19: Secrets to a Strong Marriage: How Jackie Hill & Preston Perry Manage Love, Faith & Leadership
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- Опубліковано 6 жов 2024
- Welcome to the Season 1 finale of Wealth Within Reach! Join host Erika Brown and her husband Lawrence as they sit down with Jackie Hill Perry and Preston Perry for an intimate exploration of marriage, faith, and pursuing individual and collective callings. This episode delves into how Jackie and Preston navigate the complexities of their relationship, balancing personal visions while supporting each other through life's challenges.
Jackie and Preston candidly share their journey, discussing the importance of communication, trust, and resilience in their marriage. From managing multiple roles to prioritizing personal needs and fostering unity, they each offer profound insights and practical advice for couples seeking to strengthen their partnership amidst personal growth, business endeavors, and family dynamics. Reflecting on their own experiences, they touch on topics ranging from spiritual guidance and overcoming obstacles to the significance of humility and community support.
Tune in to discover how Jackie and Preston Perry embody dedication, faith, and love in their marriage, providing inspiration and guidance for listeners navigating their own journeys of faith and relationship dynamics.
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KEY POINTS:
The influence of parents and grandparents on children's career choices
Learning to say "no" and prioritizing personal obligations
Some signs of being overwhelmed
On communication and understanding your spouse’s needs
The value of having strong relationships
On navigating shared callings in marriage
The importance of trusting God’s will
Trust, communication, and teamwork in marriage
The importance of unity in marriage and leadership
Dealing with trauma, isolation, and struggles together
Spiritual warfare and self-awareness for couples
How do we find a healthy community?
Humility is key to a healthy relationship with God and others
Business partnerships with spouses, personal growth, and family balance
QUOTES:
“How many times do marriages fall apart because people just don't even know how to support one another, nor do they know how to work together? It's easy for you just to think, oh, I can kill it, I can kill, I can kill it, in the same way that it's easy to love yourself. But it's harder to apply what you learned in the Bible with other people” - Preston Perry
“It’s kind of a myth about marriage is that our significant other is supposed to be our everything. That's very intimidating for me [and] that's a lot of pressure for me to be someone's everything because I'm not.” - Erika Brown
“We have similar gifts - we both are gifted to teach. We both are communicators [and] are creatives. So, we don't necessarily have tension when it comes to sharing a call, per se. I think we've had tension when one of us has a vision that the other doesn't feel like walking into. And so Preston will often have ideas that take me years to agree with.” - Jackie Hill Perry
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Preston is a protector.
Preston is really sweet and an excellent example of patience and servanthood to his wife
I met my husband during the pandemic and it was nice. All we had was time to talk and get to know each other. That brought us closer as friends now as husband and wife.. 3 yrs married Aug 8.. ❤
Congrats🎉
Erika: I actually think that's kind of a myth about marriage, is that our significant other is supposed to be our everything
Jackie: er no, that's idolatry
😂👏
You can also idolize the friendships. I remember Amy Grant saying in an interview that when her marriage was hard, she'd run to her friends because those relationships were fun, easy, and supportive.
@@RCGWho That is very true!
My mentor from my church said only God is suppose to be your everything no one else
@@RoyaalHIGHness Your mentor is right 🌻
My favorite is how authentic Preston and Jackie are. Also Preston is the best , he handles Jackie so well. “ Preston’s ideas are more practical mine are BIG” - Jackie… then Preston is like .. “ I care about relationships, I have big ideas for other people and when collaborating with ppl”
He’s the best
Jackie's hair looks really good as does the host's.
As a Husband, this was amazing. Thanks for sharing
It’s real , my husband is the visionary in our team , God makes us different for a purpose ❤
I love this session! Keeping our individuality and callings separate, yet, coming along to help each other to fulfill God's call on our lives as a couple. AWESOME! (I'm the lead Pastor, my husband is an Elder, we have a business together...my husband in the main "visionary" and I'm the feet to the vision. WE LOVE WHAT GOD'S DOING IN OUR LIVES!!!
Preston book was awesome! God has blessed him with so many gifts and wisdom. Looking forward to hod next book.
I really enjoyed this! Practical wisdom. Everyday life. Thank you.
Listen, this is so spiritually therapeutic to various types of relationships. Marriage, friendship, sibling-ship, business relationships, etc.
Minister Jackie has an incredible level of spiritual maturity that allows her to lament within the act of preaching while at the same time teaching that truly helps fellow Christians grow in The Lord! Minister Preston has an amazing level of gentleness and calmness that allows him to stay with and come back to crucial points of discussion while supporting other points of discussion brought to the table.
Great discussion and encouragement!
This conversation was a blessing from the Holy Spirit. Thank you.
Yes it was ❤
This was ON time. I am learning how to stop saying “yes” to everything, just because I am gifted. Grateful to have such an amazing husband who supports me in saying “Nah.” I definitely had a mental breakdown in spring and again, grateful to Holy Spirit and my AMAZING husband for allowing me to be vulnerable . Great advice on this topic! Thank you❤
This was so good, thanks for sharing!!Whew, “some people give their yes away to things they are not called to.” That part!!💯💯🔥
Jackie’s dreads are FIRE
Yessss, I was looking at them thinking that they look so fluffy and healthy, and probably feels soft lol
Yo be positive they are called locs
dread is negative
@@SanctifiedLadyoh sorry I didn’t know that, my bad….her locs are 🔥🔥🔥
@@SanctifiedLady lol call them whatever you want honey.
@@jackie.2780 respectfully, just updating you. In the kingdom of God we apply positive words over any negativity.
I don’t have locs but this is what I was updated on just passing it along.
It makes sense.
Wow… Thank y’all for being so transparent. I really needed this to better understand my wife and myself.
I appreciate Mrs. Erika for having them on her show & having her husband join her, as well.
I have replaced the filler word “like” with “as in” or “similar to” or “for example”. I hate the over use of the word “like”.
This interview had some great information! I love this Perry couple very much!
To each his own 😏😅
The whole thing was good. But can I just say the last 10 to 15 minutes were amazing. And I think it was amazing because wild practical and simple, it can become a blind spot really quickly. Thank you.
I hope there's laughter and fun. All I'm hearing is work, duty, work.
IKR. This is how real life looks like.
Of course there is. Some seasons will be more about work and others will be more about enjoying each other but it’s both and
Duty and work protects the laughter and fun
Preston let the Lord add more wisdom in you! You and Jackie may the Lord pour more in y’all. Keep doing it to the end. Great team.
Thank you all for sharing this wisdom on your platform. ❤
This is great. I would love to hear more from Mr. Brown; Erica would love it if you allowed him to speak and get his thoughts and opinions out.
Ooooh!! Is this the couple that are realtors!? Im so glad you have a channel and popped up on my feed! Loving this interview ❤
Best marriage pod I've listened to!!!!!
This was powerful!! That last question about what we want more of and less of for 2024 was good! I want more peace and less setbacks!❤❤
This is beautiful, thanks for all the wisdom y'all are pouring out to couples
This has nothing to do with the convo but Erika looks wonderful; from hair to shoes. Her makeup is beautiful and I don't even wear makeup.
The intro was *chefs kiss 🤌🏾
How so?
This was so good. Thank you!!
This was great! But its defleee Jackie’s makeup for me every time🎉
This was so good! ❤
Then I don’t like how they just don’t acknowledge that Preston is the head, and really disregard him like it’s so disrespectful to break up their names in title like that.
Hi, with respect, I might be able to help. This is not their intention.
In properly referencing a couple's names, it is most honorable to mention the lady's name first and then the man's name to avoid separating the man's first and last name. 'Perry' is the last name for both of them. Look at 'Hill' as Jackie's middle name.
I see where you’re coming from. know as a wife with a doctorate, I feel honored to be called by the title of Mrs. I ask that when we are introduced, that I’m introduced by Mrs, not Dr. The distinction of Mr. and Mrs. is more honoring for me than being Mr. And Dr. When people insist that I go by Dr., I let them know I choose the greatest honor that I can have. There are some snide comments, but my greatest title is Woman of God, followed by wife, then mother and then employee. I’m cool with my titles and positioning.
1. I don't think Preston cares about that.... 2. As a man, I'm gonna tell you from the inside..don't even rock with any guys that would have seen it like that or had an issue. Jackie is clearly more known and they are known for different things. Introducing them together as an apologist would be incorrect, because he is and she is not.
Preston isn't disregarded at all. If you watched the whole episode, you learned that the couples are personal friends in real life. They honor each other and their marriage. Also, they talk about leadership and Preston being the leader of their home. Let's challenge ourselves to resist the temptation to assign negativity to something when it isn't there.
Thank you for the message: you fed us some knowledge today ❤❤
Deep love ❤️ for the Perrys
You guys were awesome ,the questions were deep , but was answered with such love and respect for one another, to God be the glory 🙏❤️
This was a great discussion! I loved the questions asked, they were very thought provoking.
Great conversation, so appreciate this ❤❤❤❤❤
whewwwwwwww this is soo good
Sex Help! Thank you for saying that. As victim of purity culture. A lot of couples need to hear that
What does victim of purity culture mean? What is the alternative?
Dope podcast!
The introduction, the look on Jackie's face, Preston's expression, me cringing 😂
Girlllllll I had to fast forward :/
About the wife part?
@tiannasorrell835 yes and just didn't sound prepared at all. Should had done a retake. It showed on their faces.
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This comment had me thinking it was bad 😂 they played it off well
My people ❤
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yes I this is one.... when will people recognize and acknowledge that placing your MATE male or female on a PEDESTAL is NOT okay. Its definitely IDOL worship....you love them....yes....you care for them....yes....yourespect them....yes....etc....but placing them on a scale up there with GOD.......NOoooooo.... you will hurt your own feelings because they can't do for you what God can.
Being everything to your partner is just idolatry....
No way it can work!
I’m not married so maybe you guys can help me if a husband has a vision for something when should the wife submit and when should she push back?
Are you asking us/the audience or the browns/perrys
@@glowuplife anyone married 🥰
Awesome! 🤩 this is my second and last marriage and first time I’m experiencing a kingdom marriage journey so I can tell you I’m more of the visionary in our duo but my hubby is literally a builder so I tell him what I envision and he helps put it together and we’re learning to give it all to God
Loveeee this question! Here for the wise counseled answers!
The man is the visionary, the leader. She is the helpmeet to help him make it happen.
You don’t submit to your spouse you are submitting to the God in them
i don’t won’t it if the LORD Don’t🙌🏽
When the sex topic drops, the conversation hits different 😂😂😂
I wanna listen, yet it's way to slow.
27:00 If the woman ends up leading and being the provider because she makes more money or has more gifts, it's devastating and emasculating to men. It's not misogyny. It's the way God made them.
I watched a famous Christian singer pursue her gifts, while both of her husband's careers took a back seat. Their careers tanked.
At the time, I thought nothing of it. ("Of course", she must pursue her gifts.) Now, as an older woman, I understand that her husbands were sacrificed so she could do her thing. Her children were also raised by the nanny. As far as I can tell, none of her children are walking with God.
The young pastor Jackie Hill reminds me of you 😅❤😂
Hello BROWNS! Would love to connect with you about being on our podcast ‘COUPLE OF FOREVERS’
❤❤❤
Beautiful 29:41
Hold up kidd
Around 37 min Preston says “cuz it sold so much merch more content”
Yo are we doing this for the Lord or money and exposure???
You do know that thw Lord provides wealth. He literally says he gives power to get wealth. Functioning in a gift can and often does bring wealth. Should they reject it?
If someone works at Walmart, are they wrong for taking a position at Target that pays more?🤔
@@praizeyah we work to eat
It’s not about wealth
It’s about Jesus
What’s our heart condition
What are our hearts intentions and motives
@reyleal1439 yeah, you're one of those 10 toes down, completely impractical Christians. Ok, Bucko.
@@reyleal1439yall really need to stop trying to make Christians feel bad for earning a buck. Anything Christian put their hands to, y’all want them to do it for the lord only even if their hard work earns them no money. That’s not even biblical nor realistic and it’s foolish. Even the Lord would look down at them and say I gave you a platform and a talent to spread the gospel and earn money, why aren’t you stewarding over this well. So Yes if it sells more, do it as long as it serves and glorify God.
Please don’t come back with the whole you cannot serve God and money scripture. That does not apply here. This is not that.
@@reyleal1439if it’s in your heart to be a nurse to help the sick. Do you not do it with the right intentions and right motivations? Should the nurse not get paid because she should only do it to help people? See how that doesn’t make sense. Because you can have good intentions and still be paid for your labor. Lose that mentality, it’s not helpful and it keeps the body of Christ broke.
They give homie vibes not husband and wife vibes
Please elaborate.
I think differently. I think because they’re so comfortable with one another and able to sit comfortably, talk about everything vulnerably attests to the success of their marriage. They told us a lot about how they function in the podcasts and one thing they both said is “we were friends first” . I see what you’re saying but challenge your perspective!
@@annejoseph1828I respect the way you put the words together. ❤and your last statement "challenge your perpective" amma borrow that 😂😂❤. Respect ma🙏
Jackie still struggles with her old life..and it shows on her and her teachings 😢
I was thinking the same thing. God bless Preston for being a (seemingly) patient and understanding husband.
Do you mind elaborating on why you state that she is absolutely struggling?
@@MrsEyerickSo y'all are gossiping on a Godly platform? Did either of you reach out to her and say this personally to pray for her? Did you pray before you said this or did you feel too compelled out of your flesh to speak this?
@RasheiaMarshall what did she say wrong? We all have something we wrestle with. Jackie has said herself in an interview that she's still attracted to women but she chooses to submit to God's will. She practices self-control, but that doesn't mean the desire has left. We all have to practice self-control in our lives for something. That's not gossip. It's observation on a public platform.
I think it's mostly feminism. It's a spirit, and it's in the church. People either don't recognize it or embrace it.
SHE'S HORRIBLE WITH DA INTRO 🤦🏾♀️
first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your neighbor's eye." (Matthew 7:3-5).
This couple is becoming Christian supstars and becoming idolized.
I think this would be more of an issue with individuals who are idolizing them. We aren’t to highly esteem no man, only looking to Christ. Though this is nothing new, even Paul addressed in the church when they were saying they were of Paul & of Apollos according to who baptized them. Even further back, Israel wanting a King & not recognizing God had been leading them the whole time. It is flesh that causes man to idolize one another. We have to keep our hearts before Christ.
So when christains are doing well that's what what you say😂😂😂
Solution: don’t idolize them.
Maybe don’t idolize them lol sounds like a self problem to me
Love love love this ❤❤❤ thanks for Christian marriage chat 🥹