She had answers to questions you ain’t even ask yet cocked and loaded. 🤣🤣 She was about to bust with all the shit she wanted to say. And honestly I feel like she wasn’t even aiming at the question but just wanted to make some negative comment about men in general
Men will communicate their wants and needs to women all the time, it’s simply not being heard… Men in general don’t talk as much as women do, so when men DO TALK? Please listen. Don’t listen to respond, don’t listen to flip it back on them, just let it register in your brain and take heed. Because if you don’t take what he says seriously, don’t be surprised when he leaves.
@@therealsandraweise Men do talk in barbershops all the time. Why? They are actually heard. The point is that we want that same element with our women.
@BlazinStreets women would also love to feel heard. We need a new dialogue about this because neither of our needs get met and we are both so valuable. What are you proposing as options for solutions?
@@therealsandraweise You’re literally proving my original point in this thread. You brought up men in barbershops talk-which has zero relevance to my comment about being heard BY WOMEN. Then-as soon as I point this out to you, you then proceed to make the conversation about how women don’t listen to men instead. Just take this L. Women really don’t listen lol.
That’s because women tend to vocalize their unhappiness a lot. She’s been telling the man the whole time she wasn’t happy but men call it nagging. Til one day she’ll up and leave.
The honest answer is the woman wants to be able to move on quick bc it’s easy for a woman to find a replacement, Men aren’t generally as frivolous w relationships regarding replacement. He may get w/ a new chick but not likely a new relationship.
That's not aggressive. She's passionate and you all need to learn the difference. She laughed during the interview but you all are focused on everything but her valid points.
This actually exemplifies the fact that women don't listen, they hear to respond. Could we acknowledge the fact that the scenario Trill drew up, occurs? Could we acknowledge the fact without trying to always counter the argument that a man could cater to a woman's happiness and might retreat regularly in failure because his attempts were not met with appreciation, satisfaction or reciprocation? Or even a change in results? Let's have more open conversations about these things rather than taking it as an attack. Maybe we have to change our expectations and responsibilities towards creating happy relationships. If a man plans a trip etc. and you do like it or not, could it be possible you say, well perhaps next time we could do something more in line with what she wants if that didn't do the trick? We are always on men about not being able to communicate, which suggests women can ignore the idea that possibly women don't listen as well. It always seems like we're trying to say women are perfect communicators and men are just poor communicators, which lends itself to blaming men whenever relationships go bad.
I can agree that communication should be two way street but for the scenario he said as for as sex goes. Women are loving Creatures which means or sexual drive pools off of how we’re treated you said or he said that he planned one romantic evening not that he I had stepped up his romantic side but just because of the one romantic gesture. It was temporary fix for a long term problem. The issue of men not listening to women saying well I’m not this is cause I’m not receiving are feeling this. In the beginning everything is new so both men and women are doing just about everything to show that this what I’m bringing to table. But it’s fair to say that once in the relationship both get complacent and forget the things of what it took to get the other so you stop the romance, your stop talking , you stop listening are really paying attention to the problem until it gets to be to much .
@@MzClark35 I agree with a lot of what you said but the one thing I would disagree with is saying women are loving creatures. A lot of women are but to act as if all women are is one of the issues I see a lot. A lot of men have been unaware that not every woman is loving..therefore not being open to idea that many are capable of some of the things we have seen take place. I think on both sides we do that too often. We lump most men up as being one way and most women as being one way when it comes to certain aspects. I am even more thankful for my grandmother,mother,and sisters than I already was. I know there are a lot of amazing woman in this world but I will never go as far as to say most are loving. I have never been one to say what most men or women are and definitely can’t with the way times are. The Bible speaks about people being lovers of self and not lovers of good towards the end;we are seeing a lot of that on both sides.
I absolutely agree with Tywana. Yes. We both should work on our communication which includes listening. The scenario said not romantic anymore not a 1 time or few times. It do depends on how you make us feel and it's not always about gifts or getaways, do we feel safe being with you ( meaning they can trust you and yes sexually is part of it but its more than that).
Honestly, her bringing up the point that men aren’t up front with their feelings is false and I would argue that women are actually less up front then men.
She is exhausting. And her masculine condescending tone is doesn’t help. Can you at least post clips were she listens to what is being said and answers the question?
Think I commented on this clip or part of it before but what he said is very revealing, ' life happened' during the relationship, ( maybe they have kids, it's all on her most times than not. Managing the home, catering to the family etc) so her focus is no longer on the seggs but his is. That's because she's carrying the load of the family whiles very little has changed for him. I agree, couples need to stay tune to each other's feelings.
Planning a trip or doing a temporary fix doesn't last either. How can a woman present a long term solution if his solution is temporary as well... You have to address the underlying issue as to why she has less sex drive. Underneath that low sex drive is usually a reaction to low effort. Men forget that the honeymoon stage promises don't last on either side. It's not just a woman who changes. We both have to continue to grow together and push our relationship to higher heights together. A man may stay in it for years unhappy, but if you cheat during those years, are you truly putting in effort to fix your relationship or just hoping she fixes her issues so she will give you more sex? It's a partnership. A team is only as strong as it's weakest member.
Come come fix this, this is classic flipping it. In a relationship, the woman can also contribute to creating fixes if especially this case the man already took the initiative to make the effort.
She is absolutely right. Men don't communicate when they want out. Women like honesty that's why women can stick to a man who confesses that he is married. All the men I ve ever respected are the ones who dumped me and they were only Two. I still respect them to date coz I know they will say no to every crazy women who will hit on them..
She’s the only one who came up with the hypothetical that it was him actually waiting 10 years, when the man literally just said out his own mouth that when the change happens he brings it up…
Good vid. You can also do a format with Smuv and Kenny since I hardly see them interact, (unless you all do that on patron) or a vid with more women such as this one. Also the manosphere is littered with relationship advice, I am not seeing personal style advice for men ages 25 and up. Kevin Samuels used to do it. Gives you a broader range. But I guess it may not give you views? Who knows? Try something different. Oh and Trill always wins, give him some kinda challenge when you pair him up with a woman.
They don't make permanent fixes because they revert back to the innate selfishness inside of them...Of they do not see their own benefit even if it's for their mate they lack the consistency....
It’s because men actually have hope that things can and will change…. So they give it time to change. The issue is that the change may never come and when he does pull that trigger it’s been 10 years…
It’s ideal if a man would come to his woman to tell her that he’s not happy before he decides to breakout of the relationship completely. Maybe he tried to tell you but he kept letting fear get the best of him rather than speak his truth. He probably was afraid of hurting you, etc. Ladies, I know it hurts to hear it when a man tells you he’s moving on, but the best thing you can do is center yourself as much as possible, tell him that you may not agree with his decision to move on and that you might possibly think you two are good for each other, but you respect his decision and then go about the business of moving on and get yourself and your life together…Walk away…It’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Never stay with a man who clearly told you that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.❤
Initially the response will be to try work out the issue. It's gonna take time for her to accept it's over and It's not gonna be an instant fix to accept this. When it's finally over chances are a larger percentage of those 10 women in this example will respect you more for letting it go vs. staying and cheating and both of you are miserable. But don't expect her to accept it happily or without there being an emotional reaction. That's unrealistic. If that's what you want the response to be that'll never happen unless she's also already overthe relationship. You're the only one that knew the relationship wasn't working for however long it wasn't its going to take her some time to come to grips with that. And the transition isn't always gonna be pleasant. Especially since you've spent so much time im the relationship. So you should expect there to be some bumpy road if you're the one that's ending it.
Men have to be consistent with being romantic just as they want the sex to be consistent. I agree with the women. If there is a problem in the relationship don't string her along for 10 yrs having her thinking everything is good give her a chance to correct it.
I’m a woman and she getting on my last nerves and she’s very combative like girl take a breather she talking so fast!! 🤦🏾♀️ they do communicate stuff we at times just don’t hear it.. girl just stop talking and responding before listening
She says why don’t men just say they not happy and leave. Man: ten year relationship I’m not happy I wanna leave Her: why you wanna leave why ain’t you just tell me that. Like nigga that was your advice to just up and leave when we not happy now we follow the women advice she gets mad. Wtf
Irritating how she came off and explained her perspective. Glad it was a short segment. He proved hos point about how some women don't take criticism well.
A lot of men think women don't listen because they don't agree at the end of whatever is said, but the fact is they hear everything, sometimes, they just don't agree.
Any woman that says "Bro" needs to be avoided.
🎯🎯🎯🎯. Maaaan its a red flag when women talk too masculine. Excessive cussing, use of the n word or bro, bruh, dawg etc.
Im a woman and I hate hearing it from a man or woman/child or adult.
✅️
😅😅😅facts
especially bruh
She is a piece of work.
I'd use another word ...but "work" will do for now.
Lmao nah it takes men far longer to move on from someone we care about.
Dude is 100% on point. Women don’t take criticism well and they don’t make permanent fixes to request.
She had answers to questions you ain’t even ask yet cocked and loaded. 🤣🤣
She was about to bust with all the shit she wanted to say. And honestly I feel like she wasn’t even aiming at the question but just wanted to make some negative comment about men in general
Am I the only one that caught when she said if you’re unhappy leave then complained about not being given a chance to change in the example
She never answered the question about the 10 yr relationship break up.
Mutual respect is the key to a healthy relationship.
Man, I’m tired of even listening to her talking, plus she contradicts from what she said in the beginning.
She’s just a woman being a woman, saying anything trying to be right. Of course she will eventually contradict herself.
@@maxdudomite - Well said, I couldn’t have put it Better.
Men will communicate their wants and needs to women all the time, it’s simply not being heard… Men in general don’t talk as much as women do, so when men DO TALK?
Please listen.
Don’t listen to respond, don’t listen to flip it back on them, just let it register in your brain and take heed. Because if you don’t take what he says seriously, don’t be surprised when he leaves.
A help mate hears....a "happy life happy wife" type doesn't....
Men talk all the time! Just very different topics. BOTH BARBER SHOPS ARE LOUD.
@@therealsandraweise Men do talk in barbershops all the time. Why? They are actually heard. The point is that we want that same element with our women.
@BlazinStreets women would also love to feel heard. We need a new dialogue about this because neither of our needs get met and we are both so valuable. What are you proposing as options for solutions?
@@therealsandraweise You’re literally proving my original point in this thread. You brought up men in barbershops talk-which has zero relevance to my comment about being heard BY WOMEN.
Then-as soon as I point this out to you, you then proceed to make the conversation about how women don’t listen to men instead. Just take this L.
Women really don’t listen lol.
Ain’t that what women do wait til yr 6-15 then “I’m not happy, I think we should see other ppl or leave the relationship or marriage.
That’s because women tend to vocalize their unhappiness a lot. She’s been telling the man the whole time she wasn’t happy but men call it nagging. Til one day she’ll up and leave.
Straight up let’s not waste time. Time is precious !
Most females love to use this phrase but in my experience, females are the time wasters.
The honest answer is the woman wants to be able to move on quick bc it’s easy for a woman to find a replacement, Men aren’t generally as frivolous w relationships regarding replacement. He may get w/ a new chick but not likely a new relationship.
Why is she so aggressive this is just a conversation
That part! She doesn’t like what she’s hearing so the excitement kicks in.
That's not aggressive. She's passionate and you all need to learn the difference. She laughed during the interview but you all are focused on everything but her valid points.
Talking alot isn't the same as communicating..... if you're happy after 10 years and your hubby isn't, obviously you weren't communicating, imo
This actually exemplifies the fact that women don't listen, they hear to respond. Could we acknowledge the fact that the scenario Trill drew up, occurs? Could we acknowledge the fact without trying to always counter the argument that a man could cater to a woman's happiness and might retreat regularly in failure because his attempts were not met with appreciation, satisfaction or reciprocation? Or even a change in results? Let's have more open conversations about these things rather than taking it as an attack. Maybe we have to change our expectations and responsibilities towards creating happy relationships.
If a man plans a trip etc. and you do like it or not, could it be possible you say, well perhaps next time we could do something more in line with what she wants if that didn't do the trick? We are always on men about not being able to communicate, which suggests women can ignore the idea that possibly women don't listen as well. It always seems like we're trying to say women are perfect communicators and men are just poor communicators, which lends itself to blaming men whenever relationships go bad.
I can agree that communication should be two way street but for the scenario he said as for as sex goes. Women are loving Creatures which means or sexual drive pools off of how we’re treated you said or he said that he planned one romantic evening not that he I had stepped up his romantic side but just because of the one romantic gesture. It was temporary fix for a long term problem. The issue of men not listening to women saying well I’m not this is cause I’m not receiving are feeling this. In the beginning everything is new so both men and women are doing just about everything to show that this what I’m bringing to table. But it’s fair to say that once in the relationship both get complacent and forget the things of what it took to get the other so you stop the romance, your stop talking , you stop listening are really paying attention to the problem until it gets to be to much .
@@MzClark35 I agree with a lot of what you said but the one thing I would disagree with is saying women are loving creatures. A lot of women are but to act as if all women are is one of the issues I see a lot. A lot of men have been unaware that not every woman is loving..therefore not being open to idea that many are capable of some of the things we have seen take place. I think on both sides we do that too often. We lump most men up as being one way and most women as being one way when it comes to certain aspects. I am even more thankful for my grandmother,mother,and sisters than I already was. I know there are a lot of amazing woman in this world but I will never go as far as to say most are loving. I have never been one to say what most men or women are and definitely can’t with the way times are. The Bible speaks about people being lovers of self and not lovers of good towards the end;we are seeing a lot of that on both sides.
It's called Sabotage
I absolutely agree with Tywana. Yes. We both should work on our communication which includes listening. The scenario said not romantic anymore not a 1 time or few times.
It do depends on how you make us feel and it's not always about gifts or getaways, do we feel safe being with you ( meaning they can trust you and yes sexually is part of it but its more than that).
Exactly been screaming this for years,
Shorty....calm down, slow down. Speak to get to an understanding, not to win. And listen to understand as well
Honestly, her bringing up the point that men aren’t up front with their feelings is false and I would argue that women are actually less up front then men.
When women leave they are already emotionally detached. Men can also do the same thing so why is it a problem ?
Dang, he's actually right 😂
This is a conversation I've had with women.
She is exhausting. And her masculine condescending tone is doesn’t help. Can you at least post clips were she listens to what is being said and answers the question?
The title pretty much described the video, I don’t think she was listening at all. She just wanted to be right
these videos need to be longer!!!
He speaking facts 💯
This video it self is a great example. Why she so hot/ heated over simple conversation.
Think I commented on this clip or part of it before but what he said is very revealing, ' life happened' during the relationship, ( maybe they have kids, it's all on her most times than not. Managing the home, catering to the family etc) so her focus is no longer on the seggs but his is.
That's because she's carrying the load of the family whiles very little has changed for him.
I agree, couples need to stay tune to each other's feelings.
Planning a trip or doing a temporary fix doesn't last either. How can a woman present a long term solution if his solution is temporary as well... You have to address the underlying issue as to why she has less sex drive. Underneath that low sex drive is usually a reaction to low effort. Men forget that the honeymoon stage promises don't last on either side. It's not just a woman who changes. We both have to continue to grow together and push our relationship to higher heights together. A man may stay in it for years unhappy, but if you cheat during those years, are you truly putting in effort to fix your relationship or just hoping she fixes her issues so she will give you more sex? It's a partnership. A team is only as strong as it's weakest member.
Come come fix this, this is classic flipping it. In a relationship, the woman can also contribute to creating fixes if especially this case the man already took the initiative to make the effort.
I know she stress out whoever is dealing with her. The first question that he asked she didn’t even answer and just went to rambling 😣
She is absolutely right. Men don't communicate when they want out. Women like honesty that's why women can stick to a man who confesses that he is married. All the men I ve ever respected are the ones who dumped me and they were only Two. I still respect them to date coz I know they will say no to every crazy women who will hit on them..
Facts! It makes more sense to just tell your partner up front instead of letting years go by.
She’s the only one who came up with the hypothetical that it was him actually waiting 10 years, when the man literally just said out his own mouth that when the change happens he brings it up…
The same can be said for men not making permanent fixes.
How do we make permanent fixing to what is communicated to us? Genuine question how can actually listen and actually try
Good vid. You can also do a format with Smuv and Kenny since I hardly see them interact, (unless you all do that on patron) or a vid with more women such as this one. Also the manosphere is littered with relationship advice, I am not seeing personal style advice for men ages 25 and up. Kevin Samuels used to do it. Gives you a broader range. But I guess it may not give you views? Who knows? Try something different.
Oh and Trill always wins, give him some kinda challenge when you pair him up with a woman.
He can't finish a sentence without her interrupting.
Men will show u what they want from you but women don’t pay attention
They don't make permanent fixes because they revert back to the innate selfishness inside of them...Of they do not see their own benefit even if it's for their mate they lack the consistency....
She thinks talking loud and fast makes her right
I wouldn't want to talk to this lady for any reason.
It’s because men actually have hope that things can and will change…. So they give it time to change. The issue is that the change may never come and when he does pull that trigger it’s been 10 years…
It’s ideal if a man would come to his woman to tell her that he’s not happy before he decides to breakout of the relationship completely. Maybe he tried to tell you but he kept letting fear get the best of him rather than speak his truth. He probably was afraid of hurting you, etc. Ladies, I know it hurts to hear it when a man tells you he’s moving on, but the best thing you can do is center yourself as much as possible, tell him that you may not agree with his decision to move on and that you might possibly think you two are good for each other, but you respect his decision and then go about the business of moving on and get yourself and your life together…Walk away…It’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Never stay with a man who clearly told you that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.❤
Initially the response will be to try work out the issue. It's gonna take time for her to accept it's over and It's not gonna be an instant fix to accept this. When it's finally over chances are a larger percentage of those 10 women in this example will respect you more for letting it go vs. staying and cheating and both of you are miserable. But don't expect her to accept it happily or without there being an emotional reaction. That's unrealistic. If that's what you want the response to be that'll never happen unless she's also already overthe relationship. You're the only one that knew the relationship wasn't working for however long it wasn't its going to take her some time to come to grips with that. And the transition isn't always gonna be pleasant. Especially since you've spent so much time im the relationship. So you should expect there to be some bumpy road if you're the one that's ending it.
Men have to be consistent with being romantic just as they want the sex to be consistent. I agree with the women. If there is a problem in the relationship don't string her along for 10 yrs having her thinking everything is good give her a chance to correct it.
Nah women move on faster lol all they gotta do is respond to a DM and she’s on to the next Nigga 😂. She’s 🧢
I’m a woman and she getting on my last nerves and she’s very combative like girl take a breather she talking so fast!! 🤦🏾♀️ they do communicate stuff we at times just don’t hear it.. girl just stop talking and responding before listening
🤣🤣🤣
Da da da da ba da ba boop beep boop
That womans mouth literally doesnt stop!
She just proved his point, completely just by talking too much, in a flurry of phonetics
She says why don’t men just say they not happy and leave.
Man: ten year relationship I’m not happy I wanna leave
Her: why you wanna leave why ain’t you just tell me that.
Like nigga that was your advice to just up and leave when we not happy now we follow the women advice she gets mad. Wtf
They love too flip it on u
Why are serious conversations for Men always concerned about SEX?
That is all most women give ( that and a argument).
Who ever is her man good luck
Irritating how she came off and explained her perspective. Glad it was a short segment. He proved hos point about how some women don't take criticism well.
A lot of men think women don't listen because they don't agree at the end of whatever is said, but the fact is they hear everything, sometimes, they just don't agree.
It's far less of "sometimes" don't agree... It's "quite often" don't agree. But then we must ask, why is she with him at all?
@@drehardin women date and marry men for all sorts of reasons.
Imagine listening to this voice for 10yrs 👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿❌
How can you take a women with those nails serious?