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I'm so scared right now
@@GrannyMonstersame
That's like saying bipolar depression and depression are the same thing. They're very similar but very different
Engagement!
Woot!
I genuinely don’t think I could face my friends and family if, as a full-fledged adult in my 30s, I was posting this cringe DID faking stuff on TikTok :/ How do they expect anyone to take them seriously in the real world??
Thats fucking embarrassing as shit. I just turned 34 and i could never pull this shit. I have agoraphobia tho so the thought of putting myself out there in any way is a nightmare. These people dont even get the symptoms right.
But you see, you have self-awareness, and from that, I salute you.
i couldn't agree more 💯
Agreed 100%.. embarrassing to the MAX. I’d be in a hole in the ground to hide 😂
Right! I can't even imagine... talk about second hand embarrassment for these people irl.
she makes me cringe so hard, i self diagnosed myself with prostate cancer
"randy your balls!"
Listening to this faker gave me actual cancer 😂
Maybe you can create a new set of “protector” balls that will shield your balls from the cancer.
It kills me how badass she thinks she is
@@screw_it_why_not damn, good idea, you should be a doctor lmao
Oh my god that "they have me" video is just embarrassing! I have bipolar (diagnosed 10 years ago) and BPD (diagnosed 8 years ago) and I can't imagine anything more embarrassing than behaving like this on a public platform! I don't see how the people in their real lives can look at them without laughing their heads off!
Same! I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 1995 and BPD in 1999, and it took years for me to feel ok with telling people
Womp Womp cry yourself A river
They only way I would talk about my bipolar unless it's in a way that could help others.
Recently I had a therapist suggest that I should be tested for ADHD/ Autism. I'm like, I don't really want anymore diagnoses. I have Epilepsy and when people I barely know find our, I suddenly become fragile to them, so I don't want to be diagnosed with anything else.
Then a week ago, my mom was talking about how if I'm trouble focusing on one task at a time because of my ADHD. I don't have ADHD. So my mom said, "You were diagnosed at 13 when you were diagnosed with bipolar. I thought you knew" She did not tell me. Until last week. I'm 40yrs old. She said she must have forgotten.
To be fair, she did have a major stroke but that was 10yrs after I was diagnosed. WTF, mom?
I have the same two disorders. I hope you're doing well and I agree.
@@ChaosTheoriesLuxe IMO I think that’s really the only appropriate way to share your experiences (to help people). You are good people (but that prob doesn’t mean much from a stranger on the internet).
Sorry to hear about your situation with your mom. Despite the “WTF” of her past actions, I hope she thrives despite her stroke.
I also hope for you to continue to thrive and hope good things come to you!
Even tho I'm diagnosed with a bunch of things, I don't want to be part of any of those "communities"
Same. Online “support groups” were sooooo depressing. My family kept sending me links to join groups (years ago) , yeah, no thanks.
Not to mention if you're diagnosed with something "taboo" and/or disabling, in the real word you suffer discrimination. If you pretend online, you probably don't have that experience.
If you question any of the Rhetoric, you get shunned anyway.
I told my ADHD group that adults believing cognitive flaws are superpowers is a bit silly and that each diagnosis criteria is very generic when taken on its own.
They have not been supportive.
@@ChaosTheoriesLuxethis explains it perfectly im lowkey ashamed of my disorders i couldn't imagine putting all of them on display online like this
Just a short take: I’m a boomer born with 2 rare genetic disorders (both located on LXM1B), Nail-Patella Syndrome and Ehlers Danlos. A very short synopsis-I have NO nails..At all, no knee caps, just 1 kidney and a dozen other things including inability to regulate both serotonin and dopamine. There are probably close to 1000 NPS’rs around the world, but having both NPS & ED..me and my precious late son were the first written about in literature. Our case was even more rare because I had no family history of either-NPS is an autosomal dominant gene.
Now in my mid-60’s, I’m finding it almost impossible to find doctors who will take me. Where most ortho’s are now specialized to one area..my NPS is systemic, ALL of my joints are different than a normal persons and together with my degenerative connective tissue disease, I have worsening issues with my digestive system, my 1 kidney is failing, I don’t metabolize my needed medications normally, I’m legally blind from eye involvement..and my ADD and depression are off the charts. I’ve been on a waiting list for therapy and medication for 3 years.
One of our dear friends thought maybe doing a TT video, would bring enough attention that I could find SOMEONE to treat me.
Because of these frauds, her plan backfired. I was called a scammer, a fraud, trying to get attention for “fake diseases”, and the constant harassment, bullying and someone actually reported me to social security for supposedly faking my genetic disorders. My best friend’s husband almost knocked out a doctor when I was in the hospital. Someone told this doctor about the TT and she accused me of being an addict looking for pain medication. She demanded I be strip searched before leaving the hospital. I have no history of drug or alcohol use…but, unfortunately, I average 2 fractures/mo. I have to deal with the pain mostly on my own with Tylenol, heat and ice. (Although I did FINALLY find some gummies that help, I only use them at night and my primary doc threatened to drop me if I test positive for THC 🙄)
So, all you scumbags faking physical and mental illnesses for clout? Congratulations. You are hurting those of us who REALLY need help…and I’m not talking financial. Despite my situation, I’m fiercely independent and have NEVER asked for financial help. But as my friend told me, apparently anyone posting even educational videos as she did on her mild for of NPS-everyone thinks,assumes, we want money.
And as our healthcare system falls apart because it’s based on PROFIT rather than PATIENTS? I’m glad I won’t be around much longer.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I also have EDS (heavy vascular issues), extremely rare vascular compressions, severe autonomic dysfunction and more co morbidities than I have fingers. It’s so hard to get adequate treatment. I’ve had doctors actually tell me “we don’t know how to treat this”. Don’t give up!! You are your best advocate. If you haven’t, personally getting pharmacogenetic testing done, helped a lot. It proved that I do need higher doses of meds than most people (common in EDS folks). Keep swimming fellow zebra, you’ve got this! ❤
My mum accidentally got diagnosed with a rare disorder called schwannomatosis (it's considered a 3rd form of neurofibromatosis) when going for an MRI and there is zero family history of this as well. There are only 3-5 neurologists in Australia who can see patients with this. They had map out my mum's genetics to find out which gene has the fault as it's so rare that they don't know what gene causes it or if my mum even has schwannomatosis or another form of it. I'm very lucky I don't have the gene as there is no cure, it increases the risk of breast cancer, my mum is in so much pain every day with some tumours affecting her ability to control some of her limbs, the only management is physio and nerve blockers which aren't enough once you get older and you have a lot more tumours.
My brother has the gene so he needs yearly MRIs just like mum to monitor if he develops the disorder but if he does, he lives in the city that has a neurologist that can see him for it. If I had it, I'd have to fly interstate for my MRIs every year as there isn't a single neurologist here who can see me, and I live in one of Australia's 2 biggest cities.
My mum suffers every day. She loves hiking and now struggles, even with hiking sticks. She hates taking nerve blockers due to the side effects but is in so much pain she sometimes has no choice, and my mum has the highest pain tolerance I've ever seen. She had a tumour removed from her spine a few years ago and is still learning to walk properly again (oh and any tumours removed have to be sent to America for research because all the research for this disorder is done in America and they've previously only had 2 tumours sent for biopsy, that's how rare this is).
I thankfully have something well known and much more treatable (endometriosis and adenomyosis) however because of where my endo was, I have a fucked up nerve that some days partially paralyses my one leg and/or leaves me in so much pain I can't stand long enough to do more than walk to the toilet and have to work from bed.
It's not nearly as bad as what my mum has or what you have, but it is debilitating and seeing people fake disorders and wish they had physical and mental disabilities makes me furious because mum didn't ask for this pain, I did ask for this pain and I didn't ask for a brain that needs heaps of medication to function without psychosis or extreme highs where I've almost ended myself a few times when the delusions, auditory and tactile hallucinations became too much. I didn't ask for trauma so severe I can no longer trust people and am terrified just to leave my apartment and dissociate enough to have partial amnesia, bad enough that I have zero recollection of some people from my life that I spent years interacting with in school or I remember my entire day yet don't remember a person coming over or an action I did, almost like I have a drawing of a scene but erase one part of it so I remember everything but this one object or person present. I would gladly give it to these people with no take backs if they really wanted to be this mentally ill.
@@Cyntaria I am so sorry for what you and your mom are going through. Severe intractable pain is an absolute nightmare. As is having rare issues that are hard to treat. 😞 Are you getting treatment for your trauma? It sounds like you are really going through it. I hope you are able to have some healing ❤️🩹
So sorry about this nonsense. My experience is not as severe, but yes, because others abuse medications, I can not get what I need to be functional more days a week. I am grateful for the ones I do get, but the strain of having to push through some level of pain and anxiety solely because of others' abuse is frustrating, exhausting and causes bouts of depression.
WOW!! Thank you SO much. Listening to someone who not only explains DID, but in all honesty DID sounds legit scary!! I can't imagine facing another you with amnesia!!
OSDD and DID are conflicting diagnoses. OSDD is "Other Specified Dissasociative Disorder." It basically means "You have some kind of disassociative disorder but you don't tick enough boxes for a specific diagnosis and we need to treat you for something" If you have DID, your diagnosis is specified and can't be OSDD. It's basically "Mood disorder NOS" but for disassociative disorders.
Was just abt to comment this. I knew she was faking when i heard she claimed go have both diagnosis. If you’re going to fake something, at least research the bade minimum🤦🏾♀️
'They, have, ME' this person really thinking yeah that's badass lmfao
DID is such a rare disorder that I doubt any of the TikTokers actually have it. I think there's only been a handful of people diagnosed......ever.
It's 1.5% of the general population. Meanwhile schizophrenia is 1% or 1.1.
Not saying this to support the tik tokers but rather to show that it's definitely not just a handful. 1.1% means thousands.
@@Air_Serpentschizophrenia is only 0.32% of the population. Its interesting. I assume DID is higher due to DID being trauma induced and a man made disorder basically, whereas schizophrenia is genetic (and can be brought out thru trauma)
Well thats partially because of access to mental health help- but also yeah its really rare. Not so rare that “only a handful of people” have been diagnosed, thats exaggerating how rare it is by a lot lol.
Aint there always
Lol
As a 40yr old who diagnosed with MPD before it was renamed DID in the DSM and mental health community. I've had yrs of education and experience with this disorder as well as others I've been diagnosed with. I would personally like to sit face to face with the " Solar System ". She may suffer from a mental illness or psychological disorder but I don't believe it's DID or OCDD. One major tell she's faking is a person with true DID has no knowledge a switch is occurring nor do we know who we are switching as. During the time of disassociating the best way to explain it is like we leave our physical body, we lose the sense of time, and are unaware of our surroundings. I have no knowledge when I switch my kids will tell me what occurred when I come back to myself and after a switch most times you become fatigued, dizzy, confused, want to sleep,it makes you feel abnormal. No we don't cosplay, we don't name our personalities because we never know when it's going to happen and reality and disassociating are separate in the mind. My kids have named some of my personalities to help them cope with my disorder. I have a major issue with the tiktok DID community and them glorifying a disorder they know nothing about and think faking it for views and spreading misinformation some how gives them the attention they desperately need that they are not getting from their parents.
Womp Womp
Thank you SO much for sharing! I'm sure it must be difficult!!
My therapist and doctor and I are trying to figure out if I have this because this is the exact issue I’ve been dealing with,but I’ve got whole days at a time where I don’t remember what happened and where people have told me I acted differently during those periods, I’m exhausted after and I have no idea what happens when I go through it it’s scary and because of these people on TikTok I’m just refusing going to the doctor and just pretending it doesn’t happen.
@@airelee-rose8205that is definitely dissociation. I've got an extreme anxiety disorder that used to cause dissociation like that. It always happened during school. Very disorienting experience. It could be DID, but there are other disorders it could be a symptom of as well.
@@airelee-rose8205I encourage you to seek out a professional who can help you. You don't deserve to suffer because some silly people online have stigmatized what you may be experiencing.
I have BPD Im 37 , I never once danced or pranced about , how ever I did spent time in hospital on life support, I hid away, I was in a psych ward , I got into trouble with the police due to bad decision thinking and thats just a tiny part of my life...I wouldn't wish the countless battles I have with my own brain to any one . thankfully I have been safe and stable for 4 years and going to college how ever Im not silly I know I could have relapse, so I have to manage and learn as each day goes past.
These fools make a mockery of those suffering rite now, those who have left us and there families , it also makes life harder for us as every one now thinks we fake it and judge us .
I have bipolar disorder and BPD, both diagnosed in the 1990’s. I’ve gotten a bachelors degree, worked as a journalist and semiprofessional musician, and raised a wonderful son (he’s 15). When I was diagnosed with BPD, it was thought of as a disorder that was untreatable and I was told I would have a hard time ever having a career or family. Fortunately we now know that’s ridiculous. I wish you nothing but the best and I know that even though it can be very difficult, you can do whatever you set your mind to ❤️
@@ctobolsk thank you so much, that means a lot
I have BPD but it went undiagnosed for so long. It got worse from the wrong medications by my doctors (thinking it was bipolar). I've recently been diagnosed about 2 years ago now. It's been awful and the people who glamorize it on tiktok, hurts. I usually block those people but it doesn't get rid of the stigma. The only people who know of my hospitalizations are close friends and chosen family members.
these people make me irrationally angry every time
Lets be real here your anger is totally rational these tiktok fakers harm real people struggling with DID who cant get care because of the stigma that these fakers uphold.
It’s justified anger
This is why I don't see myself in this generation cuz what is wrong with these people? Are they too privileged to have real problems?
Yes
100%.
No some people deeply crave attention.
They cannot handle real problems.
every time she's says "and I'm not the person to mess with" i just go OoOoOoOoh, sooooo scary. I'm shaking in my boots over someone who looks like a gentle breeze will knock them down.
3:21 omg. Im so scared. Shaking in my boots. I will never disagree with you again! Youre right! Somebody help me! IM SO SKEERED OMG
Thank you @Ablaze for showing that the spreading of this misinformation is a problem, as someone diagnosed with DID myself, it has been difficult for me to get the help I need or be taken seriously.
You know what's not fun, cute or cool? Actually struggling with SMI. Everytime I go to the doctor I'm either written off, not believed, or told its all in my head. I've been in and out of hospitals since my late teens. I've been in jail a few times and I don't function well enough to hold a job. Faking an SMI for any reason is just gross. It adds to the stigma or makes those who are really struggling not feel like its bad enough to seek help. I honestly wish these people would get off the internet.
2:56 “listen I don’t have a whole lot to say to you” [50 seconds of a lot]
5:56 Also, if you’re not religious or whatever, that’s fine. You do you, but in my experience, 9/10 “religious trauma” is really just “church told me my sin is bad”.
@@ItsMeDorito right? lol
5:19 "Sad people aren't allowed to make jokes about being sad! What else am I supposed to make jokes about? I don't do anything else!"
Girlie, I say this as a fellow Millennial who's never been into "Millennial humor": Self-deprecating humor, "self-aware" humor, and trauma-related humor can be funny in limited doses at the right time. When you make it your ENTIRE PERSONALITY to joke about how sad you are, how much your life sucks, and how messed up you are, eventually people stop finding it funny and start viewing it as a cry for sympathy and attention.
Ablaze, thank you for wasting your brain cells to TikTok so we don’t have to :D
I have a friend on discord who has DID and autism. since I have autism I felt kinda happy knowing I'm not alone in this. just to find out they self diagnosed, make bots of EVERY alters they have, and is calling us diagnosed people privilaged
Ooooof... Being diagnosed isn't a privilege in my eyes. When you get diagnosed, it's because whatever you have has been negatively impacting your life so much, you do your best to get yourself diagnosed. People who willingly choose not to try to get diagnosed is because their issues are not impacting their life that much, they don't want to get help or medication because they won't be unique anymore, and a part of them believes they won't get the diagnoses they want. Being self-diagnosed should only be used to help yourself and not for "going around and telling everyone you have it to get sympathy points and a get-out-of-trouble-by-blaming-your-undiagnosed-mental-health card".
@@bluetiger2468 THIS FRFR, and the fact when someone told them they just got kicked from the server
@@ColourfulLeafSharki know being an asshole isn’t a disorder. But i diagnose them with it 😅.
@@manofmagic1803 BAHAHA
Wowww that is so dystopian. I feel like people are so desperate for others to see them as interesting, unique and intriguing. It’s like we can’t handle anything that’s remotely considered “basic”. Even when it comes to our brain function.
As someone with Autism and ADHD I can confirm that people who spread misinformation are absolutely causing harm.
i am undiagnosed but everyone in my life tells me i need to go seek out professional help. My mom and my spermdonor ((“dad”)) both have adhd and my mom has symptoms of HF autism. I have a feeling i do but i dont want to say that i do in case if i dont. But I want to state that this stuff actually hurts me too. I am traumatized, I am hurting. I have been diagnosed with PTSD, depression and anxiety. I wish that God will allow these people to seek out the help they truly need.
It feels like everybody and their mother has🧩 and ADHD.
Especially when criticized or challenged.
Don't get how these people get huge followings - spreading nonsense and misinformation and destroying other people's mental health :(
Because there are too many nitwits desperate to be special, so they latch on to these people and emulate them, creating an echo chamber where no one will question anyone else for fear of having their own lies questioned.
TikTok is crazy
I couldn’t imagine faking a disorder because that’s extremely harmful. I have Dystonia which is a muscle disorder and if I found out someone was faking to get views on online I would be absolutely disgusted
They don’t care who they hurt; they care that they get fame, clout, cash, and a get out of jail free card with minimal effort.
@@kaineandrews3790but then they would need an actual diagnosis for court. And they will attempt to fake it leading to them presenting symptoms wrongly , which will out them. 😅
As a person with severe childhood trauma that has severely harmed my adult life, it's absolute infuriating how it's down played and flaunted as desirable. I disaociate to exscape the triggering situation. Its not a choice. There is no memory of the time I've disaociated in. Thankfully, i dont have separate personalities and states of mind. I only disassociate and its not a fun thing. Its a survival thing. My abuse is pretty drastic. People have told me it sounds like a movie. And if i didnt end up with something like this through that, then those who do have DID went through 10xs worse than i ever saw. I cant fathom that. And you have to experience that trauma in very early years. How aweful. How sad. Its a horendous disorder with sickening back stories to each person who has it.
These people make me so mad. My best friend has LEGITIMATE mental health struggles (DID was ruled out early on) and people like this make it so hard for her to get a diagnosis so most things. The one diagnosis she does have took 2 years to get because the doctors have seen so many fakers.
Damn, I was JUST catching up on your latest two videos when I noticed you posted this 7 minutes ago. Talk about a coincidence lol
TIK TOK IS CRAZY 👾👾👾
I just saw an old video with her in it 💀💀💀 that threat tik tok still makes me laugh.
Yeah that whole segment was just her going all dark deception Helen Bierce mode. That voice was so “cinema villain” like tell me you’re acting without telling me you’re acting.
Tik tok is crazy. I refused to download when it first came out and every video since has solidified my decision of not downloading tik tok. And I am 33 so it is not a my parents won't let me or that I don't know how to download it
i don't suffer from DID, myself, but both BPD and CPTSD. i've read about DID and my heart goes out to those diagnosed with DID. i love you, please stay strong ♡
shes about as scary as a kitten in a dress
The fact you have more respect for these people than they have for communities they're allegedly apart of it.
Tik Tok IS crazy... but at least we have A-blaze to light the way 😉🤣
Oooooh, shiver me timbers 😂 she so scary. No disorder gives them an excuse to be a twat.
(I enjoy your videos, though I do miss seeing your reactions) 🩷
Hey! You make super cool videos thank you so much your videos make me happy I love you
Thanks for watching! Happy to hear you enjoy them :)
DID is so rare most ppl don’t actually have it. Find the right doctor and you can get papers…
Yeah, a lot of people don’t understand that you can literally just go doctor to doctor until someone who doesn’t care is just like: “Yeah sure you have DID.”
Those kinda doctors are the same bucket as the doctors that enable the opioid crisis. (Just my rando internet person opinion.)
Honestly, I'm glad these people are so open about their fake diagnoses. It let's me know not to even consider hiring them. Biggest red flag ever.
Hire me I'm not faking a mental health condition lol
Her information is slightly from Google almost word for word.
Got a feeling of deja vu from the intro; is this a reupload?
Otherwise I must have watched another one you posted where someone else claimed both DID and OSDD so I'm just gonna repeat what I said on that video:
You cannot, by definition, be diagnosed with both.
"Other Specified Dissociative Disorder" is a condition that's considered kind of a lesser degree severity of Dissociative Identity Disorder - the latter considered more severe with much more drastic barriers between alters (which, its important to note, means "altered state of consciousness" _NOT_ "alternate personality" so anyone pretending to be different people are already inaccurate)
By criteria, DID or OSDD require the exclusion of all other possible causes of dissociation - _including diagnoses of each other, mutually exclusive_
You literally cannot have both according to the DSM
In my opinion these people just list as many things tangential to what they may actually have to seem more legitimate or unique
Another banger!! Keep up the good work, Ablaze!
Man, having DIDTok must be exhausting. What if one alter changes a password and doesn’t remember it, and suddenly you’re locked out of your bank account, and then you realize another alter thought it’d be funny to transfer money to another account. 😂
DID is not a game or a joke, these creators make people who suffer true dissociation from trauma look like they have it easy.
Someone I knew who had this, ended up in jail later on in life because of this disorder. It was tragic.
I can tell the difference between real DID and bad actors, because an ex of mine literally had it diagnosed and needed disability for it and I tried to help him get that. 😢
TikTok is Crazy, I am so worried for my 13 year old brother who already uses depression and OCD as adjectives.... Unfortunately there isn't much mental health education only mental health misinformation
"they...have...mE" I literally shit my pants, I'm trembling in fear...😐
This is that person that’s always like “i’m so scary! Belphagor’s gonna getted you!” 🙄 She’s cosplaying a badass.
I never understood people who fake things, growing up I was shamed constantly because of my problems so I feel shame around it and hide everything from people I even cringe when my mother tells people
That whole weird ass bizarre fake villain speech it does is fucking unhinged.
ive struggled with dissociation since the age of 4, i grew up believing some of my alters were real people before my mother had told me otherwise (at 12), my response was to bawl my eyes out in utter confusion, this traumatized me and hurt and was scary to know, my mother tried telling child mental health services and telling my therapist years before i first got therapy and even when i started therapy and now will bring it up again when i meet my new therapist, im now almost 18 and completely ignored by medical professionals (and i dont mean ignored as in this has been discussed and they think i dont have it, i mean they literally dont want to help me and refuse to talk to me about it despite my own parent having evidence), people think this is a "fun" disorder to have, while i have no diagnosis, i cannot get help, i cant manage it and half my days go by without a single memory of it, i cant drive, i cant go to school and im strugglign to even find a job, i cant live by myself, and i have been hospitalized after major episodes with switching for several years (usually i am put on suicide watch, which is common for people with dissociative disorders.) i dont understand how these people think that its actually possible to remember to film themself during a switch, a switch literally only occurs when your trauma has been triggerered?? it makes 0 sense for ur alter to go "oh hey core identity wants us to film our switch and existence lol" when ur alter doesnt even have any memories of what u were doing before that switch, its literally not possible.
i cant speak for OSDD as much because MOST of my research I have done for myself was on DID, because i have the amnesia and struggle to remember my younger years despite the fact im not even 18 yet and i should remember my childhood. But its literally BASIC fucking knowledge that this disorder is not only life threatening (as in your alter could choose to take ur life at any moment and you have literally no knowledge or control over it, or you can really harm yourself), but exytremely hard to manage and live with, you cannot function like a normal human being without years of therapy, especially without proper help. these people also dont realise you need a diagnosis of C-PTSD to be diagnosed or have DID, because C-PTSD is one of the BIGGEST things within this disorder, this is a diagnosis I have, and when talking to my old therapist she had also said this was true, Ive also seen it mentioned in my research. NONE of these self-diagnosed tiktokers ever mention C-PTSD, which is a HUGE red flag. im also not talking about normal PTSD, the C stands for COMPLEX, its much more severe and complex then just average PTSD. you also have to undergo monitoring, and its easier if you have real evidence of your dissociative switches, you cant be diagnosed with DID/OSDD under the age of 18, your therapist will even have to see evidence themself at some point, its that complex of a disorder that the steps to an official diagnosis can take YEARS (especially if you're like me and arent getting any supports)
im tired of people on the internet pretending that having disorders that are literally life ruining is good and theyre "special" for it, despite the fact that none of us who actually struggle want to live this way, its depressing for us, these same people refuse therapy and medical professional help?? which is just stupid... because how are you going to officially know if you do not see a professional, and you cannot recover and manage without extensive therapy. they actively avoid getting help, and make it harder for people who do struggle because of the stereotype they create about us. most people dont even know they have it, theres some people who obviously do, but the ppl who just seem to know everyting about their system at such a young age is baffling, i literally didnt know until i was told by my parent, and i still dont even know that much about my own alters besides the evidence of names that we have and behaviours. its literally not possible for me to figure this out because im a kid and dont have the help, so its crazy seeing 14-18 year olds know absolutely every tiny little detail about each alter they have.......
munchausens is a disorder too, and it seems more and more people since 2019 have been developing it or atleast the delusional mindset similar to it.
Why do their "alters" always have names like something off My Little Pony? Not like, normal people names. It makes it so much more cringe
Here we go again
I was very recently diagnosed with DID, I am actually embarrassed of the diagnosis because of these TikTokers. Even with my therapist I refuse to use any terminology that relates to the disorder because it feels gross. Wild that when I was younger we didn't talk about mental illness because most people just didn't believe it was real, now we don't talk about it because so many people are faking, making up symptoms that don't even exist, and straight up mocking people who are truly suffering. DID absolutely blows, and it ain't cute.
I get you - as a therapist I want to bang my head against a brick wall - lol I do tiktoks in the vague hope that the tiny percentage in comparison watch them to see some not misinformation.
My sympathy with you, don't let these people take away from you your needs and I'm happy that you have a therapist that works with you in this way to enable you to feel comfortable with what you want to say and how you want to say it.
It's ruddy tough on you - and so I hope that you have also a support network - and can just ignore the idiots out there who are pretending and cosplaying something so very serious - and thank you for sharing on here so that people can read and see where you're coming from .... x
Well said!
you're lying
@@mynameselijah Your channel name is "callingstuffgay," should prob work on growing up.
@@LucyFurr6 made this account like 17 years ago when I was 15. it shows the immaturity I had. but at least I didn't make the mistake to lie and gate keep on the Internet about having an extremely rare and complicated mental disorder. that would be hella cringe
Is this a reupload of another video? I swear i have seen it before? It might just be me
That's like saying bipolar depression and depression are the same thing. They're very similar but very different
I don't talk about mine in depth... or really at all with anyone but my theripist and my 3 closest humans. Everyone else gets a mask to cope with the reality that I am learning to heal. The world doesn't need to be a part of that healing process. I can't imagine doing this or exaggerating my disorder for attention. I appreciate your videos.
The fact that thanks to these fakers, people are now going on to bully people that ACTUALLY have DID. Now I understand why the US wants TikTok banned.
I tend to take some claiming to have a diagnosis regarding conditions like this with a grain of salt, as there are no physical tests a psychiatrist or neurologist can do to definitively diagnose some people with these conditions. Often times, diagnosis comes after speaking with the patient regarding their symptoms and experiences, meaning that a lot goes into simply taking the word of the patient. In most cases, I sincerely doubt people go in and blatantly lie about what they're experiencing and going through - most people just want help, and I can see someone being happy about having a diagnosis they can now work toward mitigating or treating. However, that's not how these people behave... If they get a diagnosis, they flaunt it almost like a badge of honour; almost as if they've accomplished something more than discovering what they've been struggling with (almost like duping delight). Too many of them actually get WORSE following their "diagnosis", creating even more "alters" that they sort of roleplay with online...
If someone were attempting to guide their psychiatrist toward a specific condition they wanted to be diagnosed with, it would only take finding one inexperienced or naïve doctor to list off the symptoms you've studied online to receive said diagnosis. (ADHD is hardly the same as DID, but when I received my ADHD diagnosis, my neurologist had to base much of his conclusion off of what I told him I was experiencing, and prescribed me medication "to see if it would help my symptoms." Mental health is an incredibly difficult, nuanced field, and unless there is physical damage to the brain, a lot goes into taking the patients word for it.)
Now, I'm no psychiatrist, so my opinion on the matter is hardly valuable, but I think people faking disorders online probably suffer with a sort of Munchausen. Faking psychological disorders for attention falls into the realm of that sort of condition. I've only done rudimentary research into Munchausen, but a lot of the descriptions align with their behaviour online, and Munchausen can be extremely difficult to diagnosis, as often times the moment a psychiatrist or doctor begins to suspect the patient of having it, they'll drop the doctor immediately and find another one to help perpetrate the lie, repeating the cycle.
I genuinely don't understand how these people are not embarrassed to act like this.
This upsets me! One have you seen that women with D.I.D she fell apart on Dr Phil it was heart breaking because all she wanted was a normal life!
I've lived through horrendous trauma most is blocked but when a memory or a off hand comment a friend or colleague might say throws me off to where I've had to leave a room and call my sister! Another thing that can set of a traumatic memory is smell a certain smell might bring back horrendous memories. Sadly not all of my trauma memories are blocked and I try not to think of them and can only discuss with my sister as she was there most of the time. BTW I'm a fully functioning female who works a full time shift work and own my own home.
Take care everyone.
They always have 'themed names' like astronomy or whatever. What happened to good old Bob? Or Jimmy? No one has those names.
Another wonderful video from Ablaze! thank you for all the content ( I would answer your question but I feel like I have prior. It's wrong to make something into a joke essentially, to put it short)
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The levels of cringe. It’s all so terrible 😭 and they’re so scary. “DONT mess with ME!” 😤 shiver me timbers!
Wont lie if you make your whole tik tok about your disorder shouldnt bug you to prove it I dont go bragging about my issues but if i did showing the paperwork would bother me lol but hey what do i know i dont have D.I.D
Out of curiosity, how does one prove it? I have a diagnosis but I'm not posting my medical information online and getting doxxed.
@@bluskye7899 could post with you personal info blocked out
New video by ABLAZE, exactly what I need rn ❤❤❤
OK they are faking DID but their meltal healt how they act and speak tells a story show that their mental healt is not how it should, "the elivator dont go all the way to the top floor".
It's always hilarious to me watching people try so hard to be edgy, only to come out as hapless and harmless.
Wake up, babe! Ablaze just posted ❤
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if you see BPD and DID in the same info box. You know its fake.
Oh my giddy aunt! I think I am in another dimension and from what I understand, people even send them money, is that right? Why? Can I pay them to not post this crap to young , vulnerable kids? That I would gladly give to these merchant bankers. Cockney rhyming slang which I’m sure you can work that out 🤪🤪
Oooh...I will make an appointment to be shooketh at some point...🤣🙄🤭 tiktok is crazy man!
Thank you for making these. I hope someday people like that stop making videos because of people like you. I'm a content creator and I genuinely decided to not open up to my followers because of people like this. And not because of the videos but how D.I.D. is now perceived. I'm sure there's a lot of kids out there using these videos as a blueprint. So they try to emulate the behavior to feel validated. And the validation isn't associated with D.I.D. it's just validation. Some people want to exist, even if it means they have to be someone else to do so. It's...a human thing at the end of the day. Our true genuine need to connect with other people. Some people do it subtly, and some people throw everything at the wall just to see what sticks. ❤
“i am NOT the person to mess with-“🤓
Maybe I'm uneducated but I'm under the impression you can cure DID with a lot of therapy, medication, and self-discovery. I thought DID is caused by child-hood trauma. Stuff caused by trauma has the potential to be cured by overcoming that trauma, but something like autism can only be treated, not cured. 17:53 She's implying that OSDD is something she was born with and can't cure similar to autism. Or maybe she's implying that she thinks autism is something that comes from childhood trauma? Either way, it's really weird to compare something you are born with (autism) to something you are not born with, and you can only get due to childhood trauma (OSDD/DID).
I mistook my schizophrenia for DID so i joined the instagram community at a low point in life and met my ex there who was proven to have lied about traumas like about being an orphan
Oh my giddy aunt! I think I am in another dimension and from what I understand, people even send them money, is that right? Why? Can I pay them to not post this crap to young , vulnerable kids? That I would gladly give to these merchant bankers. Cockney rhyming slang which I’m sure you can work that out 🤪🤪
Hey, want to cover the absolute crap that the FDC sub has become from power mods and inactive mods, and blatant misinformation about more understood disorders such as depression and anxiety? I would love a call out and they seem to respect you.
I heard a term called 'munchausen by internet' (apparently its been around for over 20 years) but it makes so much sense right now with all of this stuff.
Their fake DID attention lady of the street type of cringe is making my actual DID roll their eyes so far back you'd think she is possessed 😂😂 it's so bad even my technically made-up persona and defense mechanism is making fun of you haha
Whomp whomp :/
Im diagnosed and medicated for depression and anxiety and when a low mood hots is grim, and gritty and taxing. Id give anything to not need meds and therapy to function, these people who make mental health a joke to cosplay and make fun stories about themselves really ruin it for the rest of us since its it gives the wrong impression.
just say that you need attention don't use names and funny voices calling them alters its scary because the pain someone went through that is just sick. No words just tears for those who fight with something everyday.
Why did you keep that creepy music going while the lady was talking and answering your questions? Really weird choice imo.
The craziest thing about this woman is that she makes these cringe edgelord videos thinking she is badass, watches them back, edits them and still goes "this is great stuff to post online".
I think these people have confused DID with D&D. I'm a chaotic/neutral dark elf with ADHD!
No one understands yourself better than yourself, but then, we all have a hard time being HONEST when we see something we don't like about ourselves.
When that happens, things like creating videos with lies, trying to convince everyone of falsehoods may be the next step, like I suspect happened with her.
I weigh like 110 pounds and I’m just barely shy of 5‘5“ and I’m about to be 35 in a few days I am small and my back hurts near constantly and I struggle to feel intimidated by that tempest display. I wish people would stop trying to have what is an extremely hard thing to live with. Nobody is out here pretending to have physical and visible disabilities they don’t have (well not nobody but most people don’t) they choose to go after invisible illnesses. It’s kinda like saying you have endometriosis (incredibly hard to get taken seriously until you have the scans and invasive tests to prove it) because it’s not something you immediately see. They’re trying to make DID fun and quirky and there’s nothing fun and quirky to be found about actually having it. I don’t have it so I can only speak from my perspective but from what I’ve seen from people who actually have it seems extremely rough to deal with. The people that have this are strong as heck for sure to be able to live with this.
If somoen has a serious disorder like did or any disorder that can messes with your life wouldend they rather not have the world know they have it im not saying they hide it but more like its not the attention seeking look at me energy like solar system is showing
Oooo weee i know I'm different but I'm not that different lol im a human being. I dont have D.I.D LOL
3:55 MID 30s?????? i thought she's a teenager with the way she be acting...
So I don’t have TikTok thank goodness. I have DID. I don’t have a system, I had no clue I had it. For me it was lost time, meeting people that know me and I don’t know them. My alters are formed by trauma and are the age I was when the trauma had happened. It doesn’t go away you learn to deal and have therapy.
“What else am I supposed to joke about? I don’t do anything else” that’s depressing
I’ve also noticed an uptick in people saying they have fibromyalgia. It’s an easy chronic illness that is easy to fake bc the criteria is easy to mimic as it’s a newer disorder. It’s also something I was diagnosed a decade ago with. It’s hell to shower or even be hugged or touched. People use the “fog” as their criteria when it’s so much worse.
It’s so frustrating, I have a nervous system related pain disorder that’s pretty adjacent to fibromyalgia so seeing it be downplayed is really frustrating
Yes, thank you for stating this. The assessments for it hurt like hell. 👍 thank you for standing.
Ugh, can I get someone to hold my trauma for a bit?
I 'm pretty sure she does not have OSDD nor DID she is clearly role playing
This shit right here makes me so embarrassed of having DID these people make a joke of it, pisses me off
Though I missed your lighthearted content, I understand this topic is to be handled with care. And you did a great job on that
I would give away my multitude of “rare” chronic illnesses in a heartbeat, but I guarantee these Tik Tokers would give it back immediately. 😅
Great video sir ablaze.😊
Tiktok is crazy!! 💀 I’m so glad i deleted the app years ago