The Full Story Behind Marc's Accident, and Why We Moved into the Coach House
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- Опубліковано 21 чер 2024
- Explaining Marc's awful accident in more detail and answering your questions about why we decided to move into the coach house. This is a chatty only video to update you on everything. Back to work next week!
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That was a brave retelling of a terrible day. I wasn't one of the need to know the gruesome details of Marc's accident. That is your family's personal life details. Having been through tough times with my husband's and my own own health, I can attest to the fear and shock you went through. I pray for God's continued healing for Marc. Stay well yourself. Please don't overextend yourself for viewers. Family matters most.
What a frightening experience, Amy. Kudos to you for having the presence of mind to call your English-speaking doctor friend and your neighbor for assistance. Wishing Marc a complete recovery and calmer days ahead for all of you.
Wishing Marc quick healing and a hug for all you're doing, Amy!
Thank you!
As a nurse I highly commend you for your actions and holding it together. Make sure you talk to close friends/family to debrief that’s a huge trauma you both went through. Take care both of you xxx
So true
An insightful comment from someone who has seen trauma up close. Thank you so very much for sharing how very important it is to share the trauma. The retelling it helps to deal with the fear and terror. I am sure that you are doing everything to hold things together and “ to hold the fort down.” I hope that you have help, especially with two little ones. Being a care giver is not for the faint of heart especially with a growly bear who has momentarily lost their independence.
I was an EMT many years ago and I can concur that people can slip away quite quickly when they lose too much blood. Kudos to you Amy for keeping pressure on his leg to stem the flow of blood. One experience I had was a husband who sat on his wife's thighs to move the blood up to the heart and the vital organs because she had a self-inflicted injury on her wrists which he also wrapped tightly. But that wouldn't have been an option for you since his injury was on his leg. This man had used MAST (Military Anti-Shock Trousers) in Vietnam as a medic, that when pumped up with a certain psi would shunt blood up to the vital organs and keep men who were losing blood alive longer until they could be put on an IV and stitched up, etc. He surmised he could keep her alive longer by putting pressure on her legs. He may have been right because she did survive. I got a similar gash in my thigh when I fell off a roof I was working on and fell on an exposed pipe. My friend just threw me in the car and drove me to the emergency room and I put a tourniquet on in the car en route. My father also suffered a grave injury to his leg when he fell through some grating on an oil rig in the South China Sea ...but luckily there was a full-time doctor and surgeon on the rig ...after getting stitched up he was flown to Kalimantnan on a helicopter and then sent to Singapore for a more thorough check-up. If there hadn't been a doctor on that rig, he would have bled out & died, because they were too far from any hospital. We do what we have to do at the time. Time is of the essence, remember that. As an EMT we learnt about "the Golden Hour". Everyone should know what that is also, but depending on the severity of the injury it can be a lot shorter than that. Anyone living in the countryside should learn basic training to save their loved one's lives. Again ...time is of the essence.
From experience, I can tell you that the caretaker takes the brunt of the emotional fallout from an injured or ill spouse. Marc will be fine because you are there. Be sure to take care of yourself as well. We are really looking forward to the new adventures in the chateau.
Thank you!
As one caring for her dad 24/7, totally agree. Self care is so important.
@@Chroniclesofrosiereshave you moved post that damaged him?
Amy, you are a strong woman, but take time to take care of yourself even though you have to take care of Mark and the kids. Mark, rest, but get well soon! Amy needs you! 😊
If accidents like this happen it's a sign to slow down! Please take your time to recover!
Oh my Amy!! What a horrible day for all of you! I have always marveled at Mark’s skills and work ethic. There is very little that he can not do! Your fortitude, patience and perseverance is awe inspiring. I’m so sorry you had all of this to deal with and with no Margo to help. Thank you for taking the time to explain so much to us. We love seeing your many adventures!
Thank you!
Best wishes from Marc’s recovery. When I was a child a friend impaled her leg on a spike on a fence, it was terrifying as she was hanging upside down until a neighbour lifted her off. I’ve never forgotten it. ❤
Yikes that sounds awful!
Amy you were very brave to share your private life. Prayers for Marc’s healing and patience.
The retelling of Marc’s accident gave me shivers! That was so terrifying for you both. Thank you for explaining what your next projects are in the château - lots to keep you both busy for months. It’s great that you are finally in the Coach House. You can relax as a family and Marc can recover surrounded by all of you. ❤
This is more important for you to tell than it is for us to hear. It helps you by the telling. ... we'll wait for whatever you do at your pace. Shock is a strange thing but watch out for infection. My best for all of you.
Amy, hope sharing your story helps in knowing how many people really care about you and your family! Hugs to all from Honduras!
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So sorry to hear about all this wishing Marc a speedy recovery ❤❤❤Kate
what a horror! Wishing Marc a speedy recovery and also a more realistic sense of his own vulnerability.
Poor you,, Amy. It must have been very frightening. Hope all is well now
So sorry for Marc's accident. You held it together enough to do all the things you needed to. Sounds great to me. I wish you both well and speedy healing to Marc.
What a rush of adrenaline for you trying to sort all that out on such a busy day, you’re such a star xx
Oh Amy, just dreadful news with a very lucky outcome, we lived on a rural property in Australia, pays to have a plan in case of emergency and train children how to get help( list of emergency numbers on the fridge), found out just how well that plan worked when I had a gall bladder attack. Community is so important too, so thankful you had a bit of support. Be mindful of not getting run down yourself. Xx
So glad Marc’s accident wasn’t worse, it really could have been a very different outcome.
Even as strong a person as you are, when doing “double duty” the need to prioritize tasks becomes item # 1! All the best.
Absolutely - he could have bled out and died there and then. Thankfully he is sensible enough to know what to do. Great story that will bring many laughs over dinner in the future. Not for now tho
Wishing Marc a quick recovery, but hopefully he listens to the doctors and takes it easy. Take care Amy as well as you went through a traumatic experience. Hope you can get some help as well from friends and family and friends to help so you don’t wear yourself out. Exciting times with the chateau restoration!
You should do videos when you are able to, and we will eagerly await them. With everything you have on your plate, we understand your videos may not be regularly published but we are loyal followers! You do what you can and we will be here eagerly awaiting your next video, whenever you publish them!
We wish you a speedy recovery, Mark!
That must have been so scary for you Amy ,please take time to look after yourself as well as Marc. From experience I know that it takes time to process it mentally whilst at the same time being the caregiver and it can be harder for you than the patient. We are here whenever you are able to post but if you can’t then don’t worry we will wait. I know you want to get started on the chateau work but don’t rush into it,make sure Marc is fully healed and you are settled enough in yourself to start such a huge task. ❤❤
How horrid for poor Marc, but Amy, this event was horrendous for you sweetheart, you where obviously terrified as we always are when our beloved partners are involved in an accident or illness, my heart goes out to you both. If I was healthy enough to pitch in,I would definitely be on the next plane. I am sending you my heartfelt love and prays. Oh and I remember that bedroom and bathroom renovation from the DIY. How wonderful to go back and finish it all. Xx
I hope he is recovering well.
Bonjour Amy, wishing Marc a full recovery, you have a lot on your plate as well Amy, so take good care of yourself as you hold down the fort. I am looking forward to the Chateau renovations, I love what you have done to the coach house. Sending prayers to you all. Love from N.Y.
Wow that would have been terrifying! I am so glad that Marc is ok.
it’s so scary to watch someone you love in trouble, thank goodness you were there and that he will make a full recovery. take care care of each other ❤❤❤
Well, I thought he’d had an encounter with a cow horn. Thanks for letting us know Aimie. Greetings from Australua
Get well soon, Marc! Blessings to your whole family!
Best wishes to Marc, and the family, for continuing improvement since his dreadful accident.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Social media is strange because even though you don’t know us, we all feel like your family has become like friends. We care about you and your well being. So may you continue to heal(both of you). And we will look forward to new videos when it suits your schedule.
Prayers for swift recovery for Marc and wishes for this summer to be a wonderful family time! You seem surrounded by a community of helpful and highly competent people who can handle whatever comes along! Cherish these beautiful days!
Amy, I am so happy Marc is recovering. So much on your shoulders now especially reassuring Clement and Juliette. Looking forward to the work you will be part of over the next several weeks. Please try to make some time for yourself. Bless you all.❤
Oh Amy. What a traumatic experience! That would have felt so scary. So glad Marc will not have lasting damage from that injury. Just like always, we are here whenever you can have time to share more (it’s so interesting!!!) but hope you don’t feel pressure. Letting Marc heal is the #1 priority. Sending good wishes and lots of love to your sweet little family! ❤
Amy, we all wonder how we will react in the face of a terrible accident. You and Marc were both calm and efficient and you can rest easy on that score. The time for falling apart is after and even then you did what you needed too. Well done. Take care of your little family and Marc listen to Amy.
Dear Amy, thank you for letting us know the terrible extent of Marc’s injury and your horrible ordeal. I’m so sorry you had to experience such a frightening situation, but happy that Marc is healing. Hopefully he’s on antibiotics for any infection. Thank you for giving us a flavor of the renovations to come. I think Marc should wear an Apple Watch or something just in case you aren’t within range to hear him. Not sure if you have service for that but something to consider. No worries about the videos. Many hugs to you and Marc and the children. ❤❤❤
As awful as the whole episode with Marc’s leg, when you look at the photo of him in the ambulance, you can see that he was sort of enjoying the attention despite the pain, loss of blood and fright!!Truly a resilient soul!You on the other hand, while being a trooper well matched to his insouciance, deserve an entire spa day!!!!!!
Your retelling of the dramatic events was really gripping - I could see it in front of me my eyes.
I hope the healing process is going well and there is no new infection. Fingers crossed 🤞
I bet he can’t wait to start working again, but it’s better being patient now and just wait until he’s fully recovered.
Thanks Michael. I can't believe he waited until you and Margot and Anne had left to do it!!!
You kept your head in a horrible situation.
Not only alone with Marc and your youngest, but communicating with the fire, neighbors, a doctor, and on top a class of very young children.
That is amazing! It is terrifying when a love one is hurt like he was. and to do all you did, you are a strong woman.
I am truly sorry that you and Marc had to go through all of that.
I hope Marc is following his doctors advice and will be up and around soon.
I am absolutely tipping my hat to you, you are the type of person someone wants in a bad situation.
❤️❤️❤️ sending love to you and the whole family.
Goodness me Marc was lucky. I can only imagine how terrifying it was for you before help arrived. Wishing him a smooth and speedy recovery! xx
Healing vibes to Marc for a full recovery and also good vibes to you as you tackle all duties by yourself.
I'm so glad he and you are recovering from the scary incident...
one thing I hope you'll do, or him, when he's better, is to put an upside-down bucket over every projecting sharp stick or piece of metal.
Farms are muddy, slippery places and impalement injuries are common.
A colorful upside-down bucket also reminds us to yank that thing out of the ground.
You're lucky to be in France. That injury here in the US would be a $100k expense..with zero nurses to change dressings.
Hugs to you all❤
Good tip!
If you can't spare buckets, a tennis ball with a hole in it does the trick, too.
I am just so very, very, relieved that Marc has come through this terrible accident! You, Amy, with so much going on, we’re able to keep your head. Although you say you “lost your French.” If I were in your position I might have lost all my language. With all best wishes for Marc’s full recovery. I’ll be tuning in on your channels to support you and your beautiful family.
My goodness what a terrible experience for you both. Time moves so slowly when you are waiting for assistance. I always think how amazing our coping mechanism is, going ahead with the trip is a fine example. You will win best mascot trip. I think if it was me I would by now put a pot over that nasty metal bar so nobody else can get hurt. You both work so hard this is a wake up call for a break, so lucky it wasn’t worse. Coach house looks lovely.
Amy, it must have been difficult to recount that difficult day, so much going on, demanding your attention while trying to get assistance to Marc. Go gently for a while for all of you to recover from this shock and during the healing process for Marc. However, thank you for explaining your next steps at the chateau, we'll be here when you're ready to resume your plans to make the chateau your family home. Sending my very best wishes to you all.
Wishing Marc a speedy recovery and many blessings for the entire family . ❤️❤️❤️
oh, my dear, what an extraordinary time, big hugs, love from the New Forest 🇬🇧
I’m glad Marc is ok. I hope making this video, telling us the story helps you. Hopefully you can convince Marc to take the time to heal. 💕
Wow Amy, what an ordeal. Strength to you! You are truly resilient. .... breathe, make a cup of tea & smell the roses!
Rikki Biermann, Pretoria, South Africa 🇿🇦
Marc, please for your family's sake Rest rest rest and patiently heal. There is Nothing more important for your loved ones.
I think people are naturally curious with no story at all, rather than morbid, watching these videos you start to care about the families in them. It was brave telling the story in quite such detail, but thank you. It must have been very tough for you too especially with a child there who must have been worried too. I hope mark makes a speedy recovery.
Amy, I am so relieved that Marc is going to recover fully. How scary that must have been for you to hear him yell out. Please take care, and know that your supporters (like us, here in the US!) are always pulling for you and your family as you proceed through this incredible adventure that is Chateau de Rosieres!
Thank you, Amy, for taking the time and energy to share with us all of the latest news, including Marc's accident and your week of woes. I hope that any more hazards have been identified and eliminated --or soon to be. Whatever regime you are following to stay healthy, collected and able to carry on is working. Keep well and wishing all of you good health and maybe, less rain.
Get well soon Marc. And well done Amy, you’re doing great to keep all the plates spinning!
Gosh what a frightening accident! I can imagine that you are traumatized by it. Best wishes for a good recovery.
Continued prayers for Marc’s healing.
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Don't worry about the filming. The important thing is to make sure the infection in Marc's leg is eliminated and he recovers fully. You have a lot on your hands to pick up and help with what Marc usually does. Just drop a short video note to let us know and that we can view, like, and comment on during the weeks that are just too hectic.
Mom upside down is wow. Mom's are blessed to endure and carry on. ❤. Glad you are ok.
Hope Marc gets better and rested . I wish you Amy and family all the best you are survivors .
So very sorry to hear the details of his accident and thank god Marc wasn't more seriously injured, still this was bad enough. Very scary - makes a person feel vulnerable. I'm in my mid-70's, in decent shape but a simple fall could end it all. Thrilled he's on the mend. You are amazing.
What a traumatic event for you all. Sometimes talking about it helps you understand, you did the very best under the extreme circumstances at the time. You are fortunate it ended well. I hope Mark [and you ] make a good recovery. As a medic I have memories of catastrophic events from 45 years ago still playing through my mind. They never leave you , you just learn to live with them, but mostly tucked away.
Very good to hear that Mark is well on the mend. Can’t wait to see him in his Roman work boots getting back into it. ❤️
Wishing Marc a speedy recovery. Thanks for the update and the plans for thr upcoming renovations. Looking forward to seeing your amazing work!
Why are people so nosey? I wouldn’t dream of asking questions about your private life. Happy to read what you want to tell us. So sorry to hear about it but hopefully it will heal quickly. Best wishes Marc
Hope Marc continues to get well. We all understand that things will be a little chaotic for a well. Take care of yourself
Can I say that I ONLY Watch this video to SUPPORT your channel. I don't particularly want to know what happened to Marc. Again sending you an avalanche of LOVE
Yes, they are treating deep, slow-healing wounds with medicinal honey with great results. Happened to my husband with a wound Dr.s had been treating for sometime and they called for the honey pads - bang - results.
Also hoping the two of you will then be able to organize almost with your local medical attendants, almost a code system so you can call and say something like - Help - Rosières - Fire or Accident or something and - Urgent - and have given them a sheet with location, your phones, your names and directions to you- for them to grab when you say Rosières so you and they can then concentrate on What the problem is and the urgency without having to be bogged down by the who and where. I would think they would be grateful and you are spared at least that much French. Love to you both. I had the shock thing happen with my dearly beloved and do understand. You think you are managing it and then suddenly you are unwell and not.
Oh, Amy, big hugs to you and to Marc for a bon rétablissement for your nerves and his leg. It took courage to relive your worst nightmare. Very best wishes. X
Bless your heart. How terrifying. So very thankful you got the help you needed.
So glad Marc is recovering and that you are able to keep up, the best you can. It is a lot to handle for both of you.!
I am so glad you are coming out of this harrowing event with a smile. I could not keep from tearing up in your retelling. Wishes for ontinued healing for Marc.
Get well soon Marc. I'm looking forward to seeing your updates. Hugs to you Amy.
Thanks for letting us know what happened Amy although I wasn't expecting to hear all about it. So glad Marc is recovering and you are too. It will be wonderful for you all to start renovations on the actual chateau soon. Take care and look after yourself as well.
Such a terrifying event!! Glad Marc is ok and I sure do hope that he heals quickly. You home is so lovely!!
Bless you for retelling what happened to Marc, scary when something happens to your loved one, wish him all the best.
I thank God that Marc is on the road to recovery! Amy, please be sure to take care of yourself, too! Mark was physically injured, but you suffered emotional trauma. Allow yourself time to heal. Be kind to yourself. Take breaks and rest. Sending you all love and hugs from CT, USA!❤
Praying for Mark's recovery to go well...and your sanity thru this trying time. Your gardens are lovely and the carriage house looks wonderful. Hope all goes well with the next phase of renovations.
Dear, I am happy all turned out much better than it seemed. It's pure shock you went on with all that was planned. If people ask how and what, they are crossing a border. The border of your privacy and that line should be carefully guarded. Big hug and thinking of you.
I find myself holding my breath with tears flowing. You are all so dear and your retelling is very brave. Know you are loved by many. May this pass with fast healing for Marc. ❤
Get well soon. MARC!
I’m so glad to hear Marc is recovering. I hope you are as well. I completely understand the lingering emotions you are having after all you experienced Best to you all. On another note so happy to see the increasing subscribers!!!
Praying for complete healing for Marc. For you Amy strength
I hope Marc continues to recover well with no infection, and you can keep well also. Thank you for this video.
So nice to have an update on Marc and for a review of the projects in the Chateau
Wow, what a trooper you are Amy! Love wins out over all! Praying for complete healing for Marc and peace and comfort for your little family.
Life has a way of showing you when you need to take time for family. You won't ever get rid of the visions, sorry that it was so visual. Its been 22 years since my husbands accident and certain things still bring it all back. Make sure you get some friends you can talk it out with...
Horrific for Marc and you too Amy. Wishing Marc a quick recovery ❤️🩹 and take care of yourself Amy ❤ 👋 🇦🇺
Glad Mark is doing better. Very scary, speaking from Medical critical care background. One of the cons of living in remote areas, is having to have a back up plan, when one homesteader is incapacitated. Hoping for better times and continued safety. ❤
Poor Marc, what an awful thing to have happened . .I always enjoyed watching you on the TV programme and am so pleased to have found you on here.. Look forward to keeping up with you from now on . .
Thank you! Glad you found us on here!
Wishing Marc a speedy recovery. Amy, please take care. We know your hands are full. Don’t worry about getting videos out. Your subscribers will understand and wait patiently. 😊
I suggest you pop a bucket or cone over the metal stake that's still there? Don't want it to happen again- happy healing both xxx❤❤❤❤
Please give our hugs to Mark and you and take care 😘
So glad Marc is on the mend.
Omg I'm so glad he's ok. That's awful. I'm the stoic in an emergency and then fall apart after. You're right about that wallpaper. It is awful and the hidden doors would drive me nuts if I'm trying to get into one in a hurry.
What an experience. Whenever things "like" this happen I usually end up learning something from it, thanking my lucky stars. All I can say is, you've had one heck of a lesson! I'm so glad you are all doing OK now.
It's certainly clear why you've moved into the cottage for the time being. You'll be fine now!
My dad was a painter. He did the walls in our lounge with hessian bagging and then painted it. It turned out quite well. But that was over 50 years ago and the walls were not good quality.
Poor Marc and poor you! Just focus on him and the kids don’t worry about videos we’ll manage ❤
I imagine that, like me, most of your viewers are happy to watch whatever content you put out, even if it isn’t a lot, because we can see the pressures you’ve been under, lately, so please don’t rush or worry on our behalf. All good wishes to Marc for a proper recovery 😊
What a terrifying event! I'm so relieved for both of you that Marc was ok. No wonder why you were in shock! It must have been absolutely horrifying to see him like that, and have to wait so long for help to arrive! I can't believe you were able to function for the school event! I'm not sure I wouldn't have been able to! You are both very strong people! Praying that Marc's leg continues to heal well, that you are able to process your trauma well, and have the energy needed to take care of everything. ❤
Hi Amy from New Zealand. What an amazing wife and mum you are to get through such an ordeal! Wish I was closer so I could pop round and give you a hand where needed. Glad Marc is safe and in recovery now. If you're looking for something natural to help with the healing, colloidal silver is incredible for killing infections. I'm excited to see your videos on your renovations, but no pressure. Life happens and we've all just got to roll with it. You are doing amazingly well and an inspiration! Pass on regards to Marc. Glad you're still with us albeit a little tottering! Get well soon!
Oh I had forgotten about colloidal silver - I'll get onto that. Thank you!
@@Chroniclesofrosieres Heading your way from New Zealand in Oct for a few months and would love to help write a book on your chateau journey if you need help fundraising. I’m a best selling ghostwriter. Just a thought.
Hi Angela! How interesting! I'm also a writer, but not yet published in book form. I went back to study after quitting my job and got a masters in writing creative non-fiction from UEA in the UK (an amazing course). It's my dream to write our story one day, but I feel like it's a bit early at this stage. Thank you for your exceptionally kind offer though!!! What are some of the books you've worked on?
What a terrible and terrifying time you have both been through. Sending my best wishes and healing thoughts for Marc. Hoping Amy that you can keep Marc ‘restrained’ in order for him to heal safely and well. I can imagine it might require a large mallet or some horse tranquillisers to knock him out! Look after yourselves and hopefully there will be some help to get you through what must be a very difficult time. Take care all you. ❤
Horse tranquillisers, now there's an idea...