TikTok's Worst Faker Is Insane (The A System)
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i'm now scared that my therapist wants me diagnosed with DID like honestly with all the fakers out there i'm quite concerned for my safety ((this is a big reason i don't post stuff on TikTok))
I'm dignoised with did and used to post a lot about it cause of the a system and it really messed up everything more for me personally. These people are sick and disgusting manipulating children
If you ever need medical commentary, please ask. This video was torture for me.⚕
I still don't understand why people are faking disorders... like having a disorder is not fun and quirky.
Because it's trendy and it gets them clicks. There's no other reason
They want the views, and they can only think of glamorizing a disorder that is caused by extreme trauma to get them.
every commenter has disorders
They aren't faking anymore. Now, it's straight-up mocking
Because just being emo or goth or punk isnt enough anymore it seems
To switch 100 times a day he would have to do it on average every 15 minutes, including the time he should be sleeping. Fakers really don't think this through
Idiotic.
To be fair, switches can happen very rapidly, or very slowly. So they could switch several times in a few minutes, then not switch for quite a while.
Also the fact that they would not be able to function in normal society. How does he live alone with a decent house if he's changing persona every 15 minutes?
This person is not faking my mom knows them personally and so do I and they do have did
@@dollbunthe1st this!! I was so confused when this video came in my feed. This system even makes videos about pointing out DID fakers and raising awareness... like yes faking is a problem but 1. It's not 2020 anymore its not even popular and 2. Just because some people online pretend doesn't make that immediate proof that everyone does??? It really pisses me off.
I am a nurse, I deal with DID... None of this is a DID characteristic. However, if you do claim a disease you do not have; that is a form of clinical narcissism. So either way, seek help soon. If you or some one you love is depressed or feeling suicidal, just dial 998. My last patient identified as 5 people. One ultimately starved the others out. DID is NOT a joke! Stop pretending that you have a disease that can ultimately kill a person! We NEVER use terms like alters or protectors unless we are making personal notes to denote personality type. We NEVER tell a patient that one personality is higher than the other!
Thank you! Loved the bluntness of your comment... simple facts.
I would agree about the clinical narcissism or maybe even other diagnoses for somebody who claims to have a mental illness if it weren't for the fact that they are on TikTok. I think the majority of these people do it for the money and attention. Attention seeking is narcissistic behavior, but I don't necessarily think all these people are narcissists. I really think this is just a byproduct of a generation growing up on social media. It's almost like it's the only way these people know how to function nowadays.
@@lostineggsaisle I agree they do it for clout. That's why I spammed health care facts on it. :P These are people with narcissism looking for their sunshine.
@@NoContext83 Without the facts these idiots continue to romanticize some one doing stupid harmful sh*t on TikTok. I see people die from DID. But I guess that ugly f*cking Tesla is more important to some of them.. They don't watch their aftermath.
@@lostineggsaisle This should never be downplayed as a byproduct. This is behavior that should never occour
It’s one thing for teens on tiktok to be faking DID and other mental illnesses, but to be a fully grown adult profiting off of their naivety is pretty low :/ The A system’s whole grift is actually pathetic.
retro i love your channelll
What’s even more pathetic is him greasing the wheels of the /r/FDC subreddit mods so that no posts referencing him were allowed.
Teenagers shouldn't be doing it-you think it's OK for teenagers to basically take the P?No one should be doing it!
I'm not that far into the video and I'm surprised/devastated to hear that a grown adult would engage in this kind of behaviour. I've seen their content every now and again, it's popped up on my for you page. Never really looked into them, though.
This person is not faking my mom knows them personally and so do I and they do have did
The way he moves his eyebrows as "April" makes me so irrationally angry 😭
Nah ur not being irrational. I completely get u and this shit pisses me off
help i cant unsee it now
One dangerous thing about these DID fakers is that they emphasise their "alters" being completely different characters. Yes, in people with DID alters can seem as though they're very different people in one body, but part of the therapy for DID is creating a connection between those alters and attempting to create a whole personality which fuses those different alters instead of them behaving independently. The therapy also involves helping the sufferer tolerate triggers and face them without switching. These fakers literally encourage the opposite of that.
Well said.
Thank you for sharing this. Really helpful info for someone like me who doesn't know a lot about DID.
My understanding was always that DID wasn't like 20 people in one body, it's more like one person split into 20 parts. All this crazy talk of switching on demand and new outfits and hair really had me questioning myself....
@@jasmindisney8787 That's exactly it. Non-DID sufferers have what would be considered sub-personalities. There are different parts of all of us that might desire different things and might cause us to act differently in all sorts of situations. In people with DID those parts are more fragmented from the whole. LARPing as someone with multiple entirely different identities with their own personalities inside of you just makes a mockery out of people who actually do have DID
@@LexNonARegeEstViolanda
Dissociation isn't fun or quirky. It's heartbreaking and sad.
Exactly. It's literally your brain protecting you from something that it thinks you can't handle because you've already endured too much
@@callanightshade8079 Multiple crime dramas have touched on the subject. Pretty sure the writers do real research to figure out how to properly portray the disorder. It would make sense.
Like literally. Literally .
@@callanightshade8079 yeah it feels terrible seeing people treat it like a card collecting game
i don't really know if i have a dissociative disorder but the things pointing me to talk to professionals about it are disturbing, life altering effects of whatever I'm experiencing. I had to have others key me in to the idea that I might be doing something related to this, and it wasn't because of a quirky fronting or something silly like that. I'm honestly afraid of even approaching the issue because it requires me to process events that I locked away because the pain was so great. I'm not saying it's something to hide, or that fronting isn't a thing, but it's honestly terrible to make it out to be a fun lil part of someone rather than an indication that they will probably need a LOT more support than the average person. Idk i hope i'm not being offensive
i'm just going off of information i've researched and stuff a diagnosed system said
This person is not faking my mom knows them personally and so do I and they do have did
These people are so incredibly ableist as well when they fake these disorders, it's so messed up.
I used to not be able to scroll TT without him coming up all the time maybe a year or so ago, it's alien to see someone finally talking about it just now.
Fr?? I have literally never seen this guy
Right like I almost believed it cuz no one said anything. Almost cuz he seemed sus
The A system is pretending to be a teen... the real question is when will he get exposed for grooming and blame it on an alter?
i was mutuals with them on tiktok and they tried to convince me i had DID too… it mostly worked. i was 13, i never thought i’d see them again though so this video coming up on my recommended was crazy
That is a very legitimate problem to discuss. It's common for alters to have varying ages and act accordingly but there is also a thing called system accountability where the whole system has to be held accountable for harming other people. As a healthy system you cannot commit a crime and blame it on one alter and expect there to be no consequences. If the A system ever does a crime, the whole system is accountable.
@EliasBeeker it is also harder to blame an alter when you are a grown ass adult faking a disorder on tiktok for views. The A system is a fraud and it will come out with the inevitable grooming scandal.
@@w3ts0ck69jeez 😬
I'm autistic. I was diagnosed the traditional way -- you know, through medical doctors and psychologists. I recently made a trip to see my mother (she lives where I used to live, but I moved to a different state with my wife to be close to her parents, who at the time were experiencing health problems) and I visited with an old friend and her husband (also an old friend). As we chatted, she casually told me that she's autistic. I was taken aback, because I've known her for over 30 years and this is the first time the topic has ever been raised. I asked her how she found out, and she told me it was a combination of Google searches and watching...TikTok videos. Well, it was TikTok videos posted to Instagram. I knew instantly what sort of videos she was talking about. I didn't want to argue with her or make a scene, so I kind of smiled and nodded but I was pretty upset. It just feels wrong. I can't quantify why. There's nothing wrong with watching videos and thinking maybe you have symptoms, and then going to your doctor and asking if those symptoms are in line with the disease or condition, but just relying on random people on social media as a source of a diagnosis who aren't medical professionals can be potentially dangerous, depending on the condition. I think what I'm feeling about it is that it diminishes my experiences and what I've gone through, just to say that now a person has the same condition because they watched some videos.
Man, you did well. Maybe it’s because I’m still very young, but I cannot lie to people on the spot like that, would’ve instantly called her out. It’s something I’ve been working on with my doctor for a while now 😂
I can relate - I actually am embarrassed and don’t like people knowing, whilst it used to be helpful for people to understand me better, now I feel reserved incase people assume I’m self-diagnosed from the internet trends.
This is one of the reasons I'm scared to suspect if I'm autistic or not, i did see videos on tik tok, and I also did my own research to fully understand some things, but I want to get an assessment to see so I am able to know that's what's going on. I've been diagnosed with ADHD and I know that sometimes there can be an overlap with autism, and that is what I want to find out, whenever I get the assessment of whether I am or not, that's ok, I just want to understand my mind more and have an explanation for the things that aren't really ADHD but it's not "normal" either.
I have an autoimmune neurological disorder and I absolutely get where you’re coming from. I’ve had so many people tell me they have x disease because Google told them so. My method of dealing with it is to immediately ask in a very polite way what doctor do they go to. If they are legitimately diagnosed they are happy to share or if they truly want help they are interested in discussing what they can do and are doing. The ones that are just interested in the attention normally drop it and change the conversation. It gets the point across in a completely non confrontational manner. It can be so frustrating and demoralizing.
and the winner of the oppression olympics is....
Im currently undergoing talking to my psychiatrist about testing for a personality disorder, and even just the thought of it is terrifying. Anytime i have lost time, i come back confused and scared, have a headache, feeling sick off and on, or even have feelings as if im not real or shouldnt be here, hell half the time i dont even know where i am or how i got there. Not to mention the constant fear that im faking it, considering an er doctor told me my seizures were being faked, despite being diagnosed with Dissociative seizures by a neurologist. Its honestly terrifying. These people absolutely baffle me with the way they act especially since they know theyre faking. It makes me so uncomfortable and upset to see.
Sounds like you’re faking… DID isn’t a personality disorder. You can’t even get your facts straight
@@valeriaramirez2586 Terrible recommendation. The guy was a fucking idiot who shouldn't have given advice to anyone.
I have different conditions, but I totally understand the struggle of thinking you may be faking. Takes a while to get past, it's been years now since my diagnosis for a functional movement disorder and I still doubt myself sometimes. Don't pay doctors like that any mind, as there are many ER doctors that were taught like GP's but for emergency care. Your neurologist would know best because that is their specialty. If you worry that you could somehow be faking it without knowing you are, that's a great sign that you aren't faking it at all. You would know that the frustration and loss of control isn't something you would choose. So keep your head up, and good luck on your future endeavors.
@@valeriaramirez2586 lol that guy is so rabidly anti LGBT, nobody should be listening to him.
Best of luck to you! I dealt with heavy disassociation due to trauma and I’m happy to say with medicine, therapy, and time, I’m way better than where I was. So it can happen with the right doctors, diagnosis, medicine, and time. ❤
He and others, think that "switching" and having "alters" is like the emotions in "inside out" movie.
everyone just hangin out in some lobby while one has their hands on the controls.
It's so damn pathetic of them to continue to mock or "imitate" these disorders for the sake of their grift.
I have DID and inside out is actually how I explain it to people. It really is a lot like that. We have an inner world where alter and host alike live and interact with the outside world. Inside out is one of my favorite movies for trying to explain DID, it does a better job then a train wreck like Split does
@@EliasBeeker No. That's not how it works. You're a faker just like this dude. DID isn't little an episode of "Friends" where everyone's just sitting on a couch hanging out with each other. All you're doing is embarrassing yourself.
That's exactly how my friend explained their DID to me
That's exactly how my friend explained it to me
@@EliasBeekerJesus Christ. Touch grass. Inner worlds aren’t a thing, want to know why? One brain can’t have multiple personalities concious at the one time HENCE amnesia is the main symptom of DID.
How on earth would an alter come forward for no reason and then recognizing that they were an alter in a system body and say shit like 'oh hey I'm Asher I'm an alter blah blah blah', that's so not how that works...
This person is not faking my mom knows them personally and so do I and they do have did
@@dollbunthe1sthow did your mom meet them and how long has she known them?
Yes, because MPD/DID is a phenomena that's only been entertained in the US/UK and the resounding sentiment in the field of psychology is that it doesn't genuinely exist at all. And definitely not on social media
@@dollbunthe1st I know your mom too, yes she's a little flighty and a liar but I've met worse people, tell her I said hello.. and to keep going to therapy 🤷🏻♀️
@@meganwalker27lmfao 💀💀💀
As someone who grew up with a family member diagnosed with DID from a young age, it's a disorder that engulfs the persons whole life and makes it truly difficult for those affected and their family members to cope with and get to a place of healing. Faking something like this for views is truly deplorable. "Switching" alters on demand (especially for a donation) is not only not how it works, it's seeking monetary gain on the back of a real disorder the many people suffer from... They should be ashamed.
I don’t know how they sleep at night. It’s abhorrent.
My little sister was dx in 94. She's 52 now and she lives on the street. She's never driven a car, has never been able to hold a job and she gets very violent. It has messed my family up in so many ways. These fakers are disgusting.
How did they get diagnosed at a young age? The average age for a DID diagnosis is 30s according to mental health professionals. Genuinely curious. I
@@imitationsofmyselfthey self diagnose themselves
from what I understand D.I.D actually develops in childhood usually due to severe repeated abuse , trauma. A young developing mind trying to protect itself during severe abuse. You may have heard survivors of childhood abuse talking about leaving their body etc… the disorder is self protection and is the reason for amnesia and memory loss. ‘Switching’ away from a traumatic event etc The reason for later diagnosis I think is down to the fact that even a few decades ago abuse wasn’t detected as often. So many young people can go years not even knowing what is happening with them, not until they have had years of mental health issues they finally get diagnosed. Abuse is often hidden, many people don’t even talk about things like that until later in life. So I assume that is why diagnosis is usually in 30’s. It’s just such a sad disorder for anyone dealing with it. If we could find all children dealing with extreme trauma young enough to help them and get them mental health maybe this disorder could be prevented. Sadly many young people do not escape abuse until they are old enough to leave home etc… 😢
25:15 You know they're faking mental disorders when they call depression, "The Big Sad" for views and likes.
i have depression and have had it for like 7 years or so, and i called it "the big sad" just to give me a little seretonin. id NEVER call it that online.
@@TheNapTakerSame here except I call my Social Anxiety Disorder “the big SAD” since the acronym for it literally is a big sad. I’ll only call it that around really close friends and family though.
I call my depression and having *those* thoughts “Gettin’ a lil too silly” but I never say that out loud. It’s just a stupid minutely effective way to cope with comedy.
@@clairebear1519 Yes, exactly.
@@TheNapTaker Same here, I felt that he was pretending for views.
Should be a criminal charge, plenty of people that have faked cancer and had funds donated have gone to jail & had to payback the $.
At the very least banned from YT.
Fr. Like if faking a hostage situation or faking a SA situation if illegal why can’t this be too? They are taking up resources that could be used for ACTUAL patients. Shouldn’t that be some form of stealing or abusing these systems
Ohh... I haven't thought about it like that
Pretty sure if someone could prove the money that was raised for charity never went to a charity they could be tried for fraud.
@@MaskedLark did you read the comment? It talks about being charged for theft/fraud and some going to jail…
its people like this that make people with actual mental health issues have such a hard time. when i was going to therapy for depressive episodes and severe anxiety, i was so worried that people would say im faking for attention and well...i was told i was too "happy". these people have no idea how hard it is to actually have these issues, they collect them like pokemon.
Exactly. I suffer from panic attacks and seeing people (being arrested for example) faking something that truly affects people’s wellbeing and health not to mention those around us being affected - it makes me sad and really pissed off. People are attention seeking in the wrong ways. It’s pretty pathetic.
@@nonprofitgirl yes! I also used to get major panic attacks (I was going to therapy for that as well) and I would get them everyday. I would be silent, do my tasks, and not tell anyone. So when I told these ppl who I thought were my friends and they said I was too "happy" to have a severe panic attack every morning, I was heart broken. I started to feel like I was faking and maybe it was all in my head. I have this problem where I think im faking my pain and the things I'm feeling, so I have a hard time even realizing I have an actual problem. I don't want to be a faker. It genuinely makes my heart hurt when I think im faking what I'm feeling. Yet these people do it for a living as a form of attention. Crazy...
Facts
I have claustrophobia too many people in any place or I go into a small space without knowing I burst into tears and start looking for an exit
I know what you're saying-I had an appointment with my specialist, so I thought I'll try and make a bit of an effort.About 5min in he actually said to me how can you be depressed? I had an eating disorder for 32yrs and put some weight on (I only got to talk to my specialist)I told her I was worried my old habits would come back and I was told I was a long way from being anor**ic-i was 5.6st at certain points?!
These people give alters "roles" like they're a fuckin werewolf pack from an early 2010's werewolf novel. (alphas, betas, omegas, etc)
alters actually do have roles though (if I remember correctly), like the protector protects the body from harmful situations or the caretaker helps takes care of the body (or any young alters the person with did may have), i may be wrong though so probably check with people that do have DID or research about it
It's a common structure in the study of DID to look a certain alters that have similar traits as having roles. there are protectors who handle most of the trauma as it happens, littles that retain a childlike state because DID forms in early childhood. Caretakers who tend to the needs of the host and the littles because the trauma takes place in childhood often the system never had anyone who properly cared for them and gatekeepers who manage the amnesia barriers and who fronts. These are medically recognized classifications to help systems manage alters and help with coping mechanisms
I am a system and I give "roles" to organize everything and make life better
@@S1lly-l4d There are roles that alters tend to fit into, but it's not uncommon for an altar to not really fit into a role or for their role to not be understood.
@@sadlittleratboy ohhh okay, I don't really know much about did because I've only learned from friends
I personally didn’t even know the A system was a fake. I guess I never really thought about it too much as someone who didn’t know anything about the disorder. I used to follow them a couple years ago but watching this video was a real eye opener.
He is one dude faking multiple personalities, he is not a them.
i feel the same way honestly- 😭
Can I ask you how old you are?
they're not fake the person in the video is just spewing bs. I figured that out when he claimed the A system claims to be a teen and didn't even give proof. People who actually have DID get fake claimed all the time and it's harmful to give into it off of baseless claims.
@@FuzzPit”fakeclaimed” ok
I am a type 2 bipolar, been on meds for years. It nearly caused my wife to leave with my kids. It causes deep guilt when the rage hits. There has never been a time where I've been filming a tiktok that it has spiked. And if I WAS, I assure you that shit would never see the light of day...because it isn't something I'm proud of. It isnt something I want to share with the world.
And it frustrates me when people use it for clout or money or an excuse to be a criminal. That is why they have meds and therapy.
Guys like this drive me sane, I swear.
Except, Bipolar is completely different from DID, while I agree that A system's behavior is problematic if just straight up unacceptable, saying that it can't be caught on camera isn't entirely accurate. I have DID, I don't switch often but I could ask an alter to switch, in fact I have for an interview in a paper that will be published later on this year. I accept that DID is a part of my life and I feel neither shame nor pride. It is the same as anything else for me. I feel disgusted by someone using a disorder (real or not I don't care) for clout, and violated because this is a disorder *I have* and have already struggled enough trying to prove it to family and friends without having someone use it for money but I do think it is reasonable to say it can be caught on camera
if you were filming, wouldn’t you be like,” oh shit how’s not a good time to record” and then record however long it takes for you to go back to normal/comfortable?
Be strong and stay on your meds. If your meds are making you suffer always call and complain to your doctor. Trust me, I'm 34 years old and had bipolar 1 and with constant therapy I now have only bipolar 2. Rapid cycling is common for me but it's safer for myself and those around me.
@@EliasBeekerit's not as different as you think. Bipolar people often have severe cptsd(thanks mom and dad), and we can black out or disassociate as well. We also can appear to have different personalities.
Little lesson on DID as a person who prior suffered dissociative fugue (informal DID diagnosis years after resolution of symptoms i.e. I got better because I got out of the abuse and became more aware that I randomly disappeared) and who is studying for their grad. Degree in psych and soc- 100 switches is insane and in the time frame shown between switches, he would not be so calm or well structured in the representation, nor should he have the cross awareness in a full switch state to understand fully what is going on even if this switching is at will (at will switching is actually a thing in the disorder but more complex and timely then displayed). In most research where people fully confirmed and assessed multiple times to confirm the diagnosis during the process of the research, the interviews and psychotherapy where specific triggers for switching are addressed (discussing or having trauma brought up) over 4 hour period where the whole goal IS to trigger switching, the average amount of time 1 DID patient switches is 5.8 times. This only occurs during the stressful portions (some of the research actually reads like bullying a participant to force the switch)
In phenomenological analysis of the confirmation of true vs False-positive DID diagnosis vs personality disorder, there are across the board key indicators of malingering vs true DID where the patients malingering all show 5 main themes: 1) the disorder becomes their main focus of self-identity, 2) The disorder becomes their way justifing different ego-states and the confusion or conflicting ideals or emotions the nuance of human cognition and self-discovery can cause, 3) the identified symptoms and objective/subjective assessments gets better (they check more boxes for having the disorder) the more educated on the disorder they become/are, 4) The disorder/its symptoms is the main focus of discussion with others and last but most relavent 5) telling them clinically that they don't have DID leads them to be disappointed and/or angry with clinical care providers with a high likelihood that the person will dismiss all care givers that don't follow the narrative the patient wants. Typically going as far as to say all care providers are incorrect (even specialized providers in the disorder) vs continuous treatment or 2nd opinions to find the underlying cause of the symptomolgy. (Please use Google scholar and sort for research from 2020 to present for further confirmation of this information if you want to further educate)
Mental health and those that fake specific disorders are on the top of my list for things I will never not write novel long comments on. It's harmful to those with disorders to see this representation, it's harmful to the public perception of the disorder to have this be the representation, and it doesn't allow the faker to get to the root cause of their need to be malingering and treat or help heal whatever their true underlying issue may be.
I completely agree. There is a lot about the A system that strikes me as odd (I have gone through the medical route of getting a diagnosis for DID) but I think that the video also has a lot of misinformation in it. Positive switches are absolutely a thing and can be perfectly healthy I agree that 100 switches in a day is unbelievable. I can go weeks without a switch or on really switchy trauma days I have around 10. I normally stay off faking DID videos because there's so much misinformation on both sides of the video and I'm terrified of being called a faker or being yelled at when I try to inform people in the comments. I really appreciate your comment and I can agree, especially the switches for donations seems so crazy and fetishizing. It freaks me out I'm ngl.
it’s really sad to see so many people thinking it’s a quirky character trait, like no, i was so scared when i was younger thinking i had some sort of early onset dementia because of the time loss i experience from dissociation.
These ridiculous people are so disrespectful to actual sufferers of mental illnesses.
First thought if he said that he is switching 100x a day: How is he still able to work with all the amnesia and not tiered af in the bed maybe with headache like hell....
He quit his job to grift full time. He used to be a janitor for years with no issue before he decided he had DID.
This person is not faking my mom knows them personally and so do I and they do have did
Let me guess how he got dignose: he was famous on TikTok for his DID content. So he went to any doc, said he has DID and has alts, after 1h the doc said "gtfo, here you have your paper with DID and pls never come back"
@@holyxanax copy/pasting my other comment about his diagnosis history.
"He joined a DID FB group and said he had just heard of DID and thought he had it. 2 weeks later he claimed he was fully diagnosed and it later came out that the "diagnosis" was from BetterHelp. When people called him out on that he claimed it was a BetterHelp psychiatrist who saw him privately and was a specialist in DID. In 2 weeks he met the BetterHelp psych, saw her outside the app and was diagnosed with a supposedly super super rare mental illness? No sis, no."
Sure you do, buddy 😮💨
The "round robin" series of theirs always irked me with how it seemed to take place in the span of like, 10 mins and yet everybody "switched" in and tried whatever food they were testing
I know!!! It makes no sense. Not only the switching but the fact they can have such drastically different results. Your taste buds aren't changing. I don't get how one can absolutely love it, and the next one despises it to the point of having to wash their mouth out. It wouldn't be that drastic. It's all so performative.
Hi. Person in therapy here for DID. My therapist is working with me on this, but I just wanna say this-
Rapid switching is extremely painful. It's physically atrocious. Especially when the stressful situation gets worse. My chest hurts, my head hurts, my bones hurt, aaaaaall it hurts.
People faking this disorder shouldn't be. They shouldn't glamorize it, or even post in videos.
My therapist and I discuss this often, but then there is the argument of "fakeclaiming"
But as someone who is in deep, painfully slow therapy for this... no, sweetie. Faking trauma responses isn't cute or quirky.
If switching 100 times a day was possible, I would be rendered catatonic and in the hospital.
Side note: the therapy is excruciatingly slow and mind numbing, and as lots of baggage has to be unpacked. This is why I only use Tik Tok for anime shit 😒
You said everything I was thinking! Like I wish it was fake and for money, instead of being real and disabling. This is not fun and cute 😭😭
anyone that comes forward and says they have DID immediately gets fake claimed because of these people but also the people who make these kinds of videos
Anyone posting on TikTok talking about alters and being a system certainly is faking. The way any of these people try and present DID is wrong, no one that has DID is using trend words like system or alter or host.
@@brackenrobertson799there is some that are real. I use some leniently because at this point theyre nearly all faking. But Ablaze had one woman who actually has it on his video helping him disprove these videos
@brackenrobertson799 thank you, say it louder please.
@@brackenrobertson799 The CTAD Clinic and Dr Mike Lloyd, who treats DID, use the words "system", "alter", and "host" in their UA-cam videos all the time. Is the CTAD Clinic fake too?
@@SemanticPedanticTHANK YOU. Someone referencing an actual professional. God there are so many people here from both sides claiming to know things when they really don't.
I had DID( fully integrated for over 10 years now), I never bring it up online. I wouldn't be believed because of people like this. I never bring up anything related to my mental health or issues that I struggle with. I'm afraid of being called fake and it's sad that people like this did that to people who are struggling.
It makes me afraid of getting help because I don't want to be seen like them
I’m so sorry that people like this have made you feel like you can’t be seen and heard. I’ve recently been very interested in learning about this disorder and can find very little from people who actually have it because of awful people like this.
I don’t have DID but I do have adhd, and while they are very different disorders, I struggle with it a lot. My moods can be really unstable and I’m constantly having to find things and schedule myself to avoid losing track of time. It’s so frustrating to deal with an often debilitating disorder and just have others come around faking it for clout. If the coolest thing about you is a disorder you have missed the whole point
Not to mention a lot of folks who claim these issues have no idea the actual impact such things cause. DID= disassociation, trauma and scattered consciousness, adhd= emotional instability, difficulty in social groups, constant executive struggles. They eliminate the parts that make it a disorder and then assume they’ll be taken at face value without a single OUNCE of the true struggle. It just makes me sad
I'm becoming an alter dealer, it sounds like an easy job
I haven't seen the entire video yet so I dunno if he mentioned it, but alter dealers are, sadly, a thing... they legit sell their alters for "adoption" to other "systems" as if they're trading yugioh cards...
Well, you better not be selling around my turf. I fought hard to deal on this corner. 🔫
@@MrBrezelwurst yeah I know, I wonder how much are they willing to pay for it
@@netcat3000 I find the whole selling alters thing so funny as someone with DID because damn.. if I could pawn a few of them off to someone I would in a heartbeat ☠️☠️ this disorder is hell to deal with, if I could I’d just let someone ‘adopt’ all of them. Make my life a lot easier 😭
we need to go back to when people were bullied for acting like this
Please!!! I've been saying this for yrs!
Yes! Please!! I've been saying this for years!!
Please! I’ve been saying this for years.
i dont think we do because thats harmful for actual systems who are trying to share their experience and educate others... and also just really fucked up ..
@@HqckermanIf you can’t see the difference between pathetic fakers and actual mentally ill people that sounds like a you problem
what people glance over is nobody in their right mind would go to this extreme of lengths to show they have a certain disorder. Think about it. Some are so deep in the delusion even them themselves don’t realize it’s not their reality. While it may not be did it’s more than likely due to a separate disorder
They love to act? Like are these frustrated theater kids thristy for attention? Its so cringe. Like they are improvising some "different" characters...
don’t disrespect theatre kids like that, the stereotypes that theatre kids get it already harsh enough without you adding to it by saying we fake disorders
@@user-xv3mm2yu7g calm down, why wouldnt that be possible? Im sorry that you have to feel personally attacked because of that silly comment
Bro looks like a pokemon trainer from one of the Switch games in that thumbnail lmao
😭
this man with a 5 o’clock shadow is claiming to be 13? tf
well in their defense (not that i WANT to defend them) i did once see a 14 year old with a full ass beard in my high school lmao
@@HyperspaceBlue lol that’s fair
He identifies as 13. You've gotta respect it
DID alters don't choose their age, it depends on a lot of factors including what trauma was experienced and when. a young alter (called a little) is incredibly standard in DID because it is constructed around childhood trauma.
As much as I don't like defending fakers, he does not claim to be 13 but that one of his alters is of that age, and age regression (don't mind me if I wrote that incorrectly, english is not my first language) can happen in those situations.
Every sys is different, we can't js say a sys is faking./nm
I’m glad there are some other sane people in the comments 😭
obviously. but they claim to be diagnosed by betterhelp. betterhelp cannot diagnose.
"April had to front" truer words......*chuckle*
do you think when those "content creators" met together did they all have to fake having the disorder around each other or do they all laugh about it ?
@violetasren-fm4ld LMAO ... dude , each one of them knew everyone was faking it loll
@violetasren-fm4ld people with did can still travel and have fun, I have lots of friends and I take flights and go to different states and party with friends. I had severe social anxiety when I was younger, probably due to my DID diagnosis but I’ve overcome it for the most part. It’s extremely infantilizing and rude for people to think of people suffering with DID as incapable of doing such normal things. A few of my headmates actually help with the bit of social anxiety I still do experience, because they’re there to help you cope 😭 For example, TSA stresses me out and I’ve had panic attacks while going through when I first stated traveling, I’ve been traveling for about three years now and a lot of times I have gaps in my memory of going through tsa and getting to my gate because someone else fronted and did it all for me to keep me from the stress. I don’t understand how so many people are equating this disorder to the inability to function. It’s disgusting.
And here I am, trying to look as normal as possible, scared to death I will be labelled as a cry baby or a faker if people know I have depression.
The fact that he claims to be a teen is disturbing enough.if you are a grown adult in their late 30s pretending to be a minor, your intentions for being on that platform are questionable. Is that so he doesn’t get in trouble for speaking to minors? A predator is what comes to mind. His content caters to a young audience. A vulnerable audience at that
He's 34
100% i was mutuals with them when i was 13-14 and they convinced me i had DID too, i distinctly remember talking to “art” and i genuinely never thought i’d see the A sys again so it was crazy seeibg this on my recommended
As someone with D.I.D
Any alter under the age of 18 isn’t aloud on the internet… because it’s not safe for them…
It bothers me so much when people let their Children Alters out online 😭
Interesting that all this dude's alters have a lisp. Lisping is a speech pattern and can be unlearned with speech therapy, so not all alters should have one.
I feel like it is SO OBVIOUS with these fakers. I can't wrap my head around anyone believing them. Then i realize they are YOUNG followers a lot of the time or also part of the grift. Just wild.
i was mutuals with them when i was 13- 14 and he convinced me i had DID… i never thought i’d hear of him again after i got helped and blocked him
I do want to bring up that symptoms are not just most prevalent from ages 5-10. DID forms from childhood trauma, so it FORMS in childhood. It is a lifelong disorder and many times it is not discovered until adulthood, because DID is a often covert disorder. For 90% of people it's not obvious to an outside. This is because it forms from trauma. According to the theory of structural dissociation, one of the more widely accepted theories, it's believes that nobody is born with a fully integrated personality. Instead, there's separate ego states for individual needs. Over time, as the child grows, the personality develops more and is believes to integrate, typically by the ages of 6-9. When severe and repeated childhood trauma occurs, often paired with a disorganized attachment styles with parent/primary caregiver, these states are unable to full integrate. These unintegrated states are what becomes alters.
So, a child is going through some sort of trauma, often some type of abuse. While this is going on, they also need to do school, hopefully have friends, make sure basic needs are met. All of this while also trying to survive a terrible situation. There may be a different alter for different things. This is also when there is often less self awareness of alters. It's often found in adulthood and dissociative symptoms may increase of lessen with time.
"The full disorder may first manifest at almost any age (from earliest childhood to late life).... "Older
individuals may present to treatment with what appear to be late-life mood disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorder, paranoia, psychotic mood disorders, or even cognitive disorders due to dissociative amnesia. In some cases, disruptive affects and memories mayincreasingly intrude into awareness with advancing age. " (Quotes from the DSM 5 section on DID)
I do want to say that I am not a professional. I am diagnosed with DID and my knowledge is from articles, the DSM, and discussions with my therapist.
Thank you well said.@@ChoirCollective
I'm diagnosed with DID and in treatment for it. I genuinely have no idea how one would be able to boast about switching so much. I cant wrap my head around "100". I once had a day so painful where i rapidly switched 10+ times due to a trigger. my body and mind looking for the proper part to switch in as if it was a roulette. it was exhausting and i was crying at the end of it begging and praying for it to stop. it's not fucking fun and i am so sick of seeing it be portrayed otherwise. on a normal day, probably 2-3 parts front. i can't tell i have switched, most of the time, until after I've done so!! it's really subtle most of the time, unless it's a sloooowww switch. which for me feels like I'm just stuck in really horrible derealization and walk and do things on autopilot and am slow to respond to things, until i "snap to consciousness/ wake up" and the switch has been completed. the amount of misinformation is staggering. i don't bother looking for solidarity online anymore.
I’m sorry you’re going through this and have to see people like this faking it
I remember the A system from the alters try food with their wife and I haven't seen or heard from them in a while
A thing that I often notice when seeing another "meet the alters" video is, the mentioning of their roles. The terms of "primary protector", "gatekeeper" and such are getting thrown around alot and we are constantly seeing alters introducing themselves with their respective role within their system. These roles however seem to be terms that psychologists use while describing the phenomenon that is DID. When an alter first fronts though, I assume they are hardly aware of their purpose or that they are even part of a system at all. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I doubt that an alter would be able to come to that conclusion without professional help, let alone recognize their role in the system. So what I am wondering is if a person with DID that went undiagnosed would even be capable of establishing such a vivid exchange between their alters without a proper mediator.
Amnesia is common.
Yeah, funny how these people who are all self-diagnosed and frequently anti-diagnosis toss around certain clinical terms right out the gate, isn’t it? Almost like they just Googled it and latched onto the buzzwords (or learned them from another TikTok faker) before they started their make believe sessions…. Can’t imagine how that would happen. A great mystery for the ages! 🤪
While I do find "meet the alter" videos to be strange and fetishizing, the use of roles in this way is quite common. Systems are so vastly different from each other that everyone's experience is different. Personally, my alters weren't aware of themselves for quite a while but they always knew where they were, who I was and who everyone else was. I don't have strong amnesia barriers anymore (two years of therapy helps lol) but there's a lot that can be understood and realized on your own. I have one alter who when she first fronted said "I was created to protect the host, I remember what they cannot survive remembering. This is my purpose and this is why I was created." dramatic little shit I know but everyone's alters are different and there's little to no end on how those individual experiences can go
@@EliasBeeker While it is true that people have these experiences, you as someone with DID also must know that a lot of people with DID don't know the roles of all of their altars, that alters sometimes have more than one role or seem to have no role at all, and that you really couldn't know any of that without therapy. I mean I doubt you got to this point without professional help. I think what most of this comment is trying to say is that there would be pretty much no way for him to know all of this if he weren't currently in some form of care
These fakers are the reason why the people who have disorders, don’t come forward. It’s ashame seriously. SMH
Can't believe this man has a whole child too
WHAT
im sorry- WHAT?
Yes a son and a wife i think
@@phroguwu5597I first saw his content through his wife , she’s an massive enabler or he’s convinced her aswell , either way it must bring in money if she hasn’t confronted him or stopped enabling 🤷🏾♀️
I actually used to be friends with someone who’s one of the only genuinely documented cases of DID where his other personality had a different gender. It caused him a hell of a lot of stress, especially since the female personality inside him had pretty bad gender dysphoria from being stuck in a male body. He ended up having to do a lot of specialized therapy to help suppress his other personality so triggers wouldn’t effect him to the point of her coming out. He also was constantly in demand for studies on his disorder and there’s more then one published scientific paper about him specifically
It is absolutely *_~not~ uncommon_* for people with DID/MPD to have alters of different sex/gender than the body.
What are you even talking about???
Lots of ppl have diff gender alters. My bf has a female alter, every time she shows up she spends like 2 hrs in the bath shaving her whole body etc. Won't let anyone even look at her til she's done. Freaks her the fuck out. If she dips in by mistake she'll turn around so she's not facing me and be like "uhhh... sorry....". She's too embarrassed to be looking at me talking to me w a beard.
Please do some fucking research. Alters that are a different gender, a different species, based on fictional characters or even real life people, are all things that happen to many people. Some of those are less common, but having alters of different genders is very common.
Although im very late i believe i have something meaningful to add to this discussion. I have a fractured psyche, which is the precursor of DID. I have multiple inner monologues, but i don't have gaps in my memory because i dont truly switch. I cant control or summon the other monologues at all.
My fractured psyche is a result of severe, continuous childhood trauma that caused me to develop CPTSD. I did intensive therapy & my CPTSD is in remission.
Most of my issues with my fractured psyche happen when im extremely stressed because i use it as a way to self soothe. Again to be very clear, I have zero say in when it happens.
Ill give him this, he is actually a very good actor, but im calling bullshit on him having DID.
TikTok's Worst Faker Is Insane
2nd channel 😎👀
The most glaringly obvious thing I see in all these fakers is that not ONE of them has EVER experienced ONE SECOND of actual trauma. Not ONE of them. In fact they have no idea what trauma even is.
And if you pressure to give an answer, they will tell you the only one “trauma” they know: being SAed as kids… 🙃
Exactly, mine was brought on by a major car accident. They just seem to think SA is the only thing that triggers DID it isn’t actually true
@@djevelhelvete Exactly
@@dottieland7061 Not to mention the majority are lying about it.
@@djevelhelvete Even though none of them have.
I used to be so interested in DID and would watch a few content creators to learn more about it, but now I'm so lost on who really truly has DID and actually is about giving the right information about the disorder. just makes me sad people feel the need to fake something so serious.
No one truly has it
I agree with you. There are some really great resources on DID but these are not good ones. I've found both the creators who claim to have DID and those trying to disprove them have large amounts of misinformation and bias in their videos. Switching 100 times in a day and using switches for clout are suspect behaviors to say the least but switches do not only happen based in negative triggers. Positive triggers are a great way to meet and talk with alters, including for therapy! I don't get on this side of youtube for good reason. I've been leaving comments that are sure to be attacked for the last two hours oops.
multiplicityandme! they've recovered via final fusion :)
Damn I'd love the luxury of picking and choosing how a mental illness and/or disability affects my day to day life with little to no consequences to my mind and body
Fakeing illness makes it harder for people with them😔
True.
AND
Fakeclaiming everyone also makes it harder for people with illnesses too.
I just dont tell people "hey by the way I'm the host of a system (like 5 people)" anymore because i stopped caring (and ive lost friends just because i said those words). Yes, diagnosed. The thing is I shouldnt have to say that im dignosed. Thanks Tik Tok
DID isnt the only multiple personality disorder out there guys choose a new one at least
the "forcing switches" you can't really "force a switch" unless actual there is distress and the front alter needs to leave the situation which is sorta the whole reason it formed in the first place (?? correct me if im wrong, even I get stuff wrong) While on the topic of switching, all system's switches are different but 100 switches a day is not healthy. Especially with the example showed (1:00 pm "alter 1" switching to "alter 2" in four minutes should be a world record) When I dissociate, it takes a while for me to be aware of my surroundings and try to figure out if it was an actual switch or not.
sorry for the long message but, having alters is not all fun and games they are meant to cope with trauma xx
I have severe ADD, and some of the problems i’ve seen (especially online) is people with horrible misinformation. Someone online told me that “ADHD is just fidgeting, stop lying” (after i had told him that i had ADD which he said was just adhd, and claimed that impulsivity i had mentioned was not real. There was a girl in my grade who faked OCD as well, doing things like straightening pencils and then staring at guys or talking about tapping the wall before bed. Anyways, the amount of times people say disorders aren’t affecting one’s life is wild. Thanks for educating
I have ADD too. Do you ever find it hard to concentrate on people’s words when they speak to you? I always get distracted with thoughts in my head when someone tries to talk to me
@@Smoke.stardust pretty often yeah, especially with people i know well like i think they are mentioning some inside joke or something but its always something completely different. Makes me feel crazy istg
NOO I actually believed him 😭 it’s so stupid how good these ppl are at faking something they don’t have and convincing others they have it
no thats on you this guy was never convincing thats the point the way he acts is outlandish.
@mikki hesson3509 exactly. He's always been faking. It was apparent from day 1
@@mikkihesson3509 he had his wife vouching for him in some of his vids
if you suddenly beleive someone is faking because you saw one youtube video you need to do some self reflection
12:49 I suffer from DID(diagnosed). The most I’ve ever done is 6 times a day😭(atleast according to my mom, for me I don’t remember anything or how long I’m out for)
I know my comment is late, but I have had personal experience with someone with DID. My aunt, who after about 34 years of life took her own life because of how much she hated not being able to remember parts of her day, even when seeing her family sometimes. We tried as much as we could to get her mental help, and support, but we couldn’t change her mind. I had not understood why she died until I was a freshman, which is when I had asked family after finding her obituary. Hearing stories of fakers like this, grown adults probably not too far from her age doing this only makes me wish I had a bit of time to see her before she passed. People are disgusting, confusing, and complex.
this is so crazy how can people be so bad at faking and saying stuff that clearly in one google search can prove them otherwise.
and ty for the amazing video!!
except if you google "Are DID alters triggered only by stress" the answer is no
@@EliasBeeker That's true, but that is not at all the only problem here.
I've been dealing with POTENTIAL/UNDIAGNOSED DID for years with fear that I've been faking it for other people and that's still possible because what seems like one issue can be another. I know this and am more than okay with potentially not having a disorder or issue I think I do but things like this make me feel even worse because if something I can't just turn off is this easy to fake and boast about.... wtf am i supposed to do..... wtf am I supposed to think....
He's literally taking that character from doom patrol that has D I D and super powers and she has a whole bunch of personalities and hang out in the train station and decide together so will go up top to be the main and besides what they call the area where they hang to choose who goes up is seriously this shows character to a tee, how disrespectful to people who really have this or any mental health issues that people fake to exploit and they give it all taken info/push stereotypes, utter disrespect
Right!!!!!!!! I feel like they watched Doom Patrol and figured that since they couldnt be Larry, Rita or Cliff then they should be Jane and then hoped that noone figures it out.
20:39 woman that thinks its all real is very gullible, folie a deux is more common it seems
i don’t understand why people never seem to read the diagnostic criteria for the disorders they’re faking…. instant switching doesn’t come with the territory, did is a dissociative disorder for a reason.
When you wanna be a cool guy but also fem but you have a mean dad and unsupportive parents. That's the vibe I get.
Lol that’s exactly what it is
I age regress against my will during extremely stressful situations. I have c-ptsd. It's not fun, and it's very scary when it happens in public. I don't have DID, but saying you can force switches or alters on command is so fucking stupid
I mean like technically you can probably force a switch if you put yourself in a situation that tends to cause switching, or if you put yourself in a highly stressful situation, but you can't just like close your eyes and be a new altar
I USED TO BE REALLY CLOSE WITH THE ASYSTEM. THEY ARE SO UNBREAL IT'S AWFUL
really? how are they like behind the camera?
Has he kept up this charade for a long time, or did it start recently?
@Likretivot the exact same. This man has a child. A full fucking child. Imagine being a young kid and your dad switches between a man and a furry
@@odeefromdawic years
@@Parabellum_sunriseWhere's the proof? You can't just say something like that and not provide proof.
y do these people still exsit mannn
I have no idea it’s really sad
Because we let them. Because we reward them. Because our society has decided it’s somehow criminally offensive to shun them, mock them, call them out or tell them to go pound sand.
i randomly thought about him the other day, i used to see his videos and not think much of it but when i thought back i really started questioning lmao
I’m a tiktok live mod for a DID system, and I’m actually also a nurse aiming to eventually work in mental health- and these fakers really annoy me. So yeah, my friend will do lives, but she doesn’t switch or pull out other alters on demand. She only goes on lives to do make up looks as one of the alters likes doing makeup. She also uses these lives to educate people on DID and dispel any myths or misconceptions. Personally, I’ve maybe seen her switch less than 5 times on a live (and i’ve been a mod for her for 14 months). Your “average” switch usually isn’t too noticeable to the untrained eye.
In all honesty, the “fakers” absolutely don’t have DID, but are more likely to have BPD.
My friend uses any money she raises to interview survivors of CSA and SA about their stories of survival and spread awareness about that and mental health disorders.
Thank you for standing. The more people stand, the more misinformation stops. Thanks again.
BPD or bipolar disorder.
wanna correct something from the video, while DID does manifest from the ages of 5-10 it doesn’t go away & it’s life long. along with this, it’s possible for the disorder to, essentially, go under the radar until someone’s in their teen years.
When he has all of his hair flipped over all to one side it reminds me of Matthew Patel from Scott Pilgrim lol.
I think people who fake DID definitely are not good people, it’s not something to make light of, but I do think a lot of them are mentally unwell in other ways, and need professional help. No “normal” person would fake a disorder this serious for so long
But they would. He’s making money from it, he’s receiving attention from it, both are things nearly every human loves.
Unresponsible? Not a word. It's irresponsible! Great video, nonetheless.
As someone diagnosed with ADHD (not even a big deal just makes things harder to focus on and other things way too easy to hyperfocus on) I GENUINELY DO NOT UNDERSTAND THESE PEOPLE. They are just making people with real issues look like a joke while they get to reap the rewards of clicks for money. I appreciate the information you share with the world, it really shows how some people just want attention while others actually have their issues diagnosed and look for genuine help instead of farming views off of children on an app. You've earned your place among UA-cam legends to me. Can't wait to see more fakers getting caught!
D.I.D stems from extreme trauma, many youngsters that experienced abuse will talk about leaving their body while abuse occurs … so imagine a child repeatedly experiencing trauma. This disorder can occur when a child’s brain at a young age disassociates to cope with what is happening to help them block out the event occurring. This can then develop into an ongoing disorder as they grow and develop personality. This is why amnesia is part of the so called ‘Switch’ when the persons mind switches off and they try to cope with trauma or a trigger. A young person can suffer with this disorder for a long time and not realise what is occurring. It’s a defence mechanism to protect a mind from dealing with awful situations…..definitely not a fun thing to Cos play. Wish they would just say it’s cos playing and not put out misleading information for such a tragic disorder. Wish all the best to anyone that has experienced any kind of trauma and hope you have gotten all the help needed to deal with it 🙏🏻
As someone who JUST got diagnosed with DID… it’s not just an easy diagnosis. You take a test that has over 200 questions, they explain how to take the test. They ask you the questions, and you answer. I got diagnosed with it a few days ago.. and I’m still trying to process because I thought I was just ME my entire life with added mental issues. I’m 20, and finding out that I’ve been showcasing symptoms since I was little, it’s baffling. It’s a new step in my life and honestly.. it’s pretty scary. It’s not “ooohh I have DID, omg I have X amount of alters.” NO!! it’s a shit ton of therapy, finding your inner child because believe it or not.. most DID diagnosed humans.. have a locked inner child that has been hurt. Then you have protectors who come out to protect you whether you realize it or not. You do lose gaps in memory, it feels like you’re asleep but still conscious. Alters are made with heavily traumatic scenarios, being created to protect your mental state as best as possible. You can’t just say you have alters and name them, if you have DID.. they come to you. And it’s intense therapy to figure out who your alters are. Or as my therapist calls them, “parts”. Also it doesn’t just have to be something traumatic or triggering for them to pop out, my counselor told me he had a DID patient before me, and her inner child popped out randomly to just say hi. You can’t exactly switch on demand, you can’t tell your alters to come out. They come out on their own or for instance if you do have DID, and your in a stressful situation, your protector could pop out and take over to protect you. These are all topics I’ve asked and talked about with my counselor because I’m still learning about this new diagnosis.
Well said.
Quick thing, DID forms before the age of 9, but people dont get diagnosed usually until early adulthood when the person is in a safer situation than in which they grew up. So late teens and early adults are definitely the demographic that would be getting diagnosed finally. The disorder becomes more presentive when the brain recognizes the individual is in a safer environment. It actually wouldnt make s3nse for young kids or young teens to understand they have DID or for people to spot it because it is a very covert disorder
Well said. Thank you for pointing this out as well.
it is very dangerous for a child alter to front unless they are in a known safe place where there is no "potential danger" present.
It would be dangerous for a child alter to front… if any of it were true.
@@kaineandrews3790 yes you are right.
😂😂😂 you’ve all been watching too much tiktok, that’s not how DID works
@@LilyTheDoll I don't watch tiktok, only what Ablaze talks about. I do know how DID works though, and you're right...what's posted on tiktok is not how DID works.
@@kaineandrews3790DID is true and very real. Don’t let fakers make you ignorant.
Bruh my friend has DID and I barely see her switch bc it's due to triggers and after she switches back she's confused and just apologizes for falling asleep then we have to explain what happened
The A system and Pink sugar faker are both in their 30s lmao. They think public information doesn't exist😂
none of them ever claimed to be children. You're gullible.
And he knows there is 28 how? Was he in a psych hospital and a doctor witnessed all these different alters? Cause alters don't converse with each other. Most if not all would not be aware of each other. Do these people talk about losing time?
When people play around like this, karma has a way of biting you in the a$$ and giving you something you don't want
Both The CTAD Clinic (they treat DID) and Dissociative Disorder in a Nutshell (Shirley Davis, highly respected person with DID) have videos about how to build and maintain alter communication, both externally and internally.
29 alters? Damn, bro has the entire pokedex
some say they have 1000
I wonder if he buys the Alters from the Alters market place or sells them. And yes they even have a online shop where they buy, Sell and trade there fake Alters. Tiktok should ban them if there not diagnosed.
Most people with diagnosed DID struggle to understand their surroundings after switching, and switching isn't something you can physically. Normally DID is diagnosed from people having giant gaps in time missing from their memory. Lots of people with DID have to leave themselves notes around the house to remember things they did previous or things they have to do when they aren't themselves.
Most of them don’t even know they have it, until something serious happens to where they have to seek psychiatric help
i honestly always wondered about The A System. i kinda suspected they were faking, but there was something telling me they weren't- perhaps that was just my lack of knowledge on DID. after this video and doing more reading, i can now see all the OBVIOUS signs. what's worse is he has a wife!! so she's in on this, too. disgusting.
I have a friend that has DID and said always tells me that she hates having it due to the fact that she is now too afraid to set foot outside bc of people like this making it out to be some kind of joke or facade like TikTok has ruined the community of all these disorders and hurt the entire community and my friend doesn’t ever want to be alone when going anyways bc she’s afraid of getting triggered and switching and to make things worse she already has really bad anxiety and depression so I really hope that TikTok does something about these harmful things that fake people are bringing onto the platform
They are well more likely to have BPD- it’s common to seek attention by acting ill to feed into the fear of abandonment
it’s so crazy to me how when a disorder blows up on tiktok they suddenly crave to have it to be “different” and change everything the disorder is
Someone with DID here. Just want to answer a few questions that you've asked throughout this video.
1. There are things known as positive triggers. These are things that certain alters like, or maybe identify with. So switching due to a song coming on isn't impossible just highly unlikely. Positive switches I've experienced were all where we were in a safe place, and when we were feeling dissociated already.
2. Time loss and amnesia. Usually when one of the alters that cares about the body and the rest of us fronts, they will leave notes as to what they were doing, how long they were out and if there was anything that needed to get done. However this is rare due to the majority of them not knowing they're an "alter" or just forgetting/not caring/or busy freaking out. Also it is possible to remember if multiple alters were "present". Like there but in control if that makes sense. Then all the alters "present" would remember. Also given how they are connected sometimes memories that aren't traumatic can bleed through or be dreamt of. Which is a pain cause it causes more dissociation due to not being able to know what is real or not.
3. Littles aren't clueless. At least some aren't. Yes they are mentally one age but some have been around for years. After years of being around they are likely to pick up things like texting. Social media however is fairly unlikely due to them not wanting to be seen and locked behind a password they wouldn't know. Also given the memory lapse it would be terrifying for them. Usually they text a trusted friend or our therapist for what to do. Or they crawl into our bed and stay there for who knows how long before switching out again due to the stress of not knowing what was happening.
DID exists to protect and at the end of the day to be invisible. The only people that know about our diagnosis are my best friend who knows us well enough to notice the switches and our therapist. Due to the increasing existence of these "fakers" we are less likely to say anything to anyone as we have heard our friends say that they don't believe it is real and that hurts. Genuinely. Not only do people in our lives no longer believe in the existence of the disorder, we have had multiple times where we start to think oh maybe we are lying to ourselves and we don't have it. I did not want to have this disorder. I did not ask for the scars on my body that were created without my knowledge but inflicted by one of us. I did not ask for the 11 suicide attempts that were done without permission or knowledge. I did not ask for not knowing the majority of my life. I did not ask to not being able to live a normal life. There is much to learn about this disorder and not every person with it will experience the same things. Some alters are fairly different compared to these "fakers" as not all of them have names and a solid "identity". Some are emotions that have disconnected due to feeling from a young age that we weren't allowed to feel. We are apart of one being that has been fragmented over and over again due to circumstances we did not ask for. Healing DID is by creating a connection and at the end of the day become "whole". That would no be possible if they were completely separate.
You saying that alters can “watch” what the one fronting does says it all. Thats impossible. The whole reason amnesia is the number one symptom of DID… is because it’s impossible for one brain that to be concious multiple times at the same time. Impossible. Also, your little somehow know how to text? You say they wouldn’t use social media, like a child would know how to log in or even use social media, yet they know how to text and who to text and work a phone.
Your alters leaving sticky notes? Alters have 0 idea how long the “switch” is going to be nor do they communicate with you. This narrative that your other personalities act like completely different people that are they to help you is crazy. It’s not how it works, not even in the slightest. I’d recommend you learn to educate yourself on a disorder you’re going to try and fake.
@@brackenrobertson799 Holy shit get a life
@@brackenrobertson799 This is a disorder that is based around trauma and those identities are formed based around those traumas. Not every person with the disorder will be the same or react the same.
1. Being present with 2 identities. That was a fairly bad way for me to put it I will admit. However the healing process for this disorder is by integration. When identities integrate so do the memories. Now in that process they don't automatically go boom fusion time it takes time and there's a period where they feel sperate but together. Which leads to the feeling of having more than one identity present.
2. When I meant child I meant ages 6+. I personally do not believe this body has an identity under that age. Also technology is fairly intuitive nowadays. How would they know who to text? I dunno maybe the name in the contact info?
3. They can leave sticky notes IF they are aware of the disorder. Which IS possible due to you know maybe waking up and realizing it's been a week. When you lose that much time in your memories you start to question things which then leads to seeking help. Do all of them do it? No.
Also there are many things still left to be learned about this disorder and there are other types of dissociative disorders which are interesting to read and learn about. OSDD for example can have separate identities without amnesia. Also this disorder is formed to PROTECT in one way or another. The idea that one or two wouldn't want to "help" have a normal life is insane. There are things to be discovered about these disorders and I wish you have a great day.
i don't like your video bcs at the start you say we have to fit in the age rank, but not really, there are people who just get diagnosed later in life
it's also when these people describe how and when they discovered they were a system, they just say something like, "i heard, like, voices n stuff and i had blackouts and woke up in new clothing and stuff!!" and they sound almost happy about it? blackout amnesia is terrifying, having someone else control your body and you have no idea what they did is an utter nightmare for me. also, when i 1st figured out i was a system, it was 1 of the worst times in my life, it was around my birthday and christmas for crying out loud :(
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DID is so extremely rare that many prominent clinicians still debate whether it actually exists at all.
Very few clinicians actually debate anymore, it's in the DSM-5 and widely recognized as a real disorder, it's also not actually that rare it's that the symptoms themselves hide from diagnosis.
plenty of things have been in the DSM over the years that have since been removed or significantly had their criteria altered because scientific documents are moving changing things, people go with the best known theories they have at the time. The theory of people having multiple personalities has been debunked a thousand times over and I wouldn't be surprised if did is removed from the DSM in the coming decades as more research is done. the people claiming this disorder certainly have something going on mentally that they need treatment for, but it's not having 17 different personalities inside of you.
It isn't actually that rare. In the official ISSTD treatment guidelines it literally says that DID isn't a rare disorder.
Can you do a video on the ones that say they no longer have did?
He means winter system and he did a video on him awhile back.
As someone who went through the unbearably long medical process of getting this diagnosed, dude knows nothing about the disorder. Such a small, specific number of identities that he knows all of, all with very different personalities and characteristics. Just not how it works really, feels like he's making up characters to play. I give his acting Split/10
The chances of you actually having DID is quite literally, slim to none.
@@brackenrobertson799That's not true. From what we know DID is fairly rare, but God knows how often people just never find out they have it, or people are misdiagnosed. Saying it's unlikely that you have something or that it's "slim to none" does nothing but cause trouble for people who actually have the illness, because when people think like this they tend to brush everyone off and that's not helping. I get that all the time about shit that I've been diagnosed with, and I get it even more about shit that I'm trying to get diagnosed with. I see it all the time in mental health too, because I work in the field as well. It's very invalidating.
NOO I actually believed him 😭 it’s so stupid how good these ppl are at faking something they don’t have and convincing others they have it
FR ME TOO I CANT BELIEVE I ACUALLY BELIEVED IN IT
Hi my name is shameless liar. Im the only one in the system. I play pretend to get attention. Im horribly embarrassing. My friends call me Eww, get away.🙄