SCHOOL HOUSE ROCK: Amanda Seales, Tiffany Haddish, The "Braids" Teacher + MORE!
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
- JESSIE WOO
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The Nigerian women who sang “ewo” in those Nollywood videos all those years ago would NEVER have imagined it getting new life with Jessie like this! I love it 😍
Is that where it’s from??! Omg..the way it lives rent free in my head! Now I have to find the original source!
Also what does ewo mean? As well as the thing she says in between.. I have been wondering..
@@breannagladney646I’m not sure what “ewo” means, I always took it as “oh my goodness” or “oh god” or sayings similar to those. As for the rest shes saying “I don’t understand”
@@breannagladney646Ewo means wow or what you say when you’re surprised or shocked.
It’s from a Nollywood movie - I just don’t remember which one…but it’s from a much older movie.
Jessie going back to back like Kendrick! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
🗣️ WOP WOP WOP WOP WOP!
@@TheeJessieWooplease talk about LIB Clay’s new gf!!!
@@raerae9246 omg yes 🤮
Right!
@@raerae9246whats tea? 😅
My sister in law tells my niece and nephew that adults NEVER need help from a child. Period.
mm, thats a good one!! I need to tell my nieces and lil cousins that!
EVER...
Same!! I’m always telling my son this!
Period!!!!
Ouuuh this is a GREAT one bout to tell my daughter this EVERYDAY 🩷
I know Amanda takes a lot of hits, but the girl is smart and she does not have a problem calling people out. I still rock with her.
same, I understand her and it sucks that shes viewed the way she is on a large scale. its like people love to hate her and dont really have a legit reason why
@@TheodoreBakesI remind myself of Amanda. I know what it's like to not do a single thing to a woman and for no reason in the world I get hated. I then used to get hated for saying I get hated because all of a sudden it's; who she supposed to be?😑 Just the girl who you keep making fake beefs with. I'm nothing but kind. And although I still sound hood, I choose to talk properly when I can. That's a problem too. (I would compare how I talk like Jessie). I now rock with Amanda too.
@@MindfulMatters734I definitely k ow a few women who dealt with the same. And like tou, they were sweet and nice. I never understood it.
The problem with Seals is nothing was ever her fault. Not one thing! Things do happen to you that aren’t of your control. But not everything.
She is hard to digest, however, I respect her as an intellectual. She is not easy to like and she does have a “woe is me” victim mentality. I do not think it’s intentional and it does suck when people don’t like you for being you. Shoot, I’ve been there. With that said, there are so many people who like her and she should nurture those and ignore the ones who don’t.
"I can tell y'all grew up fatherless"
Right we need to punch back and say “ I can tell you grew up have mommy issues” or “ you must have always picked last for kickball” at this point some of these men are exhausting
It’s another self drag. What they’re saying is, I know black men don’t take care of their kids 🤷🏾♀️
Listen that was deep “my child is here to learn not learn you”……he literally has been saying his students call him bestie. Speak on it Jess !!
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He calls them his besties so they call him bestie
As a former educator. There’s so many red flags about the hair unbraiding video. The fact that it’s only the girls working on his hair, to recording their faces and putting them on the internet for everyone to see. Also, not teaching his students clear boundaries. Even if he didn’t mean for it to come across as bad, it’s not a good look. He clearly cares more about clout than the education and safety of those students.
As soon as I saw that video I was immediately disgusted. Where in the curriculum is taking down a teachers hair. So inappropriate!
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Sexual predators aren’t always violent and aggressive. Jessie you are right. step 1 get there guard down
Step 2 see what I can ask them to do for me.
Step 3 ask for something more risky but still outside the bounds of inappropriate.
Step 4 have a secret between the two of you
Step 5….
I know this because this shit literally happened to me and I was 6-8. As I unpacked these traumas in my teens and 20s it was like a map I could see it all and every action made sense. I could not believe someone could do these things.
Protect the children, they are so innocent they don’t understand danger until it’s too late. Hindsight is painful.
period point blank, break it down for the misinformed
This is what I’ve been trying to explain to people it starts off sweet and nice and slowly they gain your trust and it’s down from there
A mf only got to step 2 and I told everyone 😂😂😂😂 sick mf smh
this!! thank you for breaking it down because people think its always blatant. Its a slow but steady process and is so messed up smh
And this grooming process extends to the parent(s) of the victim(s) and often their surrounding community. This endears the perpetrator to the victims' supposed support systems. It ironically casts the perpetrator in a more "trusted role" within the family's dynamic, granting them unfettered access to their innocent target(s). Additionally, it makes it so the victim is less likely to be believed by their own brainwashed family/community when they finally work up the nerve to tell someone.
Which further isolates the victim, pushing them deeper into the clutches of their calculating ab*ser.
Back to back??? Cmon Jessie Lamar! 😂
Lmaoooooo
*crip walks*
😂🤣😂
Teacher was inappropriate.
This was actually triggering for me, first time I was touched inappropriately at 8yrs old I was playing in someone’s hair and he was a family friend and this was a grown man with wife and kids. Not saying he’s doing the same but it also leaves girls to think it’s ok with ppl who are perverted.
Did I see a hand in his self pity podcast rubbing his BACK?! 🤣 On a serious note, when I was in third grade I was severely neglected by my parents leaving me with matted hair, no coat in the winter time, and no food for lunch regularly. I had two black wimminz teachers help me-one gave me a coat and brushed my hair out and the other took me out to eat at a restaurant.
I think it was Outback. I hadn't been to a restaurant until that age. Had they been up to no good, I would've fallen right into their hands. I'm grateful they were good. But they did it the right way, they pulled me into the principal's office and it was a collaborative effort.
There are ways to help your students and be a positive role model in their life, but do it the RIGHT way. Protect the kids and protect yourself.
Exactly
and it’s the adults (aka teachers) job to look out for children, NOT vice versa
That part.
Glad those teachers cared. I actually see people defending this man talking he's "bonding " with the students? WHAT? I would think kids are Sent to school to learn NOT to learn how to bond with teachers
Great comment!
I had a teacher do the same! He flirted with all the girls. I was a sophomore (15). He told me he couldn’t wait until I was 18. I was actually flattered. I had no idea it was wrong until I became an adult. He was a disgusting creep!
Girl it’s bad
I’ve also had a male teacher be inappropriate on an away trip when I was in only 8th grade
Gross 🤮
He’s going straight to hell
That’s how older men get young girls they inflate their little egos and manipulate them.
that teacher is a mess smh.
the misuse of school time, the exploitation of black girls’ labor and care, the live-streaming of minors, so many wrong turns.
even if he had the BEST of intentions, he should’ve just owned up to his poor time management w his hair and kept it professional.
take your braids out on your own time like the rest of us!!!! how many black woman teachers w braids you see asking their STUDENTS to do this. even if he meant no harm, he needs to have some couth about him. protect these kids’ childhoods!
Whew this!! Like it’s the crying for me like he just don’t get it🙄
Exactly!!! The right thing to do was reschedule the hair appointment so that he had time to unbraid his hair. Asking his students to do it for him, even without any future sexual intention on his part, is at least an abuse of his authority over them. He is using their unpaid labour for non-academic purposes. He's not asking them to do a favour for the class, it's purely a personal favour. And as a professional, he is obligated to keep his relationship with his students professional. You can like your students and have a great time with them without making them feel like they're your friend or your help. He should use their admiration of him to teach them more effectively, to inspire them to love school, not for his own benefit. That's just manipulation.
Also, most teachers I see online make sure that they do not include children in their videos unless it is for specific purposes approved by the parents. He's violating their boundaries in that way too, because I don't see a single parent agreeing to this use of their child's image on social media.
exactly right. Putting aside the predator argument (which is strong imo), this is not what kids are sent to school to do!
💯 facts. I saw his comments after the fact and the guy literally is dismissing any comments from anyone who remotely challenges him, while being condescending (in the nicest way possible) and either trying to educate us on how the education system works or on how people are wrong for thinking it is inappropriate. Like, the guy is in some ego trip. The worst part is, I don't think he'll ever do something to these kids but once they grow up and don't give him the attention he wants he'll probably discard them.😵💫
As a South African, I know so e colleges or college students protested against apartheid and I'm grateful. They played a role and did their thing in helping shine a spotlight to the massacre of our my grandparents and parents. I thank them❤❤🙏🙏
It’s not antisemitism, that’s why there are so many Jewish people who are anti-Zionist and protesting on behalf of Palestinians. My Jewish professor is a prime example. This is not about antisemitism, it’s about what is best for certain entities politically. The Isr@eli occupation needs to end. Free Haiti, Palestine, Sudan, the DR Congo, & Tigray from foreign exploitation. Free all political prisoners!
CLOCK IT
And what Israel is doing IS ANTISEMITISM!!
Exactly. Zionism is not Judaism. They love to play the anti-Semitism card because it has worked for them in the past. But not anymore. Also, Arabs are Semites too so 💁🏾♀️
Why do we in the black community have an issue with calling out problematic behavior? I do not care if the role was reversed in the teacher situation, the behavior is still wrong.
Predators are very much protected in the community
It starts with people fighting to wear their pjs and bonnets out in public and demanding to look unkept as if they are in their house. It’s like they want to except everything under the sun and demand people accept their lower standards. This sort of thinking makes me sick.
It’s not a black community thing. It’s a human thing
@@paf2587That’s where it started? Not all the SA’s that took place in folks homes and church communities huh? Not the weird uncles, boyfriends that’s still allowed at the family events? Bonnets and pjs? Got it!
@@_Ridethemaverick the point that I’m making is that there is a lack of boundary making taking place across the spectrum. It’s all incremental.
Thank you for thoroughly explaining why the relationship between the teacher and the students was inappropriate. When I saw this tweet on Twitter I was conflicted on how I felt about it but having you explain intimacy and how it affects children helped me to understand why the teacher needed to be dismissed. So thank you for your wisdom!
She is spot on.
I just don’t understand how some people do not see how inappropriate that situation was
Ughhhh I agree… now I see why this was inappropriate… this is why I don’t have nor need kids. I didn’t see anything wrong with it but I do see how this could be a problem.
Boundaries are necessary!
@@l.m.t.lbecause most thought about their childhood ‘helping’ adults.
dont tease me with a gooooooodddd timeeeee sis!!!!!!!!!!! because that INTROOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Jess is so on point. If you are a teacher don't touch children and don't have children touching you. Don't misuse your position of authority to use your students to do something so close and personal that is your complete responsibility. Like Jess said it's too intimate and crosses a very inappropriate boundary.
I’m okay with a black teacher losing their job if they don’t know how or don’t care to establish boundaries with their students. He’s literally reading messages from his students and doesn’t see the problem. We shouldn’t be so desperate for black educators that we allow bad ones to stay around
That part 💯
Jessie Woo, that's a lot of responsibility for a child/teenager to carry. You did the best you could in that moment. And I'm proud of you for honoring your intuition and leaving that teacher alone. It is the adult's responsibility to protect the child/teenager. And f*** adults that don't understand that! Thank you for sharing your journey.
Not you doubling back!!! That’s that black Haitian wiminnz heritage month energy!! ❤ 2 videos in one day you treating us generous queen lol
Yess yesss amway
I had to take a double take in my notifications! I'm like "I know I watched her video earlier 🤔"
😂😂
literally! 😂
same I was like huh lmao
Yes the way I got excited 😂
For the braids teacher, if this was a group of little white girls, I really believe he would’ve thought twice before even allowing them to touch his hair and posting. I saw a comment that said that this is amazing because they may not have a father figure but one to assume that they have don’t have a father figure is problematic and two if even if they didn’t have a father figure, you have no right to cross the boundaries in that way. Truthfully black girls are more vulnerable to stuff like this and it’s up to the public to call people out even when it seems like they’re doing a good thing.
💯That is such a good point. I also believe that he would not have done this with those girls PARENTS around! People really don’t pay attention. This man KNOWS he isn’t supposed to be doing that. Just like he was wrong for the “emo” video. They are sneaky, even in the light of day. It is shocking the way these people set up their environments (including the occupations they choose). Putting themselves in the closest position they can to a child. The next mission is winning the child’s trust and even loyalty. The next is to get their defenses down. The fact that he behaved the way he did as he doubled down in his videos shows his lack of maturity, which is also another red flag for predators. They have stunted emotional intelligence and find it very easy to skin-walk as a child’s “bestie”. The denial of these folks is ALARMING. 3 out of 5 women have been SA’d, and that is because of the toxic thinking we are seeing here. Do we want to keep doing the same thing so a new generation of girls are forced to grow up into emotionally damaged women with no sense of boundaries. Then they will tell these same women that they need to have more “self-worth”.
@@erikaarnold4780 exactly!
I’m so glad that you saw and recognized how wholly WRONG & INAPPROPRIATE this teacher was at school. Watching his video immediately made me uncomfortable and I remember saying nahhh this is an intimate act. Him crying on TikTok and recording was so manipulative. His familiarity and text messages he has with his students is out of line. He needed to be removed from that school.
I have a photo of my husband washing my clip-ins for me when we were dating. One of my favorite images. It revealed my vulnerability (weave out), the way he caters to me, and a vibe of friendship. My husband had NEVER messed with weave and he ASKED me to let him help. So yes it’s intimate. People were trying to make it cultural. It was intimate. It was inappropriate. And he is a predator. His crying video completely convinced me.
Not you interrupting my video just as I was getting into Waterfalls 😳 I was cleaning up and literally dropped everything and ran to the TV. Don’t play with our emotions like this 😂😂
Same 🤣🤣🤣
As a straight guy who loves watching your channel cuz I think you’re HILARIOUS… JESS I NEED YOUR COMMENTARY ON THE ULTIMATUM SOUTH AFRICA. My fiancé and I are watching together and all I can think about is your Haitian commentary 😂😂
I'm patiently waiting 😂😂😂
Yass waterfalls preview!
I 500% agree with you about that teacher Jessie. If for nothing else, those children are MINORS and he has NO RIGHT to be posting them on social media in any way, shape, or form. He should be let go for that alone.
If a teen girl is hitting on a man??? Wtf?!?! I don’t give a damn if a teen girl is literally throwing her 🐱 on him! He is the adult and should shut it down IMMEDIATELY.
Damn Jess you’re making this Sierra Leonean traffic jam better for me. Love you SEEEEEEEESSTTTERR all the way from the motherland ♥️❤️.
❤❤❤
My son is half Sierra Leonean ❤
Are you in Freetown? Because Freetown traffic is crazy! 😂
This teacher having these children unbraiding his hair ABSOLUTELY INAPPROPRIATE 😡😡😡😡😡
Thank you!! And so unprofessional! What happened to boundaries between teachers and students
Agreed! I'm a teacher and am all about fostering healthy relationships and boundaries with my students! He should've done what I did with my students who were so fond of my natural hair..bought them a textured hair mannequin for them to practice styles! And that goes for female educators as well!
It's giving groomer tease
@@margareta.6506I like that. Allowing children to explore their interests while maintaining your boundaries with them
The people defending him are worse imo. He’s an authority figure. Boundaries are not a suggestion, they are a must. They are for his protection and the students. What if he gives one of them a bad grade and they retaliate? Even if his intentions were innocent, why allow children to think this ok when the next time it could actually be a predator. Plus, people are acting like predators whole point isnt to disarm you so you don’t question their intentions. They also look for positions of trust, like in churches, schools and healthcare. This man was texting his students as well as him referring to them as besties. Now there’s a video of him thirsting after a 16 year old on TikTok. I’m not sure if it’s his looks or if people are just desperate to see more black male educators because from an objective standpoint this appears to be grooming behavior as Jessie stated.
Tiffany that clap back was weak!! And she’s been on some weird mess for years now.
Yes, Tiffany is in the sunken place 😢
Exactly...pretending to be so poised and lady-like after that nasty, negative, detestable behavior she exhibited on her stand-up time. Girl BYE😂
That teacher going on a crying spree online over the fact that parents do not want him having inappropriate physical contact/relations with their children says ALOT! Narcissist alert! He feels entitled towards those children's physical contact 🤮🤮🤢🤢 he's trying to go on a smear campaign to make himself out to be some victim of losing a job over something minimal, but no! It's beyond inappropriate! He lacks professional boundaries with those students 🤮🤢 seen this in middle and high school, students ain't safe smfh
I completely agree. We had a female gym coach and basketball coach in middle school that was cool with all the students. She would let you hang out in her office after school and even buy food for some of us. This same coach started an intimate relationship with one of the girls on the basketball team.
Same situation with a girl I knew from elementary school, she used to go to her middle school teachers home after school for homework and he got her pregnant. It was all over the news when I was a kid. SMH , kind teachers are awesome but there’s a line that shouldn’t be crossed
Same situation with a girl from my high school and a female gym teacher. She used to let certain students hang out in her office and give certain students rides home. Found out later on in life that the teacher was having a full blown "relationship" with a student. Boundaries were crossed and no one put a stop to it because they all thought it was harmless.
My cousin dated (and eventually after about 15 yrs married) her high school basketball coach. He was like 10 yrs older than her mother. 🤦🏾♀️
@@ChasityR17 Yeah lots of victims marry their predator not knowing what is happening. Just ask most of your great grans and grandmothers how they met their husbands. They'll tell you in not so many words. Many were 13 or 14 yrs old being groomed by 20 somethings and 30 somethings but it was more acceptable then.
@@ChasityR17 yup my old high school friend is now married to our 12th grade English teacher. He was the chill, fun, attractive teacher
I agree with you Jessie! Undoing his hair is a very intimate action. As someone who has been sexually molested watching the video made me very uncomfortable. And I was like oh HELL NO NOT MY CHILD! Your excuse of having a hair appointment or whatever has nothing to do with the children! They children will now be going out of their way to do more for him so they become his favorite, this is sooooo wrong and so triggering!
Also if he was in such a rush why wasn’t he using his own hands to undo his hair to help finish quicker. It looked like he was just sitting there bossing them around and bragging on the internet about how he can get students to do things for him. Definitely inappropriate.
That was such a horrible excuse
This reminds me of my high school teacher. I didn’t notice the grooming as a teen but I do now in my 30s. He used to make u ls feel sooo comfy with him and he was not far in age from us that when we graduated and he reached out to us all to hang out and attend his parties with his over 21 crew we didn’t see any harm. We grown now let’s hang out. But he definitely tried to make a move on me after a couple yrs and I was so grossed out that I distanced myself but these were things he let us do. Cut in his class, he’d order us lunch from outside stores, we could stay late he’d chaperone, make jokes that made us look at him as one of us and not a “teacher”, he was a photographer so he used to take maddddd pics of the students for “memories” but looking back I’m like 🤔. This situation really made me realize me and my homegirls were groomed by our HS teacher and didn’t even notice it.
"Eh eh eh, where can I get that HAIR?? EWOOOOOO
Love ya, Mrs. Easter
Yes, I'M CLAIMING yall ENGAGEMENT 💍
"Eeeeeee, Jessica doin her thanggg ewoooooOoooo" lets pretend im harmonising😂😂😂
Even if the teacher is innocent and a kid at heart, the moment I heard him call his students his besties I knew he lacked boundaries. It's not professional to be a friend and teacher at the same time. Boundaries are important.
OMG JESSIE YES!!! The teacher is INAPPROPRIATE! People saying “if it was a woman” … well it’s not a woman. That’s the difference. Initially I thought it was okay too, but I thought about the time my niece took my braids out and she’s 13. She said to me after she was done “I feel like we just bonded on a deeper level”. It doesn’t matter if the parents gave consent or not because we already know that parents sometimes make bad judgement calls. And it also doesn’t matter if he’s a well liked teacher or not. A lot of women are standing up for this and as women we need to exercise better discernment.
If it was a woman it would STILL be inappropriate. As Jessie said, we don't send our kids to learn their teachers. It's absolutely disgusting no matter the gender.
I immediately knew the teacher was dead ass wrong. But I’ve also been groomed before as a teen, so I’m able to see those red flags involving grown men quickly
that teacher is creepy af..🤮 Tiffany Haddish & Amy Schumer have never said a funny joke, their brand is more schock , awe & nervous confusion..thx for the multiple uploads , your quite the workaholic ..love from black Germany 🇩🇪👍🏽🖤❤️
So many adults are walking around with unresolved issues from childhood which makes them relate to kids instead of seeing themselves as ADULTS, they are emotionally immature and still think like children. Whether or not he is grooming them, it is inappropriate and clearly this man has no boundaries. I hope he gets the help he needs and takes a break from teaching. It ain't for him because once again...he has no boundaries.
Also there is a power imbalance between the teacher and students that even if the students didn’t want to do it, I’m not sure they could have refused him because they may think there might be repercussions. I once had a male teacher ask me for my phone to use for a couple days temporarily because his was broken. I gave it to him. Once my parents found out they were so livid. I didn’t realize why they reacted that way until now.
Do we know that he was the one who asked them to do it & not them offering? Idk this dude or his content so fill in the blanks if you can pls
Fired and not allowed to teach is exactly right for that former teacher! Regardless of the intimacy or the act, etc., he was filming and streaming minors without their consent --and they cannot give consent anyway. Schools have to have parents sign waiver release forms for when they use your children's imagery. Every time. So he knew he was wrong, he's wrong just by the principle. That alone is unprofessional, unethical, and I really think it's probably illegal (and think about who might watching that stream and what other things he might've been opening those children up to by livestreaming them. Everything on the internet lasts forever and this going viral is the proof). Everything you said was spot on, Jessie!
Feeding us VERY good today!!! Saw you on the mic singing waterfalls and and damn near lost my composure 😭
cause honey the body was bodying, the skin was skinning, the vocals were vocaling. I watched that part like 10 times lmao
It's a slippery slope when teachers (no matter the gender) step out of their professional role. Children are impressionable and easily influenced. Demoting oneself and making oneself comparable to students, and downplaying the role as friends rather than a caring and kind but firm leader is how grooming starts. Even if there's no harmful intentions on his end, it can cause the students to feel they don't have to listen and have privileges because the teacher is their friend. "I don't have to turn in my homework this week because we're cool, he'll understand I'm so tired from my sports workouts." No, no, no. He could've paid the stylist to remove his braids or at least planned better for the appointment.
Back to back?! Girl you getting me THROUGH this jury duty!!! 😂
Yeah she didn't tell a joke. And someone should tell Tiffany that you go to college to learn things like history like college students in 1967 and 68 sitting and protesting so you can even be in the rooms you are in now. And while I was in college I worked 40 hours a week, and so did a lot of my classmates so she is wrong about never working a day just wrong all the way
Right she talks too much if you don’t know about something don’t speak on it research it learn about it and then if you need want to say something at least you’re informed how embarrassing 😂😂😂
It’s the waterfalls snippet for me 😍🙌🏾
That beginning tho!!!! screaming …on everything!!!!!!!! Quick lil freak out like at a concert !!🤯
She also try to say Katt Williams scurried off when he saw Kevin Hart at that festival. I DOUBT THAT.
Katt doesn't hide from anyone 😅😅
😂😂😂 if anything Kevin waited for Katt to leave then he showed up!
@@joanna0988 exactly
@@Immortal_Empress that would definitely make more sense.
i’m not going to lie when i first saw the video with the teacher i didn’t get the initial R k*lly in mcdonald’s vibe…and then it scared me cuz how many other people didn’t get that vibe and how many times has a harmless looking man fooled the people around into thinking they’re docile and friendly….
Everything jessie about the teacher is 100% true. Also beyond that its also super inappropriate for the teacher to get free labor out of those girls. He knew his stylist would charge him for the take down... why pay when you could get it for free...
Lol, your free labor perspective is ridiculous.
@@rameauj I guess you like to do for free what others get paid very well for...
I am so disgusted right now. As a former teacher, teacher educator, parent, and woman, I cannot believe that ANYONE in their right mind thinks it is appropriate for a teacher to ask students to do anything to their hair or any aspect of their person in a classroom or elsewhere. Not only is it unprofessional, but it is highly inappropriate. All I have to say is that he needs to be grateful that my daughter was not in his head doing anything, and that I am not the principal or superintendent as he would be jobless. This society has gotten out of control. Anything goes these days, and people justify their behavior at any cost! Children are not protected by big brands (Balenciaga), by the community, by parents, by pastors, by teachers, by the government, the entertainment industry, or even the FDA(who allows chemicals and toxic ingredients to be in foods highly consumed by children)---I could go on and on.
And, this dude has the nerve to create a video with a voiceover? Who gave him permission to record these students and publish it as an employee of the district? Parents have to submit permission to have their children's images and recordings published by the school.
Lastly, the fact that these young girls are writing letters to him and he is crying about what they said is giving "Stockholm Syndrome." I just want to vomit. We live in an extremely SICK world.
By the way, in my 19 years as college professor, I would never even go to lunch or dinner with my students who were 17 to 65, depending on the course. They were all women majoring in education. They all knew that once they GRADUATED, we could go to lunch. These were grown women but I understand what professionalism is and maintained it at all times. I just can't imagine what is in the mind of someone who thinks that young girls in a grown man's hair is appropriate.😮
The braids teacher gave me the ick because I had a teacher like that in high school, that was sleeping with a couple of the students 😒😒
We had a few high school teachers like that too. Teachers need to just keep good boundaries with the kids and leave it at that because there should not be a gray area when it comes to what's appropriate with kids.
Same! The gym teacher was sleeping with students
I agree with you about the "braids" teacher. I always felt it was inappropriate but I did not see his response until your video. He sounds very immature and his judgement is horrible. I agree, it is classic grooming because he is gaining their trust and he could talk them into anything at that point!! He should not be a teacher or work with children because he still doesn't understand it was wrong. Also, I find it sickening that people actually heard your story and blamed you for asking a "trusted" teacher for a ride. He was the adult and a teacher so he should have been a protector instead of a predator! It just goes to show you the kind of thinking out there in the world today, it's very alarming! Victim blaming seems to be growing, people need more education on predatory behavior!
The way you were SPOT ON with the teacher! Whew! My husband scratched my scalp yesterday and I was telling him about how intimate it was.. playing in someone’s hair is absolutely intimate! It’s a step in grooming for sure.. no pun intended
My thoughts on the teacher after having mixed feelings about it and getting more insight from multiple discussions....
Ppl think just because this teacher hadn't SA'd his students, DOESN'T mean that he isn't making them vulnerable to being SA'd or taken advantage of by another authority.
One thing that stuck out to me was his argument that he wanted to "support" their aspirations to be cosmetologist. If that was true, why not buy them mannequin heads or hands to practice on instead of you?
This was entirely inappropriate and grooming behavior.
Your so important Jessie. Thank you for bringing laughter and using your platform to bring awareness to issues.
FIRE HIM so he can focus full time of his dream job of being on social media.
😂😂
Blessing in disguise 😅
people who use the “fatherless” thing as if it was your choice for your own father to be absent from the home🤔 like does that make a difference on getting literally SA’d !!
As a uni student from the UK, all i knew was that wouldn't run in the UK, Ofsted (The Office for Standards in Education) wouldn't have played lightly with this!!
I initially didn't think there was anything wrong with the whole braids teacher situation, but i also hadn't seen the video. This video was my first time actually seeing it and the commentary of his video was very unsettling - him calling them his best friends was so strange to me, WHAT BUSINESS DO YOU HAVE BEING BESTIES WITH YOUR STUDENTS. There HAS to be boundaries with teachers there is nothing wrong with students admiring and really getting along with teachers, but it's a teacher's place to set boundaries and let it be known that they aren't friends and that realistically that if they weren't related or family friends they wouldn't even be interacting. Teachers like this who make students feel like they're friends are playing into power imbalances, not only are they older they also have authority.
Love the videos xx🫶🏾
Not you dropping two videos in a day Jess! 🎊🙌🏾
She did that 🥂🥂
Jessicaaaaaa! Are you teasing us with that waterfalls clip??? 🥹
Jessie, I had a draining a** day at work. Thank you for giving us 2 vids so I can unwind.✌🏾
@jessiewoo The teacher was fired and I'm glad you took the time to break this down
That waterfall teaser 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🔥🔥🔥
The teacher is a weirdo and the more I see of him, the more uncomfortable I feel. His actions are definitely inappropriate and he gives me major clout chaser. I also get the feeling he is very manipulative. IMO he was trying to guilt trip people by uploading that video of him crying. Why do his students have his personal number, texting “hey bestie”, where are the boundaries?? Idk…the whole situation gives me a bad feeling and I don’t believe this man should be around children. I noticed many of his defenders are black women, but chile let me not get into that many of us have a big problem holding BM accountable and would rather coddle them instead.
Jessie you always break down the tough subjects so well. Thank you for sharing yourself so much with us and for being so candid and thoughtful with your presentations.
Exactly!!! Intimacy him calling children his besties, friendship has to have a balance of power an adult can’t be friends with children because they have power secondly most adults/ teachers that do a child’s hair is 9/10 due to neglect, due to a child being Abused and bullied so due to that the teacher or adult is taking care of that child
WHY is a teacher live-streaming his classroom??? Maybe im too old now but kids hardly even need their phones in class so I can’t imagine their TEACHER using their classroom like it was a content farm???
AYYYYYY! We got visuals to Waterfalls Ewoooo! 💃💃💃🤪🥰😍😍
The teacher physically disguss me🤢🤮🤢 EVERYTHING Jessie said about the intimacy, the grooming and closeness is on point, correct and exact. 💯 % you nailed it and HE deserved to be fired!!!
If something would have happen, then those girls would be fast, easy, ....like no and the fact that he can't understand that 🚩🚩🚩
He KNEW from the beginning of his TikTok that he was stirring the pot, and he plead his case to the Tiktok juree and Tiktok found him guilty now he's crying about it. Why Lil boys didn't unbraided his hair? Why did he paid the salon to do it....like just ick ...🤮🤮🤮
Exactly. Why didn’t he ask any male students to unbraid his hair?
You talking about the way certain sexual predators know about intimacy reminds me of the Mica Miller situation. And so many cases where a grown adult would have that intimacy with the child and then once the child is old enough to consent or becomes an adult, whichever comes first, that’s when they make their move. It’s very predatory. And I immediately got that from the teacher. He’s wrong for that. And he should keep his relationship with his students purely professional. They’re his students, not his bestie. And since they’re not related to him by blood, association (church, etc.)-which should not even matter anyway, it’s still wrong. I grew up in the American school system and I never had feelings for any of my male teachers. They set boundaries that should not be crossed. Even when some girls would literally be wild. I remember having a 9th grade teacher that so many girls had a crush on, and I was minding my business. If that teacher didn’t make a clear boundary and accepted what the girls were doing, he would be in the sex offender list. When these young kids are learning about their feelings, and know what they’re doing when acting on it, the adults need to be the bigger person and make a clear boundary that they won’t not only compromise themselves or another child cause they felt some connection. That teacher is in trouble ngl
preach ok talk your Ish, speak the truth and shame the devil
Ahhhh the teaser at the beginning of the video got me so hype!!!🤩 Jess we need the restttt
Two drops ONE day!! You’re amazing 😢
As someone who was SA from i was 7 years old, that teacher is a groomer. I was groomed like that by a much older cousin, he always brought gifts for me and i felt special as my parents had issues. By the time I realized i was being SA, i felt like I was equally responsible, i am still struggling to this day.
Its not your fault 🫶🏿
Jessie you are 100% right about the teacher video. The predators always establishes trust and an allegiance from their victims prior to the violation. The way he is manipulating those kids by recording himself fake crying reading their messages is horrible
Jessie , i need you to watch The Ultimatum South Africa 😭😭😭😭
Jessie, I've been watching you for 2 years since the Ciara's payer wont work for you video haha. I love the space you created and how you centre Black women on this channel. As an Arab woman, its been a joy learning so much from these discussions and supporting the channel in the small ways I can behind the scenes. I just wanted to comment to express my thanks for speaking on Palestine and for drawing parallels between some of the systemic BS we are up against. Free Haiti, Free Palestine, Free Congo, Free Sudan. Much Love!!! and thank you for all the joy you bring me with every upload
It’s the nerve of the teacher to think he is only getting heat because he is black . That is grossly inappropriate, as a mom It’s a no no for me !!! IDK
The music is ON THE WAY❤❤❤. I’m ready to buss this.
And how does Tiffany feel comfortable tearing down college and education, especially in the black community? 🤔 How Sway??? How???? Tiffany is vacuous😂😂😂
Awwwwww sshhhiiitttt nie!!!! Waterfalls is almost ready huh?! 🔥❤🔥❤
Tiffany isn't the brightest crayon in the box🤷🏾♀️
It's so sad. She has the same problem as a lot of unintelligent people. They see critique and feedback as an an attempt to take them down and it keeps them from ever growing
We had a teacher in high school that we all had a crush on and lemme tell you, he would NEVER! That man had amazing boundaries and was always appropriate.
I fractured my finger press this video.. Jesssssss dropped🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Jessie I love you! You always manage to make so deep points in relatively short videos ❤️
Gorllllllll 👏🏽drop 👏🏽the👏🏽song👏🏽
Waterfalls 🔥🔥🔥
That Teacher needs to be fired. completely inappropriate and creates boundaries issues with impressionable youth. The performance video reiterated my stance. His lack of accountability and attention seeking actions is problematic. The fact that the kids have access to message him on social media makes me uncomfortable, I don’t want my kids teachers friending them on social media
Omg watching the stem teacher with the students reminded me so much of one of my previous experiences in education in stem: a lot of teachers (young, attractive, male) were like that. Not in a R. Kelly way (because it was with girls/boys and not touching ppl), but more in a "give me attention" way. I had to leave the situation because I felt the same was required from me as a collaborator (and we are not doing that in 2024, as educated women). These false prophets really are narcissists disguised as teachers who pretend to want to propel the youth forward. 🤨
Yup it doesn't have to get sexual, the energy is still off 🧐
it's very much so giving grooming R'Kelly vibes
He coulda paid the hairdresser extra money to unbraid his hair. For anyone that doesn’t understand the intimacy surrounding dealing with someone’s hair watch that episode of Snowfall when Franklin’s mother started braiding Leon’s hair and see how he broke down.
What platform is it on?
@@judadash3360 Hulu I think
Whew!! What an opening! Looking good Jessie
So you Blessed me before AND after my class!!! 🙌🏾 Let's Go SiiiisssTerrrr!!!!!!!!
Not the teacher not being able to read out loud! Also why did they have his personal phone number.
100% on the teacher!
The dark blue is a gorgeous color on you. Reminds me of a pieceI need to take out of storage ... Thanks!
Come back waterfalls I was enjoying that😫😫❤