Finding New Beginnings Through Therapy

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  • @supernova2897
    @supernova2897 2 роки тому +410

    Latoya could easily have her own talk show.....such a warm spirit

    • @s.quita4254
      @s.quita4254 2 роки тому +7

      That’s what I’m saying……..

    • @quejay3137
      @quejay3137 2 роки тому +2

      She should

    • @dani8shawn
      @dani8shawn 2 роки тому +7

      Right! I've been saying the same thing. Imma need a network exec to get on it.

    • @tieonneyvonne7420
      @tieonneyvonne7420 2 роки тому +4

      Yes!!! I agree❤

    • @ltgshyne
      @ltgshyne 2 роки тому +1

      Facts! She’s a natural...she makes it seem effortless 💯💯👏🏽

  • @Angela-cd9bj
    @Angela-cd9bj 2 роки тому +160

    “Give yourself permission to choose another emotion outside of guilt” I like the therapist helpful statements. Especially Romans 8:28 Thank You 😊

  • @shirlepps4636
    @shirlepps4636 2 роки тому +4

    Her therapist is gold. We need to hear more from her. And her girlfriend is great too. What a wonderful village!!!

  • @mscaseydominionaire
    @mscaseydominionaire 2 роки тому +95

    I did not know that grief masquerades itself as new beginnings! Thank you for this session, Toya!

    • @LeaveItToLeToya
      @LeaveItToLeToya  2 роки тому +9

      We both learned something!

    • @t.mariebatiste4682
      @t.mariebatiste4682 2 роки тому +6

      @@LeaveItToLeToya this is therapy thank you for launching your channel! I’m a recently divorce and needed this message ❣️

  • @jasmineedwards810
    @jasmineedwards810 2 роки тому +49

    I love the therapist referencing God and acknowledging our need to submit to HIS will. That’s including the first and second commandment which are the keys to govern this life on earth and give us access to heaven. I love the positive convo. Beautiful

  • @amylemuel5423
    @amylemuel5423 2 роки тому +55

    "Rarely do you get a person showing their process" BAYBEE this angelic word today just UPLIFTED my spirit, soul, & mind! Thank you ladies👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💋

  • @theunimpressedbeetch
    @theunimpressedbeetch 2 роки тому +85

    Who needs a therapist when you have these three ladies preachin' some truths. I have been replaying some of the quotes they have been saying especially Tori's. I needed this video without even realizing that I actually needed it. Thank you.

    • @LeaveItToLeToya
      @LeaveItToLeToya  2 роки тому +12

      So happy to hear this. ❤️

    • @franny0611
      @franny0611 2 роки тому +5

      Very informative. Ths was sooo good I wished it was longer.

    • @haz3ls
      @haz3ls 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely!!

  • @iamsharondarena
    @iamsharondarena 2 роки тому +3

    Babyyyy,
    Who else need to book Therapist Tori??🙋🏽‍♀️
    Tori needs a podcast ASAP..That session was everything. The fact she has an awesome relationship with God and knows what scripture to pull to make it a reality in your situation.🔥🔥🔥🔥☺️🙏🏾❤️💯🎊

  • @thesharonofficial
    @thesharonofficial 2 роки тому +10

    "Every part of your story is important" God spoke to me on that part...(insert teary eyes lol) Keep it going LeToya you have something special here 💞

  • @ugnb3745
    @ugnb3745 2 роки тому +13

    Hey Toya! Fellow Houstonian and your man-twin! I am a dedicated father and husband and I’m constantly battling dad guilt. I’ve always been an active, independent and high achieving person but have struggled with splitting my time between being a dad doing the things I need to keep me whole. Thanks for this show! Look at you unpacking our ish! 🤭

  • @tamarawilliams1380
    @tamarawilliams1380 2 роки тому +20

    “I get to be a person” WHAT A WORD!!!! 💖

  • @kingj87
    @kingj87 2 роки тому +3

    "When Expectation meets Capacity" that gave me a whole new outlook. Thank you for this!

  • @toymoore1809
    @toymoore1809 2 роки тому +1

    If there's anyone who's worthy of all of the blessings, it's Letoya. This is your season🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @BreyenJaimes
    @BreyenJaimes 2 роки тому +1

    Can LaToya’s team please pitch a talk show for this woman!!!
    She is such a comforting warm and relatable spirit. These videos are legit soul food for me. I could make an appointment to watch this every day.

  • @lindaw3437
    @lindaw3437 2 роки тому +61

    LeToya I always look forward to your show every week because you always make my day. You always give good advice!! You should have your own talk show!!✨☺️

    • @JaimieAmaris
      @JaimieAmaris 2 роки тому +1

      Gf this is her talk show!☝🏽

  • @flaviagwiza8194
    @flaviagwiza8194 2 роки тому +8

    Excellent episode! We need part 2 with Tori explaining stages of grief that comes with new beginnings🤗

  • @keishacox3735
    @keishacox3735 2 роки тому +7

    I’ve felt this way when I sent my daughter to college. I was so happy to be able to find my self again but also feeling guilty for being happy that I got a chance to be myself. I am not that same person as I was when she was little. I’m so happy to learn me again

  • @shanikarussell3049
    @shanikarussell3049 2 роки тому +5

    LeToya, thank you for sharing showing much with us. You’ve been really in a season of overflow and giving so much. Sharing your joy, pain, wisdom, friends, family, therapist, ex lovers, heartbreak, success just everything. Girl you are a real model and a kind soul. Thank you for this and everything else that you’ve shared with us so far. God bless you ❤️

  • @1luvQ
    @1luvQ 2 роки тому +45

    Wow!!! This was probably my favorite episode yet. Y’all just blessed my life and I’m going to sign up for therapy. I’ve been putting it off but if this is what’s to come please sign me up. Can you do more episodes like this one?

    • @LeaveItToLeToya
      @LeaveItToLeToya  2 роки тому +9

      Wow, this is amazing. I love this for you!

    • @delewon
      @delewon 2 роки тому +5

      Girl fr...I wanna talk to somebody...this was dope

  • @kristyncathey358
    @kristyncathey358 2 роки тому +46

    Whew!!! I viewed this at work and it was powerful. So many gems. “Your story is important.” This episode will definitely help so many others.

    • @mrs.choosingmyhealth
      @mrs.choosingmyhealth 2 роки тому +1

      Girl, I would have had a MELTDOWN at work 😂😂😂. I surely wasn’t expecting this . DEEP

  • @tonyatalesha5452
    @tonyatalesha5452 2 роки тому +11

    Love how Letoya tells her story, her way with the people close to her up close and personal with her audience is awesome

  • @amourasia4061
    @amourasia4061 2 роки тому +6

    I’m doing my MSW internship for grief counseling and I really enjoyed this🙌🏾

  • @kimthomas1904
    @kimthomas1904 2 роки тому +20

    I’m gonna need for y’all to have a podcast cause this blessed my ENTIRE SOUL! I have had so many struggles and one good Soul Sister that rides with me but it’s hard to deal with that bridge between the problem and the promise. Each video is getting better and deeper. Thank you for being real cause you’re helping to heal and save lives, especially mine.

  • @laroyah.muhammad6402
    @laroyah.muhammad6402 2 роки тому +2

    “The more you allow expectation and reality to meet each other, the less disappointed you will be.” TRUTH!

  • @PoetandProfessor
    @PoetandProfessor 2 роки тому +1

    God is intentional therefore, his outcome is always better than what we choose for ourselves. The process toward growth is necessary, it’s hard, uncomfortable and itchy, but necessary. I have many villages, one is called the “Hope Haven”. Others are educators like myself and prayer warriors for sure.

  • @christinerichardson673
    @christinerichardson673 2 роки тому +4

    You have a really good therapist keep going ….forever

  • @swonsley245
    @swonsley245 2 роки тому +6

    Another WINNING segment of LeaveItToLeToya!!!

  • @karismaburton9806
    @karismaburton9806 2 роки тому +13

    This was so needed. Thank you! Having a circle of solid, honest, compassionate friends is vital.

    • @LeaveItToLeToya
      @LeaveItToLeToya  2 роки тому +5

      DEFINITELY. Couldn't have done it without my village.

  • @MsMellow1
    @MsMellow1 2 роки тому +4

    I just wanna be In Letoya’s village 🙂🙂. This is such a beautiful platform, and thank you for always keeping it real 👌🏾👌🏾!

  • @kaywisseh
    @kaywisseh 2 роки тому +24

    Had to watch this twice just to make sure I didn’t miss those gems. I totally agree with you about therapy. Putting myself in therapy was the best thing I could’ve done for myself and my family. #Newbeginnings!

  • @none8726
    @none8726 2 роки тому +4

    I love the idea as therapy as Preventative Care! You check in with your doctor for a physical annually.. I like the analogy

  • @Stefanie1999
    @Stefanie1999 2 роки тому +1

    Letoya thank you for sharing this. I learned so much. I was diagnosed with brain cancer last year and I had to move back to my parents house. I am doing good now and I’m cancer free for a year. I was grieving losing my autonomy and life I had on my on. The advice you ladies shared helped me work through some of the emotions I was was having.

  • @JaynaT_
    @JaynaT_ 2 роки тому +2

    Toya... I just wanted to tell you that the content you are providing is definitely on target🎯! It's needed ..appreciated more than you would ever know. Love your genuine spirit❤. Girl , This channel is going up. I support you boo

  • @knewton8786
    @knewton8786 2 роки тому +22

    Thank you much for this platform and especially this episode! I watched it twice. I'm thinking Tuesdays with Tori would be appreciated and would bless so many people!!

  • @valerienaylor1069
    @valerienaylor1069 2 роки тому +4

    LeToya we love you beautiful lady ♥️♥️

  • @latoyahendrickspowers
    @latoyahendrickspowers 2 роки тому +1

    LeToya very easy to talk very humble and thoughtful and bold loves this episode

  • @celestegetscrafty9761
    @celestegetscrafty9761 2 роки тому +3

    This conversation was very much needed!!! Thank you Ladies for transparency and this very teachable moment! Stay blessed!

  • @battle_rapculture9955
    @battle_rapculture9955 2 роки тому +2

    Latoya you have always been my favorite. To see the growth, and the glow up is amazing

  • @heatherro9989
    @heatherro9989 2 роки тому +7

    LaToya is such a beautiful soul. Bless her heart💕

  • @petitecunningham9977
    @petitecunningham9977 2 роки тому +1

    "Sometimes unfortunately we will scroll in the morning before we will even get up and just breathe" What a truth.. Today I'm choosing to "Breathe and Thank God" every morning, before I do anything else. I thoroughly enjoyed this segment. ☺

  • @naturalfitgirl80
    @naturalfitgirl80 2 роки тому +8

    This is reeeeal life stuff here 😌 Letoya keep it coming Sis! God bless you :)

  • @simone9490
    @simone9490 2 роки тому +7

    I love this. I'm 27 and finally decided a couple days ago, after many yrs of thinking about it, to look into therapy and do it for me

  • @mrs.choosingmyhealth
    @mrs.choosingmyhealth 2 роки тому +5

    Today was a rough day for me and I needed this THERAPY SESSION. I miss therapy so much but can no longer afford it. Anyway, God is an on time GOD! May you all find healing in this video! 🙏🏾 Sending you lots of love, hugs and light 💫

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 роки тому +2

      May God strategically bless you indeed to receive it- Phil.4:19. If you are working, please ensure you don't have it. I had 10 free sessions and didn't know it post covid update to our EPA.

    • @tyoung3509
      @tyoung3509 2 роки тому +2

      Hi! Also, check with your employer to see if you have EAP benefits. It should not be a charge for the counselors. Just a thought. Hope this helps.

    • @mrs.choosingmyhealth
      @mrs.choosingmyhealth 2 роки тому +2

      @@tyoung3509 thanks so much for your response. Unfortunately, I am unable to work. I’m a nurse. Caught COVID on my job 2 years ago and my health has been declining ever since. Unfortunately, my husband makes “too much” money for any government assistance. Thank you though

    • @mrs.choosingmyhealth
      @mrs.choosingmyhealth 2 роки тому

      @@oneof7billion627 thanks so much for your response. Unfortunately, I am unable to work. I’m a nurse. Caught COVID on my job 2 years ago and my health has been declining ever since. Unfortunately, my husband makes “too much” money for any government assistance. Thank you though

  • @armanee9067
    @armanee9067 2 роки тому +1

    My second time today hearing: “God’s strong NO is just as powerful as his YES!” ✨

  • @PharaohsBloom
    @PharaohsBloom 2 роки тому +3

    This video was everythingggg, y’all was on here preachin!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
    This reminded me of my tribe, thank you so much LaToya for having this platform because it is needed!!✨💕💕

  • @breewatkins3411
    @breewatkins3411 2 роки тому +4

    Listen here! I’m going through a process as I type. This video dropped some Gems & lord, I thank you for this message & these beautiful women. LL- Thanks for sharing with us Gorgeous! God, I want what you want for me. Hallelujah 🙌🏾

  • @mirandawade3124
    @mirandawade3124 2 роки тому +1

    I love my parents but I also did not get what I needed from them. Wow, that was deep yet so real!

  • @mandisadlamini3565
    @mandisadlamini3565 2 роки тому +4

    Such a powerful conversation, needed to hear that 🙌 👏 thank you Letoya

  • @j.y.8
    @j.y.8 2 роки тому +4

    Whew! this was a lot of breakthroughs all in one. Like, untangling that ball of extention cords we all have thrown in the closet. Thank you ever do much for this and blessings to you all 🙏🏽 love you Toya❤

  • @liftingasweclimbconsulting
    @liftingasweclimbconsulting Рік тому

    As a wife, mom, and therapist, I really appreciate this conversation. Thank you!❤

  • @stormomega37
    @stormomega37 2 роки тому +1

    Latoya needs her own talk show!!!

  • @sfreeman417
    @sfreeman417 2 роки тому

    I love it here!!! Your therapist nailed it. Grieving is not just about ending something, it's about the beginning of something new!!!!

  • @Cjay2323
    @Cjay2323 2 роки тому +1

    This needs to be on tv 📺

  • @charlenemills6591
    @charlenemills6591 2 роки тому

    Wow! how real was that? I'm always refering to my family as a tribe. I think it gives me a sense of security knowing that I belong. Even when things are raggedy and they are at times, I will never cut myself off from them and I know neither will they ever leave me,. No matter what. Whew!! bravo to Latoya's Sister therapist when she said "I'm not every woman it's not all in me and anything you want done I AIN'T GOT IT!" You classy Ladies came through with the real. God bless and keep you all. Thankyou!!

  • @Keriel128
    @Keriel128 2 роки тому +4

    When I think about my innocence.. Latoya’s energy was the FIRST energy that I gravitated to.. (even while in a group) I’m from Port Arthur, Texas so maybe it’s that.. but I doubt it. Lol! Your swag just has always impacted me ORGANICALLY! So proud of you and happy to see the evolution of your journey Toya!!! 🙏🏽❤️✨

    • @tamikad3535
      @tamikad3535 2 роки тому +1

      Oh snap, I no longer live there but I'm from PA too!

  • @prettyuniquell2011
    @prettyuniquell2011 2 роки тому +3

    We need more conversations like this! This was everything! Thank you Ladies 😌🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @mscaseydominionaire
    @mscaseydominionaire 2 роки тому +1

    You betta preach therapist!! God helps us learn who he really is to us through our submission! A lesson I have learned the hard, but necessary way!

  • @cassie_ohsoclassic
    @cassie_ohsoclassic 2 роки тому +1

    I watched this 3 times, the gems dropped on here are powerful. I needed to hear this ❤️

  • @tonyaking5768
    @tonyaking5768 2 роки тому +16

    Loving the show... thank you and Tori for these "gems" of wisdom.

  • @ladyjones09
    @ladyjones09 2 роки тому

    Beautifully necessary ♥️ Depiction that God and therapy are not mutually exclusive. They work hand in hand. Love you LeToya! Thank you ladies ♥️

  • @triniflava8803
    @triniflava8803 2 роки тому

    The hand that you don’t see is as powerful as the hand that you do see….ain’t that a word 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @dionnel748
    @dionnel748 2 роки тому +3

    Hey Letoya, I felt like this was especially for me today. I needed to hear this, I cried and cried. I am struggling right now with so much, I wish I had a village 😢

  • @kendrairvin5673
    @kendrairvin5673 2 роки тому

    "God is just as powerful in His yes as He is in His no!!!" Woooow! This was an amazing video! Soooo many good nuggets!!LeToya this was sooo good! Thank you!

  • @sonteeluv6343
    @sonteeluv6343 2 роки тому +1

    Latoya is so amazing I pray that God continue to bless her and give her everything that her heart desires because she really do deserve it she is such a Beautiful person .💕💕💕

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 2 роки тому

    I'm a Pisces too Toya!! 2/26 I love your energy and transparency 💕✌🏾 Keep doing what you do and loving on your babies and being a Great woman, talent, person and Mama!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️💕

  • @elleea6565
    @elleea6565 2 роки тому +2

    I too am a therapist and I do take my kid on activity before I go away or when I return. It was the movies the other night due to me having spent time out. I got over “Guilt” some time ago, but there’s still a need to balance my time and her time. This is a great conversation. I’m glad my peer could express the importance of preventative care. I do a lot of that, life transitions, maintenance, and venting sessions for people to navigate. Great topic ladies!!!

  • @trishrenee06
    @trishrenee06 2 роки тому +1

    this is an episode to watch 2 or 3 times... full of so much wisdom... i don't have a girlfriend circle although I see it can give so much life

  • @peachiepooh76
    @peachiepooh76 2 роки тому +1

    Ooooohhhh! This is ME! LaToya you spoke my exact words. Which was refreshing hearing someone else say it. I literally woke up being a Mom of Triplets and living with someone (Now my Husband). While on bedrest in the hospital, my family came to Houston, packed & moved me out of my apartment. I came home from the hospital with Babies & living with a Man (Husband) I barely knew. Talk about Newbeginnings & Grieving. I got WHOLE story/journey.

  • @_thejblife_
    @_thejblife_ 2 роки тому

    In order for you to gain something you have to lose something. Whew! That blessed me.

  • @kemorareaves-eastvalleyrea2807
    @kemorareaves-eastvalleyrea2807 2 роки тому +4

    This! Just everything! Going through divorce, which was good for both of us, but figuring out this single mom life has been a challenge

  • @nedab4630
    @nedab4630 2 роки тому +5

    Every episodes fills up my spirit! Thank you for your vulnerability & sharing your gifts with all of us. A Blessing from God. 🙏🏽

  • @AmbiLovesU_
    @AmbiLovesU_ 2 роки тому

    Yep I’m in tears her talking to me as a new mom Jesus Christ……Toya….God bless you for this for real for real

  • @latoyacopeland6815
    @latoyacopeland6815 2 роки тому

    How that therapist is the BUSINESS!! Love her input.

  • @chypbytes2328
    @chypbytes2328 2 роки тому

    Girl do your thing! You have such a natural light that shines! Girl go ahead and get that talk show. You can still and act; but girl go ahead and get that talk show! Continue to be blessed!

  • @regale1995
    @regale1995 2 роки тому +2

    Therapy is a wonderful tool!!! 🥰

  • @shakirawiley6330
    @shakirawiley6330 2 роки тому +1

    Yes 🙌! Allowing ourselves to embrace and speak on our journey! This was beautiful 🥰

  • @jennyb.5523
    @jennyb.5523 2 роки тому

    Real Godly wisdom makes the difference🙌

  • @mwdanay
    @mwdanay Рік тому

    This episode speaks to my soul. I lost my mom at 14 years old and I’m still grieving so many new starts and how to mother properly without guilt😢

  • @genellbradley4505
    @genellbradley4505 2 роки тому

    LaToya, I just want to thank you so much for sharing your life journey with me; I’m making this personal…… I have went through and now going through life challenges, but I thank GOD for it ALL…..
    I enjoyed you and the other Womens of God on your show…. I pray that GOD to continue shower HIS BLESSINGS on you and your family, and everybody that’s connected to you, IN JESUS NAME!!! ENJOY YOUR BLESSINGS!!! Genell/Dallas,TX

  • @Ari083
    @Ari083 2 роки тому

    After failed relationships, single parenting & honestly just muddling though life I'm finally in therapy & my therapist is awesome! I know I have changes to make in order to maximize my quality of life & I'm here for it. I want to bring my best self into this new chapter & I thank God for blessing me with the tools to do it. Thank you for sharing your personal journey with us. This video along with other factors made me realize that I needed to take this leap of faith. ❤❤

  • @nanaobben5166
    @nanaobben5166 2 роки тому +1

    This was good for the soul.🙏🏾
    I wish I currently had you three in my life 💖🙏🏾🕊️

  • @marilynnash2487
    @marilynnash2487 2 роки тому +1

    This was some real therapy and I'm sure this has helped many including myself thank you ladies God Bless 🙌

  • @latoyastew
    @latoyastew 2 роки тому

    "I get to be a person". I felt that!!! I suffer from mom-guilt so bad. Great words from Tori (so proud of you girl!). Great episode LeToya!

  • @ashjay4279
    @ashjay4279 2 роки тому +5

    THIS WAS SO GOOD!!!!! Wow!!!! Tori, thank you for this wisdom! And Toya keep it up! I can definitely relate to some of this!

  • @kadiatoudiallo9243
    @kadiatoudiallo9243 2 роки тому +6

    We love you Latoya!! I am a fan from Guinea-Conakry and I currently live in Casablanca, Morocco. Keep the goid work QUEEEEN, YOU ARE KILLING IT GIRL💗💗💗

  • @SabrinaBaulding
    @SabrinaBaulding 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for doing this! This is much needed in our community!

  • @sabrinam4335
    @sabrinam4335 2 роки тому +4

    Love this! 😗 Stay blessed and beautiful Aqueela, Tori & Letoya 💜 X

  • @teeyahbruny7743
    @teeyahbruny7743 2 роки тому

    God knows I needed to hear these words. Best 21 minutes of my life 🙌🏾

  • @MsPbaker206
    @MsPbaker206 2 роки тому +1

    This was wonderful and it truly blessed me. I need more of this and that therapist wheww…the truth ❤️

  • @michelleray9143
    @michelleray9143 2 роки тому +1

    😍😍😍this show....

  • @natashasharpe4121
    @natashasharpe4121 2 роки тому

    This is awesome! I love the mental health profession and am so grateful for shows like this which demonstrate how comfortable and casual therapy can be. It's often as simple as a conversation with a person who is trained to listen and speak with purpose, insight, and intention. Y'all go get your healing. We (black therapists) are here!

  • @iamsharondarena
    @iamsharondarena 2 роки тому

    I’m glad she explained that grief comes in all forms..People need to know it’s not just death of a person or an animal..I learned the different forms/types of grief in nursing school while taking Mental Health course..This was such a good talk. 💯❤️

  • @ilabelona9807
    @ilabelona9807 2 роки тому +1

    I love each episode but God ordained this message. I jumped up and began to take notes. This was beautiful, encouraging, received in Jesus name. ❤ Thank the 3 of you for sharing.

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 2 роки тому

    Tori’s smile 😃 is absolutely gorgeous.

  • @kelvindavis6588
    @kelvindavis6588 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much Latoya for working on/ sharing this outlet that's highly informative & helpful but also very entertaining & fun at the same time!

  • @tieonneyvonne7420
    @tieonneyvonne7420 2 роки тому +1

    Whew, LeToya, Your village is full of wisdom and very seasoned! The knowledge shared here was very helpful for me! Thank you for sharing this side of you!❤

  • @SonoranVibes
    @SonoranVibes 2 роки тому +3

    This was helpful. LeToya you have a great show 🙌🏾 not only women, but men were able to get something out of this as well.

  • @Sista2Sista7875
    @Sista2Sista7875 2 роки тому

    Blessing to have a village that is there for you.❤

  • @oneof7billion627
    @oneof7billion627 2 роки тому +1

    Just when you think it can't get no better than the previous Tuesdays. My God you blessing us Latoya.. Tysm 😊

  • @SHAKERASMG
    @SHAKERASMG Рік тому

    I absolutely love this show. I'm so glad she's doing this