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КОМЕНТАРІ • 708

  • @Peinaj
    @Peinaj Рік тому +5710

    The opening story is gut wrenching, this human experience can be unimaginably painful. I thank you all for sharing.

    • @sofiauksus1270
      @sofiauksus1270 Рік тому +13

      so true

    • @winnygpooh5003
      @winnygpooh5003 Рік тому +26

      Life is so insane, people go through such things and decide death is better then living i don’t understand if theirs a point to life

    • @winnygpooh5003
      @winnygpooh5003 Рік тому +5

      Jus seems to try and have fun while u can

    • @JustSleptOn
      @JustSleptOn Рік тому +4

      Right.. I need to hear the full story fr

    • @sofienummers
      @sofienummers Рік тому +7

      Yes... you could feel her pain so much :(

  • @Peanutbutterluvme
    @Peanutbutterluvme Рік тому +2924

    I want to give a hug to the first woman. That’s so horrible! My abusive ex recently committed suicide because I didn’t want to get back with him. I could have easily been his victim, and committing suicide hurt me more than him trying to strangle me. I am sorry for the woman, that must be so horrible bc you wanna get back at your dad and also tell your mom you love her but none of them are there. Please be okay🧡

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess Рік тому +158

      remember it wasn't your fault he did that. i wish you well.

    • @Valkyri3Z
      @Valkyri3Z Рік тому +71

      You did nothing wrong. It was never in your hand.

    • @SarcasticaleeXP
      @SarcasticaleeXP Рік тому +48

      I'm gonna sound mean but at least you don't have to deal with that anymore, I hope you're at peace.

    • @leumasarc4180
      @leumasarc4180 Рік тому +11

      @@nqtebob Outta pocket 💀

    • @PaigeWeso
      @PaigeWeso Рік тому +19

      My ex who assaulted me died in 2021 and a part of me was deeply sad even though I had gone no contact for many years. But another part of me that I’ve started accepting is that it’s okay to be angry at him too. I took a lot of blame for the situation for the relationship on myself, when in reality he probably held the lions share of our issues.

  • @janellentim
    @janellentim Рік тому +1219

    The segment about Dads and Fathers really hits home. My dad was and still is so distant. He hurt my sister worse. He complained about attending her high school graduation because he had to miss work. She was so broken.

    • @mayacokie4811
      @mayacokie4811 Рік тому +37

      What a selfish man

    • @IRHasDiabetes911
      @IRHasDiabetes911 Рік тому +14

      sounds like he regrets becoming a dad.

    • @ivy8483
      @ivy8483 Рік тому +1

      Bruh it’s just a graduation .. highschool at best lmao call me when it’s college and she has her stem degree with 100K out the door

    • @thewhatsupquiqui
      @thewhatsupquiqui Рік тому +6

      That dad segment hit hard 😢

    • @abdul-rehmanshah1916
      @abdul-rehmanshah1916 Рік тому +1

      ​@@mayacokie4811 what a selfish man for working.

  • @briannaepstein6385
    @briannaepstein6385 Рік тому +873

    1:25 I love her "oh no, we're done" with that smile 😭💖

    • @xAeterno
      @xAeterno Рік тому

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    • @user-ff9mb1ts4u
      @user-ff9mb1ts4u Рік тому +27

      a whole queen. i hope she's in a better place

    • @sebwallahi
      @sebwallahi Рік тому +3

      Her smile could get her a role in Get Out 2

    • @CursalMusic
      @CursalMusic Рік тому

      L Take :)

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Рік тому +346

    “I don’t want to sound like I have daddy issues but I have daddy issues” if this ain’t me 😭. I feel you girl, but therapy and self growth is so important to combat this (for anyone else with the same problem)

    • @JhonnyStone100
      @JhonnyStone100 Рік тому +5

      daddy issues lmao get real

    • @itsmj3103
      @itsmj3103 Рік тому +17

      if someone asks me if I have daddy issues I'll just start saying "yeah, my dad has issues" because that's 100% what it is 😂 I aint got no issues, man just be crazy childish

    • @jessp8238
      @jessp8238 Рік тому +1

      @@turtle5426What else? Lol

  • @sinfulxsalty
    @sinfulxsalty Рік тому +935

    Remember, sharing your story not only helps you heal, but it also inspires others who may be going through similar situations. Your resilience shines through and it's evident that you've grown from this experience. Keep pushing forward and never let the pain define you.

  • @ndayolaulenga3574
    @ndayolaulenga3574 Рік тому +423

    What I really love about the Keep It 100 segment is getting to see all the faces framed and lit the same. And getting to see how everyone has unique features and shape sizes, different eye sizes and body shapes. I really like that. And the stories people share, of course 😊

    • @iankim6236
      @iankim6236 Рік тому +11

      That is exactly what I thought while watching this video. So many unique and wonderful faces.

    • @CursalMusic
      @CursalMusic Рік тому

      L Take :)

    • @asiyah8239
      @asiyah8239 7 місяців тому

      L take??? what lol@@CursalMusic

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 Рік тому +805

    Getting your heart ripped up is painful, but with time, it can be mended. You just need to be patient with yourself.

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Рік тому +2

      🥺💕

    • @rogerthat1758
      @rogerthat1758 Рік тому

      @@khalilahd.girl u need a break seriously u all over😂😂

    • @JamarcusReacts
      @JamarcusReacts Рік тому +2

      Them: “Who broke ur heart”
      Me: “EVERYONE”

    • @rogerthat1758
      @rogerthat1758 Рік тому

      @@excripto1 give it 3 months

    • @JD-773
      @JD-773 Рік тому

      ​​@@excripto1 You will eventually meet someone new and you will probably always love that other person as well deep down. It sucks, it's life..

  • @E.veee03
    @E.veee03 Рік тому +670

    Thank you people at CUT. I’m currently going through a breakup with my longest partner of over four years. He left and said some horrible things and this helped me a lot.

    • @edenelizabeth3569
      @edenelizabeth3569 Рік тому +17

      I’m going through a really similar thing - don’t worry it will get easier. Time heals 💛

    • @nopenope9118
      @nopenope9118 Рік тому +7

      You deserve better and you’ll find it! Give yourself time to heal.

    • @anikashama4144
      @anikashama4144 Рік тому +4

      Me too. And never thought it would be this difficult

    • @SwaggyGoober
      @SwaggyGoober Рік тому +1

      I’m so sorry.. I just wanna say Jesus loves you.♥️

    • @idiot1117
      @idiot1117 Рік тому +1

      I feel that, let yourself feel all the emotions you need rn and talk to the ones you love it really helps xx

  • @hollidanielgarnett1046
    @hollidanielgarnett1046 Рік тому +431

    I'm surprised not a lot said their moms. My mom broke mine systematically through my childhood. Then, I chased boys who didn't want me because I was programmed to break my own self. Sad but true.

    • @kpoplover1901
      @kpoplover1901 Рік тому +18

      same! I have a lot of resentment towards my mother even though I know at her core she is not intentionally trying to hurt me. Doesn't mean she doesn't know better though, and still made the choices she did. It made me extremely hesitant to date because I was so afraid of never being enough. Now I'm 26 and she is exasperated at me not being married yet lol

    • @ivy8483
      @ivy8483 Рік тому +7

      Lmao my mom cheated on my stepdad and my entire work found out and I work with a lot of my stepdads friends she broke my family dawg I miss living with my siblings but I had to move out Ts was so toxic

    • @vector_vector__
      @vector_vector__ Рік тому +11

      That's where this whole "he's too nice" come from , the people use those words are typically women who have parent issues , either with their Moms or father .
      There is Nothing wrong being Nice .

    • @AvaJea22
      @AvaJea22 Рік тому +7

      My mom broke my heart as well I still love her to death but we are not close at all. Many things are the reason for this.

    • @indiamcbuggins9758
      @indiamcbuggins9758 Рік тому +7

      My mom broke my heart 1st & frequently. I'm in my 40s now & I still suffer from the scars she inflicted upon me on a daily basis. I have a child of my own now & I pretty much hold my mother up as an example of what not to do. I also try to pour into my child all that I longed for from my mother during my own childhood.

  • @mn-cb3hk
    @mn-cb3hk Рік тому +259

    Honestly nice choice with the background music pick, not too cheesy and respectful enough, because this topic is absolutely brutal with how honest everyone was

    • @dontpanic5278
      @dontpanic5278 Рік тому +7

      Gymnopedie No. 1 for anyone wondering

  • @DestGutierrez
    @DestGutierrez Рік тому +119

    “I love you but I don’t like you” sadly so many young women can relate 😔 i could never imagine saying or thinking that about my daughter

  • @KittySkeed
    @KittySkeed Рік тому +227

    Heartbreak feels like coming down off a high/drug. It's like a mental detox of one specific person and it's as painful as actual detox but with different symptoms.

  • @philipsparks6089
    @philipsparks6089 Рік тому +300

    I live in the southern US where being gay is still kinda taboo. My ex and I have shared trauma from growing up in conservative households and we were dating long distance. We both had a loooot of insecurities and we brought them out of each other. Hes the only one ive ever found romantic, physical, and emotional comfort in and having to acknowledge that he wasnt good for me was the hardest choice ive ever had to make. I could have moved in with him and felt comfort, but I would have been totally limiting myself and what I want out of my life. I had 0 support system where I was at at the time but I just know he never had time for me and nothing would change if I go back. Its been almost a year and I still think about him every single day. Every ounce of my being wants to go back to him, and I know he would take me back. But its so hard to tell myself that I deserve better than what I had since he was the best I ever had.

    • @TreavorUnion
      @TreavorUnion Рік тому +20

      I've lived a similar story (came from Christian households in the south). He was in the closet, I wasn't. No one here can tell you what to do. But we both went back to each other and it wasn't the same as it was and unfortunately, it was never going to be what I needed it to be. And that realization that comes during a breakup is something to hold on to because it will eventually propel you into finding the right person.
      And you will. I still wish my ex well. He and I are ok. We've apologized for the things we said and did over 10 years ago.
      Someone gave me similar advice when I was in your shoes. One foot in front of the other until you're there.
      You'll love again. I have and it was the greatest, magicalest thing.
      The love lasts, the relationship does not. But I'm so grateful to have had the experience of someone loving me and to love someone else.
      Give yourself more time.

    • @nurichbinhier2864
      @nurichbinhier2864 Рік тому +6

      Hey Philip! I'm so sure that u will find love and happiness❤ U sound like u went through a lot be kind to yourself. Maybe u can move to another more open place? Or find support in therapy or connect online with people who went through something similar? I'm not from the US but I'm pretty sure there are lgbtq groups who are supportive? Anyways wish u the best

    • @annatati
      @annatati Рік тому +2

      Keep staying strong!!

    • @sofiauksus1270
      @sofiauksus1270 Рік тому +4

      I'm going through a very similar stage now. What helps me cheer myself up is understanding, that I'm now taking time which I need to build the best of myself. Sometimes I feel so lonley that I'd rather come back to my ex, or find completely anybody to make it feel easier.
      But the easiest way isn't always the best. You're embracing yourself and only attracting even better people into your life.

    • @H2h0e
      @H2h0e Рік тому +3

      Unfortunately trauma bonding isn’t the strongest or healthiest of foundations for relationships of any kind. I’m sorry the cruelty of others has caused you this pain.

  • @HeisenbergFam
    @HeisenbergFam Рік тому +156

    2:35 I will never understand the mentality of wanting to sexually assault someone thinking its a great idea, glad she is doing better without her ex

    • @TreavorUnion
      @TreavorUnion Рік тому +26

      The perpetrator doesn't do it with the intent of being a good idea. In my situation, he was a sex addict and wanted to feel good at any expense.

    • @nopenope9118
      @nopenope9118 Рік тому

      What’s really fucked up is thinking about how violent sexual predators can end a human life simply so that they can cum once. Every time I hear about a woman being R’d and killed I think about how their murderer valued their life less than one orgasm.

    • @ali773n
      @ali773n Рік тому +21

      @Turtle he wasnt defending anybody. And why are you treating a victim that way? You got some stuff to work out.

    • @Realcordy
      @Realcordy Рік тому +5

      @Turtle he wasn’t defending anyone and that’s a human construct!

  • @suhaniisshy
    @suhaniisshy Рік тому +197

    tbh i never thought she would be the my first heartbreak. I remember being terrified of getting my heart broken by guys but i forgot that the one closest to you are the ones whose betrayal hurts the most. There are no ballads or poems about you platonic bestfriend breaking your heart and no cures on how to heal. Hope you guys are doing well

    • @nova3530onyt
      @nova3530onyt Рік тому +4

      This hit home for me. I had this happen to me a few months ago. It's so hurtful and I hope u can heal as well and don't worry, I'm sure it'll get better for you. Stay strong ^^

    • @Subrosathefirst
      @Subrosathefirst Рік тому

      There might not be any commonly known formulas but healing from trust being broken and loss is probably always going to be helped along by therapy, and theres a co-counselling if you can’t afford professional x

    • @loudyzen
      @loudyzen Рік тому

      Exactly most of them speak about romantic relationships but for me it’s the platonic ones that are the real heartbreakers :/ Like no man has ever got into my heart like a real friend

    • @CursalMusic
      @CursalMusic Рік тому

      L Take :)

  • @AlyssaMaria13
    @AlyssaMaria13 Рік тому +53

    Seeing everyone smile after heartbreak is so amazing. We all get heartbroken and we all eventually move on and grow from it. Such a unique part of the human experience.

  • @joruckus
    @joruckus Рік тому +62

    "I love you, but I don't like you..." yeah, I felt that.

    • @shanelle_a
      @shanelle_a Рік тому +11

      At this point I started bawling. My mother has always said the same thing to me both in childhood and adulthood, and I have never heard of someone with such a similar experience. Though it’s a horrible thing to say and hear, it is healing to hear someone else went through this and I’m not alone.

    • @joruckus
      @joruckus Рік тому

      @@shanelle_a 🖤

  • @theCailleach
    @theCailleach Рік тому +98

    Everyone's faces are so beautiful and interesting to look at

  • @Sparkles-gp2bm
    @Sparkles-gp2bm Рік тому +28

    Honestly my dad was my first heart break too. We used to get into heated arguments growing up. He worked so hard to keep us fed and warm but never took care of himself during his 2 days off. He would drink and so when he would come in the house he’d turn his anger onto us kids but not physically but verbally. It really drove a wedge between him and I. I asked him one night “do you hate me?” And he said “maybe.” I was so hurt that I found every single evil thing I could think of to say to him. Him and I are good now since he’s home alot more now. Im 24 and so we’ve become a bit more close but the damage to my self esteem has already been done. What I lacked in validation, love and care in dad I went searching for it in men.

  • @katieh890
    @katieh890 Рік тому +21

    The ones about dads really got to me…I never really thought of my dad being the first person who broke my heart, but he absolutely did, and I’m working on a lot of that childhood trauma in therapy now. Love to anyone else who had a parent who broke their heart ❤

  • @khadijahbegum3546
    @khadijahbegum3546 Рік тому +17

    "I love you but I don't like you" damn.

  • @Fredo657
    @Fredo657 Рік тому +31

    As a person that is going throught a heartbrake at the moment, it is really nice to see the people smile rather than cry or be sad about it. So i hope i am going to heal just as them and live happily just as them.

  • @Doudou25870
    @Doudou25870 Рік тому +23

    You know what, this video made me rethink about the last (and first) time I got broken hearted just before covid hit, and I just realized, I'm fully over it. Two years ago I wouldnt have thought that to be possible. So hang in there if you're going through heart break, it does get better :) ❤

    • @rinmartell2678
      @rinmartell2678 9 місяців тому

      Thank you. I really needed this. My heart just got broken and it feels like hell on earth. I hope it gets better

  • @Nooticus
    @Nooticus Рік тому +22

    The 'You're too nice' breakup. That hits me hard.

    • @DK-210
      @DK-210 Рік тому +5

      Anyone who says that is a red flag

    • @Nooticus
      @Nooticus Рік тому +2

      @@DK-210 absolutely

    • @Lipanj92
      @Lipanj92 Рік тому

      ​@@DK-210 Red flag is being a 'nice guy' meaning 'harmless', and even bigger red flag is not finding it a red flag. What kind of a woman would go for a harmless guy except the toxic and manipulative one? Men up, boys.

  • @urfavrachael
    @urfavrachael Рік тому +18

    0:05 5 seconds in and my eyes already watering

  • @BRITdave-so1sl
    @BRITdave-so1sl Рік тому +19

    You never really get over grief, you grow around it apparently

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu Рік тому +19

    5:15 telling your mom that your family member hurted you and them not believing, can actually break a person more than we can imagine 😢

  • @bipolaryx
    @bipolaryx Рік тому +57

    Last time someone broke my heart was my best friend. She was in a pretty abusive relationship, and she still choose her partner and stopped talking to me, because their partner told her so

    • @marvelouschaos
      @marvelouschaos Рік тому +4

      same

    • @A1_Amir
      @A1_Amir Рік тому +4

      Let her dig her own hole. When she gets to her lowest and feels the need to comeback to you, shut her out with silence

    • @Estradarp
      @Estradarp Рік тому +2

      Literally same here

    • @tbrown9328
      @tbrown9328 Рік тому +27

      ​@Amirs_Articulate this is incredibly selfish and terrible advice... punishing the person being abused for being manipulated? Like did you even read wtf was said?

    • @A1_Amir
      @A1_Amir Рік тому

      @@tbrown9328 yeahhh Its easy for me to cut off people who are hurting themselves and continuously show they have no effort in changing themselves. Ig its okay cause there is people like you who reaffirm toxic behavior that not only hurts the host but the other people close. Keep it that way and you’ll see who deprived of life you’ll be when you keep shit people in your life.

  • @Amor_y_Alma
    @Amor_y_Alma Рік тому +24

    we jumped right into the DEEP END with that first one. WOW 💔

  • @Nay-wd1tp
    @Nay-wd1tp Рік тому +11

    I think a parent breaking your heart hits harder. Those disappointments stay with you

  • @charlotteczel4666
    @charlotteczel4666 Рік тому +9

    "It breaks you constantly rather than just once"
    "Interesting🙂"

  • @TDS1281
    @TDS1281 Рік тому +22

    My heart was broken and it never stopped hurting . It’s definitely shaped how I deal with people and who i trust .

  • @kennichnicht1312
    @kennichnicht1312 Рік тому +14

    6:41 the irish comment was def the funniest part of the vid

  • @bestLetsplayer
    @bestLetsplayer Рік тому +2

    Idk the very last sentence. Shaming small penises? Really? Nice body shaming

  • @jessiemartinez3575
    @jessiemartinez3575 Рік тому +11

    ain’t no way her mom said “I love you but I don’t like you”. If you genuinely loved someone, you would never say something so hurtful 😞 ESPECIALLY to ur own child smh

  • @Ecfotografy
    @Ecfotografy Рік тому +30

    Myself
    I kept letting someone lead me on despite I knew she wasn't interested
    Once she finally gave me a chance I was so confused and down on myself I didn't take it, I was afraid to lose her
    In the end I lost her and I still think we could have been perfect for one another

    • @alitzzy
      @alitzzy Рік тому

      Don't be the option, honey. You value more.

  • @ayilaccortner5627
    @ayilaccortner5627 Рік тому +91

    I never thought anyone else heard the exact words “I love you, but I don’t like you”…it was absolutely heart wrenching to hear that from a parent.

    • @haroldharold9042
      @haroldharold9042 Рік тому +4

      me too ): it’s like these parents read from the same instruction manual

    • @nathalieboghe7245
      @nathalieboghe7245 Рік тому +2

      Don't take it personal, you are awesome. No parent should ever say that to their child. They just have issues with themselves.

    • @leevancliffneridacampo7769
      @leevancliffneridacampo7769 Рік тому

      You did not!?🥺😭

    • @karaunale9286
      @karaunale9286 Рік тому +2

      My mom would always say, "I always tell my friends that I love you, but if you were not my daughter I would probably hate you." It still bothers me.

    • @ayilaccortner5627
      @ayilaccortner5627 Рік тому

      @@karaunale9286 I’m sorry you had to go through that, wishing you peace ❤️

  • @spinning_jenny3280
    @spinning_jenny3280 Рік тому +14

    I think everybody in some kind of way has a broken heart, whether they know it or not

  • @lucieleairth
    @lucieleairth Рік тому +11

    Breaking up because the person is too nice ? That's something I really don't understand... Can someone explain in what situation kindness could be problematic ?

    • @princessmanitari4993
      @princessmanitari4993 Рік тому

      For some it can be too confronting or a 'waste of time'

    • @hypnoteapot
      @hypnoteapot Рік тому +2

      It's often something a girl will say to avoid telling the real reason they're breaking up and hurting any feelings.

    • @SoSodawgindahouse
      @SoSodawgindahouse Рік тому +3

      It’s probably that she didn’t love him anymore but said this to not hurt his feelings too much

    • @Lipanj92
      @Lipanj92 Рік тому

      I can share my experience.
      I had a boyfriend before.
      He was nice, smart, and hot.
      We encountered a really uncomfortable situation with other two stranger men once.
      I felt unsafe, disappointed, and embarrassed.
      I felt like I needed to defend him, instead of him defending both of us.
      From that moment on, I wasn't attracted to him anymore.
      If anything I need in a man it is to feel safe from him and protected by him from others.
      I want someone who's nice to me but is capable of being dangerous and intimidating when needed, instead of acting like a bi*ch.
      So, yeah, a negative meaning of a 'nice guy' is a *harmless guy* who's not stepping up for himself and others, is letting other people walk over him, thinking that you can solve everything with a smile and a talk.
      Wrong!
      Better learn some fighting skills.
      That's why I'd rather have a rough looking military guy over men from any other occupation.

  • @katalinajimenez297
    @katalinajimenez297 Рік тому +7

    to the first lady to speak in the video ... i'm so sorry

  • @isaiahdziko
    @isaiahdziko Рік тому +8

    sorry irish people

  • @RandyTegridyMarsh
    @RandyTegridyMarsh Рік тому +15

    I really feel for the first woman’s story. My ex attempted a murder suicide when I wouldn’t get back together with him. Im lucky to have survived my attack but I know the ever lasting trauma and guilt it leaves you with. I can only imagine how that has affected her in life. I hope she’s found the love and support that was once taken from her but always deserved

  • @ryleymcclure7515
    @ryleymcclure7515 Рік тому +11

    The amount of times my mother told me “I have to love you but I don’t have to like you” is wild. She’s said a lot worse so I never really thought about that phrase. The hurt just kinda all came back for a sec watching that

  • @andrea2570
    @andrea2570 Рік тому +13

    My answer to this question would be my best friend, a friend-break up (she was the one to “break up with me” but I never got an answer to why!!). It happened when I was like 12 (now I'm 21) and I wouldn’t be surprised if people laughed “pffftt you were so young, you don't know what heart break is”. I think it doesn’t matter. She was the only one I felt that I really loved, even over my own family. I think deep connections doesn’t always have to do with age.. It took me literally years to get over it and I don’t know if the sadness over the loss will ever not have a place in my heart.

    • @elisabethherzog9369
      @elisabethherzog9369 Рік тому +2

      I was gonna say something very similar but mine was pretty recent like just at the end of last year. It really does hurt though and I get what you mean when you say she was the only one you ever really loved because that’s how it was with my best friend, we had a really deep connection. The thing that I think really hurt even more though is that she just loved me really well back and I usually have a hard time actually feeling loved but she was able to love me just the way I needed without me having to ask and when it stopped all of a sudden I just felt empty. I still really struggle with it sometimes and I’m not entirely sure I’ll ever fully get over it so I understand that too. It’s just so hard.

    • @ariahlea
      @ariahlea Рік тому +1

      You’re so right! The age does not matter because the depth of the relationship was so immense that it hurt you to the core when it ended. This situation also happened with a past friend of mine so I can relate to your story.

    • @Lipanj92
      @Lipanj92 Рік тому +1

      I've had multiple heartbreaks ever since my early childhood, and majority of them have nothing to do with my past romantic interests.
      My heart was broken when a young and loving cousin/neighbor died in a car crash.
      My heart was broken when my dog died while I was on my school trip to Spain, and only found out when I came back home.
      My heart was broken as well when my Grandma died. She raised me.
      Your heartbreak is as valid as anyone else's, Andrea.
      I wish you healing.

  • @alexowen5987
    @alexowen5987 Рік тому +21

    "My heart's really been broken... Well... Maybe my first husband."
    KILLED ME.

  • @prestonmatthews725
    @prestonmatthews725 Рік тому +2

    A lot of folks with daddy issues. Some men need to do better!

  • @ashkattyl4z
    @ashkattyl4z Рік тому +11

    I think getting heartbroken with no one to turn to about it is especially painful, so all these people have my heart

  • @vote4mel
    @vote4mel Рік тому +7

    My heart is still broken. But I'm trying, guys.

  • @causeimmortal
    @causeimmortal Рік тому +10

    pretty cliche but i was going through a rough time but then i started developing feelings for this one guy. he really cheered me up and motivated me to keep going. i was planning to give him this letter expressing my feelings for him and while i wasn't sure if i could actually do it, i wanted to try. but before i could actually give it to him, i saw him holding hands with another girl. it was valentines day. they're still together to this day and while i'm not completely over him, i am in a better place right now :)

  • @YazzyPazzyJazzy
    @YazzyPazzyJazzy Рік тому +6

    i just got my heart broken and have been crying for days and am finding it really hard not to just lie in bed all day and wallow so this really hit hard for me :( i know it will take time and ill get over it but im just sad rn :(

  • @michaelalowery3839
    @michaelalowery3839 Рік тому +6

    My ex boyfriend broke my heart. While we never said we loved each other, I definitely saw a future with him. We talked about a lot of potential situations. I cried many nights, and drank plenty of alcohol. I’m better now. Thank God for therapy, family and friends.

  • @chub92
    @chub92 Рік тому +4

    6:32 “my ex girlfriend, she’s irish* damn 😶‍🌫️

  • @BaByyVoNNa
    @BaByyVoNNa Рік тому +5

    I guess I never asked myself this but I think the first person who broke my heart was my mom (abandonment issues ok relationship now) and my most recent heart break was losing my Dad (raised me by himself for my whole life, passed away 5/10/23)

  • @M.......A
    @M.......A Рік тому +5

    6:59 That's a lot 🙁 I am on my 5th year and I thought I am about to finish.

  • @MacyPooh196
    @MacyPooh196 Рік тому +8

    My dad broke mine. And people are right, it effects you for the rest of your life. It’s hard for me to think that men like me and I’m always seeking approval from father figures. I feel like there will always be something wrong with me. I’ll never be right because of it.

    • @finallygoated2361
      @finallygoated2361 Рік тому

      Aye shit happens, you need to let the pass go

    • @MacyPooh196
      @MacyPooh196 Рік тому

      @@finallygoated2361 I don’t have to let things go that I didn’t do. But of course we’ll never blame the parents for being shit. I’ll let it go when he fucking dies

  • @annasulina
    @annasulina Рік тому +5

    I was waiting for someone to say it was their mother. That was my first real heartbreak. Just realizing you are not loved in the truest sense. And then just people in general. They break your heart every day, little by little.

  • @nfbconnect
    @nfbconnect Рік тому +6

    The "my dad" parts ouch 😢

  • @kathymeza3444
    @kathymeza3444 Рік тому +6

    My daughter's dad broke my heart not only cause he left me alone and pregnant but it was worse when I found out I was a bet. He bet a group of guys we worked with that he could get me to sleep with him.

    • @freashpea
      @freashpea Рік тому +1

      I’m really sorry you had to go through that. I don’t understand men

    • @kathymeza3444
      @kathymeza3444 Рік тому +2

      @@freashpea thank you and I don't either.

  • @VLively11
    @VLively11 5 місяців тому +1

    My high school crush broke my heart; he never just said “I’m not that into you” 😢

  • @elielp18
    @elielp18 Рік тому +5

    We all carry our own issues. May we all heal with time ❤

  • @LilDP
    @LilDP Рік тому +4

    Nope. I don't have the heart right now to listen to this. I'll put it on a playlist and get back to it.

  • @selinam6822
    @selinam6822 Рік тому +7

    My heart is broken right now. But it feels like a rebirth

  • @Heartog.Design
    @Heartog.Design Рік тому +6

    I love this video. You can feel with them so good because a heartbreak is one of the worst feelings you can have. Thankfully you can get through it. My heartbreak was 1.5 years ago. It started with lots of panic, anxiety attacks and moments, where I dissociated, because my head couldn't comprehend reality. My ex cheated and got together with that guy. I got rejected by lots of women in my life but this was the most painful experience I had to go through. To this day, I fight daily to get my self-worth back and try to get into therapy, because I wasn't able to do it alone, even though I tried really really hard.

  • @Jennisweet5
    @Jennisweet5 Рік тому +19

    We live in such a broken society. Recognizing our pain and sitting with it, helps us process and heal ❤ sending love to everyone whose going through a hard time.

  • @JamarcusReacts
    @JamarcusReacts Рік тому +4

    Them: “Who broke ur heart”
    Me: “EVERYONE”

  • @macistroughter9680
    @macistroughter9680 Рік тому +5

    Gahhh the dad ones hit me

  • @Nooticus
    @Nooticus Рік тому +5

    One of the worst feelings ever. As a very emotional 20-year old, I've been heartbroken so many times

  • @sofienummers
    @sofienummers Рік тому +64

    This was a rollercoaster of emotions! Most of them were sad, some heartbreaking and others quite funny, especially the last girl and the guy dissing on Irish people XD
    I also dated a guy that was apparently dating multiple girls, because he said 'in this day and age it's normal'. And while I have nothing against people who date multiple people; I think it's important to have OPEN communication and be honest/upfront about it.

  • @willvrtist
    @willvrtist Рік тому +4

    2:26 damn who is this girl? She's an angel 🥲

  • @natalialeann8475
    @natalialeann8475 Рік тому +2

    was the last girl dating my ex?😂

  • @Blinkgirlsareperfect
    @Blinkgirlsareperfect Рік тому +3

    “Fathers be good to your daughters
    Daughters will love like you do.
    Girls become lovers, who turn into mothers
    So mothers be good to your daughters too” - John Mayer

  • @saidmohamud2036
    @saidmohamud2036 Рік тому +6

    The "small dick" part at the end was unnecessary and clear body shaming. I wonder if the gender was reversed and the comment was about female genitalia if they would've kept that in there?

  • @phamminhnhat6948
    @phamminhnhat6948 Рік тому +26

    30 seconds into the video yet and I'm already crying ...

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Рік тому +1

      Literally me 😭 they held nothing back

  • @ry754
    @ry754 Рік тому +42

    The girl I got right now. Has my whole heart in her hands. Never been so vulnerable.

    • @PaigePlates
      @PaigePlates Рік тому +5

      Awe that’s sweet

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Рік тому +6

      I hope you guys have a happy and healthy relationship ❤

    • @redsthetics1297
      @redsthetics1297 Рік тому +2

      Why would you do that???? NEVER GIVE YOUR HEART TO A WOMAN

    • @elenahassel5669
      @elenahassel5669 Рік тому +4

      I admire your braveness, truly wish I’d dare to be vulnerable

    • @squidge4728
      @squidge4728 Рік тому +20

      @@redsthetics1297 cringe, women are not some enemy of men. Grow up, touch grass

  • @Munchkinlord27
    @Munchkinlord27 Рік тому +7

    This was really cathartic to watch and relate to.
    May you all find your peace and love within yourself. Youre worth it.

  • @TheGamersCoopOfficial
    @TheGamersCoopOfficial Рік тому +4

    "I stayed for too long..." that one....

  • @monetorr8498
    @monetorr8498 Рік тому +3

    Watching this crying as my relationship crumbled just 5 days ago when my now ex admitted to cheating with an escort 3 months into our 2 YEAR relationship and everything has been a lie. Feeling like my choice was taken away and I was held hostage by a selfish greedy person who knew he had something good but never deserved it. ugh. men suck.

  • @marylenehall405
    @marylenehall405 Рік тому +4

    “I stayed for too long” I felt that in my soul.Sometimes it’s hard to let go when people hurt us because we try to see the good when some people are just shitty humans and not everyone meant to be in your life for every season.I had a ex of 5 years I had to cut things off and it weird cause we are now best friends and I’m the godmother of him and his gf baby.

  • @BTTFMovie
    @BTTFMovie Рік тому +3

    Fearing what other people might think has held me back from pursuing the things I want practically my entire life. I've missed out on several opportunities to grow as a person because my brain would rather not play than risk failure, which ironically, guarantees failure. So, in that way, I keep breaking my own heart.

  • @marilily
    @marilily Рік тому +6

    I just realized something when watching this. All my 25 years I have never had my heart broken before until last year when my ex committed suicide. I never would have imagined that, that is how things were going to end.

    • @Lipanj92
      @Lipanj92 Рік тому

      So sorry to hear that.
      Have you ever found out why?

  • @kramer1372
    @kramer1372 Рік тому +16

    ..it’s crazy for me to hear that there are people out there that have never had their heart broken…they have no idea how lucky they are…charmed existence …

    • @karebthedog
      @karebthedog Рік тому +5

      I’m the girl at 3:40 and lemme tell you.. we filmed this in January when I was with my first boyfriend, and yeah.. the director was right, it happened 💀

    • @ruruville
      @ruruville Рік тому +1

      ​@@karebthedog sorry to hear that. How are you holding up?

    • @truehappiness4U
      @truehappiness4U Рік тому +1

      @@karebthedogwell then it means he won’t be your future husband! Hopefully you can find your future husband soon!!

  • @nadiadansani2139
    @nadiadansani2139 Рік тому +3

    2 people
    My mom when she told me at 13 she can never trust me because I never told her when I got my period
    The other one I’d consider my first love when I was 19.Ghosted with no reason. He was super nice, and I’d probably take him back now, but also really want to know why it ended.

  • @carol1916xd
    @carol1916xd Рік тому +2

    I haven't open the vídeo yet but I immediately said “my dad”. Then the first woman said her father as well. Sad that the people that should protect us have the power to ruin us.

  • @Epicninja29
    @Epicninja29 Рік тому +3

    “I get high, watch sunsets, and snuggle with my cats”
    Yes

  • @gyalsnextman4725
    @gyalsnextman4725 Рік тому +6

    Damn, my ex girl. We were all over eachother I thought she enjoyed being with me she simply got up one morning and said “I want to focus on myself and I’m not ready” but by then I was already connected. I thought she was from the words “I’ve never felt like this for anyone”
    Man I loved her and she don’t even know and it hurts because I’ve never told anyone I loved them.

    • @Lipanj92
      @Lipanj92 Рік тому

      Maybe you should've told her.
      Maybe she thought you weren't ready either, and so she left to preserve her heart from love that is not mutual.

    • @gyalsnextman4725
      @gyalsnextman4725 Рік тому

      @@Lipanj92 damn straight she fucking her ex man who’s claiming benefits so I’m up and she’s down in life

  • @Cleanup919
    @Cleanup919 Рік тому +1

    Who broke my heart: I was in first grade. This girl didn’t want to be my friend because I was chubby and dark skinned. Ever since then I’ve fallen in love with women who don’t want me. I fall hard and seek for this validation that I can’t cope with life when I’m deep in love. In addition I craved for my absent dad to come and rescue me…
    This has lead to years of a constant state of unworthiness and not knowing if I’ve always been straight but I’m simply seeking for validation from this bully in women…. Yeah it’s been horrendous.

  • @tvbnine793
    @tvbnine793 Рік тому +4

    I'm not too sure what was more heartbreaking for me, watching my HS senior year crush who I became decent friends with making out with another guy right next to me on the bus ride home from our graduation party or the first person I met through a dating app my freshman year of college telling me "I don't fuck with virgins" after hanging out with her a few times and her leading me into thinking we had a chance of being together. Both instances really hurt me and my self-esteem for longer than it should have.

  • @kallmefunny7291
    @kallmefunny7291 Рік тому +1

    I’m sorry call me negative Nancy but I hate when cut makes videos like this. Some of this stuff should be private, they are getting people’s grief stories for money. They don’t even seem sympathetic… It’s hey… Tell us your business so we can get paid for it and you get 5 seconds of screen time on a big UA-cam channel…

  • @GanesaAudrey
    @GanesaAudrey Рік тому +3

    Immediate response in my head: My Dad. Didn't take care of himself because he didn't want to be a burden, talked me out of flying back to take care of him, hid how sick he was from my stepmom... Ended up passing away.

  • @NoopyP
    @NoopyP Рік тому +5

    I sat down to think about this and realized I can't really say any singular person broke my heart. I lost a lot of hope and faith in the world and humans in general from a young age. I also realized many relationships don't last, aren't profound, aren't genuine, and are just the result of people being in the same place and situation, those ties sever as soon as the people are in different places, as if nothing ever happened. So I decided that the very few times I would have close relationships with anyone, I would never trust them 100%, never give those too much value in my mind and in my heart so that when there would be betrayal or any kind of horrible thing that happened, I wouldn't be too affected by it. It's proved useful until now. Therefore the only thing I can say really broke my heart is not an action or words uttered by a person, but the death of my dog 5 years ago.

    • @ivy8483
      @ivy8483 Рік тому

      don’t take life too seriously go out and meet people get your heart broken a couple times and break a couple hearts along the way enjoy the human experience and emotions

    • @Lipanj92
      @Lipanj92 Рік тому

      ​@@ivy8483 You are out of your mind. You are so messed up. You need therapy. This life is serious, because the next Eternal one is awaiting us all but not of the same quality - it's earned by our deeds now.

  • @likhadi1271
    @likhadi1271 Рік тому +2

    :Heartbreak feels like a lot of nothing " so painful😢

  • @jonathanngo7452
    @jonathanngo7452 7 місяців тому +1

    What flavor do you want? I have relationship heartbreak. Friendship heartbreak. Family heartbreak...

  • @prestonmatthews725
    @prestonmatthews725 Рік тому +4

    The opening story hits close to home. My best friend’s mother was accidentally killed by his dad and seeing him struggle and navigating it was tough.

  • @Eltaco88
    @Eltaco88 Рік тому +2

    How can you mend a broken 💔?

  • @armitanikoumanesh954
    @armitanikoumanesh954 Рік тому +7

    I'm proud of all these brave people

  • @Khritter
    @Khritter Рік тому +2

    if I were to answer: my cat, Pumpkin. he passed away really suddenly just over a year ago and I watched the entire thing unfold right before my eyes. I didn't know what was happening to him and he essentially suffocated to death due to what the ER vet thought post-mortem was fluid build up in his lungs over time. I can't blame Pumpkin directly for breaking my heart but him leaving my life broke me. It wasn't his fault. I miss him so much.

  • @safaa9654
    @safaa9654 Рік тому +4

    I wish you'd let all people finish their stories

    • @mellok8780
      @mellok8780 Рік тому +2

      The video would be a movie length film lol

  • @byron.jennings
    @byron.jennings Рік тому +3

    Yeah, my parents were both pretty absent while I was growing up. My mom was always in the hospital; my dad, work. I was always afraid to make the wrong choice in a relationship and -- looking back -- I pushed away a lot of great partners. Sure, I've been cheated on and manipulated; I think many of us have. I know that payed a part in trust issues, and led to me being alone. I'm not sure if I'm healed yet, or if I'll ever get those butterflies again.

  • @dearfuong
    @dearfuong Рік тому +2

    Stumbled into this video when being 10000km away from home. I dont want to say it but i think my grandmother broke my heart. When I was a kid, I used to be around her a lot and I seem like I love her the most. When I got a bit older I started to learn about all the mental abuse she kinda did for my parents. And now I constantly hear about how she is wrecking this family...... and no one can actually stop her cause we all love her too much not to listen to her and let her do her things and give away all the money lol. Further than that, my grandparents' inequality in treating their children and grandchildren makes me want to cry everytime I think about them. I feel sad and tired and I dont want to say this but I felt so... free when I left home to go aboard. If there is a reason why I wouldnt go back then this is it.