Parents don't want you to marry yet?

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  • @Spiced2551
    @Spiced2551 6 днів тому +14

    I'm a girl, recently turned 18, and my dad literally said he won't let me get married till I'm 25 minimum because he wants me to help out with my autistic little brother. I love my brother but he's not my responsibility. I'm the only daughter so he's hesitant to let me go because I do help out a lot currently with my brother but it's not my job to be home and help forever. It's not fair. All I know is no matter what my parents say I'm not staying single for 7 more whole years. They don't have the right to trap me like that

    • @witmer9472
      @witmer9472 6 днів тому +16

      May Allah make it easy on you and grant you a blessed path toward marriage. Also, may HE reward you for everything you do for your family.

    • @Spiced2551
      @Spiced2551 6 днів тому +1

      @witmer9472 thank you

    • @fungab1446
      @fungab1446 6 днів тому

      What country are you in. What city? If the US, which state?

    • @witmer9472
      @witmer9472 6 днів тому

      @@Spiced2551 No need to disclose all that personal information to strangers over the internet

    • @s0ne01
      @s0ne01 6 днів тому +2

      Maybe compromise a little. Tell them youll look for an accepting husband one who wouldnt mind you helping out with your brother, you could be helping your brother whilst your husbands at work.
      If you find a man with good deen then this will be no problem to anyone in the situation.

  • @simply_jareeny
    @simply_jareeny 6 днів тому +2

    JazakAllahu khair for sharing this important video. It is essential that parents, and families understand the wisdom behind facilitating marriage and not allowing unnecessary obstacles to delay it. Insha'Allah, as more awareness spreads about the importance of supporting our children in this process, we can create a more supportive and nurturing environment where marriage is approached with ease, sincerity, and faith in Allah's plan.
    May Allah make it easy for everyone involved and grant success in facilitating marriages that are beneficial for both the individuals and society. Ameen!

  • @onefahadx
    @onefahadx 5 днів тому +1

    Witnessed a nikkah yesterday Alhumdulilah it was beautiful because it was simple and in the masjid.
    May Allah subhana wata’aalah make it easy for everyone looking for a spouse to get married as soon as possible, Ameen.

  • @SamiraDaughterofYemen
    @SamiraDaughterofYemen 6 днів тому +8

    سِالُتتكِ بّالُلُُه 💔الُجْلُيَلُ الُجْبّارَ انَ تْنَقًذَنَا قًبّلُ انَ نَمٌوَتْ مٌنَ شِدِتْ الُجْوَع انَتٌْخيَكِ انَيَ دٌِخلُةِ ْعلُى الُلُُه تْمٌ ْعلُيَكِ انَيَ فَيَ وَجُْهك انَـيَ اخـتْكِ انَـيَ اتْرَجْـاكِ اتْـوَسِـلُ الُـيَـكِ انَـقًـذَنَا لُـوَجُْـه الُـلُُـه. يَــشِــُهدِ الُــلُــُه يَاٌخـيَ انَ مٌنَ الُــصّــبّاحُ حُـتْا الُـانَ يَــحُــرَمٌ ْعـــلُيَـنَـا الاكل غير الماء والله اني ما كتبت هذا الكلام الا من الضيق وقسوت الضروف اني طالبه من الله ثم منك لاتردني خايبه يا اخي ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' اخي اول كلامي انا اقسم بالله على كتاب الله اني لااكذب عليك ولا انصب ولا احتال اني بنت يمنيه نازحين من انا واسرتي بيننا ایت الشهرب 15 الف يمني والان علينا 45 الف حق 3 شهور وصاحب البيت من الناس الي ماترحم والله يا اخي انه يجي كل يوم يبهدلنا ويتكلم علينا ويريد من البيت للشارع لانناماقدرنا ندفعله الأجار شافونا الجيران نبكي ورجعو تكلمو الجيران ومهلنالاخره الأسبوع معادفعنا له حلف يمين بالله هذا بيخرجنا إلى الشارع رحمه واحنا. بلادنا بسبب هذا الحرب ولانجد قوت يومنا وعايشين اناوامي واخوتي سفار والدنا متوفي الله يرحمه ومامعنا أحد في هذا الدنيا جاانبنا في هذه الظروف القاسيه اخوتي الصغار خرجو للشارع وشافو الجيران ياكلو واوقفو عند بابهم لجل يعطوهم ولو كسره خبز والله الذي له ملك السموات والارض انهم غلفو الباب وطردوهم ورجعو یبکو ایموتو من الجوع ما احد رحمهم وعطلة ردها لقمت عیش والان لوما احدنا ساعدنا في إيكيلو دقيق اقسم بالله انموت من الجوع فيا اخي انا دخيله على الله ثم عليك واريد منك المساعده لوجه الله انشدك بالله تحب الخير واتساعدني بقدر ماتستطيع مع تراسلي واتساب على هذا الرقم 00967717591071 وتطلب اسم بطاقتي وترسلي ولاتتاخر وايعوضك الله بكل خير اخواني سغار شوف كيف حالتهم وساعدنا وأنقذنا قبل أن يطردونا في الشارع تتبهدل أو نموت من الجوع وانا واسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعد لاتتاخر علينا وجزاك الله خيرا.:،،،،،.،.؛؛؛٪٪٪٪٪،،،،،،،،،،،… .ا™°°°😢😢😢😢.، ❤😮.........

  • @alanab5735
    @alanab5735 5 днів тому

    I'm starting to lean toward the idea of young marriage, like late teens-early 20s. They will get a bf or gf so why not get married instead? Especially at that age, that's all they can think about. They can still live with their parents or in a dorm and focus on getting their education and live together later when graduated. This is what young bfs and gfs do, so again why not just do it as husband and wife. If they go to the same college, they can get married couples' housing.
    It is true, zina zaps away someone's iman. Their spirituality is impacted. There is a connection.

  • @shayanahmed-k3l
    @shayanahmed-k3l 6 днів тому +4

    I have been trying work online make dua for me guys that it works out so that insha'Allah I can get married

    • @abdullamomak3470
      @abdullamomak3470 5 днів тому +1

      May Allah azza va jall grant you the best in this world and in the akhirah

  • @BlackMiddleEastern
    @BlackMiddleEastern 6 днів тому +3

    On the point brother.

  • @UkhtiAishaleila
    @UkhtiAishaleila 5 днів тому

    100% turning 25 they are stilling saying no

    • @Minaan2023
      @Minaan2023 2 дні тому

      It is harder to get married after 25-30. Just get married, you only need the permission of Allah

  • @BlackMiddleEastern
    @BlackMiddleEastern 6 днів тому

    Jazakallah khair

  • @Zainab-x8j7z
    @Zainab-x8j7z 6 днів тому +3

    أحْنْا اخْوْاتْكْ تْمْرْ ايْامْنْا وْلْيْالْيْنْا وْاحْنْا لْانْمْلْكْ شْيْ ايْنْ الْقْلْوْبْ الْرْاحْمْهّْ ضْااااقْ حْالْنْا وْضْااااااقْ بْنْا الْحْالْ وْالْلْهّْ مْا كْتْبْتْ هّْذْا الْكْلْامْ الْا مْنْ الْضْيْقْ وْقْسْوْتْ الْضْرْوْفْ انْيْ طْالْبْهّْ مْنْ الْلْهّْ ثْمْ مْنْكْ لْاتْرْدْنْيْ خْايْبْهّْ يْا اخْيْ احْنْا نْسْاء مْا نْقْدْرْ نْخْرْجْ نْشْتْغلْ مْثْلْ الْرْجْالْ رْبْيْ اكْرْمْكْمْ انْكْمْ رْجْالْ احْنْا نْسْاء مْا بْنْقْدْرْ نْخْرْجْ وْلْا نْشْتْغلْ مْثْلْكْمْ اخْيْ وْيْنْ الْانْسْانْيْهّْ ايْنْ الْاخْوْهّْ الْايْمْانْيْهّْ فْيْ قْلْوْبْكْمْ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' انا داخله على الله ثم عليكم يااهل الخير تقفوا معنا يا عالم حسوا فينا يا اهل الخير وين النخوة وين الاخوة وين الرحمه الى اوصى عليه النبي محمد بجاه النبي محمد تحسوا فينا انا بطلب منكم لو تساعدونى لو بثمن اكل مش طالبه شي غير انه نسد جوعنا ارجوكم من غير تجريح وكلام بكسر الخاطر انا يا خوان العيشة والله ما . عيشة فيكم تتاكدو يا اهل الخير انا توسل لكم ابوس على ايدكم تساعدونى ارجوكم امانه عليكم انا اعتبرونى اختكم عرضكم ساعدونى والله لول الضيق والفقر ما مديت ايدي اشحد من الناس استرونى يستر عرضكم وربنا يفرحكم في اطفالكم واهلكم ويبعد عنكم الضيق والحزن وربنا يجعل هذا المساعده في ميزان حسناتكم ساعدونى لو بثمن الاكل او بثمن اجار البيت ارجوكم يا اخواني يا اصحاب الضمير الحي يا اهل الخنوة واهل الكرم ارجوكم ساعدوني لو بشي قليل امانه عليكم والي حاب يساهم معي ربي يجزيه كل خير هذا رقمي𝟵𝟲𝟳𝟳𝟭𝟳𝟴𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟵+ الوتساب اللي يستطيع يساعدنا يتوصل واتساب معنا نعطيه الاسم الكامل العنوان ويحول لنا بما يستطيع وانا وسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعدتنا لاتتاخر علينا و جزاك الله خيرالجزا ،،.،.،.،.،. ~«~//»~»/»/~» ~» ~» ~*» ✔️🇾🇪✔️🇾🇪✔️🇾🇪✔️ 🎉😢😢🎉🎉😢😢😢🎉😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @لميسعلي-غ5د
    @لميسعلي-غ5د 6 днів тому +1

    سِالُتتكِ بّالُلُُه 💔الُجْلُيَلُ الُجْبّارَ انَ تْنَقًذَنَا قًبّلُ انَ نَمٌوَتْ مٌنَ شِدِتْ الُجْوَع انَتٌْخيَكِ انَيَ دٌِخلُةِ ْعلُى الُلُُه تْمٌ ْعلُيَكِ انَيَ فَيَ وَجُْهك انَـيَ اخـتْكِ انَـيَ اتْرَجْـاكِ اتْـوَسِـلُ الُـيَـكِ انَـقًـذَنَا لُـوَجُْـه الُـلُُـه. يَــشِــُهدِ الُــلُــُه يَاٌخـيَ انَ مٌنَ الُــصّــبّاحُ حُـتْا الُـانَ يَــحُــرَمٌ ْعـــلُيَـنَـا الاكل غير الماء ( (ا..،.، ..،..،.،.،..،.،..،..،..،..،.،..،..،.،.،..،.،..،.،...،..،..،.،.،..،...،.،.،.،..،.،.،.،..،..،...،.،...،..،...،..،..،.،..،..،
    ..My appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called and talked and tried hard, but no one responded. Oh man, we are with you. My mother ordered us food from the restaurant. More and today. My mother left. Crying. She said, Why are you crying, my mother? She said, My daughter, I ask. God, that I may be honored by death. She said, Why, my mother. She cursed us. She said, "My daughter, today the restaurant owner insulted me. I said, 'Why?' I said, 'How can I be better than people?' I ask God, my daughter. May God gather me. With death alone, a gathering that is better than this humiliation and this humiliation. It is true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and respect. But, man. I swear to God that I did not say this. I kiss your boots. I am so hungry that my conscience no longer allows me to let you go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, man, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, man, I kiss your boots, man. He has caused us harm, my brother, so that we can buy a kilo of flour and pay the rent. My brother, have mercy on us. He who is in the show will have mercy on you, He who is in the sky. My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: 𝟬𝟬𝟵𝟲𝟳𝟳17018744. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full name. He will transfer us as much as he can. May Allah reward you. Allah knows that my family and I, our house rent is 20 thousand Yemeni riyals per month, and now we owe 60 thousand for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of those people who do not have mercy. By Allah, my brother, he comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants to throw us out of the house and into the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. We will have until the end of the week, and if we pay him, he will swear by Allah that he will throw us out into the street without mercy. See my situation for yourselves. I ask you by Allah, the Living, the Eternal, to help me. By Allah, the Almighty, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We do not have mattresses or blankets to warm ourselves from the cold. Everything is flooded from the rain, and we have no one but Allah and then you. My brothers, I kiss your boots, don’t turn me away empty-handed. Help us with whatever you can. Is it acceptable to you that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a car accident. Consider us your daughters and your honor, and help me with whatever you can. May God reward you with good =>[[}>] ^][/*&;;&;&&;•̥·-`.`.`.`.`.•.,¸-•.,¸°꒰·̮ •̥·°`.`.`… nn….............……… .،.،..،.،.،..،.،.،.،..،.،....،🎉\\~♡♤♤♡♡♡؛؛،،،،،،

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    @alromaani  5 днів тому

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