Worst Desi Wedding Moments
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- No one does weddings like Desis, let's be real, from our 800 pre-wedding events, the fashion, the music, the food, and the family. It's a full-on, year-long event but also so much fun. The flip side is the stress, the chaos, and, let's not forget the DRAMA! We're bringing you some of the worst wedding moments shared by none other than yourselves! Let's get this party started!
0:00 My Jodi
3:03 INTRO
5:31 The net dress
9:55 Wedding thief
17:21 The last minute dance
19:54 The gold kangan
27:08 Super chachi
28:47 Dinner was late
36:12 Uninvited guests
39:06 In-laws kept the gifts
44:30 Ding ding ding
46:34 Walking karahi
48:10 Post wedding
49:34 Chachi needs to chill
50:28 “Indecent Poses”
53:20 Worst wedding moments
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Also fought tooth and nail with my parents to have a small wedding. Had a home mehndi, a nikkah, and a small walima (under 100 people). Our families ended up gifting us our down payment as our wedding gift (from the money they originally saved for our weddings) .10/10 recommend
My phuppos (all of them) and my daadi didn't come at my wedding and called and told this about 10 minutes before the baraat was arriving. The reason was that "we didn't invite them at my bridal shower," which, btw only, had girls my age and younger.
My baraat was lit on the way, and I was so close to crying and ruining my makeup.
Sorry that happened!
I love your guys’s videos❤.
Where do you guys get your jewellery from? They’re really cute to pieces ❤.
Imagine if you guys started a marriage counseling agency or program 😂😂😂
🤣 we are definitely not made out for that!
I think this should be a general rule which is fair too:
if my husband fully contributed to the wedding and there was no contribution from the in-laws, then any gift received whether cash or boxed is bride and groom’s! Period!
In case, the in-laws did contribute to the wedding expense, then there needs to be a prior discussion as to what they would want to keep when gifts/cash is received from guests. There shouldn’t be a surprise the next day when the couple wakes up only to find in-laws ‘kept’/ stole the gifts/money received.
Yes exactly. Keep the communication open at all times!
My mom passed away when I was 18 so My dad did not pay a penny towards my wedding. Then he expected me to invite his entire khaandaan! I also wanted a kid free wedding but my dad forced his way into inviting all the cousins kids as well. about 40 kids that ruined most of my wedding pictures. And to top it all off, he asked for all the monetary gifts back after the wedding was done. His reasoning was that he pays when he goes to their weddings so he should get the money back when they come to mine.
That is so unfair 💔 also so sorry about your mom. That is heartbreaking.
We boys learning a lot.. bundle of thanks girls 👍🏻
Glad it was helpful!
I have made a nice kimchi ramen, with eggs, like a comfort food. With cha and enjoying every single second of your podcast.
Thank you for watching!
the aunties just want to ruin everything out of jealousy especially the wedding pictures. the aunties want the bride to pose outside barely touching a tree branch with the groom 40 feet away 😂😂😂
bro I was literally waiting from 8 hourssssssss👺👺👺👺👺
thank you!!!
In my family - for example any money given from my mom's/dad's side will go to my parents and any money his family give I would get to keep
thanks for sharing
Never heard of parents taking the money that was given to the bride/groom.
The parents should hold celebrations (Mehndi, Shaddi, Valima, etc.) that are within their means - never take out a loan.
Best idea is to have smaller weddings and if parents have savings for celebrations, use that money toward a home, investments, graduate school degrees, etc.
Yup!
I stumbled upon your channel after looking for Sweet Bobby's analysis, and I love the vibes.
I’m from the Caribbean, and your stories resonate with me, especially regarding the party timeline. Haitians are notoriously late or delayed the day of. Dinner being served at 10 is annoying but expected 🙃. And surprise guests 😂yup.
I don’t understand some of your words, but I get this gist. ❤️the on-screen translations for the longer phrases. Subscribed!
Thanks for subscribing! We’re so glad you’re enjoying the content. We’ll try and include more subtitles for the future
600 people at our wedding. It was very overwhelming lol!!
That is very overwhelming
My parents in law kept all the salamis that we got from their side and had the audacity to hand me an empty envelope which someone had mine and my husband’s picture printed on it🙈
Wow that is horrible
At my wedding, the money that came from my direct family from mom/dads side went to my parents but everyone else (family friends, our friends) went to us.
It was the same at our reception too with my hubbys side
love your podcast love you both 🤩
you both should do a podcast in Urdu sometime it'll be funnnn...😄
Thanks for the suggestion! 😄
I am an Indian and I cant tie a sari to save my life so I prefer the pre-pleated ones too, lol
We are all on the same boat🤣
😢😢😢😢😅😅😅To the minute 47:56 oh my... My son puked all over my dress it was my cousin's nikkah. We were outside the hall. They were gathering everybody before entering the hall. You for the idiotic big entrance with horses. My son vomited. And It was like a blast. It was everywhere. In our car we had my cousin's Australian friend. And i was embarrassed as hell. On top of the. I had drenched myself in a men's strong perfume to enter. And then left for another cousin's house. To wash and iron my dress and it was cold like winter was in full mood. It took me 1 and half hour and when we went back to the hall the nikah was done. Everybody had their dinner. I ate in end. My brothers and cousins waited for me to eat with me. And then we had the best shadi khana you can imagine.
😅😅😅😅😅
That sounds like such rough experience but glad the shaadi food was a hit!
Yay.. First comment 🎉❤
In the western culture, the bride and groom gets to keep the monetary gifts because they pay for their own wedding. If elderly parents are paying a small fortune for the wedding, it’s only fair that they get to keep the gifts to pay for their adult children’s weddings
I totally agree. You cannot decide to go with one Part of culture (keeping the money because it's the way it is in western culture) but then not pay a penny for your wedding Events as the western people do. What sorcery is this😆
the wedding speech thing 😂 this is why the way white people do it at rehearsal dinners is better than us trying to mesh the white people and desi people cutlures together, making people sit through speeches at the receptions 🥲