Facts I’m a man of GOD but them pimp principles are simple but GOLDEN. choose the woman that chooses you it’s simple. I don’t condone a lot of things pimps do but that simple message can save any young man if he apply it
Those are rare and have come across them but I’m not physically attracted to them. But I’ll lower my beauty standards because personality will sustain a longer relationship.
Facts 🎯 men don't want nothingness from a woman just like a woman doesn't want a man thats not the best version of himself it shows you have a covering of nothingness.
Hey Rom. I'm 48 been a widower 11years now. My wife was a stunner, never had any problems. And she chose me, so I agree with what ur spitting sir. Your favourite south African brother🇿🇦🇿🇦. Salute
Happiest and easiest dating has ever been for me is with the women who were not as conventionally beautiful, but had the kindest souls, were incredibly caring, fixed me a plate and wanted to please me. They were DOWN FOR ME and no one else! Currently head over heels for a woman who may not be as conventionally beautiful, has imperfections, flaws, etc. But - she will move mountains to be there for me. She gives 110% effort in our connection. She has softened my heart and is supporting me in my career, my mental health and personal struggles as I navigate the end of my 20's and heal from old hurts. Most importantly, and for the first time in my life - she makes me feel safe and seen. I am falling for her more and more every day.
Thats why i dont chase women, if they choose me then ill take it from there. If a woman really desires you in 2024, she will make it known & obvious for you.
The toll on your dignity and maybe even self-esteem not being the 1st option isn’t worth it as a man. I’ve accepted being someone “settled for” and will never make that mistake again. Why? Most men can treat their Top 5 choices well while still be respectful towards those they haven’t chosen or will never choose - most women just can’t do that. The 5th option is considered too underwhelming, the 4th is for passing time in hopes of curing boredom, 3rd is considered disappointing to her, and the 2nd is considered settling. Listen to Rom Wills…be 1st.
I've made this observation as well. The vast majority of people settle, but men are usually content with what they settled for...if a woman settles, she won't be happy long term.
Players get _selected_ by her in an attempt to see if she can outplay them. That’s not the same thing as a woman sending choosing signals because she is genuinely attracted or interested.
@ women choose in the game and women choose when she wants the real thing as well. In any case once she has made her decision the ball is in the man’s side of the court
@@qthequick If we are talking about most women…arousal and attraction aren’t the same thing *for them* - therefore selection and choice also aren’t the same thing *for them* . Most women (especially young) are _aroused_ by fun and so _select_ the men they think to be a worthy opponent in attempting to play or outplay the game of lust with. Most women (especially older) are _attracted_ to stability/security and then _choose_ men they think to be a worthy provider of those resources. We agree that regardless of her decisions, the ball is then in the man’s court - yes. But not differentiating their perspective on ‘selection vs choice’ is thinking like a man rather than a woman. Selection is typically swift, Choice is generally slow.
Right on time Unc. Talking to a chick who told me just yesterday. I don't chase men, but you weren't responding to me, so I have to ask you for a date. We sat and talk for over an hour.
@youngmeezy7635 We going on w date this weekend. We had lunch together today. Point being, some chick's will show you they like you. You don't have to chase.
Well I’ll give you some advice if you looking for a serious relationship or marriage don’t have sex with her. If you do outside of marriage it might be a wrap before it start.
so true, I remember being young without any knowledge of game...analyzing every small detail trying to know if a woman liked me, what a joke...when they really do they will clearly come at you.
*Mr Wills. Sir, I believe this is the cause of 90% of the frustration and pain in the dating market today. Men chasing women who don't even want them. Women who aren't checking for them like that* *A man should make himself the best version of himself, become the most attractive man he can be. Then GO OUTSIDE and have women choose up. When she wants to be with you, she makes it so much easier for the man*
we have to change our mindset and settle on beauty standards. Beauty id fleeting and not that rare anymore but I feminine women with great personality trumps all that
Not all the time sometimes they just like certain ethnicities and height. Seen women turned down a man with everything together but was 5’8 for a bum that was 6’2 with no career, ate garbages and was on drugs
@@sadarisbenjamin4203sad thing is alot of women will try to mold the man they like if he don’t have it all together vs a man healthier for them that might lack height lol
Facts you speaking O.G I don't even pay attention too these women I be so focused on me and my mission. Some women say that turns them on. Other women get mad. One girl in my neighborhood bust my car windows because I did not give her no play. Lol. And she was bad but her attitude i didn't like. Men should never chase a woman. That's being thirsty.
Just started listening to nice guys and players audiobook, so this message is perfect timing. And you’re right as always, never chase just focus on the high interest women only. At most give her a chance to choose you/show you her interest level.
Unc you have no clue how much peace having this on the headphone while I'm working remote (tech) brings me. The Music in the background of your vids is healing for real. Appreciate you Keep rising everyone ! ❤
You know what's funny Rom, I even tell women that they choose up on a guy 3 weeks before the guy even says hi to her because that woman already was checking that dude out ahead of time. The women even agreed and said it was true!
Facts brother Rom.. even on dating sites I took this particular philosophy because I never liked any women, one liked me a month ago and now she drives a hour and a half every weekend just to come see and spend time with me...I reckon I'm chosen😎.. this is More 🔥🔥 Content man!💪🏾
I’ve been out the comments awhile uncle rom as I’ve been in a relationship for coming up on a year next month … I’ve had the most dating success of my life the last two years with the info I’ve gotten from your YT and Patreon page .. one of the biggest pieces of advice is choosing who chooses you , thanks Unc and well wishes 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
A while back I had a woman I was dealing with that use to leave her key for me while she was out or even on dates. A few times she brought food back for me to eat on the other brothers dime 🤷🏾♂️ once she mentioned she had no plans on going out with a guy but he mentioned a restaurant that she liked that had a dish she wanted me to try. She went out on that date and told me to be at her place while she was gone just so she could bring me that certain dish. It was delicious 😂
I hear you and I know what you are saying is true. I’ve taken up the fools errand in the past of trying to chase a woman and I know it’s not worth it at the end of the day. But one of the things that is disturbing to me is that the women who consistently choose me are overweight, not thick either, but obese. I’m not into that. I know the BBWs are for some people, but they are not for me. I can deal with a woman with a little bit of weight on her, but obese? I can’t do it. I practice body game religiously and am into martial arts and I am a competitive long distance runner. I am also vegan. I am a ripped 145 lbs with visible abs. I am not working this hard to be healthy to date a woman who is a hog. My ex-wife is petite like less than a 120 lbs. The last woman I dealt with was not that petite but she was like 5’2” and maybe 150 lbs or so. She worked to lose like 40lbs during the time I was dealing with her. It’s just discouraging to have all of these women I don’t like trying to choose. I’m like man what the hell!!! lol. I guess I just have to be patient and get in front of more women. I’m outside a lot, but I’m usually going to the gym, running around with my two sons, or at the grocery store. Other than that, I’m going to work and going home. I’m one of those people who when I am doing something I’m focused on that. I don’t approach women when I’m working out because I’m focused on that.
Yeah I’m not pressed self development and helping others to be the best selves is what I put most of my time in. The ones less physically attractive are more cooperative but they had to do that to stand out I guess. Just like the equivalent of a shorter guy having to use other things than his physicality to attract them. However not everybody is not vain and following my purpose has shown me that
Either you need to get amongst better woman or you're sending those women the wrong messages, maybe you are too focused on goals and tasks and not so good at connecting with women, with that sexual charisma, etc. Hard to say from just a comment. Do you ever catch women looking at you?
I don’t really pay attention to who is looking at me when I’m out and about. I have had women staring at me in the past. Like the other day I was running in the park with my shirt off and a woman made a flirtatious comment about my body. I don’t see how I could be sending obese women the wrong message. I don’t even look at overweight women. And a lot of this choosing comes from online dating sites where these obese women are trying to “match” with me or something. There was this overweight bailiff one time who was talking about she’d do anything for me. I’m like whoa ma’am in my head. I didn’t say anything out loud. I kind of ignored the comment.
@adofominka8767 the same thing happens to me. I mean, it isn't ONLY overweight women choosing me, but I feel like at least half of them are a little overweight if not obese. There's this one chick I talked to once because she was in the snapchat community thing for my college. Well then she sent pics and I wasn't interested anymore due to her weight. This chick legit stalks me. I just deleted my dating apps today because I hate them (whole other story I'm not gonna get into in this comment) but whenever I would create a new account just for an algorithm reset, this chick would always send me a like. It's like she just wasn't taking the hint that I'm not interested. Pretty much she was doing what a lot of men do, chasing someone who doesn't even want her/him.
She have to chose you. In order to do that You have to escape first and let her chase You. The best option is to let her chose you, and play it right. The easiet relationship ever. But then, dont cut off the options.
Hm as a highcaliber guy, almost every women choose you. The problem start when you approach them, and they feel insecure and not good enough for you. But thats a problem, that probably 1 out of 50‘000 men have. If you are that rare kind of womanizer, you know what im talking about. They feel intimidated and dont know what to do with you, because theyve never dealt with a handsome guy like that
Guys just think about. This …..look back over all your relationships and i guarantee. You the ones you were in when the women chose you were more peaceful and healthy. It’s 1000 men chasing these women don’t be 1001 I’ve never had a problem with women but once I started investing in myself more I saw an even bigger difference. But I wasn’t even focused on them I was on my purpose and through the lord I found an amazing woman So fellas Read books Hit the gym Eat right atleast most of the time Practice semen retention Invest your money Wear cologne Indulge in self care Get your swag up If you do those things and be a master of them women will flock. Men will admire you and children will look at you like a hero. Trust me.
Women are always on their phone and no one is too busy to reply to a text. Just let her be because if she really liked you, you wouldn't be wondering why she isn't texting back.
A girl I used to work with got a bf but was choosing up on me like a mf at the job while training me and everything gave me some food a guy gave her shit was bussing I was so thankful for that food cause I was hungry too gave me her number and told me she has a crazy bf that pulls up to her job she was responsive at the job but when she got home with her bf not so much what should I do guys she bad too tho she told me her whole work schedule too tho.
@ who said I wanted a relationship and I was gone lose her? Idk that dude I don’t owe him no loyalty he don’t know what I been through I’m not finna wait on him bro sorry she probably don’t even like dude fr.
@ you should have an abundance mindset brother, no one saying just wait for her outside her house lol I’m saying do you with other single woman and if she breaks it off with him you can your thing but you a man, do what you see fit
If she plays hard to get, then she automatically becomes hard to want and I move on. Great message uncle Rom.
This alone will save you from a lot of trouble with women. Trust Rom. Thanks bro
Facts I’m a man of GOD but them pimp principles are simple but GOLDEN. choose the woman that chooses you it’s simple. I don’t condone a lot of things pimps do but that simple message can save any young man if he apply it
Best advice of the year.
Pay attention to the woman that want you focus on becoming your best self always have confidence and stay on your mission .
💯💯
Those are rare and have come across them but I’m not physically attracted to them. But I’ll lower my beauty standards because personality will sustain a longer relationship.
Big facts 💯
Facts 🎯 men don't want nothingness from a woman just like a woman doesn't want a man thats not the best version of himself it shows you have a covering of nothingness.
I agree ..50 years old, never married, no children , only choose women who send you a signal …. Makes dating a whole lot easier.
Hey Rom. I'm 48 been a widower 11years now. My wife was a stunner, never had any problems. And she chose me, so I agree with what ur spitting sir. Your favourite south African brother🇿🇦🇿🇦. Salute
Hey Brother, she is resting in peace. ❤ I'm 40 and single
@@jetpark3743 yeah she is thanks brother🤞🤝
Aweh my bra
@@jetpark3743my deepest condolences
Happiest and easiest dating has ever been for me is with the women who were not as conventionally beautiful, but had the kindest souls, were incredibly caring, fixed me a plate and wanted to please me. They were DOWN FOR ME and no one else!
Currently head over heels for a woman who may not be as conventionally beautiful, has imperfections, flaws, etc. But - she will move mountains to be there for me. She gives 110% effort in our connection. She has softened my heart and is supporting me in my career, my mental health and personal struggles as I navigate the end of my 20's and heal from old hurts.
Most importantly, and for the first time in my life - she makes me feel safe and seen.
I am falling for her more and more every day.
She has to show you she likes you way more than you liking her
Thats why i dont chase women, if they choose me then ill take it from there. If a woman really desires you in 2024, she will make it known & obvious for you.
The toll on your dignity and maybe even self-esteem not being the 1st option isn’t worth it as a man. I’ve accepted being someone “settled for” and will never make that mistake again. Why? Most men can treat their Top 5 choices well while still be respectful towards those they haven’t chosen or will never choose - most women just can’t do that. The 5th option is considered too underwhelming, the 4th is for passing time in hopes of curing boredom, 3rd is considered disappointing to her, and the 2nd is considered settling. Listen to Rom Wills…be 1st.
I've made this observation as well. The vast majority of people settle, but men are usually content with what they settled for...if a woman settles, she won't be happy long term.
Facts
“Playas get chose…”
Players get _selected_ by her in an attempt to see if she can outplay them. That’s not the same thing as a woman sending choosing signals because she is genuinely attracted or interested.
@ women choose in the game and women choose when she wants the real thing as well. In any case once she has made her decision the ball is in the man’s side of the court
@@qthequick If we are talking about most women…arousal and attraction aren’t the same thing *for them* - therefore selection and choice also aren’t the same thing *for them* . Most women (especially young) are _aroused_ by fun and so _select_ the men they think to be a worthy opponent in attempting to play or outplay the game of lust with. Most women (especially older) are _attracted_ to stability/security and then _choose_ men they think to be a worthy provider of those resources.
We agree that regardless of her decisions, the ball is then in the man’s court - yes. But not differentiating their perspective on ‘selection vs choice’ is thinking like a man rather than a woman. Selection is typically swift, Choice is generally slow.
Right on time Unc. Talking to a chick who told me just yesterday. I don't chase men, but you weren't responding to me, so I have to ask you for a date. We sat and talk for over an hour.
And then?
@youngmeezy7635 We going on w date this weekend. We had lunch together today. Point being, some chick's will show you they like you. You don't have to chase.
@@MrCometcrusher78 Good boy Jimmy good luck!!
Well I’ll give you some advice if you looking for a serious relationship or marriage don’t have sex with her. If you do outside of marriage it might be a wrap before it start.
so true, I remember being young without any knowledge of game...analyzing every small detail trying to know if a woman liked me, what a joke...when they really do they will clearly come at you.
Yup
*Mr Wills. Sir, I believe this is the cause of 90% of the frustration and pain in the dating market today. Men chasing women who don't even want them. Women who aren't checking for them like that*
*A man should make himself the best version of himself, become the most attractive man he can be. Then GO OUTSIDE and have women choose up. When she wants to be with you, she makes it so much easier for the man*
we have to change our mindset and settle on beauty standards. Beauty id fleeting and not that rare anymore but I feminine women with great personality trumps all that
This is true, I always had much better relations with women who had interest in me first
Every woman I’ve picked up in person, they all ALREADY knew me from her friends or seen me before 😂
I love listening to people who are older than me bcz they have experience and alot of wisdom thank you sir
Facts. If women aren't choosing you then that's a massive sign you haven't put enough work into your physical appearance and body game.
Don’t forget the character, too. Women reject men who have no substance, as well.
Don’t forgot some are born without beauty aesthetics. Humans are superficial.
Not all the time sometimes they just like certain ethnicities and height. Seen women turned down a man with everything together but was 5’8 for a bum that was 6’2 with no career, ate garbages and was on drugs
@@sadarisbenjamin4203sad thing is alot of women will try to mold the man they like if he don’t have it all together vs a man healthier for them that might lack height lol
Facts you speaking O.G I don't even pay attention too these women I be so focused on me and my mission. Some women say that turns them on. Other women get mad. One girl in my neighborhood bust my car windows because I did not give her no play. Lol. And she was bad but her attitude i didn't like. Men should never chase a woman. That's being thirsty.
Bro stay on that purpose and get closer to GOD the more you do the more those type of women will turn you off
So true chose woman that chose you out those options chose the best
Key to happiness & confident situations with women…
Just started listening to nice guys and players audiobook, so this message is perfect timing. And you’re right as always, never chase just focus on the high interest women only. At most give her a chance to choose you/show you her interest level.
Thats why Im chillin until she shows up lol
Unc you have no clue how much peace having this on the headphone while I'm working remote (tech) brings me. The Music in the background of your vids is healing for real. Appreciate you
Keep rising everyone ! ❤
You know what's funny Rom, I even tell women that they choose up on a guy 3 weeks before the guy even says hi to her because that woman already was checking that dude out ahead of time. The women even agreed and said it was true!
It's as simple as that this is the best way to live 🙌🏾🔥
Facts brother Rom.. even on dating sites I took this particular philosophy because I never liked any women, one liked me a month ago and now she drives a hour and a half every weekend just to come see and spend time with me...I reckon I'm chosen😎.. this is More 🔥🔥 Content man!💪🏾
Needed this! I find myself chasing. Nah ima just rock with the ones who want me
Good stuff, Uncle Rom! The women make it obvious when they feeling you. Vice versa? They’ll do everything to avoid you. Peace and blessings!!
I watch your videos on the regular in the morning, and Sir, this is the truth! Great video.
I’ve been out the comments awhile uncle rom as I’ve been in a relationship for coming up on a year next month … I’ve had the most dating success of my life the last two years with the info I’ve gotten from your YT and Patreon page .. one of the biggest pieces of advice is choosing who chooses you , thanks Unc and well wishes 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
A while back I had a woman I was dealing with that use to leave her key for me while she was out or even on dates. A few times she brought food back for me to eat on the other brothers dime 🤷🏾♂️ once she mentioned she had no plans on going out with a guy but he mentioned a restaurant that she liked that had a dish she wanted me to try. She went out on that date and told me to be at her place while she was gone just so she could bring me that certain dish. It was delicious 😂
Really?
Wow!
Congrats bro
Or they will lie and say it’s they bought for lunch an did have time to eat it
I hear you and I know what you are saying is true. I’ve taken up the fools errand in the past of trying to chase a woman and I know it’s not worth it at the end of the day. But one of the things that is disturbing to me is that the women who consistently choose me are overweight, not thick either, but obese. I’m not into that. I know the BBWs are for some people, but they are not for me. I can deal with a woman with a little bit of weight on her, but obese? I can’t do it.
I practice body game religiously and am into martial arts and I am a competitive long distance runner. I am also vegan. I am a ripped 145 lbs with visible abs. I am not working this hard to be healthy to date a woman who is a hog.
My ex-wife is petite like less than a 120 lbs. The last woman I dealt with was not that petite but she was like 5’2” and maybe 150 lbs or so. She worked to lose like 40lbs during the time I was dealing with her.
It’s just discouraging to have all of these women I don’t like trying to choose. I’m like man what the hell!!! lol.
I guess I just have to be patient and get in front of more women. I’m outside a lot, but I’m usually going to the gym, running around with my two sons, or at the grocery store. Other than that, I’m going to work and going home.
I’m one of those people who when I am doing something I’m focused on that. I don’t approach women when I’m working out because I’m focused on that.
Yeah I’m not pressed self development and helping others to be the best selves is what I put most of my time in. The ones less physically attractive are more cooperative but they had to do that to stand out I guess. Just like the equivalent of a shorter guy having to use other things than his physicality to attract them. However not everybody is not vain and following my purpose has shown me that
Either you need to get amongst better woman or you're sending those women the wrong messages, maybe you are too focused on goals and tasks and not so good at connecting with women, with that sexual charisma, etc. Hard to say from just a comment.
Do you ever catch women looking at you?
I don’t really pay attention to who is looking at me when I’m out and about. I have had women staring at me in the past. Like the other day I was running in the park with my shirt off and a woman made a flirtatious comment about my body.
I don’t see how I could be sending obese women the wrong message. I don’t even look at overweight women. And a lot of this choosing comes from online dating sites where these obese women are trying to “match” with me or something. There was this overweight bailiff one time who was talking about she’d do anything for me. I’m like whoa ma’am in my head. I didn’t say anything out loud. I kind of ignored the comment.
@adofominka8767 the same thing happens to me. I mean, it isn't ONLY overweight women choosing me, but I feel like at least half of them are a little overweight if not obese. There's this one chick I talked to once because she was in the snapchat community thing for my college. Well then she sent pics and I wasn't interested anymore due to her weight. This chick legit stalks me. I just deleted my dating apps today because I hate them (whole other story I'm not gonna get into in this comment) but whenever I would create a new account just for an algorithm reset, this chick would always send me a like. It's like she just wasn't taking the hint that I'm not interested. Pretty much she was doing what a lot of men do, chasing someone who doesn't even want her/him.
She have to chose you. In order to do that You have to escape first and let her chase You. The best option is to let her chose you, and play it right. The easiet relationship ever. But then, dont cut off the options.
Wow! It’s not about her looks as much as it is about her actions!!! Powerful brother
These videos are addicting thanks uncle rom
Yall are all on time
If she's not choosing, you're losing.
Yep got enough feeling me to where i dont ever have to chase ..
Spot on
Great video
Hm as a highcaliber guy, almost every women choose you. The problem start when you approach them, and they feel insecure and not good enough for you. But thats a problem, that probably 1 out of 50‘000 men have. If you are that rare kind of womanizer, you know what im talking about. They feel intimidated and dont know what to do with you, because theyve never dealt with a handsome guy like that
This is paramount. Peace to you, brother Rom.
Uncle Rom dropping real life gems here take it or leave it but this is the facts
Women choose men that choose themselves as the first order of business in life.
Nothing but the truth
Insightful👍☝️💯
Let’s go rom…Keep that good game coming !!!
Real advice from a real OG.
Bless
This is the most Logical thing I've ever heard!!!
I had one that would go out her way to talk to me and follow me around at work. Giving compliments all day but I went for the move and excuses pops up
She cooked for me as well and was bad to. But then games aren't worth playing
So on point and right on time. Trying to stay at peace and focused
Just for the title alone...
Thanks for your support.
Great video Rom! Always speaking facts.
This was good
Put em in the game coach
Facts on top of facts it works out better that way
Guys just think about. This …..look back over all your relationships and i guarantee. You the ones you were in when the women chose you were more peaceful and healthy. It’s 1000 men chasing these women don’t be 1001 I’ve never had a problem with women but once I started investing in myself more I saw an even bigger difference. But I wasn’t even focused on them I was on my purpose and through the lord I found an amazing woman So fellas
Read books
Hit the gym
Eat right atleast most of the time
Practice semen retention
Invest your money
Wear cologne
Indulge in self care
Get your swag up
If you do those things and be a master of them women will flock. Men will admire you and children will look at you like a hero. Trust me.
Factual
Facts
Thanks!
Thanks for your support.
ONLY, or else you gonna be tryin' to convince somebody to like you. With money, cars and clothes. 👍
What if she gives me consistent choosing signals but then don’t reply to my text ?
Women are always on their phone and no one is too busy to reply to a text. Just let her be because if she really liked you, you wouldn't be wondering why she isn't texting back.
And if she has a relationship and she does all of the good signs you've mentioned... What can I do, because her boyfriend is a friend of mine
Plenty of other fish in the sea, don’t do the homie like that
@@777Sol7 agreed here 🤝
Let your homie know she choosing
A girl I used to work with got a bf but was choosing up on me like a mf at the job while training me and everything gave me some food a guy gave her shit was bussing I was so thankful for that food cause I was hungry too gave me her number and told me she has a crazy bf that pulls up to her job she was responsive at the job but when she got home with her bf not so much what should I do guys she bad too tho she told me her whole work schedule too tho.
Keep it P, if she got man wait until she is single because they way you get her is the way you lose her
@ who said I wanted a relationship and I was gone lose her? Idk that dude I don’t owe him no loyalty he don’t know what I been through I’m not finna wait on him bro sorry she probably don’t even like dude fr.
@@Mr.GrimReaper1 Then why ask for opinions from others if you weren't interested in getting any?
@ I care for opinion but saying wait until her bf breaks up with her then proceed irdc atp tbh it is what it is im a man at the end of the day.
@ you should have an abundance mindset brother, no one saying just wait for her outside her house lol I’m saying do you with other single woman and if she breaks it off with him you can your thing but you a man, do what you see fit
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Mr Wills i am young man and you changed my perspective on many things in life i just wanna say thank you and God Bless you.🫡🔥
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Nice one Rom ✊🏾✊🏾🫡🫡🫱🏻🫲🏾🫱🏻🫲🏾💯💯🏆🙏🏾😈😎😉😉⭐️⭐️🔥🔥🥹🥹😊😊
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