One video idea I’d like is something around transitioning from college to “real life”. I’m entering my senior year and even though you are just a few years old than me I feel like you are so much more together! I get really excited about change and new chapters but recently I’ve been feeling some grief about moving on from childhood/adolescence and into young adulthood. Maybe that doesn’t resonate with you but if it does I’d love to hear your thoughts! Happy 2020!🥳
whenever i feel off in my body i like to remind myself that i am just a spirit in a fleshy vessel and that it is the home to my soul so i must take care of it and nourish it like i would a plant love you manifesting that i run into you while im visiting new york next week :-)
This video was so genuine and lovely. It’s so easy to idolize youtubers in your head, but your realness in this video reminded me you’re a human just like me. A comforting reminder to also not be so hard on myself.
Yes! I definitely resonate with the struggle to make friends. I just finished my first semester at a new school and have found how difficult it can be to establish strong relationships with people, especially with those that don’t know my past; it can be daunting! But you’re right, pushing yourself to reach out to those people first is super important
hi elena, i’ve been watching your videos for a while and i genuinely want to thank you for helping me with self care. your videos show me that it’s so important to care for yourself and do things that make you happy. i also am so impressed with every video you put out. it seems like you really love what you do and not to mention your editing and video aesthetic is awesome. love you girl❤️
I'd love a full video dedicated to making great friendships in a new city! I'm 22 and moved to NYC and crave beautiful friendships here yet don't really know how to go about it. I'd also love more content from you where you're as open as this, it's more authentic and honest
I honestly really love these vulnerable sit-down videos. It is so comforting to hear about others' experiences and allows us all to learn from one another. Thank you for sharing your heart!
I'm so glad you can be so open with your subscribers! It feels like a talk with you rather just another UA-cam video. Thank you for your honesty! You are amazing.
I've always thought"I'm the only person who goes where I go all the time" as well :) Well, something along those lines, I just liked that you said that :)
Instead of focusing on what my body looks like, I am trying to focus on what my body can do for me. She allows me to wrap my arms around my loved ones, pet my cat, feel love from others, and give love back. Our bodies are love and I am trying to remember this all of 2020. Happy New Year 😊
I love you so much for calming my anxiety about what are we supposed to do within our twenties!! So much pressure in living such an active live, when we actually have all the time in the world, that's why I'm an advocate of enjoying life and doing our best at all times. Thanks for talking about this... coming from a young traveler, means a lot to me.
I spotted your channel not too long ago and fell in love with it ever since. You are such an inspiration to me, not only through sharing your amazing and aesthetic lifestyle and your journey of travelling, which I literally dream of, but also through your way of thinking. You made me think of certain things from a different perspective, you made me realize the gratefulness of life and encourage me to travel, you helped me to appreciate the really important moments even more, as well as to care less about what other people think about me and my style. Thank you Elena for inspiring me in so many ways and making me more confident in everything I’m doing!!
Hey would love to see more of these chatty videos of that's something you'd be interested in making. I found the topics of body image and spirituality especially interesting x
i would love to see a video of you talking about your college experience, what you studied in college, how you edit your videos and do the awesome overlays, or a finance video?! I know you talked about using Mint but maybe you could do an in-depth video? love you so much stay beautiful
Yes please make a video about making adult friends!!! I stayed in my home town after college because I was afraid to move to another city where I didn’t know anyone. I love my family and friends here but I definitely want to experience more of the world.
thank you so much for this video elena 💓💓 it truly stands out as one of the most genuine and relatable videos i’ve ever seen on youtube. i would love to see a separate video on loneliness as I think it’s something way more people are experienced than we think because nobody is talking about it
i'm also in the stage of discovering and realizing what I truly believe. the spirituality section of your video is just timely with my situation right now. been struggling with faith and truth.
This was so nice just getting to know you! It's so reassuring to know that I am not the only one struggling with things -- I can definitely relate with you on the topics you discussed and I appreciate you for being vulnerable and being you:)
omg heck YES, Elena merch would be so sick!! Also thanks for this video in general, Q&A’s can always be kind of awkward and scary to do but I love that you’re so willing to be vulnerable and open with us. We love getting to know you more!!
I love hearing more about your life/struggles etc! Esp. what you said about branching out from your bubble and figuring out what you believe on your own. I have a similar background and that’s something I’ve been doing since I graduated last year. It’s weird lol. Also I’m turning 23 soon and possibly moving to NYC so a video on making friends as an adult/in a new city would be awesome!
if you havent heard of it, theres a podcast called This Cultural Moment and it talks about deconstructionism so so so well, i highly recommend taking a listen to as much as you can of the podcast! theres like 3 seasons and they are amazinggg.
Can I just say, I was feeling kinda sad about the new year which is usually quite rare as I am a pretty happy and optimistic person. I’m only 14 aha but I was like ohh life goes so fast! But this video made me slow down to normal pace again and appreciate the present more! thank youuuu 💗😊
Elena, this was one of my favorite videos you’ve made. Just so honest and got me thinking! Please elaborate (either through blog or more videos), I want it all! Happy new year.
I think I understand a little where you are coming from with your spiritual beliefs. I am being raised in a pretty chill diverse Christian environment and I still hold those beliefs, but I'm still deeply thinking and trying to investigate into what it is I believe. I am a Christian but at the same time, I feel restricted by my beliefs mentally instead of fulfilled, if that makes sense. I think my 2020 New Year's Resolution will be to stay off the internet more and spend priceless time finding out more about who I am. I wish you all a Happy New Year! God bless!
John 8:32 is Jesus telling his followers that the truth of who he is will set them free. Praying you find that freedom this year. It’s hard but better then anything
Elena, I’ve been watching you for over a year now and while you seem super nice, I still feel like there’s a barrier between the real you and the social media you. For example, when talking about your spirituality you state the facts about where you are with it and how you grew up, but we don’t get to hear how YOU feel about it. What did you like about growing up in your community, what didn’t you like, what are you realizing now, what do you still feel strongly about? It might be a Californian thing (I’m from there), as a way to avoid offending people or letting people know you too well in order to keep up a wall, but as an influencer there’s a level of trust that should be established. It doesn’t need to be about things like spirituality or other things you might not want to speak openly about, but take a page from Ashley’s content and share more of your opinions on things. Your ideas are valid and deserve to be heard, and it will encourage other girls and women to speak their minds about things!
At the same time, I think it's really healthy not to overshare and to keep some parts of your life just for yourself. You should only share at a level that feels comfortable for you, we love watching your videos but we're not entitled to know all your thoughts and every aspect of your life! I thought you struck the right balance here, but you should continue to do what feels right to you (and that may evolve over time!)
Hey Elena, wish you a very happy new year! Thank you for making this video so much. It reminded me to take my time to figure out things while i'm still entering my early twenties and not be super stressed about it (cuz sometimes i keep comparing my accomplishments to others and keep forgetting mine ). Thanks for reminding me to be grateful for the unique experiences i've had. And I'd love to see a whole video on body image and positivity.
The part where you talked about loneliness and feeling alone with these superficial friendships really resonated with me! I would love to hear about your experience/advice on how to reach out and make new friends, because even tho I am pretty outgoing once I meet people, I struggle to take the first step! Great video Elena, love your content and I’m so excited for new things to come🧡🥰
i also was a chubby middle schooler and joined cross country as a sophomore in high school. i lost weight while running and while i loved the sport and being part of a team, but it's been hard over the past two years since graduating high school to feel like 1.) my workouts are enough/worthwhile because running was so intense and 2.) to be comfortable in my body as i've gained the weight back that i lost in high school. wondering if you feel the same way? loved this video it's so nice to see youtubers being so open :)
*awh your channel is always refreshing and enjoyable, but I did notice you were straying away (even if by accident) from the more personal subjects. Timely video! and your hair looks stunning! And I agree with the over travel not being sustainable! And your top is super cute!*
I always tell my friends that I love being lonesome, but I hate being lonely. I feel that those two are completely different feelings. It took me a long time to understand that.
get yourself a pantene sponsorship or something! the comments clearly want that and go get ur bread! also, definitely keep being honest about things you're going through. it's incredibly engaging and it's nice knowing you're not alone. your content/vibe is great but sometimes it can seem surreal. great video!
Please do a video of loneliness! I move around a lot, and find talking to people very easy but I don’t know how to turn meeting people into friendship... ya know? Thanks for the video 🥰
Loved this video! I feel like your views align with mine in so many things. Would love to hear more about how to make friends in a new city/while traveling!
Don’t let societal or family pressure or box you into a certain way of living! Ive met unhappy & happy white picket fence types and also happy&unhappy hippy carefree types. Dont feel so much pressure in your 20s. Work with deligence but your life isnt over if you dont hit your milestones by 30
Cool to hear where you’re at with spirituality/faith... it’s so true that we can often be living in a bubble without considering what the foundations are! I think a great place to start is Jesus’ resurrection...did he really rise from the dead? Is he God, like he claimed to be?
A video on making friends in a new city would be great! I'm graduating from college in a few months and am probably moving far from home in the near future.
I'd also love to see you do political talks with us, like what are your ideas on climate change? (I of course do kind of know what you think about it, but you could like talk to us like you would on a blog and share ideas on how we all can help make the world a better place. Lol I don't know if you get what I mean. Of course you can't always share every political opinion you have, but I believe speaking up is important and you seem like the kind of person to agree with me! :-)
I related to the part were you talk about living in your 20s and how en I’m in college in my last semester before I graduate, getting my associates degree. Rn I feel like I really want to take a gap year before entering the nursing program for my bachelors degree. To take time in traveling enjoying life and not rushing into things bc I feel like we have all the Time in the world to grow up and have adult responsibilities and also take time to study for my tese exam to get and I just don’t want pressure to study study and get admitted bc we have all the time in the world . So bascially I just want not to feel so much pressure especially from my parents who want me to go straight in bc of financial help so idk but just feel like putting it out there. Thank you whoever reads or has any advice to take time off.
One video idea I’d like is something around transitioning from college to “real life”. I’m entering my senior year and even though you are just a few years old than me I feel like you are so much more together!
I get really excited about change and new chapters but recently I’ve been feeling some grief about moving on from childhood/adolescence and into young adulthood. Maybe that doesn’t resonate with you but if it does I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Happy 2020!🥳
charlotte PLEASE DO THIS ELENA
I agree!! Want to see that so much!
My 2020-2023 goal is to have Elenas hair
honestly, same.
I second this!!! :(
Fr same and i just chopped mine above my shoulders oops
@@izzlechappstick I chopped my hair then found this channel and had immediate regrets
.......Her hair is amazing!🥰👏🏻
whenever i feel off in my body i like to remind myself that i am just a spirit in a fleshy vessel and that it is the home to my soul so i must take care of it and nourish it like i would a plant love you manifesting that i run into you while im visiting new york next week :-)
This video was so genuine and lovely. It’s so easy to idolize youtubers in your head, but your realness in this video reminded me you’re a human just like me. A comforting reminder to also not be so hard on myself.
would love to hear more abt making friends in a new city!!
Yes! I definitely resonate with the struggle to make friends. I just finished my first semester at a new school and have found how difficult it can be to establish strong relationships with people, especially with those that don’t know my past; it can be daunting! But you’re right, pushing yourself to reach out to those people first is super important
id love to see a journaling video about how you set out your day or reflect on various aspects of your day
hi elena, i’ve been watching your videos for a while and i genuinely want to thank you for helping me with self care. your videos show me that it’s so important to care for yourself and do things that make you happy. i also am so impressed with every video you put out. it seems like you really love what you do and not to mention your editing and video aesthetic is awesome. love you girl❤️
I'd love a full video dedicated to making great friendships in a new city! I'm 22 and moved to NYC and crave beautiful friendships here yet don't really know how to go about it. I'd also love more content from you where you're as open as this, it's more authentic and honest
i turned 21 recently and the things you say about being in your 20s and figuring out what you want to do comforted me so much. thank you so so much
Yesss you're not alone! We have so much time
My favorite point you made is that sad loneliness ≠ content in solitude. Thank you! It can be hard to express correctly sometimes to others.
Yes exactly! It's all about the mindset you approach the situation with
I honestly really love these vulnerable sit-down videos. It is so comforting to hear about others' experiences and allows us all to learn from one another. Thank you for sharing your heart!
woke up this morning and used this video as a podcast while i deep cleaned my room 🥰 happy new year everyone, and may it be prosperous for you!
I'm so glad you can be so open with your subscribers! It feels like a talk with you rather just another UA-cam video. Thank you for your honesty! You are amazing.
ah yay i'm so glad it felt that way! I love talking with yo all
I've always thought"I'm the only person who goes where I go all the time" as well :) Well, something along those lines, I just liked that you said that :)
I would love to see a video on the loneliness thing and especially how you build new friendships etc. Wish you a great 2020!
Instead of focusing on what my body looks like, I am trying to focus on what my body can do for me. She allows me to wrap my arms around my loved ones, pet my cat, feel love from others, and give love back. Our bodies are love and I am trying to remember this all of 2020. Happy New Year 😊
This is beautiful. What my womanly body can do for me. Love it!
i would love a vid on loneliness/how to make friends !! love u happy new year :,)
I love you so much for calming my anxiety about what are we supposed to do within our twenties!! So much pressure in living such an active live, when we actually have all the time in the world, that's why I'm an advocate of enjoying life and doing our best at all times. Thanks for talking about this... coming from a young traveler, means a lot to me.
I would love to see a video dedicated to body image and your experiences ❤
Loved this more personal q&a type of video!!
thank you so much for making this video. Hearing other peoples experiences and struggles, really helps others not to feel so alone, so thank you elena
I spotted your channel not too long ago and fell in love with it ever since. You are such an inspiration to me, not only through sharing your amazing and aesthetic lifestyle and your journey of travelling, which I literally dream of, but also through your way of thinking. You made me think of certain things from a different perspective, you made me realize the gratefulness of life and encourage me to travel, you helped me to appreciate the really important moments even more, as well as to care less about what other people think about me and my style. Thank you Elena for inspiring me in so many ways and making me more confident in everything I’m doing!!
Hey would love to see more of these chatty videos of that's something you'd be interested in making. I found the topics of body image and spirituality especially interesting x
i would love to see a video of you talking about your college experience, what you studied in college, how you edit your videos and do the awesome overlays, or a finance video?! I know you talked about using Mint but maybe you could do an in-depth video? love you so much stay beautiful
You are a remarkable woman 😍 I love your openness, you have shared a lot of your life and we love that 💕
Would love to hear more about your religious journey if you’re comfortable with that ! Love the channel and your videos!! Happy new year :)
Yes please make a video about making adult friends!!! I stayed in my home town after college because I was afraid to move to another city where I didn’t know anyone. I love my family and friends here but I definitely want to experience more of the world.
Yesss these are the answers I’ve been waiting for
thank you so much for this video elena 💓💓 it truly stands out as one of the most genuine and relatable videos i’ve ever seen on youtube. i would love to see a separate video on loneliness as I think it’s something way more people are experienced than we think because nobody is talking about it
i'm also in the stage of discovering and realizing what I truly believe. the spirituality section of your video is just timely with my situation right now. been struggling with faith and truth.
This was so nice just getting to know you! It's so reassuring to know that I am not the only one struggling with things -- I can definitely relate with you on the topics you discussed and I appreciate you for being vulnerable and being you:)
You should do a video about your top book/reading suggestions! I’ve been trying to read more ‘life inspiration’ & I trust/want your advice
omg heck YES, Elena merch would be so sick!! Also thanks for this video in general, Q&A’s can always be kind of awkward and scary to do but I love that you’re so willing to be vulnerable and open with us. We love getting to know you more!!
Would love to see some sustainable merch! It would be amazing if you vlogged the creation process behind it too :)
Would've never thought Fletcher is 29!
I love hearing more about your life/struggles etc! Esp. what you said about branching out from your bubble and figuring out what you believe on your own. I have a similar background and that’s something I’ve been doing since I graduated last year. It’s weird lol. Also I’m turning 23 soon and possibly moving to NYC so a video on making friends as an adult/in a new city would be awesome!
Yes, I'll definitely be making a video on it!
if you havent heard of it, theres a podcast called This Cultural Moment and it talks about deconstructionism so so so well, i highly recommend taking a listen to as much as you can of the podcast! theres like 3 seasons and they are amazinggg.
Can I just say, I was feeling kinda sad about the new year which is usually quite rare as I am a pretty happy and optimistic person. I’m only 14 aha but I was like ohh life goes so fast! But this video made me slow down to normal pace again and appreciate the present more! thank youuuu 💗😊
Elena, this was one of my favorite videos you’ve made. Just so honest and got me thinking! Please elaborate (either through blog or more videos), I want it all! Happy new year.
Your Q&A video✨💝 This is New Year’s gift❤️
Love how honest you were here!!
I think I understand a little where you are coming from with your spiritual beliefs. I am being raised in a pretty chill diverse Christian environment and I still hold those beliefs, but I'm still deeply thinking and trying to investigate into what it is I believe. I am a Christian but at the same time, I feel restricted by my beliefs mentally instead of fulfilled, if that makes sense. I think my 2020 New Year's Resolution will be to stay off the internet more and spend priceless time finding out more about who I am. I wish you all a Happy New Year! God bless!
John 8:32 is Jesus telling his followers that the truth of who he is will set them free. Praying you find that freedom this year. It’s hard but better then anything
Watching this video while eating ice cream was sooo good💫 thanks elena for the talk and share all that with us
I truly enjoyed this video! It was so great hearing your more personal thoughts on life, if not how you're doing in general :)
The topics on this video were so great 😍 please do this more often! ✨
Would be interesting to know more about the loneliness topic!:) love your video! 😊
I'd love to see some cinematic/ short film type of things. I think it would be fun to play up on the different cultures of New York
Elena, I’ve been watching you for over a year now and while you seem super nice, I still feel like there’s a barrier between the real you and the social media you. For example, when talking about your spirituality you state the facts about where you are with it and how you grew up, but we don’t get to hear how YOU feel about it. What did you like about growing up in your community, what didn’t you like, what are you realizing now, what do you still feel strongly about?
It might be a Californian thing (I’m from there), as a way to avoid offending people or letting people know you too well in order to keep up a wall, but as an influencer there’s a level of trust that should be established. It doesn’t need to be about things like spirituality or other things you might not want to speak openly about, but take a page from Ashley’s content and share more of your opinions on things. Your ideas are valid and deserve to be heard, and it will encourage other girls and women to speak their minds about things!
At the same time, I think it's really healthy not to overshare and to keep some parts of your life just for yourself. You should only share at a level that feels comfortable for you, we love watching your videos but we're not entitled to know all your thoughts and every aspect of your life! I thought you struck the right balance here, but you should continue to do what feels right to you (and that may evolve over time!)
Love Q&A’s like this! So honest!
I absolutely love your videos ! definitely my fav :)
Hey Elena, wish you a very happy new year! Thank you for making this video so much. It reminded me to take my time to figure out things while i'm still entering my early twenties and not be super stressed about it (cuz sometimes i keep comparing my accomplishments to others and keep forgetting mine ). Thanks for reminding me to be grateful for the unique experiences i've had. And I'd love to see a whole video on body image and positivity.
your music taste is impeccable
The part where you talked about loneliness and feeling alone with these superficial friendships really resonated with me! I would love to hear about your experience/advice on how to reach out and make new friends, because even tho I am pretty outgoing once I meet people, I struggle to take the first step! Great video Elena, love your content and I’m so excited for new things to come🧡🥰
i also was a chubby middle schooler and joined cross country as a sophomore in high school. i lost weight while running and while i loved the sport and being part of a team, but it's been hard over the past two years since graduating high school to feel like 1.) my workouts are enough/worthwhile because running was so intense and 2.) to be comfortable in my body as i've gained the weight back that i lost in high school. wondering if you feel the same way? loved this video it's so nice to see youtubers being so open :)
Your hair looks amazing in every video! Hair goals! Can you do an updated hair routine?
Loved this video! Would like to see a video about how you style your hair and products that you use because it is looking amazing!
Listening to you talk calms me down :)
congrats on 400k omg!!! 🥰🥰
Loved that you acknowledged the issue of self love and body image❤️ I struggle a loot, would love to hear more of it💕
omg the defining decade is one of my favorite books!!!
Excited to see what you end up writing about on the blog!
*awh your channel is always refreshing and enjoyable, but I did notice you were straying away (even if by accident) from the more personal subjects. Timely video! and your hair looks stunning! And I agree with the over travel not being sustainable! And your top is super cute!*
I use your glossier link literally every time I order thank u ❤️❤️
I always tell my friends that I love being lonesome, but I hate being lonely. I feel that those two are completely different feelings. It took me a long time to understand that.
get yourself a pantene sponsorship or something! the comments clearly want that and go get ur bread!
also, definitely keep being honest about things you're going through. it's incredibly engaging and it's nice knowing you're not alone. your content/vibe is great but sometimes it can seem surreal. great video!
Please do a video of loneliness! I move around a lot, and find talking to people very easy but I don’t know how to turn meeting people into friendship... ya know? Thanks for the video 🥰
You are an inspiration Elena :)
yo I'd love a video about your exercise habits!
thanks for being so open and honest
I really loved this! It’s nice to get to know you on a more personal level :)
Loved this video! I hope you‘ll do more of this type of videos where we can get to know you a little and also wish you a happy new year 🥳 🧡
proud of you x
Woah she's gorgeous 🏵
I love you !!! always so proud of you
Loved this video! I feel like your views align with mine in so many things. Would love to hear more about how to make friends in a new city/while traveling!
I always love these videos!
The link to your top doesn’t work! I’m dying to know where it’s from it’s so pretty
I love you! have a great next yearrrr! 💙💙
such a beauty, loved this video x
Yay thank you!
How do you curl your? Please make a video. It is SO pretty!
Don’t let societal or family pressure or box you into a certain way of living! Ive met unhappy & happy white picket fence types and also happy&unhappy hippy carefree types. Dont feel so much pressure in your 20s. Work with deligence but your life isnt over if you dont hit your milestones by 30
please make a video about body insecurities etc!!
❤️ you Elena. Have an incredible 2020!!
Cool to hear where you’re at with spirituality/faith... it’s so true that we can often be living in a bubble without considering what the foundations are! I think a great place to start is Jesus’ resurrection...did he really rise from the dead? Is he God, like he claimed to be?
Can you do a hair routine?
love your top😍
There's nothing wrong with cheesy sayings! They're cheesy for a reason, they're overused for good reason. Keep using them! Loved the video
Can you make a video about college/making/friends/how you decided where to go? I'm in college right now but am definitely feeling pretty lost.
yes yes yes to the making new friends video!
i struggle making friends so much :(
A video on making friends in a new city would be great! I'm graduating from college in a few months and am probably moving far from home in the near future.
Yes I'll make one!
So beautiful. Love you, Elena. :)
Please make a video about finding friends!
Girl that's wild you're working with UN organisations! That must be really interesting, good for you!
I'd also love to see you do political talks with us, like what are your ideas on climate change? (I of course do kind of know what you think about it, but you could like talk to us like you would on a blog and share ideas on how we all can help make the world a better place. Lol I don't know if you get what I mean. Of course you can't always share every political opinion you have, but I believe speaking up is important and you seem like the kind of person to agree with me! :-)
do you have a blog since this is being sponsored by squarespace? i hope so! id love to read
I related to the part were you talk about living in your 20s and how en I’m in college in my last semester before I graduate, getting my associates degree. Rn I feel like I really want to take a gap year before entering the nursing program for my bachelors degree. To take time in traveling enjoying life and not rushing into things bc I feel like we have all the Time in the world to grow up and have adult responsibilities and also take time to study for my tese exam to get and I just don’t want pressure to study study and get admitted bc we have all the time in the world . So bascially I just want not to feel so much pressure especially from my parents who want me to go straight in bc of financial help so idk but just feel like putting it out there. Thank you whoever reads or has any advice to take time off.
would definitely buy your merch :)))
PLEASE do a video on how to make friends/ loneliness ❤️❤️
I will!
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I love your soul
Please do a body image video!