OMG! I just realized who this is. By chance one day at school, I found his book men are from mars women are from venus. That book was there for weeks and finally I asked if I could take it since nobody’s claimed it. That book has helped me a lot to see into male perspective! It’s fate that I just happened to see this video too!! 💜
Wrinkles are not a sign of aging. They are a sign of mineral deficiency. Premature graying is a sign of a different mineral deficiency. There are 12 mineral salts, we become deficient in.
I think it takes time to get to know somebody if it’s exiting at the beginning and you feel ooo this could be the one then a few weeks down the line you start seeing red flags the most important thing is it doesn’t matter if he is the wrong one it’s what you do about it if you just leave the relationship and say sorry this isn’t for me that’s important ❤️
RED FLAGS: He gets phone calls from other women. He's at your best friend's house early in the morning. He's married. He forces himself on you. He criticizes your body and behavior. He yells at you, because you said "no". You have to pay for the entire meal. You have to pay for the gas in his car. He drops you off early so he can meet someone else. He has other regular dates every day of the week. He doesn't take showers. He doesn't wash his clothes. His house is a pigpen. His house wreaks from a sink full of dirty dishes.
I loved Antia! Such wonderful advice from Dr. Gray! I’m currently reading “Eight dates” together with this wonderful man I’m dating, and so far is great! The more we progress on the book the more we know about each other and build the emotional connection without going fully physical! Love your videos! Please keep them coming! 🙏❤️
Divorced my soulmate on 16 Oct 2020 after he disgarded me. After 5 months he wants to date me again. I can not trust him again. He could not answer me if we are now exclusive. Think its best to just walk away
The conundrum I am considering is this: Why do *YT channels watched by men* provide totally different advice from channels providing *advice to women?* With this said however, what I appreciate about Mr Gray's advice here is his highlighting the importance of monogamy and perseverance. Our throw-away society is selling us a lie : that trust, loyalty and commitment are not foundational, especially for men ( I suspect for evolutionary reasons) but for women also (I am told!) when they are looking for a long term relationships.
What if he’s someone with the Avoidant attachment style? He courted me and was passionate for 3 months. Then he withdrew, got cool, but still committed to me. Now after 16 months I am tired of seeking some level of physical affection. So I need to break up with him.
A+ MATERIAL. Women don't know how to vet or they do instinctive but get swayed by bad boys. The boring guy is what's best but they don't know and end up getting wrecked by bad boys only coming out emotionally damaged.
Thank you Dr. John!!! Looking for a partner...well...pandemic is a challenge no s**t ...so, please visit us and feel good yourSelf ! Thank you for this!!! .... why not get in touch with that joyous place and bring on the feel good principles before the new year starts by....Start new year resolutions as a habit already out there .....sign up on Eventbrite for a 3 part series celebrating feeling good!🤍💜💙💚💛🧡❤️ ...and it’s all free! One time airing!
I loved this video and John's wisdom - thank you SO much. I loved when he said that feminine intuition comes only when you are stress free and then you know if he is the one!
Here again, John :) I think life is so complicated. My husband passed and now what? Lucky to have great fun friends, but no male stuff. Happy my art is great and going well. Happy Trails. :) LEVEL 5 is a fantasy- Golden Ticket.
When he says that when you reach a deeper level of intimacy, you become more uncertain and insecure. Then tend to overreact, I have this issue all the time with my boyfriend who I live with. First man I’ve had this deep of a connection with, most comfortable I’ve ever felt in a relationship, and I often have uncertainties and feel insecure when my needy needs aren’t being met.
I love your videos & presentation.. Thank you..❤️ Would you consider a video on 'breadcrumbers' & 'time wasters'... There is so much of this in dating.. 🙄
You had me till you said to go for boring guy. I have been goi g for boring guys my whole life they are the same as the hot guys just now you get your heart broke by a boring guy. There is nothing wrong with dating gvan attractive give just don't have sex with him right way. You can take your time and get to know somebody you're physically attracted to just as well as you can take your time and get to know somebody you're not physically attracted to. Why in the world would I even say yes to a guy who I'm not attracted to you I am not at that point in my life at one point in my life I would have said yes to just about anybody. All my relationships failed because when it came to that commitment part for me I didn't want to commit to somebody who didn't excite me he wasn't attractive or whatever so I don't know maybe my pattern is different than yours but I'm not getting any more boring. Why should I have to date a boring guy
You're right. I think the same. That is nothing wrost than have your heart broken by a not so attractive guy. You feel like sh1t. I rather be rejected by a super hot guy.
Is it possible for a relationship to begin as a no strings attached type, and then for both partners decide they want it to be more? Or should we assume a relationship that begins without real meaningful intention can never become something more?
I would come from a place of saying that by giving a man no strings attached as the bar you set for yourself for him to be with you, it’s like having a trophy you bought for yourself vs a trophy you won in competition. Which one is important to you? It’s the same trophy. But which one would you feel good about and want to display- the one that required nothing of you? Or the one that required your time and effort? Sure people will say “I married my one night stand!” Or whatever else. That’s rare. That’s like selling your home because you really hope you can buy a mansion by winning the lottery. Start out with being clear that you would like a man who is seeking to be in a relationship.
It is NOT TRUE that immediate sexual attraction means he is not the one. My boyfriend and I had sex on the first date and then the emotions, intimacy and safeness grew. That’s a silly statement to make and he said as if it’s an absolute in every case.
The problem with these videos (not only this one) is they put everybody in the same basket, one formula fit all. We know is not like that, life has more layers and people have more than one intention. It may work sometimes but often does not
Hi there, Brody here, I'd say that means he's either lying or hoping the other women will also give him sex at some point, or just looking for someone better
I agree. 99.9 percent of men's natural smell does not agree with me. I have talked with other women, and they don't have such a sensitive sense of smell as I do.
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OMG! I just realized who this is. By chance one day at school, I found his book men are from mars women are from venus. That book was there for weeks and finally I asked if I could take it since nobody’s claimed it. That book has helped me a lot to see into male perspective! It’s fate that I just happened to see this video too!! 💜
Skyla how amazing! Nothing happens by coincidence. I have more videos of him coming up next week so stay tuned
So true! And will do🧡
Girl I had that book twice. Loaned each to 2 ppl never got them back 😳 I need a 3rd one ugh
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I love this guys attitude! And he does NOT look almost 70😳
So glad you liked the video Skyla and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
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Wrinkles are not a sign of aging. They are a sign of mineral deficiency. Premature graying is a sign of a different mineral deficiency. There are 12 mineral salts, we become deficient in.
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I think it takes time to get to know somebody if it’s exiting at the beginning and you feel ooo this could be the one then a few weeks down the line you start seeing red flags the most important thing is it doesn’t matter if he is the wrong one it’s what you do about it if you just leave the relationship and say sorry this isn’t for me that’s important ❤️
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Yes, after 3 dates, I usually know if it isn't for me.
RED FLAGS:
He gets phone calls from other women.
He's at your best friend's house early in the morning.
He's married.
He forces himself on you.
He criticizes your body and behavior.
He yells at you, because you said "no".
You have to pay for the entire meal.
You have to pay for the gas in his car.
He drops you off early so he can meet someone else.
He has other regular dates every day of the week.
He doesn't take showers.
He doesn't wash his clothes.
His house is a pigpen.
His house wreaks from a sink full of dirty dishes.
I loved Antia! Such wonderful advice from Dr. Gray! I’m currently reading “Eight dates” together with this wonderful man I’m dating, and so far is great! The more we progress on the book the more we know about each other and build the emotional connection without going fully physical! Love your videos! Please keep them coming! 🙏❤️
So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
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Divorced my soulmate on 16 Oct 2020 after he disgarded me. After 5 months he wants to date me again. I can not trust him again. He could not answer me if we are now exclusive. Think its best to just walk away
I am not an expert. But trust your instincts.
Hi Karin, Brody here. Yes I'd say he has to prove his intentions to you if you are to "date" him again
Sounds like a narcissist
Or u marriad ??
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This guy knows his stuff!!
The conundrum I am considering is this:
Why do *YT channels watched by men* provide totally different advice from channels providing *advice to women?* With this said however, what I appreciate about Mr Gray's advice here is his highlighting the importance of monogamy and perseverance. Our throw-away society is selling us a lie : that trust, loyalty and commitment are not foundational, especially for men ( I suspect for evolutionary reasons) but for women also (I am told!) when they are looking for a long term relationships.
What if he’s someone with the Avoidant attachment style? He courted me and was passionate for 3 months. Then he withdrew, got cool, but still committed to me. Now after 16 months I am tired of seeking some level of physical affection. So I need to break up with him.
Dr. Gray to those women who want to remain abstinence until marriage how would you speak to these stages?
Excellent video!! Loved the advice from Dr. Gray. Thank you ❤️
So glad you liked the video J Sol and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
Interesting! I follow the Bible on saving sex for marriage though
A+ MATERIAL. Women don't know how to vet or they do instinctive but get swayed by bad boys. The boring guy is what's best but they don't know and end up getting wrecked by bad boys only coming out emotionally damaged.
So true
I’m learning so much from your videos. Thanks 😊.
Yay! So glad your getting so much value out of it. :)
Thank you for this! I love this short, but impactful, video!
So glad you liked the video Chris and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
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Thank you Dr. John!!! Looking for a partner...well...pandemic is a challenge no s**t ...so, please visit us and feel good yourSelf ! Thank you for this!!! .... why not get in touch with that joyous place and bring on the feel good principles before the new year starts by....Start new year resolutions as a habit already out there .....sign up on Eventbrite for a 3 part series celebrating feeling good!🤍💜💙💚💛🧡❤️ ...and it’s all free! One time airing!
This was good!!!!
I loved this video and John's wisdom - thank you SO much. I loved when he said that feminine intuition comes only when you are stress free and then you know if he is the one!
So glad you liked the video Milena and great to have you as part of our community! 😊
Intuition seems like an illusion. Conclusions should be based upon facts.
Here again, John :) I think life is so complicated. My husband passed and now what? Lucky to have great fun friends, but no male stuff. Happy my art is great and going well. Happy Trails. :) LEVEL 5 is a fantasy- Golden Ticket.
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What is your favorite point or top question from the video? 🤔
When he says that when you reach a deeper level of intimacy, you become more uncertain and insecure. Then tend to overreact, I have this issue all the time with my boyfriend who I live with. First man I’ve had this deep of a connection with, most comfortable I’ve ever felt in a relationship, and I often have uncertainties and feel insecure when my needy needs aren’t being met.
This is great advice! Patterns in dating and attraction to men is very insightful within my childhood. Thank you!
Thanks for saying it’s ok to have doubts
I love your videos & presentation.. Thank you..❤️
Would you consider a video on 'breadcrumbers' & 'time wasters'... There is so much of this in dating.. 🙄
Glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community Kim. Great ideas for future videos! :)
What are bread crumbers and time wasters?
You had me till you said to go for boring guy. I have been goi g for boring guys my whole life they are the same as the hot guys just now you get your heart broke by a boring guy. There is nothing wrong with dating gvan attractive give just don't have sex with him right way. You can take your time and get to know somebody you're physically attracted to just as well as you can take your time and get to know somebody you're not physically attracted to. Why in the world would I even say yes to a guy who I'm not attracted to you I am not at that point in my life at one point in my life I would have said yes to just about anybody. All my relationships failed because when it came to that commitment part for me I didn't want to commit to somebody who didn't excite me he wasn't attractive or whatever so I don't know maybe my pattern is different than yours but I'm not getting any more boring. Why should I have to date a boring guy
You're right. I think the same. That is nothing wrost than have your heart broken by a not so attractive guy. You feel like sh1t. I rather be rejected by a super hot guy.
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Is it possible for a relationship to begin as a no strings attached type, and then for both partners decide they want it to be more?
Or should we assume a relationship that begins without real meaningful intention can never become something more?
I would come from a place of saying that by giving a man no strings attached as the bar you set for yourself for him to be with you, it’s like having a trophy you bought for yourself vs a trophy you won in competition. Which one is important to you? It’s the same trophy. But which one would you feel good about and want to display- the one that required nothing of you? Or the one that required your time and effort? Sure people will say “I married my one night stand!” Or whatever else. That’s rare. That’s like selling your home because you really hope you can buy a mansion by winning the lottery. Start out with being clear that you would like a man who is seeking to be in a relationship.
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I'd rather just be friends without sex. It's more fun and less demanding.
It is NOT TRUE that immediate sexual attraction means he is not the one. My boyfriend and I had sex on the first date and then the emotions, intimacy and safeness grew. That’s a silly statement to make and he said as if it’s an absolute in every case.
I agree. This is over simplistic.
I agree, this men is telling women to settle with men they don’t find attractive.
The problem with these videos (not only this one) is they put everybody in the same basket, one formula fit all. We know is not like that, life has more layers and people have more than one intention. It may work sometimes but often does not
to be fair, he didn't put it as an absolute, he said if you have a pattern of feeling immediately attracted to the "bad"/unavailable men
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and Lala Kent, kicked it the first night she met Randall Emmett and they are engaged and having a baby. Explain that...
Let's see it last
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What do you think about no contact?
Interesting, but it's foolish to believe everyone or anything.
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Is she a teenager or a child?
What if a man is only having sex with me, but is still going out with other women. What does this mean?
Hi there, Brody here, I'd say that means he's either lying or hoping the other women will also give him sex at some point, or just looking for someone better
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Meaning you’re just an option.
How a man smell is important to me🤭 Its about the DNA...
I agree. 99.9 percent of men's natural smell does not agree with me. I have talked with other women, and they don't have such a sensitive sense of smell as I do.
I don't like men that smell like their mother's shampoo.
Men and women attitude deference.deeper relashinship but not successful