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  • @PhimbleG-d
    @PhimbleG-d Рік тому +4248

    This is actually a pretty good representation of what traumatic (PTSD) breakdowns can look like. It’s not all flash backs and hazy vision. Sometimes it’s outbursts like this.

    • @HaydnMillerUK
      @HaydnMillerUK Рік тому +157

      One of my closest friends has PTSD, she went through times that I cannot say for understandable reasons. This led to outbursts and fights with other pupils probably because they offended her and how she felt towards people in moments such as this. Because of this we talk much more often when we need to and also when things get down and become really tough, and I’m really great full of our friendship.

    • @emilyryan892
      @emilyryan892 Рік тому +65

      It has been confirmed the character has ADHD

    • @Alice12369
      @Alice12369 Рік тому +62

      @@emilyryan892 yes the character has ADHD, but this sort of outbursts can happen when u have bad ptsd coming from someone with serious ptsd I have had outbursts just like this because I couldnt control what was going on around me and I couldn’t control what was going on inside my head and it also comes down to the people around u not understanding what’s going on and not understanding how to deal with someone with this sort of illness, in fact ptsd is 10x worse then ADHD, this is mild compare to what ptsd can do

    • @rawrdinosaur2008
      @rawrdinosaur2008 Рік тому +22

      @@Alice12369 yeahh! i dont have ptsd that bad but when someone triggers you, you get soo mad. it affects you for the whole day

    • @bowie3503
      @bowie3503 Рік тому +4

      Wow

  • @04ahrenadhikary9g4
    @04ahrenadhikary9g4 Рік тому +1206

    Only when she broke a window (and potentially harm the others) did they start doing anything sensible, that's wonderful

    • @Jme_hde
      @Jme_hde 5 місяців тому +49

      And scarily realistic

    • @Niamh_oliviasversion
      @Niamh_oliviasversion 3 місяці тому

      @@Jme_hdeik

    • @toothfairy5352
      @toothfairy5352 3 місяці тому +20

      Or it's only when someone's attempted suicide that they're taken seriously.

    • @Spaceless420
      @Spaceless420 3 місяці тому +7

      That’s literally how it is. It’s so upsetting not to be heard until you do something over the top it feels like.

  • @SaharaColeman
    @SaharaColeman Рік тому +2085

    The teacher was so ignorant when she said “I’m not gonna have you ruin it for everyone else” that right there could send an already emotional person over the edge. People have to watch what they say and how they say it. She just better be glad what Kelly sent flying through the window didn’t go through her.

    • @Yoobster
      @Yoobster Рік тому

      obviously but if someone doesn't know that shes mentally ill its easy to assume shes is completely selfish and literally ruining it for others.

    • @markgrayson772
      @markgrayson772 Рік тому

      That’s why she needs to be in a hospital instead of ruining everyone else’s good time

    • @curlyhairdudeify
      @curlyhairdudeify Рік тому +56

      The teacher is ignorant? She would be out if I was in charge she is danger to everyone in that room.

    • @pragatisingh8467
      @pragatisingh8467 Рік тому +22

      wow yeah we must all be grateful that we're not brutally assaulted by some lunatic

    • @donhectorsalamanca
      @donhectorsalamanca Рік тому

      ​@@pragatisingh8467 "some lunatic" thats right, be ignorant of mental health you pos

  • @michellemarshall6708
    @michellemarshall6708 Рік тому +2167

    The actress who plays kelly jo is incredible👏👏👏 I'm glad waterloo road is back and raising awareness for teenage mental health

    • @matthewpattison8611
      @matthewpattison8611 Рік тому +9

      Even though Kelly Jo reminds me of a friend of mine called Holly Wilde at Foxes Academy because Holly Wilde the same thing every day

    • @macsonchung2937
      @macsonchung2937 Рік тому +9

      I cried as well😢😢😢😢. "Stop that silly cow" WTF was that 😡😡😡

    • @coolcucumber372
      @coolcucumber372 Рік тому +3

      @@macsonchung2937 and he was supposed to be a teaching assistant!

    • @snucam78
      @snucam78 2 місяці тому

      Did the previous version of this show end with a teacher jumping into a canal? or did it end later? I'm in the US and it was on BBC America at the time

  • @jessicas.6235
    @jessicas.6235 Рік тому +1331

    A coworker I had was easily emotionally overwhelmed. My other coworkers often complained about her behind her back for it, but she’s a great person, and just needed patience sometimes. At those times I simply offered to help her out or offered an ear so she didn’t feel alone. Our response to someone losing control shouldn’t be losing control of our patience. Sometimes you just need to feel a moment of support. ❤

    • @sophiecourt5006
      @sophiecourt5006 Рік тому +26

      Youre an angel, from someone who can become very emotionally overwhelmed and have meltdowns, you make all the difference ❤

    • @shanayabuckery3618
      @shanayabuckery3618 Рік тому +1

      Is she okay now Im glad she is fine now

    • @jerrysmith6842
      @jerrysmith6842 Рік тому +6

      I understand and am empathetic but sometimes, especially when work gets busy, you either have to toughen up or expect people to get upset at you. I work in fast food and sometimes we’ll hire people like this and it’s more of a disturbance than anything. We are there to work, not to take care of other peoples trauma.
      Your trauma is yours only and you should never make your trauma someone else’s problem.

    • @egg-iu3fe
      @egg-iu3fe Рік тому +1

      lol no

    • @haileegrantham4399
      @haileegrantham4399 Рік тому

      I completely agree with what you said dear friend. Absolutaly true.

  • @spookyspice596
    @spookyspice596 Рік тому +2622

    “I wonder what hole you’ll end up in.” Wow, that was unbelievably cruel!

    • @hassantumbo6616
      @hassantumbo6616 Рік тому +35

      What does that mean when he say that to Kelly Jo ?

    • @charliemcadoo4746
      @charliemcadoo4746 Рік тому +183

      @@hassantumbo6616 He was pretty much saying that she'll have no future

    • @ahsenkhan5386
      @ahsenkhan5386 Рік тому +1

      @@charliemcadoo4746 what a d*ck should get punch the face for that.

    • @charliemcadoo4746
      @charliemcadoo4746 Рік тому +26

      @@ahsenkhan5386 Yes, it's not very nice

    • @Thunder-Ghost
      @Thunder-Ghost Рік тому +20

      Yeah I haven't seen this before who was that and why was she angry at him in the start when he only tried to help?

  • @rosiebeal3096
    @rosiebeal3096 Рік тому +169

    Teachers should not be shouting at her if she's having a breakdown

    • @destinydarrling9276
      @destinydarrling9276 Рік тому +30

      Yeah. Shouting has never worked. The best thing to do is to take them outside for a little walk in the fresh air and then if that doesn’t work then they should be taken to a quiet room and be allowed to calm down.
      I’m not a teacher but I am neurodivergent (autistic and dyspraxic) and that’s what the SEN did with me before and after they knew I was autistic (I was diagnosed aged 18)

    • @masterdrake43
      @masterdrake43 3 місяці тому +1

      That teacher is stupid
      She should watch what she say to a girl like Kelly or the consequences could be fatal. It could risk the lives of her students, I mean what if Kelly grabbed a sharp tool from the box or something that would harm the others. Kelly could’ve possibly hurt the teacher or the students or the support teachers with a pair of scissors or a rock or a hammer.

    • @BakiHanma-tg9tk
      @BakiHanma-tg9tk 2 місяці тому

      ​@@destinydarrling9276ye and what's that gonna change huh

    • @rai.2876
      @rai.2876 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@BakiHanma-tg9tk you mean to say having some time to cool off has never worked for you?

  • @spinach4616
    @spinach4616 Рік тому +666

    students who struggle like this usually just get punished for their behaviour. Teachers aren’t trained to help kids at all specifically they aren’t trained on trauma or on the wellbeing of children.

    • @Dee-oj5zm
      @Dee-oj5zm Рік тому +8

      education courses (in some countries) definitely include modules about disorders that may afflict students, recognising the same, how to help or deescalate + where to go for additional support, etc. but, unfortunately, more in-depth study is usually undertaken via electives

    • @Shalyn-ln9tu
      @Shalyn-ln9tu Рік тому +12

      Depends on the country, and the situation. They are required to be trained, but they are so underpaid, I can understand being hesitant. And a lot of the time, it is just anger and disrespect. This is an obvious moment of PTSD and not blatant anger. Though, we watched both sides and the teacher wouldn't have that luxury

    • @pragatisingh8467
      @pragatisingh8467 Рік тому +11

      teachers aren't paid enough to deal with this bullcrap.

    • @prophecybydefault4708
      @prophecybydefault4708 Рік тому +16

      @@pragatisingh8467 then they shouldn't be teachers.
      These people are paid to teach children about the future and by acting like this they could destroy or even end lives.

    • @egg-iu3fe
      @egg-iu3fe Рік тому +1

      they should be punished tbh

  • @DivyaRaviraj
    @DivyaRaviraj Рік тому +924

    I used to be like this at home sometimes in my darkest roughest times. It’s a real thing. It hurts.

  • @camhearsch875
    @camhearsch875 Рік тому +247

    love to see how people dont understand just how traumatic it can be

    • @animenome308
      @animenome308 Рік тому +23

      For everyone involved...
      Imaging being the person who gets yelled at by the psychologically unstable pt and then getting stuff thrown at you
      The teacher is at fault but definitely not the other students - you can't be expected as a teenager to just sit there and let someone have a mental breakdown @ you and just take it.

    • @egg-iu3fe
      @egg-iu3fe Рік тому

      lol there's people fighting in war zones yet people like this having mental breakdowns over nothing

    • @jpbdude4223
      @jpbdude4223 Рік тому +5

      @@egg-iu3fe that… that causes PTSD… that is this

    • @kaysmith8992
      @kaysmith8992 Рік тому +12

      @@animenome308 especially as some of those other students may have mental health issues too and may be traumatised by her behaviour.

  • @idk_man3491
    @idk_man3491 3 місяці тому +113

    something that makes me angry beyond belief, is that if you look at the man's face at 1:51, you'll see he's actually smiling. It's for a brief moment, but kelly is in a state of extreme distress, and he, along with another boy, find it funny. It urks me so much

    • @elyssaacosta5574
      @elyssaacosta5574 3 дні тому

      My dad would do this. Just like that guy, when everyone was turned away he’d rile me up until I started freaking out like that girl so he could run to mommy and tell her how crazy and fucked up I am. And every single time his smile would slip out. Like it was so funny to put me in that mental state that he couldn’t contain his smile. Crazy.

  • @PowerOfAIandMotivation
    @PowerOfAIandMotivation Рік тому +509

    If they hugged her from the very beginning when things started to go a bit strange and reassured her that no one is actually against her ~ things would not have escalated to all of that afterwards at all.
    Obviously she needs more assistance afterwards with a real genuine loving therapist or emotional healer but the least thing if they did take it seriously from the beginning and offered the hug and the reassurance things will take another path and not the extreme worst path that they portrayed which is because they didn't take it seriously from the beginning and chose the gentle way to deal with it.
    Emotions are everything and they need to be healed and dealt with the proper healthiest and gentlest way possible, humans are not robots never will be and emotions are genuine and they are what we live for and by so if they don't start teaching such stuff there will always be such problems forever unless they take it to heart and install it in education systems.

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Рік тому +1

      That’s not how it works in schools. If you think teachers can go around hugging students.. you must be living on another planet.

    • @kaysmith8992
      @kaysmith8992 Рік тому +10

      Teachers get sacked just for tapping a kid's arm let alone hugging them 😂

    • @Legacy-sw7bv
      @Legacy-sw7bv Рік тому +25

      She absolutely needed understanding and compassion, but don't be too fast to rush into a hug. While they may take it as the act of protection and consoling that you intend it as, they can just as easily take it as a feeling of being trapped, a violation of personal limits, and a physical reminder of the trauma. Offer affection, but let them have a sense of control over what happens to them. Don't expect them to know what they want or need in that moment; but most often, they just need some reassurance of safety (words, a trusted person, solitude in a place they feel like they can protect themselves in, etc.)

    • @PowerOfAIandMotivation
      @PowerOfAIandMotivation Рік тому +8

      @@Legacy-sw7bv That is true, thank you for your added valuable information to this comment section. 👍🏻

    • @itsdune079
      @itsdune079 3 місяці тому +6

      Thank you *so much* for including the statement of “don't expect for them to know what they want or need”: I have complex trauma, and I rarely, if ever, know what I need during times where I need emotional/psychological assistance!! This is something that rarely gets talked about, even in trauma spaces - a person with a history of emotional/psychological trauma likely won’t know what they need/what would comfort them when upset, because they never had their needs met to help them figure that out.

  • @mrscocomelon5798
    @mrscocomelon5798 Рік тому +207

    My mom is a special needs teacher I showed her this and she said some times her kids (she calls them her kids) act like this

    • @courtr1588
      @courtr1588 Рік тому +1

      People with disabilities have high rates of being abused. Even in some of those classrooms. I'm not surprised.

    • @melonydivineq
      @melonydivineq День тому

      She is an angel

  • @ajkon7081
    @ajkon7081 Рік тому +189

    I have Asperger’s and this has happened to me before. Many times actually. It’s all a blur when you’re fighting or being destructive when triggered but after, it’s one of the worst things to feel because you know what you’ve done and you can’t reverse it. The pain after that lasts for weeks or even months. It’s hard sometimes.

    • @everyone06
      @everyone06 Рік тому +2

      Im 34 i have aspergers but I stay strong and make sure nothing gets on my path.

  • @austincicero227
    @austincicero227 Рік тому +239

    I got so emotional watching this because I understand the pain, PTSD and breakdowns manifest in many ways and this unfortunately is the way hers is showing. I don't wish this on anyone because I know it all to well for myself

  • @Lilita971
    @Lilita971 Рік тому +143

    I don't really understand what's going on in the video, but I feel sorry for whoever is having the breakdown

  • @haileyjuliasuarez6988
    @haileyjuliasuarez6988 Рік тому +68

    The lady who told her enough wtf is your problem

  • @___9042
    @___9042 Рік тому +70

    I love it when people make videos like this, the meaning is easily understood and it spreads awareness

    • @UpinsmokeXVI
      @UpinsmokeXVI 7 місяців тому +1

      It’s a British soap called waterloo road

  • @SoraAsahi
    @SoraAsahi Рік тому +146

    And I was made to believe I was simply having temper tantrums before I actually knew about PTSD. Now I understand some of the other kids I knew weren't being stubborn or naughty back in the day.

  • @Saturn8Me
    @Saturn8Me Рік тому +69

    Putting up a wall after being traumatised is like trying to clean up a crime scene. You're always panicking and on edge. You can act like you are tough as nails but once someone flicks a switch inside you everything you have built up can come crashing down in an instant. PTSD is that demon over your shoulder whispering 'it's all your fault'.

  • @10bencook
    @10bencook 11 місяців тому +39

    As the saying goes, “You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry.”

  • @JustAnotherPerson4U
    @JustAnotherPerson4U Рік тому +619

    I'm not ADHD, but I do have ASD and I felt a lot of similar feelings. The accusation of 'it's always you.' 'You're the one acting up.' 'You're the one who made it worse.'
    All those are such common things those who neurodivergent conditions hear and face. Not just from others students. But teachers as well.
    And you don't see my head. You don't see her head. It's outburst after outburst because the body doesn't know how else to cope. It's too much. And then we're demonised for it... told we should've controlled it. That we should just behave... gods, so many people don't understand what drives us to this. That it's natural for us to do this because there IS no other way. We cannot help it and just shouting and telling us to be normal, or behave makes it worse.
    And fyi, it's done in a twisty way to shift the blame onto us. It's so traumatising. That people shift the situation so that you're the guilty because you acted up even though you were emotionally hurt by what has happened.

    • @BMass83
      @BMass83 Рік тому +38

      My son has ASD and we have dealt with the same stuff for YEARS. School teachers always seemed to “forget” because he was so smart and looked “normal.”
      Thanks to them when he could have been in special classes that really could have benefited him he was miserable in their classes. I feel like the worst mom.

    • @justathoughtmyfriend1403
      @justathoughtmyfriend1403 Рік тому +19

      At 31, I'm experiencing these things finding out I'm neurodivergent. Typical female experience. It's like workplaces don't even give me a chance or have found ways to create false claims about me that are punitive and intentional defiance. I have experienced also during the interview process as if they want to dodge a bullet but not breach any ADA or EEOC violations if they find a way of saying I intentionally did something wrong because they don't want to say they don't want to work with a neurodivergent person and adapt to their needs. More work for them, but really a listening, empathetic ear is the bare minimum.

    • @Kasey.Walker
      @Kasey.Walker Рік тому +16

      I was almost completely mute in primary school, I only spoke to say "yes miss" or "yes sir" for the register. Other kids were bribed with stickers to get me to talk (spoiler alert it didn't work). I wanted to be able to speak as I spoke at home, but there was just something in my mind that wouldn't do it. I didn't have one friend in primary school, not one. It was a very lonely time and I still hurt for that child. At home, I would use an old landline telephone that was no longer being used and pretended I was talking to people from school and arranging plans. The only friendship I had back then were the ones I tried to invent. Watching Kelly Jo breaks my heart, because she needs empathy and understanding, not blame.

    • @PresidentPixel
      @PresidentPixel Рік тому

      @@BMass83as an educator myself who works with rooms full of students with a variety of conditions and disorders, yes some teachers are ignorant which is always unacceptable, but parents must keep in mind that their child is one student out of many in a school setting. When it comes down to it, the concern and priority is toward the safety of the entire class and staff when a situation arises. As cold and harsh as this truth is, nobody is special except in the eyes of the ones who have the closest relationships with them. Parents want their child given special attention/ accommodations which some teachers provide the best they can in their power, but in the real world, if an adult attacks another person and/or vandalizes property, it’s either the asylum or prison. I believe therapy and a healthy mind should be a requirement before being allowed to enter a school setting. It’s not healthy to force the student who is already overwhelmed into an intense setting along with fellow employees/ students being exposed to their episodes themselves. I do apologize if I sound harsh or unreasonable, my passion is working with Special Education, but I also don’t believe it is fair to subject anyone to this.

    • @yusinu6642
      @yusinu6642 Рік тому +2

      @@Kasey.Walker yah when I went to school and even now it’s so hard to be the person I am at home in public even though I so desperately want to and I’ve experienced things like in the video and that people in the comments are discussing and it’s still so lonely. I’m pretty sure I’m neurodivergent and as soon as I can I want help because I don’t want to hurt anyone or myself in such a detrimental way. ❤

  • @sweetlyxofficialchannel
    @sweetlyxofficialchannel 10 місяців тому +28

    My friend has PTSD as well. One time, the fire alarm went off in my school for a practice. And the noise of the alarm was so loud, she got really panicked and scared.

  • @upscaleavenue
    @upscaleavenue 2 місяці тому +7

    This is an example of provoking someone with a verbal attack and then attacking them for responding to your attack.

  • @facetwit99
    @facetwit99 Рік тому +217

    and this is why teen mental health needs taking seriously

    • @user-vh6ts9uf6c
      @user-vh6ts9uf6c Рік тому +1

      Who doesn't take it seriously?

    • @bombsite1847
      @bombsite1847 Рік тому +49

      @@user-vh6ts9uf6c obviously not everybody but a lot of parents, caregivers, schools and health professionals don't take it as seriously as they should

    • @sallytheuselessbird
      @sallytheuselessbird 3 місяці тому

      ​@@user-vh6ts9uf6cAlready seen a lot of people in the comments who don't

    • @rosegoodman1126
      @rosegoodman1126 2 місяці тому

      Agreed

  • @wanderingshadow1372
    @wanderingshadow1372 3 місяці тому +64

    Hard to believe this is the same Donte who bullied a classmate for his bus pass back in 2006. The growth of his character is nothing short of incredible.

    • @ohwow9559
      @ohwow9559 3 місяці тому

      huhhh

    • @Romy---
      @Romy--- 3 місяці тому

      Because it's... fiction?

    • @wanderingshadow1372
      @wanderingshadow1372 3 місяці тому +8

      @@Romy--- Well, that's on me I guess. I apologise for getting invested into characters' stories and arcs.

    • @sashaking1115
      @sashaking1115 2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah Donte’s lovely!

    • @rai.2876
      @rai.2876 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Romy--- bro's a soulless person who's never appreciated art and stories before

  • @blaria95
    @blaria95 Рік тому +40

    I wish everybody was patient with people like this. Mental illness is such a real thing and we’re really not in any state of mind to be our own judge. If we’re not acting sane, should be helping us instead of arguing or ridiculing us. I struggle with ocd and it can get so bad I’m in a daze. I have also had angry outbursts.

    • @tessy28
      @tessy28 Рік тому +2

      Thats true we should be supportive but at the same time other people also have to protect their mental health as well. No reasonable person will subject themselves to constant random angry outbursts due to others trauma

    • @goofball2228
      @goofball2228 12 днів тому +1

      Oh yeah I have OCD, ADHD, PTSD, and clinical depression. All 4 of them are extremely difficult and I have outbursts like this a lot. Mental illness is as real as cancer.

  • @ErynSmith-bo9sm
    @ErynSmith-bo9sm Місяць тому +4

    "I can keep her under control"
    ...
    A few moments later...
    Window smashed

  • @astonishingpatchedits
    @astonishingpatchedits Рік тому +22

    We should be respectful of other people regardless of what they have gone through or how they may behave. This perfectly represents that.

  • @AWlpsSHOW36
    @AWlpsSHOW36 Рік тому +210

    I have not seen this show and I'm really confused.
    What's wrong with Kelly and why did she freak out immediatly when the other teacher came to her? And why was the guy that stepped in and helped all of a sudden going against her and treating her like she's crazy?

  • @legendkiller2k
    @legendkiller2k 5 місяців тому +12

    I went to school during the 80s/90s and i was just written off as a disruptive child and sent to boarding school, the education system failed me and many others back them. It was only in my 20s when i finally got diagnosed with ADHD, more shows need to follow Waterloo Road and highlight this.

  • @laurenbrennan3720
    @laurenbrennan3720 Рік тому +25

    I know it's acting and all. But it gets on my nerves when someone is teasing a person who is having an episode. Also, you shouldn't get upset with the person who is having a mental breakdown. When I was little I wish I had someone like the guy at the end to talk to me and hug me like he did.

  • @asyuruu
    @asyuruu Рік тому +14

    as much i would like to say otherwise, i'd have no idea how to deal with someone that unstable

    • @HMMdiddum
      @HMMdiddum 3 місяці тому +9

      Don't worry, it is a confusing and upsetting situation to be in. I would say that the best thing to do in this situation would have been to get her out of the class as soon as she started showing signs of distress, bring her to a safe and quiet space with accesses to sensory toys and then just be there with the student. Sit or talk quietly, roll a ball back and froth, even just be in silence, just let the student know that they are not alone and that they are safe. It's tricky but staying calm and collected when working with struggling kids is always the best move.

  • @dreamlessdemand
    @dreamlessdemand Рік тому +67

    This reminds me of PTSD and ADHD, maybe a bit of Autism. I have all 3 of these things.

    • @eneedham789
      @eneedham789 Рік тому +14

      I have autism and ADHD, but not PTSD. I have a friend who is exactly like this though.

    • @marce420.7
      @marce420.7 Рік тому +4

      I have all three two with anger issues that have me with a currently broken foot and multiple trips to the hospital from hurting myself and destroying things in my path, it's awful, this video almost triggered me myself because this girl was doing and acting exactly like i was and i feel really bad for her, people really always do make you out to be the bad guy when you lash out but dont look at the pain

    • @helena-boateng
      @helena-boateng Рік тому +4

      yeah she had undiagnosed ADHD at this point in the show

  • @xx_will0w_tree_xx
    @xx_will0w_tree_xx Рік тому +33

    I’m crying so much cause if everyone keeps pushing my patients, I feel like I will do this.

    • @liz-oi9dp
      @liz-oi9dp Рік тому +3

      U probs won’t lol

    • @user-dy1vf7lu3i
      @user-dy1vf7lu3i 3 місяці тому

      You won’t . shut up :/

    • @Tigerjasper
      @Tigerjasper 17 днів тому

      i feel the same way because i got bullled my whole life because im HFA and most most ppl look as me as a easy target but as soon as i turn into that RAGING TIGER everyone wants to act scared and innocent, if ppl still wanna keeping pushin me around then TIGER IS GONNA KILL YOU lbs

  • @Duolingobirdy
    @Duolingobirdy Рік тому +22

    Girl: * having a panic attack *
    Teacher: “ ENOUF”

    • @Amberxxbbunni
      @Amberxxbbunni Рік тому +1

      This was literally my head of year when I was having a tic attack💀

    • @zay_the_gay
      @zay_the_gay Рік тому

      ​@@Amberxxbbunni oh my days that's fucked up

  • @tanishamuntslag6369
    @tanishamuntslag6369 3 місяці тому +7

    Irl teachers think when someone acts like this they're just some teen acting out disrespectfully but that's not always the case and teachers yell at them when they have a breakdown instead of calming them down and asking what is wrong

  • @Black.Sabbath
    @Black.Sabbath Рік тому +59

    Is that supposed to be... a teacher?

    • @charlestownsend9280
      @charlestownsend9280 Рік тому +27

      Which one? The guy who said the horrible thing to the student wasn't a teacher, he was hired for the workshop. The guy who calms the student down also isn't a teacher but the maintenance guy.

    • @juliewinfield5986
      @juliewinfield5986 Рік тому +8

      @charlestownsend9280 donte who's helping her is the caretaker of the school and fixes thing when broken. but he has a son Teddy in the show, and he has the illness, so he knows what to look out for.

  • @pearljosling2246
    @pearljosling2246 Рік тому +45

    donte handled this like a pro

  • @10bencook
    @10bencook 10 місяців тому +11

    I felt sorry for Kelly Jo. I don't know what was going through her mind.

    • @masterdrake43
      @masterdrake43 3 місяці тому +2

      Watch the full episode and find out

  • @AmeliaKing-jp4dh
    @AmeliaKing-jp4dh 29 днів тому +1

    Donte was the sweetest character

  • @AmeliaKing-jp4dh
    @AmeliaKing-jp4dh 29 днів тому +1

    Donte was the sweetest character on waterloo road...

  • @officialkirbyfan6899
    @officialkirbyfan6899 4 місяці тому +7

    1:41 Me at school:

  • @taylorzesiger8168
    @taylorzesiger8168 Рік тому +7

    I have freak outs like that, and nobody does what he did for her. Nobody hurts me like that and tells me that I’m safe and that everything‘s gonna be OK and everything‘s gonna be all right. Nobody does that with me at all and it hurts because I need that too and nobody understands that or cares to do that with me!!!!!!!!!!!!! I get upset just like she got upset and nobody hugged me like he hugged her and reassured me that I am safe and that everything‘s gonna be OK and that everything‘s gonna be all right

    • @vladimirfyodorov
      @vladimirfyodorov Рік тому +4

      I’m sorry that you haven’t been treated well 🤍
      There are good people out there though, who will comfort you if you’re upset. I suppose it just takes time and effort to meet them.
      I also have emotional breakdowns like that and it’s helpful for me to try and comfort myself rather than to rely on other people. Even though it can be more difficult.
      I hope you’re well 🤍

    • @taylorzesiger8168
      @taylorzesiger8168 Рік тому

      @@vladimirfyodorov You are such a caring person!!!!!! 😁🤗💗😭

  • @mhhawali3148
    @mhhawali3148 Рік тому +6

    this is exactly "you can't shoot me and then get shot" moment

  • @redkyl3
    @redkyl3 Рік тому +26

    pretty much this EXACT same situation happened to me 3 years ago when i was in year 10. in january 2023, i was officially diagnosed with adhd and the reason why they even investigated the possibility in the first place was because i told them about what happened in that drama class. i always see people saying they think the show misrepresented adhd, and that the symptoms line up more closely with autism and it bothers me because there is a LOT of crossover in the symptoms for both conditions. adhd can ABSOLUTELY look like this, and i'm glad the show put the effort into representing it further than just being hyper or talking too much.

    • @yusinu6642
      @yusinu6642 Рік тому +5

      Yes I’ve seen so many posts about how people don’t realize how autism and adhd manifest in different ways. That’s why I’m so uncertain as to whether I have adhd, autism, or both

    • @redkyl3
      @redkyl3 Рік тому +4

      ​@@yusinu6642 there's actually a thing where if you have one neurodiversity, you're likely to have another! for example, if you have autism, you're more likely to also have adhd because of the sheer amount of overlap there can be. it can be really difficult to distinguish between those two specifically; my paediatrician went back and forth between pursuing an autism diagnosis or an adhd one for almost *7 years* before eventually deciding on both!

    • @yusinu6642
      @yusinu6642 Рік тому +5

      @@redkyl3 😭😭😭thank you so much for telling me. This is going to be so hard but I’m going to try to do a bunch of research on the both of them so when I finally get tested, I don’t have them dismissing me because I don’t have “typical behaviors” even though there’s a range❤️

    • @redkyl3
      @redkyl3 Рік тому +4

      ​@@yusinu6642 research is key! also, i'm obviously not sure of your gender lol but i thought i'd mention anyways; an insane amount of females with adhd are misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder as professionals often overlook adhd symptoms or misinterpret them. i would seriously suggest also researching bipolar just as a precautionary measure in case anyone tries to convince you its that instead, and you have the words to tell them if they're wrong about anything.

  • @ashihayashi5363
    @ashihayashi5363 Рік тому +17

    This had my heart moving 😢

  • @calliope12994
    @calliope12994 Рік тому +15

    I have internal BPD but one or 2 of my eposides have been similar. I am angry and need to hurt myself or break things and as soon as I do I'm calm and start crying and apologising.
    Yeah this made me cry.

  • @Kopie0830
    @Kopie0830 Рік тому +77

    This is probably how most school shooting starts. Lots of gaslighting and bullying then the silent kid can't handle it anymore. Bullying needs to stop.

    • @ProphecyPhrase
      @ProphecyPhrase Рік тому +15

      It needs too but schools don't do shit. Teachers turn a blind eye as it's easier.

    • @onlycows726
      @onlycows726 3 місяці тому

      @@ProphecyPhrase Which kinda contradicts the whole duty of care thing

  • @shagunricakujur7102
    @shagunricakujur7102 Рік тому +8

    It happens with me sometimes when I feel lonely , have a feeling of abandonment but it happens only in my home , I always burst out with a lot of mixed emotions , mental breakdown because of this .

  • @liamholmes9169
    @liamholmes9169 Рік тому +69

    this show is quite good on the elements of how it affects others. it's serious support.

    • @majored3887
      @majored3887 Рік тому +12

      it's defininatelyagood representation of itall.

    • @morelorel
      @morelorel Рік тому +3

      why are you typing like this ?

    • @nsftgh9599
      @nsftgh9599 Рік тому +3

      Yes. I. Agree v

  • @aaronconway995
    @aaronconway995 Рік тому +9

    The teacher had no right shouting at Kelly like that it’s unacceptable and mean

    • @masterdrake43
      @masterdrake43 3 місяці тому

      The teacher is not fit to be called a teacher!

  • @eloisestannard_xo
    @eloisestannard_xo Рік тому +6

    i do feel really bad as i have autism, spd and severe anxiety and this has happend to me multiple times in school it's really hard work tbf i feel bad for her.

  • @alexaaa20000
    @alexaaa20000 Рік тому +21

    I've got adhd and sometimes it really gets like this

  • @xxsnapes.daughterxx2287
    @xxsnapes.daughterxx2287 2 місяці тому +2

    I used to act up like that from ptsd breakdowns and yk what those teachers should be glad she didn’t knock one of them out cuz I would’ve 😂

  • @benjaminguezen833
    @benjaminguezen833 Рік тому +9

    Am I the only one lost in the youtube recommendations with out any context for this scene?

  • @PirateOfTheNorth
    @PirateOfTheNorth 3 місяці тому +2

    This gave me a flashback to when I was in secondary school. I was always told it was my fault and the teachers used to yell at me. I wouldn’t have a meltdown but I was just go quiet and withdrawn. I wouldn’t want to speak because I was scared if I did I would get yelled at again. Only when I was in my late 20’s did a get diagnosed with autism and adhd.

  • @ZoeCapon
    @ZoeCapon Місяць тому

    Id just like to give the actress who played Kelly Jo a standing ovation. Emotional scenes like this are so hard to do and she really smashes it.👏👏👏

  • @Happy_Horses_Shaila
    @Happy_Horses_Shaila Рік тому +38

    Go Donte this was only my second episode of Waterloo road but I have watched a few of the old ones I love it already reminds me of my school crazy 🤪

    • @juliewinfield5986
      @juliewinfield5986 Рік тому +3

      Donte knew what was happening as his son in waterloo road teddy he's called I think as the illness as well.

  • @tomjardine100
    @tomjardine100 8 місяців тому +4

    Rejection anxiety expiosde, common in adhd

  • @jameliakingstom1190
    @jameliakingstom1190 Рік тому +101

    He shouldn’t have spoken to her like that tho that teacher

    • @sofiandolga
      @sofiandolga Рік тому +10

      she said something offencive to him too, so it's partly her fault

    • @a.f.2330
      @a.f.2330 Рік тому +39

      @@sofiandolga What she said was from a place of hurt and being unable to cope with whatever she was going through; that teacher said something way worse and unwarranted when he was perfectly alright (mentally, that is). As the adult, it's up to him to understand that kid was not herself, and people say/do things that they normally wouldn't do when they have a breakdown. Some compassion goes a long way in situations like this. He could have definitely handled it way better than he did, without escalating the situation, if he had been nicer

    • @nl-ho4wm
      @nl-ho4wm Рік тому +6

      @@a.f.2330 you dont know that, that teacher maybe it's not 'alright' mentally just like her and what he said could have came from a place of hurt. Its a pretty hypocritical mindset to expect people to help her when she hurt them with her words especially when the reason why she had breakdown was because someone hurt her (by rejecting her). If she can have a breakdown and hurt others because she felt hurt then why other people couldnt do the same to her when she hurt them??
      well sadly the majority of people have their own traumas to deal with. So in the middle of the breakdown you can trigger some trauma in other people by your actions and they will hurt you back, its a possible consecuence of your behaviour

    • @jameliakingstom1190
      @jameliakingstom1190 Рік тому

      @@sofiandolga no he’s a teacher lmao

    • @jameliakingstom1190
      @jameliakingstom1190 Рік тому

      @@nl-ho4wm it doesn’t matter he’s a teacher

  • @LovelyCuteBunnies123
    @LovelyCuteBunnies123 3 місяці тому +2

    I don’t have ptsd but I remember going through the same exact thing multiple times as a child…. I am a victim of child abuse though with complex trauma 😮

  • @AmeliaKing-jp4dh
    @AmeliaKing-jp4dh 29 днів тому

    Donte was the sweetest character ❤

  • @AmeliaRoman90
    @AmeliaRoman90 26 днів тому

    I have Autism and that happened to me at school and the teachers knew exactly what to do! I wish that girl has a lot of teachers who are supportive as my teachers

  • @10bencook
    @10bencook 11 місяців тому +2

    I’ve been in similar situations as Kelly Jo. I have outbursts and anger issues as well.

  • @mizzuri4starz
    @mizzuri4starz 20 днів тому

    I’ve had outbursts similar to this at home, wondering if I should get that checked out

  • @rockydavis94
    @rockydavis94 Рік тому +20

    It says on internet she has ADHD

  • @jamke6170
    @jamke6170 Рік тому +8

    Yet this is the state of a lot of teachers. Teachers believing they have the power to shout at students. They do not understand the effects they have on us.

  • @CareBear2480
    @CareBear2480 Рік тому +19

    I have ADHD, PTSD, Depression, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Reactive Attachment Disorder, and I’m looking into a BPD diagnosis. Growing up in elementary school, I was A LOT like this in classes. I had to have my whole class removed from the room, many times. I was always asked by teachers why I acted the way I did. Which made things worse, because I didn’t know, and I don’t wanna be asked that. I was told I had really bad anger issues. When I got older and went to other schools, it got worse. Got on many medications, I was out of control, kicked out of schools, etc. teachers never did much of anything UNTIL I got out of control. Like they wanted it to happen it felt like. All of what I stated, is actually why I never went to college like I wanted to. I felt it wouldn’t be a good fit for me.

    • @killerdrag692
      @killerdrag692 Рік тому

      Travel and see the beautiful scenery. Try slow and long proper breathing techniques. Don't enclose yourself in the end it's only you who can help yourself. Don't try to get sympathy from others It will just make you weak it's harsh to say but toughened up yourself is the best way.

  • @xxrandomxx13
    @xxrandomxx13 4 місяці тому +4

    I relate to Kelly jo so much

  • @SCHfan-jb4zo
    @SCHfan-jb4zo Рік тому +17

    The teacher was not handling the situation very well the first time, she shouldn’t have yelled at her because she was having a traumatic breakdown.
    Instead, it could’ve been handled like this
    De-escalate the situation
    Take the student away from the other students and have a talk
    Talk down the the feelings inside that waste of the student will feel better and want to go back to learning
    I myself am not a teacher, but this is not the way how things are handled
    I don’t care if it’s a TV, show this kind of thing happens every day

  • @charlotteh2280
    @charlotteh2280 Рік тому +2

    I find Kelly Jo's character really realistic 🙌🏻

  • @slothdoesthis
    @slothdoesthis Рік тому +8

    average day in my school

  • @rosiebeal3096
    @rosiebeal3096 Рік тому +4

    Teachers should not have pushed her too far that's what's happened they could see it happening so why didn't they just be more understand rather than shout at her

  • @thestanleylife
    @thestanleylife Рік тому +2

    There's a boy in my year in most of my classes at school who has special needs and this kind of thing happens a lot when he gets too stressed out he starts throwing desks and chairs at people and they have to evacuate everyone out of the classroom without their stuff but I always feel really bad for him because I feel like no one gets him but my eldest brother has autism like him and I've grown up with that and know how to handle it but the teachers don't. Staff at school usually don't understand why a child does this and shouts at them and tells them off but that's not the right thing to do. You need to be understanding, patient and gentle which will help them calm down and recover better.

  • @declangaming24
    @declangaming24 Рік тому +7

    Its like josh from the earlier seasons I want them to bring trenemen and rimmer

  • @georgemacpherson1992
    @georgemacpherson1992 Рік тому +6

    The guys who gets hold of her looks like he was on coronation street

  • @lilachendersonross2974
    @lilachendersonross2974 3 місяці тому +1

    What the episode of this?❤

  • @hassantumbo6616
    @hassantumbo6616 Рік тому +41

    I know I'm a bit new at this but what does the teacher mean when he says "I wonder what hole you'll end up in" to Kelly Jo ? Just wondering what he meant

    • @sippinonsoju
      @sippinonsoju Рік тому +34

      i think he’s trying to say that she’ll end up like a druggie or something

    • @sheeats4019
      @sheeats4019 Рік тому

      Or mental institution

    • @XSHADOWTHELEGENDARYHEDGEHOGxX
      @XSHADOWTHELEGENDARYHEDGEHOGxX Рік тому

      like what mental hospital shell end up in

    • @dancingheart6224
      @dancingheart6224 Рік тому +29

      It's a metaphorical phrase used as an insult to tell someone they end up having no job or no success in their future. It's like saying they will get stuck in a hole with no way out. Terribly abusive thing for a teacher to say.

    • @kgabisopoto5039
      @kgabisopoto5039 Рік тому

      As in hell hole,druggie or mental hospital

  • @denial4eternity
    @denial4eternity 4 місяці тому +2

    Me if my instruive thoughts won:

  • @Mal1050E
    @Mal1050E Рік тому +24

    I thought this whole new season was really good !

  • @margaretmanchester543
    @margaretmanchester543 Рік тому +2

    This is so sad😢

  • @StayVCA98
    @StayVCA98 Рік тому +73

    Prolly just me but idk why but I always thought that schools in general is just awful really, you get terrible teachers who either instead of helping you instead they are the ones who pull you down by deliberately not letting you pass, classmates on their diff types of bullying with their alienating social circles, the schools themselves who takes advantage on some of their students and teachers with their low pays on them to choke hold on students and parents with school debts, not to mention school bad experiences will be diff per county such as Gun Violence, school shootings, teachers and even students with questionable backgrounds etc...
    A bit unnecessary take but yeah... 🙃

    • @SandDancerHellie
      @SandDancerHellie Рік тому +2

      Prolly isn't a word

    • @StayVCA98
      @StayVCA98 Рік тому +2

      @@SandDancerHellie
      Cearly you haven't searched it yet to confirm it, so it is an official word "GENIUS"...

  • @bd06m0030
    @bd06m0030 Рік тому +7

    Question. Why does a whole class have to be policed and arguably pushed to do things that are not comfortable with in order to make one person comfortable? Speaking from personal experience where do you draw the line? Would it be alright if they berate someone? How about physical violence? No judgment. Genuinely curious

    • @JustAlexeii
      @JustAlexeii Рік тому +10

      What do you mean exactly by “pushed to do things they aren’t comfortable with”?

    • @egg-iu3fe
      @egg-iu3fe Рік тому +1

      people like that should be told to exit the classroom if they can't control themselves.

  • @geekyrobot__7316
    @geekyrobot__7316 3 місяці тому +4

    people in these comments really don't understand what ptsd can look like.... sorry trauma is ugly i guess lmao

  • @nicczlvo
    @nicczlvo 2 місяці тому +2

    ngl this was me a week ago at school

  • @Naivnish7242
    @Naivnish7242 Рік тому

    Which ep is this ?

  • @woefulmelancholy
    @woefulmelancholy Рік тому +8

    Reminds me of me before DBT therapy and EMDR therapy. I have CPTSD and BPD, triggers can be so difficult to cope with in an effective way. It's like I try to get people to understand my emotional needs by blatantly telling them but when I'm not taken seriously and my needs still aren't met, I feel the urge to be more reactive to get my needs met. I've been in situations like this only I usually would start hurting myself to show how upset I am, after that doesn't work then I'd eventually start getting physical with others. These didn't benefit me much in the long term, only in the short term. People call me crazy lol yeah my brain doesn't work like other brains, I know it's crazy right 🙃

  • @TlCwitliyah
    @TlCwitliyah Рік тому +10

    I had an episode like this last week about me having BPD I think that what's it called because my house life is ehh and I been hiding my actually feelings for years cause I was so young and valunable now that I'm 15 I had a major episode about my mom and how everybody blames me for everything and how I don't feel the comfort because never had that with my family honesty. So I threw things yelling scream trying to get my point across and I'm the one getting threatened to call the police and everyone thinks I'm the bad guy instead of talking to me. My feelings matter to. Never said I didn't care for anyone else's
    ...but ok anyway people speculating I have bipolar and I wish I can to a specialist that can tell me cause I wanna know....

    • @EssenceBScott
      @EssenceBScott Рік тому +3

      Hey-I don’t usually comment on UA-cam videos but feel compelled to reply here. I’m not sure where you reside. If you live in the United States, I believe you can seek help for emotional distress without your parents consent regardless of your age. If you feel that the BPD diagnosis doesn’t fit for you, you can (and should!!) ask for a reassessment by a psychologist.
      I know for me, I’m autistic and have severe mental illness that includes PTSD and I will have episodes where I am so in it that I don’t remember what’s happened. In the past I’ve gotten violent towards myself and needed to be restrained. I just…disappear, you know? And then “come to” in public (on the bus, etc).
      In short, if you are able to seek help for emotional distress, please do so. I don’t know if you live in the United States, but if you do, I believe you can seek help for emotional distress without your parents consent, regardless of your age. If any information I’ve provided is inaccurate, I welcome the opportunity to be corrected.
      I hope you receive the help you deserve and need.

  • @SussyBakaSenpai
    @SussyBakaSenpai Рік тому +4

    So what actually happened to her why did she have PTSD? I really would like to know.

  • @ran1aa
    @ran1aa 3 місяці тому +1

    1:25 she was fine until she came along. She pissed me off just like she did to the girl, like she was fine until you came along?

  • @chewylittle7275
    @chewylittle7275 2 місяці тому

    What’s the series/movies called?

  • @SadNikolai
    @SadNikolai 11 місяців тому +3

    Isnt the helper Donte

  • @Manchesterkiltsman1121
    @Manchesterkiltsman1121 Рік тому

    THIS IS ME WITH MY FAMILY!!

  • @For3v3rY0urAng3ll
    @For3v3rY0urAng3ll Рік тому +1

    THIS METHOD DOES NOT WORK WITH EVERYONE EXPERIENCING PTSD BREAKDOWN OR ASD MELTDOWN

  • @charlottetaylor1514
    @charlottetaylor1514 23 дні тому

    I'm like this even though I've haven't got autism but due to my disability I stim in class a lot because the noise gets to me a lot and sometimes I have breakdowns/ meltdowns because I can understand what Kelly is going through especially this because i've been bullied in the past

  • @ChocoBabiChan
    @ChocoBabiChan Рік тому +6

    I don't watch this show. What the hell is her problem?

  • @jacobmorgan7203
    @jacobmorgan7203 Рік тому +11

    Me: my classroom 😢

  • @egg-iu3fe
    @egg-iu3fe Рік тому

    i have no idea what this is, what is happening and why im watching this

  • @sirijanthakur
    @sirijanthakur Рік тому +3

    how the hell they not realising she got ADHD and needs therapy isntead of fighting and being scolded xD(ik its a show, just saying it for feeling the joy in saying so xD)