Stress on your child : it means disaster : | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2022
- Stress in early childhood is the main cause of Adul behavioural problems
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.
بچوں کی تربیت کرنے میں سب سے اہم بات ہے کہ صبر ، صبر اور صرف صبر
بے شک اللّٰہ صبر کرنے والوں کے ساتھ ہے
Bht khubsurat BT ki ap ny...zindage badal skti
Allah Pak hmain behtreen walidain baneny ki tofeeq de aur Sahi tarbiyat krny ma hmari madad kray aameen
bht acha tareeqa hy samjhany ka allah hum sub ko bacho ki naik tarbiat krny waly maa baap banaey ameen
Ya Allah sb fathers k dil m bchon k liye narmi r piyar dal dy Ameen
Ameeen
اللہ تعالیٰ آپ سے راضی ہوں ❤️🌹
You are the best ... I always feel guilty when I listen to you .... Trying to be a good mom but sometimes your own stress overtake
yes ur right same here
Same here :(
Mashaallaha sir.dr.javed.iqbal.naice.speak.............
Yes you are right
yes same here too...
I think for this purpose we should change our educational system
Agree
یا اللہ پاک میرے بچوں کی مزید اچھی تربیت کرنے میں میری میرے شوہر کی اور تمام والدین کی مدد فرما آمین 🤲
Ameen
Ameeen
Ameen
Ameen
Aameen
My mom and dad are fighting from years... And this makes us alot stressful
sad 😒
Allah ye lrye khtm kray gharon se
Talk to your parents yourself to make your home peaceful
@@simplifyradiologytalking doesn’t help. Ye dimaghi mareez ho chukkay hain. They don’t listen
Ohhhh ..sorry to hear
Dr. Sab Allah apki zindgi mai barkat dey ...
1 baat ye keh apki baat boht simple lagti hai pehli dafa mai lagta hai samajh aa gai lekin dubara sunney se koi nya point samny aata hai ...
2 dusri baat mai samjhta hu keh ye aik ba qaeda subject bna ke hamary nisab mai dakhil karna chahiye hai ...
Dil se ye chahta hu ...
The main reason for stress in students is comparison with other students. Especially in teens
U Totally rite brother😔
Studies pressure these days... Educational system sucks
Agreed. I am in UK and there is no comparison and no burden. I studied here and learn how the difference in teaching style.
@@zaraukeducation communication system??
@@sidwrites..7323 sorry typing mistake. No comparison and no burden until primary school.
Allah mere bacho ko acha hafza ata kr Aameen 😢 mera beta sbq boht mushkil se yad krta Allah pak mere bachy ki مدد frma Aameen 😢😢
May Allah remove all our difficulties and ease all our tasks. Aameen
Ameen
Summa aameen
Aameen ya rabbal alameen
Summa Aameen
Doc sahab, thank you for such amazing parenting guidelines. But please, also discuss behavioural problems of age 7-12, where parents have already done this damage to their children. Please please talk about how to fix n recover this problem in kids. Where due to parents mutual arguments, kids are already affected and don't listen to parents or are hyper and have aggressive behaviours specifically from age 7-12. Buhut Shukria, hamari society ko ap jesay Naseh Ki buhut zarooret hai. ❤
Same request is mine.
What should we do now ..??
😔
How to fix this problem now??
Same request from me please give some advice my son is 13
Same request is mine .
Same reason here sir
Can we have short video on that
Allah hum sb k bachun ko naik raah pe chlae ar aik sacha ashiq e Rasol SAWW bnae aameen
Aameen
Ameeen
nahi nahi : ) ap bohat acha samjatay hain Dr sb hum ap k sath hain,. ap ki muhabtin be rohani tur pr hamray pass ati jati hain..with out net,.. ager zendgi rahi tu inshaallah khaeen pr mulaqaat ho jaey gi,.. ( I am spiritual student )
MashaaAllah u are lectures are so true.
I am feeling so guilty after listening to our lecture. I a mother of 5 kids AlHamdulillah, but sometimes get so stressed as there are so many things going on through out the day and becomes difficult to mange and then I get stressed and irritated. I know I am wrong and In Shaa Allah will over it and not get angry on my kids.
JazakaAllah Khair ur lectures are very motivational.
Dr sahab pahle to bahot thank you aaj m ne pahli baar aapka video dekha aisa laga ke Allah tala ne aapko khaas humare liye bheja h
Most of Pakistani school give stress to students
Teachers give lots of homework
Mentally and physically torcher
Yes Agree, or ye torture mother KO Bhi milta hai individually, or Bachon KO pas karti hai phir, wo Bhi KIA Kare, school wale itna home work itna kaam dete hain, bache KO kuch na bolo to wo pharte hi nhi hain, Samjh nhi aata KIA Kare to KIA Karen..
@@komalmehmood9364 Parents should have to take action against unjustified homework and too much course
@@contentart5169 KOi kuch nhi karta ye hi soch k, k KOi dusra nhi Kar Raha to Humari kon Sune ga, 3rd standard k bache ka bag itna heavy hai k mother se nhi uth raha hota, or wo bag Bechare bache Utha rahe hain
@@komalmehmood9364 I agree with you but All Parents do something for their children
Wonderful information.
I think pre-wedding or during the pregnancy tenure, both parents should get such awareness sessions at hospital level to enable them good practices on patenting..
My father did all these thing to Us and now I give stress to my child I'm sorry I will never I do all these things and I will avoid it.Insha Allah
InshAllah
انشالللہ ۔۔بار۔بار۔خود۔کو۔سمجھائیں۔
Yes me too😢
Allah bless u doc shbb... Hmesha kuch naa kuch seekhny ko milta hy
Sir u r great I always use to listen to ur precious thoughts...ALLAH apko sehat wali lambi Zindagi ata kry Ameen...
Nice guidelines for the parents and teachers.
Sidra kitny bachy hain apky
I invite everyone to listen Quran MAJEED 💝💌💌💝💐
@Shahzaib b7gghuu66
Yes exactly
Bilkul sai bt ha yh mere b 2 bachy chuti wly din yhi bolty han k aj mza ni aya school bht mza ata ha from Spain Madrid
Very important video kash yeh video phly mil jati.information ki kumi ki wajha sy hum sy bht ghalti ho jati hy.Allah pak madad kary ameen.
JazaakAllah doctor sahab. Apne bohat bra ehsaan kia ye bta kr. Allah apko hmesha khush rakhay ameen.
Sir, I really admire your knowledge . I thank to Allah swt that we are blessed to have a teacher like you .
Sir u r great and kind and i wonder that still sincere people like u are still with us❤ thank u so much God we are blessed MashaAllah❤
Dr.sahib ap se iltaja hai bacho ka jab bhi koi topic ho almost 1 hour ya half an hour to baat kiya karain please
Mery jaise insan ko bht kuch seekhna hai khas tor pe bacho ke hawale se
I'm not a mother right now lekin mein chahti hu apne bacho ki achi tarbiyat karna
under constant stress your brain cannot process information accurately and hence your academic performance goes down, you cant get the grades that you want, constant frustration of the parents creates new problems if the child finds a bad company to vent those feelings out.
unfortunately in our society beating and punishing kids physically is a norm.
If your kid is acting different always try to figure out the reason in yourself first then other settings and then fix the underlying problem.
Children behave in a very predictable way.
In psych this leads to oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, Obsessive compulsive disorder, acute stress disorder and PTSd, major depressive disorder, bipolar disorder etc etc.
And remember in children depression presents differently.
Teens usually have a high ego which means whatever they say is right, with time we learn other people have their views also. so when ego is hurt they get depressed.
in our society adults think kids cant get depressed.
Al ham du Lillah Allah pak ka shukr h k ap jaisy behtareen raah numma hamry darmyan moujood hain thank u so much Dr sb
Bilkul sahi sir! Giving stress to kids is a disaster for them!
kash Ap ki videos us time Available hoty .Jab mary betian choti thi...
ایکن ایسا نہیں ہوتا ہمارے معاشرے میں ۔اکثریت
Allah pak ap ko slamat rakhy or Allah pak mere or mery shohar ke madad farmay apny bacho kee or ache tarbeat Karny ke or Allah pak sab k bacho kee hefazat farmay ameen sum ameen
No words for your good words Dr. Sahab, very nice 👍
اللہ تعالیٰ تمام والدین کو اپنے بچوں کی اچھی تربیت کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین۔۔۔۔
Aameen summa aameen
Ameen
Ameen Sum ameen
سر آپ میرے آئیڈیل ھیں سلامت رھیں شاد آباد رھیں
Thanx Dr....big fan of u from 🇮🇳
Aoa sir g mujy mashallah sey ap bhot acha sajhty han bacho k barey me
MashAllah Sir 👍👍👍
Last Year mein Apne mohlay k doston se ye baat karha tha
Wo dost mujhe bewakoof kerhay thay per aaj khushi hue aur aap jese Professor ki baat yehe sahi hai MashAllah Sir thanks for information about Stress free happy life 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Yeh comments dr sahab ke liay naheen baqi sub logon ke liay hain. Mai ne apne bachon pe kabhi sakhti naheen ki 16 saal ki beti hai 11 saal ka aur aek 4 saal ka beta hai. Un ki training maa karti hai mai sirf un se achi achi baaten karta hoon aur apne uper un ki puri zimedari leta hoon. Mera koi bacha yeh kabhi naheen kehta keh baba aap ne meri yeh ya woh khwahish puri naheen ki. Mere do bade wale bache shuroo mai pudhai mai weak the lekin jese jese badi class mai aate gaye apna kaam sumbhalne lage. Aaj kal ke dor mai bache bohot samajh daar hain aur samajh jaate hain keh pudhai kyoon zaroori hai. Bache bechare aap ke yani maa baap ke rehmo karam pe hote hain unhain bohot pyaar dain taake woh bade hokar is mushkil dunya mai kamyab ho saken. Zimedari nibhane ki umer aap ki hai un ki naheen.
I want to like your every video even without listening just because of that you have built a lot of trust in my mind and my heart my most respectable personality. May ALLAH PAK bless you abundantly
Allah apku or taraqqi day Dr sb bht sari duaen apky liye
MASHALLAH so good and interesting videos I love your voice
Yes of course. Very important message for all to understand in real sense
Parents ke sath sath schools bhi bht bara stress contributor hain bacchy ke mind pe...chotay chotay bachon ko 8-2:00 tk bitha ke bs writing pe writing krai ja rahi hoti hy...kaamyaab 99% marks leny ke peechay...😢
Helping video jazak allha
Aslama O alikum sir ap blkul thk keh rhy Hain bachy K lea maa bap EK E hoty I have quintpltes ma Sha Allah or wo hmsha yehi khty Hain K mama K baba or baba Ki mama unhe HM EK E lgty Hain💞
ڈاکڑ۔صاحب۔کے۔سمجھانے۔کا۔انداز۔بھت۔ہی۔اچھا۔ہے۔
Osm mind-blowing information for me as a teacher thanks my ideal ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Bilkul ghlat myn ny apny dimgh myn is bat ko rakhli or isi nafsisti word stress soch soch ky usy zara bhe dantna chor dia or,wo stubborn hogaya
Kash mere parents ne ye sb kuch hme sikhaya hota to hm b achy bachy hoty
Dr Dil to krta he ap bolte Rahe or hm log sunnte Rahe..bht zrort he hm logo ko guidelines ki... Allah apko jazae kher de in kaamo k lie.. amen
Aameen summa aameen
Best ever teacher mentor, who can guide u anywher❤❤❤blessed to have such mentors in our society....
السلام عليكم ورحمۃ اللہ
بہت بہت شکریہ
سر۔۔۔۔
مستقل آپ کی ویڈیوز دیکھ رہا ہوں
اس قوم کو آپ۔اچھی رہنمائی کررہے ہیں
بہت عمدہ
قابل ستائش
دلی مبارکباد
نیک خواہشات
Sir Mari bati 7 year ke hai school Ka bohat stress Lati hai ... ..jab us Ka admition howa to bohat relax the school ko enjoy krti the AK teacher NY Kasi Bachy ko thaper mara bas us din say.. ..nashta ni krti vomiting ati hai bohat zeda stress hai ap please mujy guide kry kesy solve kry
Proud to have stress in an early age
Thanks Almighty For Poverty 😍😎
Only if parents understand this it’s very important topic ty for sharing this hopefully it will help many kids
جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء
Allah kry join family system km ho jay to sb mothers e achi ban jay
ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ
بہت ہی عمدہ نصیحت پروفیسر صاحب زید مجدھم
جزاک اللّٰہ خیرا کثیرا و احسن الجزاء فی الدنیا والاخرہ
MashaAllah keep it up sir..You are great and graceful as always.
thank you hame gaed karne k liye jaza kaAllah
Very nice topic for parents. Thank you sir .Allah apko jaza dy
Wahh sir jee mujh ye sari baten jo aap smjha rhy hn to meri phopho bhi bar bar khti hn k tum bchi ko danti km hi harasa'n bht krti ho is ko main dant khti hu ten sal ki bchi ko dono bazoo sy pkr itna ahded skht ghusy sy jhnjor k khti hun knechy frush py shoes k bin chlny py hath gndy krny py mujh jnoonni qism ka ghusa aata h mein bchi k sath youn krti hu k sotaili maa bhi nhi krti hogi kl sy apk program sun rhi hum bchon k hwaly sy skht qism k afsos pchtawo me ghir rhi hun k ap to skhti sy mna kr rhy hn bchon ko stress dainy sy aur yehi sb kuch ten sal sy me krti aarhi hun ten sal ki beti sy aur beti bhi wo jis ka bap nhi jo sirf ma k sath nanhal k drwazy py pl rhi h to usko to all ready hi bht c mehrumum ka shikar hogi wo baki ksr mery. Be have ny puri kr daini
بہت عمدہ مسرت ہوئی مسرتوں کے ساتھ شکریہ ادا کرتا ہوں
Great zbrdst👍 Allah pk apko r kamyabi ata kry🤲
Sir g u r such a great person Allah pak apko ajar e azeem ata farmaye ameeeen
Ya Allah Mary bacho k trbyt krny ma Mary hsbnd or tmam parents k help kry
This talk is gem piece advice for those still not married (Y) Noting it down !
Love From India 💐💐
Kia bat hai kash mera beta b sir javed bny ameen ❤❤❤❤
Every word is precious n important to practice in daily life
Doctor sahab u r really good guy mahalalah
Please Recite Surat Fatiha For My Lovely Parents
Boht achy questions kiay ap ny
Dr sahib You doing Great job
ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کرتے ہیں
Bohat bohat sukariy
Very nice sir... 🙂
Thankyou so much , love from India ❤️
شندار پروفیسر صاحب ماشاءاللہ
I m feeling very guilty for my son wo b seven years ka h aur me prhayi ko lekr aksar us pay skhti kr jati hn🥺🥺
Absolutely Informative...
JAZAAK ALLAH Khair Dr. Sb... 💝💝
MashaAllah Allah bless you Sir
I said same words to my child when he was going to school ,but here the problem is teachers are not trained also in so called famous schools
Change the school
Buhat achi information.
Dr sab ko buhat important bat kerty huwy kaat diya. Plz dr saab ko apni baat mukammal kerny diya karain. Shukriya.
Plz es topic py mazeed video bnae
Sir yours such informative videos, really have a deep impact on understanding parental caring & child parent relation.
Great job 👍
Jazak Allah doctor sahab .
Mashaallah aap bahut ache s smajhate hai
جزاک اللہ خیرا
Mery sath mery Ghar walo ny same yehi Kiya Hy😢😭😭😭 ..Har time criticise kerty rehty thy degrade kerty rehty thy stress dalty rehty thy .iska nateeja ye nikla k main Ihsase kamtri Ka shikar ho gya hn🥺😢😭
Dr sahab
Mai khalid muhammed india se hu
Aap ne sach kaha hai
Ma bap zulm karte hai bacho par, naye zamane ki aag mai apne bacho ko jala dete hai , bachpan chhin lete hai ,
Har ma bap bas yehi dhun mai hai ki agar inpar dabav nahi dala gaya to yeh duniya se pichhe reh jayege !
Iska kya mukammal ilaj batae
Isi par details se video banae
Aapka dil se shukriya
ma sha allah sir! most effective talk!
Boht zaberdst 👍👍👍
Ap ne bilkul sehi kaha .
Sir joint femly walo k lye b batayin na k wo apny bacho ki tabiyat kaisy Karin
Same here
Daktar sahab allha pak ap ko jzay heer de