TONY GASKINS debates ACE METAPHOR, exposes FAKE Relationship Experts & TRUTH About Relationships

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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated  2 місяці тому +2

    👉DATING CARDS: hi.hardlyinitiated.com/datingcards

  • @kimpossible2725
    @kimpossible2725 11 місяців тому +515

    🗣THE NUMBER 1 PROBLEM IN DATING AND IN MARRIAGE IS WE TAKE GOD OUT OF IT!!

  • @qwiktips6804
    @qwiktips6804 10 місяців тому +315

    "Wrong advice can cost someone their life ". Tony stay spitting bars

  • @wendynash5552
    @wendynash5552 Рік тому +1757

    Tony Gaskins may not deliver the way that is comfortable for everyone... but he is spot on about what is needed in our community and future generations

    • @NS_32
      @NS_32 Рік тому +21

      This!

    • @malene4481
      @malene4481 Рік тому +17

      ABSOLUTELY!!

    • @christineporter9914
      @christineporter9914 Рік тому +12

      💯❤️🎯

    • @daciapowers1124
      @daciapowers1124 Рік тому +17

      Threw love and kindness have I drawn thee! TG’s approach was out of line. I 100% agree with TG’s messages however Ace is still a soul that TG may not win because his approach was wrong.

    • @daciapowers1124
      @daciapowers1124 Рік тому +15

      Continually interrupting him, telling him to take base out his voice that’s not love. Don’t argue with a fool is all I say and that’s bible. As well as there will only be a remnant so maybe Ace may or not ever believe

  • @MsFitVegan
    @MsFitVegan 10 місяців тому +99

    “If you chase your purpose… money will chase you!” -TG

  • @andiswagcolotela9133
    @andiswagcolotela9133 Рік тому +1274

    Tony’s example in this episode is. “Stand for the truth, even if you stand alone”. Public opinion, even popular opinion, is not the arbiter of truth

    • @kellihullaby775
      @kellihullaby775 Рік тому +43

      We are all capable of this. Thanks, Tony for remaining consistent in real time. It was good to see.

    • @DatDyme980
      @DatDyme980 Рік тому +9

      💥💯👍🏽 STRAIGHT FACTS on the 56th thumb up!

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie Рік тому +4

      Agree

    • @ItsDee1213
      @ItsDee1213 Рік тому +4

      💯

    • @BVIgirl_Sarai
      @BVIgirl_Sarai Рік тому +4

      💯

  • @Nicole-4110
    @Nicole-4110 Рік тому +938

    Protect this man at all costs!!
    This man is leading people down the narrow road.

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 Рік тому +9

      Absolutely!

    • @ovigada
      @ovigada Рік тому +1

      I disagree. He's seeking validation and doesn't know the God of the Bible. He's a wolf in sheep's clothing I think just like Derrick Jackson was. Time will tell.

    • @Pickedpurposely
      @Pickedpurposely Рік тому +16

      @@ovigada I believe she was talking about Tony not AC lol

    • @jogreen7
      @jogreen7 Рік тому +40

      @@ovigadaeverything Tony Gaskins is saying is found in the Bible. He believes the Bible is the authority and is standing on what God says about marriage, holy living, how pastors ought to live act and speak. People don’t want to hear the hard truths. We need to return to seeking after righteousness as the body of Christ. Too many fornicating and worldly living ‘Christian’s’ giving our Holy God a bad name. God will not be mocked. Jesus is coming back soon.

    • @R0yALtyS
      @R0yALtyS 11 місяців тому

      ​@@ovigadawhich 1?

  • @Wait228BlackWifeWorld
    @Wait228BlackWifeWorld Рік тому +682

    Tony is wise beyond his years. As someone who has been married 26 years with Black parents who've been married 68 years, marriage is commitment, compromise, consistency, integrity, and forgiveness. I weep over the negativity and competition that appears to have developed amongst Black men and women. We need each other.

    • @DaintyAbby
      @DaintyAbby Рік тому +4

      26?! What’s your secret?!

    • @joycewatt800
      @joycewatt800 Рік тому +1

      @Wait228BlackWifeWorld
      EXACTLY!!!!

    • @joycewatt800
      @joycewatt800 Рік тому +25

      @@DaintyAbbyThere’s no secret. It takes everything she stated….
      “commitment, consistency, compromise, forgiveness, integrity,”I’ll add a big one and often overlooked one and that’s SELFLESSNESS etc. That’s the part of the work that many people don’t understand or don’t want to do.
      Married 15 years and there’s ALWAYS something to learn and grow in order to maintain it. Also, if God is not the foundation you building on very shaky ground. The devil HATES marriage and he wants to destroy it. Sadly these days we’re helping to destroy it.

    • @tekianewbill9068
      @tekianewbill9068 Рік тому +4

      AMEN!!! Well said🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 Рік тому +6

      Point blank!

  • @janeemartin7561
    @janeemartin7561 11 місяців тому +190

    The culture is literally killing us! Thank you, Tony❤

  • @kay_gold
    @kay_gold Рік тому +736

    Dating for fun is literally insane...that's why we're single mothers, baby daddy's and don't have no damn money smh

  • @shawnstanford527
    @shawnstanford527 Рік тому +816

    I'm so glad that someone is finally calling out these fake so called relationship experts.

    • @tiffanyjones1857
      @tiffanyjones1857 Рік тому +47

      Tony G is full of wisdom!! I totally agree with everything that he shared. Glad he is walking with God and led by Holy Spirit.

    • @MysteryUnfold
      @MysteryUnfold Рік тому +95

      It’s something about StephanSpeaks that doesn’t sit well with me and I feel like I’m the only one that sees it.

    • @shawnstanford527
      @shawnstanford527 Рік тому +38

      @@MysteryUnfold I feel the same way when it comes to Ace Metaphor

    • @BellaKayeLLard
      @BellaKayeLLard Рік тому +14

      ​@@MysteryUnfoldYou're not the only one! I just can't get past all the hair on his head and face 😩 along with the tight tailored suits .

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 Рік тому

      @@tiffanyjones1857the difference with them and him that’s why they can’t take it

  • @Missbreeadams
    @Missbreeadams Рік тому +488

    TG was 100% right. Ace is the perfect example of a person who doesn’t know who he is. He said twice he grew up believing what TG talks, yet he promotes and accepts “everything”. A man who knows who he is stands on his principles and doesn’t bend. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. We can’t get anywhere playing the 50.

  • @storiesofmira.youtube
    @storiesofmira.youtube 11 місяців тому +401

    I went to an actual Tonight's Conversation live show with my mom. I had showed the podcast to my mom, and we both really gained a huge interest in the topics they've discussed. After going to the live viewing, I stopped watching the show immediately. They were promoting worldly content, one moment, and then playing gospel music the next moment. They specifically asked the audience to ask messy and toxic questions. So watching this interview I am 100% on Tony Gaskins sides. When you represent and stand as an heir of Christ you have to use your platform in a way that promotes truth. God's standards and principles on love, marriage, etc. IS THE ONLY TRUTH. There is no subjectivity if a person believes in. The Tonight's Conversation is 100% toxic. It is confused, and is only feeding the flesh with entertainment and a heated debate every now and then. There is no fruit. Many people won't agree with Mr. Tony, but he is right.

    • @prissyglam6147
      @prissyglam6147 11 місяців тому +5

      Truth!

    • @blasiankiki7831
      @blasiankiki7831 11 місяців тому +22

      When I heard some of their sexual topics I was disgusted. It was vulgar filth… I don’t see how people couldn’t leave there and not be lusting if they are dealing with sexual urges.. they def encouraging hookup culture

    • @Iamcherese
      @Iamcherese 10 місяців тому +24

      Heavy on “NO FRUIT” 🍎👏🏾😭

    • @lijonasturghil11
      @lijonasturghil11 10 місяців тому +20

      I have been trying to attend a live of Tonight’s Conversation but after seeing this pod I realize there’s a reason my schedule never matched. God ddnt want me there, my beliefs align w/what Tony speaks of, dating to marry cus wtf other way is there lol especially if you’re a believer! And to see you say they ask ppl to ask these toxic questions let’s me know it’s all about clicks, views and money w/these ppl! Baby God is tired cus everybody’s mess is being exposed, it’s wild!!! Thank you!

    • @lboggans1
      @lboggans1 10 місяців тому +18

      Yup the clips are bait, i sent my mom and sis for her bday in Atlanta she said it was so vulgar and substancless. So him tryna make it seem like it was so much more than what it is is funny and sad.

  • @Hoppinwithhago
    @Hoppinwithhago Рік тому +520

    It takes a lot of courage to go against the norm publicly and he’s doing it. 🙏🏾

  • @sha2408
    @sha2408 Рік тому +255

    “You cannot see the spirit when you are wallowing in sin.”
    -Tony Gaskins Jr 🙌🏼

    • @Chantusyluvmuzik
      @Chantusyluvmuzik Рік тому +2

      That one !☝🏾

    • @ShawneeP
      @ShawneeP Рік тому +4

      Okkkk!!! Can't see it at all! I've been there, done that. His words are law.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 11 місяців тому +1

      True Story

  • @stephanienelly90
    @stephanienelly90 Рік тому +384

    TG’s family must be so proud of him. His presence commands respect. This is truly what you call an Alpha male, a man of prestige!

    • @TheGeminian
      @TheGeminian 11 місяців тому +2

      YES❤️❤️❤️

    • @msangie5049
      @msangie5049 11 місяців тому

      That’s not commanding respect that’s ignorance & arrogance & it’s giving little man syndrome. I have attended a Tonight’s conversation podcast and yes there were comical moments but the messages were very clear & helpful for what’s going on out here today. Ace & Tripp is all about telling hurt, bitter broken ppl to get OUT of the dating pool THAT is the main reason we can’t find a mate r decent partners it’s because it’s all bunch of broken ppl out here. This was the perfect time for TG to come together & connect with a panel of ppl of color but as usual he’s a loud mouth NIGGA so busy trying to “PROVE A POINT” without properly doing his research ON NONE OF THE MEN HE’S speaking on I’m highly disappointed I will never click on a video of his smh

    • @cldans804
      @cldans804 11 місяців тому +5

      No that's A-whipping looking for a place to sit. When you command respect, a man does not have to ask for it. IT IS GIVEN, and he had it up unto that point he asked for it.

    • @MrQuincy611
      @MrQuincy611 11 місяців тому

      This is no alpha male he would be below a beta male!! He’s giving false information and leading the lambs to the wolf’s!!!

    • @Goddess-Reign
      @Goddess-Reign 11 місяців тому +1

      💯

  • @DS___
    @DS___ 10 місяців тому +96

    Tony is really the one and not the two. He is truly a pillar for the benefit of our community as a whole... trying to please everyone fails everyone.

  • @monicalouis8333
    @monicalouis8333 Рік тому +515

    I think it is unfair to invite someone to a platform and then invite someone else on who wants to come on because they are upset about what Tony said about him. Stay in control of your show. Y’all should have invited him for another time. Allowing an unexpected guest to get in an argumentative debate with a guest you already planned to have. Ace can come back another time and get stuff off of his chest. Everything went left trying to prove a point and there are people that had questions and needed help. This was Tony’s time not Ace’s.

    • @nashsis
      @nashsis Рік тому +60

      At the very leasg they shouldve had more control of the interaction.

    • @Sulantheboujetbrand
      @Sulantheboujetbrand Рік тому +21

      Precisely

    • @TerraTalesofTestimonies
      @TerraTalesofTestimonies Рік тому +66

      Agreed Ace can have his time, plus he was very condescending I was a little surprised by his approach with Tony. He wouldn’t let go of the comment that Tony made when he said take that bass out your voice. He was really triggered and he showed it on this platform.

    • @Nikita_848
      @Nikita_848 11 місяців тому +64

      I fully agree...It was a very distasteful thing to do to a guest on your show. Makes me wonder if they are chasing likes or chasing the truth

    • @R0yALtyS
      @R0yALtyS 11 місяців тому +19

      ​@@TerraTalesofTestimoniesTony was condescending as well. Ace literally always talks in the same passionate way.

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee Рік тому +443

    Message 🗣️: STAND ON WHAT YOU STAND ON!!!!!

    • @SummerTyme2023
      @SummerTyme2023 Рік тому +17

      You need to get breeny on the pod!

    • @sexyblackcharlery
      @sexyblackcharlery Рік тому +5

      Hey Breeny, love ur channel

    • @sexyblackcharlery
      @sexyblackcharlery Рік тому

      ​@@SummerTyme2023yes pls get Breeny on

    • @mslove2913
      @mslove2913 Рік тому +11

      "What do you stand for?"
      Anyone can stand on/for anything, the things I've seen people stand on lately, their results are divorce, ego, murder, pleasure, so on and so forth. Pay Attention!!!

    • @zeehunter6533
      @zeehunter6533 Рік тому +3

      FACTS

  • @sianimadi
    @sianimadi Рік тому +382

    I have so much more respect for Tony Gaskins than I ever have before.

    • @ericamcinnis7926
      @ericamcinnis7926 Рік тому +5

      Right!! Even more respect now!

    • @MamaBear15o2
      @MamaBear15o2 Рік тому +2

      Same!

    • @evelyn7881
      @evelyn7881 Рік тому +2

      Yes

    • @mslove2913
      @mslove2913 Рік тому +10

      That Part, He showed the enemy and the world Gods Word is unchanging and Change hearts

    • @jaydent5567
      @jaydent5567 Рік тому +5

      The truth is the truth. Period. Thank you Tony Gaskins for standing up for nothing but the truth. I ain’t listening to anyone who don’t practice what they preach. If one’s principles/advice haven’t worked for you to have a good marriage. What advice are you giving. From what well are you drawing? Let’s put in the work & stop the noise. Have never seen anyone who wants to be rich take advice from a broke ass person.

  • @MzBadAzz1984
    @MzBadAzz1984 11 місяців тому +155

    when Tony said "where God brings clarity, Ace brought confusion" thats the end of the show right there !!!!!!!!!

  • @nettab2
    @nettab2 Рік тому +413

    I took the time out to really think about what I get out of listening to both because I've been an active listener to Ace recently and to Tony & RC for years now. When I listen to Ace, the majority of my thoughts are, “Yeah, dudes, aren’t *ish! He lost a good thing; forget these dudes; I’ll just be single forever, because who has time for games?" When I listen to Tony and RC, my thoughts are, “What part did I play in the downfall? How can I become a better woman? What areas do I need to work on in my life to become a better individual independently? Fornication does open the door to the enemy! How do I show up in the world? How can I make sure God is at the center? And mannnn they are funny!” So for me now, I can see the difference. One voice makes me hate and despise dudes and feeds my ego FORSURE, and the others point me back to self, the work that’s required within, and God. After this, I definitely need to be more intentional about who I allow to pour into me. Especially for the desired outcome I’m looking for.

    • @dime6994
      @dime6994 11 місяців тому +38

      I agree 100%! I used to listen to Ace too often back when I was heart broken, living in iniquity (fornication), and was only getting content from him that validated “how much guys ain’t ****”. But back to what Tony was saying, I never got a solution from him or anyone else promoting that message, and it kept me running in the same circle of self-destruction that I was in. It wasn’t until I really started listening to those like Tim Ross & TG that actually reminded me of why I truly wanted to date anyway & that was for the purpose of marriage. I know they might not be perfect, but I can sense how the intent behind their message is pure. Bless them and those that speak truth with love. God knows our world needs it.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 11 місяців тому +10

      Powerful what you saying.😮

    • @blackpearltravel8228
      @blackpearltravel8228 11 місяців тому +5

      Amen

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 11 місяців тому +5

      Beautiful reflection, and well said... All the best to you!

    • @tiab11
      @tiab11 11 місяців тому +3

      Totally agree

  • @nakenyiasheree
    @nakenyiasheree Рік тому +513

    Reading the comments I see that we all love the content from TG . Then it hit me , women really want & desire healthy godly relationships but we compromise just to fill voids etc . Wheeeew if we understood the power we possess!! ❤

    • @shaylaahava6413
      @shaylaahava6413 Рік тому +6

      Bingo! 💯

    • @ilaray4513
      @ilaray4513 Рік тому +2

      💯💯

    • @Keeks1983
      @Keeks1983 Рік тому +3

      That part!!❤❤

    • @clove8763
      @clove8763 Рік тому +2

      👊

    • @FUEGOSTARR
      @FUEGOSTARR Рік тому +19

      Yes! Our hearts are too big, minds are too soft and ears are too naive. Especially for me! I’m in my early twenties and reevaluating many things regarding standards, how I hold myself up. This comment just called me in the most simplest way.

  • @alwaysgrowing7273
    @alwaysgrowing7273 11 місяців тому +145

    Ace: We listen to questions…
    TG: We give answers.

  • @stard8631
    @stard8631 11 місяців тому +188

    Tony promotes Kingdom and Ace promotes Culture. One is Godly and the other is worldly. Choose wisely.

  • @LovemyraJ
    @LovemyraJ Рік тому +348

    I’m with Tony Gaskins! He speaking truth and he is a true leader. He has the ground work done and he has the family success to back it up!

    • @shellyhunt4910
      @shellyhunt4910 Рік тому

      My auntie put me on too him

    • @she-she8970
      @she-she8970 Рік тому +3

      Facts! They not ready for the truth. Our society is lost. God is using Tony to speak the truth.

    • @babakangshakoane9162
      @babakangshakoane9162 Рік тому

      I completely agree with you, Tony has a point there's too many players out there, how low of Ace to say purpose of dating is different. Love should be the same. Dating should lead to marriage is not only biblical but good moral. Its guys like Ace who confuse the Society. Its not about religion its about morals, principle. Thats why we have such messed/hurt up Society. We should be dating with a purpose to marry end of

    • @SophisticatedTeacher
      @SophisticatedTeacher 11 місяців тому +1

      I agree. That mans ego was hurt and he tried to call and kick up dust!

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments Рік тому +221

    THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TONY & OTHER COACHES.
    Yes, Tony is saying some of the same thing as other Relationship Coaches, and Tony even admits that they are saying some of the same things.
    What’s different⁉️👇🏾
    CHARACTER, CAPACITY, CONSISTENCY, & CHRIST-CENTERED.
    Tony’s spirit is right, he’s experienced in the trenches, he’s a committed husband & father, he’s a Servant Leader, he practices what he preaches, he has compassion for our community, & he is out here saving lives.
    “Love is not based on trends & fads. Love is based on principles.”
    This is another great interview. Thank you, Tony, Ryan & Tysean.🙌🏾

    • @manoniemoments
      @manoniemoments Рік тому +1

      WHAT’S PUZZLING IS THE AGGRESSION TOWARDS TONY.
      His clear message, which is rooted in Biblical Principles, is beneficial to men, women, & children.
      NO ONE IN THEIR RIGHT MIND IS AGAINST A LOVING MARRIAGE, HEALTHY FAMILY DYNAMICS, & BUILDING THE COMMUNITY.
      Only satan and dark forces are against us winning. The devil is the author of confusion. He deceives many people to embracing ideas that work against their own well-being.
      Tony doesn’t pander to women. He promotes the God ordained covenant of marriage & beneficial familial practices.
      AS A COMMUNITY WE NEED MORE:
      -Self-Examination
      -Accountability
      -Discipline
      -Commitment to Godly Healing & Therapy
      -Getting married, staying committed, & making it work.
      -Raising well rounded children that are making positive contributions to society.
      &
      -Individuals intentionally focused on contributing to society by adding value & advancement to the: technological, scientific, economic, educational, & governmental spaces.
      IT’S TIME TO LEVEL UP!
      NO MORE CHASING TEMPORARY HIGHS.
      WE ARE MADE IN THE IMAGE OF THE ALMIGHTY GOD. JESUS DIED & ROSE AGAIN, SO THAT WE CAN LIVE ABUNDANTLY.🙌🏾
      Living in confusion, strife, limitations, shame, poverty, stagnancy, & perpetual pain is not our portion.
      God bless everyone.🙏🏾 #BlessedTribe

  • @my_set_apart_life
    @my_set_apart_life 11 місяців тому +247

    Tony said something very key about dating and relationships: relationships are based on principles and not the current culture or society.

    • @bigelowkaryn
      @bigelowkaryn 10 місяців тому +11

      Yes, and I think that’s the key difference between his message and Ace

    • @my_set_apart_life
      @my_set_apart_life 10 місяців тому +13

      @@bigelowkaryn exactly! A lot of the new coaches are about keeping up with culture, what’s the trend now,etc

    • @MsLeloh
      @MsLeloh 10 місяців тому +3

      Period

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 9 місяців тому +1

      Amen!

  • @mcbrideinstitute
    @mcbrideinstitute 10 місяців тому +178

    So basically Ace said that he is capitalizing off of people’s brokenness

    • @reliza93
      @reliza93 10 місяців тому +11

      Precisely 😂

    • @EH_888
      @EH_888 5 місяців тому +5

      💯

    • @ty2704
      @ty2704 3 місяці тому

      Absolutely

    • @ESSBoss
      @ESSBoss 3 місяці тому +6

      Yep he doesn't care about these women he just uses their pain for profit

    • @lornacowan3929
      @lornacowan3929 22 дні тому

      EXACTLY!!!

  • @gee9342
    @gee9342 Рік тому +228

    Tony is a man of high integrity. This is why he is standing strong on his values.
    Also he did well by telling Ace to back up with the shouting.

    • @AERIBERI12
      @AERIBERI12 Рік тому +60

      My man TG said “I ain’t no killer…but don’t push me” RESPECTFULLY

    • @ashley_audacious
      @ashley_audacious Рік тому +15

      @@AERIBERI12 😂😂😂 periodt.

    • @kanyin442
      @kanyin442 Рік тому +50

      Literally practising what he preaches and tells us ladies. Stay calm, dont yell....but also dont let no one talk to you crazy, check that mess.

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 Рік тому +7

      Factsss

    • @meekcoop
      @meekcoop Рік тому +3

      @@AERIBERI12 in the most respectful way possible 😂

  • @TawabParYah
    @TawabParYah Рік тому +209

    When you serve the CREATOR OF ALL THINGS, it’s black and white. You’re either Righteous or wicked - for the Father or adversary. We in the LAST DAYS, the line MUST be drawn! Thank you Tony, your labor is not in vain! 💯💯💜

    • @patricialantigua
      @patricialantigua Рік тому +3

      🎉❤THATS RIGHT!!!! Pick one ☝🏼 because Heavenly Father would rather have u pick. ❤🎉

    • @dpharrison7
      @dpharrison7 Рік тому +1

      And Jesus told Peter the exact same thing

    • @jenniferroache
      @jenniferroache Рік тому +1

      Stand-up for the truth my brother.

    • @Ash2beauty
      @Ash2beauty Рік тому +1

      Yes ma’am say that!

  • @nenecostly
    @nenecostly Рік тому +297

    I've been a silent watcher for a while now and never comment but there is NO WAY that TG and Ace can be in one accord no matter how long this conversation could go on. Principles are waaay different. It is soooo CLEAR. TG is word based and Christ centered. That is on that!

  • @lindavincent9130
    @lindavincent9130 10 місяців тому +94

    Wow listening to Ace proves Tony’s point to be true. People dating for recreationally purposes or to heal got me. There should be purpose when dating. Everything we do should have purpose in it. We don’t just get up to go to work. We go to work with the purpose of making money. Everything Tony said is true. We should be trying to find a solution to the problems within our communities. Obviously we see that dating with no purpose is a big problem. Having casual sex is obviously a problem within our communities. So, I agree we need to be moving with purpose.

    • @alisharenee6571
      @alisharenee6571 8 місяців тому +5

      That’s what got me, talking bout everybody don’t for marriage, well excuse me beloved what are we doing, we not dating just for fun and ish and giggles. He had me messed up right there, some people date to heal. No wonder why the world is broken 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @ThePrimaryMaven
    @ThePrimaryMaven Рік тому +330

    I’ve been listening to Tony since 2014 and I have never heard him as on fire as he was on this podcast. I sat and watched, cried, and thanked God over and over again for 4 hours! Thank you for always listening to God!

    • @ShawneeP
      @ShawneeP Рік тому +25

      You have to go back and watch his UA-cam lives from this year. The Holy Spirit has been showing up much more this year through him!!!

    • @michecostafaith
      @michecostafaith Рік тому +1

      Amen sister yes! He’s incredible

    • @JM-gn9by
      @JM-gn9by Рік тому +7

      I don’t even watch him. I don’t even identify as Christian but 5min I was already holding back tears. Something in my spirit just resonated

    • @Hendog410
      @Hendog410 Рік тому +1

      Huh 😂

    • @deborahfranklin9370
      @deborahfranklin9370 5 місяців тому +1

      Ending made me emotional. Brother had 🔥 of Holy Spirit burning 🔥. This is the most times I commented on a platform.

  • @makegoodfashion
    @makegoodfashion Рік тому +521

    Hands down the best episode of Hardly Initiated IMO. There's nothing like someone who speaks truth unapologetically. This is how transformation takes place - not by conforming to culture but standing ten toes down on the word of God. Thank you for this ❤ Thank you Ty & Ryan for this platform.

    • @angelhampton4365
      @angelhampton4365 Рік тому +19

      AMEN!!! I made a very similar comment. Best podcast out!! I've been married for 15yrs and unfortunately we're getting ready to divorce. There's a lot of pain, hurt and grudges involved. It took me years to get here and I want to fight for my family but Tony is right. The longevity means nothing if you aren't standing on your principles. This podcast is God given because they're having guests from all angles speaking on topics that are taboo. I love it here and I hope to learn, grow and heal. It sad that as a society we're so detached from whats literally life and death of the soul

    • @makegoodfashion
      @makegoodfashion Рік тому

      @@angelhampton4365 I'm so sorry to hear that - I pray that if possible, God will restore your marriage. But how amazing that God gives us these resources to grow and heal in Him no matter what season of life we're in!

    • @thekimberlynproject
      @thekimberlynproject Рік тому +9

      Yes! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Tony!

    • @juliawalker2061
      @juliawalker2061 Рік тому +6

      I totally agree 💯

    • @nacuzlove1299
      @nacuzlove1299 Рік тому +5

      Amen 🙏

  • @ladydy293
    @ladydy293 Рік тому +157

    Tony Gaskins has a prophetic calling and anointing on his life. Rarely is what a prophet preaches/teaches accepted by the masses. It’s unpopular, it stings, it exposes, but it’s necessary for all generations to be held accountable. Thank God for his conviction & anointing, we need more to speak & live boldly like him.🙏🏽

    • @clove8763
      @clove8763 Рік тому +1

      I once heard [another] Prophetess Tiphani Montgomery said there are going to be Prophets still coming on the forefront that's going to be even 'worst' than her. I'm convinced that Tony is one of those Prophets!! #BlessyouProphetGaskins #TheWorldsBeenWaiting4You 👏 👏 👏

    • @simpleedee
      @simpleedee Рік тому +2

      I have been saying that since I came to know about him. The Prophetic speaks truth and is designed for order to be put in place💯

  • @tamerajohnson
    @tamerajohnson 11 місяців тому +80

    Tony G is the light and it doesn’t mix with darkness. There will always be a fight when the truth is spoken. It’s been that way since day one.

  • @toyawalker86
    @toyawalker86 Рік тому +122

    1) I don’t like the messiness of having Ace come on. This came off as an ambush. That could have been another show and another opportunity. But to have him “unexpectedly” come on, it was cringy and it came off disrespectful to your actual host and to your audience. It felt very click based.
    2) If it wasn’t clear before, it’s clear today, Ace is secular. So if you are looking to have your feelings validated by culture then Ace is for you. But if you are looking for healthy relationship advise with biblical base and guidance then Ace is not who you want to listen to.
    3) Ryan apologizing on his past behavior and realizing the importance of the message we put out can have lasting effects others. I appreciate the growth. That was beautiful.

    • @Barnyard-sunlight
      @Barnyard-sunlight Рік тому +3

      Agreed. As far as Tony saying "he is the greatest coach"... Jesus was the greatest but didn't have millions of followers or a title to validate that point. Ego and putting yourself on a pedestal can lead to an abrupt dissolution of position by God's hands. Be careful. Additionally, one big lie detected was regarding surgeons. They do not just go to school for a certain amount of years and that's it. Just like nurses, teachers, etc. LEARNING IS ONGOING AND IS REQUIRED TO MAINTAIN LICENSES! CEUS AND CLASSES ARE MANDATORY EITHER EVERY 2, 4, 5+ YEARS. There is danger in becoming successful when we become so exalted that we spread misinformation. Much of the information was factual, however, self got in the way...pride...arrogance, and ego. I still trespect him but he still has so much growth to undergo as a man. I still wish him well despite Tony's obvious biases.
      Ace is very secular. We're entertained but drowning as a people.

    • @keiamonet
      @keiamonet Рік тому +2

      Buddy*

    • @Rita-cy3qw
      @Rita-cy3qw Рік тому +3

      Best summation of this episode
      That bit with Ace was messy …didn’t like Ace’s energy

    • @GodDogPassport
      @GodDogPassport Рік тому +1

      Agree

    • @thekimberlynproject
      @thekimberlynproject Рік тому

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @AshleylovesPrince
    @AshleylovesPrince Рік тому +157

    Tony Gaskins is THE relationship coach of this era. I appreciate his convictions to Christ and not straddling the fence for anyone. I ask God to continue to Bless him in every single area of his life. Tony is a gem and a genius. Thank you, Lord, for him.

    • @Londonismology
      @Londonismology Рік тому +8

      Tony sets himself apart like real men do irregardless of the Bible and coincidentally he believes in what the Bible teaches which teaches this very thing…these dudes are mad we don’t wanna “hook up” and that’s all they want us to do

    • @Londonismology
      @Londonismology Рік тому

      Tony sets himself apart like real men do irregardless of the Bible and coincidentally he believes in what the Bible teaches which teaches this very thing…these dudes are mad we don’t wanna “hook up” and that’s all they want us to do!
      Tony should have said what do the women want? Cuz it seems like only men and harlots wanna just date and want just dating advice! Most women want Godly advice and want that for their man…so if that’s what we want and what is right..what are we really talking about? Ppl just wanna live in their sin! That’s why tony said he see whom he works for

    • @Londonismology
      @Londonismology Рік тому +1

      Ace said himself “what if a man is dating a woman looking for a serious relationship” so if that’s what women want..and you claim you want women…? It’s not our fault some men choose to find a woman thru sexual incounters..thaat is outdated tf smh but y’all want the devil so bad and the devil is a trans lmao😅

    • @Londonismology
      @Londonismology Рік тому +2

      1:58 they’re hinting at what I been saying tony need to be a pastor 🎉

    • @angelhampton4365
      @angelhampton4365 Рік тому

      Absolute facts... It's refreshing.

  • @misunderstoodkj
    @misunderstoodkj Рік тому +150

    Tony, please don't stop doing podcasts. We need you.

  • @darlissaleatherwood8197
    @darlissaleatherwood8197 11 місяців тому +98

    This was a phenomenal episode and Tony Gaskins is amazing. I loved how he stood firm in what he was saying. Ace seemed agitated because he knows his message is confusing. Being exposed for something you benefit from is not easy. He acknowledged he believes what TG is saying and he respects it but his platform is representing something else.

    • @MsFitVegan
      @MsFitVegan 10 місяців тому +2

      Absolutely phenomenal!!!!

  • @22karatgold34
    @22karatgold34 Рік тому +78

    Ace is a hurt grown boy who is afraid that the truth is going to hurt his platform. He has in actuality hurt his own platform with his woeful ignorance. Tony is a light in the world of darkness in relationships and marriage. @Tony Gaston I am praying for your strength and of your physical, mental, marital, and emotional health. #blessedtribe

  • @monabrown101
    @monabrown101 Рік тому +154

    Ace is run by culture.... Tony is run by the Kingdom. I rather listen to a man who is married versus a man who (is not married) and has years of dating experience, because the end goal of dating is MARRIAGE. I wanna listen to someone who has MY end goal. I understand what TG is saying ❤

    • @MsJenMarie
      @MsJenMarie Рік тому

      This is the comment right here ‼️

    • @Chantusyluvmuzik
      @Chantusyluvmuzik Рік тому

      Exactly!!!!!

    • @trulyrblessed
      @trulyrblessed 11 місяців тому +1

      Pin this comment!! Culture-vs-Kingdom

    • @Huff627
      @Huff627 7 місяців тому

      I like that , no more comments to add.

    • @michellesanders3657
      @michellesanders3657 6 днів тому

      What if everyone is not dating for marriage. What help Is provided for those people we are making this wrong which is wrong. Some may be divorced and not want to remarry . Ace does not promote dating around he speaks to those who are in a bad place in a relationship. You have to get from this place to where Tony is. Tony was not always like this what was his prospective then. The entire process is important and he gets paid as well does he deny his paychecks. We can benefit from both of these men it is not a one size fits all

  • @Nikita_848
    @Nikita_848 Рік тому +185

    The difference between Tony and this other guy is that Tony actually adds something to everyone's life, he makes society better, he's making the difference, while Ace adds nothing to anyone.

    • @Sym.YouPrick
      @Sym.YouPrick Рік тому +9

      Say that again💯

    • @FUEGOSTARR
      @FUEGOSTARR Рік тому +25

      I wouldn’t say “nothing” but it’s definitely giving Fast food on the other side and SoulFood on TG’s side.

    • @DivineAwareness88
      @DivineAwareness88 11 місяців тому +4

      @@FUEGOSTARR great analogy!! 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Temwachii
      @Temwachii 11 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Idkjustyet
      @Idkjustyet 11 місяців тому

      @@FUEGOSTARRthat’s fair 😂☝🏽

  • @quishia
    @quishia 10 місяців тому +37

    Great conversation. Tony Gaskins handled himself eloquently and boldly stood as a bearer of the Truth.

  • @karolynmarshall
    @karolynmarshall Рік тому +131

    Tony Gaskins is a true man of God and a man's man. I didnt see him flinch, cower or apologize for his stance and Who and what he represents. May God continue to raise more men like him. Thank you Tysean and Ryan for having him again. I enjoyed every aspect of the conversation including the heated moment to let me know that our life purpose message has to be clear, consistent, and unapologetic. Tony is definitely a disruptor in a good way.

  • @alwaysgrowing7273
    @alwaysgrowing7273 11 місяців тому +163

    I’m so happy they let Ace on. What a platform it gave Tony Gaskins to spread the good word!! The truth! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @taniabrito2988
    @taniabrito2988 9 місяців тому +38

    Normally I don't write in the comments, but listening to Tony Gaskins inspired me so much. I didn't know Tony until this video, but I already knew Ace. I stopped following Ace a few days ago, at first his content made me think, but then I realized that everything was a little toxic so I understand Tony's point of view. Congratulations Tony for how you handled the conversation with Ace, demonstrating your maturity, experience and your purpose.
    Keep sharing and teaching us how to Love. I'm originally from Cape Verd in Africa, leaving in Portugal.

  • @joannawilliams496
    @joannawilliams496 Рік тому +167

    I appreciate Tony for not allowing the enemy to challenge, attack, or minimize the work that he has contributed to our community! The best sermon you will ever give is the life you live! Keep doing great work Tony G. You are helping the culture by speaking truth to power! Ain’t nobody mad but the devil💪🏾

  • @joannejoanne7816
    @joannejoanne7816 Рік тому +174

    Tony is the only relationship coach I faithfully listen to

    • @FUEGOSTARR
      @FUEGOSTARR Рік тому +28

      RC Blakes is another outstanding man in this arena.

    • @Itsnurselo2you
      @Itsnurselo2you Рік тому +4

      Same I’ve stopped listening to everyone else it’s hard because he doesn’t always post about relationships help but I go back to his old videos and I can honestly say I have fallen to one of those people who watch and listen and back slide but I’m learning every day ! RC Blake he is good but my spirit resonates more with Tony because he talks to us as a brotherly figure RC gives off he’s preaching

    • @ConcreteRose0219US
      @ConcreteRose0219US Рік тому +7

      This is my first time listening to this podcast. I came on because of Tony Gaskins!!! I listen to Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes, both are exceptional in this area!!! God is good!!!😊🙏🏽❤️👍🏽

    • @19moon_goddess79
      @19moon_goddess79 11 місяців тому

      I was coming here to say this. Agreed @@FUEGOSTARR

    • @charellesexii6555
      @charellesexii6555 11 місяців тому +1

      Me too

  • @imjusttrynaworkout9970
    @imjusttrynaworkout9970 Рік тому +236

    Literally, no amount of dating can compare to marriage. It is a totally different structure and commitment level. I used to think the same way until I got married. It is completely different, and it is supposed to be. I am so thankful that it is too. It is similar to having children. People can talk and explain about it, but until you do it, you will not understand it. Having children around you is not the same as having your own.

    • @intentionalparenting2605
      @intentionalparenting2605 11 місяців тому

      💯

    • @sabrinacampbell329
      @sabrinacampbell329 11 місяців тому +2

      I know a lot of married people who say it's the same...there r married folks who r not even 100 loyal in their marriage..I think some people just like to always use the word cause it sound good...I'm not against marriage or deal with married men..I'm just talking about the folks that I know

    • @taziademyers7268
      @taziademyers7268 11 місяців тому

      Facts

    • @blasiankiki7831
      @blasiankiki7831 11 місяців тому +8

      Listen, living with someone thru your daily emotions, struggles, ups and downs is when I get real bc you are exposed. You cannot hide the parts of yourself that are not pretty. A lot of people cannot make it through that. Thats why so many people broke up during Covid… people were stuck in the house with no where to hide, no distractions for a long time. It is HARD it’s nothing like dating.. you can ignore, ghost people, put them off in dating. Not in marriage

    • @MoodyA1999
      @MoodyA1999 10 місяців тому +1

      TG never misses ❗️💪🏾

  • @lisaappoh6484
    @lisaappoh6484 11 місяців тому +24

    Why would someone need to date to find themselves? That’s introspection that is needed BEFORE you date someone. Someone else cannot help you FIND YOURSELF!!!

    • @candisdavis3189
      @candisdavis3189 8 місяців тому +2

      Right! Talking about people date to find themselves. Thats not how you find yourself and we should care enough about people to say so.

  • @tishstripletsthenewadditio575
    @tishstripletsthenewadditio575 Рік тому +126

    What I learned from this episode is that I will no longer listen to any other relationship coach but Tony Gaskins Jr. It’s just like listening to multiple preachers & being confused. I’m sending up extra prayers for the 63 year old lady. I’m 50 & it’s never too late🙏🏾 As of today, I will no longer be Luke warm. I choose God 100%. Thank you guys for bringing back TG. He doesn’t play about his passion for God. Mic Drop👏🏽

    • @AlishaAbney-b1r
      @AlishaAbney-b1r Рік тому +11

      Tony Gaskins , RC Blakes 💯💯

    • @get_aclue4218
      @get_aclue4218 Рік тому +3

      Focus on the God in you. You will not fail

    • @MySignatureSoul
      @MySignatureSoul Рік тому +1

      This made my heart warm.... That's right Tony... Win these souls!

    • @crypto_guapo
      @crypto_guapo Рік тому

      What Tony can’t tell u about is navigating in the dating world today…He been with the same woman for 20 years…He don’t know what it’s like right now but go on n listen to him

    • @MySignatureSoul
      @MySignatureSoul Рік тому +1

      @@crypto_guapo He addressed that, you’re late! Dating then is the same as dating now when you’re dating according to the same principles needed to be a wife and a husband…… Most women WANT what we are conditioned to want and what’s best for society as a whole (as he stated) but unfortunately, males aren’t taught to want that until they are burnt tf out and old and so we settle. Time to get back to basics! We don’t want to do it the “Culture” way. These comments represent that story yet men want to turn a blind eye to that and try to convince us that we don’t want it this way. That’s why so many women would rather be happily single….. Either grow up and evolve or get left behind.

  • @savedandbeautifulone
    @savedandbeautifulone Рік тому +148

    Ace does not have to worry about me listening to his content. Extremely toxic for a healthy relationships - the enemy (Satan) has perverted how God created marriage to be. Praying for you Ace!

    • @Sym.YouPrick
      @Sym.YouPrick Рік тому +4

      I second that, praying for Ace too 🙏🏽

    • @876tisha
      @876tisha Рік тому +4

      I went to one of live shows and it was mockery and confusion. 😩😒. Did. It enjoy the Ace show

  • @lhaynes4548
    @lhaynes4548 Рік тому +151

    The best episode thus far...Tony went in! I was initially annoyed with Ace being allowed to come on but I'm glad it happened. It showed the confusion that's present when we straddle both sides. The best success is God's way. Life ain't perfect but in Him, all things work together for our good.

    • @taylorspastpresent1014
      @taylorspastpresent1014 Рік тому +16

      Glad someone pointed out that you can follow God and be righteous. As Tony said righteousness is not perfection. Straddling both sides knowingly is obvious not living righteously. May Jesus bless you sister. Great insight.

    • @somethintru1
      @somethintru1 10 місяців тому +1

      Yesssssssssssss

  • @jamerson777
    @jamerson777 11 місяців тому +42

    TG’s desire to educate men and women on healthy relationships/principled living is to help stop the dysfunction adversely impacting families and communities. TG I support you🙏🏾

  • @3c914
    @3c914 Рік тому +163

    Tony is humble, respectful, and calm. You can feel that Tony is genuine

    • @kanyin442
      @kanyin442 Рік тому +2

      A man of true strength......gentle but firm.

    • @healing7282
      @healing7282 Рік тому +7

      Fruits of the Spirit. That is when you can tell a man is God fearing and filled with the Holy Spirit!

    • @misskris117
      @misskris117 Рік тому +2

      Humble? 🤨

  • @petracain6794
    @petracain6794 Рік тому +81

    I'm with Tony. That type of catering to everyone needs is the reason why we now have almost every letter in the alphabet. The dating game has changed in 2023 yet we have gotten worst, then it did not change for the better.Tony Gaskin is all a yall daddy. He is correct. The principles do not change. Get your foundation right and the house will stand.

  • @ILoveMyFro
    @ILoveMyFro Рік тому +190

    This was a great episode!
    1. Tony, keep shining the light of Christ in the darkness.
    2. Tysean and Ryan, it's lovely to see how you are maturing and taking accountability for how you run your platform - It matters.
    Many blessings to all! ❤️

  • @carlawestmorris8586
    @carlawestmorris8586 11 місяців тому +32

    Tony is telling nothing but the truth! I have such so much respect for this young man! This was a great episode!

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith Рік тому +229

    Tony Gaskins is truly a subject matter expert in relationships. Tony is full of wisdom.. I’m very grateful for him! Thanks for this episode fellas ❤

    • @tiffanyjones1857
      @tiffanyjones1857 Рік тому +7

      Yes he's full of wisdom. Take notes everyone. He's dropping gems.

    • @mistahjay8598
      @mistahjay8598 Рік тому +1

      Cap,so was Derrick Jaxon, we all know how that turned out, y'all to gullible, someone whose a relationship expert saying others are fake experts is like a car salesman saying the other used car lots have used cars, by my used cars are newer 😂 y'all better watch, fight, and pray.

  • @SherlisaHarris
    @SherlisaHarris 11 місяців тому +259

    Tony stood on BUSINESS! This episode was what I needed at this time in my life. We live in a world that is loose with keeping principles and standards of righteousness and relationships. We need your example Tony because the devil is raging war on relationships and so many people are falling. Just a quick personal testimony-- I started out standing on the principles of God and the standard but I allowed the voices of influencers and fake relationship coaches to be my standard and now because I made choices off of those voices and all the confusion on what to do and what not to do, I have to go and allow God to put me back together again. I thank God for you because we need this example in a world full of influencers that are doing the adversaries work, promoting self destructive behaviors for the world to see and implement. Thank you again, this has truly changed my life because now I have evidence that it is possible!

    • @DC-nh9ji
      @DC-nh9ji 11 місяців тому +4

      I'm a man and I can relate.... Same way I took my focus off God... Knowing what the Bible says.... My problems is not with people... It's the system.... I carried a lot of hate cause I trusted people they were representatives of what they speak or write but no substance their actions was not speaking louder than words.... Ephesians 4 18 is what I been learning and leaning on since a child.... Forgiving people for what they know not what they say and do.... . cause I can't carry hate for or with people... But I can hate their ways, the devil comes to steal kill and destroy, so he has system in place... Spiritual warfare not physically the devil can't physically touch us but he can influence people through his system and cause people to make a choice to hurt someone else in many ways... Willingly or unintentionally.... It's hard for me to still love people when they don't want to love themselves or other people... Being ignorant, your heart being or becoming black (heartless emotionless, people don't recognize being alienated from God by ignorance and folly is not part of the fruits of the spirit... You can't provide confusion without clarity just like the man of God said... Thank you for being honest

    • @MrQuincy611
      @MrQuincy611 11 місяців тому

      This is not what you need and in fact if you were living halfway right you would see that TG is a wolf and he’s taking advantage of you. Nothing he said would make a good relationship and the fact he told a grown man to take the bass out your voice proves he’s lying to you and not trying to led you down the right path!!! He said it correctly when he said even the devil knows god, unfortunately you can’t see he’s the devil!!!

    • @DC-nh9ji
      @DC-nh9ji 11 місяців тому +1

      @@MrQuincy611 but if we know his system and Jesus provided the answers to freedom IDC for confusion I need clarification I don't call myself a Christian I'm spiritual but if a Christian says he or she doesn't sin I don't want to be around them and especially you since you don't have it together yourself... Are you doing anything compared to him, Dr Umar Johnson, or rizza islam are doing why should I trust your judgement you have not provided no solution,no evidence for your accusations or hypothetical assumptions.. I see where you are coming from but the man did get a bass in his voice he critique his message not him as a person he asked him to turn the bass down the message you just wrote me I would tell you the same thing.. IDC how you feel about tony gaskins I can relate to his struggles I took my focus off God and put it into people again... I made a mistake don't ever question anyones walk with God and you are not or may not be living as an example and doing anything God called you to do... God bless you Clarity over Confusion 💯 🙏

    • @shaky5956
      @shaky5956 11 місяців тому +3

      Girl, yes, I will not be listening to Stephen Speaks or Ace....
      I do have RC Blake's stuff as well.
      I loved him and his wife.❤

    • @blasiankiki7831
      @blasiankiki7831 11 місяців тому +3

      @@MrQuincy611everything that TG has said benefits him in no way. It benefits the listener so how is he a wolf? He has a little arrogance about himself but he’s not perfect bc he’s human. He has flaws even if we cannot see them but almost everything he has said is correct. Our community needs healing and it starts with us.

  • @AriaIndy
    @AriaIndy 11 місяців тому +160

    I’ve been listening to Tony for less than a year and it’s already completely changed the way I date. I’m 24 now and have had relationships but never the kind I desire. I’ve done so much work on myself and have unwavering standards and boundaries now. I respect my body, don’t drink, eat healthy ect. I live in Miami where vices run rampant and a lot of people here don’t practice discipline, but it’s made me aware and allowed me to spend time in spaces where I will meet like minded people now

    • @annkelly6349
      @annkelly6349 11 місяців тому +8

      Hey there! I live in Miami too and COMPLETELY feel you! It's a fantasy land but as I'm maturing I'm finding more cultural /educational/family oriented things to do.

    • @outsidethebox8406
      @outsidethebox8406 10 місяців тому +2

      That's awesome Sis. Listening to Tony has been life-changing fire me as well. He's truly anointed.

    • @wattakesselly6463
      @wattakesselly6463 9 місяців тому

      So proud of your journey love. I truly wish you the best ❤ Your light shines brighter when you turn the lens on yourself, honoring your body and respecting the life God gave you. We are walking miracles and we should live as such. Shine on 💫💫

  • @coreysingletary8211
    @coreysingletary8211 11 місяців тому +53

    Tony, this was absolutely amazing brother. You stood on the Word and did not fold.

  • @feliciacooley7642
    @feliciacooley7642 Рік тому +99

    I do agree with Tony G. I'll never forget how my nephew reacted as a little boy when he found out my brother was marrying his mother. Even as a little guy, he knew that they were living together and it wasn't right. He was so proud of his parents and felt like he belonged to a family. So important to have nuclear families in our community.

  • @Cell2000
    @Cell2000 Рік тому +74

    These relationship experts with no successful relationships is scary. Dude talking like he was right and Tony was right. It’s a reason we have baby momma’s and daddies instead of husbands and wives

  • @aliceg.199
    @aliceg.199 Рік тому +154

    I really appreciate Tony being absolute and unapologetic in carrying God's message. He is about God's business, for real! Thanks for bringing TG on again. Awesome show, Tysean and Ryan!!!

  • @nesbitt686
    @nesbitt686 10 місяців тому +40

    Tony KAT WILLIAMS Gaskin said😂
    “you having these “productive conversations” every night . You should be able to see 1 of the multimillions of woman that qualify to be your wife. If your own conversations can’t help you find your wife, what is the purpose of the conversations if the creator of the show can’t benefit from it” 🔥🔥🔥😭 😂😂

    • @reliza93
      @reliza93 10 місяців тому +2

      I died of laughter 😂😂😂

    • @nesbitt686
      @nesbitt686 10 місяців тому +3

      @@reliza93Me too😂😂 That man so funny!! They better stop playing with Tony!

    • @klaaspamming90
      @klaaspamming90 9 місяців тому +1

      nothing but facts

    • @Jetsetjessica
      @Jetsetjessica 5 місяців тому +6

      That was a read 😂🤣😭. My mouth fell open

    • @hopejones4479
      @hopejones4479 2 місяці тому

      MIC DROP! 🎤

  • @Sheyville
    @Sheyville Рік тому +200

    tonight was a special night for those that witnessed this podcast live. tony is a righteous brother and this is the type of men we need more of. this is the type of brother single women should aspire to marry. He let the spirit speak through him tonight, definately will replay this again, he dropped so many gems it’s hard not to.

  • @NikkiYourTallBestie
    @NikkiYourTallBestie Рік тому +81

    Tony literally shredded ACE!! Times change but Principals Don’t!!! He is not married, doesn’t show his woman that we now all just heard about, etc. The same ole same ole with all these FAKE coaches and Horrible messages that kills our progression as a community!

    • @shazzyisfly1
      @shazzyisfly1 Рік тому +5

      THISSS! I had no idea anyone on his panel was married and that’s where the “confusion” part is coming from.

  • @ashley_audacious
    @ashley_audacious Рік тому +64

    if you are a believer and follower of Jesus Christ, keep Tony Gaskins lifted in prayer. He is spreading God’s word and is a big advocates for marriage and restoring the family unit with one husband + one wife + child/children & the devil doesn’t like that. and also Ace seems like one of those men with a fragile ego 🤷🏾‍♀️
    as for ace, I bought his relationship card game back in 2021 and I don’t keep up too much with him but after tonight’s episode, I threw those cards in the trash. I don’t support anyone who promotes sin & causes division among black men and women. Yall we gotta stop supporting these fake relationship coaches like Ace , he is no good for our community

    • @JaySmith.
      @JaySmith. Рік тому +16

      Not only that, he openly dismissed God 😮‍💨 chile he better hope the Lord have mercy on him the way the spiritual warfare about to eat him up 🤦🏽‍♀️ the devil love a good fool.

    • @loveisking2463
      @loveisking2463 Рік тому +2

      💯💯

  • @alairebookhart1399
    @alairebookhart1399 10 місяців тому +25

    This young man is talking about restoring our community to the standard we once honored. I remember the time when a single parent household was the exception to the rule. We have become a weak and fragmented people who are not respected by any other nation! We must get back to morality and being Black and proud! ❤ Excellent dialogue!!

  • @daizhia
    @daizhia Рік тому +200

    I hope this episode gets billions of billions of views!!!!! I’m so happy we got to see clarity vs confusion in real time! So grateful for TG’s messaging, and I’ve wrote down so many gems that I will apply to my life! There’s only one way to God and that’s the righteous way!

    • @imandalton4227
      @imandalton4227 Рік тому +2

      That's right

    • @limpomaleka1561
      @limpomaleka1561 Рік тому +1

      Absolutely!

    • @Missbreeadams
      @Missbreeadams Рік тому +11

      We saw the definition of a GROWN MAN vs a GROWN BOY in real time. 📌

    • @itsmekiaratee
      @itsmekiaratee Рік тому +4

      Clarity vs. Confusion in REAL TIME…. Powerful comment! That’s exactly what that was. I hope that guy go and searches beyond what he thinks he knows and actually gains some wisdom. He is inauthentic and ill-equipped to speak on the topic of love, relationships or anything beyond that!! Find a new hustle sir, this isn’t it for you.

  • @KorenGarvey
    @KorenGarvey Рік тому +233

    Ryan, so proud of your growth and sincere apology. TG has a heavy anointing it came through the screen. You guys are doing an amazing job cleaning up the rottenness in our culture and society!❤
    The truth shall make you free!

    • @KimG777
      @KimG777 Рік тому +6

      Thanks to the team for presenting this forum

    • @MsLady-gb3gy
      @MsLady-gb3gy Рік тому +3

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @mistahjay8598
      @mistahjay8598 Рік тому

      He has y'all sold, hook line and sinker, boy I tell ya women will believe anything if it's delivered right, 😂

    • @imandalton4227
      @imandalton4227 Рік тому

      ​@@mistahjay8598haters will be haters

    • @MelodyNicoleSibley
      @MelodyNicoleSibley Рік тому

      @@mistahjay8598What do you think we are “falling for” that you don’t believe in.

  • @adriannorwood8237
    @adriannorwood8237 Рік тому +47

    I see why everyone is talking about his anointing! The further into the video, the more I feel the spirit coming from this man’s words! While Fasting this is exactly the messages God brings to us! Thank you Tony!

  • @danielleelise2.0
    @danielleelise2.0 11 місяців тому +82

    I LOVE THIS INTERVIEW! Tony speaks the truth, whether we like it or not❤ I NEEDED this!

    • @adulttalks3348
      @adulttalks3348 11 місяців тому

      Do you think he was completely transparent from a man's perspective?

    • @lorigovi718
      @lorigovi718 10 місяців тому

      Amen!

    • @outsidethebox8406
      @outsidethebox8406 10 місяців тому

      @@adulttalks3348listen to his channel. He's been transparent all day everyday.

  • @pelenge49
    @pelenge49 Рік тому +145

    Tony is truly out here helping people change their lives and live their best lives through his principled and God-based messages. His impact is REAL and helping to build stronger families and communities.
    Thanks Tony for all your work! It’s so needed and valuable to our community. You’re a light! Keeping shining!

    • @tiffanyjones1857
      @tiffanyjones1857 Рік тому +3

      Totally agreed.

    • @KimG777
      @KimG777 Рік тому +4

      Yes, this is what the culture needs more of. I’m so happy it’s happening.

    • @karenbailey921
      @karenbailey921 Рік тому +1

      Yesss absolutely he does 💯

  • @correttajackson2301
    @correttajackson2301 Рік тому +146

    I’m so happy for this episode because I’m a woman trying to live for GOD and sometimes it’s hard when people want you to live like the culture. Tony has encouraged me to continue to stand on what is right. I’m so happy to see a man standing up for Christ.

  • @landi777
    @landi777 Рік тому +171

    Tony authentically speaks wisdom and truth! Thank you for having him on again!!!

    • @CalledUntoHoliness
      @CalledUntoHoliness Рік тому +2

      The brother is filled with the Holy ghost. God's word is a fountain of wisdom.

    • @Sym.YouPrick
      @Sym.YouPrick Рік тому +1

      TG is a breath of fresh air. He has patience I know that much not me🤦🏽‍♂️😂🤣💯 he’s doing Gods work.

  • @Miaexcellence
    @Miaexcellence 11 місяців тому +19

    Tony's msg will always be for the people who are raw and real. People who are not living a lie in order to fillful their own lust/desires. Tony's msg is for the people who are willing to do the work on themselves. Real recognize real.

  • @itsbeeminet
    @itsbeeminet Рік тому +140

    I have been watching TG for years , since high school! I am now 24, and because of the wisdom TG shared I was able to move wisely when it comes to men. TG truly is out here doing the Lord’s work! You can’t cancel whom God has chosen! 👏🏾🙏🏽

  • @MariahSincere
    @MariahSincere Рік тому +193

    I Can speak as someone who has watched tonight’s conversation in full. Tony is not lying. It is pure entertainment and not purpose driven.

    • @theresalor
      @theresalor 11 місяців тому +16

      I've watched it too but I stopped a few months ago because it started feeling wrong to me. The way they speak about relationships is so jaded.

    • @sharenalynn
      @sharenalynn 11 місяців тому +13

      It’s like reality tv

    • @skylaellis
      @skylaellis 11 місяців тому +11

      It’s why I stopped watching 😩 plus the conversation was immature

    • @TheGeminian
      @TheGeminian 11 місяців тому +8

      @@skylaellisI’ve seen clips but always thought they was too immature!!🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @missmamas7017
      @missmamas7017 11 місяців тому +7

      I went to a live show. Bought the cards and all. Tony is not lying

  • @AmBeauty20
    @AmBeauty20 11 місяців тому +72

    This is a feminine blk male . Speaking to a masculine black man 😂 ! The sassy 💁🏽‍♀️ energy 😂 Tony handled himself so well !!!!! ❤ and displayed a true masculinity 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @EH_888
    @EH_888 Рік тому +108

    Ace has always presented as performative and someone who enjoys listening to himself speak. Notice the differences between the way Tony and Ace carried themselves when met with challenge. Tony remained poised and firm while Ace almost instantaneously lost his cool and began monologuing off topic. Also, Ace’s panel is often wrought with people offering surface-level feedback for problems which require a multi-tier wisdom-saturated approach.
    Ace made a fool of himself despite the verbal gymnastics.

    • @kenyabean7781
      @kenyabean7781 Рік тому +5

      Facts!!!

    • @StaceysYouTube
      @StaceysYouTube 11 місяців тому +11

      Some of Ace's early works was based off of performative poetry... not sure how or when he transitioned into the relationship space. If you asked me too many podcasts and microphones are giving some of these men liquid courage. All respect to Tony avid listener for years ... I just hope these men can put down all this animosity. It doesn't look good.

    • @JoieDesta
      @JoieDesta 11 місяців тому +4

      Agreed! I can tell that Ace doesn’t have the correct heart posture to be a relationship coach. He needs to stick to poetry.

    • @tiffp2646
      @tiffp2646 11 місяців тому +1

      Yes! If you notice, Ace is always jumping up and being overly animated. It’s a lot.

  • @Topself24
    @Topself24 Рік тому +59

    I think Ace did himself a disservice by coming on. I’ve never heard of him before but on first impression he obviously lost the debate.

  • @sasanewnew557
    @sasanewnew557 11 місяців тому +97

    This show with Tony Gaskins was A1. He's such a King and true leader that our community needs at this time. I love to see men stand their ground on what they truly believe in and not easily persuaded by the norm.

  • @tamaranwatkins
    @tamaranwatkins 11 місяців тому +20

    Tony is 100% spot on. Ace needs to take notes.

  • @dontrebiggins4052
    @dontrebiggins4052 Рік тому +95

    Bottom line! Be clear about your purpose, be honest with your audience, be accountable for the results.

    • @The_Love_Counselor
      @The_Love_Counselor 11 місяців тому +7

      That was my takeaway from all of this. He’s not saying that everything can’t have a voice, he’s saying label it correctly.

    • @MsLeloh
      @MsLeloh 10 місяців тому +1

      Point blank! Period.

  • @itschrissyayana1600
    @itschrissyayana1600 Рік тому +100

    EXTREMELY IMPACTFUL. My husband and I watched this episode together. 💜👏🏼 TG hit every nail on the head.

    • @faithsrealtalk2292
      @faithsrealtalk2292 11 місяців тому

      BEAUTIFUL.....I LOVE HEARING THAT COUPLES WATCHED THIS TOGETHER

  • @lourdjinacherenfant8662
    @lourdjinacherenfant8662 Рік тому +45

    I believe it is profound for Tony to visit this platform a second time. He departed from comfort and entered the war room in all purposeful platforms. I am so proud of Mr. Gaskins for standing on Christian principles. He literally was face to face with the advisory and succeeded 💪🏾🙏🏾 praying for you. Keep up the great work.

  • @M4L777
    @M4L777 10 місяців тому +17

    Wow! Love the way Tony handled this interview Married, Favored, Focused. No Confusion… Stay Faithful and Committed..🙏🏽

  • @tracetess
    @tracetess Рік тому +80

    I could listen to Tony for a whole day. His conviction is truly coming from God. Now that’s how you stand for God’s word in spirit and in truth. I have learned how to not waiver through Tony’s example. Thank you to both Hardly Initiated and Tony!

    • @1goldenbutterfly
      @1goldenbutterfly Рік тому +2

      Same here! Tony showed us how to contend for the Faith.

    • @tracetess
      @tracetess Рік тому +1

      @@1goldenbutterfly Yes Sis!

  • @godscreation3932
    @godscreation3932 Рік тому +28

    I have never in my life heard someone speak like Tony Gaskin. I am a believer of Jesus Christ and watching his dialogue with Ace should go viral. Tony drew his line in the sand.👏👏👏

  • @crespeakslife
    @crespeakslife 11 місяців тому +70

    My husband and I are relationship coaches helping single men and women that desire marriage. This is total confirmation we are in the right place

  • @ifetayomaloney-oyemuyiwa1067
    @ifetayomaloney-oyemuyiwa1067 11 місяців тому +21

    Tony standing on that business! Purpose over everything.

  • @OPDNETWORK
    @OPDNETWORK Рік тому +123

    "This podcast has been an incredible journey for me, unlike anything I've experienced on the internet before. Listening to Tony Gaskins is truly inspiring. He doesn't just share his own perspective; he speaks universal truths that resonate deeply with me. His words encourage me to stay committed to my path - caring for my family, being a faithful husband, and being mindful of the company I keep. These principles have profoundly shaped my life. Ever since I've embraced this way of living, my life with my wife and kids has been wonderfully fulfilling. Tony's insights ring absolutely true for me, and they continue to inspire and guide me in my daily life." I just want to say I’m committed I got a lot of work to do but I’m committed.

    • @destinedtobediamonds6942
      @destinedtobediamonds6942 11 місяців тому +2

      That's very admirable of you. Continue to be consistent, King. Your Queen is waiting for you. She's being prepared especially for you! May God continue cover and bless you.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 11 місяців тому +2

      Good 👍 for you. Keep living principles for Love 💖😊

  • @untrendingtruth9682
    @untrendingtruth9682 Рік тому +73

    RC Blake’s Jr took me from the lowest time in my life to the top of my Queen crown. He is the father figure and stand up cat that a lot of girls and women never had 🙏🏿❤️

    • @untrendingtruth9682
      @untrendingtruth9682 Рік тому +3

      @Lovefrequency717 He was showing him love. Lol! I was happy to hear his name come out of his mouth and it’s nice to see healthy men that love their wives and families. I’m so glad you’re hip to RC Blake’s Jr!! We will never be the same again🙌🏿🥰 Take care

    • @latashalewis873
      @latashalewis873 Рік тому +1

      ​@@untrendingtruth9682I agree.

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 Рік тому

      ​@@untrendingtruth9682❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ilaray4513
    @ilaray4513 Рік тому +66

    I've unfollowed ace metaphor on Facebook and unsubcribed from his UA-cam channel after this episode. I've found Tony Gaskins channel this year and the season I am walking in TG message has been so much of what I've needed, God bless TG! ❤

    • @kenyabean7781
      @kenyabean7781 Рік тому +6

      Me too!!! Ace is childish

    • @TheVivrantCatalog
      @TheVivrantCatalog 11 місяців тому +3

      I unfollowed Ace a long time ago.

    • @bridgetthenry9421
      @bridgetthenry9421 11 місяців тому +4

      I unfollowed a while ago for the exact same reasons Tony stated here. I was confused, there was a lot of back and forth, and there was no resolution

  • @simpleBre12
    @simpleBre12 10 місяців тому +8

    Went to see Tony Gaskins in 2016/2017. And I left that seminar feeling better about myself. I believe it was like his self love tour. He’s telling so much of the truth. Appreciate him!! Our community needs all the help And positivity we can get ❤️❤️

  • @TySwasey
    @TySwasey Рік тому +39

    Tony is really a Kingdom man and I love how he mentioned the FRUIT of his faithfulness and favor, his happy wife, his sons being honorable young men. He is very much needed🙏🏽👑