@@jays-move8803 Okay murdered is a little excessive. But fired absolutely. And I hope that she forever lives with guilt of knowing she could have saved this woman's life. As for the murderer, I would be happy to hear he got murdered.
@@jays-move8803 She did send police, but also clearly understated the gravity of the situation and wasted time asking stupid questions when the victim obviously was in the process of being attacked and couldn't answer and then it seems like she never properly communicated how serious and urgent the situation was to police. So it was definitely negligence on her part. I do wonder if she should be in jailed or fined. I don't think I agree she deserves murder though... I also think it was negligence on the part of police for taking FIFTY whole minutes to arrive on the scene and then not even going inside. Everybody involved failed her so much. Such a horrifying story :/
@Salvatore Salerno One, everyone in the video is black. Two, it's dispatch's job to dispatch police on an emergency phone call. Not after hearing her being murdered and THEN fifteen minutes of silence. That's all on the phone call. Besides homicidal negligence, that's bad procedure. How about when he says "where are the police" the dispatcher piped up and said YEAH WE'RE HERE WE'RE ON THE WAY. JFC people like you expect more out of criminals and fast food workers than police.
@TONY DPHAX KING shes devoriced him. he was her EX hunsand, so really, she tried to save herself. by leaving him, by calling the cops to warn them about whaat she kknew was going to happen. And ps, your a real piece of shit
I wish Deanna had called her family, instead of the police when she was being attacked. I bet her family would have done a hell of a lot more than what the police did (or rather didn’t) do.
Those dispatchers were idiots! They should've been criminally charged!! They can trace prank calls but they won't help an actual ongoing murder?! WTF!!!
The way the mother is recounting finding her daughter is so raw it’s like she’s reliving it and seeing it right there. Those horrible images probably will forever haunt her. So heartbreaking.
Of course it will. Initially I thought she was going to say, "the first thing that I was going to do, was kill who killed her daughter". Instead she said, she was going to kill herself. Males like this pick who they will torment. ......and being that she married him (even after he showed her his ass) that only translates as one thing, to someone like that. Eh........
@Salvatore Salerno true but they showed up hours later and didnt bother gaining entry to property and when the mom rang the next day they said nothing they can do ring the hospital so the num gained entry ?
Momma Bear : THE SAD PART IS THAT PEOPLE ARE DYING, THEY CLAIM THAT THEY’VE LEARNED FROM THE INCIDENTS, & THEN CHANGES ARE STILL NOT MADE!! NOTHING IS BEING IMPLEMENTED!!! SO WRONG, SO SAD. 😞
Joseph The whole system failed her that day. It doesn’t matter what color they were they all FAILED at their job. Also it’s funny you say being a slave was a choice? People were born and forced into slavery if you tried to run you would get hunt down and be killed or tortured. Your ignorance is strong here and I suggest you do some real research instead of listening to a bimbo rapper who barely knows what he’s talking about.
Joseph Honey, you need Jesus and I’m going to pray for you. Just know this black women did not deserve to die to any race of color and those operators played a huge part in a death that could’ve been avoided hundreds of times. It doesn’t matter what race they were, they simply didn’t do their job ESPECIALLY the police officer that just knocked and went back to his car. Everything isn’t race-tied you know but a lot of people hold prejudices against African Americans to this day, the KKK is still running strong so if people do make it about race and what color they were I don’t blame them because in many cases White (Officers/Operators) do discriminate against Black people and to other races that aren’t theirs!
This is absolutely heartbreaking. This didn't have to happen. There was PLENTY of calls for help. This could have been prevented! My heart goes out to this family. RIP Deanna
She was getting killed while on the phone with police and they didn't do shit. What did they just think it was a prank call? Wtf. They should be idk that's crazy
@@AK-ky2xj Or if you call about a little Black girl selling bottled water in her front yard, or a young Black boy mowing a yard in a WHITE neighborhood... or "anything" Black in an area of WHITE... that will get the WHITE cops on the go. Sick America... my Race is so F*cked up.
The dispatcher telling the mom she needs to call the hospital first is infuriating bullshit! Cops do wellbeing checks all the time!!!! This whole situation is heartbreaking
Her mom and other family members should have never been the first people to have found her deceased body. Beyond disrespectful for the police to fail them like that.
If this had been a wealthy white woman asking police for help finding her missing daughter, I'm sure dispatcher wouldn't have said "you need to call the jails and hospitals first." Prime case of race and class discrimination.
They do wellness checks for URGENT DISTURBANCES but not BEFORE going to 7Eleven to buy water. www.nbcnews.com/video/dallas-911-operator-breaks-silence-on-deanna-cook-case-30666307618
My heart hurts for that poor Momma. I was only 17 when I found my father passed away. But it was of natural causes not a violent death. It messed me up. I can't imagine finding my child like this. I hope her Mother finds peace and her kids as well. God bless them.♥️🙏
No....the AMERICAN POLICE failed this woman! If you watch the video again 'she didn't call from a landline'-probably wasn't near one at the time of the attack-she called off the cellular so the dispatcher had to work out 'history of the caller, where is the call coming from, what area,' she had to be a Detective okay- why DO POLICE FEEL IT'S OKAY TO TURN UP AT A WOMAN'S HOUSE WHO'S MADE A CALL IN DISTRESS, GIVE A DAINTY LITTLE DOOR KNOCK, THEN LEAVE?
@Jennifer Are we on the phone? What do you mean why am I yelling?....you sound bored and not to smart...to put it to you remaining polite...clearly, I am highlighting important issues....is that O.K.A.Y?
I live very close by and I'm so disgusted with the dispatcher that didn't send help immediately. My mom was a 911 dispatcher for over 20 years in a city in Dallas county and I've listened in on calls several times and they send cops to hang up calls! They should have sent someone immediately especially when she was screaming. They failed her!
PEople need to HOLD those people responsible, COPS, who kill innocent people in the street! How can those people feel "secure" that Karma isn't going to follow up??
Unfortunately, I heard much worse. Some of these operators are heartless people, who take the job because it makes them look like they are good people.
Taylor C actually calls from cells are so hard to trace. It takes time to get the registered owners details from the phone company’s and that’s if the company even has them as some cells are unregistered.
I knew Deanna Cook and her mother Vickie since Deanna was 2 years old. It is sickening and heartbreaking to actually know what happened to her. My prayers will always will be with her family. Rest in Love, Deanna!
When my violent ex was stalking and threatening me I got a restraining order, a kickass alarm system, several cans of pepper spray kept all thru my house, a 9mm handgun, and a rescue German Shepherd. I then let all of my neighbors know what was going on and asked them to call the cops if they saw him near my home or car. He came into my yard one day and my dog went after him and bit him. My neighbor got it all on video and called the cops, and he was arrested. He has not been back. : )
I’m so glad you did what you had to do to be safe! I have a restraining order against my ex husband 2 dogs, cameras, motion detector and an alarm system. We have to be on guard with these emotionally unbalanced men!
My 1 year old called the police when I was sleeping and the police damn near broke down my door. I am so sorry that their county failed this beautiful woman.
It’s not easy being a 911 operator. Why don’t you do the job before being so judgmental. The problem is with Police Department training of 911 operators. The operator was obviously not trained properly!
@Salvatore Salerno honey..fist if all CHILL... your system is shit and needs be be fixed.... and yes ofc the man is the devil .... imagine this was your mother etc...they at least couldve gone inside so that her mother wouldnt find her in that state... i honestly hate americans....
I hate to bring race into it but I get the feeling that this may have been racially motivated on the side of the 911 operator. Maybe she didn't see it as much of an emergency because Deanna was black. I don't know, either way I hope that she was fired and charged Deaanna's death. Like how the hell do you not send help when you can hear someone being murdered? I'm really scratching my head on that one.
That 911 operator is complicit in Deana’s horrific fate. Between her & the ex that poor woman never had a chance an even an inkling of hope to live. Evil! Both of them!!
@@hloyd3774 no, if you watched the video, the dispatcher was on the phone with her for 15 minutes. She heard her living and dying. She could’ve traced the call and sent the police. She had more than enough time to send the police for her.
melaniemassacrerawr420 She wasn’t sympathetic while she was listening to a desperate woman on the phone I doubt she’s sympathetic after the fact. Why is this operator employed as an emergency dispatcher? Conspicuously unqualified.
Beautiful, full of life, Deanna Cook. The social media, her close and beautiful family, just shows what a bright light she was and horrendously taken from the world so young. Ms. Cook's passionate and heart breaking testimony will forever stay with me and I'm sure anyone who saw it. I am just sickened how 911 and officers epically failed her. May she rest peacefully.
This is infuriating! So she’s called over and over about being stalked. She called as she is getting attacked and murdered. The operator hears all this yet just listens and asks once she’s been killed,’ so you need police, fire or ambulance!’ WTF! You can hear her being chocked. The cops finally go there but leave and let the poor family walk in and find that horrific scene. Devastating!
I just dint understand wtf was wrong with the operator!!! Like you can literally hear her being fucking attacked and as you stated this was on record 😤
I agree. She would've stood more of a chance if the department didn't exist because then she wouldn't have relied on the reassurance she could always call the police if necessary
Everything this poor family went through, Deanna included… There are no words. They were treated like they didn’t matter and it’s so heartbreaking 💔 That 911 operator should’ve been held legally responsible for her demise
They're lying. I called from my cell phone for a man slumped over in his truck and the dispatcher knew exactly where I was calling from. That was in 2011. 🤷♀️
I think tht was the issue her calling so many times they figured it was just another one of those calls but you can hear it in her screams she clearly needed help
Tina Casey I cannot even imagine.. I cannot imagine seeing one of my babies, I cannot imagine then hearing her begging thinking someone was coming.. I just cannot..
I know in SC the training is extensive but one can never fully train for a real life situation. Plus operators have a script to stick to unfortunately.
@@kangz.n.sheeit630 Did you miss the part where they came eventually? They were able to find her location but didn't make it a priority despite the literal murder that happened over the phone. Tracking a location on a cell phone isn't automatic the way it is for a landline, but it's not impossible. I mean, clearly, since they literally did... an hour later...
Ty for pointing this out. Def too little too late tho. *also: I was surprised to hear that cop actually admit that the police & system had failed her. Rare.
@@darrylcrane253 The truth is that most times there isn't change at all. How many funeral has anyone here been to? Think. 99.9999% if not 100% of the time- several make a speech of how great that person was...how they lit up a room...They talk about us loving one another more and more to keep close to the friends and family we love....Then a week or two later every one is back at their normal routine ..they quickly go back to what they are used to. Look at what is going on. There are alll kinds of people who have been racially profiled and killed. Yet because A person wears a blue uniform they are not subject to the punishment anyone else would receive. I dc what the title or how many degreees you have or what dept you work for. Then the us begins to kneel for change PEACEFULLY and THAT is an issue. You then have more and more people die...and the U.S wants to shoot, set off smoke bombs..tear gas...and beat others with Batons for reacting to actions that are intolerable?!!?!!! Change is a state of mind. Being mindful of what we want in life. Should we seek change we must be the change period.
That poor mother… I’ve watched so many shows like this and she game me chills. Just imagining her having to see her daughter that way is absolutely awful. 💔
Elvin S I know....That’s one lady I consider a REAL MOTHER that defended her child to the very end, not the kind of parent that will STEAL from their child, Lie to and on their child just for a quick buck and hidden jealousy!!!!! She get my most deepest sympathy bc she’s a REAL MOTHER 👑
darcelharmon Well you gotta look up the actual court hearing and watch it 😳😳😳 I promise you’ll be balling your eyes out bc I saw that first and heard the actual recorded 911 calls and you could literally hear EVERYTHING 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I literally replayed it from beginning to end and let me tell you it was horrific to the point where they had to adjourn court bc the “Mom” was so emotional on the stand....You could literally feel her pain thru the screen”
She was a victim twice once by Delvecchio and by the none Dallas Emergency Services. She deserved so much more.. I Pray her family all the Blessings of God..
This poor woman, I never want to imagine what it’s like to lose a child, I hope she’s able to find peace and put all that love to her other daughters and grandchildren. I hate that they all had to find her like that.
THAT WAS HER WAY OF TRYNA CALM THE SADISTIC PUNK DOWN- WHATS SO SAD HE GOT A TAT IN PRISON OF HER ON HIM WITH THE AFRO PUFFS- WHEN ASKED WHY HE STATED IT WASN'T HER. BUT TRUST IT LOOKS JUS LIKE HER
I'm a 911 dispatcher, there is no way in this world!! We send officers for LESS. Not to mention, we report missing persons no matter how long it's been. This angered me!!
@@Angelcatsun Unfortunately, I know of an operator who is like that. He is older and he hates his job. He's only there because he can't retire yet, and that's dangerous. I LOVE my job so its easier for me to be compassionate and caring.
glenn brown THERE WAS THOUNDS OF COMPLAINTS ABOUT HER “STALKER”. AND NO ONE CAME TO HER AID SHE WAS MURDERED. SHE CALLED 911 AND THE OPERATER STAYS ON THE PHONE THE WHOLE TIME BC THE CALLER HAS NOT RESPONDED AND SHE NEEDS AN ASNWER. SHE IS BEING STRANGLED AND UM YEAH THAT WOULD MEAN SEND A FUCKING UNIT BUT SHE DOESNT. *15 minutes later* OPERATOR CALLS BACK TO ASK IF SHE NEEDS A POLICE OFFICER OR A AMBULANCE. WHAT THE FUCK? ITS A LOT DEEPER THAN THE OPERATOR RN IF THIS HAS GOING FROM WAY BACK.
I want to hug her mama. I literally began “ugly face” crying watching her testimony. All I could think was I hope they give him the chair & I hope they let her pull the lever when it’s time… And then in the end she said she forgives him. For a split second I felt a little bit of shame for my own thoughts… But it passed... I figure I’ll carry those kind of thoughts for her mama so she can get to heaven to see her baby! God bless her family & May they find peace until they meet again in heaven💗
your feelings are so well put in your comment that i can also imagine how u felt even though i did not feel it directly God bless you! I love this comment :)
@@theendofanerror4173 Thanks for sharing. This sheds a lot of light on what REALLY happened. They did throw the 911 operator under the bus. Now I feel bad for her too.
@@carolwilliams8840 Exactly. I was calling her every name in the book like everyone else but then something in me said 'see if you can find her side of the story'. Now my anger is directed towards those cops who thought getting bottled water from a convenience store was more important to do first over racing to a woman being battered and murdered in real time.
Oh PLEASE @@carolwilliams8840 Y'all find every excuse in the book when Black people are dehumanized 🙄 The piss poor operator simply didn't care.If she did she would've used her heart & requested officers go to the scene after the first scream.It's called common sense & compassion.But of course that goes out the window when it's one of us.You can get another job but you can't resurrect the dead.And it's a lie that you can't trace cellphones,they damn sure magically can find the person when it's one of us doing simple things like standing up to racism.Location doesn't even have to be on.
Yeah. It was haunting. Poor woman. Tried to help this guy and this is how he repays! With murder. Please, people you cannot change ppl. We are all adults and come as we are. I'm just glad the children of the deceased were not harmed. Shouldn't the murderer have given the death penalty? What hope is there for rehabilitation for an individual like this? Feed him to crocodiles or chop off a limb one day at a time. For he could feel the terror his victim did in her last moments
I’m absolutely torn over this case. I’m so sad and sorry for Deanna and her family. I pray for changes that need to be made within the system and I pray that they are doing well and healing from the pain he caused them. That guy is a monster. How dare he put up his middle finger in court! Completely no remorse, he’s a sick individual.
When are you people going to realize that the government isn't obligated nor responsible for your protection. You are responsible for your own protection.
I thought I was the only one. I don't understand why I have to see these videos every so often. I think it's strange. I wonder why we keep watching these videos!
(Btw wasnt it female 911 op)..We as Fairer not Inferior Being on this plane need to BE Aware.THAT at all times we have "Something" we are Hunted for, On us at all Times.and that is aside from Relinquishing Power to these same Predatory characters and giving them better angle on chess board of life to hunt us down and do as they will. man based society.and SOME OF US LIKE THE FRAEAKIN 911 OP ARE ASLEEP AT THE WHEEL.( female operator)
@@tianarogers Doesn't seem like the restraining order served any purpose. I mean what was the point of her spending energy/time to file one if he could just strangle her in her home? I mean what does a piece of paper do?
When Deanna’s mother started crying describing how she found her baby my eyes started tearing cause that’s a pain that nobody should have to endure 😢That 911 operator failed her miserably how could you hear her screaming in fear of her life and not dispatch the police to her location
@William Johnson how the mother describes walking in omg she has a very vivid picture of what she saw that day and it’s so heartbreaking. These dispatchers have to do a better job. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
I really appreciate that the lawyer is taking accountability that everyone in the legal system failed her. Please change domestic violence calls more seriously across ALL states.
it was extra sad when she testified in court/to tell seeing your murdered daughter's decomposing body, reliving that nightmare again Was Painful to watch/I was crying as bad as her mom/some people, like that bum really shouldn't be breathing rn/he should lose he Worthless Life the Same Way/Guarantee, he's Not in prison chocking anyone...
I think black women can be the meanest to other black women. One once told me that she was not my sister when I told her we were like sisters. Some are so detached. This operator didn't care or hear a sister. She was too worried about her job and following a checklist. They only care when it is something that affects them personally, then they want someone to save them.
I could never forgive that, but forgiving and letting go of the hate will make her happier (less tortured ato) so I’m glad she is able and to do that. So sad for all involved 😔 RIP
This is one of the saddest cases I have ever heard of and I'm back to look at it after seeing it a few years ago. I'll never forget this and hearing her call.😭😭😭
Who else wants to give Ms. Cook a hug? 😭 Who else wants to scream at the operator?😫😡 Who else wants to punch delvecchio?😡😡😡😡 This video im feeling furious, scared, and sad. God bless her family and deanna
katie mcguire I agree with all sentiments right up to the “god bless”. Ask yourself…if there really were an “all loving” and “all knowing” god, why let something like this happen. It would seem that, for an “all powerful being” that would’ve been easy. And don’t give me the “free will” crap. In the fable that is Christianity, “Satan” knows god exists and chooses not to worship “him”. So you can know about a god and still choose not to worship it. If there were empirical, absolute, scientific evidence that the Christian god existed, I would believe it exists but I certainly wouldn’t worship it. That god would have a lot to answer for. Slavery, child raping priests, hurricanes, tornados, starvation, lack of clean drinking water, etc.
That poor woman. God her pain... Deanna was failed miserably. This is heartbreaking. I’m in tears... That is the definition of no soul. He should’ve FRIED!
my thots too! the operator sounded so distanced & disconnected like a lackadaisical attitude towards the caller! the operator sounded like she didnt care whatever the caller was going thru! So AWFUL!!! The entire dept should be sued & operator DISMISSED!!!!
Apparently she take to court and was found not to be at fault...I'm very angry and upset about that but apparently it's TRUE...the court too is an accomplice to in this case ...sickening
Suh Dude I have heard that sometimes they don't say anything because they don't want the attacker to know that the victim has called 911 ( for fear that it will anger them more or that they will be lying in wait when police show up ). In my opinion, I think that maybe it would scare them and run them off but what do I know. My sister used to be a 911 dispatcher and has told me that in different states they are taught to do it different ways. For instance, I don't recall which was which but I know that OH and NC have different rules regarding situations like that.
@@wowyathink5982 yeah. I can see your point but i hope they change that rule because she's clearly in distress and a man is heard saying " imma kill ya, where the police " it was just heartbreaking 😭😭😭😭
She said a lot by saying nothing .. she basically said I do not care about you or if you live or not .. this woman was murdered by 2 people the man who strangled her and the operator who was complicit by doing nothing in this womans greatest moment of need .. sickening and makes me think wtf is wrong with our world
Gosh, listening to her screaming for her life in fear is so heartbreaking. I can only imagine the pain that her family is going through. I just want to give her mom the biggest hug and console her. Don't they have some kind of 911 protocol to follow if the caller is unable to speak? Did the 911 operator just decided to not do her job? I hope the operator serves time for this. Her life could've been saved if they immediately sent out the police. This is so infuriating. Also can we just appreciate that her family is doing something good for the community, despite dealing with their own grievance? Now, that's a strength! They're truly a good people.
“I can’t make it to heaven with hatred in my heart. So I have to forgive you.” What a strong woman. I can’t even imagine the pain and anger she feels, yet she still chose to forgive the man that killed her daughter. THAT takes a strong person. Prayers to her and her family 🤍🕊#ripdeannacook
@@angelined9814 that’s not what she said. The statement concerned having hate in her heart. She should and can process her grief however she sees fit. Totally unnecessary response to this woman’s pain and loss.
The way the dispatcher said "heeellloooo, i need an address." with such an attitude. I hope she got fired.
Agreed !!
BIG TIME..was she listening at ALL??? @ cerebral repeat
@@jays-move8803 Okay murdered is a little excessive. But fired absolutely. And I hope that she forever lives with guilt of knowing she could have saved this woman's life. As for the murderer, I would be happy to hear he got murdered.
@@jays-move8803 She did send police, but also clearly understated the gravity of the situation and wasted time asking stupid questions when the victim obviously was in the process of being attacked and couldn't answer and then it seems like she never properly communicated how serious and urgent the situation was to police. So it was definitely negligence on her part. I do wonder if she should be in jailed or fined. I don't think I agree she deserves murder though...
I also think it was negligence on the part of police for taking FIFTY whole minutes to arrive on the scene and then not even going inside. Everybody involved failed her so much. Such a horrifying story :/
J H For Christ sake, listen to her side. You sound like an idiot!
He literally said on the call, "im gonna kill you" and this dispatcher just asks if she needed ambulance or police. Thats clown shit.
Period !!
Horrific dispatcher response...shit
@Salvatore Salerno One, everyone in the video is black. Two, it's dispatch's job to dispatch police on an emergency phone call. Not after hearing her being murdered and THEN fifteen minutes of silence. That's all on the phone call. Besides homicidal negligence, that's bad procedure. How about when he says "where are the police" the dispatcher piped up and said YEAH WE'RE HERE WE'RE ON THE WAY.
JFC people like you expect more out of criminals and fast food workers than police.
They reading a script sis that’s all. It terrible and doesn’t connect 911 assistance to actual reality.
yo sis.... when the dispatcher heard he yelling stop it that shoulda been it!
Buuuuttt they’ll send cops for someone barbecuing in a park 🙄....
that is really messed up
Or sitting on their porch drinking a beer.
Exactly... SMH.
Ohh damn 😂😂😂
Right, SMH
I'm a mother of a murdered child this breaks my heart. I know exactly what mama cook is going through. My prayers for all her family. 🙏
I'm so sorry you had to go through that :(
I hope god gives you peace after this traumatic experience
I'm so sorry you went through what you went through. 💔
Omg I’m so sorry
My cousin was murdered by her boyfriend at the age of 20
Throw the whole department away . They failed her
Exactly
That's over the top considering that it has helped countless others, but I do understand the sentiment. It's really unfortunate.
@TONY DPHAX KING amen to that.
@TONY DPHAX KING shes devoriced him. he was her EX hunsand, so really, she tried to save herself. by leaving him, by calling the cops to warn them about whaat she kknew was going to happen. And ps, your a real piece of shit
angela oickle period 💯
"Hang up the phone, mom, I'm about to break down this door". Her sister is a BOSS.
I admired that action too!! Sometimes we have to take matters into our own hands when it comes to family!!
Bossy is true
@@deby5983 a
Preach I will Bust down a door a beat someones ass behind my family
I wish Deanna had called her family, instead of the police when she was being attacked. I bet her family would have done a hell of a lot more than what the police did (or rather didn’t) do.
Those dispatchers were idiots! They should've been criminally charged!! They can trace prank calls but they won't help an actual ongoing murder?! WTF!!!
She should be held accountable and never be allowed in a position where people lives will depend on her! Such a sociopath
I just said that.....held accountable for this womans murder.
I agree wtf
You are absolutely right, the operator’s lack of any reaction to listening to this woman being murdered is sickening.
Exactly!!!!!🤯😤 not doing their damn job!!!
The way the mother is recounting finding her daughter is so raw it’s like she’s reliving it and seeing it right there. Those horrible images probably will forever haunt her. So heartbreaking.
I have seen millions of these impact statements. Hers was definitely one of the most devastating.
Especially knowing what a body would look like in water for 3 days… The thought of it is just horrific.
When someone sees something like that they can't unsee it that will be forever in her head .my heart hurts for all of them
Of course it will. Initially I thought she was going to say, "the first thing that I was going to do, was kill who killed her daughter". Instead she said, she was going to kill herself. Males like this pick who they will torment. ......and being that she married him (even after he showed her his ass) that only translates as one thing, to someone like that. Eh........
She's getting strangled and the operator is like "HELLO MA'AM DO YOU NEED THE POLICE OR NOT"...that operator FAILED.
Pissed me off
Wtf?!!!
STupid operator.......time waster/should be sacked.Incompetent.🤨
She said that when she answered the call, listened in and then repeated it after he killed her.
Immediate termination for that incompetence.
@@nancymesek OKAY... IMMEDIATE!
That operator should face charges just listening to her being murdered. Pathetic. The officers for not going into her house either. A damn shame.
Nicoletta Macsurak they failed that woman many times. I couldn’t sleep listening to someone getting abused.
@@2muchzen ua-cam.com/video/hanxM2MBnrk/v-deo.html makes me vomit when she talks about offering hope and all life matters...
Nix Mac all who was involved n didn’t help should b fired n receive some kind of jail time
Yh I think so
@Salvatore Salerno true but they showed up hours later and didnt bother gaining entry to property and when the mom rang the next day they said nothing they can do ring the hospital so the num gained entry ?
Why do people always have to die for changes to be made
Exactly. But if I were her, the SECOND time he beat me, I'd bought some heat from my local Walmart.
Because it's not them suffering. Ppl don't care, until it's happening to them, and until then, this saga continues. 🙄🙄🙄!
Momma Bear : THE SAD PART IS THAT PEOPLE ARE DYING, THEY CLAIM THAT THEY’VE LEARNED FROM THE INCIDENTS, & THEN CHANGES ARE STILL NOT MADE!! NOTHING IS BEING IMPLEMENTED!!! SO WRONG, SO SAD. 😞
Changes they won’t implement. It’s all smoke and mirrors USA
Kenyetta Ready exactly that’s the only option. Because if we wait for the police to help us we will most certainly be dead.
When the mom got on the stand and broke down - that put chills on my body. What a sad story. Prayers 🙏🏾❤️
And the recording of the 911 call 😢🥺😭
I’m in tears. Words can’t describe what I want to happen to that mister that killed her. I’m a survivor of a similar situation but I played dead.
It's a sad story.
wow the whole murder was recorded yet her body wasn’t found until three days later? this is just sad.
WHAT?? @Gabriella Elesé
good job being a racist piece of shit.
Joseph The whole system failed her that day. It doesn’t matter what color they were they all FAILED at their job. Also it’s funny you say being a slave was a choice? People were born and forced into slavery if you tried to run you would get hunt down and be killed or tortured. Your ignorance is strong here and I suggest you do some real research instead of listening to a bimbo rapper who barely knows what he’s talking about.
@Joseph you are part of the problem with statements like that...why are people so judgmental? Instead of trying to be a part of change...smh!
Joseph Honey, you need Jesus and I’m going to pray for you. Just know this black women did not deserve to die to any race of color and those operators played a huge part in a death that could’ve been avoided hundreds of times. It doesn’t matter what race they were, they simply didn’t do their job ESPECIALLY the police officer that just knocked and went back to his car. Everything isn’t race-tied you know but a lot of people hold prejudices against African Americans to this day, the KKK is still running strong so if people do make it about race and what color they were I don’t blame them because in many cases White (Officers/Operators) do discriminate against Black people and to other races that aren’t theirs!
After 15 mins of silence...."Do you still need police, fire or an ambulance? WTF!
Foreal that makes me so mad 😡
I think she was just covering her back, instead of abruptly hanging up.
Dumbass bitch
That stiiiiupid operator, she should be terminated!!
OMG right what an idiot..
Tf? They hear her screaming and don't send police? Seriously....
"They need an address" ugh...
If they don't send cops for a call like this wtf are they there for??? 🤯🤯🤯
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Fake.
@@drnogueiras8783 ...? If all that is true I'm sure sorry that happened to you and I hope you're okay
This is absolutely heartbreaking. This didn't have to happen. There was PLENTY of calls for help. This could have been prevented! My heart goes out to this family. RIP Deanna
The way that operator was so dismissive is just sickening. Her mom is traumatized till this day from finding her.
She was getting killed while on the phone with police and they didn't do shit. What did they just think it was a prank call? Wtf. They should be idk that's crazy
The 911 operator should be charged with a crime...she was abhorrent
As she should be!
@@killuminatepeacefulness3948 But if you prank call the cops they will make sure to arrest you
@@AK-ky2xj Or if you call about a little Black girl selling bottled water in her front yard, or a young Black boy mowing a yard in a WHITE neighborhood... or "anything" Black in an area of WHITE... that will get the WHITE cops on the go.
Sick America... my Race is so F*cked up.
The dispatcher telling the mom she needs to call the hospital first is infuriating bullshit! Cops do wellbeing checks all the time!!!! This whole situation is heartbreaking
And half the time the cops end up beating and arresting the person theyr checking on
Her mom and other family members should have never been the first people to have found her deceased body. Beyond disrespectful for the police to fail them like that.
If this had been a wealthy white woman asking police for help finding her missing daughter, I'm sure dispatcher wouldn't have said "you need to call the jails and hospitals first." Prime case of race and class discrimination.
That's exactly what I said..umm no ma'am what happened to a well check
They do wellness checks for URGENT DISTURBANCES but not BEFORE going to 7Eleven to buy water.
www.nbcnews.com/video/dallas-911-operator-breaks-silence-on-deanna-cook-case-30666307618
"Someone's trying to kill me" sounds like a personal problem! :)
"Someone's selling weed" blue lights, sirens and over 10 tough boys in blue appear
No SOMEONE A BLACK SOMEONE is selling weed
Right...Its Fucking sad
johnny rainey A joint can get that!
FACTS!!!!
U smile at the fact n say its sounds like a personal problem ..may u burn hell sorry bastard ...
My heart hurts for that poor Momma. I was only 17 when I found my father passed away. But it was of natural causes not a violent death. It messed me up. I can't imagine finding my child like this. I hope her Mother finds peace and her kids as well. God bless them.♥️🙏
That dispatcher FAILED this woman!! Her poor mother. I can’t imagine
yes
Makes me sick and sad
No....the AMERICAN POLICE failed this woman! If you watch the video again 'she didn't call from a landline'-probably wasn't near one at the time of the attack-she called off the cellular so the dispatcher had to work out 'history of the caller, where is the call coming from, what area,' she had to be a Detective okay- why DO POLICE FEEL IT'S OKAY TO TURN UP AT A WOMAN'S HOUSE WHO'S MADE A CALL IN DISTRESS, GIVE A DAINTY LITTLE DOOR KNOCK, THEN LEAVE?
@Jennifer Did you see the history they had on this caller? So what you on about? By the way what's your profession?
@Jennifer Are we on the phone? What do you mean why am I yelling?....you sound bored and not to smart...to put it to you remaining polite...clearly, I am highlighting important issues....is that O.K.A.Y?
@Jennifer You sound like police.....jumping in trying to save the day....You understand me clearly so my punctuation rocks along just fine....cop
The mum’s face when she’s recalling seeing Deanna in the tub 😔 that hurt me seeing her face like that
😔😢
Made me cry😭
N in real life I knew her mother ....she cries from her SOUL !!!
That’s messed up man
That is the moment I started crying.🥺😭😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺
The operator sounded so calm, I just imagine her filing her nail while listening to this woman being killed.
they’re meant to stay calm so they don’t freak out the caller even more.
@@vee-un4gb Are you even serious? Nkt!was this a call to stay calm about or to take action immediately? Get lost smh
melvin awuor what
@@vee-un4gb I think that's a little calmer than she was trained to be 😂
Star Dust well, true lol
I live very close by and I'm so disgusted with the dispatcher that didn't send help immediately. My mom was a 911 dispatcher for over 20 years in a city in Dallas county and I've listened in on calls several times and they send cops to hang up calls! They should have sent someone immediately especially when she was screaming. They failed her!
Omg. The operator is awful.
very AWFUL! she sounded so disconnected like she didn't careless whatever was going on with the caller! That's so AWFUL!!!!!
Her family needs to sue the uncaring operator, and help her find a better suited job. McDonalds
@@toniw1961 I'm sorry but your comment made me bust out laughing 😂😂
@@Carpathianpixie McDonald's is appropriate for a person of her character.
@@toniw1961 :
Sounds right, instead of "Do you need police, fire, or ambulance?," it would be "Do you want fries with that?"
That’s the most incompetent operator I’ve ever heard. She should be charged for negligence & get an IQ test
PEople need to HOLD those people responsible, COPS, who kill innocent people in the street! How can those people feel "secure" that Karma isn't going to follow up??
Unfortunately, I heard much worse. Some of these operators are heartless people, who take the job because it makes them look like they are good people.
IQ TEST 🤪
911 operator hears screaming first thought should be send the police not asking 21 questions
I said the same damn thing.... Like HOW MANY TIMES does she have to scream before you send the cops 😔
Send police to where? Just keep driving till you hear the screams?
RIGHT
Sightless Eye Entertainment they can trace where the call is coming from especially because she was using a cell phone.
Taylor C actually calls from cells are so hard to trace. It takes time to get the registered owners details from the phone company’s and that’s if the company even has them as some cells are unregistered.
I knew Deanna Cook and her mother Vickie since Deanna was 2 years old. It is sickening and heartbreaking to actually know what happened to her. My prayers will always will be with her family. Rest in Love, Deanna!
When my violent ex was stalking and threatening me I got a restraining order, a kickass alarm system, several cans of pepper spray kept all thru my house, a 9mm handgun, and a rescue German Shepherd. I then let all of my neighbors know what was going on and asked them to call the cops if they saw him near my home or car. He came into my yard one day and my dog went after him and bit him. My neighbor got it all on video and called the cops, and he was arrested. He has not been back. : )
I’m so glad you did what you had to do to be safe! I have a restraining order against my ex husband 2 dogs, cameras, motion detector and an alarm system. We have to be on guard with these emotionally unbalanced men!
May he stay tf away forever!
Good ...I'm glad you're safe
smart on your part always carry firearm
@@jazziestory4959 I'm sorry that there are men like that out there. I will never understand it
The way her mother describes finding her daughter. You know she still sees it when she closes her eyes.
I can't even imagine😥😥😥
And she will til the day she dies! 😭😭😭 No mother should ever have to find their child like that.
How could she not.
Or anytime she wants 2 take a bath or hear running water💔💔💔.
😢
Put that operator in jail too for 50 days for making her wait 50 minutes 🤬
50 years
50 decades*
50 centuries**
@@vee-un4gb 50 Millenniums
@Tiffany... 50 years in the cage
That story really hurt my heart especially listening to her plead for her life and the operator being so nonchalant.
My 1 year old called the police when I was sleeping and the police damn near broke down my door. I am so sorry that their county failed this beautiful woman.
Rachelle R 😂😂😂 oooh your baby is smart to be 1 years old..
@@seekingserenity1209 - You think her 1 yr. old knew his or her life was in trouble having a black female mother?😆😆😆😁
@@Kmakmizzle bitch shut the fuck up
Kmak Milly I just know you’re ugly inside and out
1 year old? Yeah ok. We _all_ believe you
I hope that dispatcher hear Deanna's voice every single night, when she goes to sleep. Same the other one that spoke to the mother.
@@theendofanerror4173 you grow up. The dispatcher listened when a man was saying he's going to kill her and did nothing. Go away turd
@@theendofanerror4173 listening to that made me even more mad she has all the excuses for why she didn’t do more it’s a joke
That’s gonna be her hell. Who tf hears that shit and doesn’t do anything, especially in that job
It’s not easy being a 911 operator. Why don’t you do the job before being so judgmental. The problem is with Police Department training of 911 operators. The operator was obviously not trained properly!
SO DO I
But they'll send a cop for kid selling lemonade
Right. Do ur jobs bitches
all i can think of is how that scenario exactly is highlighted on in shameless. poor Liam :(
Within seconds as well..
Yes and also selling lemonade, mowing lawns, sitting in Starbucks and other common day to day activities.
Ok
This one just about broke me. That 911 call was too much. I don't know how she has found the forgiveness, but she is a far better woman than I.
911 operator: * *Hears the poor lady getting drowned* *
Also 911 operator: hello ma’am,do you need police,fire or ambulance ?👁👄👁
Thank you like wtf
2muchofme 2 I absolutely HATED hearing that😡
Right that just enraged me
That was really alarming. Clearly, she couldn't speak. Dispatcher should have sent help when she first called
Just speechless!!! Murdered on the 911 call!! Dispatcher should be fired and charged with something.
A lawsuit needed to be placed on that whole police department! This is an outrage!! COME ON NOW!!
I’d have to assume they sued
For real they didn’t care or nothing
Yes they would win with that concrete proof!
Right, right, and can't say it any clearer!!!
@Bekah we all should press charges!!!
This bothers me at night since i have listened to it. My 💙 brakes!!!!
Poor mom is traumatized like this bc they didn’t care about her daughter...I’m so sad for her family.
😭 A CRYING SHAME 😭 A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMAN⚘
@Salvatore Salerno honey..fist if all CHILL... your system is shit and needs be be fixed.... and yes ofc the man is the devil .... imagine this was your mother etc...they at least couldve gone inside so that her mother wouldnt find her in that state...
i honestly hate americans....
@Salvatore Salerno shut up both are at extreme fault
I hate to bring race into it but I get the feeling that this may have been racially motivated on the side of the 911 operator. Maybe she didn't see it as much of an emergency because Deanna was black. I don't know, either way I hope that she was fired and charged Deaanna's death. Like how the hell do you not send help when you can hear someone being murdered? I'm really scratching my head on that one.
Me too. This is horrifying and heartbreaking. I'm a survivor of domestic violence and this just makes me so angry for her and her family.
That 911 operator is complicit in Deana’s horrific fate. Between her & the ex that poor woman never had a chance an even an inkling of hope to live. Evil! Both of them!!
"Ma'am can you stop being killed long enough to tell me if you need police, fire, or ambulance please?"
Ykr. Smh. Like seriously, she's bawling for her life.
Right TF she so sad
IT'S UNACCEPTABLE!!!!
Boncaaaaa👍
😰😰😰😰😠
When the mother said she forgives him because she cant make it to heaven with hatred in her heart..that's deep
MzPinkyPink88 : yes deep indeed , it was God leading her.
😭😭😭
Facts! Nothing but God
Deeply stupid!
Deep brainwashing
I’m sick to my stomach, that dispatcher had a opportunity to save her life !
I don't think so. He was going to kill her sooner or later
When her mom was describing how she saw her daughter I was so heartbroken she had to c her daughter like that.
She didn’t care
@Salvatore Salerno the first responders could have
@@hloyd3774 no, if you watched the video, the dispatcher was on the phone with her for 15 minutes. She heard her living and dying. She could’ve traced the call and sent the police. She had more than enough time to send the police for her.
the way the dispatcher is like “hellooooo?? 🥰😇” after hearing brutal yelling for help is CRAZY
The reporter once she begins to talk about the hood, her voice changed.
Alejandra De Luna 😂😂😂
Haha right... i noticed that too
Yup. Reporters are fake af 😂😂
The hood is pretty depressing.
Its insulting
This one made me angry. I hope that dispatcher lives with guilt for the rest of her life.
melaniemassacrerawr420 She wasn’t sympathetic while she was listening to a desperate woman on the phone I doubt she’s sympathetic after the fact. Why is this operator employed as an emergency dispatcher? Conspicuously unqualified.
Anybody that evil doesn’t feel guilt
@Dave if they get that desensitized, i hope they would find another job!
That baby was screaming for her life. And nobody f****** cared excuse my language I'm a Christian woman but I am mad
She won’t she was able to listen to that whole killing then ask if she needed to send anyone when the chick is already dead now
Deanna family should SUE the DALLAS POLICE DEPARTMENT PERIOD.
The STATE IF TEXAS ...STAIGHT TRASH STATE.. TREATING MY KIND LIKE TRASH
Typo ..OF
I'm sure they will, as well as the emergency communications center. Terrible job. This could've been prevented.
I agree they failed her
They did. But of course they didn’t win due to “sovereign immunity “.
Beautiful, full of life, Deanna Cook. The social media, her close and beautiful family, just shows what a bright light she was and horrendously taken from the world so young. Ms. Cook's passionate and heart breaking testimony will forever stay with me and I'm sure anyone who saw it. I am just sickened how 911 and officers epically failed her. May she rest peacefully.
This is infuriating! So she’s called over and over about being stalked. She called as she is getting attacked and murdered. The operator hears all this yet just listens and asks once she’s been killed,’ so you need police, fire or ambulance!’ WTF! You can hear her being chocked. The cops finally go there but leave and let the poor family walk in and find that horrific scene. Devastating!
I just dint understand wtf was wrong with the operator!!! Like you can literally hear her being fucking attacked and as you stated this was on record 😤
That operates should be fired I hope she doesn't need a policeman one day and think back on this time when someone else was asking for help
The cops and law don’t care especially when it’s a black woman
Choked
Pissed me off!!! Like did you just not hear her??? I hope that stayed on her conscious and she got fired!! And the police suck
The whole damn department should be thrown away really.
I'm from Dallas and this didn't surprise me. The operators are always on some BS
Sued
I agree. She would've stood more of a chance if the department didn't exist because then she wouldn't have relied on the reassurance she could always call the police if necessary
she’s screaming for help and the dispatcher didn’t send help. i’m outrage!
Me too
Who cares of you're outragED.
No address?
@Ngawati marupohill, Uh, his spelling is correct. Yours is incorrect, dummy.
Cellar Door ... So, what words were misspelled, genius?
Everything this poor family went through, Deanna included… There are no words. They were treated like they didn’t matter and it’s so heartbreaking 💔 That 911 operator should’ve been held legally responsible for her demise
She made hundreds of complaints....and her cell number was not recognize or on file by the 9-1-1 dispatch?
James Vaughn right. I’ve been put on hold while they look up my call history, that’s just the non emergency number.
They probably did recognize her number. That is the problem.
They're lying. I called from my cell phone for a man slumped over in his truck and the dispatcher knew exactly where I was calling from. That was in 2011. 🤷♀️
Thank you... how come ??
I think tht was the issue her calling so many times they figured it was just another one of those calls but you can hear it in her screams she clearly needed help
They failed her so sad her mother had to see her baby like that
And her kids smh
😢😢 heartbreaking
Tina Casey I cannot even imagine.. I cannot imagine seeing one of my babies, I cannot imagine then hearing her begging thinking someone was coming.. I just cannot..
Tina Casey right I would’ve died literally if I saw my baby like that
And her babies had to see their mommy like that... Sooooo sad :(
There should be higher education required for 911 operators.
Having a heart should be required.
Common sense needed as well.
@@bornstar481 what??? I dont understand. . . a pineapple? 🤔
@@bobbisue313 I dnt get his whole comment
I know in SC the training is extensive but one can never fully train for a real life situation. Plus operators have a script to stick to unfortunately.
"I can't make it to heaven with hatred in my heart." Powerful statement; God bless this family. 🙏
You hear her screaming and didn't think that she needed help..How stupid
She was never given an address. What was she supposed to do?
Riiiight? She could hear all that and then just asks in a bored way what she needed.
@@kangz.n.sheeit630 Did you miss the part where they came eventually? They were able to find her location but didn't make it a priority despite the literal murder that happened over the phone. Tracking a location on a cell phone isn't automatic the way it is for a landline, but it's not impossible. I mean, clearly, since they literally did... an hour later...
Person Did not care.
Exactly
It's sad that someone has to die in order for change to happen
Ty for pointing this out. Def too little too late tho. *also: I was surprised to hear that cop actually admit that the police & system had failed her. Rare.
I hate to say it but its always a black body that affects change dam
@@darrylcrane253 The truth is that most times there isn't change at all. How many funeral has anyone here been to? Think. 99.9999% if not 100% of the time- several make a speech of how great that person was...how they lit up a room...They talk about us loving one another more and more to keep close to the friends and family we love....Then a week or two later every one is back at their normal routine ..they quickly go back to what they are used to. Look at what is going on. There are alll kinds of people who have been racially profiled and killed. Yet because A person wears a blue uniform they are not subject to the punishment anyone else would receive. I dc what the title or how many degreees you have or what dept you work for. Then the us begins to kneel for change PEACEFULLY and THAT is an issue. You then have more and more people die...and the U.S wants to shoot, set off smoke bombs..tear gas...and beat others with Batons for reacting to actions that are intolerable?!!?!!! Change is a state of mind. Being mindful of what we want in life. Should we seek change we must be the change period.
💯
This is seriously the most haunting episode of this ive ever seen. And I've seen all of them.
Very disturbing
delvecio what kind a name is that,he a foreigner
That 911 call, and her mom crying, hit me bad.. omg. So sad
😔💔
@@littleismuch3900 same
That poor mother… I’ve watched so many shows like this and she game me chills. Just imagining her having to see her daughter that way is absolutely awful. 💔
So 911 operator has an attitude while the victim is screaming...plz tell me she's dismissed.
I sure hope so
I don't think she did
Nah shes working at the emergency room now handling triage victims
Nope they never do
@@TrashwareArt Wow...really... hope she found what she likes doing
The mother broke my heart. God continue to give her strength.
I want to hug her as a domestic violence survivor this touches my soul...
Elvin S I know....That’s one lady I consider a REAL MOTHER that defended her child to the very end, not the kind of parent that will STEAL from their child, Lie to and on their child just for a quick buck and hidden jealousy!!!!! She get my most deepest sympathy bc she’s a REAL MOTHER 👑
When she was describing finding her baby that way my heart broke with hers.
darcelharmon Well you gotta look up the actual court hearing and watch it 😳😳😳 I promise you’ll be balling your eyes out bc I saw that first and heard the actual recorded 911 calls and you could literally hear EVERYTHING 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I literally replayed it from beginning to end and let me tell you it was horrific to the point where they had to adjourn court bc the “Mom” was so emotional on the stand....You could literally feel her pain thru the screen”
@@mehmeh7567 just thinking about the mother's pain of losing her baby makes me want to start crying. I am an empath.
She was a victim twice once by Delvecchio and by the none Dallas Emergency Services. She deserved so much more.. I Pray her family all the Blessings of God..
This poor woman, I never want to imagine what it’s like to lose a child, I hope she’s able to find peace and put all that love to her other daughters and grandchildren. I hate that they all had to find her like that.
She said " Please Baby" i know she was scared and I bet calling him "baby" she thought he would stop.
Tide exactly her last hope to calm him down 😞
THAT WAS HER WAY OF TRYNA CALM THE SADISTIC PUNK DOWN- WHATS SO SAD HE GOT A TAT IN PRISON OF HER ON HIM WITH THE AFRO PUFFS- WHEN ASKED WHY HE STATED IT WASN'T HER. BUT TRUST IT LOOKS JUS LIKE HER
Men when a person have they mind made up. There's no way of stopping him/she. I left everything behind too move.
French kiss exactly that was to try and “ calm” him down!
That made it worse because in that moment he knew he couldn’t truly have her so you already know in his mind if he can’t have nobody can either
I'm a 911 dispatcher, there is no way in this world!! We send officers for LESS. Not to mention, we report missing persons no matter how long it's been. This angered me!!
WHY do the operators ALWAYS seem SO bothered and uncaring?!
Have you worked with people like this?
@@Angelcatsun Unfortunately, I know of an operator who is like that. He is older and he hates his job. He's only there because he can't retire yet, and that's dangerous. I LOVE my job so its easier for me to be compassionate and caring.
@@LadyWhiggy wow., that’s really sad and I hope they fire his ass!
🙂
@@Angelcatsun I agree.
unbelievable smh
People like us who are PISSED OFF AT THE 911 OPERATOR, are the very type of people they need to HIRE!!!
Exactly...I tried getting a job as one and never got a call back.
Amen
Om
glenn brown Can’t they sue the 911 dispatcher and that whole company?
glenn brown THERE WAS THOUNDS OF COMPLAINTS ABOUT HER “STALKER”. AND NO ONE CAME TO HER AID SHE WAS MURDERED. SHE CALLED 911 AND THE OPERATER STAYS ON THE PHONE THE WHOLE TIME BC THE CALLER HAS NOT RESPONDED AND SHE NEEDS AN ASNWER. SHE IS BEING STRANGLED AND UM YEAH THAT WOULD MEAN SEND A FUCKING UNIT BUT SHE DOESNT. *15 minutes later* OPERATOR CALLS BACK TO ASK IF SHE NEEDS A POLICE OFFICER OR A AMBULANCE. WHAT THE FUCK? ITS A LOT DEEPER THAN THE OPERATOR RN IF THIS HAS GOING FROM WAY BACK.
Her call before she died is heartbreaking 💔 hearing her ALIVE knowing she will die the next day
I want to hug her mama. I literally began “ugly face” crying watching her testimony. All I could think was I hope they give him the chair & I hope they let her pull the lever when it’s time… And then in the end she said she forgives him. For a split second I felt a little bit of shame for my own thoughts… But it passed... I figure I’ll carry those kind of thoughts for her mama so she can get to heaven to see her baby! God bless her family & May they find peace until they meet again in heaven💗
I did too!!!
Yes!! We both are thinking the same thing.
First time watching this show I actually 'felt' like I should've cried. That's something right?
I've been on youtube for many years, and this comment touched my heart the way no other has. May god bless you to the fullest 💕.
your feelings are so well put in your comment that i can also imagine how u felt even though i did not feel it directly
God bless you! I love this comment :)
I hope that operator lost her job and never gets put in a position like that again...seems she is partially responsible for this murder. RIP Deanna.
@@theendofanerror4173 Thanks for sharing. This sheds a lot of light on what REALLY happened. They did throw the 911 operator under the bus. Now I feel bad for her too.
@@carolwilliams8840 Exactly. I was calling her every name in the book like everyone else but then something in me said 'see if you can find her side of the story'. Now my anger is directed towards those cops who thought getting bottled water from a convenience store was more important to do first over racing to a woman being battered and murdered in real time.
Oh PLEASE @@carolwilliams8840 Y'all find every excuse in the book when Black people are dehumanized 🙄 The piss poor operator simply didn't care.If she did she would've used her heart & requested officers go to the scene after the first scream.It's called common sense & compassion.But of course that goes out the window when it's one of us.You can get another job but you can't resurrect the dead.And it's a lie that you can't trace cellphones,they damn sure magically can find the person when it's one of us doing simple things like standing up to racism.Location doesn't even have to be on.
@@deonsellers9749 yesssss preach to them!!! 🥺
@@deonsellers9749 stfu!You're not the centre of the world!The racism shit is so over used!
This is one of the most terrible things I have ever seen. She literally died on the 911 call. Horrific...bless her and her family ❤
The rage and heartbreak I felt is unreal.
Yeah. It was haunting. Poor woman. Tried to help this guy and this is how he repays! With murder. Please, people you cannot change ppl. We are all adults and come as we are. I'm just glad the children of the deceased were not harmed. Shouldn't the murderer have given the death penalty? What hope is there for rehabilitation for an individual like this? Feed him to crocodiles or chop off a limb one day at a time. For he could feel the terror his victim did in her last moments
And they still didnt take action! 😡
I’m absolutely torn over this case. I’m so sad and sorry for Deanna and her family. I pray for changes that need to be made within the system and I pray that they are doing well and healing from the pain he caused them. That guy is a monster. How dare he put up his middle finger in court! Completely no remorse, he’s a sick individual.
911 operator should be prosecuted
Right because she was her life line
EXACTLY!!
She is literally an embarrassment to this country. Useless most stupid 911 operator I've heard.
When are you people going to realize that the government isn't obligated nor responsible for your protection. You are responsible for your own protection.
Yes she’s a major douche
is anyone else addicted to watching these and retraumitizing themselves evry single time...
I should rlly stop.
Yeah I'm trying to break the cycle.
My sister say I’m weird my channel stays on court tv then I’m on UA-cam also watching stuff like this!
I thought I was the only one. I don't understand why I have to see these videos every so often. I think it's strange. I wonder why we keep watching these videos!
I cry almost every time too, but yea on to the next one lol
Me too! 1st 48, fatal attraction, and all these sad videos..smh...it keeps me on point 📍
Ladies: If a man hits you the first time, LEAVE!!! That s a red flag it s going to get worse😞.
They weren’t together anymore.
@@lylajade458 unfortunately women today do need arms. Too many bad actors...😐
(Btw wasnt it female 911 op)..We as Fairer not Inferior Being on this plane need to BE Aware.THAT at all times we have "Something" we are Hunted for, On us at all Times.and that is aside from Relinquishing Power to these same Predatory characters and giving them better angle on chess board of life to hunt us down and do as they will. man based society.and SOME OF US LIKE THE FRAEAKIN 911 OP ARE ASLEEP AT THE WHEEL.( female operator)
@@lylajade458 Yup. These type of men are crazy. Even when you decide to leave sooner, he will stalk and harass you.
Exactly!!
I wish I can hug this mom. I feel for her 💔
The dispatcher should have been fired then locked up.
How is his argument that she was hallucinating when you can hear his voice on the 911 tape 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ I guess we are all hallucinating then
people cant just own up to their own fault smh
From her screams and him clearly mocking her and letting her know he was gonna kill her
Ratoya Banks the restraining order should’ve been reason enough to send help
@@tianarogers Doesn't seem like the restraining order served any purpose. I mean what was the point of her spending energy/time to file one if he could just strangle her in her home? I mean what does a piece of paper do?
😆😹😹🚀.
I can feel her pain through my screen when she described finding her body, it hit me directly in the heart 💔. I'm so sorry 😭
As a mom that sh*t triggered anxiety I didn't even know I had.
@@houngrysdigest1525 sis who you telling 😳
Nikki SoVain it is devastating for a mom to find daughter like that..
@@Burcawi24 heartbreaking :(
It scare me so, God I pray I'm gone before that ever happens
When Deanna’s mother started crying describing how she found her baby my eyes started tearing cause that’s a pain that nobody should have to endure 😢That 911 operator failed her miserably how could you hear her screaming in fear of her life and not dispatch the police to her location
This is the worst I’ve seen. I’m a grown man in tears hurt behind this one man. RIP 😞
@William Johnson 😪💯
Mr Johnson me too😭😭😭😭
@William Johnson how the mother describes walking in omg she has a very vivid picture of what she saw that day and it’s so heartbreaking. These dispatchers have to do a better job. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
Soomali Midnimo & Wadajir very heartbreaking 😭
😢😢😢😢🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I really appreciate that the lawyer is taking accountability that everyone in the legal system failed her. Please change domestic violence calls more seriously across ALL states.
Ooohh God, it hurts when her mother was narrating how she found Deanna
She does that face every time. That's when you can feel the pain.
The entire situation hurts,but your right watching her mother really hurts
it was extra sad when she testified in court/to tell seeing your murdered daughter's decomposing body, reliving that nightmare again Was Painful to watch/I was crying as bad as her mom/some people, like that bum really shouldn't be breathing rn/he should lose he Worthless Life the Same Way/Guarantee, he's Not in prison chocking anyone...
THE SYSTEM TOTALLY FAILED HER. EVERYTIME SHE CALLED AND NO ACTIONS WERE TOOKEN. EVERYONE BESIDES HIM SHOULD BE CHARGED AS WELL
Im more mad at the dispatcher more than anything . Like as a human how could that not bother you , listening to someone die .
TAZ Fields exactly the dispatcher actually deserved to serve some time for her role.
I think black women can be the meanest to other black women. One once told me that she was not my sister when I told her we were like sisters. Some are so detached. This operator didn't care or hear a sister. She was too worried about her job and following a checklist. They only care when it is something that affects them personally, then they want someone to save them.
It pisses me the fuck off to no end. 😤😤😤
right
Right.... it's like she muted the call or removed her headset while everything was going on
What her mother says at the end sent shivers up my spine! "I forgive you, I can't get into heaven with hatred in my heart", my stars! 💜
I could never forgive that, but forgiving and letting go of the hate will make her happier (less tortured ato) so I’m glad she is able and to do that. So sad for all involved 😔 RIP
Yeah... I am NOT that strong. I guess I would be in hell with him.
God love her...because she knows that unforgiveness is a poison we drink in hopes of harming someone else.
@@Carpathianpixie you wouldn't want that. The forgiveness isn't for them it's for you. Unforgiveness brings sickness unto the body
@@FaithandNova You're right. It's just so hard to forgive these types of things.
How could he do that to her? To her daughters to her mama and her sister he’s disgusting just evil I hope he rots in Hell.
This is one of the saddest cases I have ever heard of and I'm back to look at it after seeing it a few years ago. I'll never forget this and hearing her call.😭😭😭
Who else wants to give Ms. Cook a hug? 😭
Who else wants to scream at the operator?😫😡
Who else wants to punch delvecchio?😡😡😡😡
This video im feeling furious, scared, and sad.
God bless her family and deanna
Murder em dead a blot clot
Kathleen McGuire I feel you 🙌🏽
Gurl, I finna gut him, not punch him!
I do! This is so sad! Finding your daughter murdered, especially the way she found her. Heart breaking!
katie mcguire
I agree with all sentiments right up to the “god bless”. Ask yourself…if there really were an “all loving” and “all knowing” god, why let something like this happen. It would seem that, for an “all powerful being” that would’ve been easy. And don’t give me the “free will” crap. In the fable that is Christianity, “Satan” knows god exists and chooses not to worship “him”. So you can know about a god and still choose not to worship it. If there were empirical, absolute, scientific evidence that the Christian god existed, I would believe it exists but I certainly wouldn’t worship it. That god would have a lot to answer for. Slavery, child raping priests, hurricanes, tornados, starvation, lack of clean drinking water, etc.
IF SOMEONE ASKS FOR THE COPS, SEND THE DARN COPS!!!!!!! DONT ASSUME IT MIGHT BE NOTHING.........
TheCubanMafia97 right that lady might could have been save it’s like the operator didn’t even care
totaly i agree ... there is no time to think as an emergency dispatch ... i am sending god in ..
wow they asume are these people who are trained to protect wow i am sending the spirits in..
Marion Romero it’s not their job to assume, it’s their job to send help
He has no remorse. He won't know real fear until he takes his last breath and wakes up in hell after judgement.
That poor woman. God her pain... Deanna was failed miserably. This is heartbreaking. I’m in tears... That is the definition of no soul. He should’ve FRIED!
This brought tears to my eyes 💔🥺 I really feel her moms pain .
Sounds like the operator's filing her nails while waiting for a response.
my thots too! the operator sounded so distanced & disconnected like a lackadaisical attitude towards the caller! the operator sounded like she didnt care whatever the caller was going thru! So AWFUL!!! The entire dept should be sued & operator DISMISSED!!!!
Exactly! "Hello Mam, do you need police, fire, or Ambulance?" On Diana WTF!
Working in that field after a while operators become desensitized.
@@lloovveellyy742 Then they need to be fired. They signed up to do an emotionally draining job. Either do it or quit.
And chewing gum too.
I hope the 911 operator lost their job...
The operator should go to jail !! Total and complete negligence how did they get the job!! Unbelievable careless and reckless
Probably not 👎☹
@@Dk-dy6gx lmao 😂
Apparently she take to court and was found not to be at fault...I'm very angry and upset about that but apparently it's TRUE...the court too is an accomplice to in this case ...sickening
I hope they at least gave The 911 dispatcher a drug test because she must have been on drugs
That dispatcher sat and listened to this woman get murdered. Didnt say a thing. Just listened.
Suh Dude I have heard that sometimes they don't say anything because they don't want the attacker to know that the victim has called 911 ( for fear that it will anger them more or that they will be lying in wait when police show up ). In my opinion, I think that maybe it would scare them and run them off but what do I know. My sister used to be a 911 dispatcher and has told me that in different states they are taught to do it different ways. For instance, I don't recall which was which but I know that OH and NC have different rules regarding situations like that.
@@wowyathink5982 yeah. I can see your point but i hope they change that rule because she's clearly in distress and a man is heard saying " imma kill ya, where the police " it was just heartbreaking 😭😭😭😭
Lindseyloveslacquer well send someone while you listen so i call bullshit
Jacque Renee
Me Too !
She said a lot by saying nothing .. she basically said I do not care about you or if you live or not .. this woman was murdered by 2 people the man who strangled her and the operator who was complicit by doing nothing in this womans greatest moment of need .. sickening and makes me think wtf is wrong with our world
this sweet mama... I pray for God's grace all over her and her family... what a wonderful testimony to the power of forgiveness.
Gosh, listening to her screaming for her life in fear is so heartbreaking. I can only imagine the pain that her family is going through. I just want to give her mom the biggest hug and console her.
Don't they have some kind of 911 protocol to follow if the caller is unable to speak? Did the 911 operator just decided to not do her job? I hope the operator serves time for this. Her life could've been saved if they immediately sent out the police. This is so infuriating.
Also can we just appreciate that her family is doing something good for the community, despite dealing with their own grievance? Now, that's a strength! They're truly a good people.
Makemepretty RIGHT!!! I literally was sick to my stomach listening to this. Heartbreaking 😢
I just watched this video and I am in tears
“I can’t make it to heaven with hatred in my heart. So I have to forgive you.” What a strong woman. I can’t even imagine the pain and anger she feels, yet she still chose to forgive the man that killed her daughter. THAT takes a strong person. Prayers to her and her family 🤍🕊#ripdeannacook
Kinda discounts it though if she says she HAS TO forgive him to make it to heaven.
@@angelined9814 let the mother grieve wtf
Angeline D , what does it discount?
@@angelined9814 that’s not what she said. The statement concerned having hate in her heart. She should and can process her grief however she sees fit. Totally unnecessary response to this woman’s pain and loss.
That is one of the most heart-wrenching things I have ever seen. That guy is pure evil.
I cried tears of anger and sorrow. That 911 person needs to be fired.