Really true..me namaz padti hu toh meri beti bhi khade ho jati he mere sath,usko bolna bhi nhi pdta he..or by chance Esa hota he k namaz nhi padi mene toh meri beti mujhe kehti he ammi namaz nhi padhi apan sath me padte he..
apki hr bt thik h lekn sary ghr ko apny jesa bnana ya unko smjhana bht mshkl blky namumkin h joint system me. wo bht c baten seekh ra hota h jo maa ni chahti k seekhy lekn ye masly joint system me bht zyada h
same problm here sister... i dont understand .. what should i have do?????? i m so stressed to have these situation... May Allah show us true path to treat ur children...... plz mjhe koi solution de kya kre hm joint family mai jo bchhe bigdre hai...plzz plzz plzz😢
ek he triqa h k jitna hosky unko door rkha jae ese bacho sy ya phr br br apny bachy ko smjhaya jae k kya sahi h r kya ghalat eventually bacha smjh jaega khd ko stress m na dalen relax rahen r pyar sy apny bachy ko smjhaen r jahan zrurt pary unk lye stand len
Same here bilkul ESA hi Hai or even K bacha JB hamary sth hota Hai apny parents K sth tou na hi itni zid krta Hai na hi shrartain JB K Jesy hi apny dada dadi K pas jae ga ya phoppo Chacho wagera K pas tou wo Kam krta Hai Jo hum ny kbhi nh sikhae or usy smjhany ka b faida nh Ku K 3 saal ka Hai wo kesy smjhy ga phr majboran usy rokny K lie dantna parta Hai ya drana parta Hai...joint family system ny bohat kuch kharb krdia Hai mery parents b yehi kehty Hain us choty Sy bachy ko K tmhary ma bap tou esy nh thy PTA nh Tm Kis pr chly gae or Har choti choti chezon Sy rokty Hain usy phr wo or zid krta Hai
@@juttbrothers6994 sister jo bt ni psnd arai usk lye stand len baron k samny bachy ko kahen k ese nhi krty r 3 sal ka beta h mera b pr is age sy bcha bten smjhny lgta h apna bond us k sth strong rkhen jtna pyar s smjhaengy wo smjhega zrur lekn daily usko smjhaen
Lovable tareeqa for anything needs to be followed by all family members. In a joint family it's not always possible hence the struggle for the mother always.
I became a newly mother two months ago and i started teaching to baby the differences. He looks at me and keep noticing whatever i do. I want to memorize him the holy Quran till he reaches at the age of five. I have five years to make him a solid personality in society. May Allah guide all of us. I will put all my efforts to make him a perfect boy. I just want to see him a very successful person in life
Salām dear Dr. Sāhib, I have viewed your content in the past, and everytime it brings me back a step closer to humanity. My wife actually shared this session with me..we have a two and a half year old boy [Alhumdulillāh! ] and I would just like to say Jazākallāhu Khayrun thank you! May Allāh accept your Du'as and efforts and keep you in the best of health, shape and spirits and bless you in both worlds. Āmīn Salām Allāh Hāfiz Ajmal
Thank you sir jzakilahu khairan...... because mein khud zehni dbao ka Shekar the or Sara blame bchon ko deati so aap ki video ny mujhy khud ko smajhny mein bahot help ki aap ka again thank you jzakilahu khairan
😊maa shaa Allah palwasha .....jb apny kaha inj laga jesy kisi princes ki shadi hai its got tears in my eyes with full of emotions...in vlogs me mein hansi b, khush b hue , Khushi se roi b.. Negative log har jaga hai,unka kam yahi hai unko kam krny den ap wo kam kren jo apko ata hai ... Allah unko b hadayat dy ameen
یا اللہ ہم سب کے حال پے رحم و کرم فرما ہم سب کی مشکلات کو آسان فرما دے بڑا رحیم و کریم ہے میرے اپنے جو ہیں ان کی خاص طور پر مدد فرما اپنے حبیب صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے صدقے آمین یا رب عالمین
In UK my kids are never told their grades or marks till the age of 7. From the age of 7 onwards they only know which group are they in (lower higher) but never told individual grades to kids. Always parents receive their result.
I read many comments and the major concern of many people is that being in joint family they cannot follow such guidelines. I would like to tell people who haven't gotten married or don't have children that wait until you're able to have your own separate home or have an understanding with your whole family before having children.
Bhot achi vedio hy apki but joint system ki wjha sy hum apny bachun ko bhot dantty hain , lekin apki batain sun k bhot tasali hui inshallah apny bachun ko pyar sy smjhany ki Koshish kringy
صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم علیہ السلام سلام اللہ علیہا رضی اللہ تعالیٰ اجمعین رحمۃ اللّٰہ Thank you for this video very informative brother keep up the good work MashAllah excellent 👌👍 job I have subscribe your channel
Under 7 1. No standard of morality 2. Do not keep them in stressful situations 3. Create loveable circumstance for them to learn whatever you want them to
Sir with all due respect our domestic social system consists of joint family, there it is relatively impossible to drive your child the way mother wants, i exprienced the same for my child. Plz do give lectures to males also plz live seprately or give a seprate home to your family if u want ur child to grow and learn peacefully, living with sasural relations ultimately brings problems and that leads to domestic fights and as a result our child learn the same. I m and my children are big affectee of living in sasural.
I think in that case - when living together is inevitable - it will be a good stage to make them learn how to tackle difficult situations and difficult people; by being a model.
Ma sha Allah... jazakallah sir...very informative way i learned for dealing kids to follow anything.... Creat lovable environment for that particular thing❤
Really true..me namaz padti hu toh meri beti bhi khade ho jati he mere sath,usko bolna bhi nhi pdta he..or by chance Esa hota he k namaz nhi padi mene toh meri beti mujhe kehti he ammi namaz nhi padhi apan sath me padte he..
Yes they follow us not our examples!
Hyd
apki hr bt thik h lekn sary ghr ko apny jesa bnana ya unko smjhana bht mshkl blky namumkin h joint system me. wo bht c baten seekh ra hota h jo maa ni chahti k seekhy lekn ye masly joint system me bht zyada h
Bilkul sae kha ap is system ki wja sy hmary bachy khrab ho rhy
same problm here sister... i dont understand .. what should i have do?????? i m so stressed to have these situation... May Allah show us true path to treat ur children...... plz mjhe koi solution de kya kre hm joint family mai jo bchhe bigdre hai...plzz plzz plzz😢
ek he triqa h k jitna hosky unko door rkha jae ese bacho sy ya phr br br apny bachy ko smjhaya jae k kya sahi h r kya ghalat eventually bacha smjh jaega khd ko stress m na dalen relax rahen r pyar sy apny bachy ko smjhaen r jahan zrurt pary unk lye stand len
Same here bilkul ESA hi Hai or even K bacha JB hamary sth hota Hai apny parents K sth tou na hi itni zid krta Hai na hi shrartain JB K Jesy hi apny dada dadi K pas jae ga ya phoppo Chacho wagera K pas tou wo Kam krta Hai Jo hum ny kbhi nh sikhae or usy smjhany ka b faida nh Ku K 3 saal ka Hai wo kesy smjhy ga phr majboran usy rokny K lie dantna parta Hai ya drana parta Hai...joint family system ny bohat kuch kharb krdia Hai mery parents b yehi kehty Hain us choty Sy bachy ko K tmhary ma bap tou esy nh thy PTA nh Tm Kis pr chly gae or Har choti choti chezon Sy rokty Hain usy phr wo or zid krta Hai
@@juttbrothers6994 sister jo bt ni psnd arai usk lye stand len baron k samny bachy ko kahen k ese nhi krty r 3 sal ka beta h mera b pr is age sy bcha bten smjhny lgta h apna bond us k sth strong rkhen jtna pyar s smjhaengy wo smjhega zrur lekn daily usko smjhaen
Lovable tareeqa for anything needs to be followed by all family members. In a joint family it's not always possible hence the struggle for the mother always.
Islam doesn't allows you to stay in joint family after marriage. Please try to avoid joint family if you wanna raise your kid healthy and useful
koi aurat Apne husband ko alag rehne k Liye kaise kahae ge?
Sir aapke is lecture ne mujhe bachchon ki sahi tarbiyat karna sikha diya... jazakallah khair
Jazakallah.. meri dua hai ke aap ke har video se log mustafeed ho..
Aap ka shukriya.. from India 🇮🇳 ♥
I became a newly mother two months ago and i started teaching to baby the differences. He looks at me and keep noticing whatever i do. I want to memorize him the holy Quran till he reaches at the age of five. I have five years to make him a solid personality in society. May Allah guide all of us. I will put all my efforts to make him a perfect boy. I just want to see him a very successful person in life
I pray to allah that allah will make your son as you want my dwini sister..in shaa allah..
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may ALLAH make you successful and make it easy for you. Be an example of true muslim in front of your child
You are overloading his memory please stop
Nice
2:19 101 percent truth ... what a point he has raised! hats off to his observation...🙌🏻
Ur fan.... Ma apki sub btwnn ko apni 2sal ki beti pr apply krti hun... helpful
Thank u so much ..Mera bta abi 17 din ka hy Allah pak slamt rkhy ameen ..mein in sb bataon py aml zaror kron gi in sha Allah
Ameen
Salām dear Dr. Sāhib, I have viewed your content in the past, and everytime it brings me back a step closer to humanity. My wife actually shared this session with me..we have a two and a half year old boy [Alhumdulillāh! ] and I would just like to say Jazākallāhu Khayrun thank you! May Allāh accept your Du'as and efforts and keep you in the best of health, shape and spirits and bless you in both worlds. Āmīn
Salām Allāh Hāfiz
Ajmal
Inka number he kisi k pas?
Hy yummy t42w EDT p ii nñkmk BN
Mm iß
Thank you sir jzakilahu khairan...... because mein khud zehni dbao ka Shekar the or Sara blame bchon ko deati so aap ki video ny mujhy khud ko smajhny mein bahot help ki aap ka again thank you jzakilahu khairan
Same here
Indeed v come from Allah and shall return to Allah......u prove that....
This lecture definitely needs to transmit through globe. Amazing, sir.
Globe is already doing it. It's us who are not following this parenting style.
Thank you so much sir... Itne acche se explain karne k liye 😊 mera baby abhi 5month ka h... Inshallah me apki sari bato ka dhyan rakhungi
With most respect I will invite everyone to listen Quran
JazakaAllah
Jazakallah
😊maa shaa Allah palwasha .....jb apny kaha inj laga jesy kisi princes ki shadi hai its got tears in my eyes with full of emotions...in vlogs me mein hansi b, khush b hue , Khushi se roi b..
Negative log har jaga hai,unka kam yahi hai unko kam krny den ap wo kam kren jo apko ata hai ... Allah unko b hadayat dy ameen
MashaAllah laquwwatha illahbillaah doctor Saab !!!! This is what I keep telling my sister!!!! I am quite against being angry to kids
G bilkul mery daughter masallh one year k ha ar Namaz prty ha dopata la kr azan b sunti ha
I usually don't comment on any video but I really like the content you share it's great thank you
Sir ne boht sahi misal di bacha maa or baap ko dekh ke sikhta hi mera beta muje or uske papa ko dekh k namaz padhne lagta hi alhamdulillah
Zabardust. Sir
I beg k ap apny sary hi lectures Parenting par rakhy. I think this is the most important issue of Pakistan.
Dr sahab apke sessions bahut hi lajavab hote he..aur society k lie bahut faydemand bhi..Tnx a lot .
Love from India
Sir bohat achi BAAT kerty hain Allah apko sahat wali zindgi ata farmay
Alhamdulillah…..Allah aap ko sehatyab rakhe…Fi Aman Allah….from 🇮🇳
Asslamoalaikum
Sir saw you in Sir Salman's seminar today. Salam to all the scholars trying to defend our homes and families.
I like how he doesn't hesitate to ask where he needs help.
It's a good attribute to have in a personality.
AoA Dr. Sahab mai ap se bat karna chahti hon
Mere bachay ka aik problem hai Jo mai kap k sath discuss keep ar k koi advice lena chahti hon
Please mujhe bataye mai ap se direct kaisay bat kar sakti hon
Mai boht pareshan ho apnay betay k ly
श्रीमान जी बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद। आपकी नॉलेज को सलाम। 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 बहुत बेहतरीन।
یا اللہ ہم سب کے حال پے رحم و کرم فرما ہم سب کی مشکلات کو آسان فرما دے بڑا رحیم و کریم ہے
میرے اپنے جو ہیں ان کی خاص طور پر مدد فرما اپنے حبیب صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم کے صدقے
آمین یا رب عالمین
Mashallah you don't know how much I am struggling and your videos are like a magic to my stress
Thank you for your lots of knowledge and guidance
Wow MashaAllah very helpful sir pehli baar dekha y but amazing very helpful for everyone....
ماشاء اللہ سر آپ ایک مثال ہے ہمارے لیے بہت بڑی... اللہ آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش رکھے... ہمارے بچوں کے لیے بھی دعا کرے.. ہم بھی ان شا اللہ پوری کوشش کرینگے
God bless you...I am lucky that I got the chance to follow your advise for my child...
Amazing.. My daughter starts praying in whatever dress she is when she sees me standing up for namaz..
الحمدللہ
may ALLAH make her a righteous true muslim and bless her abundantly
My son also do the same , mashaallah
Mashallah
My daughter do also she is only 2 years old
In UK my kids are never told their grades or marks till the age of 7. From the age of 7 onwards they only know which group are they in (lower higher) but never told individual grades to kids. Always parents receive their result.
زندگی کا راز یہی ہے کہ جہاں رہو
جس حالت میں رہو، خوش رہو مطمئن رہو۔..
Thank u very much sir, u dealings with issue which is route cause of almost every evil of our whole subcontinent love and gratitude from 🇮🇳❤❤
I read many comments and the major concern of many people is that being in joint family they cannot follow such guidelines. I would like to tell people who haven't gotten married or don't have children that wait until you're able to have your own separate home or have an understanding with your whole family before having children.
Mtlb no shadi for life hoajega esy to. 😅
amazing, need such guidelines for educated parents of now a days wondering these lines were not viral in past times yet parenting was good !
Training centres for mothers are needed under your honourable guidance.
I think in our society fathers equally require more training and grooming as parenting is not only 1 person job
Masha Allah sir ap ka btyne ka tariqa acha hai ..Allah ap ko salmat rakhy ameen
inshaAllah I will follow this....I have 2 year old kid Allah hmyy achii sy achi trbyt krny ki himat dy
Excellent content as always.
Thanks a lot ...Respected sir.
True.
Sir I want to ask some questions,how I can?
ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب کویت سے
You are an asset to Pakistan Dr Iqbal. May Allah bless and reward you for your medical and public work.
Apki videos dekh k mujhe gumesha hadayat milti hai... Allah bachon ko bhi hadayat de
Bhot achi vedio hy apki but joint system ki wjha sy hum apny bachun ko bhot dantty hain , lekin apki batain sun k bhot tasali hui inshallah apny bachun ko pyar sy smjhany ki Koshish kringy
Lots of love from KASHMIR ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Big fan of you sir G ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Great sir great, i think this is the best knowledge for parents especially for today's parents
Your style of Teaching is good.Frist time I listen ,How to limitize the use of TV and social media.😊
صلی اللّٰہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم علیہ السلام سلام اللہ علیہا رضی اللہ تعالیٰ اجمعین رحمۃ اللّٰہ
Thank you for this video very informative brother keep up the good work MashAllah excellent 👌👍 job I have subscribe your channel
This video is a blessing 🙌
Where have you been my whole married life sir? I needed someone with your advice
सर please make वीडिओ on complete child PSCHOLOGY from 4 month to 7 years.।।।। I am your biggest follower from India🇮🇳
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@Ali Bajwa پۂ
Unhe Hindi nahi aati bhai wo Pakistani hain. Aap English me hi poora msg likhiye.
E ej
You should watch Salman Aashif Siddique videos,
Channel name ERDC
کاش پاکستان کی مائیں آپ کی ایک ایک بات کو سمجھ سکے ۔ایکا ایک لفظ سیدھا دل میں اتر گیا آپ کا۔اللہ آپ کو سلامت رکھے۔
Computer insan KO samjhnay me bht helpful hay.
I can relate to Namaz example My niece saw me doing prayers nd she then follow me.
Main ab follow kronge insha Allah ek beti Hy mre 5 year ki ..me ab pora try kronge k piar say smjhson
Under 7
1. No standard of morality
2. Do not keep them in stressful situations
3. Create loveable circumstance for them to learn whatever you want them to
❤
K 7:01
Really nice lecture sir and Jazakallah khair thank you so much for good guidance.
I have a year old baby so these info is very useful for me. Ill surely try to follow... Thank u sir..🙌
Jazak Allah Khair doctor sahib
this is what I learned in Montessori training.
best books 📚 on child psychology
1,DISCOVERY OF A CHILD
2,ABSORBENT MIND
3, SPRITUAL EMBYRO
Assalamualaikum aapki video dekhkar kafi kuch seekhne ko milta hai
Allah Amal ki ham sab ko taofeeq ata kare aameen ya rabbul aalameen aor hamare bacho ko apni raah me laga le aameen
In joint family its not possible to create a beaitiful child wahan sb amma abba bane hote real maa baap k alawa
Exactly
Bilkul
😢
𝚅𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚝𝚛𝚞𝚎
OMG u r so true 😂
So nice video 👍 great tips for child
Worth watching ❤❤❤❤ behad shukriaah doctor sahab❤🎉
sir m your new subscriber..m from India...i like your lectures
Sir please make one video of how to deal boys of 12 and 10 years .. please
U r a wonderful teacher...respect n duas from India.may Allah bless u ...
With these lectures, I feel very good.
زبردست سر
Bohat achaa kaam ker rahey hn profeser sab ❤❤❤❤
Salaam aq sir your lecture is amazing I love to hear from you more
mola i kainaat explained the 3 stages of child development thanks
JZAKLLAH SIR. God bless you more.
Write Jazak'Allah...
Sir with all due respect our domestic social system consists of joint family, there it is relatively impossible to drive your child the way mother wants, i exprienced the same for my child. Plz do give lectures to males also plz live seprately or give a seprate home to your family if u want ur child to grow and learn peacefully, living with sasural relations ultimately brings problems and that leads to domestic fights and as a result our child learn the same. I m and my children are big affectee of living in sasural.
Exactly Same problem with me... Or susral walon ko kuch bolo to wo gusa karne lg Jate Hain ...
I think in that case - when living together is inevitable - it will be a good stage to make them learn how to tackle difficult situations and difficult people; by being a model.
mera bacha taba horha hai ais joint family system sy. main akeli kuch nai kr pa rhe. im in extremely stress
Damn same for me thanks for explaining @noorfaraz2041
Same ... As there are benefits of living together there are certain draw backs as well
Mashaallah nice and informative for me to guide my kids. Alhamdulillah
Sir Amazing talk great knowledge explained in simple layman language.Brilliant.
Jeetay rahiye Javed sahab. Kaash aap 20 saal pehlay milay hotay
Ma sha Allah... jazakallah sir...very informative way i learned for dealing kids to follow anything....
Creat lovable environment for that particular thing❤
Jazakallahukhair.. 🎉🎉
Masha ALLAH, ,Outstanding tips, blessing
JazakAllah Khair sir
Excellent!
Thank you so much for sharing such valuable thoughts with us.
May Almighty Allah give you reward in both worlds!
Great way of explaining the things which we really have to do with our children. Thank you very much. It was very informative for me
Amazing baby knowledge very nice spech thanks sir
Tarbiyat mohabbat aur disciplin ka combination hai zyada sweetness or zyada discipline dono dangerous hote hein
Masha Allah very very effective .
JazakAllah khair.
Sir you are beautiful strong ..active.confident..and you always share beautiful knowledge...
Great 👍 video. The wanted topic which i want to make understand to my in-laws.
Best doctor best scholar 😊
Mashallah very nice sharing
VERY informative lecture about kids i will apply it on my children IN SHA ALLAH 💕💞❤️🌺🌸
Mashallah
Wish we could follow atleast some of these, it is not easy as it sounds
❤❤❤ Heart touching your words
Thankyew sirr your messages are a blessing for us
Allah pak hmaray bcho k naik bnae
AMEEN 🤲
Allah humma Ameen.
Ameen Suma Ameen
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Very very fruitful video, very good explanation, Thank you so much for releasing this video