this scandal to my daughter. Thinking about her kids should really bring this all home for her.
I saw a comment on her song video where they were basically saying "She would never do something like that! She has kids!" I keep stating this, and I still stand by it- Just because somebody has a family of their own, doesn't make them anymore innocent or incapable of doing sick and twisted things like what Colleen has done. How many times do you hear about murderers or sexual predators having a family of their own, seeming like a normal and good person? It's so common! Just because Colleen has children of her own, that doesn't mean that she's not incapable of sexualizing children and speaking to them in such ways!
She's probably sexually abusing her own children as well.
Just imagine the implosion in 10 years or so when their children are on UA-cam and see all the videos exposing their mother. Smdh…she’s barely human.
not surprised that there are adult men who love colleen's "humor"
she's created an entire audience of potential victims, obviously predators would want to hang around
That's like how Eugenia Cooney makes content involving children's media, resulting in a lot of very young people in her fan base and then she also panders to the adult male ana-fetishists who prey on the young teens that idolise her. That was why her discord closed, paedos using it as a place to find young, vulnerable people with EDs to creep on and give 'tips' to about their EDs. Eugenia initially didn't want to do anything about these people because they were 'nice' to her and that apparently mattered more than the fact that very young people were in danger.
@@lovecatxx Wowwwww I didn't know about all of that. Sketchy as heck. I knew people had beef with her for how she promotes EDs but didn't know it was because of that in particular.
Honestly....I feel terrible for all the victims in this situation but I really feel bad for Trisha as well. I'm getting the feeling they are genuinely trying to be better than they used to be and this has happened :/ It's one thing to be sending nudes around behind someone's back, which is awful on it's own, but imagine your nudes were being sent to a minor and the minor had been groomed to the point that they thought it was okay. Disgusting.
I really wish that UA-camrs' actions were taken more seriously by the law. I feel like Onision and Shane Dawson faced no repercussions for their actions or for what they were accused by the law, and I have a sinking feeling the same will happen with Colleen
Onision is at least being sued by 2 of his victims. I haven't read any recent updates on it, but it's at least something
Yeah it’s disgusting that these people still have a platform
I forgot when UA-cam is for the fan but sadly they another business. They could easily pull the plug for a lot of negative creator but they don’t
I don’t remember who but a group of youtubers did a video where they pretended to defend youtubers in court, one person who actually had a law degree was given Shane Dawson and it turns out that, unfortunately Shane is considered not guilty by law (for the potential act of him fooling with his cat 😭😭😭)
I thought Shane Dawson just JOKED about touching the cart..
And now she monetized this "song", put it on streaming services and probably can copyright strike people showing it
She's a monster
Her lawyers said she didn't monetize or put it up on stream or claim .... but... then why is h3 still claimed....
@@cobrachai suspicious
Of all people to unfairly copyright strike, why H3H3? Their whole thing is that they fought off unfair copyright strikes
What’s insane is I have a ex gf who reminds me of Colleen A LOT. She admitted to me sending fandom corn to minors. In 2016 we were dating and we were 22/23. We went to a convention and met some kids in the same fandom. I was like “hey hi” but she told me TWO WEEKS LATER she created a group chat with these kids and wanted me to meet up with them in a park without the parents and I said “Im not going to a park to hang out with a bunch of 12 year olds” which she took great offense too and basically called me ageist??? Yeah I dumped her so fast
Please turn her in.
Barf.
@@1from31 I tried
@@dotdedo I hope it goes somewhere
Radical idea. Report Colleen's video as spam.
"Joshua and I are getting a divorce" is acted out as badly as "My dog stepped on a bee". How were people buying into it 😒🙄🤔
The gaslighting is real!!
I honestly don’t understand why she hasn’t been arrested yet. My minor cousin was arrested and had to go to court because she opened a text message of a nude picture of her classmate that was being sent around. A lot of kids got into trouble over it for just opening their texts and seeing the photo even if they weren’t directly taking part in the bullying of that student.
I try to be open minded. Kids can be mean as hell and stupid as shit. I’m even accepting of 18 and 19 doing stupid shit because they’re still teens. They’re still kids in my eyes (I won’t go into why I think the age of consent should actually be lifted to 20 rather than 18, that’s for another time)
This woman was in her 30s sending nudes to minors. She was a child icon sending her fans naked pictures of her so called friend. She should absolutely be in jail. If she were a man I’m sure she would be!
Just know, There are no statue of limitations for felony CP which sending nudes to minors is.
Yep, jail is where she should be.
The people in these comments actually seriously referring to Trisha as they, lol. SHE WAS TROLLING. you people are a joke.
@@justkiddin84100% agreed. If she was a dude, she no doubt would of been arrested and in jail…. Not a doubt in my mind …
Just picture if a 31 (at the time) year old man was asking minor children to “send pics” of their @ss….. or a 31 year old man sent nude photos of Trisha paytas to minor children and commented on the photo….
Or if a 31 year old man was texting (group chat) under age children and talking to them about “their first sexual experience”…. Or if a 31 year old man was asking for minor children to put tampons in their mouth and send photos of it…
Or if a 31 year old man was asking about minor females starting their period….
Or if a 31 year old man was asking minor children about what s.exua.l positions they liked….
100% that 31 year old man would of been arrested already….
Also…. What’s coming to light now about s.exua.l abuse in Hollywood of children …. Maybe there is a more sinister thing going on here….
At first I was thinking she was just very bizarre and weird…..now… I’m starting to wonder if she’s an actual, true groomer… grooming children for some sort of real s.exua.l abuse…..
Because everyone including her very own brother, was talking to children inappropriately…. There is more going on here….
it's because she's rich, i guarantee it.
her money and corrupt police is why :(
Somehow your parody apology at the beginning seemed more genuine than Colleen’s response. Also congrats on 1mil!
When your 30 sec mocking takes more accountability than the apologizers whole video...
Well...
Firstly, he actually apologizes
@@Moraca101 my point exactly, hence why I used the word response (and not apology) to describe what Colleen posted.
@@catbuthuman (I know, Im joking about it lol)
She's the conductor of the toxic gossip train. and the stationmaster. She's even the toxic gossip. So it's really quite an efficient self-sustaining operation she's got going
"she didn't intend to harm anyone."
My dad didn't intend to harm me when he didn't feed me as a child because his narcissistic personality disorder was so bad that he forgot I needed food, but guess what? I was harmed
She obviously intended to harm the kids, because she's that depraved.
I've only been sober for little over a month and knowing someone else is 3.5 years sober really helps. But it hurts to know people think less of other who struggle with addiction. I also know what it feels like to live with a toxic abusive person so I really feel for Josh and Adam and anyone else hurt by colleen
My dad has been sober from alcohol for over 30 years and my mom sober from narcotics for almost 20 years.
You got this! One day at a time, be kind to yourself, and actually let yourself heal and forgive yourself for any fucked up thing you may have done on your subdtance ❤
Congratulations- keep it up ❤
@@katiearcher4475they both must be very strong determined people ❤
Firstly- congrats on a month! The earlier times are the hardest from my understanding.
Second- I don't know if it makes a difference but I definitely don't look down on you. I've never drank (for context, I'm 34) because I was abused by an alcoholic but I know you're fighting a battle here, not an inherently terrible person. And most importantly- you're doing the work, you actively fighting it. That's badass and I'm proud of you.
I know it doesn't undo the stigma but my point is to let you know there are people out that, even with justification to be biased, don't hold your struggle against you. Keep it up- you're proving those idiots wrong every day and they could never fight that hard.
(off topic shoutout to predictive text nearly making me say I was abused by an alchemist, I needed that giggle)
No one cares about josh being sober or not. Josh is also guilty of similar stuff. He gave his number to a young person as well. Manipulated them. He was complicit in all this.
…..she seriously thinks “it’s a joke” or “he asked for them” are good excuses for sending explicit shit to a literal minor….I’m gonna let that set in because that’s not how that works.
That's what the predator say when Chris Hansen comes
It could have been worse, her response video could have been a ukulele cover of “blurred lines” because she clearly knows they want it
@@IronWangCreates too late. She already that 😂
@@IronWangCreatesblurred lines actually had a whole situation on set too. So it fits.
The part with the dolls made my heart break for Trisha. What a betrayal :(
For real. It's so sad because I remember getting those custom dolls and crying because they meant a lot. Those dolls are hella expensive, they can be between 100 and 300 dollars. Matching dolls are a symbol of friendship, which is fucked up, because that friendship was violated.
It is heartbreaking and I hope she can find a friend that like Trisha herself and maybe take a break from social media influencers. I know there good people out there but the bad overshadow them.
Same. Even though Trisha is anything but a good person herself... It was so sad to watch
I’m 23 and teach middle school, I can’t even begin to think what made her believe this was okay. Despite being close in age to my kids, part of the same generation AND having similar communication styles, I obviously recognize that they are literally CHILDREN. I have the desire to educate and serve as a mentor, and hopefully be some form of a second parent. I’m 23. She was 27?!?! AHHHHHHH
When I was a kid, I always thought she used her character to justify her actions as some sort of loophole. I wonder what happened to her to make her think this way. It would not justify her behavior, but I’m curious. I’m glad I never became a fan of hers and just thought of it as this weird fake personality.
You know what, no matter how insane these all are, I'm actually relieved to know that the parents who were in those live shows were smart enough to understand what was wrong with Colleen. Also, it's insane that her adult fans have already came out to talk about how disturbing her shows were years before Adam even came out with his allegations. It's so messed up to think that the reason she got away with this for so long was because majority of her viewers are kids who don't know any better.
She groomed these kids into becoming her "army". She urged kids into dressing suggestively so she could sexualize and objectify them infront of hundreds of people. She made a community of kids that are desensitized with grooming and power abuse and sexual harrassment so that when she's in trouble, they'd blindly protect and defend her. To them, this is normal. They've grown accustomed to it that they don't really understand how messed up this situation is. She buried little seeds inside these kids head. She'd talk shit about someone in their group chat so those kids would hate that person. She'd urge them to attack them and we have proof of that. That is not just speculation. She sends them as if they're her minions. She made these kids do her bidding. She's conditioning them to do everything she wants them to do. That's not just grooming, that's some cult stuff. I'm pretty sure that's cult leader behavior.
As someone who grew up in a high demand, high control religion, these are absolutely cult building tactics that I’ve seen firsthand. As often is the case with cult leaders, she has done criminal acts and she needs to be in prison.
@@doireallyhavetohaveachannel That's honestly scary
thank you for taking the time to make a part two.
also, happy 1 mil! it's so deserved.
God I'm genuinely so sad for Trisha, and the way she handled this was so real and mature. I hope this is the first kind of turning point we see of her, like the first genuine change.