I missed y’all so much 😭🥹 I feel like I rambled so much in this video and left out a ton but it’s truly just been the most overwhelming chaotic time in my life. My mental health was not good, my stress levels were off the charts, & my personal relationships were tested more than ever before. I’m sorry for just disappearing, I take full responsibility for that & promise to do better. Thanks for hanging in with me & understanding ❤ Also… did y’all get the new Natasha palette? 😏👀
We adore you, no worries… and YES! I placed my order on Friday. I almost NEVER buy things when they launch. I always watch 5 or more influencers review products first and wait to pick up anything over $30 during the Sephora sale. However, this color pallet is so perfect for me, I wonder if it just might sell out! So I got it because I knew I would love it and I think it’s all I’ve ever wanted in an eyeshadow pallet. ❤
Sending y’all all the love. Contractors who actually deliver are a rare breed, in my experience. I’m so sorry you and Ian have been dealing with all of this. Keep your head up and keep pushing - it will get better and this will eventually feel like a bad dream in the rearview mirror!
Oh Babs how I’ve MISSED your videos. The reason because you feel REAL. Like no fake persona or anything. You talk to us like a normal every day person and that’s what I LOVE. Do NOT feel sorry or anything for taking time. We all understand the struggles of life. You take the time that you NEED. And we’ll be here waiting for you❤️🥰
Hi Stephanie, so so sorry to hear of your horrible experience. My husband is a contractor and has been for over 30 years. He is one of the top contractors here in our city and people pay extra for him to build or renovate their homes. His sub trades are the ultimate in professionals as well. He is a perfectionist and accepts nothing but the best in all stages of home construction. If you lived here in our city I would send him to your home immediately to alleviate all your torment!! ❤️best wishes!!
@@BabsBeautyI’m so sorry about your experience 😢why did you move from your previous house? And can you sue that contractor for all the problems he caused you?
I’ve never clicked on a video so quickly in my life!!! I cannot say how relieved & ecstatic I am to see you today! I’ve been checking your socials almost every day but didn’t want to leave any messages because I felt like it was just more pressure that you didn’t need! I am so very sorry you went through all of this stress & upheaval over the past 4 months! I cannot imagine buying this beautiful new home & witnessing all of these people you’re paying to make it what you want, only to see them basically destroy it while you pay them through the nose! Without a doubt you will get exactly what you want now that you’re doing it all yourself!!! I hope that we get to see you more frequently now, but even if we don’t, we will be here waiting just like we have over the past few months. You are, without a doubt, one of my top 3 creators, & I’d be here waiting for as long as I had to in order to see you back in my notifications again!! Sending all of my love & positive vibes to you, Ian, & the fur babies!!! 💜😘❤️
Thank you so much for sharing especially about your relationship with your husband! I feel like no one talks about the bad times, this was so refreshing and I hope everything works out soon ❤
WOW!! I would have literally lost my mind! I can't believe the unprofessionalism of your contractors. I would have been crying every day! So glad you are back and I hope things start to get better soon. Take your time with the rest and remember to give yourself some grace. ❤
Girl I went thru the same crap when I moved. Floor guys were drunk, didn't finish on time, backed up the painter time-line, who left the house an absolute disaster, backed up the cleaning people I had scheduled to get rid of all the dust from the sanding the floors and to top it off the people who we bought the house from left their storage pod IN THE DRIVEWAY for over a month so that we couldn't even get in there and they and their lawyer ghosted us. The pod people wouldn't do anything. It was a MESS. so much wasted time and money and frustration, it's physically and mentally draining.
Omgggg sounds like us 😢 I didn’t even go into the previous owners leaving a ton of heavy shit behind we had to pay to have hauled away. The list truly goes on and on. It’s so fucked
I work in a hospital where we had a whole outsource building built and you wouldn't even believe the crooked tiles, leftover smeared caulking on the faucet handles and mirrors even, unstable and misaligned toilets, toilet paper holders soap dispensers, honestly it's endless... you're so right though, it is like the norm with a lot of these construction companies.. I was told, double the estimated cost and time they give you.. don't put up with that though, it's your home your sanctuary hold your standards. Just think, when it's all done and finally complete it's going to be what you and Ian created together. That you 2 made it through this, you can make it through anything ❤️
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. My chest started to tighten up just listening to your story. And I totally feel you, I’m also one of those people who’s always way to nice. I hate conflict. I’m glad you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. ❤
I'm so excited to see you back again ❤ I understand struggles, November 14/21 I was almost successful in ending my life. Long story short, I spent a month in hospital, and the past two years in therapy. I'm so blessed to have a second chance at life and am grateful for every moment. ❤
@@BabsBeauty And I am so sorry for the negative experiences you had with COVID and the renovations. It's all good from here for both of us, beautiful friends ❤️
Your story increases my level of stress dealing with contractors. I’m so sorry for your experience. Hope your eye is feeling better. Thank you for sharing your story.
Girl! Feels like a lot of us have stories like that! I had my kitchen remodeled before Covid took him 6months and I had to fire him also, thousands of dollars gone. You will get through it and learn a lot. Do not let the enemy take away your joy, your so blessed to be able to buy your house and remodel. Enjoy the journey as much as you can. ❤
Had a nightmare experience with a contractor 7 years ago. I felt so robbed. This year I finally hired a new contractor to come in and finish jobs I paid for years ago. It took so long for me to be ready to hire someone again. This time I had a good experience! So sorry for your experience but I’m happy to see you!
I am so glad you are back! If I may say so: you do look great! I haven't watched a lot of make up content lately because I have also been stressed, but clicked straight away to watch you. I also always enjoy your IG stories about your new house and doggies! Much love to you. Edit: I just watched the whole video and I have to say that is so terrible what you had to go through with those contractors. I also feel like I am way too nice to people even if they do a job for you for money, I would have been in the same situation. The tiling was terrible, honestly, you would have probably done a way better job.
I’ve missed your videos so much and I’m so glad you’re back! We also had a similar situation with contractors on a house remodel that went on for 4 years - they demoed the entire house (only were supposed to do the kitchen and bathroom) and we tried for so long to get the funding to redo the house but it was so bad we never even got to move in and eventually had to sell the house! Don’t feel bad about taking the time that you need! I’m so sorry you’ve had such a rough few months, It will all turn out okay!
Babs I’m so glad you’re back!! 😭😭 listening to your story brought me back to when I had to do renovations with a newborn! I thought the same exact thing about contractors in NJ!! But as they say: It gets really bad before it gets really good. Surviving this has made you (and possibly your relationships) much stronger. Never apologize for wanting to piece yourself back together!! We want nothing but the best for you and wish you so much happiness as well as PEACE. It’s what you deserve for working so hard!! Congratulations on your new home. Hopefully soon you get to finally enjoy it 🎉
You got this! Glad your back. Makeup is therapeutic and will help you feel better. Sorry this happened but you have taken charge now and can work at your own pace while knowing it’s going to be a good job. Again, I’m thrilled your back bc you’re my fav! Take care of you and your fam!!
So happy you are back, and I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been going through. Sounds like an absolute nightmare and I can’t believe those contractors did that 😳 FWIW your floors and cabinets look beautiful, I hope you have peace in your home soon ❤
I am so sorry to hear about the situation with your home and flooring, not just a horrible situation but also thinking of the mental stress. Hopefully the worst is over.
So glad to see you here back on my feed! I can't imagine the nightmare you've been going through and how it has affected everything. I hope things only get better from here. You have been very missed but also you need to do you!! ❤
First off I've missed your videos ! I'm sorry to hear you went threw alot . I wish you the best it's hard things happen its life I understand . Congratulations on your new home and making it yours and your husband. You rock , you got this ! And no matter how much time your away I will always be here to watch your videos ! ❤❤❤❤
Omg it sounds like your experience has been such a nightmare. Contractors are seriously THE WORST! I'm so sorry you've gone through such a tough time. I am really really happy to see you though ❤
I have so many contractor and worker nightmare stories. It’s so hard to find good help right now. So sorry you went through this. You will look back and be so glad that your house will eventually be perfect. I just found myself the first current worker after 14 years, best of luck. So glad you are back. I love your honesty, and I like it when you don’t like make up because it stops me from purchasing
Hi love! I can relate to this! Home renovations is so hard to deal with especially when you have pets! My husband and I also feel like we are always too nice!! So I fully get that struggle. And covid has changed me too... mental health problems that were never there before and I have severe sleeping issues now from it. I encourage you to give yourself grace and patience. Thanks for showing your beautiful self and sharing your struggles which I can imagine is so hard to do. I suffer in silence so much so I commend you for showing up. Love you so much and am here for you!!! Enjoy your beautiful yard and the work that you put in to your new home will be even more cherished when you do it yourself the right way. Love you girl!
Omg 8-12 grand is CRAZY. I just bought a new build and had to hire someone to change the tub because I wanted custom, and they have to take out the one that’s being put in, and change the tilling, and the quote was 5k.
So glad to hear that you're ok but definitely needed to take off. Most importantly is keeping that awesome relationship you've had with Ian. I'm feeling you when it comes to trying to find contractors. Where I live, no one wants to work and I felt like those who have done jobs for me, took advantage of me since I'm now widowed. But it sounds like, from hearing your experience, that it's everywhere, unfortunately. UA-cam has been a lifesaver for me when it's come to learning to do things my husband had always done. Praying for you and Ian! Among the chaos, make time for just you two❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Stephanie, I'm sorry to hear about everything you had to go through, these past few months, no need to apologize, life changes in an instant and there is so much out of oir control. I hope you are feeling better, and hope you remember to take care of yourself and take time off for yourself to process everything. And congratulations on your beautiful new home and property, it looks amazing! An afternoon relaxing by the pond with some tea and maybe a good book sounds heavenly!!!❤❤❤
missed u girl i’m so happy your ok i was so worried about you i thank God your good listen i know what you’ve been through was not easy but just thank God it’s only a house problem and know this in the bible it say don’t worry about anything instead pray to God about everything ask him to help you with the things you need Philippians 4 verse 6 btw you look great ❤😊🙏
Oh my goodness girl you have been through it! I know how stressful remodel can be and just that feeling of wanting it done so you can enjoy your new home! Prayers for a quick process and for your mental health girl. 🙏❤️💕
@@BabsBeautydo NOT feel bad! You have a life outside of UA-cam, even though you are my absolute favorite to watch and listen to, we all understand. And ramble as much as you want… I love the fact that you’re so relatable and interpersonal with your fans!
Babs!!! 😢 I was at the gym when I watched this and I honestly got emotional and almost started crying at the end when you talked about your marriage! I’m SO incredibly sorry that you are going through hell and I wish there was something I could do to help! I don’t know you personally but you are special to your viewers and cared for and so brave to take this enormous amount of difficult things on! You inspire me seriously!
Oh Steph!!! I am so very sorry to hear about all you and Ian have been going through. We bought a new home about a month and a half ago. While our chaos was not as extreme as yours, we were out through the wringer as well with contractors and how difficult it is to get decent workers in here to fix the issues in our new house. So stressful. Wishing you both well and that this chapter soon comes to a close. So glad to see you back😘😘😘😘
Missed you and your content! I’m so sorry you had gone through all of that. I’m glad to see your beautiful and hope for better days ❤ I feel like customer service everywhere has just gone downhill lately. No one has pride in what they do anymore. Smh 😩
I’m a new subscriber, but you’re like listening to a lifelong friend! Love the look! You are so right about contractors … if you can do it yourself, DO IT!!! ♥️
I cannot even believe what you’ve been through. How you were able to overcome all of that is nothing short of amazing. You’re a strong fierce woman for enduring all of that and coming out the other side. Sending you so much good juju and hoping karmic retribution pays you back 1000000x for what you just went through. Happy to see you’re back. xoxo 🫶🏻
Hi Step, I have so much to say. I've been watching you for years but this is my first comment. I feel like I'm reliving what me and my husband had went through with our renovations especially after what you said about you and Ian. I've lived through renos for 15 years and it did so much damage. Don't worry it will get better but you're in my thoughts and you look beautiful xo
I feel so bad for you, we built our house 3 years ago and had no issues with contractors. Please take it easy and don’t forget you ARN’T a failure!!! Take your time to come back, we love you to the moon and back!!
I’m honestly glad your doing well and that you’re back. You know that we are all human and go through many things in life. We all get busy and have personal issues going on, and in my eyes, there doesn’t need to be an apology for that. Your health is the most important thing here. Absolutely glad to see you again ❤❤
Omg girl you have been through it. I'm in the UK and it's sooooo hard to find good contractors, we get alot of them will come and give you a price for a job and then they just don't show up and you can't get it touch with them, it's unbelievable, they must see what's jobs they have a pick the one's that will pay the most 😕 it's so good to have you back but don't push yourself we aren't going anywhere 😉
I completely understand. About 10 years ago, we bought our house and completely renovated it. We did a lot of work ourselves, but had to hire contractors to do some of the work. OMG! It was a nightmare! Those contractors pulled out a dark side of me that I never thought I had. I was seriously ready to hurt someone! Fortunately, I was able to control myself. I pray I never ever have to go through that ever again. I am so sorry you had to go through that. It truly is ridiculous how hard it is to get good work.
I’m so sorry about your experience. I’ve heard this about contractors from others as well. I hope that you get some peace moving forward. Welcome back. Love your Natasha video too
We are so glad you’re back! I’m sorry you went through all this. You have a huge following. I would name these contractors. Not for revenge but to possibly save someone else the stress. Love you!! Sending hugs!
Missed your videos but I’m so glad you took the time you needed for yourself. I’m struggling now too with mental health and postpartum so double whammy. We’re with you dear! ❤
You are definitely not alone love, this type of things happen all of the time. I am so sorry you’ve had to go through that. It is so frustrating and it feels like it’s never going to end. We had a bad experience as well, the contractor told us it would only take three months to remodel our condo and it took a year!!! Ugh 😩 The only thing I can say is take a deep breath, hold on to your fur babies and your husband and go outside as much as you can. Let nature comfort you ❤ wishing you the best 😘
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Make no apologies we all go through things and it feels like,” will I make it out of this”. You have to take care of yourself💜
Welcome back. I'm so pleased to see you again and sorry for your troubles. Sending lots of love and support from Kaukapakapa New Zealand. Your property looks incredible and will be even better because you are doing it up yourselves. We are too and it makes our home something to be proud. I look forward to seeing you again as often as you can manage xxxxx
Steph I’ve missed your videos! I’m so sorry for all you having been going through!!! Thank you for your video today!! I pushed the plug on the GIVE bronzer!! It’s beautiful on you!!! Take care!!!!!
Steph I missed you SOOOO much, I’m so SO SO sorry about all the trauma you’ve endured with your new home & the reaction to the Covid meds. I hope you’re doing better. Glad to have you back on UA-cam ❤ sending so much love and hugs your way!
What a friggin HORROR story!! I feel for you. It is unbelievable how unreliable many contractors have become. You are not alone. There are sooo many people I know who have similar stories. I almost fell off my chair when you said the person dropped the sander down the stairs!!! WTF??? Speechless! It was great to see you back online. I hope things get better for you. I know it’s hard but don’t let these horrible experiences ruin your relationship with your husband. It’s not worth it. That being said, we bought a house four years ago and it was SO stressful to work through the process. Wishing you the best. XOXO
So so happy to see you back! You look positively radiant! I get what you mean about getting off the roller coaster - this past year has been a very trying one and little things like putting on make up and self care have been very helpful! You do you - when you can - when you want - we'll always be here for you. Much Love. Edited to add that I also got GPC last year after my dad's funeral. My eye doctor said it was a combo of stress/immune system being down/traveling on dry/germy planes for long periods (flights to Europe). It took about 2 months to fully go away.
Omg I had to make sure this video wasn't from 6 yrs ago! So excited to see u back. I have to say I'm so sorry to hear ur experience. Unfortunately, I've experienced the same with contractors so my husband and I have literally done all the work in our house thank God to UA-cam! U save tons of money, work on ur own time-line and have the peace of mind that it's being done right. Sending u much love and good vibes ❤ U guys got this 💪
Omg,.. my heart was breaking, listening to your story, I’m so sorry that happened to you and your husband. What a nightmare, but on a positive note, you made it on the other side of the madness. I definitely get it and I understand. “Although I’ve truly miss you” you’re such a strong lady, not too many people are that open because people can be so cruel. Thank you for sharing your story! Welcome back Babs! I pray you feel better soon.
Wow that’s a lot to handle. I am so sorry for all the bad experience and frustration. I hope everything starts getting better. The most important thing is that you, hubby and doggies are healthy. Everything else is material things that can be fix. Sending you a huge hug and looking forward to seeing more videos 🥰
Soooo happy to see you back! Sorry for you’ve been through, hope everything will get better soon! And thank you for taking time to film even during this difficult time.
i don’t comment, but i love watching your videos and this long one was awesome to watch, i felt like i relate to you so much, don’t feel alone, my family and i renovated our home a little bit before covid and the contractors we had were terrible, our house till this day has stuff falling apart and things are ruined that we didn’t even know about in the process i so understand the stress and anger, your doing amazing!! 👼
Oh sweetie!! That is so much to go through all at once…. Your soul is as beautiful as your face…. You are doing a great job handling it. Everyone loves and misses you. Glad to see you back and I am so sorry for all you have been through. 💜💜
Girl, I am so happy that you’re back. You are such the sweetest thing ever. I just wanna say that right at the beginning of the video so now I’m gonna continue watching. Love you baby doll.
I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through! I’m a pharmacist and I can tell you that paxlovid is no joke. It has a myriad of side effects and my mom, when she had COVID, stopped it from my recommendation due to her side effects (she took it because she’s immunocompromised). That drug is rough. So glad you’re better now!
Babs I am so sorry to hear how difficult renovating your home has been it sounds horrible! I hope you find amazing contractors moving forward and everything goes smoothly so you can finally enjoy your new home! Happy that you're back posting and your makeup looks flawless!
So happy to see you. Ughhh what a nightmare!!! I’m so so sorry you had to go through that. We had this happen the year before Covid. The contractor bailed and his workers came around asking us for money with half a roof on our house. My kitchen had DISGUSTING water damage for almost an entire year. I wish there were more ales to protect people.
Oh sweetness!! I’ve missed your face!! I figured you were going through it but not as bad as you have! I hope that everything settles for you!! I’ve been on the struggle bus as well for years it seems so your not alone!! You look beautiful as always and I hope that you can breathe easy for a change!! So glad your back!!!❤️
As much as I've missed you, you and personal space comes first. Take as much time as you need, and we will always be here for you. Sending you positive vibes. ❤
Nice to see you back love, I truly hope it will all be over soon so you can enjoy your new home ,we are in the middle of renovations to so totally understand, take care of yourselves welcome back xxxxx
Sending you lots of love! I get the frustration believe me, have had horrible experiences with contractors as well. Hope everything starts falling into place soon! 🙌🏻 you home looks beautiful ❤
So sorry to hear how those ppl treated you and didn’t respect your house what supposed to be your home. When we bought our house I was afraid that gonna happen to us as well so what we could we done ourselves. From wall sending to wall repair, tiles in the kitchen , bathroom floor, wallpaper removing and adding new ones and etc. we didn’t know at all these things how we didn’t do before but thx to UA-cam we manage to do it in 2,5 months working on the house everyday after work. So your advice to ppl to do ourselves if they can is very useful. Xx
Thank you for being so vulnerable on social media and outside of it by taking a much needed break. I really enjoyed listening to your update, though your story shared was traumatic and disheartening. I'm sorry this was so stressful and unbearable. You don't need to feel bad at all. Your health is way more important than how we feel.
YES ADVICE YOU TO DO IT YOURSELF! My husband family has gone thru it and they learned the hard way on how to t do things themselves. Most contractors be hustling you. Especially if they see you with money then they be hustling you even more. Sometimes they damage things on purpose just so you can pay extra. As well Sometimes it's good to know a family/friend that knows someone that can help you. :) I am so happy you are back! Girl STOP BEING NICE! SOMETIMES THE NICEST ONCE GET STEPPED ON! 😢 SADLY! LEARNED the hard way as well. Happy you are back! And first to God everything goes will with your home. Just please take your time do not rush. Enjoy the process starting today. It's your home 🏡, work on it slowly. Love you! ❤❤❤❤
Hi Stephanie, Welcome back! Missed your videos so much and it wasn't the same without you. Sounds like you did live through a real nightmare. Your story was jaw dropping but hopefully you can control things more going forward. I hope you are going to show us a bit of your new home. It would be fun to see along with your new rescue. Take care and hopefully we'll see you soon! ❤
I’ve missed your videos/content so much! I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that… I would have lost my mind! Hopefully brighter/smoother days ahead❤️❤️❤️
I’m so happy you are back! As a former smoker, I have been using the Mediheal EGT Smile Line Timetox Patches. They really help soften those pesky smile lines. RMS released new shades in their Hydra Power Blushes! I love that blushes are finally getting their moment! I hope you are going to review them.
LIFE is what it is. Come back when you want. It took me months to decorate and rest and then burn out came. Just checking in in. I honestly could not even bother and have a huge collection as well. When you come back, do me a favor. DO not apologize!!! We love you.
So happy that your getting back to normal and I'm so sorry about you and Ian fighting don't be too hard on yourself and life happens sometimes and that's ok just remember shit happens and all you can do is just deal with it and move on. Don't let it consume you. Best of luck moving forward!
I’ve missed you SO much!! I feel like you’re a good friend of mine who I haven’t seen in forever 😂😭 I've been going through it mentally as well, I feel you. So so happy to see you again and I hope all is well with you and your family 🤍
AHHHH Stephanie you made my day! I appreciate how you've been so transparent about your personal struggles. I've always loved your content and here to support!
So glad to see you back! So sorry for what you've had to deal with these past few months. We all go through things in life where our patience and sanity is tested (my current mode 😔), so no need to apologize for the things you can't control. As long as you're healthy and back on the road to being happy, that's what really matters. Congrats on your new home! From what you showed in the video, it looks beautiful. The dogs are going to LOVE that yard!! 😊 Anyway, good to see you back and hope to see more of you again soon! Much love, Alison in CT 💗
Oh my god Steph, you poor thing. Physically I can tell how much of a toll this took on you, I hope you are slowly able to take care of yourself again! Breaks my heart that you’ve had to go through this. I hope good things are on the horizon and you can put this chapter behind you ❤
I’m so happy u r back. Sometimes when u have to go through things so bad like this it will make your marriage stronger in the end. U have each other and of course your furry kids!! That is more important than ANYTHING else!! Take care of each other. Those of us that love u understands that u r human and have things that happen!! I am hoping that u have better days ahead!!
I missed y’all so much 😭🥹
I feel like I rambled so much in this video and left out a ton but it’s truly just been the most overwhelming chaotic time in my life. My mental health was not good, my stress levels were off the charts, & my personal relationships were tested more than ever before. I’m sorry for just disappearing, I take full responsibility for that & promise to do better. Thanks for hanging in with me & understanding ❤
Also… did y’all get the new Natasha palette? 😏👀
Girl, take care of yourself 😘 We’ll be here ❤️
Take care of yourself and don’t feel the need to apologize for that💜💜💜
We adore you, no worries… and YES! I placed my order on Friday. I almost NEVER buy things when they launch. I always watch 5 or more influencers review products first and wait to pick up anything over $30 during the Sephora sale. However, this color pallet is so perfect for me, I wonder if it just might sell out! So I got it because I knew I would love it and I think it’s all I’ve ever wanted in an eyeshadow pallet. ❤
Yes I just ordered it ❤
Sending y’all all the love. Contractors who actually deliver are a rare breed, in my experience. I’m so sorry you and Ian have been dealing with all of this. Keep your head up and keep pushing - it will get better and this will eventually feel like a bad dream in the rearview mirror!
Oh Babs how I’ve MISSED your videos. The reason because you feel REAL. Like no fake persona or anything. You talk to us like a normal every day person and that’s what I LOVE. Do NOT feel sorry or anything for taking time. We all understand the struggles of life. You take the time that you NEED. And we’ll be here waiting for you❤️🥰
Thank you babe!! Excited to get back to filming ❤
What @briannaarballo said 👆
I echo all this
Perfectly said!
Hi Stephanie, so so sorry to hear of your horrible experience. My husband is a contractor and has been for over 30 years. He is one of the top contractors here in our city and people pay extra for him to build or renovate their homes. His sub trades are the ultimate in professionals as well. He is a perfectionist and accepts nothing but the best in all stages of home construction. If you lived here in our city I would send him to your home immediately to alleviate all your torment!! ❤️best wishes!!
Aw thank you! Finding good contractors is so hard 😢
@@BabsBeautyI’m so sorry about your experience 😢why did you move from your previous house? And can you sue that contractor for all the problems he caused you?
I’ve never clicked on a video so quickly in my life!!!
I cannot say how relieved & ecstatic I am to see you today! I’ve been checking your socials almost every day but didn’t want to leave any messages because I felt like it was just more pressure that you didn’t need!
I am so very sorry you went through all of this stress & upheaval over the past 4 months! I cannot imagine buying this beautiful new home & witnessing all of these people you’re paying to make it what you want, only to see them basically destroy it while you pay them through the nose!
Without a doubt you will get exactly what you want now that you’re doing it all yourself!!!
I hope that we get to see you more frequently now, but even if we don’t, we will be here waiting just like we have over the past few months. You are, without a doubt, one of my top 3 creators, & I’d be here waiting for as long as I had to in order to see you back in my notifications again!!
Sending all of my love & positive vibes to you, Ian, & the fur babies!!! 💜😘❤️
Thank you so much! 💕 I’m feeling better already knowing I have some peace in my home without the chaos anymore 😂
Thank you so much for sharing especially about your relationship with your husband! I feel like no one talks about the bad times, this was so refreshing and I hope everything works out soon ❤
WOW!! I would have literally lost my mind! I can't believe the unprofessionalism of your contractors. I would have been crying every day! So glad you are back and I hope things start to get better soon. Take your time with the rest and remember to give yourself some grace. ❤
Missed you girl!!! Life hits you hard, nobody can blame you for that. We are here for you! ♥️
Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻 It felt good to do my makeup for once 😅
At least you look good without makeup! I look like Gollum 😂
Missed you. Congrats on your new house. Here for you
Girl I went thru the same crap when I moved. Floor guys were drunk, didn't finish on time, backed up the painter time-line, who left the house an absolute disaster, backed up the cleaning people I had scheduled to get rid of all the dust from the sanding the floors and to top it off the people who we bought the house from left their storage pod IN THE DRIVEWAY for over a month so that we couldn't even get in there and they and their lawyer ghosted us. The pod people wouldn't do anything. It was a MESS. so much wasted time and money and frustration, it's physically and mentally draining.
Omgggg sounds like us 😢 I didn’t even go into the previous owners leaving a ton of heavy shit behind we had to pay to have hauled away. The list truly goes on and on. It’s so fucked
Happy to see you. No apologies necessary. Things happen sometimes. It’s life. Prayers for better times.
I work in a hospital where we had a whole outsource building built and you wouldn't even believe the crooked tiles, leftover smeared caulking on the faucet handles and mirrors even, unstable and misaligned toilets, toilet paper holders soap dispensers, honestly it's endless... you're so right though, it is like the norm with a lot of these construction companies.. I was told, double the estimated cost and time they give you.. don't put up with that though, it's your home your sanctuary hold your standards. Just think, when it's all done and finally complete it's going to be what you and Ian created together. That you 2 made it through this, you can make it through anything ❤️
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. My chest started to tighten up just listening to your story. And I totally feel you, I’m also one of those people who’s always way to nice. I hate conflict. I’m glad you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. ❤
I'm so excited to see you back again ❤ I understand struggles, November 14/21 I was almost successful in ending my life. Long story short, I spent a month in hospital, and the past two years in therapy. I'm so blessed to have a second chance at life and am grateful for every moment. ❤
I’m so sorry you went through that 😢 but happy you are doing much better now ❤
@@BabsBeauty And I am so sorry for the negative experiences you had with COVID and the renovations. It's all good from here for both of us, beautiful friends ❤️
Your story increases my level of stress dealing with contractors. I’m so sorry for your experience. Hope your eye is feeling better. Thank you for sharing your story.
Girl! Feels like a lot of us have stories like that! I had my kitchen remodeled before Covid took him 6months and I had to fire him also, thousands of dollars gone. You will get through it and learn a lot. Do not let the enemy take away your joy, your so blessed to be able to buy your house and remodel. Enjoy the journey as much as you can. ❤
I am so happy you are back it feels like an old friend I haven’t seen in a very long time. I prayed for you to have lots of healing ❤️🩹
Had a nightmare experience with a contractor 7 years ago. I felt so robbed. This year I finally hired a new contractor to come in and finish jobs I paid for years ago. It took so long for me to be ready to hire someone again. This time I had a good experience! So sorry for your experience but I’m happy to see you!
It’s so sad this is the norm. Glad you finally got someone reliable! ❤
I am so glad you are back! If I may say so: you do look great! I haven't watched a lot of make up content lately because I have also been stressed, but clicked straight away to watch you. I also always enjoy your IG stories about your new house and doggies! Much love to you.
Edit: I just watched the whole video and I have to say that is so terrible what you had to go through with those contractors. I also feel like I am way too nice to people even if they do a job for you for money, I would have been in the same situation. The tiling was terrible, honestly, you would have probably done a way better job.
I’ve missed your videos so much and I’m so glad you’re back! We also had a similar situation with contractors on a house remodel that went on for 4 years - they demoed the entire house (only were supposed to do the kitchen and bathroom) and we tried for so long to get the funding to redo the house but it was so bad we never even got to move in and eventually had to sell the house! Don’t feel bad about taking the time that you need! I’m so sorry you’ve had such a rough few months, It will all turn out okay!
Hanging there, girl! It won't be like that forever. Stay strong and day by day! Much love n hugs ❤❤❤❤
Babs I’m so glad you’re back!! 😭😭 listening to your story brought me back to when I had to do renovations with a newborn! I thought the same exact thing about contractors in NJ!! But as they say: It gets really bad before it gets really good. Surviving this has made you (and possibly your relationships) much stronger. Never apologize for wanting to piece yourself back together!! We want nothing but the best for you and wish you so much happiness as well as PEACE. It’s what you deserve for working so hard!! Congratulations on your new home. Hopefully soon you get to finally enjoy it 🎉
You got this! Glad your back. Makeup is therapeutic and will help you feel better. Sorry this happened but you have taken charge now and can work at your own pace while knowing it’s going to be a good job. Again, I’m thrilled your back bc you’re my fav! Take care of you and your fam!!
So happy you are back, and I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been going through. Sounds like an absolute nightmare and I can’t believe those contractors did that 😳 FWIW your floors and cabinets look beautiful, I hope you have peace in your home soon ❤
Omg! I'm soooo glad your back!!!
I am so depressed right now and you have no idea how excited I just got to see you had posted.
Thank you.
Glad to be a distraction ❤
I am so sorry to hear about the situation with your home and flooring, not just a horrible situation but also thinking of the mental stress. Hopefully the worst is over.
So sorry to here you had such a horrible experience. We are all still here for you! ❤
So glad to see you here back on my feed! I can't imagine the nightmare you've been going through and how it has affected everything. I hope things only get better from here. You have been very missed but also you need to do you!! ❤
First off I've missed your videos ! I'm sorry to hear you went threw alot . I wish you the best it's hard things happen its life I understand . Congratulations on your new home and making it yours and your husband. You rock , you got this ! And no matter how much time your away I will always be here to watch your videos ! ❤❤❤❤
Omg it sounds like your experience has been such a nightmare. Contractors are seriously THE WORST! I'm so sorry you've gone through such a tough time. I am really really happy to see you though ❤
I have so many contractor and worker nightmare stories. It’s so hard to find good help right now. So sorry you went through this. You will look back and be so glad that your house will eventually be perfect. I just found myself the first current worker after 14 years, best of luck. So glad you are back. I love your honesty, and I like it when you don’t like make up because it stops me from purchasing
Hi love! I can relate to this! Home renovations is so hard to deal with especially when you have pets! My husband and I also feel like we are always too nice!! So I fully get that struggle. And covid has changed me too... mental health problems that were never there before and I have severe sleeping issues now from it. I encourage you to give yourself grace and patience. Thanks for showing your beautiful self and sharing your struggles which I can imagine is so hard to do. I suffer in silence so much so I commend you for showing up. Love you so much and am here for you!!! Enjoy your beautiful yard and the work that you put in to your new home will be even more cherished when you do it yourself the right way. Love you girl!
Omg 8-12 grand is CRAZY. I just bought a new build and had to hire someone to change the tub because I wanted custom, and they have to take out the one that’s being put in, and change the tilling, and the quote was 5k.
Right?! These companies are gross 🤮
So glad to hear that you're ok but definitely needed to take off. Most importantly is keeping that awesome relationship you've had with Ian. I'm feeling you when it comes to trying to find contractors. Where I live, no one wants to work and I felt like those who have done jobs for me, took advantage of me since I'm now widowed. But it sounds like, from hearing your experience, that it's everywhere, unfortunately. UA-cam has been a lifesaver for me when it's come to learning to do things my husband had always done. Praying for you and Ian! Among the chaos, make time for just you two❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Stephanie, I'm sorry to hear about everything you had to go through, these past few months, no need to apologize, life changes in an instant and there is so much out of oir control. I hope you are feeling better, and hope you remember to take care of yourself and take time off for yourself to process everything. And congratulations on your beautiful new home and property, it looks amazing! An afternoon relaxing by the pond with some tea and maybe a good book sounds heavenly!!!❤❤❤
missed u girl i’m so happy your ok i was so worried about you i thank God your good listen i know what you’ve been through was not easy but just thank God it’s only a house problem and know this in the bible it say don’t worry about anything instead pray to God about everything ask him to help you with the things you need Philippians 4 verse 6 btw you look great ❤😊🙏
Oh my goodness girl you have been through it! I know how stressful remodel can be and just that feeling of wanting it done so you can enjoy your new home! Prayers for a quick process and for your mental health girl. 🙏❤️💕
I have MISSED you!!!! So glad you’re back!!!!
Me too!! I felt so shit not uploading 😢
@@BabsBeautydo NOT feel bad! You have a life outside of UA-cam, even though you are my absolute favorite to watch and listen to, we all understand. And ramble as much as you want… I love the fact that you’re so relatable and interpersonal with your fans!
Babs!!! 😢 I was at the gym when I watched this and I honestly got emotional and almost started crying at the end when you talked about your marriage! I’m SO incredibly sorry that you are going through hell and I wish there was something I could do to help! I don’t know you personally but you are special to your viewers and cared for and so brave to take this enormous amount of difficult things on! You inspire me seriously!
Oh Steph!!! I am so very sorry to hear about all you and Ian have been going through. We bought a new home about a month and a half ago. While our chaos was not as extreme as yours, we were out through the wringer as well with contractors and how difficult it is to get decent workers in here to fix the issues in our new house. So stressful. Wishing you both well and that this chapter soon comes to a close. So glad to see you back😘😘😘😘
Missed you and your content! I’m so sorry you had gone through all of that. I’m glad to see your beautiful and hope for better days ❤ I feel like customer service everywhere has just gone downhill lately. No one has pride in what they do anymore. Smh 😩
I’m a new subscriber, but you’re like listening to a lifelong friend! Love the look! You are so right about contractors … if you can do it yourself, DO IT!!! ♥️
Thank you 🙏🏻 hoping to get back to the makeup from now on 😂
I cannot even believe what you’ve been through. How you were able to overcome all of that is nothing short of amazing. You’re a strong fierce woman for enduring all of that and coming out the other side. Sending you so much good juju and hoping karmic retribution pays you back 1000000x for what you just went through. Happy to see you’re back. xoxo 🫶🏻
Hi Step, I have so much to say. I've been watching you for years but this is my first comment. I feel like I'm reliving what me and my husband had went through with our renovations especially after what you said about you and Ian. I've lived through renos for 15 years and it did so much damage. Don't worry it will get better but you're in my thoughts and you look beautiful xo
I feel so bad for you, we built our house 3 years ago and had no issues with contractors. Please take it easy and don’t forget you ARN’T a failure!!! Take your time to come back, we love you to the moon and back!!
I’m honestly glad your doing well and that you’re back. You know that we are all human and go through many things in life. We all get busy and have personal issues going on, and in my eyes, there doesn’t need to be an apology for that. Your health is the most important thing here. Absolutely glad to see you again ❤❤
OMG YOU'RE BACK!!! Ive been thinking about you alot these last 2 weeks. Sooo excited to see your face❤
Thank you 🥹 I don’t even recognize myself lately 😢 hoping to get back to myself very soon ❤
Omg girl you have been through it. I'm in the UK and it's sooooo hard to find good contractors, we get alot of them will come and give you a price for a job and then they just don't show up and you can't get it touch with them, it's unbelievable, they must see what's jobs they have a pick the one's that will pay the most 😕 it's so good to have you back but don't push yourself we aren't going anywhere 😉
I completely understand. About 10 years ago, we bought our house and completely renovated it. We did a lot of work ourselves, but had to hire contractors to do some of the work. OMG! It was a nightmare! Those contractors pulled out a dark side of me that I never thought I had. I was seriously ready to hurt someone! Fortunately, I was able to control myself. I pray I never ever have to go through that ever again. I am so sorry you had to go through that. It truly is ridiculous how hard it is to get good work.
I thought of you the other day when new RMS shades of blushes released !! Happy to see you back ❤
I’m so sorry about your experience. I’ve heard this about contractors from others as well. I hope that you get some peace moving forward. Welcome back. Love your Natasha video too
We are so glad you’re back! I’m sorry you went through all this. You have a huge following. I would name these contractors. Not for revenge but to possibly save someone else the stress. Love you!! Sending hugs!
Missed your videos but I’m so glad you took the time you needed for yourself. I’m struggling now too with mental health and postpartum so double whammy. We’re with you dear! ❤
You are definitely not alone love, this type of things happen all of the time. I am so sorry you’ve had to go through that. It is so frustrating and it feels like it’s never going to end. We had a bad experience as well, the contractor told us it would only take three months to remodel our condo and it took a year!!! Ugh 😩 The only thing I can say is take a deep breath, hold on to your fur babies and your husband and go outside as much as you can. Let nature comfort you ❤ wishing you the best 😘
She’s back!!! I check almost every day❤❤❤
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Make no apologies we all go through things and it feels like,” will I make it out of this”. You have to take care of yourself💜
Welcome back. I'm so pleased to see you again and sorry for your troubles. Sending lots of love and support from Kaukapakapa New Zealand. Your property looks incredible and will be even better because you are doing it up yourselves. We are too and it makes our home something to be proud. I look forward to seeing you again as often as you can manage xxxxx
Steph
I’ve missed your videos! I’m so sorry for all you having been going through!!!
Thank you for your video today!! I pushed the plug on the GIVE bronzer!! It’s beautiful on you!!!
Take care!!!!!
Steph I missed you SOOOO much, I’m so SO SO sorry about all the trauma you’ve endured with your new home & the reaction to the Covid meds. I hope you’re doing better. Glad to have you back on UA-cam ❤ sending so much love and hugs your way!
Glad to see you're back hun
Thank you ❤ happy to be back!
What a friggin HORROR story!! I feel for you. It is unbelievable how unreliable many contractors have become. You are not alone. There are sooo many people I know who have similar stories. I almost fell off my chair when you said the person dropped the sander down the stairs!!! WTF??? Speechless! It was great to see you back online. I hope things get better for you. I know it’s hard but don’t let these horrible experiences ruin your relationship with your husband. It’s not worth it. That being said, we bought a house four years ago and it was SO stressful to work through the process. Wishing you the best. XOXO
So so happy to see you back! You look positively radiant! I get what you mean about getting off the roller coaster - this past year has been a very trying one and little things like putting on make up and self care have been very helpful! You do you - when you can - when you want - we'll always be here for you. Much Love.
Edited to add that I also got GPC last year after my dad's funeral. My eye doctor said it was a combo of stress/immune system being down/traveling on dry/germy planes for long periods (flights to Europe). It took about 2 months to fully go away.
Omg I had to make sure this video wasn't from 6 yrs ago! So excited to see u back. I have to say I'm so sorry to hear ur experience. Unfortunately, I've experienced the same with contractors so my husband and I have literally done all the work in our house thank God to UA-cam! U save tons of money, work on ur own time-line and have the peace of mind that it's being done right. Sending u much love and good vibes ❤ U guys got this 💪
Omg,.. my heart was breaking, listening to your story, I’m so sorry that happened to you and your husband. What a nightmare, but on a positive note, you made it on the other side of the madness. I definitely get it and I understand. “Although I’ve truly miss you” you’re such a strong lady, not too many people are that open because people can be so cruel. Thank you for sharing your story! Welcome back Babs! I pray you feel better soon.
So happy to see your face beautiful! 🥰🥰
Thank you 🥹 missed y’all ❤
Wow that’s a lot to handle. I am so sorry for all the bad experience and frustration. I hope everything starts getting better. The most important thing is that you, hubby and doggies are healthy. Everything else is material things that can be fix. Sending you a huge hug and looking forward to seeing more videos 🥰
Soooo happy to see you back! Sorry for you’ve been through, hope everything will get better soon! And thank you for taking time to film even during this difficult time.
i don’t comment, but i love watching your videos and this long one was awesome to watch, i felt like i relate to you so much, don’t feel alone, my family and i renovated our home a little bit before covid and the contractors we had were terrible, our house till this day has stuff falling apart and things are ruined that we didn’t even know about in the process i so understand the stress and anger, your doing amazing!! 👼
Oh sweetie!! That is so much to go through all at once…. Your soul is as beautiful as your face…. You are doing a great job handling it. Everyone loves and misses you. Glad to see you back and I am so sorry for all you have been through. 💜💜
Girl, I am so happy that you’re back. You are such the sweetest thing ever. I just wanna say that right at the beginning of the video so now I’m gonna continue watching. Love you baby doll.
I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through! I’m a pharmacist and I can tell you that paxlovid is no joke. It has a myriad of side effects and my mom, when she had COVID, stopped it from my recommendation due to her side effects (she took it because she’s immunocompromised). That drug is rough. So glad you’re better now!
Babs I am so sorry to hear how difficult renovating your home has been it sounds horrible! I hope you find amazing contractors moving forward and everything goes smoothly so you can finally enjoy your new home! Happy that you're back posting and your makeup looks flawless!
So happy to see you. Ughhh what a nightmare!!! I’m so so sorry you had to go through that. We had this happen the year before Covid. The contractor bailed and his workers came around asking us for money with half a roof on our house. My kitchen had DISGUSTING water damage for almost an entire year. I wish there were more ales to protect people.
Omg you have been through it !!! I hope everything is ok now ??
So glad to see pop up in my notifications. I’ve missed you xx
Oh sweetness!! I’ve missed your face!! I figured you were going through it but not as bad as you have! I hope that everything settles for you!! I’ve been on the struggle bus as well for years it seems so your not alone!! You look beautiful as always and I hope that you can breathe easy for a change!! So glad your back!!!❤️
I am so happy to see your pretty face. Take the time you need to get your home the way you want. We will be here waiting for you. ♥ ♥
As much as I've missed you, you and personal space comes first. Take as much time as you need, and we will always be here for you. Sending you positive vibes. ❤
Nice to see you back love, I truly hope it will all be over soon so you can enjoy your new home ,we are in the middle of renovations to so totally understand, take care of yourselves welcome back xxxxx
Sending you lots of love! I get the frustration believe me, have had horrible experiences with contractors as well. Hope everything starts falling into place soon! 🙌🏻 you home looks beautiful ❤
So sorry to hear how those ppl treated you and didn’t respect your house what supposed to be your home. When we bought our house I was afraid that gonna happen to us as well so what we could we done ourselves. From wall sending to wall repair, tiles in the kitchen , bathroom floor, wallpaper removing and adding new ones and etc. we didn’t know at all these things how we didn’t do before but thx to UA-cam we manage to do it in 2,5 months working on the house everyday after work. So your advice to ppl to do ourselves if they can is very useful. Xx
Thank you for being so vulnerable on social media and outside of it by taking a much needed break. I really enjoyed listening to your update, though your story shared was traumatic and disheartening. I'm sorry this was so stressful and unbearable. You don't need to feel bad at all. Your health is way more important than how we feel.
YES ADVICE YOU TO DO IT YOURSELF! My husband family has gone thru it and they learned the hard way on how to t
do things themselves. Most contractors be hustling you. Especially if they see you with money then they be hustling you even more. Sometimes they damage things on purpose just so you can pay extra. As well Sometimes it's good to know a family/friend that knows someone that can help you. :) I am so happy you are back! Girl STOP BEING NICE! SOMETIMES THE NICEST ONCE GET STEPPED ON! 😢 SADLY! LEARNED the hard way as well. Happy you are back! And first to God everything goes will with your home. Just please take your time do not rush. Enjoy the process starting today. It's your home 🏡,
work on it slowly. Love you! ❤❤❤❤
Hi Stephanie, Welcome back! Missed your videos so much and it wasn't the same without you. Sounds like you did live through a real nightmare. Your story was jaw dropping but hopefully you can control things more going forward. I hope you are going to show us a bit of your new home. It would be fun to see along with your new rescue. Take care and hopefully we'll see you soon! ❤
Paxlovid made me sicker than I’ve ever felt. Thought I was gonna end up in the hospital. Never again. I’m so glad you’re back we missed you 🩵
I’ve missed your videos/content so much! I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that… I would have lost my mind! Hopefully brighter/smoother days ahead❤️❤️❤️
I’m so happy you are back! As a former smoker, I have been using the Mediheal EGT Smile Line Timetox Patches. They really help soften those pesky smile lines. RMS released new shades in their Hydra Power Blushes! I love that blushes are finally getting their moment! I hope you are going to review them.
I have missed you so much!!! And I’d love to see you do a look with the Fool Fantasy pallet.
OMGGGGG welcome back!!! I can’t even tell you how often I just double check your channel to be SURE it’s showing me your new videos. 💕💕💕
I literally searched your channel yesterday cuz I missed your trying new makeup videos! So glad you’re back!!
LIFE is what it is. Come back when you want. It took me months to decorate and rest and then burn out came. Just checking in in. I honestly could not even bother and have a huge collection as well. When you come back, do me a favor. DO not apologize!!! We love you.
Holy crap…..you and your husband have been through it. I am so, so sorry. I am so happy to see you back, though. You have been missed. 😊
I completely understand! We built a new home in 2021 and we are still having the builder correct mistakes and finish projects. ❤
Wow your back we missed you. Hope everything is OK
Im so happy that you’re back. Ive missed your videos and boy have you been through it the last few months.
So happy that your getting back to normal and I'm so sorry about you and Ian fighting don't be too hard on yourself and life happens sometimes and that's ok just remember shit happens and all you can do is just deal with it and move on. Don't let it consume you. Best of luck moving forward!
I’ve missed you SO much!! I feel like you’re a good friend of mine who I haven’t seen in forever 😂😭 I've been going through it mentally as well, I feel you. So so happy to see you again and I hope all is well with you and your family 🤍
Steph!!! I’ve been worried about you, so glad to see you pop up. ❤
AHHHH Stephanie you made my day! I appreciate how you've been so transparent about your personal struggles. I've always loved your content and here to support!
So glad to see you back! So sorry for what you've had to deal with these past few months. We all go through things in life where our patience and sanity is tested (my current mode 😔), so no need to apologize for the things you can't control. As long as you're healthy and back on the road to being happy, that's what really matters. Congrats on your new home! From what you showed in the video, it looks beautiful. The dogs are going to LOVE that yard!! 😊 Anyway, good to see you back and hope to see more of you again soon! Much love, Alison in CT 💗
Oh my god Steph, you poor thing. Physically I can tell how much of a toll this took on you, I hope you are slowly able to take care of yourself again! Breaks my heart that you’ve had to go through this. I hope good things are on the horizon and you can put this chapter behind you ❤
Thank you ❤ I feel runnnn down. Like bad. I’ve lost weight from not eating. It’s been horrible 😅
I’m so happy u r back. Sometimes when u have to go through things so bad like this it will make your marriage stronger in the end. U have each other and of course your furry kids!! That is more important than ANYTHING else!! Take care of each other. Those of us that love u understands that u r human and have things that happen!! I am hoping that u have better days ahead!!