What Every Girl Needs To Hear: A Response to Lauren Southern

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  • Sorry, Lauren.
    Content warning: Some sexual assault discussion
    Contact:
    / shaun_jen
    curiouscat.me/...
    / shaun_jen
    Sources:
    Lauren's video:
    • What Every Girl Needs ...
    Stefan's video:
    • Video
    fivethirtyeigh...
    www.cdc.gov/nc...
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    time.com/435879...
    J.D Unwin: • Do women destroy civil...
    Studies mentioned:
    Wiederman, M. W. The truth must be in here somewhere: Examining the gender discrepancy in self-reported lifetime number of sex partners. Journal of Sex Research
    Joan R. Kahn and Kathryn A. London. Premarital Sex and the Risk of Divorce. Journal of Marriage and Family
    Adolescent Sexuality and the Risk of Marital Dissolution. Anthony Paik. Journal of Marriage and Family
    Premarital Sex, Premarital Cohabitation, and the Risk of Subsequent Marital Dissolution among Women. Jay Teachman. Journal of Marriage and Family
    Abstinence-only and comprehensive sex education and the initiation of sexual activity and teen pregnancy. Pamela K. Kohler, Lisa E. Manhart, William E. Lafferty. The Journal of Adolescent Health

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  • @hbomberguy
    @hbomberguy 6 років тому +17182

    "What I want every girl to believe"

  • @ContentWithJeremiah
    @ContentWithJeremiah 6 років тому +12479

    Lauren said herself she wished the data wasn’t correct so she’ll be pleased to hear this.

    • @MagusSartori
      @MagusSartori 6 років тому +936

      too bad she had to plan, (research?), shoot, edit, and upload a video on it before finding that out.

    • @50HamstersInATrenchcoat
      @50HamstersInATrenchcoat 6 років тому +710

      It's funny and sad bc we all know she won't care.

    • @Poltergeist329
      @Poltergeist329 6 років тому +188

      how do people like this make videos without research? also catch-all statements are actually the worst tbh

    • @TuAmigoElMorrocoy
      @TuAmigoElMorrocoy 6 років тому +507

      Like roaming millennial she's a pretty girl talking to a mostly male dominated audience looking for female validation. Conservatives are mostly men, so they are pretty much starved for females that agree with them, when they see someone like roaming or Lauren all their critical thinking goes out the window.
      I think the same goes to Lauren and Roaming. I think they truly believe what they preach, but they have a lot of confirmation bias, and are surrounded by fanboys that mindlessly listen to whatever they say so no one really pushes them to seek the truth. They just live in their own bubble

    • @camillastimemachine
      @camillastimemachine 6 років тому +177

      TuAmigoElMorrocoy idk that kind of sounds like a misogynistic statement. Give credit where credit is due: Roaming Millenial and Lauren Southern aren't looking for male validation, they're just wrong. Literally every conservative commentator is surrounded by fans who agree with them. It's not exclusive to female conservatives lmao.

  • @frickinfrick8488
    @frickinfrick8488 3 роки тому +3933

    Saying underage rape victims are sluts that have been “desouled” is one of the most evil things I have ever heard, holy shit.

    • @Dekubud
      @Dekubud 2 роки тому +399

      That mentality really messes with you when you're a victim. Because of how much our society cares about virginity and "purity", I felt guilty, stained and defiled for most of my life, especially during my teenage years, despite being 2 when I was victimised.

    • @frickinfrick8488
      @frickinfrick8488 2 роки тому +237

      @@Dekubud it’s an absolutely cruel belief and I’m so sorry you had to go through that because of these bullshit ideals. You’re not a lesser human being because of what someone else did to you without your consent and whoever says that is a soulless asshole. Nobody can stain you, I hope you’re doing better now

    • @joshmuir8058
      @joshmuir8058 2 роки тому +2

      they didn't mean it , was an accident

    • @pineapple7024
      @pineapple7024 2 роки тому +136

      @@joshmuir8058
      bOyS wIlL bE bOyS

    • @joshmuir8058
      @joshmuir8058 2 роки тому +1

      @@pineapple7024 that's true haha

  • @RoseofSeattle
    @RoseofSeattle 5 років тому +1337

    "Men love youth and fertility" but even if a women marries a dude when young, eventually you're gonna get old. So than he won't love you anymore? Than why get married in the first place?

    • @milesfurther4395
      @milesfurther4395 5 років тому +245

      If it’s that superficial why bother at all. Lauren southern must be a lesbian and strategically turning women off men so she can have them all.

    • @foxbodyblues6709
      @foxbodyblues6709 5 років тому +15

      Project AcuHope here I corrected your mistake “how dare a women mature errrrrr let herself go.

    • @foxbodyblues6709
      @foxbodyblues6709 5 років тому +1

      Project AcuHope not sure when or why YOU decided that you need to work, on top of the traditional division of household labor that falls to you.
      Maybe re-evaluate some priorities???

    • @foxbodyblues6709
      @foxbodyblues6709 5 років тому

      Project AcuHope lols 😂. again
      Where you CHOOSE to live is an economic decision...and you can afford a lot more house.
      But continue to justify your priorities any way you want...

    • @foxbodyblues6709
      @foxbodyblues6709 5 років тому

      nah im good things you say when you can’t refute an argument

  • @Paul-sr6zb
    @Paul-sr6zb 6 років тому +5949

    Imagine being a 22yo unwed, unmothered women lecturing other 20-something women on how they need to get married and have kids.

    • @tsunderella5826
      @tsunderella5826 6 років тому +305

      Wait she's 22yo? she's 3 Years younger than me wtf lel

    • @magicalmomo9987
      @magicalmomo9987 6 років тому +360

      22?? She's YOUNGER than me?? She looks like she's at least 25, wow wow

    • @ladydontekno
      @ladydontekno 6 років тому +74

      I mean it worked for Phyllis Schafly.

    • @suides4810
      @suides4810 6 років тому +40

      Magical Momo I also thought that she was in her mid 20s

    • @DewMan001
      @DewMan001 6 років тому +403

      That's the scariest part for me. She's my age and she's spouting this utter nonsense and perscribing it as **the** healthy way to live. What the fuck happened here? How did this happen?

  • @ashleyrhy5722
    @ashleyrhy5722 4 роки тому +2415

    Wow... Saying that a child loses their soul after being sexually assaulted... That's probably one of, if not the lowest thing someone can say.

    • @doeydays1490
      @doeydays1490 2 роки тому +83

      Damn, and I thought I only lost my soul after I dyed myself a ginger lol

    • @BriarBeeBenson
      @BriarBeeBenson 2 роки тому +71

      @@doeydays1490 What Lauren said really fucked me up and I came to the comments because I was upset and this uh made me smile and giggle a bit when I would have otherwise been in a bit of a mood for the rest of the day so thank you lmao 😅

    • @doeydays1490
      @doeydays1490 2 роки тому +15

      @@BriarBeeBenson glad i could help :) !

    • @TheSpellShell
      @TheSpellShell Рік тому +22

      That's why "left" should be more careful with religion, shouldn't welcome religious people with open arms because religion values often perfectly matching with "right"'s. So in a goal to be all-inclusive "left" accepting people with values which directly contradicts ideology. In my country ortodox christians ask woman to have wrap aroung their head and wear long skirts, because they believe that woman tempting man sexually and it's woman's fault. Any progressive left organization shoud ask their followers who has a faith in some non-material stuff to at least reform their views, because we don't need people like that in a movement.

    • @TheThiccestChungus
      @TheThiccestChungus Рік тому +11

      @@TheSpellShell I think in your case it is more a case of being careful with extremism rather than religion, the way you phrased your comment makes me think you believe that most religions inherently are right, but taking for example the way the Catholic Church has become more moderate and left in the past century, I think it is more so the conservatism religion has historically been affiliated with rather than the assumption that religion is by its nature conservative and even more so the assumption that all or most religious people are conservative due to their religion.

  • @Acidfunkish
    @Acidfunkish 2 роки тому +529

    How unhappy are unmarried millennial women? We surveyed 30 men.
    Those kinda vibes.

  • @user-us1yu8gx9s
    @user-us1yu8gx9s 5 років тому +7237

    As someone who comes from an abusive mother. This idea that everyone should be a mother ia dangerous. Not everyone should be a mother.

    • @courtneyhoward2370
      @courtneyhoward2370 4 роки тому +593

      My mother did... As well as she could. She straight up wasn't given the tools required to raise kids or deal with her traumas that she would then pass on to us. She's the perfect example of doing your best doesn't mean you're doing right.

    • @ajamusmith37
      @ajamusmith37 4 роки тому +44

      You got that right!👏

    • @jarrettchrist
      @jarrettchrist 4 роки тому +77

      Courtney Howard but u gotta respect the effort. Of course not everyone is fit for parenting, but at least she gave a shit

    • @biboonkwe8265
      @biboonkwe8265 4 роки тому +6

      Schitzhophrenia

    • @gloriouscontent3538
      @gloriouscontent3538 4 роки тому +18

      Well said, and aside from that any idiot who knows about math can tell you its a dangerous idea.

  • @dangerdanger2711
    @dangerdanger2711 6 років тому +690

    Lmaooo all these women on the right tell girls to have children while they are single and getting that youtube career money

    • @GrayYeonWannabe
      @GrayYeonWannabe 5 років тому +27

      theyre in good company. phyllis schlafly made a career out of it in the 70s

    • @Lafemmefutile
      @Lafemmefutile 5 років тому +35

      Too many women who know UA-cam is about that white male business so they churn out the anti-feminism or anti-critical thinking stuff like factory.

    • @KattReen
      @KattReen 3 роки тому +4

      Well. I'm at least glad she doesn't believe in these things to the point of actually living by them, and just to the point of the average conservative pundit(saying damn near anything that fills their bank accounts).

    • @avapilsen
      @avapilsen 3 роки тому

      Ikr smh

  • @treeplanter-bv4gw
    @treeplanter-bv4gw 6 років тому +2224

    Citing yourself as the source for your own data is incredible. I didn't know you could do that! I might actually get my degree now

    • @treeplanter-bv4gw
      @treeplanter-bv4gw 6 років тому +104

      Hmm hmm
      could probably make like 700 dollars a month on patreon though, so, it's impossible to say if it's bad

    • @GuerillaBunny
      @GuerillaBunny 6 років тому +45

      Can get more than twice that if you just wing it.

    • @FerociousPaul
      @FerociousPaul 6 років тому +43

      R8.50 Mango You could get twice that much if you get a semi-hot white chick to do all the ranting instead.

    • @johannathorn6652
      @johannathorn6652 6 років тому +53

      I love that that website's sourcing was essentially "Source: am website. can confirm" a la reddit posts

    • @martinn.6082
      @martinn.6082 6 років тому +37

      I am actually very rich. Source: Martin Neumann, 2018

  • @jesswilliams1436
    @jesswilliams1436 6 років тому +4835

    I also hate the negative stigma against divorce, as if it's a morally repulsive thing to do. I dont see how being forced to stay in an abusive, miserable, or just non compatible relationship is more ethical than taking legal and reasonable steps to take care of yourself. I think access to divorce should be celebrated honestly, as it is liberating to men and women. Or just dont out so much pressure on people getting married in the first place, or idunno. Both.

    • @bloodmachine6049
      @bloodmachine6049 6 років тому +280

      If anything I think there should be more push-back against marriage, given how arbitrary it is, and how damaging it can be.

    • @BigmanDogs
      @BigmanDogs 6 років тому +145

      The problem is that people marry those whom they can't stay together with for the rest of their life. Cultures, where the parents have a bigger say in regards to who their child can and can't marry have significantly lower divorce rates without affecting happiness. Parents in cultures like these also help their child find a partner, instead of having them try to find one on their own.
      The solution to high divorce rates isn't to force people to stay in bad marriages. It's to make more marriages be good.

    • @jesswilliams1436
      @jesswilliams1436 6 років тому +205

      IJ OP i am actually in a committed relationship, and i work hard at maintaining it. Ive also worked hard at relationships that were not healthy and i eventually had to get out of for my own well being, which led to the happy relationship im in now.

    • @jesswilliams1436
      @jesswilliams1436 6 років тому +154

      IJ OP you do that

    • @ultrasonic22
      @ultrasonic22 6 років тому +10

      People are not saying it's morally repulsive, it's moreso that marriage is shown to be a good indicator of health and income; and that the decline in married households is a indicator of the decline of our nation.
      Married households have higher incomes then those who aren't, men and women who are married have higher incomes then those who aren't. There are multiple benefits to marriage, and the decline of it as an instutition is a sign of our decay.

  • @bananewane1402
    @bananewane1402 3 роки тому +1021

    What's worse? Having sex with someone you aren't married to, or marrying someone at age 18 who you've only known for a year just so you can have sex in a way deemed appropriate by your religion?
    I know a lot of religious people marry young and hastily because they are horny. After a year of sex in their hasty marriage the honeymoon wears off and they realize "hey, I don't actually like my partner very much" and all the sex and intimacy dies off leaving a cold dead husk of a relationship. Then the pressure is to stay married so they end up in unfulfilling sometimes abusive relationships with someone they ultimately aren't compatible with. That's where all the boomer "I hate my wife, she nags me and wont have sex with me" and "my husband is always looking at other women and he treats me like garbage" jokes come from.

    • @sorryifoldcomment8596
      @sorryifoldcomment8596 2 роки тому +124

      Yeah, ironically waiting to have sex until marriage is not actually good for marriage, it's not respectful nor better...it's only "pro-marriage" in quantity, because people are desperately getting married just so they can have sex.
      Anyone who cares about "marriage," should recognize that tying marriage to sex devalues marriage. People should get married for reasons besides being horny...obviously.
      It's so silly how people reference this rule as if it's a virtue to not have sex with your partner until marriage.
      Lol, sorry, but if my partner proposes marriage and asks to marry me...I want to know that it's NOT just because they're horny and want to have sex. That should not be the reason. Unfortunately, the only way to make sure it's not a reason, is if you can have sex before marriage.
      No sex before marriage devalues any proposal, any marriage. I wouldn't be able to take any of it seriously.

    • @isabelmcgaugh711
      @isabelmcgaugh711 2 роки тому

      Also the fact that this entirely removes any chance of you knowing what you’re sexually interested in going into the marriage. Not everyone is interested in doing the same types of sexual activities and if you wont be engaging in those activities until after your married…too late? Like what if you’ve got a huge foot fetish but are disgusted by anal, and your partner is really into anal but finds feet gross? It’d be nice to know that before you get married….

    • @hillaryclinton1232
      @hillaryclinton1232 2 роки тому

      or marrying someone at age 18 who you've met the same day, which was me in 1968, only the Husband was 18 Years old and I was 15 Years old. I have 3 children, all married, and the Father is still Screwing Me which is perfectly normal and , .... and yes 1960's was a bad time, I am Mexican my Husband is a White guy and never married anyone else, because [lol] I won't let him! PS we lived on Walefare after his Jon at a Malleable Iron Foundry went out of business, and as you know, in the U.S. of A. sent all dirty industry like Foundries off-shore. The Union went broke, the State [Wisconsin] elected a vile Repuglican Racist Shit Heel and his ""Christian Values" is Mixed Marriage a criminal Sin .
      America has become Pax Masculina, Hanged. PAX MASCULINA FULL SHORT FILM | ONLY DEATHS VIDEO. PAX MASCULINA ua-cam.com/video/Riij9HFUT_0/v-deo.html
      "Return of Kings 2015 film project Pax Masculina"
      Roughly one-third of the 18-minute film consists of an extended scene of the lead character Emily, played by Rebecca Bartlett, being hung in a noose. Actors and crew members who worked on the Pax Masculina set have said the movie they filmed, which included a vague female empowerment message, was scrapped by Scamehorn and re-edited by new hires with an emphasis on the torture and killing scenes.

    • @RobL350
      @RobL350 Рік тому

      Hahaha

    • @FroggyGizmo
      @FroggyGizmo Рік тому +17

      I have a VERY religious friend and shes about to marry a guy she already broke up with once, shes 22 and yeah they're just horny

  • @fun_ghoul
    @fun_ghoul 6 років тому +4223

    FEMALE INFIDELITY STATISTICS
    _Source: Trust us_

    • @vinceknox4425
      @vinceknox4425 5 років тому +193

      Paesan Control Centre I’ve been called so many names just for asking white supremacists and misogynists their sources. It’s like they believe anything that confirms their bias without making sure it’s accurate and truthful.

    • @ginger942
      @ginger942 5 років тому +10

      Ahahaha

    • @zandmaddict2596
      @zandmaddict2596 5 років тому +105

      It's kind of low-key disgusting how they conflate the amount of sexual partners as a likely hood of a wife's infidelity.

    • @MrSpiritchild
      @MrSpiritchild 4 роки тому +3

      @@vinceknox4425 Do you actually know any white supremacists, or do you just call them that when they disagree with you? That is after all the leftard way.

    • @MrSpiritchild
      @MrSpiritchild 4 роки тому +2

      @Glenna Smith There are many things in our existence that don't make sense to people, this doesn't mean that they are wrong. I can assure you, those of us that lean more to the conservative side find it hard to make sense out of your beliefs as much as you have a hard time making sense over our ramblings. We can leave the debate on which of us makes the most sense for another time.
      I would however point out, Laura is an unrepentant white person, IE, she will not apologize for being born without melanin, which is a far cry from being a white supremacist. I don't know what groups you subscribe to, but I would bet you aren't sorry for what ever you are. Does this make you a supremacist?

  • @Arkain89
    @Arkain89 6 років тому +792

    the irony behind a guy with a sexy wife wasting his time making "graphs" about unhappy women baffles me deeply

    • @LimeyLassen
      @LimeyLassen 6 років тому +37

      Kids These Days

    • @idsbraam
      @idsbraam 6 років тому +64

      Conservative Christians. Can't go to heaven if you didn't fill your 'convert heathens' stamp book.

    • @KookiesNolly
      @KookiesNolly 6 років тому +118

      it totally doesn't sound like he was making that shit up about his family.

    • @TuAmigoElMorrocoy
      @TuAmigoElMorrocoy 6 років тому +109

      That guy is probably not happy with his marriage. Happyly married people don't usually take time out of their day to put down those who aren't married.
      Maybe his marriage sucks and he's just jealous of single people and angry at women. Much like the dudes you see in the manosphere

    • @rimmijohnson3361
      @rimmijohnson3361 6 років тому +7

      Gosh maybe he just really really cares about women's happiness?

  • @frootlup117
    @frootlup117 6 років тому +4773

    As a Deaf viewer I would highly appreciate closed captioning. (the auto generated stuff is okay, but there are a few things I couldn't figure out, even with my hearing aids). I also suggest this because people on this side of the political spectrum have a message of acceptance and I'm sure I'm not only Deaf leftist. Just something to consider.

    • @danintheoutback1
      @danintheoutback1 5 років тому +526

      frootlup
      The fact is that all of Shawn’s videos are scripted. So providing closed captions, should be relatively easy to include.

    • @KiwiHavok777
      @KiwiHavok777 5 років тому +47

      🖕🏿☝🏿🖖🤞👉🤘🏿🖐🏿🦶

    • @tessarobins2451
      @tessarobins2451 5 років тому +179

      Bigtombowski Ohhhhh 😂😂😂 I love Shaun’s speaking voice. Sincerely, a Glaswegian. Barely anyone gets us either.
      But to the original poster, I really hope Shaun reads this. I think closed captions are a great idea!

    • @FaliusAren
      @FaliusAren 5 років тому +98

      @@danintheoutback1 tbh I don't understand what's difficult about doing closed captions in the first place. UA-cam's tool for making them is very easy to use. The biggest difficulty in captioning is making out everything the speaker is saying, which is obviously not a problem if you're the one who made the video. It shouldn't take more than 4-5 times the length of the video, *especially* if you have the full script.

    • @-homechord-2908
      @-homechord-2908 5 років тому +183

      ADHDer here. Captions are really useful for me to understand what's going on. But they're not vital. For Deaf viewers, captions are vital for content to be understood. (Aka, captions would be wonderful, please!!!!!)

  • @evamiller4886
    @evamiller4886 3 роки тому +347

    Responding to underage girls being the victims of sexual assault by calling them soulless sluts is legitimately and blatantly evil. No one who is a victim of unwanted sexual contact, man or woman, adult or child has their value as a human being reduced by the experience. Who the hell thinks that way?!

  • @emmae6184
    @emmae6184 6 років тому +1398

    Pretty wack how someone who calls themselves a “libertarian” is going around telling women what to do

    • @emmae6184
      @emmae6184 6 років тому +150

      Lachs geräuchert Lauren is pretty terrible and she’s obviously a white nationalist lunatic. She’ll never admit it but she is constantly sympathizing with far right extremists and hanging out with people like Tara Mcarthy. I saw a picture of her somewhere where she was wearing a shirt that said “Europe belongs to us” she lives in Canada so what does that mean??? Obviously a dog whistle to the alt right. She is completely authoritarian don’t fool yourself

    • @nicksupreme2094
      @nicksupreme2094 6 років тому +146

      Same kind of libertarian who claims "respect is earned not given" to justify treating promiscous women and/or sexworkers like they're not human
      common among the green frogs

    • @emmae6184
      @emmae6184 6 років тому +58

      nick supreme true Lauren is a female misogynist

    • @nicksupreme2094
      @nicksupreme2094 6 років тому +20

      Emma Elizabeth
      quite so, and this point of view I spoke of isn't uncommon these days... sadly

    • @emmae6184
      @emmae6184 6 років тому +17

      nick supreme to me it seems more prevalent than it was a couple of years ago idk maybe just as many people held these views a couple of years ago but the current political climate has given them more leeway to have this view that promiscuous women don’t deserve respect

  • @FidgetThePepperTheGhost
    @FidgetThePepperTheGhost 6 років тому +1413

    That "desoulment" quote really gave me chills. To think that some people think that losing your virginity should be equated to literally losing your soul, and that "desoulment" is something that should be put into a scientifically-themed blog, it's just truly baffling.

    • @nj8542
      @nj8542 6 років тому +117

      I find that quote completely cruel and brutal, I have to wonder about the "soul" of some of these conservatives (and what they would qualify as "scientific research").

    • @AshDemonYoung
      @AshDemonYoung 5 років тому +19

      @MrAmmanas Oh no. Crazy has entered the chat.

    • @maschaorsomething
      @maschaorsomething 4 роки тому +91

      It *is* terrifying.
      I remember watching Shauns video a year ago when I was still a virgin.
      A few months ago I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend, who had been with me at that point for around 8 months (without any sexual contact) already.
      My parents found out. What happened?
      I was insulted by my father as a lazy whore, he threatened to kill my boyfriend and grabbed my throat. My mother yelled at me for having lost my "everything", my entire worth as a female.
      And then I was thrown out to be homeless, despite still being a student, with no authorities to help me *not* sleep on the streets in Winter. (:
      Not to be dramatic, but I want everyone who promotes purity-culture to perish.

    • @maschaorsomething
      @maschaorsomething 4 роки тому +65

      @Glenna Smith
      Hey, thanks!
      I don't know if I am doing better now, as I am fighting hard for _any_ kind of authority to help me escape that abusive household. (Obviously my mental health is on a steady decline, despite my medication.)
      But "young adults" are completely overlooked. They aren't kids anymore, but they aren't real independant adults either, but are treated as such by the law, no matter how critical the situation is.
      My parents are typical religious Russians, is it any surprise that they are heartless? Racist too, my boyfriend fled with 7 from Iraq, so obviously he's Middle-eastern, or as my mom put it: "NON-EUROPEAN, NON-WHITE! ONLY DATE WHITE PEOPLE!"
      Ah, who doesn't love family?

    • @maschaorsomething
      @maschaorsomething 4 роки тому +18

      @NotGonnaTell MyName
      Heyo!
      Thank you very much for the kind words!
      I couldn't move in with my boyfriend because he, again, had to flee. But this time from his dangerously religious family, who'd threatened him for loving a _"European Russian whore",_ who _"for sure can't be a virgin"._
      Of course no authority could help him, some 18 year-old boy, either for some reason. So we were both holding on to each other, we didn't have anyone else. And oddly enough, the police refused to tell us where the next homeless shelter is, they were either leaving us standing in the snow at night (my knees were bleeding too), didn't show up at all when concerned people called them, or gave us rude attitude and snarky remarks, only to shut the blinds on us and refuse to talk.
      I'm just speechless, and so is everyone else who heard our story.
      Yikes...

  • @moomoof8720
    @moomoof8720 6 років тому +914

    Isn't she single? ....like none of these ppl practice what they preach at all

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому +91

      She is. But she is still young enough to have sexual market value and does plan on getting married before that runs out. Her words, not mine. But for the life of me I can't find the video in which she said that. lol

    • @redemptionhappens7725
      @redemptionhappens7725 5 років тому +139

      D Cheverie I realize it’s her words and not yours but “Sexual market value” is just retarded. In my city there are plenty of women in their 20s who have lived a rough life, done meth, drink, smoke etc and they look ancient with zero sex appeal. None. Not physically, emotionally, intellectually, etc. There are plenty of young women who are absolutely repulsive IMO. I’m in my 40s and regularly get mistaken for 28-32 and so do plenty of other women. If a woman takes care of her body & mind, age isn’t shit really. Let’s just call it what it is. It’s breeder status. A woman in her 40s is unlikely to be able to crap out numerous babies with no health issues. That’s why I can’t stand Lauren Simonsen (her real name). She’s disingenuous and a hypocrite. She is traveling the world living for herself and her career alone. Living every third wave feminist/SJW dream come true.

    • @oppakunn328
      @oppakunn328 5 років тому +2

      She is an only child

    • @TwelvetreeZ
      @TwelvetreeZ 5 років тому +116

      It strikes me as pretty hypocritical how many conservative women advise others to 'marry early and have loads of kids' when they themselves won't do this because they're pursuing their career. The only reason they can pursue the careers they choose is because of feminists campaigning throughout the twentieth century for middle-class women to be able to work (working-class women have always worked, and this is always conveniently forgotten by people on the left and right)

    • @georgeh4944
      @georgeh4944 5 років тому +45

      @@TwelvetreeZ correct, most people don't realize that women had always worked outside of the homes. only middle class women and upper class women didn't. this is why i found it baffling when i hear retards say that is is natural for women to stay home and raise kids. LMAO.

  • @TheMrVengeance
    @TheMrVengeance 5 років тому +3354

    Bhahah! "Links to studies."
    _Wordpress, Blogspot, Blogspot, Blogspot, Blogspot, Blogspot, UA-cam, Wikipedia._
    Oh dear.

    • @godzillaworks4585
      @godzillaworks4585 5 років тому +98

      Wikipedia is ok, its just the *type* of article

    • @gur262
      @gur262 5 років тому +314

      Wikipedia is the probably okayest Form of a source that is not a source. Secondary source? River coming from the source? The more indirect your source is the worse it is because of the layers of interpretation that can dilute the truth that might be in there. If I have a believable study. Great. Wikipedia article based on it... Good I guess. Article based on Wikipedia article.. Meh. Video based on article. Buh.

    • @Project-Masculinity
      @Project-Masculinity 4 роки тому +3

      Let’s believe The Huffington Post and CNN instead ... lol

    • @kx7500
      @kx7500 4 роки тому +267

      Project Masculinity nice strawman.

    • @punman5392
      @punman5392 4 роки тому +139

      Project Masculinity they’re 1000x more believable than any blogspot post

  • @hekatebleble4800
    @hekatebleble4800 6 років тому +1252

    Conservatives: a marriage is an union between a man and a woman....so let's put all responsibility of its condition on a woman.

    • @riley8385
      @riley8385 6 років тому +243

      Conservatives love to put the blame of various stuff solely on women... like pregancy, rape cases, toxic standards of masculinity men impose on each other, etc.

    • @AlphabetCookie
      @AlphabetCookie 6 років тому +15

      No, absolutely not. Conservatives think the responsibility should be with both. Where did you even get this stupid idea from? Girls are more hurt right now, that's why Lauren helped girls.

    • @fy8798
      @fy8798 6 років тому +190

      No, conservatives generally only blame women, with is why conservative fanatics came up with the "incel" concept and excuses the murders incels commit with "women just didn't fuck him :(".
      Lauren herself, too, solely blames women, and consequently doesn't help girls.

    • @BinaBecker
      @BinaBecker 6 років тому +114

      Lauren "helped girls"? WHEN??? The only thing she's ever "helped" is herself...to some cash proffered by morons.

    • @BigmanDogs
      @BigmanDogs 6 років тому +5

      + Fen Y Where are all these strawman conservatives who sympathise with incels that kill women? I'd say we are less apologetic of them as we aren't as inclined to blame their actions on their environment etc. Incels should hurt themselves instead of women.
      Let's say we have 20 people, 10 men and 10 women. The 5 most desirable men can alone satisfy all 10 of the women and potentially impregnate all of them. The bottom 5 men are completely unnecessary in regards to producing a new generation of people. These are the incels, they are biological endpoints. There is nothing dysfunctional about this, this is how a society that encourages open and fluid relationships is supposed to function. I personally don't really care about those 5 men who might as well not exist. The only significant problem I see is that these societies are quickly going to cause incest since 50% of the men produce 100% of the children.

  • @Spodumene
    @Spodumene 6 років тому +629

    My parents got married and had kids in their mid to late 30’s. If they hadn’t waited, I would have 2 alcoholic parents without their lives figured out. I’m extremely thankful my mom waited to marry my dad, and didn’t rush into a marriage because her “biological clock” was running out. Now they’ve got almost 2 decades of marriage under their belt and are still going strong.
    Amazing video, Shaun. Thanks for all the great content.

    • @Spodumene
      @Spodumene 6 років тому +68

      Hildegard von Bingen Regardless, no child should have to grow up with two alcoholic/irresponsible parents.

    • @TuAmigoElMorrocoy
      @TuAmigoElMorrocoy 6 років тому +59

      Same, no mom and my dad had me in when my mom was 30, and my sister when my mom was 34. By then both my mom and dad had solid job as engineers, they had their own house with paid off mortgage, and where able to provide me and my sister with the best education. We never lacked anything. Both my parents are very loving towards each other, and we always had a very good example as loving spouses and parents
      By contrast. My grandma a strict Catholic, had my mom when she was 19, and she had no education and was stuck in an unhappy marriage for the rest of her life, she never divorced because if her religion... My grandma has literally told me "I hope I die soon so I don't have to see your grandfather ever again" ....my grandpa has always been nice to us, but apparently treated my grandma like shit, cheated on her with 15 women and gave her an STD that made her had to get a hysterectomy, and beaten her the odd time. One of my aunt's was very resentful of him (they have made peace since then) don't think my grandma is very happy despite of pretty much doing everything that southern points out.
      But yeah, this is probably the contrats between an educated woman who waited to settle down, and an uneducated woman who was raised to be nothing but an unconditional wife from a young age... An extremely religious one for that matter. My mom is by all means a career woman, but I think deep down southern knows that being living for other people makes you very vulnerable, this is why Lauren doesn't practice what she preaches, she's in her prime reproductive years and not even a man on sight, but you see a pretty prolific career as a reporter.

    • @Mika-ko6gp
      @Mika-ko6gp 6 років тому +19

      i can relate to this with my parents as well. My mom was in a relationship with a "well-off" as she puts it, guy who she kind of didn't love, but still stayed with because she thought he would be a good provider. She broke up with him after 13 years and decided she wanted to live for herself and be single for a while. She met my dad in her late thirties and they married after only a few years of dating and then had me right after they got married. My parents are still happily together.
      I also have a friend who's parents have three kids, two cats and have bought a house who aren't married, despite having been together since their early twenties. Marriage isn't for everyone and if you do get married, it's better to do it out of love rather than because you think that this person will provide for you.

    • @tati3861
      @tati3861 6 років тому +16

      Same, my mom was 33 when she had me and she's actually a year and a half older than my dad, and they've got one of the happiest marriages I've seen (21 years now).

    • @nowyuosee109
      @nowyuosee109 6 років тому +4

      Same. My mum and Dad waited to have me and I’m so glad they did.

  • @brokengirlsrus
    @brokengirlsrus 3 роки тому +306

    Thank you for this. I grew up in a strict religious household, was homeschooled, and was taught that sex was only created for reproduction and the man's pleasure. I was taken advantage of as a child by a family member, then was assaulted three times as a teenager, by a family friend, my first boyfriend, then by a friend from my parent's church.
    I gave up seeking help from my parents because I was told I must have seduced my rapist (AS A CHILD) and was obviously asking for it. This "women who aren't virgin brides are sluts," while men are given a free pass to do whatever mindset is exactly the same kind that perpetuates the misogyny I grew up with.

    • @kappadarwin9476
      @kappadarwin9476 2 роки тому +34

      I'm sorry those things happen to you.

    • @paisleepunk
      @paisleepunk 2 роки тому +18

      1. So sorry that s*** happened to you
      2. Username checks out so well I can't even comprehend (almost like your suffering...I was talking the non-comprehension, by the way)

    • @westonmeyer3110
      @westonmeyer3110 2 роки тому

      It has nothing to do with men’s pleasure.

    • @spaghetto9836
      @spaghetto9836 Рік тому +17

      How are you doing now? Absolutely no child deserves that, & I'd wipe away your tears if I could. I hope you're healing as much as you need to, I love you 💓.

    • @VaughanMcCue
      @VaughanMcCue Рік тому +10

      You promote an excellent reason to avoid all superstitions as they cloud our judgement. Sadly, you have been abused like this, and my heart goes out to you.

  • @deadfr0g
    @deadfr0g 2 роки тому +391

    At 7m31s of Lauren’s video: “Promiscuity has devastating impacts on women’s ability to pair-bond and form lasting, stable relationships that she needs for her happiness. And this isn’t a fact that I like! It’s not a fact that I want to be true! I want people to be happy and free to make all of the choices and decisions they want without consequences.”
    It warms my heart to think of how much joy Lauren must have felt as she realized that all of her sources have been debunked.

    • @westonmeyer3110
      @westonmeyer3110 2 роки тому

      They haven’t.

    • @Sputterbug
      @Sputterbug Рік тому +47

      @@westonmeyer3110 someone didnt watch this video lmao

    • @westonmeyer3110
      @westonmeyer3110 Рік тому

      @@Sputterbug
      Oh but I have.

    • @dinkeykong
      @dinkeykong Рік тому +39

      @@westonmeyer3110 you just decided to ignore it and pretend it was wrong?

    • @westonmeyer3110
      @westonmeyer3110 Рік тому

      @@dinkeykong
      It is wrong.
      You are the one pretending this dipshit from Germany knows anything about North American life when he clearly doesn’t and doesn’t want to.

  • @diabreadstick
    @diabreadstick 6 років тому +793

    Lauren, just because you’ve dedicated yourself to gaining the approval of men doesn’t mean the rest of us should have to do the same.

    • @amorestierraamadahermoso5810
      @amorestierraamadahermoso5810 6 років тому

      TheLaxLex, you said it men, not women like u so stop complaining

    • @KookiesNolly
      @KookiesNolly 6 років тому +143

      it's not even the approval of men, it's the approval of insecure little incels who feel the need to be misogynistic and racist to fill the void in their lives. Real men​ know she is full of shit.

    • @godkingtrump7807
      @godkingtrump7807 6 років тому +1

      TheLaxLex Even if it makes you happy?

    • @bloodmachine6049
      @bloodmachine6049 6 років тому +64

      Not approval of men, specifically approval of men who seem to only care about one's superficial qualities.

    • @amaka637
      @amaka637 6 років тому +4

      +Eli N.S Took the words straight outta my mouth. Preach it my bro!

  • @apissedant
    @apissedant 5 років тому +225

    I've never understood the argument that it's acceptable for a man to have many sexual partners, but women should remain monogamous- such as Lauren's 19 partners for men and 1 partner for women- who the hell are the other 18 women men are supposed to be sleeping with? Is this some creepy Handmaid's Tale thing, where a bunch of women are just traded as sexual objects among a handful of men that they have in addition to their wives, and the vast majority of men are meant to stay celibate? Is that what the right is now arguing in favor of, because there's no other mathematical process by which their prescription works.

    • @willhelmi2095
      @willhelmi2095 4 роки тому +23

      Any serious conservative I know thinks that both is morally wrong, but to a different degree. Even Lauren southern implicitly says this; for men having had 19 partners is also bad, therefore promiscuity is bad for men. Just not as bad as for women.

    • @XxBloopGirl
      @XxBloopGirl 4 роки тому +11

      We did it guys- we found the incel! :)

    • @sarahkay5167
      @sarahkay5167 4 роки тому +10

      Yes it is. Read about the Madonna-Whore complex. Men who think they should have sexual experience before marriage whilst women shouldn’t, believe there should be an underclass of women who are delegated to whore status.

    • @jertdw3646
      @jertdw3646 3 роки тому +1

      @@XxBloopGirl huh?!? How is saying "promiscuity is bad for both sexes" have anything to do with incels?
      Leftists will just say any buzzword just like the right,anyway don't mind me, just being "anti-SJW" and "problematic".

    • @XxBloopGirl
      @XxBloopGirl 3 роки тому +22

      @@jertdw3646 pretty sure I was replying to a now deleted comment- I won't judge people if they have consensual casual sex, but I am also pretty reserved with my sexual activity and think it's healthiest done with long term significant others. I think people should have the choice to do what they want and shouldn't be shamed for it. Personally, I don't like the idea of sleeping around and would prefer my future partner not like it either, but that's my standard and I won't enforce it onto everyone around me.

  • @GrandArchPriestOfTheAlgorithm
    @GrandArchPriestOfTheAlgorithm 6 років тому +829

    "What Every Girl Needs To Hear"
    If she ain't just playing Queen on loop, she's wrong.

    • @youssefhafid504
      @youssefhafid504 5 років тому +45

      KILLER QUEEN

    • @youssefhafid504
      @youssefhafid504 5 років тому +32

      BITES THE DUSTO

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 5 років тому +6

      Best comment.

    • @jessbian3385
      @jessbian3385 5 років тому +54

      Every man needs to hear Queen as well, and NB people as well...
      Specifically the best queen song, Under Pressure

    • @shortwaveradio923
      @shortwaveradio923 5 років тому +2

      Eh, @Jamie, coulda went with Nickelback.
      Also, nice to see someone who also likes The Glow Pt. II! Love that album!

  • @Shinkada
    @Shinkada 6 років тому +1873

    Hey someone should do a study on how much being a misogynist increases your divorce risk.

    • @pianoaddict772
      @pianoaddict772 5 років тому +148

      Only issue is that no one will actually admit to being a misogynist.

    • @MrSpiritchild
      @MrSpiritchild 4 роки тому +7

      @@pianoaddict772 There are lots of women I don't like, but in every case I dislike them, it's because they have shown a lack of character. That's the problem with calling people misogynists, it allows people to shift the blame for their own lack of character onto the people that noticed it. Same can be said for any generalization really.

    • @al.the.
      @al.the. 4 роки тому +132

      @@MrSpiritchild
      Lack of character is not _a thing_
      And misogyny is quite well defined, if you're not familiar that's *you problem* And it's actually making you misogynistic, as you're implying women* don't know what they're talking about.
      *[feminists, of all genders, but mostly women]
      Just reread all that nonsense you wrote but replace women and misogyny with black people and racism respectively, and maybe, just maybe, you'll get it.
      (Unless you're also a racist, never mind then)

    • @MrSpiritchild
      @MrSpiritchild 4 роки тому +6

      @@al.the. I'm not implying women don't know what they are talking about, I'm implying feminists are psychobabblers, both male and female ones. You don't even know your own origin story, that is in the beginning the suffragettes that started it all already had the right to vote. Based on the laws of the time, high class, the educated and people that served in the military had the right to vote. The various governments of the time had decided that because black men had served in the military they ought to have the same right to vote as other men that served in the military. The matriarchy then decided, oh hell no, no way they would allow black men to get the right to vote before white women did. In other words, the pursuit of alleged resolution of injustice was based on racism and power, not equality. So now feminists equate themselves to the injustices of black Americans as if somehow your suffering was any where close to theirs, in which I call bullshit. The only difference between the male plantation owner and the female plantation owner was that men whipped their slaves with their own hands, so the blood of the blacks is on their hands. While female masters used their white workers to do the whipping for them, so the blood of blacks was at their feet.
      By the way, thank you for making my argument for me by attacking my character in almost the same breath as denying a lack of character is a thing. I know that I likely won't convert you, but this argument isn't about me or you, and it's result is more for the benefit of witnesses of the debate as opposed for either you or I. I would submit, that anyone that attacks the person in a debate before they address the premise of the debate hasn't got an intellectual leg to stand on. So you prove my point for me, showing that feminism isn't about equality as much as it's about power, a power that is obtained through intellectual dishonesty, social intimidation and political leverage. Welcome to the wonderful world of feminism 3.0. Hitler would be so proud...

    • @al.the.
      @al.the. 4 роки тому +64

      @@MrSpiritchild
      Ok, mansplainer.
      😅
      Edit.
      1. Godwin's law, in first reply?! you lost .
      2. I didn't attack your "character" - I labeled your attitudes correctly. But you can't realise that, because of your ignorance. And you don't think I could know more, thus proving my point.
      3. I'm *not* debating you. I'm informing you. You can act Dunning-Kruger to the max or lower your confidence and go learn some contemporary feminist theory, _source material_ not antifeminists' interpretation of it.

  • @thijsjong
    @thijsjong 6 років тому +417

    A happy mariagge is a predictor of a womans happiness.
    No? Who wouldn't have thought that. Amazing scientific findings!

    • @SSofIreland
      @SSofIreland 6 років тому +81

      Stay tuned for Lauren's next Earth-shattering discovery: when it rains, people are more likely to get wet!

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому +1

      Sadly, most libtards don't understand that married women are happier and instead prefer to be whore and never settle down.

    • @kyletowers9662
      @kyletowers9662 5 років тому +71

      "Being happy makes you happy" - Lauren Southern 2018

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому

      Well, obviously to lefties this idea is so novel they are ready to do to Lauren what the Inquisition wanted to do to Galileo...

    • @fruitygarlic3601
      @fruitygarlic3601 5 років тому +89

      @@bellaparabellum8261 No one is saying that a stable, healthy marriage will not enrich a married woman's life. The points some people are trying to make are: not all marriages are stable, a woman's happiness is not dependent on marriage, and that we should not be pushing people to marry/stay in marriages.
      But sure, Jan -- all "lefties" believe the same things. Keep doing you.

  • @LittleMissLounge
    @LittleMissLounge 6 років тому +1575

    I love how Shaun is pretty much unflappable until he reaches Molyneux as a source.
    "Oh my /God/."

    • @celinak5062
      @celinak5062 6 років тому +8

      LittleMissLounge +

    • @Flowtail
      @Flowtail 6 років тому +307

      I’d never even heard of this guy
      His wikipedia page has a whole section titled “Cult Associations”

    • @laragallahue7127
      @laragallahue7127 6 років тому +68

      Fionn Gallag Shaun has few videos on the guys. There are quite good

    • @annabelstien2851
      @annabelstien2851 6 років тому +108

      Understandable. The guy is truly horrifying.

    • @Flowtail
      @Flowtail 6 років тому +77

      Lara Gallahue I just discovered Shawn, and I'm so happy I did because I never knew how good and awful I could feel at the same time

  • @AgeingBoyPsychic
    @AgeingBoyPsychic 5 років тому +821

    "A woman is happiest in the marital home looking after her children" says, single, childless career "journalist" Lauren Braun,,, er I mean Southern.

    • @baashaalbaashaal6427
      @baashaalbaashaal6427 4 роки тому +88

      MycodenameisM dude we all agree that she is not a good person but lets not be like them. She is obviously hypocrite but insulting her would just play to their hand

    • @mycodenameism4331
      @mycodenameism4331 4 роки тому +8

      hOw MuCh YoU wAnNa BeT sHe SuEd BoTh Of ThEm?¿

    • @baileyturner428
      @baileyturner428 4 роки тому +1

      She's married and has a kid now though

    • @AgeingBoyPsychic
      @AgeingBoyPsychic 4 роки тому +93

      @@baileyturner428 Does that mean we no longer have to endure her "journalism"? I do hope so. Practice what you preach Lauren!

    • @baileyturner428
      @baileyturner428 4 роки тому +2

      Well she's entitled to her freedom of speech and to share her own views, I agree and disagree with some of what she says, like with most people. You don't have to listen to her views if you don't want to though

  • @randomartist3599
    @randomartist3599 6 років тому +2842

    ....I tried Shaun. I really did. I tried to see her video prior yours. But when she mentioned "Your value diminishes over time [...] your sexual market value", I just laughed and clicked off cause my brain couldn't take it. Call me childish and biased but I will just watch your video; saving my brain cells is way more important than showing off how "mature" I am.

    • @sambatemansmusic4188
      @sambatemansmusic4188 6 років тому +354

      Random Artist Funny how she criticizes women for being “sluts”, and yet she goes ahead and sexualises them anyway. So does she want women to be sexualised or not?

    • @jackmholt92
      @jackmholt92 5 років тому +36

      Womens sexual marketplace value does diminish over time. Young pretty women are basically worshipped by society. Whereas men's generally increases as they gain status and wealth. What planet do you live on Random Artist?

    • @lilowhitney8614
      @lilowhitney8614 5 років тому +366

      @@jackmholt92 In a world where a woman's value doesn't depend on how attractive she is to man?

    • @jackmholt92
      @jackmholt92 5 років тому +17

      @@lilowhitney8614 that is fine as long as the woman does not mind being on her own or with a less desirable male

    • @lilowhitney8614
      @lilowhitney8614 5 років тому +333

      @@jackmholt92 So the only quality that people of all genders find attractive is how wrinkly someone is or isn't (or how much money they have, I guess)? People are also attracted to confidence, humor intellegence. Hell I've seen people crush on someone because of their kindness, their bravery, their sheer competence. None of that is dependent on you or money, and about half of that develops with age.

  • @Robbay363
    @Robbay363 6 років тому +542

    Ya know it's funny. At around 30 mins when you start talking about the link between poverty and earlier sexual activity I thought "oh that actually makes sense. I could see poverty being a potential cause of earlier sexual activity." That was the first thing I thought and they didn't even consider that.
    Also Lauren sounds like one of those creepy incels when she talks about "sexual market value".

    • @merbst
      @merbst 5 років тому +26

      They did think of that, much like all of the correlation vs. causality tricks played with drug use data, they ignore the plausible arguments because its not what they get paid for.

    • @redemptionhappens7725
      @redemptionhappens7725 5 років тому +25

      She IS a creepy incel. I don’t care how young & pretty she thinks she is. She’s a know it all, judgmental etc . Know it alls are emotionally repulsive and can’t get laid. Who the HELL would want her?

    • @mikaelgaiason688
      @mikaelgaiason688 3 роки тому +4

      I can confirm. As a guy who grew up poor af I can testify that my sexual activity started before I was even old enough to fully climax or for my partners to need a bra

    • @keyboarddancers7751
      @keyboarddancers7751 2 роки тому +1

      *Rob Bay* The "sexual market value" thing is not a conscious thing. She's merely talking about fundamental physical attractions. A woman in her twenties might regard men her own age up to maybe mid to late thirties as having a good SMV. She's hardly likely to place a similar SMV on a guy in his fifties, is she. She'd be a damned fool to dawdle and leave things til her late thirties to decide on settling down; that's cat food territory!

    • @mommaneganhobbystuff2409
      @mommaneganhobbystuff2409 2 роки тому

      Since she was a kid, she always dreamt of being a pimp, but that only remained a fantasy apparently

  • @MFMegaZeroX7
    @MFMegaZeroX7 6 років тому +313

    Lauren Southern is also the same person who said "data is just the plural of anecdote" when explaining why talking to random people in Germany totally proved her anti immigration standpoint.

    • @darryljones3009
      @darryljones3009 6 років тому +10

      What, really? She wasn't being sarcastic at all?

    • @FerociousPaul
      @FerociousPaul 6 років тому +48

      Norton I No, she said that shit completely unironically when she was called out for being anecdotal.

    • @Y2Ksnowglobe
      @Y2Ksnowglobe 6 років тому +7

      Does...does she not know that's the opposite of the actual phrase? What? How? ...Seriously!?

    • @mudsh4rk
      @mudsh4rk 6 років тому +8

      To be fair, with the sources she tends to site that's actually a pretty accurate statement.

    • @skarbuskreska
      @skarbuskreska 6 років тому +11

      Lachs geräuchert she is selective, there are many people here that are fine with immigration, that it is legal is also becasue our govrnments failed to come up with programms. Also if the other states in Europe would have taken refugees too, we would not need to get them all.

  • @Pizza653
    @Pizza653 3 роки тому +1595

    As a young woman who is shockingly a *non-Vrigin* and who sadly was fooled by Lauren's video 3 years ago and got a lot of anxiety and fear from it back then, I just want to say: Thank you for this video. My values have already changed a lot from back then, but it just felt cathartic to have this video especially get thoroughly debunked

    • @dontspikemydrink9382
      @dontspikemydrink9382 3 роки тому +77

      hope you are doing well. Live your life best you can.

    • @manuelmateo3392
      @manuelmateo3392 3 роки тому +3

      Sure it does.

    • @BagelBagelB1
      @BagelBagelB1 2 роки тому +17

      So glad for you, wishing you the best

    • @imsotiredofthiscrap2341
      @imsotiredofthiscrap2341 2 роки тому +52

      @@manuelmateo3392 "you feel a certain way? surrreee you do" thats literally how you sound lol. a feeling isn't even something you can prove wrong and be snarky about because it's just a feeling. like, you can't "debunk" a feeling lmao. i don't know why you thought "yeah, this comment makes perfect sense."

    • @pipersmitty87
      @pipersmitty87 2 роки тому +2

      you got fear and anxiety from a video?? lol

  • @maxbrosig8986
    @maxbrosig8986 6 років тому +406

    "Then what's in the study? - Well, it's just a lot of graphs really."
    Shaun is somehow able to combine hard and cold raw data analysis with extremely good deadpan humor, it's the best thing I've seen today.

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому

      Really? Did you follow the links to the actual studies the blog guy posted? I doubt it. Cause did, and it's a lot more than just graphs.

    • @InfiniteDeckhand
      @InfiniteDeckhand 5 років тому +9

      @@dcheverie So? What does it matter that it's more than just graphs if it's bullshit all the same?

    • @josieb6880
      @josieb6880 5 років тому +6

      The good old "PragerU Strategy"!

  • @famuel2604
    @famuel2604 6 років тому +624

    It's offically true that the Shaun/Hbomb/Contra production cycles are aligned

    • @PBDNR
      @PBDNR 6 років тому +100

      Lezrleia it's been like that for a while and I hate it, now I will have nothing to do for a month or 2. If only they could pump out the same video every day like a real skeptic would /s

    • @incapacitaterd
      @incapacitaterd 6 років тому +15

      Lezrleia Right after the monthly patreon deadline haha

    • @rf-uj5sc
      @rf-uj5sc 6 років тому +63

      Its a really good idea actually. Quality leftist content all being released at close intervals will garner large gatherings of leftists to discuss. It also makes it harder for the salt right to coordinate disliking/flagging attacks against them all at once.

    • @EarthLordCJ
      @EarthLordCJ 6 років тому +14

      The Triumvirate of Good Stuff.

    • @R0DisG0D
      @R0DisG0D 6 років тому +21

      Well, there's other great leftist youtubers out there. I highly recommend Lindsay Ellis, PhilosophyTube and Mexie.

  • @lvr3646
    @lvr3646 6 років тому +417

    I'm under 18, Lauren saying my value decreased due to promiscuity (even though it wasn't my choice) was kind of soul-crushing. Her views are flawed and damaging to women.

    • @1975amclav
      @1975amclav 6 років тому +80

      I'm sorry that it wasn't your choice. The silver lining, though, is that you still have a lot of time left to prove idiots like Lauren wrong. Good luck to you!

    • @TriggerHappy923
      @TriggerHappy923 6 років тому +80

      Her audience is men, everything she says is to make money from men. She obviously lies and she is harmful, but it shouldn't be harmful to women, just men's chances in getting a mate if they start saying her lies.

    • @nightshade7111
      @nightshade7111 6 років тому +65

      She makes money on incels men's psuedo-science views based on oppressing women for their own benefit. Keep fighting!

    • @HopperDragon
      @HopperDragon 6 років тому +45

      The general idea among the right and even the center that a woman's value is decreased with sexual activity is deeply misogynistic, hypocritical, and shitty. No one is worth any less for their experiences, let alone their non-consensual ones. The bit about being "desouled" was truly chilling.

    • @christianmcnally1832
      @christianmcnally1832 6 років тому +33

      Uh, it's not promiscuity if it wasn't your choice. So if it wasn't your choice it wasn't promiscuity

  • @shadowboxing7029
    @shadowboxing7029 4 роки тому +293

    When I was 30 I had dudes hitting on me that were much younger than me, the youngest freshly 18 years old. Hell even at 40 now, the last guy to try it was 27. I'm okay looking, nothing to write home about so I imagine this isn't all that uncommon. Certainly my girl friends have experienced it too. It's almost as if Lauren doesn't know any women. She can't even use her own experiences being that she wasn't even 30 when she made it. Hell, isn't even 30 now!

    • @erickim6533
      @erickim6533 4 роки тому +9

      Most people learn from their own mistakes, smart people learn from others mistakes.

    • @lobstered_blue-lobster
      @lobstered_blue-lobster 3 роки тому +6

      Anecdotes aren't evidence, though looking at the Internet I can certainly say there are many men who have that fetish but still you need to link studies/statistics to prove your point.

    • @cauliflowerhead2735
      @cauliflowerhead2735 3 роки тому +12

      I know this may be anecdotal but my older, attractive cousin sisters get a lot of attention from younger men as well... I suppose it's bcz they are very, very attractive which is what they have in common with younger women.

    • @anchess2517
      @anchess2517 2 роки тому

      Lol you as an older woman may preserve your looks and get attention from men but that is sexual attention. They just want to have sex with you. How many of them are willing to commit/marry with you?

    • @shadowboxing7029
      @shadowboxing7029 2 роки тому +6

      @@anchess2517 I dunno man, I can't speak for other older women but I don't preserve shit lol. I don't wear make up, I dress like a tomboy and my skin care routine consists of moisturiser once a day. In any case you could be right, maybe these dudes just wanna bang or maybe they want more, we'll never know. Kinda makes for a case that could go either way yeah? Almost like no one should be making absolute claims.

  • @AlexCab_49
    @AlexCab_49 6 років тому +320

    lauren southern wants women to get married and have kids, though she herself is not married nor has kids. hmmm

    • @rust44
      @rust44 6 років тому +111

      Alejandro Cabrera She was also complaining about people not speaking French in France, despite being Canadian and not knowing French herself. I’m going to guess she didn’t pay attention in school.

    • @rottingdog6798
      @rottingdog6798 6 років тому +10

      There was a video about how she was an exception to the rule. Bonkers she is.

    • @gazcan1
      @gazcan1 6 років тому +1

      Elise M No, she was complaining that the immigrants in France didn’t speak English. twitter.com/21logician/status/886316246500823040?s=21

    • @dcon9995
      @dcon9995 6 років тому +45

      Alejandro Cabrera In her France video she was complaining about women not wearing their French Braids..... Yes... She's that fking braindead. I'm sure she was expecting them to be eating escargot and carrying baguettes.

    • @AlexCab_49
      @AlexCab_49 6 років тому

      dcon9995 I'm not surprised.

  • @cynicthehedgehog385
    @cynicthehedgehog385 4 роки тому +575

    Wish they’d quit calling it “risk” of divorce. Divorce is not a bad thing

    • @youtubeuniversity3638
      @youtubeuniversity3638 4 роки тому +112

      Agreed, it's a tool to end a marriage that either went bad or wasn't good to start with.
      Too many people think "marriage always good, divorce worse than die" and I am sick of it.

    • @KattReen
      @KattReen 3 роки тому +35

      You could eliminate that risk altogether by not getting married

    • @crazedadventurer5717
      @crazedadventurer5717 3 роки тому +2

      Unless ur rich and ur getting finessed

    • @blackmanops3749
      @blackmanops3749 2 роки тому +2

      It's Christmas time for women.

    • @mateohodge6998
      @mateohodge6998 2 роки тому

      @@blackmanops3749 only for those dumb enough to either get married in the first place or not get a prenuptial agreement

  • @blakchristianbale
    @blakchristianbale 6 років тому +335

    The virgin bride vs the Chad divorcee

  • @acidspitpandas
    @acidspitpandas 5 років тому +570

    It hurts to hear another woman uses false claims to reinforce stereotypes that hurt us so deeply.

    • @markp8263
      @markp8263 2 роки тому

      What false claims?

    • @korinalovina4598
      @korinalovina4598 2 роки тому +43

      @@markp8263 The ones that are called out in the video you watched, or, at least, I hope you watched.

    • @69Satan69
      @69Satan69 Рік тому +18

      @@markp8263
      Watch the video bruv lol

  • @djungelskogjamjam4995
    @djungelskogjamjam4995 3 роки тому +197

    anyone else find it creepy how all these old men are spending so much time thinking about adolescent girls' sexuality?

    • @paisleepunk
      @paisleepunk 2 роки тому

      @@ოChiamariaო Does that tactic work better on or off "the pill"? (asking as someone who doesn't go through periods)

    • @HaHa-lx9yo
      @HaHa-lx9yo 2 роки тому +17

      I’m a 26 year old woman. I’m 5’3” and petite. Many men assume that I’m 21-22 and hit on me. And so many are 40-50 year old men! Fucking disgusting!

    • @radschele1815
      @radschele1815 2 роки тому +4

      Period usually does creep them out.
      If there are people who are not creeped out, that's good.
      If they start praising the period as a holy ritual which cleans the body? RUN!

  • @adamr.5544
    @adamr.5544 2 роки тому +139

    It's funny, but I think the same people who claim that early sexual activity is harmful are the same people who would lower the age of consent in a heartbeat.

    • @westonmeyer3110
      @westonmeyer3110 2 роки тому

      No, it will be the left that does that. You technically already have by supporting kids being able to go to strip clubs.

    • @i10i60
      @i10i60 2 роки тому +16

      *lower the age of marriage.

  • @gijsvandergiessen1150
    @gijsvandergiessen1150 5 років тому +376

    Isn't it funny that when people make broad sweeping statements about how people are, they often don't include themselves? Isn't it funny when someone says men unquestionably value youth and fertility, men go 'hmm yeah that must be true, men do value that'. Now have a look at yourself as a man, do you value youth and fertility over anything else? I am a man, and I can say that I don't care if a woman can have children or not, and I also don't care if she's older than me. At least within a 'normal' range of course. I don't want to date a grandma. But I think I can safely say I don't value youth and fertility over almost everything else. And I think I can safely say most men actually don't. Then why do men still listen to her and say: yeah I guess she's right. Men do value that! Without looking at their own situations at all.
    Same goes for women who follow her. Ask yourself, do you really value strength and resources over almost all other things? If not, why do you assume other women do?

    • @nicolasg7601
      @nicolasg7601 5 років тому +49

      Gijs van der Giessen Because I’m the protagonist. You wouldn’t understand.

    • @DanksterPaws
      @DanksterPaws 3 роки тому +4

      Very important, have my like

    • @AT-vp8qw
      @AT-vp8qw 3 роки тому +40

      I'm actually glad to hear other men come forward and say that's false. Constantly being told by other men and women all 18 years of my life that men value youth and fertility, and it's all just part of their "biology", seriously made me not want to date men at all. I thought my bf was honestly a minority, but I'm glad to be proven wrong. It makes me have a lot more trust and faith in humanity now.

    • @lalitthapa101
      @lalitthapa101 3 роки тому +12

      These alt righters attack our insecurities and that's why they are largely successful.Its mostly due to the left failure to get past their infighting and actually make people understand their points. Its a fact the left us terrible at representing itself.
      Imagine if you are an average guy who knows nothing about politics and the left bombards you with things like "male privilege,patriarchy"etc.which are factual but for the common man that's just intimidating.
      Happened with Me,until I took time and understood all these words and their meanings.
      Unless the left does something to improve themselves and their ways to appeal to the common people,these idiot conservatives and alt rightrs aren't going anywhere.

    • @ertymexx
      @ertymexx 3 роки тому +4

      I would say that it varies, as most other things. I have never been much for what is considered "normal" beauty standards (the cardassian types), and I have for as long as I can remember been mostly drawn to slightly older women; not saying that I have dissed younger ones, but I do prefer maturity and a relaxed view on things than the hyped personalities that many younger women have.
      But I know that some men, many men, do look for youth and surface beauty. Perhaps because they think that entails status and respect from their peers, or because they genuinly like that. To each his or her own, I guess.
      But to claim that the majority likes/strives after/are attracted to young and fertile women..? Humbug.
      Just as bynote... how the heck do you know if a woman is fertile, unless she has had previous partners and, you know, procreated? :-P

  • @Kaipyro67ALT
    @Kaipyro67ALT 5 років тому +78

    Gotta love them traditional conservative values. Where a traditional family is one man and one woman. And her sister... once. And the maid... once. And the daughter's college friend who stayed over during spring break... once. Just a traditional family.

    • @Kaipyro67ALT
      @Kaipyro67ALT 5 років тому +18

      @Venraef A lot of wealthy conservative white men cheat on their wives. That's the joke.

  • @PleasantLeech
    @PleasantLeech 6 років тому +302

    It's silly to think you can't achieve happiness unless you find a partner. There's so much more to life.

    • @brittneybrisbin744
      @brittneybrisbin744 3 роки тому +40

      Right! Yes, partners and relationships can be lovely and fulfilling, but they shouldn't be the only source of happiness or meaning in your life.

    • @xxxxx-iu4fw
      @xxxxx-iu4fw Рік тому +12

      Fr and sometimes a partner isn’t even what one needs. As long as you have a few close friendships you’re pretty much set for social fulfillment lol
      Edit: and I say this as someone with a partner :0!! I needed that for myself, but not everyone does (a few of my friends who are aro/ace come to mind), and that’s always fine :)

    • @vegan.3176
      @vegan.3176 7 місяців тому +2

      sounds codependent lol

  • @stewieismyhomeboy
    @stewieismyhomeboy 6 років тому +394

    "Women love strength and resources, men value youth and fertility." You know, it's interesting how it's antifeminists who seem to be saying "men are shallow and stupid, it's just their nature." Like, there's probably a few feminists who say that too, but most feminists I know are more of the "men are taught they must be shallow, and we should give men space to express their feelings in a healthy way", whereas the antis, supposedly sticking up for men, say "Nah, they're just naturally awful, we should let them continue to run things."
    Also, all this seems to be reliant on the idea that divorce is bad, and I have to ask...is it? I may be biased, since the reason I exist is because my mom divorced her first husband and remarried my father, and further, I am an Episcopalian, which is derived from Anglicanism; my denomination only exists because of divorce. But not only is divorce essential for people in abusive relationships, but sometimes, people grow apart. If you married someone, and after ten years, maybe twenty, you find that you both have become different people than when you had married each other, and you may not hate each other, but you just can't keep making the marriage work, maybe you should get a divorce?
    29:00 As soon as you said "The Heritage Foundation" I vomited. These fuckers...aren't they the ones that said we should limit immigration because nonwhite migrants "naturally" have lower IQs, and used the doctor's thesis of a white supremacist to back their argument up?

    • @stewieismyhomeboy
      @stewieismyhomeboy 6 років тому +35

      Rava stuff...okay then, gonna link all that up with some studies? Or are you just applying your own experience as a guideline?
      Most typically, custody arrangements are decided between the couple themselves, meaning the father agrees to it. And most typically seek shared custody in some kind of form. Whether it's weekends, or summers, divorcing parents typically find ways for both parents to take part in their child(ren)'s life. Most typically, cases in which the father does not ever get to see his children again (at least until they are 18) are ones where the father has proven himself to be abusive, or an otherwise unfit parent.
      Further, to say all or most children of divorce never go without another father figure in their life is ridiculous. Divorced mothers often remarry, giving their child a stepfather to help fill in the role. And even if they don't remarry, they still may have grandfathers or uncles, or other males in their lives that can provide guidance and support.
      Do children of divorce have a hard time? Of course. This page from a child psychiatry website details some signs that children aren't taking a divorce well:
      divorce.lovetoknow.com/How_Are_Children_Affected_by_Divorce
      But for some reason, it says very little about joining gangs, or prostitution. Maybe because that is a rare worst case scenario often brought on by factors other than parents divorcing, such as living in poverty, having a neglectful parentor having been abandoned by a parent, and being a victim of sexual abuse?

    • @grantwithers
      @grantwithers 6 років тому +3

      "and we should give men space to express their feelings in a healthy way"
      So that those feminists will know which men turn them off.

    • @grantwithers
      @grantwithers 6 років тому +4

      "Normal women value a good personality and good looks over a rich guy."
      I loled. And then I loled again at how you just toss in "good looks" (genetics). Yeah, no shit, the "true alpha" in terms of looks is top tier for what women want.

    • @sambatemansmusic4188
      @sambatemansmusic4188 6 років тому +37

      Rava ruff Also, “gynocentric courts”? Really? You mean the courts that push *traditional gender roles* by forcing the mother to raise the kids? It’s almost like conservatives only want traditionalism when it suits them.
      Now, do I think it sucks that the mother usually gets the kids? Absolutely. However, I’m absolutely baffled that I find myself agreeing with *antifeminists,* who should be the ones pushing for women to be the primary caregivers.

    • @PaninaroAurora
      @PaninaroAurora 6 років тому +17

      stewieismyhomeboy --the antifeminist argument is that humans are animals, first and foremost: and should make decisions that result in successful reproduction, like any good animal does. Good animals don't have time for all that silly stuff like love and enjoyment. There's genes to spread!

  • @NoUseForAName06
    @NoUseForAName06 6 років тому +251

    I do love that delicious Irony of Lauren being able to preach her hate and say the horrible things she says by using the freedoms that feminism has afforded her. Would be difficult to travel to Italy to throw refugees of boats if you are married and have 3 Kids at 21.

    • @lucianraphael9527
      @lucianraphael9527 6 років тому +9

      boxersnatcher too bad she doesn’t call out or dislike 1st or 2nd wave feminism. She calls out 3rd wave feminism which is an insult to the 1st and 2nd movements

    • @Spazzycat14
      @Spazzycat14 6 років тому +3

      Modern feminism does not allow her to do this. Modern feminists did nothing for Lauren Southern. Feminism is not a universal term for womans rights. Modern feminism stands for inequality and suppresion of men.
      Also the 19th amendment was voted in by men. If men were as bad as feminists say, you all would have black eyes and be forced into silence. Oh wait thats Islam.

    • @AlphabetCookie
      @AlphabetCookie 6 років тому +6

      What did Lauren say that was hateful?

    • @traceuse13
      @traceuse13 6 років тому +57

      "Bla bla bla I don't understand feminism" -every reply in this thread except the first one

    • @riley8385
      @riley8385 6 років тому +46

      Chabaa "Modern feminism is nothing like past feminism!!11" --> Doesn't know shit about either of them.

  • @lizucavictoria
    @lizucavictoria 6 років тому +475

    I remember when Lauren used to call herself a liberal. She's full Christian conservative now.

    • @alanritchie7850
      @alanritchie7850 6 років тому +19

      Sherlock Smuuug really? Where did you find that out? I’m really interested. That’s sounds extremely vile and I thought Lauren was all talk and no action

    • @ontmaskeraar6978
      @ontmaskeraar6978 6 років тому +80

      10 years later: yes, I, louren southern, am a wahabi muslim now. I've realisedn the fact that christianity can't be conservative, because the holy mary was a woman. so I were a hijab to protect me from the evil degenarate Culteral crusading marxist who all want have orgies and destroyn midle eastern civilisation.

    • @spenceredwardmullen5957
      @spenceredwardmullen5957 6 років тому +86

      She’s a full white nationalist now.

    • @sherlocksmuuug6692
      @sherlocksmuuug6692 6 років тому +63

      www.reddit.com/r/Fuckthealtright/comments/7f3f3w/reminder_that_lauren_southern_proactively_blocked/
      I know it’s a reddit post, but it leads to a rather good video on the matter, which includes footage that southern took while commiting her crime, even stating her intent of hindering the coastguard during it.
      Truly a criminal mastermind.

    • @karnakvt
      @karnakvt 6 років тому

      ua-cam.com/video/6U4v2Ds77_k/v-deo.html

  • @xenoblad
    @xenoblad 6 років тому +89

    My family has a massive divorce rate, with everyone a generation above me divorced at least twice with my grandpa being a record holder of 9 divorces.
    They all married early, and the men remarried much younger women every time.
    I'm extremely skeptical of pushing marriage between young folks who don't know much more then infatuation as a basis for a relationship.

    • @skarbuskreska
      @skarbuskreska 6 років тому +11

      Tell that to the older guys who are sooo 'in love' with their sexy young ones, that they actually complain to the women their age (like me) how stupid and shallow these women are, but another divorce would be too expensive so they stick and everyone is so jealous about their 'happy' life with that sexy chick.

    • @xenoblad
      @xenoblad 6 років тому +7

      skarbuskreska I'm sorry to hear about that.
      Too often we don't hear about how many women, especially any woman past 30 really, gets ignored by the loudest of complaining men.
      A lot of desperate single guys call older women with experience, and especially women with kids, "damaged goods".
      Like WTF man.
      That's why I have little respect for dudes who complain a lot about finding women. They just have unreasonable standards.

    • @argadargad9128
      @argadargad9128 6 років тому

      Dalym haha I will copy your message, and fwd it to my mother. Hint mum no one should marry when they are young

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому

      First, she didn't say marry young. Second, that's anecdotal and only proves that your family either chooses shitty partners to marry, or they don't know how to maintain a marriage.

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому

      @@skarbuskreska LOL You just PROVED Laurens point that sexual market value of women decreases with age. Good job!

  • @Happiheaded
    @Happiheaded 3 роки тому +63

    I was groomed and abused by a guy, and this video terrified me. It was literally used as a tool of abuse.

  • @Matrim42
    @Matrim42 6 років тому +300

    "Today we're gonna take a look at a Lauren Southern video"
    Do we have to?

    • @hgoggs
      @hgoggs 6 років тому +14

      at least he didn’t show a clip

    • @joeblaster8770
      @joeblaster8770 6 років тому

      Matrim42 yes you have angered the gods, hahahaha!

  • @Naskinlahtaaja
    @Naskinlahtaaja 6 років тому +219

    Holy shit that _"list of _*_studies"_* absolutely killed me, I don't remember when I last laughed this much.

    • @patrick_test123
      @patrick_test123 6 років тому +7

      The point when making a list of rooms in the neighborhood would have been more accurate. ; )

    • @blursedoftimes
      @blursedoftimes 6 років тому +15

      This is how right wingers think and view the world. It's all opinions, no facts.

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому

      If you mean the link to the blog posts, did you even click on any? Sources are cited in the blogs. He is just giving a summary of the sources in an easier to read way. Of course, I guess I should expect people to actually look into things to see if there is any validity.. Almost no one does. Keep being a sheep though.

    • @redemptionhappens7725
      @redemptionhappens7725 5 років тому

      Manny Q I would say that is true of anyone who’s political beliefs are a part of their identity. I tend to lean right at this point but I would never describe myself as a Republican people need to grow up and get beyond all that. It’s intellectually stifling. It’s all opinion and no facts with those sorts because they are defending their own egos, since their beliefs become a part of who they are.

  • @debodatta7398
    @debodatta7398 6 років тому +127

    Lauren Southern is 22-23? holy fuck I thought she was in her late twenties-early thirties. conservatism not even once.

    • @ananyats5063
      @ananyats5063 3 роки тому +14

      Being a douche ages you I guess.

  • @Steinchen43
    @Steinchen43 2 роки тому +74

    Love how she is the exact type of person to scream "facts don't care about your feelings" in your face but when it comes to actually backing up her views with facts, she can't even cite a single study.

    • @westonmeyer3110
      @westonmeyer3110 2 роки тому

      She is a lot more right than Shaun is.

    • @i10i60
      @i10i60 2 роки тому +13

      @@westonmeyer3110 Nope.

    • @daroachdoggjr.6025
      @daroachdoggjr.6025 2 роки тому +13

      @@westonmeyer3110 How so? Because she agrees with you? A lot of people think the earth is flat, but have no proof or data that supports them. Weston, you're acting like an illogical flat earther. Sad!

    • @vez3834
      @vez3834 8 місяців тому

      ​@@westonmeyer3110xd imagine the delusion

    • @50iraqidinar
      @50iraqidinar 7 місяців тому

      @@westonmeyer3110In a certain sense of the word. That implies the exact opposite of what you're suggesting though.

  • @Matrim42
    @Matrim42 6 років тому +157

    Also, no way am I going to wreck my recommendations by watching her crap.

    • @bloodmachine6049
      @bloodmachine6049 6 років тому +12

      Honestly, it's pretty entertaining, it's like an alternate world, where realty is warped and strange and also rather racist. It's entertaining, it's like reading Sonichu, but it's reality instead.

    • @Czeckie
      @Czeckie 6 років тому +3

      incognito my fam

    • @christianmcnally1832
      @christianmcnally1832 6 років тому

      Uh oh, wouldn't want to be exposed to the opposing views!

    • @Matrim42
      @Matrim42 4 роки тому +2

      Christian McNally I’ve yet to see a novel argument from “the opposing views” that’s worth actually engaging with. Also Southern straight up uses Nazis as sources, so I’m pretty ok with not being exposed to their views actually. And, to the original point, I don’t want videos about “the Jewish Question” and such filling my feed, which is the kinda shit that gets pushed on that side of the algorithm.

  • @emilybarnaby2838
    @emilybarnaby2838 6 років тому +94

    It's interesting that most of the studies linked focused only on women's sexual activity. Is there less data on how men's sexual partners affect divorce rate, or did Southern just not look at those for the sake of her video?

    • @KookiesNolly
      @KookiesNolly 6 років тому +15

      heterosexual sex involved a man and a woman but all women and responsible when it happens. make sense.

  • @Orchestructive
    @Orchestructive 6 років тому +500

    "Reality has a well-known liberal bias." - Stephen Colbert

    • @foxbodyblues6709
      @foxbodyblues6709 5 років тому +4

      SavingPrincess lols 😂 thinking Colbert is a “liberal”

    • @mrboomward
      @mrboomward 5 років тому +37

      “It is not my fault if reality is Marxist”
      - Che Guevara

    • @richardsmart4840
      @richardsmart4840 4 роки тому +1

      @@foxbodyblues6709 I don't know, he seems quite keen on AOC and Ilhan Omar.
      Not that I don't approve - I'm just saying...

    • @foxbodyblues6709
      @foxbodyblues6709 4 роки тому +1

      Richard Smart he is a king size grifter who has been cashing checks for like 10 years just parroting DNC talking points...liberals and leftists with principles reject his grift.

    • @doggytheanarchist7876
      @doggytheanarchist7876 4 роки тому +15

      @@foxbodyblues6709
      But that is how liberals are generally though.
      Naive ideas, Bit soft on the morals and happy to apply themselves to capitalist greed.
      Don't confuse liberal with leftist.
      Liberal is the epitome of centrism.

  • @edward2962
    @edward2962 6 років тому +151

    I find it interesting that so many of these people are worried about women's promiscuity but don't place the same concern on men's pre-marital sex lives.

  • @eastbelfastscreen5429
    @eastbelfastscreen5429 6 років тому +1514

    when your life is falling apart but all your faves are posting videos at once

    • @somniloguy12
      @somniloguy12 6 років тому +58

      What's going on? Are you okay?

    • @sydneyrica1802
      @sydneyrica1802 6 років тому +33

      East Belfast Screen Is it finals? Because my brain is frying.

    • @BolshevikChris
      @BolshevikChris 6 років тому +8

      Sydney R I'm finished tomorrow whoop whoop my entire body is sad

    • @theangrypatient3732
      @theangrypatient3732 6 років тому +8

      That just means that at some point in time, everything will fall back into place.

    • @RhizometricReality
      @RhizometricReality 6 років тому +3

      Same fam, same.

  • @cervicalvertebrea
    @cervicalvertebrea 2 роки тому +42

    as a 30-year old woman, if a man I was interested in were more interested in 20 year olds, I'd quickly lose interest in him.

    • @westonmeyer3110
      @westonmeyer3110 2 роки тому

      Your problem is the fact that the average age of the country keeps going up dramatically. You may want someone in their 30s and that might be barely feasible for now, but Gen alpha will have to set a limit for partners in their 20s when the average age is 60(millennials at that point btw)because there won’t be any kids in any relationships if a limit isn’t established. Women in their 30s are much less likely to want kids and even if they have kids they have a lot less than men typically want.
      Right now you are having some success in dating because men think having children is negotiable in some way, but 30 years from now it won’t be.
      Shaun’s video will age very very badly in the future.

    • @i10i60
      @i10i60 2 роки тому +5

      @@westonmeyer3110 As an Evo. Psych. major with a minor in stats, your shit ass comment is soo funny 🤣🤣. It takes one 15 minute Google search to dispel this bs.

    • @maribethmorgan7886
      @maribethmorgan7886 Рік тому +10

      @@westonmeyer3110 what is this take 🤣🤣what are you even saying? The average age of American citizens in general or the average age people get married? The age of marriage has been slowly rising in general due to lack of interest in marriage, financial hardships, and other priorities.
      As for kids…no one even mentioned having kids-but that’s something that both men and women over the past few years have showed declining interests in. men and women don’t want kids as much. We see that trend increasing with Gen z as well. And as for Gen alpha-at that point innovation may change the way we have kids in general, as well as fertility rates. I don’t think Shaun is gonna be wrong lol-I’m not even sure what point you’re making

  • @mathieushifera135
    @mathieushifera135 4 роки тому +85

    Lauren confounds the lust of older men for younger women with them being marriage material

  • @liamthemusicreviewer
    @liamthemusicreviewer 6 років тому +1772

    I can’t wait for this roas-I mean, thorough analysis!

    • @sherlocksmuuug6692
      @sherlocksmuuug6692 6 років тому +144

      Im always ready for some
      R A W D A T A A N A L Y S I S

    • @zacharieetienne5784
      @zacharieetienne5784 6 років тому +13

      Dear Shaun,
      Have you ever heard the saying _"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people"_ ?
      I'm new to your channel, but I've noticed almost all of your videos are aimed towards picking apart every time someone says something stupid/inaccurate.
      This video is an obvious example, but there's also;
      "A response to Roaming Millennial's People of Colour: You are not Oppressed" = Roaming Millennial
      "So, about that Amazing Atheist Video ... [Patreon Goal Reached!]" = TJ Kirk
      "The Truth about 'The Truth about Wonder Woman' " = Stefan Molyneux
      "Stefan Molyneux's Native American Genocide - A Response" = Stefan Molyneux again
      "The Great Replacement Isn't Real - ft. Lauren Southern" = Lauren Southern again
      "Abusing Statistics ft. Black Pigeon Speaks" = Black Pigeon Speaks
      etc.
      It's quite strange though because the manner in which you speak, your voice, the words you choose... it's all very calm, very objective, not condescending at all and has great logical flow. Yet you use it to pick apart people, rather than putting forth your own arguments on how things should be. Like a form of "high functioning passive aggressiveness".
      Don't you think your wasting your potential? You've got such good logical understanding and the patience of a crocodile, something these conservative UA-camrs you debunk don't have, yet you choose to fight on their level.
      I'm a firm admirer of Jordan Peterson. Not for his politics or philosophy (though I do like that to), but because of his approach to never point out the flaws in his enemies's beliefs. He never names anyone for example. He only focuses on ideas. That's why I think he's on a completely different level to Sargon, Lauren, Shapiro, Molyneux, Crowder etc. I have yet to see anyone from the left, or infact anyone at all to be as respectable as him. But I think you could pull it off Shaun. You could do it. Just my thoughts.

    • @T.image79
      @T.image79 6 років тому +111

      Zacharie Etienne
      Many many many people NEED to be picked apart in a responsible society!
      Simply because they are wrong.
      Try being wrong in your local pub and see if you don’t get “picked apart”.

    • @johnkapp849
      @johnkapp849 6 років тому +116

      Jordan Peterson is a charlatan. He misrepresents his opposing views constantly. I'm not surprised to learn that he refuses to criticize specific things, because he has no grasp on others' views and has no intention of learning about them.

    • @ramywiles
      @ramywiles 6 років тому +70

      Zacharie Etienne I wouldn't put too much stock in that saying, to be honest. More often than not it's just something people use to stroke their own egos and put themselves above people who indulge in celebrity gossip.
      That said, it's important to do both of the things we're talking about here. It's just as important to explore ideas as it is to call people out when their ideas are deeply flawed if not actively harmful.

  • @simplyridiculous
    @simplyridiculous 6 років тому +123

    This my ancedotal experience: at 23 I got into a relationship that I thought would be the last one of my life. I was gleefully engaged and so much in love. And after nearly five years, through most of my fertility and youth, he became violent and I had to leave. What does Ms. southern say about that? It's been a few years now and I'm in a happy relationship with different goal posts (meaning that marriage and children are not the end game). Ms. Southern doesn't understand that relationships can be terrible and not worth your time, even if you do all the things she suggests.

    • @1975amclav
      @1975amclav 6 років тому +43

      I'm afraid that, as a female, your opinion and feelings are worthless to the conservative mindset. Please get a husband and start breeding as soon as possible. Thank you.

    • @simplyridiculous
      @simplyridiculous 6 років тому +36

      Aaron Kuehmichel oh, I had forgotten about that. Will do! 👍

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому

      simplyridiculous, Lauren's point is not that leaving an abusive relationship is bad. Lauren's point is that girls who choose to only have casual hook-ups or chase some career in a corporation until they hit 40 usually end up unhappy and wish they had made different choices. You may have taken a different path and that's fine, but some younger girls may listen to Lauren and make adjustments to their lives before ending up at a point where they wish there was an "undo" button for life.
      The only thing I can agree with you on is that at 27-28 you are far more likely to make a wiser choice regarding a life partner than at 18-20. Especially considering how infantile the milennial generation is. ;-)

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому

      Alan Wilson, if it wasn't for the technologies old white men designed, infantile milennials would have nothing to create social media platforms on ;-)

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому

      Also, not quite sure who is doing the whining here. I was explaining the point of Lauren's video to the person above, and you were the one who butted in with passive-aggressive MANsplanations ;-)

  • @zillafire101
    @zillafire101 6 років тому +622

    I remember Destiny calling her out for acting no better then the Muslim extremists she hates.
    Amazing how you can become the thing you hate.

    • @issaosama4937
      @issaosama4937 6 років тому +110

      She is exactly that ... an extremist.

    • @u.srooster3880
      @u.srooster3880 6 років тому +59

      She became the very thing she thought to destroy

    • @tomgjgj
      @tomgjgj 6 років тому +112

      She doesn't hate muslims because of what they think. She hates them 'cos they're brown and speak ''durka durka''.

    • @Petrusnator
      @Petrusnator 6 років тому +74

      The difference between muslim extremists and right-wing fundies is who gets to tell other people what they should do.

    • @shadowzeal
      @shadowzeal 6 років тому +51

      zillafire101 so
      Step 1. Hate rich people
      Step 2. Become the thing you hate
      ........
      Profit

  • @commonsenseamerica1685
    @commonsenseamerica1685 4 роки тому +112

    They want women to return the era of being property of their dads and then their husbands.

    • @crazedadventurer5717
      @crazedadventurer5717 3 роки тому +7

      This is why abrahamic religions should not be followed

    • @matheusarnaud2574
      @matheusarnaud2574 3 роки тому +13

      @@erickim6533 wtf man???

    • @DanLetts97
      @DanLetts97 3 роки тому +15

      @@erickim6533 Yikes dude. I don’t know what planet and then like you come from, but you need to go back to it. You’re basically saying that you have a right to control and dominate others, and if you want to live in that world than others are going to be controlling and dominating you as well!

    • @lobstered_blue-lobster
      @lobstered_blue-lobster 3 роки тому +2

      @@crazedadventurer5717 wtf? What does Abrahamic religions have to do with this?

    • @crazedadventurer5717
      @crazedadventurer5717 3 роки тому +4

      Because that's what they preach

  • @Otokogoroshi
    @Otokogoroshi 6 років тому +101

    Huh, I guess my being molested as a small child is why I'm a non-theist! Because apparently, it destroyed my soul????

    • @IloveGorgeousGeorge
      @IloveGorgeousGeorge 4 роки тому +11

      Oooh no...somebody "de-souled" you as a kid, too? Guess we'll never be married 😢

  • @stirnersretrowave5094
    @stirnersretrowave5094 6 років тому +276

    Ironic how Southern is encouraging women to get married and give birth despite going on record saying she has no interest in doing either herself.
    Yeah, I know. Lauren's an inconsistent reactionary. I'm as shocked as the rest of you must be about that.

    • @wehavebiscuits
      @wehavebiscuits 5 років тому +3

      @Latvian Dragon lmao mental gymnastics much?

  • @user-sm5sj6mg2t
    @user-sm5sj6mg2t 4 роки тому +86

    There is something every girl needs to hear.
    Don't listen to Laura Southern, she's batshit crazy to the point of posing danger to her audience.

  • @SassyandalwaysClassy
    @SassyandalwaysClassy 4 роки тому +100

    Competing for guys. Feels like she’s talking about women like we’re lionesses on animal planet specials. We don’t have to compete against each other like a pack of wild animals to get the best males. You date whoever you want. Humans seek out their own partners.

    • @thescrimble
      @thescrimble 4 роки тому +4

      If anything it's the other way around.
      Lauren's a joke
      But like, the kind you're not sure whether to laugh at

  • @WKaliberr
    @WKaliberr 6 років тому +72

    Ah, Lauren Southern - another unmarried, childless attractive, "conservative" blonde blogger preaching abstinence and marriage. Tomi Lahren, Roaming Millenial, Lauren Southern, Ashtonbirdie - I see a pattern!

    • @beayn
      @beayn 5 років тому +3

      Lauren is 23, Tomi is 26, Ashton 23, can't find Roaming's age... how early do you expect these women to get married?
      Tomi should probably be married by now by conservative standards but the others are still pretty young.
      But of course you would ignore anyone who is getting married on the right such as Brittney Pettibone.

    • @flyingpaladin617
      @flyingpaladin617 5 років тому +1

      I see a pattern too: a pattern of beauty and brains 👌

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 5 років тому +10

      @@beayn They are not criticising them for not being married. They are pointing out a pattern in women who attain popularity in right wing media circles.

    • @beayn
      @beayn 5 років тому

      @@oof-rr5nf Pretty sure the point was those who are saying to get married aren't getting married which is why I posted what I posted.
      Are you trying to say they're only popular because they're single and good looking? I don't think their marital status has anything to do with their popularity. Looks do play a role, but it's their conservative ideas that are appealing. Studies show that women tend to be more liberal, so I think it's refreshing for some people to find a woman who is a conservative. At least, those on the conservative side would like it.

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому +1

      Arubima Tiwari, most of them are not advertising their love lives for obvious reasons - those being leftists looking to ruin the livelihoods of anyone they disagree with, that person's loved ones and the neighbor who moved in across the road from his or her place, just to make a point.
      Also, even if any of them is presently single, you can bet they are actively looking. And there is a difference between taking the time to look for a compatible partner (so that, you know, you don't end up divorcing them later down the road), and choosing a lifestyle of casual, meaningless hook-ups and the shallow so-called "open" relationships.

  • @funsponge9099
    @funsponge9099 6 років тому +75

    Do these people ever stop to consider that maybe telling people that they arent/shouldnt be happy with not being "traditional" is a factor in making people unhappy and they should just leave other people alone?

    • @rust44
      @rust44 6 років тому +6

      BluBulletin Isn’t Lauren supposed to be a libertarian as well? Lol

    • @funsponge9099
      @funsponge9099 6 років тому +1

      Elise M i dont know and i dont really care what she identifies as i just care about what she says

    • @rust44
      @rust44 6 років тому +1

      BluBulletin I was pointing out the irony in her statement. Good grief.

    • @redemptionhappens7725
      @redemptionhappens7725 5 років тому +1

      AMEN!!!

    • @beayn
      @beayn 5 років тому

      @Lachs geräuchert How does making a video advocating for strong marriage and family equate to "harassing people who aren't married"?
      Nobody is forcing people to watch her video, and she's not going out on the street getting in people's faces telling them to get married... where are you even getting this idea from? I just responded to a smiliar comment claiming conservatives are always trying to control people's lives. Last I checked there was no legislation to force people to get married.. but there is compelled gendered speech legislation in Canada and UK for example. From my point of view, lefties are trying to control people, and they're ACTUALLY harassing people who disagree. (See MAGA hat smiling teenager for example).
      This is the problem with lefties like yourself. You claim to be the logical ones but you are masters of hypocrisy, double standards, strawmen and red herrings, and those traits are exactly what pushes people further right.

  • @neuromuscular_lava
    @neuromuscular_lava 5 років тому +65

    The fact she thought those were good sources blows my mind. I’m in college and if I cited those as sources I would have failed every research paper I’ve ever written. Lauren needs to learn what JSTOR is.

  • @PuckNutty
    @PuckNutty 6 років тому +125

    On behalf of Canada I'd like to appologize for Lauren Southern, Gavin MacGinnis and Steven Crowder. However, we're not taking responsibility for Stephan Molyneaux. The UK needs to own that one.

    • @ozzymandias8137
      @ozzymandias8137 6 років тому +29

      Hideki Keogh we’ll take him and PJW but America’s still got Alex Jones and the orange wonder himself to apologise for

    • @laragallahue7127
      @laragallahue7127 6 років тому +7

      Hideki Keogh If any are from Ireland we take full responsibly

    • @lucianraphael9527
      @lucianraphael9527 6 років тому +1

      Hideki Keogh Steven crowder is a 50/50. So is Lauren, but what’s wrong with Gavin? All Gavin really does is criticize feminism, Islam and sometimes said some stuff about men playing video games and stuff. What’s wrong with his view point? Is he bad because he isn’t on the left? Jheeeez bro

    • @Paul-sr6zb
      @Paul-sr6zb 6 років тому +12

      As an American I'd like to apologize. For everything. Just, everything.

    • @spankeyfish
      @spankeyfish 6 років тому +1

      Hideki Keogh+ Isn't Molynope Irish?

  • @variksenmarja7534
    @variksenmarja7534 6 років тому +1474

    Good thing most women in my experience are smart enough to avoid agreeing whit nonsense what alt righters put out.

    • @Snardvark25
      @Snardvark25 6 років тому +33

      Yaaaa, I haven't come across any in Louisiana yet. I'm sure they exist but it's pretty progressive around NOLA.

    • @bl1398
      @bl1398 6 років тому +3

      it could be that there simply aren't that many women in Louisiana, or perhaps you are not visiting the places women go.

    • @variksenmarja7534
      @variksenmarja7534 6 років тому +27

      Blah123 not our place to make gueswork

    • @bl1398
      @bl1398 6 років тому +2

      you are right it might be the women in louisiana are the ones not going out to places that max is going. you could give online dating a go, works for some people when going out and about doesnt yeild results

    • @4dultw1thj0b
      @4dultw1thj0b 6 років тому +6

      Roope Toivanen Yeah, but enough of them are willing to drink the Kool-Aid to give reason to worry.

  • @g.boychev9355
    @g.boychev9355 6 років тому +44

    Libertarians for sexual abstinence and monogamy. Rock musicians against alcohol. National socialists for diversity and tolerance. Christian fundamentalists for secular humanism. Libertarians for sexual abstinence and monogamy. Libertarians for sexual abstinence and monogamy.

  • @LeagueUnionSevens
    @LeagueUnionSevens 5 років тому +50

    28:50 *"The mission of The Heritage Foundation is to formulate and promote conservative public policies based on the principles of free enterprise, limited government, individual freedom, traditional American values and a strong national defense"*
    Wait.. what? That's got to be the most contradictory mission statement I think I've ever heard.
    Do they really value "individual freedom", or do they want "conservative public policies based on...traditional American values"? Does it make sense to push for such policies whilst simultaneously wanting to "limit government"? I don't get it. It's almost like they hate the government having power, yet they want it to enact its power to enforce their own preferred lifestyle on everybody.

    • @SpukiTheLoveKitten75
      @SpukiTheLoveKitten75 5 років тому

      Wingnuts are a weird bunch and so full of newspeak & doublespeak.

    • @razi_man
      @razi_man 4 роки тому

      Do they realise that "traditional" and "American" cannot go into the same sentence?

    • @PetitPoneyDuVercors26
      @PetitPoneyDuVercors26 3 роки тому +1

      It's a neoliberal think thank, they're not really known for being consistant haha
      (The state is too big, the market should be free concurrence ...but we bail the market's failures and enforce policies by the government to protect big companies...)

    • @TheSongoftheWinterRose
      @TheSongoftheWinterRose 3 роки тому +1

      @@PetitPoneyDuVercors26 Isn’t the Heritage Foundation a conservative think tank not a neoliberal one?

  • @eXileLies
    @eXileLies 6 років тому +161

    Lauren's Christian sharia ideas are so ironical, it physically hurts.

    • @spankeyfish
      @spankeyfish 6 років тому +15

      'white sharia' has literally become a meme in the far right and incel crowds

    • @christianmcnally1832
      @christianmcnally1832 6 років тому +2

      1. It's ironic not ironical and 2. It's not ironic it's hypocritical

    • @TheSoonamee
      @TheSoonamee 5 років тому +3

      @@christianmcnally1832 1. ironical has the same meaning as ironic and is the older form of the word, and 2. it may be hypocritical, but it could also be considered ironic if you are not a prescriptivist and you are willing to accept that words can have more than one meaning

    • @friendbreakfast
      @friendbreakfast 5 років тому

      Found the pedant!!

  • @micmac274
    @micmac274 6 років тому +139

    Here's something the alt-right (especially Southern) needs to hear: Don't complain about illegal immigrants and then illegally enter the UK after you have been ejected for committing criminal offences the last time you came over.

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому +5

      Criminal offenses like.. talking. Right, got it. She didn't do anything that would be considered a crime in any other country because the UK actually has laws free against speech. Which pretty much every other civilized country in the world realizes is a horrible thing. Seriously.. quite a few people have already gone to jail this year alone just for speaking. Doesn't even have to be racist either. As long as you disagree with the left, it's speech that's not allowed in the UK and can land you in jail. But, I bet you think that's OK, right?

    • @idkdk569
      @idkdk569 5 років тому +31

      @@dcheverie It's honestly mind-boggling how conservatives can bitch about how immigrants don't respect the perfect, clean, western law of the country they're in, then turn around and criticize the same law because they don't allow Lauren Southern...

    • @beayn
      @beayn 5 років тому +1

      What laws did Lauren actually break? She wasn't arrested or charged with anything for the incident that later got her banned from the country. She was literally advocating for LGBT acceptance in Islam, and the police asked her to stop because they feared for her safety.
      The irony of leftist ideology that defends extremism, violence and homophobia when you've got the correct skin color has reached absurd levels.
      Imagine if a MAGA hat wearing teenager was threatening an LGBT activist who had a sign that said "God is Gay" in America.... and the police were telling the activist to leave instead of the MAGA hat guy. Holy. Shit. The media would be blasting us with outrage for weeks since we already know the levels of outrage that a smiling MAGA hat wearing teenager in front of a Native American reaches...
      That is literally what you are defending. Homophobia and threats of violence toward someone exercising free speech... simply because the "victims" fit near the top of the progressive stack due to their skin color and religion you think is oppressed.

    • @idkdk569
      @idkdk569 5 років тому +19

      @@beayn L M F A O Lauren Southern, the LGBT advocate who thinks all girls should marry an alpha male and have kids, and who made a living out of calling out trans college kids snowflakes...

    • @beayn
      @beayn 5 років тому +1

      @@idkdk569 I didn't claim she was an LGBT advocate, but that is what she was doing to prove a point. She was literally advocating for LGBT acceptance in Islam because she knew it would not be accepted, and would be very offensive to Muslims (just like those Christians you hate so much who say God hates Gays).
      How did she make a living calling out trans college kids? Is that something she does regularly and gets paid for it?
      Also, you didn't address anything in my message. What laws did she break? Are you defending homophobia as acceptable from Muslims?
      What if there was a MAGA hat wearing conservative threatening an LGBT activist, would you attack the activist?

  • @Mallory-Malkovich
    @Mallory-Malkovich 6 років тому +94

    She could have called the video _How to Make the Most of Your Second Class Existence._

    • @thetruewolfio4150
      @thetruewolfio4150 5 років тому

      second class existence? what, in the west? rubbish

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому +1

      Osiris, yeah, because slaving for a corporation, meaningless hook-ups or converting to islam are all _so_ fulfilling!

    • @firstuser5448
      @firstuser5448 5 років тому +15

      @@bellaparabellum8261 strawman

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому

      @First User, not a strawman, but the literal alternative to what Lauren was suggesting

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому

      The Pendle Witch, you mean kind of like the feminists who shame women for enjoying "writhing on their backs" and "changing diapers" more than withering away behind some office desk working overtime for some faceless corporation?

  • @ashleyrhy5722
    @ashleyrhy5722 4 роки тому +30

    I'm 21 and one of my coworkers is 40. He told me that I have to find a man now or I'll miss out. He said that by the time I hit 30, I won't be attractive and desirable... I have two coworkers in a different departments who are in their late 30's and they regularly have customers come flirt with them. So hopefully I have some time. 😡

    • @enriquehernaiz7285
      @enriquehernaiz7285 4 роки тому +14

      Don't listen to those hacks. Do what feels best for you, not what other people tell you what you should or shouldn't do

    • @muhammadeisa1459
      @muhammadeisa1459 2 роки тому +5

      If it's any consolation, I'm 20 years old and I would definitely hit on mid 30s women consensually. There are plenty of guys like me lmao that don't really care that much about age, you have nothing to worry about.

  • @setholmstead8339
    @setholmstead8339 6 років тому +72

    Real answer. You're just as capable of being miserable alone as you are with someone else. If you marry for the purpose of happiness you will largely be disappointed. If youre single because dating is difficult or your afraid of messing it up you will be miserable. I would say, life is often difficult better to have someone to help out.

  • @KookiesNolly
    @KookiesNolly 6 років тому +217

    OH MY GOD!!! First Contra, now you?? Jeez I have been blessed today!! I’ve been rewatching your old videos for 2 days because I didn’t know what to do with my life! Thanks for uploading 😭

    • @SidPhoenix2211
      @SidPhoenix2211 6 років тому +18

      Now we just need HBomberguy to upload, and we'll have a hattrick

    • @Vict0r1984
      @Vict0r1984 6 років тому +12

      Eli N.S Don't forget hbomber! He uploaded recently too, and his last vid (which, spoiler alert, wasn't about Sonic!) was top notch!

    • @FieldMarshalFry
      @FieldMarshalFry 6 років тому

      give money to Bruva Alfabusa for Text To Speech goodness as well....

    • @KookiesNolly
      @KookiesNolly 6 років тому +4

      Vict0r1984 wait, it wasn’t about Sonic, god! I have to watch it then. 😅. I assumed it wasn’t that important when I got the notification. Thanks.
      I’m studying at the library right now. Watching them all when I get home.

    • @tinnagigja3723
      @tinnagigja3723 6 років тому +5

      I even watched the WoW video. About a game I've never played, and have no interest in.
      I just want Shaun to keep talking.

  • @amccarthy987
    @amccarthy987 2 роки тому +39

    i remember watching that video when i was 12. it was recommended to me and i watched it because i was questioning my worth as a woman. i was very insecure at the time because i felt i didn’t fit into the societal standard of a woman; i didn’t have many other straight female friends (mainly sapphics & dudes) and didn’t gravitate towards typically _feminine_ goals like getting a boyfriend or looking pretty. i know that sounds silly, but it was my genuine feelings at the time
    lauren’s video absolutely crushed me, i lamented about how i’d never be happy in life and no one would like me and i’d become obsolete once i hit 30. that my worth was merely to attract men and push out babies, and i would never amount to anything more. i mean, her claims were supposedly based on _facts_ right? but when i questioned where queer people fit into her supposedly water-tight worldview, i quickly pieced together how dumb her statements were.
    thank you shaun, for making this debunking video. i hope when other young girls find videos like southern’s, there’ll be people like you to call out this completely bullshit misogynistic rhetoric ♡♡♡

  • @subroy7123
    @subroy7123 6 років тому +69

    "Promiscuity is the mechanism of """""desoulment""""""
    Are they trying to find out new ways of making Horcruxes?

    • @4c_aperture
      @4c_aperture 5 років тому +12

      “proof that voldemort fucks” is not something I expected from this study but it’s what I’m getting, apparently.

    • @TwelvetreeZ
      @TwelvetreeZ 5 років тому +4

      Sounds much more fun than murdering people, tbh

    • @fruitygarlic3601
      @fruitygarlic3601 5 років тому +5

      *_" w h o r e c r u x e s "_*

    • @BasiliskKingOfSerpents
      @BasiliskKingOfSerpents 5 років тому +3

      RandisRealm “proof that voldemort fucks” wasn’t what I was expecting from this comment section, either, but reading those words absolutely made my day.

  • @kaiserwilliams6833
    @kaiserwilliams6833 6 років тому +328

    Making us watch that for the sake of intellectual honesty... why must you torture us so? ;_;

    • @kak10053
      @kak10053 6 років тому +51

      Kaiser Williams
      Yeah, that was one of the worst things I've ever seen. As soon as she started talking about women's age and chastity is what made her valuable I started screaming.

    • @kaiserwilliams6833
      @kaiserwilliams6833 6 років тому +31

      Eh, I mean the whole thing can be debunked by pointing out she's lecturing other women on doing something she herself isn't doing.

    • @ComradeQuagsire
      @ComradeQuagsire 6 років тому +24

      Its just sad how much she despises women, including herself.

    • @basilofgoodwishes4138
      @basilofgoodwishes4138 6 років тому

      Because some people refused to do it and now are living with the Consequences.

    • @gregorhodson3741
      @gregorhodson3741 6 років тому +4

      You don't have to do everything Shaun says you know, and I doubt he expects everyone to. He presumably just trusts that enough people will watch it that if he is misrepresenting Southern they'll call him out.

  • @sydneyrica1802
    @sydneyrica1802 6 років тому +128

    It reminds me of Girl Defined except instead of using the Bible to validate her opinion she just makes up “facts” or references people using their opinion as facts.

    • @ladydontekno
      @ladydontekno 6 років тому +9

      Sydney R I never understood the concept of hate watching until I found Girl Defined. I still can't believe these chicks are serious.

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому

      Every link she posted has relevant sources listed. It's just "people using their opinion as facts". But, I guess I shouldn't expect a liberal to actually click on a link and READ to see if it's bullshit or actually have sources.

    • @emilyc8056
      @emilyc8056 5 років тому

      Sydney R She’s obnoxious like Nicole Arbour and boring like Girl Defined lmao

  • @NyJoanzy
    @NyJoanzy 4 роки тому +50

    What every girl needs to hear; "Capitalism is a flawed system."

    • @lobstered_blue-lobster
      @lobstered_blue-lobster 3 роки тому

      No, rather the problem is the players not the system.

    • @Wm7forthewin
      @Wm7forthewin 3 роки тому +7

      @@lobstered_blue-lobster So that means it’s easily abused, so therefor, it’s the system.

    • @lobstered_blue-lobster
      @lobstered_blue-lobster 3 роки тому

      @@Wm7forthewin well sorta but that's a non-sequitur. Well what do you even mean by saying it's a system? Capitalism is a theory/a concept where the economy is purely run by private owners (which can be you) for profit rather than by the state. The concept that is Capitalism is entirely differently from how it is used, like there are corrupt companies and monopilies and It maybe the reason of competition or just being motivated by profit that companies use underhanded tactics like paying experts to promote their products but the fault isn't the concept itself but the individuals who do that, you can be motivated by profit while being ethical it's not impossible. You are blaming Capitalism because of it's bad usage not the concept itself.

    • @Wm7forthewin
      @Wm7forthewin 3 роки тому

      @@lobstered_blue-lobster Ya, and it’s bad usage is why Capitalism is a terrible system. With this logic the USSR wasn’t bad, it was just used badly, and i doubt your anti-socialist propaganda would agree with that one.

    • @lobstered_blue-lobster
      @lobstered_blue-lobster 3 роки тому

      @@Wm7forthewin uh no that is not the point but you were very close to getting what I said, you cannot blame Capitalism for it's bad usage just like for instance Marxism/Socialism for it's bad usage just because the USSR used Socialism badly doesn't make the concept Socialism or (more accurately) Marxism bad. Socialism doesn't say your state has to ruled by an Authoratarian and Totalatarian ruler, just because most have done so doesn't mean Socialism has to do that as it is nowhere in the concept that makes it a requirement to do so as many right-wingers falsely proclaim it does. And the same with Capitalism just because many of the "players" are corrupt doesn't make the concept flawed.

  • @claym4594
    @claym4594 4 роки тому +48

    I might be late to the party here, but I'm like 90% sure the first guy is not married. "Carousellers" refers to an incel term known as the "cock carrousel" his blog also uses a lot of incel terminology and phrases that lead me to believe he isn't married and just wants to woman bash without the shame that comes from being part of the incel community.

  • @CatHasOpinions734
    @CatHasOpinions734 6 років тому +77

    PSA: Watch Lauren's video in a private window. It won't trash your recommendations and it'll keep you from getting into fruitless comment wars. I can't tell you how many times I yelled "I READ THAT STUDY AND IT DOESN'T SAY... Calm down, I'm sure Shaun will get into that, just a few more minutes... UGH."

  • @گایوساکتاویوستورینوس
    @گایوساکتاویوستورینوس 6 років тому +109

    absolutely undisputable concrete sources
    thanks lauren

  • @evee8462
    @evee8462 3 роки тому +48

    Why hasn’t she made a video of what every boy needs to hear - with male infidelity statistics, social requirements and responsibilities?

  • @rando_khan
    @rando_khan 6 років тому +56

    Some guy... with a blog... BELIEVES something.

  • @betweenthepanels9145
    @betweenthepanels9145 6 років тому +94

    Daring Shaun to look at your sources is courting trouble.

    • @merbst
      @merbst 5 років тому +1

      Or maybe he is the perfect person to help verify the intellectual honesty of a potential publication before it could possibly be misinterpreted by someone with a dishonest agenda.

  • @TheIngie44
    @TheIngie44 6 років тому +157

    I really want to say thanks for this video. I am not and never have been a fan of Lauren, I know that what she says is largely crap with a conservative agenda. But when I watched that video of hers when it first came out (mainly to see what nonsense she thought was good advice) it legitimately made me feel bad. I knew it was meant to make me feel that way, and I knew it had an agenda, and I didnt trust lauren at all. But it still made me feel bad. Its been playing on the back of my mind for months in an uncomfortable way, so I really really want to say a proper thank you for this video. Its important.

  • @davincicode2997
    @davincicode2997 5 років тому +56

    Coming back at this now, after the claims of Southern having had sex with various big names of the alt right to get exposure, this is even more hilarious

  • @Ana-tn4rm
    @Ana-tn4rm 6 років тому +112

    I feel bad for her fans, especially the younger ones.

    • @bellaparabellum8261
      @bellaparabellum8261 5 років тому +3

      Why? Because they might actually (gasp!) decide _not_ to spend the prime of their lives sleeping around, getting drunk, catching STDs or chasing a middle-management position in some multinational corporation? The tragedy!

    • @jonfavreau8491
      @jonfavreau8491 5 років тому +8

      Bella Parabellum no I think he’s referencing the fact that young women are getting sucked into believing Nazi propaganda a young age dipshit

    • @wehavebiscuits
      @wehavebiscuits 5 років тому +3

      @@bellaparabellum8261 jesus you sound just like the religious nuts. How can you buy into that insanely boring world view at such a young age?

    • @willhelmi2095
      @willhelmi2095 4 роки тому

      @@wehavebiscuits I think that "your" world view is boring. But I have to admit that I have always been pretty conservative in my lifestyle. I don't like partying, I don't like alcohol. Discussions, sport and reading is far more interesting. I am 21 between. I mean even the feminist Schwarzer, my fellow German Citizen, is far more conservative than everything I see in today's leftists.

  • @sonicsmiley
    @sonicsmiley 6 років тому +68

    It drives me nuts how these people dont understand what actual research is

    • @dcheverie
      @dcheverie 5 років тому

      And if you BOTH were too lazy, you'd notice that the blog posts link to actual research. Nice try though.

    • @TheKiroshi
      @TheKiroshi 5 років тому +2

      Than link to the god damn actual research than.. how can you call others lazy when this is literally half the work?