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This resonated with me. A so called ''friend'' that I had cut off because she was treating me bad, had secret animosity towards me, always felt the need to one up me, compete with me and she would act insecure, jealous and envious of me. She begged for forgiveness so I gave her a second chance. Nothing had changed and depending on who she was around she would act like she did not know me and would not speak to me. So I cut her off again for good. She is nothing but a nasty narcissist. When people show you who they really are believe them the first time!
Chile! I had a friend that ignored me, constantly competing with me, didn’t clap for my wins, etc. I was trying to talk to her but just decided it’s not worth it. I wish her the best.
It's not personal. It's Purpose. Everybody doesn't get access to me in 2024. Some people will only get a basic subscription or their account will be limited.
REMEMBER: FORGIVENESS IS SOMETIMES DANGEROUS. Being angry at someone who did you dirty is completely natural. Being bitter after a betrayal is also natural. Do not invalidate the feelings that you felt after someone betrays you. Do not forgive them just because people tell you to forgive. Feel your anger and bitterness because it's a natural process of healing. You need to tell yourself that what they did to you was WRONG! Apology must be the prerequisite of forgiveness. Forgive when you are ready. Forgive, BUT NEVER FORGET!
I take note of people's behavior towards me and others. I can't tell you how many times I watched people do dirty to others and knew one day they would do the same to me. I slowly back away from these people and wish them well.
The act of Forgiveness itself is not dangerous … It is the Reconciliation to the relationship and or person. It’s wise and definitely worthwhile to forgive yourself and to reconcile to the betterment of You!
2023 was the year I cut them off! It took courage, but after the grief and the hurt, I am feeling lighter than ever. I now have energy for my path and the mental space to pursue it.
Nine years the only people who can find me or know any of my business...my son , my eldest niece . That's it . I listen to Ms.Mack everyday . I'm healing , happier and healthier . I spend a lot of time with our Father , he's my BFF . ❤
Growth Mindset. The cut OFF ain't personal!!🫡 Do Not allow...religious people, make you think you wrong neither. As Cassandra said, sometimes OUR LORD GOD, is rhe one that is saying let go and go. Jeremiah 29:11
When someone hurts you and says "Get over it" it means they're unrepentant. They're sorry for the consequences, NOT the behavior. They knew then what they did, so "All in the past, is NO excuse. If they wanted to "Get over it" that badly, they wouldn't have hurt you in the first place. Selective amnesia only goes THEIR way. When they hurt you, it's "All in the past." And when they do you a favor, it's "After all I've done for you." As long as they keep hurting you and justifying it, there is no relationship. I don't care if it's personal or business. You can forgive someone by not bringing up the past and STILL shun them. If we don't make peace in private, we don't shake hands in public. I don't fake interactions with anyone. Not only do I remove toxic people from my life, but if anyone criticizes THAT choice, I cut THEM off, too. The time for building a close relationship was years ago. They can have the last word without me! 💯😎
I had a close friend just like you described at 13:00. He had a temper and used to intentionally antagonize people. He carried a firearm with him all the time, too. This is a very bad mixture. It was too dangerous to be out with someone as volatile as this. We had some good times, but I cannot jeopardize my safety nor freedom by getting involved in his shenanigans. I felt bad about cutting off this relationship initially, but it has been over a year since we communicated and I feel immense peace now. You helped reinforce my decision.
Much love bro. We can all turn our lives around and go to God to heal. If people are not willing to change their ways then we can’t shame ourselves for wanting to let go and do what is best.
A comment regarding ambivalence: The Word also says let your yes be yes. And your no be no. So if the answer is ANYTHING OTHER than yes, the answer is no. If the answer is ANYTHING other than NO, the answer is yes. Even if you have to answer a question yourself you meant for someone else. In order for me to be "Laser Beam Focused", I understand NOW, I needed clarity. The verse goes on further to say "Anything OTHER than Yes OR No comes fromthe Devil" . We know ambivalence OR inconsistency causes confusion , and we ALSO know where confusion comes from. I am done living in confusion and for me it doesn't get anymore clear than Matt 5:7 HALLELUJAH!!
My aunt has been spreading lies about me holding hatred in my heart! Not surprised because she’s hardly held accountable!!! I can’t tolerate the faking and pretending! The constant gossip, aggravation, and meddling into my personal affairs!!!
Sounds like my AUNT. I only deal with her when I am at or around other family. NO ONE holds her accountable. She took advantage of the fact that I was raised in the generation that tries to have some level of respect. After she lied on me and tried to defame my character. I was DONE with her! I speak monotone to her. She ain’t no fool. She truly knows I ain’t no joke. So she don’t even try it!
What is very interesting is that, the two family members that have caused me the most grief, are now completely friendless and alone. They have both been divorced multiple times. They have both had multiple bankruptcies. They have both stolen from family members. They are both heavily in debt. They have both been physically violent towards me. They both constantly spread malicious and false gossip about others. They both hate to work and use drugs and alcohol. These people conform to a template. How do my mother and my x husband, who are from different cultures and countries, have so much in common? I am the opposite in every way.
Thank You CMM! Your lectures are phenomenal to my personal life. I'm assured I'm doing what's best for my present life I'm cutting off toxic family dysfunctional dynamics. I'm in my late 50s, it's been approx 4/5 years I decided to cut off majority of my older siblings, I'm the youngest of ten, now seven. It's not easy to do when you grew up in such an enormous family, but by God's grace and the lectures I'm able to keep going forward. I'm still growing with God each and every day! This decision began during the transition of my mother's passing, the epiphanies kept on coming to me as to what was revealed about them and myself . While being with her during her transition, part of my life left as she transitioned, the mental/verbal/gaslighting/arguing/physical/gossiping /abuse was revealed to me clearly. I learned and accepting family are people first. Mom 😇 ,while father pure evil. Alcohol/illiterate/mentally unstable himself. He was Jeckel and Hyde. Mental/Physical/Emotional/Spiritual Health are my purpose now. I do care about my siblings and family, I just don't like their behavior. Took fifty plus years to live such an unstable life. After doing my own personal growth, I accept all that's taken place, I finding there's a blessing in every lesson, no matter the degree. Every lecture I listen to, I always apply to my life and family cause that's where the patterns begin. Keep on pressing on CMM❤
THANK GOD, I haven't been in a position of being out in public with the angry friend or relative. Thank God indeed because from the position I'm at in life now, I'll stop "eating my wings" midway, pay my tab and tell her I'm leaving if she's lucky for me to even inform her because I'd just as well leave her there. People don't seem to consider what other people may have to lose in their lives on the count of merely being in their company as they may have little or nothing to lose.
I TOLD THESE PEOPLE, I AM GOING THROUGH A SPIRITUAL AWAKENING. I NEED MY TIME TO HEAR FROM MY HEAVENLY FATHER. I DON'T NEED ANY NEGATIVE DISTRACTIONS. SO I HAVE TO CUT YOU LOSE. 2024 NEW YEAR 🎉 NEW ME.😊🎉
It's pruning time!! Thanks for the reminder, Ms. Mack. You asked which vowel I will use? I will use all and sometimes "y"😂😂. Let them talk as their opinions of me does not pay my bills nor deserve my mental space.😊 All the best for 2024.🎉
U, yep right on point I've had to go there and glad I did. Thank you so much for making it make sense. I saw in my weight loss journey everything that ain't working had to go, went from 267 lbs to 174 lbs...bay...bay...you telling the truth. They can't stand my black..well you know 😂
Sometimes ambivalence can also be a trauma response to so many experiences of betrayal, hurt, and pain. It can seem like an individual runs hot and cold when actually they want to believe the best but has been hurt so many times it can be hard to trust.
Absolutely Aaaaaw😂!!@ Happy New Year Cassandra 🥰 OMG your ministry has not only helpme , but literally an answered prayer! I thank the Lord for you. YOU'RE such an inspiration and your deliverance is constructive and most definitely relevant...I am joining full membership very soon❤
Thank you so much for posting this message. It’s was exactly what I needed to hear. I was having a hard time letting go of a person who I thought was a best friend. How do you l let go of a friendship spiritually tied?
Hello Ms. Mack another excellent video for the new year, my new years resolution is to protect my peace, Happy New Year to you and your family. Peace and Blessing always.
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Trim down your interactions with negative people as much as possible 🙌🏾
The Cut off ain't personal, it's purposeful💫
This resonated with me. A so called ''friend'' that I had cut off because she was treating me bad, had secret animosity towards me, always felt the need to one up me, compete with me and she would act insecure, jealous and envious of me. She begged for forgiveness so I gave her a second chance. Nothing had changed and depending on who she was around she would act like she did not know me and would not speak to me. So I cut her off again for good. She is nothing but a nasty narcissist. When people show you who they really are believe them the first time!
Chile! I had a friend that ignored me, constantly competing with me, didn’t clap for my wins, etc. I was trying to talk to her but just decided it’s not worth it. I wish her the best.
It’s not personal. It’s purpose. Powerful. Amen
It's not personal. It's Purpose. Everybody doesn't get access to me in 2024. Some people will only get a basic subscription or their account will be limited.
REMEMBER: FORGIVENESS IS SOMETIMES DANGEROUS. Being angry at someone who did you dirty is completely natural. Being bitter after a betrayal is also natural. Do not invalidate the feelings that you felt after someone betrays you. Do not forgive them just because people tell you to forgive. Feel your anger and bitterness because it's a natural process of healing. You need to tell yourself that what they did to you was WRONG! Apology must be the prerequisite of forgiveness. Forgive when you are ready. Forgive, BUT NEVER FORGET!
Such great confirmation. Many thanks
Facts
🎉🤍🎉👏👏💯💯💯
I take note of people's behavior towards me and others. I can't tell you how many times I watched people do dirty to others and knew one day they would do the same to me. I slowly back away from these people and wish them well.
The act of Forgiveness itself is not dangerous … It is the Reconciliation to the relationship and or person.
It’s wise and definitely worthwhile to forgive yourself and to reconcile to the betterment of You!
2023 was the year I cut them off! It took courage, but after the grief and the hurt, I am feeling lighter than ever. I now have energy for my path and the mental space to pursue it.
It's Not Personal It's About My Purpose 2024. "Amen 🙏
Nine years the only people who can find me or know any of my business...my son , my eldest niece . That's it . I listen to Ms.Mack everyday . I'm healing , happier and healthier . I spend a lot of time with our Father , he's my BFF . ❤
I just deleted 10 contacts from my phone earlier. This message is definitely ON TIME!!!!🎉🙌🏾💖
Growth Mindset. The cut OFF ain't personal!!🫡
Do Not allow...religious people, make you think you wrong neither. As Cassandra said, sometimes OUR LORD GOD, is rhe one that is saying let go and go.
Jeremiah 29:11
Many will abuse religion as the hook to keep you under their thumb.
When someone hurts you and says "Get over it" it means they're unrepentant. They're sorry for the consequences, NOT the behavior. They knew then what they did, so "All in the past, is NO excuse. If they wanted to "Get over it" that badly, they wouldn't have hurt you in the first place. Selective amnesia only goes THEIR way. When they hurt you, it's "All in the past." And when they do you a favor, it's "After all I've done for you."
As long as they keep hurting you and justifying it, there is no relationship. I don't care if it's personal or business. You can forgive someone by not bringing up the past and STILL shun them. If we don't make peace in private, we don't shake hands in public. I don't fake interactions with anyone. Not only do I remove toxic people from my life, but if anyone criticizes THAT choice, I cut THEM off, too. The time for building a close relationship was years ago. They can have the last word without me! 💯😎
#julianhudson9341 🗣THIS 🗣
Amen And I’m glad that you included business. ALL of “those” people get dropped like hot potatoes.
Well said. ✅
Amen so true
I had a close friend just like you described at 13:00. He had a temper and used to intentionally antagonize people. He carried a firearm with him all the time, too. This is a very bad mixture. It was too dangerous to be out with someone as volatile as this. We had some good times, but I cannot jeopardize my safety nor freedom by getting involved in his shenanigans. I felt bad about cutting off this relationship initially, but it has been over a year since we communicated and I feel immense peace now. You helped reinforce my decision.
Much love bro. We can all turn our lives around and go to God to heal. If people are not willing to change their ways then we can’t shame ourselves for wanting to let go and do what is best.
A comment regarding ambivalence: The Word also says let your yes be yes. And your no be no. So if the answer is ANYTHING OTHER than yes, the answer is no. If the answer is ANYTHING other than NO, the answer is yes. Even if you have to answer a question yourself you meant for someone else. In order for me to be "Laser Beam Focused", I understand NOW, I needed clarity. The verse goes on further to say "Anything OTHER than Yes OR No comes fromthe Devil" . We know ambivalence OR inconsistency causes confusion , and we ALSO know where confusion comes from. I am done living in confusion and for me it doesn't get anymore clear than Matt 5:7 HALLELUJAH!!
My aunt has been spreading lies about me holding hatred in my heart! Not surprised because she’s hardly held accountable!!! I can’t tolerate the faking and pretending! The constant gossip, aggravation, and meddling into my personal affairs!!!
I completely get it. I have relatives like that. I don't talk to them.
Sounds like my AUNT. I only deal with her when I am at or around other family. NO ONE holds her accountable. She took advantage of the fact that I was raised in the generation that tries to have some level of respect. After she lied on me and tried to defame my character. I was DONE with her! I speak monotone to her. She ain’t no fool. She truly knows I ain’t no joke. So she don’t even try it!
Amen, quit watering dead plants!!
It’s not personal, IT’S PURPOSE 🤓
Perfect timing Cassandra Mack. Thank you for all of your teachings ❤❤❤❤❤
It ain’t personal, the cut off ain’t personal, the cut off ain’t personal it’s about my purpose.
I've been walking through this the last few years. I just drifted away said nothing. I know longer tell anyone what I'm up to
It's not personal. It is purpose. Amen.
It's not personal it's purpose!
What is very interesting is that, the two family members that have caused me the most grief, are now completely friendless and alone. They have both been divorced multiple times. They have both had multiple bankruptcies. They have both stolen from family members. They are both heavily in debt. They have both been physically violent towards me. They both constantly spread malicious and false gossip about others. They both hate to work and use drugs and alcohol. These people conform to a template. How do my mother and my x husband, who are from different cultures and countries, have so much in common? I am the opposite in every way.
It ain't personal it is purpose.
Kwiin of not having time for foolery, foolishness, tomfoolery and the shenanigans
Remember the song back in the day, A,E,I,O,U and sometimes Y! 😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
SPOT ON!!! Thank you so much!!!!
It ain't personal it's purpose
Thank You CMM! Your lectures are phenomenal to my personal life. I'm assured I'm doing what's best for my present life I'm cutting off toxic family dysfunctional dynamics.
I'm in my late 50s, it's been approx 4/5 years I decided to cut off majority of my older siblings, I'm the youngest of ten, now seven. It's not easy to do when you grew up in such an enormous family, but by God's grace and the lectures I'm able to keep going forward. I'm still growing with God each and every day! This decision began during the transition of my mother's passing, the epiphanies kept on coming to me as to what was revealed about them and myself . While being with her during her transition, part of my life left as she transitioned, the mental/verbal/gaslighting/arguing/physical/gossiping /abuse was revealed to me clearly.
I learned and accepting family are people first.
Mom 😇 ,while father pure evil. Alcohol/illiterate/mentally unstable himself.
He was Jeckel and Hyde.
Mental/Physical/Emotional/Spiritual Health are my purpose now. I do care about my siblings and family, I just don't like their behavior. Took fifty plus years to live such an unstable life. After doing my own personal growth, I accept all that's taken place, I finding there's a blessing in every lesson, no matter the degree. Every lecture I listen to, I always apply to my life and family cause that's where the patterns begin. Keep on pressing on CMM❤
It’s not personal, it’s purpose.
It’s not personal, it’s purpose Amen 🙏🏽
It ain't personal it's about my purpose Yes And Amen!❤❤❤👏😇🙏❤❤❤
Youre like my momma I never had. Or an Aunti giveing me advice so ❤ thankful
Your intro song has become my morning mantra song! I’ve been singing along with it since you first put it out! Smooth groove
THANK GOD, I haven't been in a position of being out in public with the angry friend or relative. Thank God indeed because from the position I'm at in life now, I'll stop "eating my wings" midway, pay my tab and tell her I'm leaving if she's lucky for me to even inform her because I'd just as well leave her there. People don't seem to consider what other people may have to lose in their lives on the count of merely being in their company as they may have little or nothing to lose.
I TOLD THESE PEOPLE, I AM GOING THROUGH A SPIRITUAL AWAKENING. I NEED MY TIME TO HEAR FROM MY HEAVENLY FATHER. I DON'T NEED ANY NEGATIVE DISTRACTIONS. SO I HAVE TO CUT YOU LOSE. 2024 NEW YEAR 🎉 NEW ME.😊🎉
It's pruning time!! Thanks for the reminder, Ms. Mack. You asked which vowel I will use? I will use all and sometimes "y"😂😂. Let them talk as their opinions of me does not pay my bills nor deserve my mental space.😊 All the best for 2024.🎉
My vowels?
I O U...nothing. 😊
Amen! It's not personal it's purpose
Growing w/God every day
Pruning is key. Thank you
I'm cutting off for personal reasons to focus on my purpose in life.
CMM 👍
U, yep right on point I've had to go there and glad I did. Thank you so much for making it make sense. I saw in my weight loss journey everything that ain't working had to go, went from 267 lbs to 174 lbs...bay...bay...you telling the truth. They can't stand my black..well you know 😂
Its purpose !!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
The cutoff is not personal but purposeful.
All Facts!! 💯💯
It's purpose 😮
Sometimes ambivalence can also be a trauma response to so many experiences of betrayal, hurt, and pain. It can seem like an individual runs hot and cold when actually they want to believe the best but has been hurt so many times it can be hard to trust.
Cassandra,happy new year to you and all of the ministry!
It's not personal. It's purpose. What a true and powerful declaration. Thank you 😊 🙏🏾!!!
The cut-off ain't personal....its about my purpose!!
Absolutely Aaaaaw😂!!@ Happy New Year Cassandra 🥰 OMG your ministry has not only helpme , but literally an answered prayer! I thank the Lord for you. YOU'RE such an inspiration and your deliverance is constructive and most definitely relevant...I am joining full membership very soon❤
I like the “o” on definitely using that!!!! I cracked up this whole episode. Thank you!!
Thank you for sharing this video, God's blessings upon us and Happy New Year 💓🙏✨
Revelation 3: 15- 18...I will meditate on. Thank you🩷
Kwiin of purpose!!!
Kwiin of hedges ✂️
Kwiin of the ✂️
Kwiin of knowing whats not her problem
Thank you so much for posting this message. It’s was exactly what I needed to hear. I was having a hard time letting go of a person who I thought was a best friend. How do you l let go of a friendship spiritually tied?
Love the intro song 😊 and as always love your content. God bless!
sending New Year BLESSINGS, Thank You for this message🙏🏾
Thank you so much. I hope you have a beautiful new year with many blessings. ❤
Kwiin of not getting personal !!!
Anointed by God!! Keep preaching !❤
Kwiin of plants 🪴🌱🌿🌾🌵🏵☘️
Hello Ms. Mack another excellent video for the new year, my new years resolution is to protect my peace, Happy New Year to you and your family. Peace and Blessing always.
Happy New Year Cassandra!!! I so needed this.. 🙌❤️🔥 Thank you and God bless you for your teachings and ministry!!! 🙏 ❤️
❤ shared
Yess maam i am seee-re-uss
I just love you sister. Happy New Year🎊🎊
Thank you Minister Mack 🙏🏾
Kwiin of freedom
Straight FACTS 💯‼️, Happy New Year ❤️
Kwiin of good hair💇♀️
Happy New Year! Great video as usual! ♥️🎉
Kwiin of trimming.
Kwiin of avoiding the penetentiary
Kwiin of EIAOU
Im starting to hate everyone I grew up with
Lmao.
I'm extremely sorry for the different forms of pain they inflicted upon you. May you continue on your journey of healing.💐😘
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A its 1st
It not personal not on purpose
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Ahhh
Least energy expelled
Y 😂
Kwiin of being seee-ree-us
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Kwiin of birthing
Kwiin of vowels and phonix.