Traits a matured man looks out for in a matured woman: 1. She is consistent 2. She is ambitious 3. She's kind-hearted 4. She's reliable 5. She's faithful/content 6 she's trustworthy etc If you want the same treatment from your woman you gotta pour more into her to the point her cup is overflowing,she then multiply and gives you more. Stop the competition and grown together.
I think one that gets overlooked is privacy. Not airing out all your relationships issues to the internet or friends. Or even when you’re making big moves for the future. In my opinion this will only improve communication on both sides.
My ex husband used to just watch tv or play games,while I’m cooking. Then watch me clean and tidy up by myself. I would always ask him to help and he wouldn’t. Finally I asked him if he felt good just watching me do everything when we both worked. Mind you, while we were dating he sold me a dream that we were a team and he would help out. Sigh 😔
I truly love to pay attention to my man. From what he likes , his clothes, food when he needs a hug, listening when he talks, letting him have his alone time when he come home from work to helping without asking. YES yes yes I was raised to give him his breakfast, lunch and dinner on china. If I’m unsure of what he need at that moment, I’ll ask. Some may read this and say, you his maid but I say I’m not afraid to love my man because he loves me just the same.
Everything is on point! When I’m in a relationship my man is the King 👑 of everything. I serve him whenever he’s doin anything and I present it to him in a way that makes him feel special! ❤
When I was married and I would acknowledge where I messed up it was always thrown back in my face. I could say where and how I messed up take full accountability and make the changes to correct it. Then one thing then bam all my mistakes were thrown in my face again.
I was taught to know that there should be special dishes where you you put your husband’s food in and put on the table for him to dish from it . And usually your husband’s food should be the first food you dish from the pot after cooking and packed with whatever you put in there whether it’s meat or fish whatever . I guess cultures are different .
Real talk! I was raised to make sure my man is priorty. When dating someone, if they came over for Sunday dinner with my family making that man's plate and making it before my own was a given. We used to have huge Sunday dinners and every young lady my dad and bonus mom raised knew what was expected once we were old enough to date and invite someone over. Grant it, not all of us who had someone over for Sunday dinners ended up marrying the person we served but that expectation is invaluable and although some of us may not have married the dude we had over we set the standard. How do I know? Because when dude thought the grass was greener and he tried to come back singing shoulda, coulda, wouldas - it's one of the most memorable and mentioned experiences. I personally enjoy serving my man. I appreciate this podcast because it often let's me know that despite some past experiences, I'm on the right track and that there are still men who want women of a certain caliber. I'm not changing how I do things but being more discerning and changing receives that treatment.
My dude wanted a key to place and stayed he needs me! Now idc about that I feel extremely bad but we only been dating 4 months. Ugh he makes it so hard on me he be like I was sleep should’ve been next to you wtf does that mean lmao
I love #2 & #3. I'll never need a man to "handle me" in terms of my attitude. I'm extremely aware of myself and can resolve my own bs on a regular basis. However, I'll definitely allow him space to tell me if I'm offensive to him, or handle something poorly, and don't realize it.
Hahahaaha who is serving on a paper plate unless it’s a bbq back yard party or a pot luck lmao that got me hahaha “don’t serve a meal to your man on a throw away plate”😂😂😂
Amen my beautiful brothers!!! I just love, love, love this segment and will try to pass your wisdom and segment on to other strong men. With that said brothers I pray that you and your family are perpetually blessed. That your cup overflows with GODs love and divine blessings of protection, prosperity, and purpose - amen!!!
Love your show. I have been called old fashion forever by my friends. Glad to know that the things my grandmother taught me were right. But guess who the called when they needed to cook for their men…..😂😂😂😂😂
Man I thought I was just old school because I grew up in a traditional southern home. I DON’T do paper plates and wherever we go his plate is prepared and brought to him by me!!!!
So true you gotta come to the table with your A game,consistently with simple things real porcelain plates,&learn how to cook,attend to your hygiene,teach your children to be respectful,&be responsible,&clean up you can get a man of value
Please don’t come in the kitchen while I’m cooking. I hate it lol it’s nothing more irritating than cooking and someone is in the way. I’m from the south we was taught to clean as you go. Lol so please get out
@@OMGItsShea lol seriously I’ve experienced in two different relationships and I always tell them to leave respectfully. It’s a certain vibe I like when I cook. On top of that I like listening to old school music while I cook.
I did all that and it still wasn’t enough. I had to asked him if he pooped did he want me to clean his buttocks. Just wasn’t satisfied with anything. I literally had to do everything.
No at a barbecue there will be disposal dishes because I’m not gonna have a sink or countertop full of dishes and won’t be none of my dishes being broken!
This not for women to and FAKE these qualities. This is check if you along these lines. If you not genuinely you then that man will see later you was a joke. Just be real.
I don't know if there was one outstanding comment. But from the get go and your women is not entitled to question any and everything that us being done. That is some nonsense that sisters think has made up. And it's very hard to find a black women that understands that. You kind of feel sorry for some of our sisters. Because this is a prime reason that brothers go out of there race. When you are brother and taking if business on all fronts. You are not to be subjected to any stupid stuff on a regular basis.
These men were talking about women in general but y’all gonna find a way to make this about black women, huh? Baby, just go where you really wanna go. Y’all stay talking down on us to justify why you date outside your race. Just date them. It doesn’t take all that 😉
Traits a matured man looks out for in a matured woman:
1. She is consistent
2. She is ambitious
3. She's kind-hearted
4. She's reliable
5. She's faithful/content
6 she's trustworthy etc
If you want the same treatment from your woman you gotta pour more into her to the point her cup is overflowing,she then multiply and gives you more. Stop the competition and grown together.
This is how unions last. Respect, consistency, and appreciation.
I always watch this podcast, because I want to learn more about men, and how to cater to them. So far I have been learning a whole lot.👍🏾
Straight FACTS. Thanks for the confirmation. Make sure my husband is fed FIRST!
I think one that gets overlooked is privacy. Not airing out all your relationships issues to the internet or friends. Or even when you’re making big moves for the future. In my opinion this will only improve communication on both sides.
“Your man needs special treatment. Don’t treat me the way you treat everybody else.” Period💎💯‼️
That was good. And vice versa
Whew.
My ex husband used to just watch tv or play games,while I’m cooking. Then watch me clean and tidy up by myself. I would always ask him to help and he wouldn’t. Finally I asked him if he felt good just watching me do everything when we both worked. Mind you, while we were dating he sold me a dream that we were a team and he would help out. Sigh 😔
I understand everything you mentioned unfortunately 😣
Glad to hear he’s an EX & your not still putting up with that .
That happened a lot in my past relationship.
Whewww!!! This right here
Is it strange that we are all bonded by this dysfunction
I truly love to pay attention to my man. From what he likes , his clothes, food when he needs a hug, listening when he talks, letting him have his alone time when he come home from work to helping without asking. YES yes yes I was raised to give him his breakfast, lunch and dinner on china. If I’m unsure of what he need at that moment, I’ll ask. Some may read this and say, you his maid but I say I’m not afraid to love my man because he loves me just the same.
Everything is on point! When I’m in a relationship my man is the King 👑 of everything. I serve him whenever he’s doin anything and I present it to him in a way that makes him feel special! ❤
When I was married and I would acknowledge where I messed up it was always thrown back in my face. I could say where and how I messed up take full accountability and make the changes to correct it. Then one thing then bam all my mistakes were thrown in my face again.
I love it here forreal! The game and pure gems is so different
I was taught to know that there should be special dishes where you you put your husband’s food in and put on the table for him to dish from it . And usually your husband’s food should be the first food you dish from the pot after cooking and packed with whatever you put in there whether it’s meat or fish whatever . I guess cultures are different .
Real talk! I was raised to make sure my man is priorty. When dating someone, if they came over for Sunday dinner with my family making that man's plate and making it before my own was a given. We used to have huge Sunday dinners and every young lady my dad and bonus mom raised knew what was expected once we were old enough to date and invite someone over. Grant it, not all of us who had someone over for Sunday dinners ended up marrying the person we served but that expectation is invaluable and although some of us may not have married the dude we had over we set the standard. How do I know? Because when dude thought the grass was greener and he tried to come back singing shoulda, coulda, wouldas - it's one of the most memorable and mentioned experiences. I personally enjoy serving my man.
I appreciate this podcast because it often let's me know that despite some past experiences, I'm on the right track and that there are still men who want women of a certain caliber. I'm not changing how I do things but being more discerning and changing receives that treatment.
pick me 🤡
REAL, FACTS, AND TALK!!!...LADIES, PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR MAN NEEDS!!! THEY ARE NOT LYING!!!
My dude wanted a key to place and stayed he needs me! Now idc about that I feel extremely bad but we only been dating 4 months. Ugh he makes it so hard on me he be like I was sleep should’ve been next to you wtf does that mean lmao
I love #2 & #3. I'll never need a man to "handle me" in terms of my attitude. I'm extremely aware of myself and can resolve my own bs on a regular basis. However, I'll definitely allow him space to tell me if I'm offensive to him, or handle something poorly, and don't realize it.
Both leading together, both prioritizing each other not anyone over another I believe ✌🏼
Hahahaaha who is serving on a paper plate unless it’s a bbq back yard party or a pot luck lmao that got me hahaha “don’t serve a meal to your man on a throw away plate”😂😂😂
Being a good LISTENER 😊
The first Lady....that's has always been the goal
.... You can deny but it's you that's vision... Warrior 💋
And don't
No other❤
Amen my beautiful brothers!!! I just love, love, love this segment and will try to pass your wisdom and segment on to other strong men. With that said brothers I pray that you and your family are perpetually blessed. That your cup overflows with GODs love and divine blessings of protection, prosperity, and purpose - amen!!!
Never heard the plate issue but I’ll try it ❤
I agree with the plate, I actually am intentional about that.
Love your show. I have been called old fashion forever by my friends. Glad to know that the things my grandmother taught me were right. But guess who the called when they needed to cook for their men…..😂😂😂😂😂
I see the weight loss SMUV !! Ya look good !! Keep it up 💯
Cooperation is my number one green Flag
I appreciate you brothas...
Man I thought I was just old school because I grew up in a traditional southern home. I DON’T do paper plates and wherever we go his plate is prepared and brought to him by me!!!!
So true you gotta come to the table with your A game,consistently with simple things real porcelain plates,&learn how to cook,attend to your hygiene,teach your children to be respectful,&be responsible,&clean up you can get a man of value
Make your man plate on the regular plate 🍽
That man is priority...I Love it!!!
I always always serve Eric with real dishes. I also do it when my brother comes over. I serve him on real dishes.
My father would never eat on a paper plate 😂❤💯
My man asked me to fix the plumbing under the sink, I did . Smh, that's all I could do
Interdependence!! For sure!
Not All Woman can Held themselves Accountable. 💥💯
Please don’t come in the kitchen while I’m cooking. I hate it lol it’s nothing more irritating than cooking and someone is in the way. I’m from the south we was taught to clean as you go. Lol so please get out
Amen lol
@@OMGItsShea lol seriously I’ve experienced in two different relationships and I always tell them to leave respectfully. It’s a certain vibe I like when I cook. On top of that I like listening to old school music while I cook.
@@Consciousrosee 🗣 PREACH IT!!!!✨❤️🔥💜
I don't even like paper cups and plates. Omg
Thank goodness for gent nbr 3 in the Black sweatshirt. Because what.
The 1st guy sound crazy.
I did all that and it still wasn’t enough. I had to asked him if he pooped did he want me to clean his buttocks. Just wasn’t satisfied with anything. I literally had to do everything.
Amazing advance guys
I don't feed NOBODY on a paper plate, ever..not even at a BBQ!😄
Damn Is It that serious though? I guess sooo
No at a barbecue there will be disposal dishes because I’m not gonna have a sink or countertop full of dishes and won’t be none of my dishes being broken!
pick me
WOW 😯 … Four (4) … 🤔 ???
This not for women to and FAKE these qualities. This is check if you along these lines. If you not genuinely you then that man will see later you was a joke.
Just be real.
Ain't mad just dont pike to be mistreated 😊
Idk if ue know I've heard him young and older listens to Him and loves his 🤬
The same go for men.
🤦🏾♀️serving your man is common sense...no plastic or paper allowed when feeding him(.)
Why do I need u to lead me if I can take care of myself? Intellect is not present here.
A man, what is a man???!!! Truly a God fearing man knows he cannot make a decision without God, not a good one!!!!!!!!!
"We gonna smash both.."
Can I put the 4 of u in 1 person 😅😅😅😅
Why does the man on the far left in the light grey sweatshirt always address women as Bro or Bruh???
Where is this TOXIC lingon coming from???
I don't know if there was one outstanding comment. But from the get go and your women is not entitled to question any and everything that us being done. That is some nonsense that sisters think has made up. And it's very hard to find a black women that understands that. You kind of feel sorry for some of our sisters. Because this is a prime reason that brothers go out of there race. When you are brother and taking if business on all fronts. You are not to be subjected to any stupid stuff on a regular basis.
These men were talking about women in general but y’all gonna find a way to make this about black women, huh? Baby, just go where you really wanna go. Y’all stay talking down on us to justify why you date outside your race. Just date them. It doesn’t take all that 😉