As a Black woman married to a White man, I can assure you his race has NOTHING to do with you getting hurt. That’s so silly. I’ve been hurt by my White and Black ex boyfriends. Not once have I stereotyped a whole race because of 1 man. That’s foolish. People should be judged independently, not as a whole. Silly goose.
Her mistake was being with a married man and thinking he would marry her after his divorce. He used her to hold him up while he was dealing with that divorce. She’s still crying over it so she’s not ready for another relationship. She can use dating to distract from her hurt but she’s not ready.
Why would you move in with a man before he's fully divorced 😂. And rhe sad part is, she doesn't think this will be drama for the new man 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
33YO. No kids. Pure and utter trauma dump. When I dated, I use to hate when a woman would tell me how wrong they were done by the other guy thinking it'll motivate me to "do better". Most people have had a heartbreak event. I never tried to hold over another women's bad behavior over my wife's head. It's unfair. Clean slate. Vet. Make a decision. If you can't do that, work on yourself and stay out of the dating pool.
@user-ee7jz6jb6l lol, read a Bible or just do it, she'll always be a problem, if you believe someone else has to teach you how to love yourself you're already lost , kids grow up, some don't though
I dislike the fact that her relationship with the Black man that didn't work out makes her want a white men. We date black men and it doesn't work out it's the MAN not the entire race of men 😕
There’s nothing wrong with her not wanting to be with a black man again. She need to go where she is praised and that man may not be black. It’s her life. She doesn’t owe anything to black men.
If everyone can see how silly it sounds for her to say she wants to avoid an entire race due to hurt from one person, how about everybody stop doing this in both directions. The hurt you experienced doesn’t define how an entire group of people behave.
So let me get this straight Shannongrace was dating a married man so now she's doesn't like black men but she PICKED this type of man than she said shes going back to dating white men because thats what she's always dated okay if the white men are so perfect why she's not marred to one 🤔
backwards logic. She got with that man when he was vulnerable. He told her the truth. she's the one who's toxic and trying to get a healed man in her torn apart state 😂😂
OMG PLEASE PEOPLE GET SOME THERAPY AND COUNSELING BEFORE LOOKING FOR ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP. 🤦🏽♀️ she’s not ready at all. If you’re still crying over the last one, YOU’RE NOT READY TO MOVE ON.
And she'll destroy an innocent man who doesn't know any better. She'll take it all out on him. She already let it be known she's mad at all blk men and a yt man isn't going to fair any better.
Ladies, if you’re messing with a married man, just know he isn’t any good and you need to use him for money. Don’t catch any feelings. I don’t feel bad for her because she didn’t understand the assignment. Once he was upfront and honest about being married, I would have seen him as an ATM and a placeholder. There’s no need to love a man like that.
yeah and the result is you getting assaulted or worst for using him. you clearly don't know the assignment to stay clear of these unfaithful men who bring nothing but trouble.
I have a friend that’s been dating a married man for the past 5 years. I keep telling her what she’s doing is wrong but she won’t leave him alone. She stalks the wife’s facebook. He tells her he will file for divorce. It’s been 5 years. No he’s not.
37-40 is an incredibly tight range. Also the "I give so much love" as a flaw folks are a red flag 🚩 to me. There's a pattern I'm seeing- these people seem to have a hard time taking accountability for their choices. They will likely intentionally overextend themselves and then use it to play victim later on.
When you are over a relationship you feel indifferent. Not emotional. She needs a break and counseling. She chose a bad candidate for marriage. Never date a married man.
Bingo. All that crying and anger means she will take it all out on the next man and there will be nothing but comparisons. Nothing worse as a man than being compared to her fantasy of what could have been.
Did he was married . You chose poorly. Essentially you watched him leave his WIFE and his child and thought you’d be special? A man that walks away for his obligation as a husband and a father will most certainly find it easier to walk from you.
She’s not ready to date! She’s not being realistic , taking accountability and doesn’t know how to ignore red flags. Self reflection time! Never date a person who is going through a divorce!! They are not completely emotionally available!! You are a rebound. That situation is your fault just as much as it his. Why would you get engaged with someone who is already married? You caused trauma on yourself. Take accountability and grow from it.
Humans desiring companionship is human nature and literally why humanity still persists. It is not normal or healthy to remain single your entire life and not experience intimate relationships with people whether romantic or platonic relationships.
Shanon need to get herself together. She should be analyzing what she did so she won't let it happen again. Looking for someone else is not going to change the fact. It'll be a repeat cycle over and over because she's willing to keep doing it. She need to chill for a while and get her mind right. Running from the black man to the white man doing the same thing is not going to help.
Vetting won't help her. She's willing to do all that stuff for a man talking about she's traditional and of course he's going to use it to his advantage because she's offering it. He can tell her anything and she'll be doing the same shit.
After living in Africa for the last seven years, I got to say that this is a sweet African woman who got played by an Seasoned Black American brother with game. I hope that she takes her time to date other brothers in the USA because brothers are not a monolithic group! Also, she should also know that, white American men are nothing like the European white men who routinely date and visit the continent! Good luck to her!!!
Yet you and her will claim y’all are intelligent lady just like so many of you females yall pick the one that don’t want you back and leave the good natured ones until yall are damaged and used up ..:this coming from a ain’t shit ninja myself
Wait a darn minute 😅 she moved to America 2 years ago She got with a married man and in the span of two years they moved in together and got engaged and dumped within 2 years, dumped a few months ago. Girrrrrrrlllll. What in the General Hospital is going on Edit: chillllle what did she say about 🔫🔫😅😅 This shit sound like she auditioning to be a Tyler perry writer 😅
Babe you’re not healed, stop focusing on dating for a minute and figure yourself out so that when you do run into a man that’s meant for you you are operating on solid ground and functioning well.
I have to agree with her ... Dating a black American men is extremely difficult. A lot of Baby mamas and dramas. A lot of black American men want to be the king of the castle but don’t want to partake in the necessary things that come along with the crown.
What a load of dog 💩. Black American MN are the most egalitarian group of MN on this planet. Without BM, all “non-whyte” will still be second class citizens in your country. Read your own literature, most black MN are childless.
Black American men are not the problem (and no, I am not black American). Men of all nationalities do this mess. It’s a man thing. In her case, she’s a hoe so she got just what she deserves. Who the hell gets engaged to a married man.
It is wrong to start a relationship with someone who is not completely divorced, man or woman. He was still married and you knew about it. There are no in-betweens. If someone is going through divorce, allow them to be completely done with it before you jump in. I personally find it VERY INSULTING when I see "SEPARATED" in a profile of a man who liked me on a dating site while I was there.
Switching sides is not the answer because that is not what your heart desires. She is moving in emotions and anger and she needs therapy. No one ever talks about mental illness and how it effects relationships. Some people shouldn't be married let alone in any serious relationship because they are mentally unstable, stubborn, unaccountable, and lack self awareness.
didn't you listen to her? she been on that other side. She's ok with getting played and used by d wite man all her life. But how dare a married bm 😂 they dont deserve the right to play her like d wite man did
🎼🎵🎶Oh I remember the way that we touch I wish I didn't like it so much Oh I get so emotional baby Every time I think of you I get so emotional baby Ain't it shocking what love can do Ain't it shocking what love can do Ain't it shocking what love can do🎵🎶🎹 Whitney Houston~~~>>>So Emotional
You can see the pain in your face sis and dating should not be a priority, healing, loving yourself and working on your flaws, bad habits and things that would deter a potential suitor.When you are your best self the right man for you will come, you have to be valuable to yourself before you can add value to anyone else.I’ve been married three times and the first two, my toxicity and pain from the past relationships helped end those marriages, invest in yourself and heal and u will have a better chance to have someone who will truly love, protect, and provide for you as their wife. ❤
The traditional woman who messed with a married man🤔??? I think the sad part is that she is deadass😂. You can tell that she truly believes that him being black was the problem.
This is a good woman who needs to fine love for herself first. Bottomline, he used her. Once he got his freedom he didn't want to be in a relationship. I once was interested in someone going through a divorce, I was the best thing since white bread. Once he got his freedom he peaced out. ( we didn't live together). Dating someone that's separated or newly divorced is not smart. If do, have no expectations.
@@MariaRose_88thank you! These women don’t even know her in real life and want to place the title good woman on her. I don’t like to do that about people (both men and women)
@@MariaRose_88 I'm saying she's a good woman because I think she is. If she doesn't believe it, no one else will. I say she's a good woman because she reminds me of myself, AND I KNOW I AM. I found self-love. I realize now that any love outside of me is a bonus. The world makes us think and act in foolishness ways. Self-love is the first step.
She seems like a sweet Afrikan gal. She actually acquired American accent quite fast. If she didn't mention she moved to US 2yrs ago, I'd probably think she's American.
Her: spends the better part of the interview talking about her married ex that she’ll never get over Also her: 16:06 I have no drama You truly can’t make this 💩 up 🙄🙄🙄🙄
How do u know she won’t get over him? Maybe she’s just an emotional person. Or maybe u think that way because u are still secretly scared from the first women that broke you heart in middle school
@@GodsGloryIsGoodshe spent 90% of the interview speaking about an ex she’s definitely not over and cried about it. Then says she’d date white guys like that will magically improve her life and self esteem. It won’t . She shouldn’t have even been here .
@@GodsGloryIsGood wow what an insane road you just went down. She literally cried about dude and the relationship ON THIS CALL. All we can go by is what we see. Men are logical, not emotional creatures .
Respectfully, she is a beautiful girl and seems very well rounded. We all have our own issues but I think she feels lonely and seeks love from a man. You have to heal! You cannot go into your next relationship the way you are. Work on yourself and then in a few months, date with the intent of seeing where it goes but don’t put an expectation on it. I’m advising from experience.
Here are some of the biggest differences between domestic partnerships and marriage: Marriages are recognized by the federal government and by all states. Domestic partnerships are only recognized at the state level.
Wife must mean do whatever you want because I'm your wife I can take it, and I'm going to take all that unesseary bs you bring into my life and spirit, and when I go into depression and need extensive counseling and therapy I can take that too. That's what wife mean? Lol
I feel her though. I get easily triggered emotionally not just when it comes to men who hurt me but ppl in general from childhood, ex coworkers, exfriends, relatives ,etc
She got played by one BM and pretty much looking for a white savior. She been dating WM before she came to America she even said. She’s a 🛌 🔧, got played and now she mad at BM. She should’ve stayed with pink. I thank that BM that played her. I wish him good luck for 3 summers.
She’s not ready. She and the Kendra cousin aren’t over their ex. It’s said if you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with. They’re settling.
Wow she rather sell out than deal with the brother man lol. 😮😆. Another one. And you wonder why the brothers be going overseas. She clearly messed up from the git. 😆 You never date someone until they are officially divorced. Because that gives him the opportunity to use you. Be aware of that. And then it sounds like he wanted somebody to stay at home for his benefit and not give you any money? That’s ridiculous. I don’t mind a wife that wants to work, more power to her. She clearly dodged a bad one. You can tell she is loyal af, and from Nigeria too lol
A partner is for a business, not a relationship!! Leave those Tyrone's, Pookies and Ray-Ray's alone! She has no clue, a good man is a good man! She isn't ready for any type of a relationship!!
She chose incorrectly. Heal. Make better choices. She thought she would come here and get a fairytale US Story. No ma’am. He was married you shouldn’t have even started with him. Be accountable ma’am
When she started talking about the black guy that broke her heart, it just sounds like she came across typical, red-pilled variety. I think she should stay open to all races, but don't bash a race based on one toxic male that she chose at the end of the day.
Engaged to a married man......... Him being black wasn't the problem sis.
Right
She doesn’t know what she’s about to face dating a white man but I’ll let her go lol
Engaged to delusion.
@@wiljonson2744 this is the one
True but dating a black American men is difficult
As a Black woman married to a White man, I can assure you his race has NOTHING to do with you getting hurt. That’s so silly. I’ve been hurt by my White and Black ex boyfriends. Not once have I stereotyped a whole race because of 1 man. That’s foolish. People should be judged independently, not as a whole. Silly goose.
Facts! I been hurt by black women but still don’t black all black women. I know there are good women out there.
Nice to see logical and unbiased comments like this. Unlike the usuals who immediately feed into BM Hate.
You’re a sellout , period.
Black men do it every day all day.
I hope she doesn't have ethnic issues too...see wants what she wants though 😒...
Her mistake was being with a married man and thinking he would marry her after his divorce. He used her to hold him up while he was dealing with that divorce. She’s still crying over it so she’s not ready for another relationship. She can use dating to distract from her hurt but she’s not ready.
Used her? 😂😂😂
@@thelessons3768 like she wasn’t there of her own free will
now she's tryna use the new guy as a rebound...FOH get healed 1st then look for a new relationship🙄
So she's trying to use a new guy to make herself feel better 😮, hell nah 😅
Only a fool would hit her up to date right now.
Lord she think white men not going to hurt her. Lol she wayyyyyy to emotional sheesh
If we don’t want them the white man have higher standards then us. White men marry black women at a 3% clip
That’s why you’re single. That’s a women’s nature. Maybe you lack empathy?
@@kind2423You cry when looking for a new man? WTF...
😂😂😂 I have a bridge in Florida to sell her
@@candorsspot2775😂
Why would you move in with a man before he's fully divorced 😂. And rhe sad part is, she doesn't think this will be drama for the new man 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
"engaged" to a man that is married 🤦🏾♂️
@@Richard-ReloadedThat's wild asf 😂😂😂😂😂
I stuck a fork into a toaster once, now i hate ALL toasters. F*CK TOASTERS ‼️
💀😂😂
LOL. FR 😂
That's why I use toaster ovens 😂
😂😂😂😂 it was a black toaster... now you only like white toasters 😂😂
@@lovelywarri2472 LMAO!!! 😂😂🤣🤣
@@jaystamps7519 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
33YO. No kids.
Pure and utter trauma dump. When I dated, I use to hate when a woman would tell me how wrong they were done by the other guy thinking it'll motivate me to "do better". Most people have had a heartbreak event. I never tried to hold over another women's bad behavior over my wife's head. It's unfair. Clean slate. Vet. Make a decision. If you can't do that, work on yourself and stay out of the dating pool.
Exactly!
Fully Agree!! "Trauma", one of the many buzz words women gravitate to.
This woman seem like she is desperately looking for someone to love her but she doesn’t love herself.
How is she supposed to love herself when she doesn’t know love?
@user-ee7jz6jb6l lol, read a Bible or just do it, she'll always be a problem, if you believe someone else has to teach you how to love yourself you're already lost , kids grow up, some don't though
@@brandonlongdikjones8117 oh my dear, you have no idea.
@user-ee7jz6jb6l Actually I do. That's why I said what I said. You are the one asking questions lol. Talk about having no idea
@@Nikki-p1t You have no idea.. loving yourself has nothing to do with feeling love outside of yourself, its solely a YOU thing
I dislike the fact that her relationship with the Black man that didn't work out makes her want a white men. We date black men and it doesn't work out it's the MAN not the entire race of men 😕
I swear
There’s nothing wrong with her not wanting to be with a black man again. She need to go where she is praised and that man may not be black. It’s her life. She doesn’t owe anything to black men.
@@Not_A_Hopeless_Romantic as a black man I agree with you. Go where you're wanted/tolerated
Or it could be her
@@Not_A_Hopeless_Romantic No she doesn't but blaming that one black man for all isn't right either.
Chad and Brad, its your time to shine!
I can’t feel any sympathy for a side chick.
A home wrecker
Thats Toxic Work.
@@shishim6813 piece is scum breaking up a home and really acting like she the victim ask his wife and kids how they feel get out of here
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Girl…HEAL! You getting emotional over your ex is a clear indication that you have not moved on and healed from that.
EXACTLY
Who accepts a proposal from a married man? Girl bye ✌🏾
That part
Then look crazy when shit hits the fan!! 🤦🏾♀️
Her ex imprinted on her! The next dude she is with will suffer for all her ex’s mistakes
Preach
She going to be quick to compare you to that ex
She needs THERAPY.......Peace to K.S.
Stop using your past traumas to justify your self hatred.
Exactly!
Sad, there’s a lot of that with our race
If everyone can see how silly it sounds for her to say she wants to avoid an entire race due to hurt from one person, how about everybody stop doing this in both directions. The hurt you experienced doesn’t define how an entire group of people behave.
@@njc9776 That's what we are saying ma. Pay Attention! Hatred either way is bad. Period!
"Emotional Damage!" Send this divestor with poor wifi to a therapist and leave the rest of us the hell alone.
That is probably the only race that will tolerate her.
😂😂😂😂
she has a therapist already.....problem is her therapist is a woman. idc I said it🤷🏾♂️
Her Wi-Fi maybe bad, but it looks as if she lives in a nice place
As a black man, I’m happy we ain’t gotta deal with this
Im a black woman & im laughing
Unnecessary comment.
@@fsheik1127very unnecessary
Facts bro 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️💯💯
@fsheik1127 as a man, it was very necessary
Wife passed today and she was one of your fans.. This is from Warren and Michelle Breeden
So sorry for your loss
She out here breaking black families up then gonna blame all black men miss me with that BS
So let me get this straight Shannongrace was dating a married man so now she's doesn't like black men but she PICKED this type of man than she said shes going back to dating white men because thats what she's always dated okay if the white men are so perfect why she's not marred to one 🤔
Right!!!!
Yeah, nah, she's not ready to move on 😢
Ladies toxic men love to get you when your vulnerable.Go heal first before dating again.🙏🏽🙏🏽
backwards logic. She got with that man when he was vulnerable. He told her the truth. she's the one who's toxic and trying to get a healed man in her torn apart state 😂😂
OMG PLEASE PEOPLE GET SOME THERAPY AND COUNSELING BEFORE LOOKING FOR ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP. 🤦🏽♀️ she’s not ready at all.
If you’re still crying over the last one, YOU’RE NOT READY TO MOVE ON.
And she'll destroy an innocent man who doesn't know any better. She'll take it all out on him. She already let it be known she's mad at all blk men and a yt man isn't going to fair any better.
maturing is realizing that women are usually the victim AND villain of their own sob story 😭
Maturing is to “understand or love WN and coming to the realization you can’t do both”.
How are they usually the victim?
@@DawgyjoeOh idk men that lie about their Relationships to other human beings and try their best to hide that truth
Love her spirit, she is a sweetheart,hope she heals before she meet that unconditional love spirit,no matter the color of his skin 💯🔝💪🏽🦁
Ladies, if you’re messing with a married man, just know he isn’t any good and you need to use him for money. Don’t catch any feelings. I don’t feel bad for her because she didn’t understand the assignment. Once he was upfront and honest about being married, I would have seen him as an ATM and a placeholder. There’s no need to love a man like that.
Hoes
Preach!!!!!!!!!!!!
Facts.
If she is dealing with a married msn,SHE IS NO BETTER THAN HE IS.......SHE IS VICTIM OF HER OWN POOR DECISIONS........dating married men is nasty work
yeah and the result is you getting assaulted or worst for using him. you clearly don't know the assignment to stay clear of these unfaithful men who bring nothing but trouble.
I have a friend that’s been dating a married man for the past 5 years. I keep telling her what she’s doing is wrong but she won’t leave him alone. She stalks the wife’s facebook. He tells her he will file for divorce. It’s been 5 years. No he’s not.
I couldn’t be friends with someone who was knowingly a side piece.
@@876me7 well, I will remain her friend because she needs good women in her life and she is a good friend to me so…
She understands there's a shortage of us so she's willing to share rather be lonely.
37-40 is an incredibly tight range. Also the "I give so much love" as a flaw folks are a red flag 🚩 to me. There's a pattern I'm seeing- these people seem to have a hard time taking accountability for their choices. They will likely intentionally overextend themselves and then use it to play victim later on.
This is why KG says the ink gotta be dry on your divorce before anyone can get on the show. She protecting yall from your own poor decisions 🙄
Divorces don't stop feelings.
When you are over a relationship you feel indifferent. Not emotional. She needs a break and counseling. She chose a bad candidate for marriage. Never date a married man.
Bingo. All that crying and anger means she will take it all out on the next man and there will be nothing but comparisons. Nothing worse as a man than being compared to her fantasy of what could have been.
Did he was married . You chose poorly. Essentially you watched him leave his WIFE and his child and thought you’d be special? A man that walks away for his obligation as a husband and a father will most certainly find it easier to walk from you.
A great philosopher once asked women this question “do you make room for the possibility that the problem is you”???
She’s not ready to date! She’s not being realistic , taking accountability and doesn’t know how to ignore red flags.
Self reflection time! Never date a person who is going through a divorce!! They are not completely emotionally available!! You are a rebound. That situation is your fault just as much as it his. Why would you get engaged with someone who is already married? You caused trauma on yourself. Take accountability and grow from it.
Agree 💯
Agree no man white or black is ready to take on her mentals.
You know… people don’t have to date. That’s not something thats required to live. Women act like they just have to be dating or looking to date.
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Other than sex you can find fulfilling companionship with friends and family. Being single doesn't equal being alone, or lonely ‼️
Humans desiring companionship is human nature and literally why humanity still persists. It is not normal or healthy to remain single your entire life and not experience intimate relationships with people whether romantic or platonic relationships.
We don’t cry once we’re over it. You are not over it.
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Girl your soulmate is not somebody else’s husband. You broke your own heart
Shanon need to get herself together. She should be analyzing what she did so she won't let it happen again. Looking for someone else is not going to change the fact. It'll be a repeat cycle over and over because she's willing to keep doing it. She need to chill for a while and get her mind right. Running from the black man to the white man doing the same thing is not going to help.
Exactly! Cause she gonna keep finding that same type of man...just in a different race or look. She's too grown. She should learn how to vet good.
Vetting won't help her. She's willing to do all that stuff for a man talking about she's traditional and of course he's going to use it to his advantage because she's offering it. He can tell her anything and she'll be doing the same shit.
She's got more baggage than Southwest!
We all have baggage
@@kind2423 But she's still carrying hers....in both hands.
@@twashington9983 true
And is just as lost as the luggage.
@@tezsgino😂😂😂😂
Anyone who thinks Dwight 💁♂️ can't hurt them need to watch a few episodes of roots.
After living in Africa for the last seven years, I got to say that this is a sweet African woman who got played by an Seasoned Black American brother with game. I hope that she takes her time to date other brothers in the USA because brothers are not a monolithic group! Also, she should also know that, white American men are nothing like the European white men who routinely date and visit the continent! Good luck to her!!!
And African man don’t play women? She said she preferred White men in Africa too and there are African men in the U.S. to date😂
@@tamiw87 o yea of course African men play women here as well as the many white men who just used them for sex during their holiday.
@@tamiw87 agreed. She's still stuck on him; if he comes back, I bet she'll accept him.
Yet you and her will claim y’all are intelligent lady just like so many of you females yall pick the one that don’t want you back and leave the good natured ones until yall are damaged and used up ..:this coming from a ain’t shit ninja myself
Hard nope.
Girl get over that dude . Plenty fish in the sea
Not everyone has that hoelike ability like you
Wait a darn minute 😅 she moved to America 2 years ago
She got with a married man and in the span of two years they moved in together and got engaged and dumped within 2 years, dumped a few months ago.
Girrrrrrrlllll. What in the General
Hospital is going on
Edit: chillllle what did she say about 🔫🔫😅😅
This shit sound like she auditioning to be a Tyler perry writer 😅
Right...I think she's a psycho but I'm not a mental health physician😂
Whoever reaches out to her is gonna have a lot of proving and reassuring to do & that sounds like a lot of work
Babe you’re not healed, stop focusing on dating for a minute and figure yourself out so that when you do run into a man that’s meant for you you are operating on solid ground and functioning well.
I have to agree with her ... Dating a black American men is extremely difficult. A lot of Baby mamas and dramas.
A lot of black American men want to be the king of the castle but don’t want to partake in the necessary things that come along with the crown.
What a load of dog 💩. Black American MN are the most egalitarian group of MN on this planet. Without BM, all “non-whyte” will still be second class citizens in your country. Read your own literature, most black MN are childless.
Black American men are not the problem (and no, I am not black American). Men of all nationalities do this mess. It’s a man thing. In her case, she’s a hoe so she got just what she deserves. Who the hell gets engaged to a married man.
Oh I remember her. She still loves her ex
It is wrong to start a relationship with someone who is not completely divorced, man or woman. He was still married and you knew about it. There are no in-betweens. If someone is going through divorce, allow them to be completely done with it before you jump in. I personally find it VERY INSULTING when I see "SEPARATED" in a profile of a man who liked me on a dating site while I was there.
Switching sides is not the answer because that is not what your heart desires. She is moving in emotions and anger and she needs therapy. No one ever talks about mental illness and how it effects relationships. Some people shouldn't be married let alone in any serious relationship because they are mentally unstable, stubborn, unaccountable, and lack self awareness.
didn't you listen to her? she been on that other side. She's ok with getting played and used by d wite man all her life. But how dare a married bm 😂 they dont deserve the right to play her like d wite man did
Hey no one perfect , sending her love and healing energy!
17:03
🎼🎵🎶Oh I remember the way that we touch
I wish I didn't like it so much
Oh I get so emotional baby
Every time I think of you
I get so emotional baby
Ain't it shocking what love can do
Ain't it shocking what love can do
Ain't it shocking what love can do🎵🎶🎹
Whitney Houston~~~>>>So Emotional
That last man played her...he wanted a soft place to land and got just that...
You can see the pain in your face sis and dating should not be a priority, healing, loving yourself and working on your flaws, bad habits and things that would deter a potential suitor.When you are your best self the right man for you will come, you have to be valuable to yourself before you can add value to anyone else.I’ve been married three times and the first two, my toxicity and pain from the past relationships helped end those marriages, invest in yourself and heal and u will have a better chance to have someone who will truly love, protect, and provide for you as their wife. ❤
She to emotional and going to drive a man crazy always crying and emotional wearing her heart on her sleeve. She will always be hurt smmfh
Well… that’s a women’s nature. We are emotional. Maybe you lack empathy.
Ain’t nobody got time for that . She needs to take a year & get it together. Smfh
The traditional woman who messed with a married man🤔??? I think the sad part is that she is deadass😂. You can tell that she truly believes that him being black was the problem.
This is a good woman who needs to fine love for herself first. Bottomline, he used her. Once he got his freedom he didn't want to be in a relationship. I once was interested in someone going through a divorce, I was the best thing since white bread. Once he got his freedom he peaced out. ( we didn't live together). Dating someone that's separated or newly divorced is not smart. If do, have no expectations.
@@MariaRose_88thank you! These women don’t even know her in real life and want to place the title good woman on her. I don’t like to do that about people (both men and women)
@@MariaRose_88 I'm saying she's a good woman because I think she is. If she doesn't believe it, no one else will. I say she's a good woman because she reminds me of myself, AND I KNOW I AM. I found self-love. I realize now that any love outside of me is a bonus. The world makes us think and act in foolishness ways. Self-love is the first step.
She seems like a sweet Afrikan gal. She actually acquired American accent quite fast. If she didn't mention she moved to US 2yrs ago, I'd probably think she's American.
Her: spends the better part of the interview talking about her married ex that she’ll never get over
Also her: 16:06 I have no drama
You truly can’t make this 💩 up 🙄🙄🙄🙄
How do u know she won’t get over him? Maybe she’s just an emotional person. Or maybe u think that way because u are still secretly scared from the first women that broke you heart in middle school
@@GodsGloryIsGoodshe spent 90% of the interview speaking about an ex she’s definitely not over and cried about it. Then says she’d date white guys like that will magically improve her life and self esteem. It won’t . She shouldn’t have even been here .
@@GodsGloryIsGood wow what an insane road you just went down. She literally cried about dude and the relationship ON THIS CALL. All we can go by is what we see. Men are logical, not emotional creatures .
@@GodsGloryIsGoodShame Insults Guilt Need to be right
"He was divorced but the court did not finalized it".... means he is still married.
She's not a wife material. The fiancee just dodged a bullet.
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The fiancee was legally married messing with her. He wasn’t it either
@@kind2423 the comment was about her.
Respectfully, she is a beautiful girl and seems very well rounded. We all have our own issues but I think she feels lonely and seeks love from a man. You have to heal! You cannot go into your next relationship the way you are. Work on yourself and then in a few months, date with the intent of seeing where it goes but don’t put an expectation on it. I’m advising from experience.
Such a drama Queen lol
😂😂 Big time. Yeye thing come ghetto show to look for oyinbo MN.
He told you his program. You didn’t want to comply. Relationship over.
As soon as a single dude hears: "I'm looking for a partner." Click!!! Single dudes who want to get married want a wife.
A wife and husband are a partnership. They work together to get things done
Here are some of the biggest differences between domestic partnerships and marriage: Marriages are recognized by the federal government and by all states. Domestic partnerships are only recognized at the state level.
Wife must mean do whatever you want because I'm your wife I can take it, and I'm going to take all that unesseary bs you bring into my life and spirit, and when I go into depression and need extensive counseling and therapy I can take that too. That's what wife mean? Lol
@@lobengone477Wrong. It's feminist talk. And no man should ever marry a feminist.
FACTSSSSSS
Swirler 😂🤣 Emotional damage!
Sis..go heal, take your time..
THAT LOOK KENDRA GAVE WHEN SHE SAID HIS DIVORCE 😂😂😂😂
Oh,she done got up there 🦝ing and crying,no wonder he left her.
come on now, she up here crying, she is not ready for no relationship
She needs a pet for now.
So heartbreaking 💔
Bless her heart. I don't thinks she's ready. Find ur own happiness within yourself, before u invite someone else into ur world.
Kendra G, I think you meant her last relationship!
Yes! Fixed! Typo! Thanks!
If she’s African their men have several wives. Maybe that’s why her ex being married was not a red flag
Kendra like this gone do numbers 💰. On to the next one.
I feel her though. I get easily triggered emotionally not just when it comes to men who hurt me but ppl in general from childhood, ex coworkers, exfriends, relatives ,etc
Heal your heart, young lady.
That's a honest good woman guys ,hope she gets a good man.
I think you need to heal before you get what anybody else…
Are there white men watching Kendra show?? It’s weird when people ask for other races
She got played by one BM and pretty much looking for a white savior. She been dating WM before she came to America she even said. She’s a 🛌 🔧, got played and now she mad at BM. She should’ve stayed with pink. I thank that BM that played her. I wish him good luck for 3 summers.
Alpha Widowed
Yawn Yawn
She’s not ready. She and the Kendra cousin aren’t over their ex. It’s said if you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with. They’re settling.
i wish you good luck.. dont let your trauma define your life choices... you were naive with that married man...
Naive at 33years old?! c'mon na
Stop making excuses for ADULTS who knowingly do dumb shit
Wow she rather sell out than deal with the brother man lol. 😮😆. Another one. And you wonder why the brothers be going overseas. She clearly messed up from the git. 😆 You never date someone until they are officially divorced. Because that gives him the opportunity to use you. Be aware of that. And then it sounds like he wanted somebody to stay at home for his benefit and not give you any money? That’s ridiculous. I don’t mind a wife that wants to work, more power to her. She clearly dodged a bad one. You can tell she is loyal af, and from Nigeria too lol
Sis you on black show looking for YT men 😅😅😅
A partner is for a business, not a relationship!! Leave those Tyrone's, Pookies and Ray-Ray's alone! She has no clue, a good man is a good man! She isn't ready for any type of a relationship!!
White men not marrying ya🤣 look at the stats
This woman needs to give it to God, love Him, put Him first, 🙏, love herself, and do things she loves to do to get herself back on her feet.
She’s not a victim .. 😂
That's why you have to vet good BEFORE You get in the relationship ma..Not After. Cmon now.
Good. Thank you to all the white men taking one for the team so us black men can focus on better options.
She dnt need any man right now.. she need to get better before she try n move on cause crying over ya ex while lookn for a new mate is a bit much🤨
As the kids say, go heal 🤕
She seems really sweet but predatory men are going to take advantage of her vulnerability… I had to learn the hard way
She got preyed on knowing that he was married? Girl bye
You are what you attract. Take a good look in the mirror.
A partner 😂😂😂....When you divorce its no longer partner 😂😂😂
Man she gonna be upppsseettt when she learn about all the bad things the yt man did and do 😂😂😂😢😢😢😢
You get mad at one black man and then jump ship huh??😂 good bye! 👋
She chose incorrectly.
Heal. Make better choices. She thought she would come here and get a fairytale US
Story. No ma’am. He was married you shouldn’t have even started with him.
Be accountable ma’am
When she started talking about the black guy that broke her heart, it just sounds like she came across typical, red-pilled variety. I think she should stay open to all races, but don't bash a race based on one toxic male that she chose at the end of the day.
That pill saved his life!
That was foolish getting engaged to a man going through a divorce.. Smh
Smh 😂😂😂 yea definitely not smart
Exactly because most men today once divorced never again.