Glad to see a Black Man leading this message, often times marriage ministries are directed by white men. Not taking away from their knowledge and expertise; however, seeing people who I can relate to in multiple areas is refreshing. Word is powerful too!
MizAnne Billions I love seeing the thousands of White Men leading this message. Not to take away from this one, single, solo black man’s knowledge or expertise.
interesting points ,if anyone else needs to find out about help with my marriage try Dalz Partner Mender Discovery (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my friend got cool success with it.
@@VishusVenom I see so many comments like this its humorous. Why do you guys get your feelings hurt when someone makes a comment like this? It IS nice to see black positive role models in every area because we feel like their isnt enough and there can definitely be more. Or would you prefer that we keep the attention on all of the gangs, drug dealers etc? Ppl want to act like all of a sudden race doesnt matter anymore bc we got our full rights as human beings In the 60s... I hope to run in to more mature ppl in the future.
Please God renew us both so we may have passion again. May the testosterone he is getting help him in intimacy. Lord help us stand in unity. Help us fall in love with each other. Thank you Jesus!
Mmh! So much I want to say but better that I just say pray for my marriage. 32+ years, praise God. I love the man! I am struggling. Greiving all the unresolved issues. Thankfully we reconcile quickly but so many unresolved hurts. God knows. Thank you for this great teaching!!! Really really good!!
He is the draw backer, I am projector of dissatisfaction. I calm down but my needs are not addressed. I feel ignored and rejected. He is asking me to understand him. I nag him about time . He is too busy for me . All he does is work. I’m feeling lonely. I’m studying him but he has very little to tell me about himself. He knows or at least I told him about myself and my family. Maybe he was shamed by me asking if he knows my family. ? I sent him videos of your teachings but he doesn’t watch them and I get disappointed like my work don’t matter . He is not only learning what I have to learned with him but doesn’t contribute to the learning experience. I’m praying for us . We are in this together.
The Holy Spirit is the relationship management professional of every marriage. If you want something fixed in your spouse, don't fiddle with the front end, go to the Holy Spirit at the back end and ask him to fix it. The caveat is, you have to have a good relationship with the Holy Spirit in order to get him to work for you. Another caveat is, your spouse too needs to have a good relationship with the Holy Spirit for them to hear and obey what he asks them to do...
Thanks for the feedback Helen. The Holy Spirit is indeed involved one relationships. Still we as free will moral agents, (people who have been given the power to choose) have the responsibility to learn and implement what we receive. We have to work at marriage through the strength & grace that God gives. Counseling, classes, wisdom from mentors all contribute to the choices we make.
Our marriage counselor says my wife and father in law have an enmeshed relationship with narcissistic tendencies. We’ve been to so many seminars and pastors and read books, etc, etc. her dad just manipulates her into thinking they are all wrong. She says it’s her responsibility to make sure he isn’t lonely and because they live more like the married couple my wife can’t be intimate on any level.
“If you have GOD in the midst of your relationship…. If you’re building on the principles of GODS WORD…. You have a 3stranded cord…. It’s not easily broken”
Really? I'm so sick of racial talk. For 1, if someone is greatful, proud ,excited ect who am I or anyone to dismiss that? My skin is white and even my 1st thought was awesome..a possible different perspective..I opened my mind and love it. Shall we try to judge each other righteously?
Wonderful message, but honestly waiting to hear scripture based teaching and Jesus should be our center. All else will fall in place if we seek first the kingdom.
In order for you and your mate to stand together against the forces of darkness(Satan) Jesus must be the head of both your lives & you must be baptized with the Holy Ghost that will lead you both in ALL truth!!!
Assuming married couple is sharing a bed.Should be sharing a bed but not because hes weird and 35 years later hed rather sleep alone most of our marriage.
If you are tierd of being ignored for years feeling hallow all weekend yet for 3 years keeps leaving you alone every weekend even lets you get ready 3 days un a row and lie to you saying youll do somethingpurposely make you cry all countless times for years uncaring and rude to your pain thats intentinal.How about not coming home till 4 sm and letting your spouce freak out thinking something hapoened worryingor countless hours not calling what the hell kind of way is that to treat your eife then saying sorry yet repeating 3 dsys later then over a whole year thats an enemy who does not care whatsoever about your feelings your pain does not shoe badic condideration there is no other way yo interperet such blatant mistreat. Emotional Abuse then verbal nastiness.then 3 days in a row 2 weekends all year keep selfishly saying well they want to lay diwn at 3 oclock unstead. Rude but I go TV b.c ready. If your spouce knows theyre hurting you and keeps doing it theyre out to hurt you.
Nothing like a seperation to show u where intimacy Is not satisfied and investing your money without togetherness leaves u very hurtful Spouse marriage common law requires the foundation of money unified together till death due us part respect
Glad to see a Black Man leading this message, often times marriage ministries are directed by white men. Not taking away from their knowledge and expertise; however, seeing people who I can relate to in multiple areas is refreshing. Word is powerful too!
MizAnne Billions I love seeing the thousands of White Men leading this message. Not to take away from this one, single, solo black man’s knowledge or expertise.
interesting points ,if anyone else needs to find out about help with my marriage try Dalz Partner Mender Discovery (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my friend got cool success with it.
@@VishusVenom I see so many comments like this its humorous. Why do you guys get your feelings hurt when someone makes a comment like this? It IS nice to see black positive role models in every area because we feel like their isnt enough and there can definitely be more. Or would you prefer that we keep the attention on all of the gangs, drug dealers etc? Ppl want to act like all of a sudden race doesnt matter anymore bc we got our full rights as human beings In the 60s... I hope to run in to more mature ppl in the future.
Catrina Bennett It IS nice to see so many white men being positive role models.
Omg ur full of shi .u racist pig
This was great. Very practical, I feel like I could talk with this guy for hours.
Please God renew us both so we may have passion again. May the testosterone he is getting help him in intimacy. Lord help us stand in unity. Help us fall in love with each other. Thank you Jesus!
Mmh! So much I want to say but better that I just say pray for my marriage. 32+ years, praise God. I love the man! I am struggling. Greiving all the unresolved issues. Thankfully we reconcile quickly but so many unresolved hurts. God knows. Thank you for this great teaching!!! Really really good!!
Praying that your marriage is blessed
AWESOME TEACHING! PLEASE KEEP UP THIS GREAT MINISTRY THROUGH UA-cam!
This teaching is excellent. Rich n Concise.
Thank you so much
This is exactly what I needed to hear to a tee. Thank you for your wise words of wisdom and God bless you and your family.
Awesome
Lord please bless my marriage and keep it together, Amen
Thank you dear Lord Jesus for these words.
Dear LORD please help us renew our friendship & intimacy! I love you
Amen
He is the draw backer, I am projector of dissatisfaction.
I calm down but my needs are not addressed. I feel ignored and rejected. He is asking me to understand him. I nag him about time . He is too busy for me . All he does is work. I’m feeling lonely.
I’m studying him but he has very little to tell me about himself. He knows or at least I told him about myself and my family. Maybe he was shamed by me asking if he knows my family. ?
I sent him videos of your teachings but he doesn’t watch them and I get disappointed like my work don’t matter . He is not only learning what I have to learned with him but doesn’t contribute to the learning experience.
I’m praying for us . We are in this together.
Gratitude Life if you’re not married....RUN.
Gratitude It never changes. If he does, it will only be for a moment. It’s up to you, live this way or make an exit.
This is sooo good! Good teaching!
This is really powerful.I"ve learned so much
The misunderstanding over a mere trash can before we get to major issues. This had me laughing 😅😅 well elaborated.
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Excellent teaching. I love the University analogy. So relatable.
We appreciate the love and support
The Holy Spirit is the relationship management professional of every marriage. If you want something fixed in your spouse, don't fiddle with the front end, go to the Holy Spirit at the back end and ask him to fix it. The caveat is, you have to have a good relationship with the Holy Spirit in order to get him to work for you. Another caveat is, your spouse too needs to have a good relationship with the Holy Spirit for them to hear and obey what he asks them to do...
Thanks for the feedback Helen. The Holy Spirit is indeed involved one relationships. Still we as free will moral agents, (people who have been given the power to choose) have the responsibility to learn and implement what we receive. We have to work at marriage through the strength & grace that God gives. Counseling, classes, wisdom from mentors all contribute to the choices we make.
These guys are great! My favourite couple, aside from Jimmy and Karen, in this ministry and XO- by far. So real and relevant!
U really helping me in my marriage
Our marriage counselor says my wife and father in law have an enmeshed relationship with narcissistic tendencies. We’ve been to so many seminars and pastors and read books, etc, etc. her dad just manipulates her into thinking they are all wrong. She says it’s her responsibility to make sure he isn’t lonely and because they live more like the married couple my wife can’t be intimate on any level.
Great message, thank you.
Upload part TWO please 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼!!! THANKS IN ADVANCE DON'T FORGET...!
+Natalia Torres hey. It’s already uploaded. ua-cam.com/video/OigcdnchlHQ/v-deo.html
Wow, this is good!!! 🙏
Thank you
Learned so much in Part 1. Is there a part 2?
Thanks for the message
No 2 pencil 🤣
Beautiful 👏👏👏
“If you have GOD in the midst of your relationship…. If you’re building on the principles of GODS WORD…. You have a 3stranded cord…. It’s not easily broken”
❤❤❤thank you
You're welcome
A great teaching!
thank you!
Really? I'm so sick of racial talk. For 1, if someone is greatful, proud ,excited ect who am I or anyone to dismiss that? My skin is white and even my 1st thought was awesome..a possible different perspective..I opened my mind and love it. Shall we try to judge each other righteously?
Wonderful message, but honestly waiting to hear scripture based teaching and Jesus should be our center. All else will fall in place if we seek first the kingdom.
I need help with my marriage
2 ships passing through the night
Regarding the trash...just take it yourself. End of frustration.
Apparently my wife got married thinking being roommates was going to be good enough.
who's the preacher?
Bigjoy 012 Sean & Lanette Reed
In order for you and your mate to stand together against the forces of darkness(Satan) Jesus must be the head of both your lives & you must be baptized with the Holy Ghost that will lead you both in ALL truth!!!
Shietta Moore The truth!
Assuming married couple is sharing a bed.Should be sharing a bed but not because hes weird and 35 years later hed rather sleep alone most of our marriage.
If you are tierd of being ignored for years feeling hallow all weekend yet for 3 years keeps leaving you alone every weekend even lets you get ready 3 days un a row and lie to you saying youll do somethingpurposely make you cry all countless times for years uncaring and rude to your pain thats intentinal.How about not coming home till 4 sm and letting your spouce freak out thinking something hapoened worryingor countless hours not calling what the hell kind of way is that to treat your eife then saying sorry yet repeating 3 dsys later then over a whole year thats an enemy who does not care whatsoever about your feelings your pain does not shoe badic condideration there is no other way yo interperet such blatant mistreat. Emotional Abuse then verbal nastiness.then 3 days in a row 2 weekends all year keep selfishly saying well they want to lay diwn at 3 oclock unstead. Rude but I go TV b.c ready. If your spouce knows theyre hurting you and keeps doing it theyre out to hurt you.
Nothing like a seperation to show u where intimacy Is not satisfied and investing your money without togetherness leaves u very hurtful Spouse marriage common law requires the foundation of money unified together till death due us part respect
Ok
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Love prevails