The Azonwus Talk Conflict w/ the Perrys

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  • Опубліковано 14 кві 2024
  • Take a jouney with the Azonwus and the Perry's as they navigate the difficult conversation of navigating conflict as friends and couples,
    Please bear with the audio. We had faulty equipment.

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  • @Weneed2talktv
    @Weneed2talktv  Місяць тому +711

    Please forgive the audio, it was due to faulty equipment. We were faced with either dumping this episode and the last one, but we chose to post because we thought the convos were worth it. Sorry again. Thx for watching ☺️

    • @AllAboutYve
      @AllAboutYve Місяць тому +45

      Thanks for putting edification above ego. This was such a good convo and so needed!! Thank you ❤

    • @mrschosen
      @mrschosen Місяць тому +12

      You all made what you were saying so much louder than the issues! Powerful Session! 🖤🖤🖤🖤

    • @tayshiemharperify
      @tayshiemharperify Місяць тому +6

      Thank you for this and your hard work ❤️💪🏽

    • @angied7206
      @angied7206 Місяць тому +14

      We're okay with ya'll sounding like you're in the school hallway or in the restroom😂 I so enjoy when my faves colab and have a great convo!! Much enjoyed❤😊

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch Місяць тому +4

      Made the right decision! We rock with y’all regardless 🫶🏼

  • @sovlspiceec4013
    @sovlspiceec4013 Місяць тому +417

    Naaaa. Everytime we see Jackie she gets more & more beautiful. God is so good! It’s amazing to see Him restore her femininity within each passing year. Thank you Jesus!! 💖

    • @AllAboutYve
      @AllAboutYve Місяць тому +20

      She definitely has a glow to her. That Holy Spirit shine! 😍

    • @Miss_DaniD
      @Miss_DaniD Місяць тому +17

      Amen. I noticed that too.
      I see God's beauty in everything, and one day I was watching With Perry's and thought to myself, "It's heart-warming to see Jackie embrace her beauty and femininity" She's a naturally beautiful woman. May the Lord continue to bless her ministry, her, and family.
      As well continue blessing the Azonwu Family

    • @godschild2432
      @godschild2432 Місяць тому +6

      She looks like Lauren hill too. Black beauty

    • @cynthiabeard2016
      @cynthiabeard2016 Місяць тому +1

      Lauren Hill & Jackie Hill Perry share some of the same spirit, and could be related!

    • @Camille-st6mz
      @Camille-st6mz Місяць тому +6

      I agree with feminity. She has literally evolved

  • @camb2810
    @camb2810 Місяць тому +100

    Preston is so gentle with Jackie.

    • @lenalee5939
      @lenalee5939 Місяць тому +3

      Very ❤

    • @Miss_DaniD
      @Miss_DaniD Місяць тому +11

      I see that too. Isn't so beautiful to see how God writes people's love story, and we are able to see the physical embodiment of it, by the way they behave with and treat one another?
      This is so heartwarming ❤

    • @Dawn-vx9dh
      @Dawn-vx9dh Місяць тому +3

      I love Preston!!! He gives it up straight, no chaser.😅

  • @priscillamarcia4081
    @priscillamarcia4081 Місяць тому +297

    Honestly the audio didn’t even bother me. I was into the conversation.

  • @lois8194
    @lois8194 Місяць тому +172

    When Preston said people try so hard to be peace keepers instead of peace makers, Yh that was 🔥

  • @nicolechavez6981
    @nicolechavez6981 Місяць тому +130

    Im paying attention, but The top of Preston’s hat reminds me of a baby bottle pop for some reason, If ykyk .

  • @zakiaamos6564
    @zakiaamos6564 Місяць тому +73

    A WORD: “For us to allow people to move in error alongside us, are we not in agreement?” 😮‍💨

  • @WilliamsPinch
    @WilliamsPinch Місяць тому +69

    Jackie’s new ring is 🔥
    Preston did so well!
    And my God, all y’all are so beautiful.

    • @debbie3996
      @debbie3996 Місяць тому +4

      That ring is shining!!! Preston did well

  • @lawrencemanley4401
    @lawrencemanley4401 Місяць тому +41

    "Getting something off of your chest for you vs getting something off your chest to create peace"
    Wow

  • @deirdres.thomas7913
    @deirdres.thomas7913 Місяць тому +23

    Rely on the Holy Spirit for boldness because if you rely on yourself you'll either be a fool or a coward and God rejects both of them. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @nursed.porchae990
    @nursed.porchae990 Місяць тому +83

    I love this because at my big big age I'm still navigating how to properly deal with conflict.

  • @charmingxx4988
    @charmingxx4988 Місяць тому +29

    I just love how the women are listening and admiring their men 😍

  • @makeupmyday5276
    @makeupmyday5276 Місяць тому +10

    Jackie is so WISE!! The wisdom God gave her is just wow !

  • @4LADYSWEET
    @4LADYSWEET Місяць тому +66

    I love to hear GODLY couples who are young and relatable, but are truly SAVED. May you all please continue to come together and share your stories and experiences about relationships and being vulnerable with others ❤

  • @AbbiePeaceMaker
    @AbbiePeaceMaker Місяць тому +23

    This is so so good!
    We are not called to be nice. We are called to be righteous (that envelopes kindness and gentleness and patience and all the good stuff that God gifts us).
    Not trying to be a peace keeper, trying to be a peace maker! 🎉

  • @teresanunn3793
    @teresanunn3793 Місяць тому +16

    I enjoyed hearing this conversation. I think friendship is important in a marriage. I was married for over 20 plus years, I thought we were friends. He left me for someone else that he felt a closer friendship towards. Even when you have a strong friendship, if The Father is not at the center of the marriage, and someone is trying to get their needs met apart from the Lord, the marriage cannot sustain. We make our needs idols, and thereby, making them a “god”. He left for a stronger friendship, someone that he felt he had more in common with but in order to get that, he disposed of his faith and turned his heart from the Lord. It’s heartbreaking. Marriage requires a lot especially when trying to do it Gods way.

    • @lmichelle80sbaby
      @lmichelle80sbaby 20 днів тому +3

      Im so sorry to read this. I cant imagine the grief. I just pray you believe that God is still GOOD & "Broken Crayons Still Color", forreal 💗🤗

  • @nothandomagagula6462
    @nothandomagagula6462 Місяць тому +117

    They are aware of the sound... they did put a disclaimer 🫠🫣.... I don't think it's helpful to keep saying it😬.... I come in peace🙌🏾
    I loved the conversation ❤

    • @summerbaby88
      @summerbaby88 Місяць тому +2

      I agree 😂

    • @sr6856
      @sr6856 Місяць тому +1

      ❤ your comment

    • @rianacole8564
      @rianacole8564 Місяць тому +2

      I'm stealing the "I come in peace"

  • @Ittakes365
    @Ittakes365 Місяць тому +22

    I’m glad there are black married couples that are going strong and have these insightful, informative conversations. I love to see it and hear what you have to say about not just the recycled versions of marital questions 🙌🏽 guidance to health relationships 😍

  • @jssberry
    @jssberry Місяць тому +12

    "Are you getting something off your chest so that YOU can feel better? Or are you getting something off your chest so that we can have peace?" #OUCH 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
    Let me tell you something--Jackie is going to get some Word in there SOMEWHERE! I LOVE it!!

  • @solutions.03
    @solutions.03 29 днів тому +8

    22:40 This segment on conflict in relationships and dissolving conflicts is something that isn't emphasized enough especially in the Christian community.
    It's hard, it's messy, it's uncomfortable but it's needed... Because growth always arises regardless of the way the conflict is solved (i.e. Either you grow together or you grow apart)
    As for The Perrys, I love their dynamic as a couple and i think that this is a result of allowing themselves to grow through conflict as One Flesh (and separate characters/personalities as well). May GOD give them more grace🙌
    GOD bless y'all (@TheAzonwus) for this timely and wholesome interview 🥹❤️

  • @GodFirstInallthings
    @GodFirstInallthings Місяць тому +30

    Peace keepers vs. peace makers.....wow!!! I never heard that point of view.

  • @LuCALIFORNIA-ou8ze
    @LuCALIFORNIA-ou8ze Місяць тому +34

    I saw a side of Preston I never saw before in this video. I like his languages

  • @lifeofannbianca
    @lifeofannbianca Місяць тому +23

    The end had me in tears 🤣🤣
    Also I love how Jackie femininity is coming out lately.. I here for it.
    This podcast was everything and more.

  • @latifahosho6869
    @latifahosho6869 Місяць тому +14

    Jackie is so beautiful. The love is real in this podcast between couples and friends. I really enjoyed this podcast.

  • @missm3993
    @missm3993 Місяць тому +56

    The whole thing was great and I enjoyed it thoroughly! Excellent questions! (The audio didn't bother me at all and wasn't even distracting. People are too finicky - it's really not that deep.) The conversation was helpful, edifying, and enlightening and the added humour was the icing on the cake. Thanks guys!

  • @LadyDami
    @LadyDami Місяць тому +19

    Preston is such a great guy!!! God bless you and Jackie!! Jackie ❤️ is equally awesome❤

  • @rachelletheoc531
    @rachelletheoc531 Місяць тому +3

    I almost screamed laughing 🤣 🤣 🤣 when Jackie's husband said she was shocked to see a hood dude interested in animals

  • @crazedlovve
    @crazedlovve Місяць тому +7

    Most people want to be peacekeepers but not peacemakers 🔥🔥

  • @lafemmefabrice5031
    @lafemmefabrice5031 Місяць тому +5

    It’s so important to have friends in Christ… wewww child

  • @Xbox3133
    @Xbox3133 Місяць тому +5

    Its so crazy that we only think of false peace in the way of temptations being satisfied. But I’ve never thought of false peace in the way of avoiding conflict and being a “peacekeeper”. Grea✝️ podcas✝️ yall🫶🏾

  • @ashdontwearprada
    @ashdontwearprada Місяць тому +16

    I truly enjoyed this conversation! The Azonwus & The Perry’s…amazing combination💕
    side note:audio was not that bad.

  • @loretta4693
    @loretta4693 Місяць тому +61

    This is how I know I like all of your content generally. I’m travailing through this audio.

    • @MarisJanette
      @MarisJanette Місяць тому +3

      Right lol idk if I can finish it. The sound 😅

    • @loretta4693
      @loretta4693 Місяць тому +9

      Travail 😂. It does improve. Also, the content in the improved part is worth the battle. I took a break & came back.

    • @A.isforAmara
      @A.isforAmara Місяць тому +1

      😭😭😭

    • @Debonairful
      @Debonairful Місяць тому +1

      eyooooo that's hilarious. hahaha

  • @dejaxleigh
    @dejaxleigh Місяць тому +12

    Lol I am like Preston. I like to take “confrontation” head on. I want to make sure we’re on the same page as I am often misunderstood. Which is annoying. Lol

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld Місяць тому +18

    I'm digging this new background! I spy a fiddle leaf fig behind Jackie & it reminded me to water my plants lol thanks for sharing this episode with your friends 😁
    edit: the "LIAR" part CRACKED ME UP!!! I really appreciate how all of you really just laugh together. Sending some love to Jackie, your personality is similar to mine so I definitely end up taking your side in the podcast lol but all of you are wonderful. I'm learning through watching all of your content. I also love how warm the Azonwu's are to ALL their guests. they're like two rays of sunshine, I'm sure all of your kids are mini-sunshines because of it. and Preston is cool too! You're all spending time with the Father, I can tell. The tenderness you all look at each other with, the respect, the love, assuming good intent of each other, trusting each other with this convo... it's clearly a friendship where the Holy Spirit resides. Maybe I'll be more vocal about my appreciation of your personalities, I didn't realize that Jackie feels she gets dragged in her comment section a lot because I genuinely see both her & Preston as loving, hilarious, imperfectly perfect HUMAN people. Much love.

  • @ServantofJesus247
    @ServantofJesus247 6 днів тому

    This was a much needed podcast. I need to listen to this a few more times. Handling conflict in a mature healthy way is something all Christians need to learn how to do.

  • @tamara35758
    @tamara35758 Місяць тому +32

    @JackieHillPerry please don’t say you’re going to get rid of your beautiful gap?

  • @gbemisolaolaoye3976
    @gbemisolaolaoye3976 8 днів тому

    Bruh! The wisdom in all four of you! Amazing! I am learning so much and praying that the Holy Spirit helps me to retain and utilise appropriately. Glory to God 🙌

  • @winnienyameba
    @winnienyameba Місяць тому +10

    Did anyone notice when Jackie started to get comfortable?

  • @Clemarhin
    @Clemarhin Місяць тому +1

    This conversation is very fruitful because you can tell their advice is coming from experience of how the Holy Spirit has shaped them over the years. I heard someone say that when you pray for patience , God is not going to supernaturally gift you with patience, He will put obstacles in your way to train you on how to be patient. Thanks for this! It’s a blessing to witness this Goldy example in these times.

  • @paf2587
    @paf2587 Місяць тому +5

    Jackie’s ring is BEAUTIFUL. Good upgrade Preston!!!

  • @faithwambui9283
    @faithwambui9283 Місяць тому +12

    Thank you for this!!I love that you still chose to share it despite the audio issues. We know you are excellent people so even though the audio is not perfect...The message and lessons are well received❤

  • @adebolaakindele6115
    @adebolaakindele6115 Місяць тому +34

    Been waiting on a feature with the Perrys!!!😂🎉

    • @latashalewis873
      @latashalewis873 Місяць тому +1

      Me too

    • @4LADYSWEET
      @4LADYSWEET Місяць тому +2

      Same! I love hearing God’s word honored and blessed from relatable people. May the world be drawn to a closer relationship with Jesus Christ and salvation be restored before his return 🙏🏽❤️

    • @kressten
      @kressten Місяць тому +1

      Both these couples are wise❤️ worth taking a listen!

  • @chrisanderson5342
    @chrisanderson5342 Місяць тому +2

    First 13 minutes of this is 🔥 I am in my second year of marriage, God centered marriage, and I agree fully with Preston! My wife has 3 different autoimmune diseases and day to day she is often in a sour mood or just kinda having a sore look on her face as she should, she has it pretty rough with the different things. But me I’m very happy go lucky, the grace of God is so special and I feel it every day from how far I’ve come from my passed life. So when I see her upset I struggle seeing her “moody” or whatever it looks like when I’m always on a weird high. That mood she is in radiates to my mood and to put it into perspective I know it’s hard for her and I get selfish that it spills over into my mood. It is such a weird dynamic. But thank you so much for these talks! My brother in law and I traveled to New York and took a train to Philly and walked to your we need to talk your! I’m blessed by your content, God is moving through you guys! Keep it up!

  • @BeinspiredwithNessa
    @BeinspiredwithNessa Місяць тому +7

    This was so good and edifying. The last parts were hilarious. Two of my favorite internet couples. Thank you for letting God use you.

  • @iamtaqui
    @iamtaqui Місяць тому +4

    I clicked on this bc I’ve haven’t seen both couples together in a minute but what I got was so much more. Literally am dealing with how to handle conflicts right now in my family! So grateful for all the points that was made so far .
    -Aroggnace with people addressing conflict with you and you responding back with retaliation
    -Choosing to kill yourself to hear how others feel
    -Not running from the hard but towards it and having vulnerability because that’s actual intimacy and love!
    It’s just so funny cus I posted all of this on threads before clicking on video😮39:55

  • @MiriamA22
    @MiriamA22 Місяць тому +13

    Beautiful hat Jackie you look great

  • @c.j.promiseland6456
    @c.j.promiseland6456 Місяць тому +10

    I listen with earbuds and the content was so helpful, I didn't trip over the audio.

  • @loveafrica97
    @loveafrica97 Місяць тому +4

    Jackie is truly loved! I love her, but man she’s a lot 😂😂😂

  • @jamiehigh924
    @jamiehigh924 Місяць тому +4

    This is so good. It is not peace to cover up everything in order to keep the peace.

  • @simonesherron7921
    @simonesherron7921 Місяць тому +3

    I was waiting for Preston to say the scripture yesssss but I got yall it was Apostle John who was writing about Jesus and His love for people!
    John 15:13
    "Greater love has no one than this: lay down ones life for ones friends"
    Sooo good 🔥🔥🔥 I had read this scripture by myself and said Jesus wants us to lay down our ego our self esteem essentially everything yall were saying "die" in order to truly love our friends as Jesus did for us and as Jesus says ""you are my friends so do as I command." So good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Teamnoexcuses_Ntha
    @Teamnoexcuses_Ntha Місяць тому +9

    "Do you like this letter?😂😂

  • @Dawn-vx9dh
    @Dawn-vx9dh Місяць тому +1

    This is sooooo good! I am a very grown woman. 😅 I’m learning so much from you young people!🙏🏽

  • @reneejackson5461
    @reneejackson5461 Місяць тому +2

    Ooooo *pauses clip• rolls into comments* yallll!!! when Jackie leaned in and acknowledged mommy hurt!! It’s not talked about enough. Love this bold woman of God! *play

  • @Dr.AlexandriaWatson
    @Dr.AlexandriaWatson Місяць тому +8

    Thank you for still posting this! 😊

  • @BLKButterflyByLarz
    @BLKButterflyByLarz Місяць тому +1

    Completely here! Psalm 1 has been a serious conviction for me! I like the idea of in love asking/talking about deficiencies biblically in terms of fruit bearing it’s very healthy 👏🏾

  • @alysiamarion
    @alysiamarion 15 днів тому

    Watched this right after watching the power of agreement where Sarah Jakes talked about conflict. And the way that the spirit is on the same page is wild! Grateful for this convo

  • @sugwilliams6257
    @sugwilliams6257 Місяць тому +1

    19 minutes in & want you guys to know I thank you for sharing your lives and testimonials, also I'm proud of you all for being God seekers and pleasers, His wisdom is evident and it's encouraging 😘😘😘😘

  • @AliceBethel-rb5ub
    @AliceBethel-rb5ub 10 днів тому

    you can't tell me God doesn't lead me even when I'm trying to pick a video to "binge on" while i do a chore because whyyyyyyy would i click on this particular video when i'm at the season in my life where i'm inbetween cutting someone important off and just resolving the conflict we had

  • @shantaatkins
    @shantaatkins Місяць тому +2

    Loving this podcast so much thus far.
    Being defensive is not love, it’s arrogance.
    🔥🔥🔥

  • @marhamdezigns5981
    @marhamdezigns5981 Місяць тому

    I just love the honest and open conversation, the level of vulnerability is so refreshing to see. I pray that more Christian , open up and have just basic and honest conversation like this👏👏👏.

  • @AdventuresinGrace
    @AdventuresinGrace Місяць тому +2

    I hope I can have friends and conversations like this one day. 🙏🏻

  • @fiyinaladesuyi9830
    @fiyinaladesuyi9830 Місяць тому +3

    Just found this channel, and I'm thankful I did. This was gold, audio quality bad or not, so thank God you posted regardless. ❤

  • @nancyelonga7519
    @nancyelonga7519 Місяць тому +3

    Powerful convo ❤ God bless y’all

  • @faddtayo
    @faddtayo Місяць тому +2

    This is such a powerful conversion. I needed to hear this rn

  • @SOI-wl2lo
    @SOI-wl2lo 23 дні тому +1

    Goodness, Kiyana seems like such a _beautiful_ person! 😩 Really like this convo !

  • @djquill3303
    @djquill3303 Місяць тому

    Great conversation! Thank you for posting!

  • @aliciahill2801
    @aliciahill2801 Місяць тому +2

    This was sooo good! Thank you.

  • @MiriamA22
    @MiriamA22 Місяць тому +5

    So good!

  • @kimerapatricia3371
    @kimerapatricia3371 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this insight

  • @reneejackson5461
    @reneejackson5461 Місяць тому

    This was such a great talk! I learned so much and just at the right time in my life. Definitely worthy of a rewatch with my notebook!

  • @SumayaUnveiled
    @SumayaUnveiled Місяць тому +3

    I love this channel! Great convo 🎙️🔥🔥🔥

  • @blissfulmom21
    @blissfulmom21 Місяць тому +2

    Absolutely amazing! Thank you all for your vulnerability and authenticity! ❤

  • @mrschosen
    @mrschosen Місяць тому +1

    I SO love this with all you guys. This is like the cutest thing I've seen all year! ❤ All of your wisdom and well-formed Godly love for each other❤️‍🔥🖤

  • @CarlisHowze
    @CarlisHowze 11 днів тому

    Yoooo this is hilarious. Especially the end. Sounds so much like my wife and I when it comes to cleaning!

  • @janey_oge8865
    @janey_oge8865 Місяць тому +4

    Yaay!!! All my favorite people in one room ❤❤
    God bless and keep you all

  • @Peace.Harrison-O
    @Peace.Harrison-O Місяць тому

    Loved this!!!!

  • @yamielbell
    @yamielbell Місяць тому +1

    Im just minutes in and this is excellent information already!

  • @nataleeparkes7878
    @nataleeparkes7878 Місяць тому

    I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Very insightful

  • @panatsolo2432
    @panatsolo2432 19 днів тому

    I can never get tired of listening the Perrys

  • @vernelldees6056
    @vernelldees6056 24 дні тому

    Great conversation, wonderful insights! Lovin’ your hat Jackie.

  • @thezencare
    @thezencare Місяць тому +2

    Wow!!!! This!!!...thank you so much JESUS❤❤

  • @almmason7
    @almmason7 Місяць тому +1

    Great convo! 😊

  • @nyambolillie4284
    @nyambolillie4284 Місяць тому

    Love it here ❤

  • @MsHoneyBeezShop
    @MsHoneyBeezShop Місяць тому

    I love this convo 💯

  • @joynoble9648
    @joynoble9648 Місяць тому +2

    Really good conversation!

  • @abbasgem
    @abbasgem Місяць тому +1

    I’m watching this video and really loving….. THE INTIMACY FROM BOTH COUPLES

  • @jashawndathompson5059
    @jashawndathompson5059 Місяць тому +6

    This was so good and wholesome 🫶🏽

  • @TylynnMusic
    @TylynnMusic Місяць тому +2

    Great discussion! Thank you all once again for your honesty and vulnerability

  • @LeeAnnHawkins7
    @LeeAnnHawkins7 Місяць тому

    This blessed my whole soul!!!!! Been a disciple, from a distance, of the Perry’s for a while and I love them! Now a subscriber of the Azonwus! I appreciate and am thankful for the vulnerability, boldness, love and wisdom in this conversation.
    I can’t wait to see more!
    I need those question cards too please!!
    ❤️

  • @ms.jackson9349
    @ms.jackson9349 Місяць тому

    Excellent discussion!!!!

  • @summerreign044
    @summerreign044 26 днів тому

    ❤ WOW! This whole conversation is just wow. I'm here for it and Preston; all the gems. 😊 🎉

  • @dianewashington505
    @dianewashington505 Місяць тому

    I loved this ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @annmarieparisi276
    @annmarieparisi276 Місяць тому

    Excellent conversation....I also think that discernment in all cases is key because there are people in our midst--who we will ultimately find we are not equally yoked with and the door needs to shut...not everyone is coming to the table with a pure heart and there are peopkle who label themselves as friends who have deep rooted jealousy

  • @medicineandlife-zs1fe
    @medicineandlife-zs1fe Місяць тому

    I love these four ❤❤❤❤, may God keep you all.

  • @lovelife8968
    @lovelife8968 26 днів тому

    This is great!

  • @tholakeledlamini2189
    @tholakeledlamini2189 12 днів тому

    Love you guys watching all the way from South Africa...I love how realistic you navigate your marriage the honesty and transparency ...I first saw you guys on the perry podcast and you touched me so much ..

  • @dabike_
    @dabike_ Місяць тому +1

    The end cracked me up 😂😂 love the whole conversation

  • @KashJ7
    @KashJ7 15 днів тому

    Really enjoyed this podcast and enjoying the channel

  • @freshbeginningslive
    @freshbeginningslive Місяць тому +1

    "cultivate because we are in covenant" that's 🔥🔥🔥

  • @barbaracarey2464
    @barbaracarey2464 Місяць тому

    Both couples are absolutely beautiful❤ I love to glean and take wisdom from both couples. This was a great podcast.