Glad the algorithm shared this to me. Really the best timing. This video really resonates with me as I thought I was the only one in my circle feeling this. It's quite a relief to know that a lot of people relates to these January blues, there's really just something about the cold weather, endless working and turning dark at 5pm. It's even worse when you're chronically online (I am since I do content creation which is even worse because I get pressured to post even when I don't feel like it or when i'm feeling unmotivated with no ideas). But everything is temporary and I hope we get out of this slump as soon as possible. I guess having a me-time is a good way to reflect on our life decisions. I definitely needed this video haha. Thank you!
I am so happy you left this comment!! Absolutely it’s such a tough time of year, especially when you work from home or similar more solo situations, it gets easier but I feel it’s important to validate the feelings of loneliness , and accept that it’s part of the process. I can’t wait for the days to get longer 🙂 I’m going to check out your content 🙏❤️
Always here my friend, times are tough some times and it is ok to feel down, and we can struggle through together til we feel lighter again🥰 got a cosy video coming up in a day or so to lift the mood a little. Enjoy the fresh air xx
I guess I’m trying to make light of the situation as I was struggling that day , you’re right though it’s different simple life / being boring. I wouldn’t say I’m bored , I like a slow pace, but the routine this time of year can be lonely , just a bad day, feeling more positive now🙂
my reference to being boring was related to the title of your video I never minded being busy although I agree a slow pace is less stressful something I said a long time ago there is something beautiful about the simple ordinary every day life of an average person, a complicated life is stressful struggle doesn't phase me at all in fact I believe that even failure is simply part of the process of succeeding, sometimes you have to loose before you can win in regards to being lonely any situation can be lonely but I think that tends to be the result of a lack of imagination of what to do with your time, I confess I often criticize my self for not having enough imagination you're very interesting aren't you
@ very good thoughts 🙏 yes indeed, it’s a funny one, because I love my alone time in the evening when I have it, and love just chilling with my other half, I think it is during the day when I work from home and I have too much time to over think, it’s why I need back ground noise, I have been working from home over 3 years now and I just know the routine if I don’t get out and do stuff eventually causes depression and then loneliness, and I think we all get those days when it simply catches up with us right? And absolutely, failure is all part of the journey, there are so many creative challenges, and I enjoy every second 🥰 really appreciate your thoughts
I worked from home for like 3 years - I honestly fealt like I was living in a space ship I could never leave Eventually decided I need a job I can drive to and that's what I did - ended up finding the best job I ever had with some great people I like interacting with isolation does bad things to your psyche but with a strong will you can control your thoughts and emotions, but still changing your situation really helps especially getting out of the house and face to face conversations
this video felt so real, like we were sitting across each other just chatting, updating about life and books (bc I'm also a little book nerd). such a comforting video, idk maybe is just me but I really needed to hear some of the things you touched on, thank you Eliza, I sincerely hope you feel better soon ❤
I am so glad 🥹💕 thank you lovely, social media can feel quite posed sometimes and I felt it’s important to show we are all equal and real, and that social media doesn’t have to be high lights all the time too🥰 so I’m glad if I could help. I’m excited for the weekend, a month on UA-cam!!!! Time for a month of outfits on repeat 🥳🥳💕
I LOVE the Throne of Glass series! Literally my favourite book series and just gets better and better with each book! I never wanted it to end and thought about it for so long after x 😊
@ I used to have seasonal effective disorder really bad, every winter. The past two years I haven’t felt it at all and that’s since taking Vitamin D. I get it for free from my GP.
Glad the algorithm shared this to me. Really the best timing. This video really resonates with me as I thought I was the only one in my circle feeling this. It's quite a relief to know that a lot of people relates to these January blues, there's really just something about the cold weather, endless working and turning dark at 5pm. It's even worse when you're chronically online (I am since I do content creation which is even worse because I get pressured to post even when I don't feel like it or when i'm feeling unmotivated with no ideas). But everything is temporary and I hope we get out of this slump as soon as possible. I guess having a me-time is a good way to reflect on our life decisions. I definitely needed this video haha. Thank you!
I am so happy you left this comment!! Absolutely it’s such a tough time of year, especially when you work from home or similar more solo situations, it gets easier but I feel it’s important to validate the feelings of loneliness , and accept that it’s part of the process. I can’t wait for the days to get longer 🙂 I’m going to check out your content 🙏❤️
Subscribed to your channel!! 🙏
Oh my, I am struggling today! Thank goodness for you! You are so honest and helpful, I’m now off out for some fresh air ❤
Always here my friend, times are tough some times and it is ok to feel down, and we can struggle through together til we feel lighter again🥰 got a cosy video coming up in a day or so to lift the mood a little. Enjoy the fresh air xx
I just love you !
@@beverleywhelan9078 🥹 thank you my lovely!!!! New video coming tomorrow ❤️❤️
there's a difference between leading a simple life and being boring
boredom is a mindset a person chooses by not finding something interesting anyways
I guess I’m trying to make light of the situation as I was struggling that day , you’re right though it’s different simple life / being boring. I wouldn’t say I’m bored , I like a slow pace, but the routine this time of year can be lonely , just a bad day, feeling more positive now🙂
my reference to being boring was related to the title of your video
I never minded being busy although I agree a slow pace is less stressful
something I said a long time ago
there is something beautiful about the simple ordinary every day life of an average person, a complicated life is stressful
struggle doesn't phase me at all in fact I believe that even failure is simply part of the process of succeeding, sometimes you have to loose before you can win
in regards to being lonely any situation can be lonely but I think that tends to be the result of a lack of imagination of what to do with your time, I confess I often criticize my self for not having enough imagination
you're very interesting aren't you
@ very good thoughts 🙏 yes indeed, it’s a funny one, because I love my alone time in the evening when I have it, and love just chilling with my other half, I think it is during the day when I work from home and I have too much time to over think, it’s why I need back ground noise, I have been working from home over 3 years now and I just know the routine if I don’t get out and do stuff eventually causes depression and then loneliness, and I think we all get those days when it simply catches up with us right? And absolutely, failure is all part of the journey, there are so many creative challenges, and I enjoy every second 🥰 really appreciate your thoughts
I worked from home for like 3 years - I honestly fealt like I was living in a space ship I could never leave
Eventually decided I need a job I can drive to and that's what I did - ended up finding the best job I ever had with some great people I like interacting with
isolation does bad things to your psyche but with a strong will you can control your thoughts and emotions, but still changing your situation really helps especially getting out of the house and face to face conversations
@ 🙏❤️
this video felt so real, like we were sitting across each other just chatting, updating about life and books (bc I'm also a little book nerd). such a comforting video, idk maybe is just me but I really needed to hear some of the things you touched on, thank you Eliza, I sincerely hope you feel better soon ❤
I am so glad 🥹💕 thank you lovely, social media can feel quite posed sometimes and I felt it’s important to show we are all equal and real, and that social media doesn’t have to be high lights all the time too🥰 so I’m glad if I could help. I’m excited for the weekend, a month on UA-cam!!!! Time for a month of outfits on repeat 🥳🥳💕
So close to 2k followers, amazing! 🎉❤
Eeeeek 🥰been hovering just under for a week or so 🐒💕💕
I LOVE the Throne of Glass series! Literally my favourite book series and just gets better and better with each book! I never wanted it to end and thought about it for so long after x 😊
Yaaaay😃💕I’m obsessed 🥰🥰🥰 I’m constantly thinking about it x
I recommend taking vitamin D all year round x
@@purplemonsoon8376 very wise🥰🙏x
@ I used to have seasonal effective disorder really bad, every winter. The past two years I haven’t felt it at all and that’s since taking Vitamin D. I get it for free from my GP.
@ I’m going to look into this 🙏 thank you so much 💕
great new video!
My red light mask plus vit d has helped me adjust to Scottish winters.
@@aquarius2 great shout!!💕
January blues are real. I just talked in my new video how January feels like a loooonnngggggg Monday.
Oh cool I will watch it!!💕
Can you tell me name of book you are reading Thankyou ❤❤
@@KerryDavis-y3v crown of midnight, it is from the book series throne of glass 🥰 it’s bringing much so much joy
@ Thankyou so much 😁💕
Love how real, down to earth and relatable you are (to me) 🫶 You’re definitely helping me get through MY January :)
I’m so glad🥹💕 we got this 🙏xx