Please be sure to pre-save Crying here! You can win handwritten lyrics and personalised thank-you videos! ffm.to/crying-eb It's out on Friday March 12th, I hope you love it!
I proper miss 2014 yt feeling like a community :'((( kinda felt like i had that weird bit of belonging too even just as a fan. shame it got fucked over by youtube being how it's ended up and, er, the fun few months of "who's going to be your next fav who turns out to be a sex offender"
Honestly I feel like Emma should be proud of the versatility she’s shown in her music over the years, singer/songwriter/ independent styled music, more punk styled, pop, covers. She can do a lot with a sound that’s quite unique in tone, vibrato, flexibility in the vocal chords. She’s pretty great 😊
I’d wondered why I fell out of love with UA-cam as both a youtuber and a consumer, you hit the nail on the head. It’s way too dark and toxic, barely any overall community. Drama just runs it. It’s so unwelcoming :(
I literally found you because of Nerdcubed. However, I stayed for your content and you alone. Anything with Dan after was a bonus. I've even seen you perform live and yes i'm also a huge fan of The Promise. I also love your other music because you are that talented. You look like you are glowing right now and feel you are much happier compared to a few years ago. Stay strong.
honestly I kinda like that she addresses it in every Ask Emma, it's like oh good they're still friends after all these years, they just don't talk about it publicly
@@mrtoastgshost I agree with that. I don't really care if Emma makes more videos with Dan, I didn't subscribe to this channel for those videos, but their chemistry and apparent friendship in the older videos makes me hope they're still friends with each other.
About the dirt question. You’ve made such a wide range of songs that you’re always going to face negative criticism from someone depending on what sound you have, some of that is going to be brutal (especially with younger fans). But take pride that each song you’ve made has made multiple people happy (like the answer where you talked about The Promise), it shows that your writing is versatile. Also I hope you’re doing okay.
firstly, your makeup and overall style in this vid is STUNNING!!! secondly, this video is amazing, i love how you conduct yourself and how you phrase your answers, you can tell that they are well thought out!! crying is pre-saved and ready for my ears, and i’m glad that your dad is doing well, hopefully you can see your family again soon! i know i’m looking forward to hugging my nan again! hope you’re well and good and safe emma, have a lovely night xxxx :)
The first question really hits me hard. I've been on UA-cam since day one. Yourself Emma and people like Philip DeFranco have been apart of my life for years and it's been difficult to see this site change from the glory days, to where it is today. I miss the golden years. It was such a better platform to be on and interact with others. While I love the huge amount of content available, but YT has become less genuine and more corporate.
"Ive Been Worse" and "Your Own Shoes" came out around a time when I was kicked out of my house and on my own for the first time. They both massively helped me cope with the change. I still listen to "Ive Been Worse" when im going through a hard time.
I love a good q+a but I just think it’s worth recognizing the huge double standard that women have to be as polite as possible no matter what while men being blunt is just seen as assertive or whatever. so I’m just here to say that grumpy Emma is valid too
This! Honestly prefer bluntness regardless of gender as it makes life much easier when you know people's true feelings/intentions. There's always a way to be kind, assertive and honest without putting others down or hiding the truth ^^;
I've had a few struggles over the past couple of years but I think I've come out the other side a lot more mature and level-headed. It's nice to know that I don't have to be zany and over the top to show people I'm happy.
I feel like you might be interested to know I actually found NerdCubed through you! Been watching both of you for a long time, and I love you both, together and independently!
I miss 2014 UA-cam it was a totally different time that cannot be described to any one person. I remember I used to sit on UA-cam for hours on end however now I just go on here occasionally and it’s sad. I’ve started coming on UA-cam more often but social media at the moment is toxic, it’s always about who is arguing with who, I use social media as an escape from my pretty shit life so seeing people arguing it isn’t nice. You’re one person who I’ve always turned to with your music such as (I know you hate it sorry) the promise and I still cry every time I hear it. Self help 101 especially the self harming one became my way of coping and knowing I am wanted (probably pathetic I know) I’ve never met you, for some reason you’re the only UA-camr I haven’t met which I hope to one day change.
same dude. the explanation totally makes sense and i always cringed with the comments that came out from people. Emma Totally did the right thing, i miss their dynamic but not at the expense of emmas own content or wellbeing.
Love the honesty and yeah UA-cam has really changed. I don't often watch any of the UA-camrs I used to watch a lot anymore, just watching sims videos and booktubers now haha. Also the Google+ song always makes me laugh. Keep doing what you're doing music wise, you're amazing!
When i found "The Promise" I was in a deep dark abyss in my life. I didn't want to leave the house, and i hardly slept. The song meant a great deal to me. Thank you for that song, Emma. Now, I'm in a stable job, a lovely dog and have my own appartment that i share with the love of my life. I'm still struggling from time to time with depressive thoughts, but you really helped me more than you can imagine.
‘Dirt’ and ‘Cute Without Ya’ both came out at a time when I needed a song like those. They really helped me when I was going through a tough patch in my life. I would sing them to practice in my vocal lessons. People have nothing better to do than hate on things that are good because they’re disappointed with their own lives. As difficult as it is to not acknowledge hate comments, I really hope they don’t get you down again cause there are far more people who love your work more than the people who don’t. You only see the one’s who don’t because they’re typically far more noisy than those of us who love and support you. ❤️ I look forward to hearing your new single! Take care of yourself
Emma - I just want to say how much I really look up to you and how much I really relied on your videos back in the day. I remember those times around 2015-2018 feeling the most depressed and lonely I've ever been. Every upload from the you, dodie, evan and luke got me through it. It is really sad because as you discussed friends drifting apart I often feel as though I drifted from those UA-camrs who helped me back in the day, it's really odd how strong a connection you can have with someone you've never met. I still rewatch all the old stuff now and again and get that sense of nostalgia. I think it's really amazing that you're doing all of these new things and doing things your way and it really inspires me to pursue what I want in life rather than what is 'expected' of me, if that makes sense. I am now in a situation where my problems from 2016 seem so small, and I've truly been at rock bottom and never want to be there again. And still, here in 2021 one of your videos gives me hope and makes me feel safe. I guess those connections really stuck with me because this truly made me feel something I don't feel much of these days. Thank you so much Emma, I truly mean that.
I think people felt the lyrics referenced internet sayings a bit too much, I was just trying to make a light-hearted, fun piece of music. And also the video was rightfully roasted 😂
@@emmablackery When Dirt comes up in my playlist, I get more animated than any other time of the day. I seriously turn into one of those girls who sings as loud as she can out the open window on the motorway.
oh mann i remember feeling that kind of community vibe as a viewer back in 2014, i'm 23 now and still watching! This was such a nice video, Can't wait for your new song
All that stuff with you and Dan is how I saw how toxic shipping real life people is, it not only feeds the notion that a guy and gal can’t just be friends and HAVE to be banging, like you said it really messes with their mental state and I just want my favorite content creators like yous guys to be happy making videos. Though it does make me feel better that you guys are still friends and just don’t collab anymore.
I haven't finished the video yet but this nearly made me cry already. I've known you since I was a kid in middle school and now I'm in college and all the way your videos have made me happy and nostalgic. You hold a special place in lots of people's hearts, of course including me, for the joy you carry and for how much you've developed, it's really inspiring. You are a part of UA-cam that's so refreshing because it doesn't feed off drama or fighting and I love that you brought that to light as it should come to view more. I love you so much Emma and I'm so glad I grew up with you in my life.
I found you because of your collaborations with Dan and I'm really glad those videos exist but I subbed to you for your content. I may not love all your songs but iI can appreciate the passion you put into them. You're incredibly funny and I think the way you're so open and honest about things is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story with us along with your music and other content. Stay awesome and be good to yourself.
Seeing the personal growth in Emma is one of the most inspiring things to me. I started watching when I was 13 or 14 and though I'm not a consistent yt viewer I always found myself coming back to this channel. I wanted to see how Emma was and what she was doing. For some reason I just connected with it and thought if Emma is doing well and is happy I will be too, even if it's tough rn. Other than that I am so excited for the new album! Villains helped me through on of the hardest times in my life and still holds a special place in my heart and I can't wait to hear what comes out with next💕
I first found you through your Google Plus song - I was an avid user then, and being 10 years old wanted to see who was bullying my favourite platform. I thought you were completely wrong about everything and so decided to check out some other videos to confirm that I was right. Instead, I discovered one of my favourite creators of all time. I admit I stopped watching as often lately, but this video reminded me of why I fell in love with your comtent in the first place. It's really nice to see that you're still the same amazing person you've always been, and at the same time how much you've grown. I remember pre-ordering 'Feel Good 101' when it first came out and I was so excited to read it - honestly, that book was something really special and it got me through a lot, thank you so much for writing it. As for my favourite song of yours, I love them all but Icarus is the one I always inevitably end up adding to all my Spotify playlists. I'm glad you're still doing youtube, and I'm glad you're doing well. Thank you for being an such an important part of my tween years
I love how diverse you are in interest, style, music genre, etc! And not as a ploy to be more Diverse TM or anything like that, but it's just who you are. I admired that about you in 2012, and I still admire that about you today. It's also wonderful to see your growth over the last few years. The 20s are so incredibly tumultuous for everyone under the sun (am 22 right now! haha), and that difficulty would've only been intensified being all public. Personally I can't stand the slandering of people's mistakes I see here (actually teared up seeing the ridiculous titles of the videos made """exposing""" you and how awful that must be to be on the receiving end of), it's not like we're all humans just trying to figure out the the insanity of life. Honestly I think you have so much courage and you are a wonderful inspiration to me.
Emma, I found you when you and Dan did your first collab. I remember looking over your channel and I became a fan immediately! You're one of the few UA-camrs who's charisma captivated me. Your videos are so personable and real! Yes, nerdcubed was the first UA-camr I followed closely, and I'm grateful I found someone super down to earth and sweet like you! Thank you for always keeping it real, even through the rough days of UA-cam! Much love, Emma ❤️ I hope you're doing well~
For the record, and I know I’ve told you hundreds of times on Instagram and Twitter probably. While “Sucks To Be You” is my ultimate favourite song of yours, I still get super hyped for anything and everything you put out. I love watching you evolve and grow with every new EP/Album you release. You’ve come a long way since “Go The Distance” which was the song that really pulled my attention to your music in the first place. And as someone who used to be in a band; We had this one song called “Let It Die” that I cringe at every time I remember it now. I thought the lyrics were dumb and it was written when I was in a shitty place emotionally. But I have people tell me all the time that it was the one song our band put out that they truly looked forward to at every show. So yeah, it might make me cringe, but that song made others happy, and that’s what matters at the end of the day.
I just have to say, having watched your stuff and seen your evolution as a content creator and an artist over the years, I'm just really psyched that you're so happy and confident in yourself and what you're doing now. Honestly, it's really great to see that, although you've struggled and hit rough spots and made mistakes, you've come out the other side wiser and better for it, and that's just so rad.
Daniel this is so kind. Thank you so much and thank you for supporting me for so many years. I'm a lot more level-headed and honest with myself about my faults than I used to be. I think I'm heading in the right direction.
@@emmablackery Oh, absolutely! You've definitely become more self-aware and I feel like you've been able to catch yourself a lot more before you fall into those old traps of getting into deep beef/drama/what-have-you with other people and creating conflict -- just realizing that it's not worth it and it's only going to drag you down in the long run. I think I've said this to you before, but even if other people can't or won't see how much you've grown and change and still cling to some old perception of you, that's their prerogative, and the only thing you can really do is just to keep improving and growing as a person for your own sake, not because you're trying to change anyone's perceptions, but just because it's what's best for you as a person. And for what it's worth, I think you've done a pretty good job of that.
It's past midnight and I can't do a poetic speech but: - I've been following you since 2013 - I enjoy your music a lot, especially the My Arms Are Open EP - I'm proud of how far you've come and I'm looking forward to your future projects
Hey Emma ... It's been a minute since I last checked in on your account due to life and my own ADHD but seeing this video is nice although I want to comment on your song the promise I remember when you released that song I had just come out of a really dark place and was looking for something to anchor me into a positive mindset as I've struggled with depression since age 5 The promise gave me a better understanding of myself and those that love me and the repercussions of me ... Unaliving myself I now at 26 (27 in May) play the promise alongside songs written by the likes of linkin park, a day to remember, NF, and papa roach .... Your song that you disliked for so long ... Has saved my life countless times Regardless of how you feel about it today ... Thank you for writing and releasing it lord knows that if it saved me it's saved a lot of other people I can't not sing along every time and the fact that in the song you note that we may have never met but you still want the best for me ... I can't tell you how much that meant and still means to me every time I'm low .... I listen to you sing and you restore my faith in humanity and you remind me of why I'm still here so .. thank you so very much for every dark time in my life being the voice that sat in the dark with me singing whilst I cried and giving me no judgement but only love it may have seemed like a silly song to you but to me it's been a reason to keep living
Fun story I actually discovered Dan through you. His collaborations were a nice addition to the channel but addition only. I've loved your content throughout the years and its been a joy watching you mature and grow and change as I myself have grown and matured and changed. I think your videos have been in my life longer than any of my friends
I wish more UA-camrs would be so upfront and honest. The change in attitude toward your older music makes me so happy as someone who still jams to songs like “Sucks to Be You.” I’m excited to hear your new music when it launches this Friday. :) Have a great launch week!
Hi Emma, sounds like your in a good place and have good perspective on things. I'm so glad that the haircut is listed here as a good memory of better times as I remember the day rather differently, I remember the stress you had backstage in part due to the youtube community. In fact one of the reasons I'm not pictured in this hug is that I didn't want my support to be seen as me using your statues for exposure and know that my friendship was for you and not the cameras instead i was in the crowd watching with the audience (which was a bonus for me as the gig you played before this might not have been the finest vocally(there is a reason bands don't spend 3 days talking non stop before a performance) but the passion and emotion was the stuff of ledgends and I was so proud. ). I'm also pretty sure I was the second person to hug you once you got back to the green room so you knew I cared. (for those reading this wasn't a request from Emma or even something I discussed with her so I may have miss read things) Also I can confirm everything about the nerd cubed situation was true, Me and Dan both see you as a little sister but its hard to get Dan to even talk to family unless you have a project with him (I'm half convinced dad cubed only started so Steve could get Dan to keep calling once Dan moved out (in the interest of honest of this video and my other comments that last sentence was completely a joke)) stay safe Wot
I have tons of favs from Emma's catalogue, but I think the one that has stuck with me the most is Nothing Without You. It was so fun, so well sung, and I loved the lyrical subversion. Can't wait for the new single and album!!
This was really refreshing, sure the more in your face and blunt content makes for easier watching. But the sincerity of this was awesome, so brave and to lay out exactly how you feel instead of hiding behind humor like many of us do was really awe-inspiring. :D you kick butt!
You've been making me laugh since I was 12. Your videos and music have seen me through my toughest years, and you even sent me the nicest and most needed comment to me when I was at the peak of my struggles and hopelessly asked the creator I relied on for help, not expecting her to reply. You told me life would get so much better, and you were right. My current relationship formed from a mutual respect and liking of your music, and it's the best, most positive relationship for my mental health so far. I'm so glad to be here to see you feel comfortable enough to answer questions honestly. You deserve credit for showing everyone how we shouldn't be afraid to grow into more positive people. Thank you for so many wonderful years!
I sincerely appreciate this video. I know it might have been a bit of a struggle as these questions have rather nuanced answers, but your observation of the prompt (to try and answer the questions happily,) and the honesty in your voice made this video truly special. I think it's becoming a more commonly-held wish amongst the UA-cam audience, but I watch a list of creators on here because of who they allow themselves to be in videos. I like to think that they allow themselves to be as authentic as possible, and so I'm pretty sure I'm here on UA-cam mostly because I appreciate the person on the other side of the internet connection, and less because their regularly scheduled programming is increasingly more engaging. Emma, you're one of those people that I appreciate, and I love that I've gotten to grow with you and learn from you. It's been a wild ride, but I'm so glad I've been here since the beginning. You're a valued individual to me, and to a great many other people. 💜
I've been a long time fan of yours from way back in the 50 shades of grey days, and I feel like these most recent videos of yours feel a lot more like your true self and it's so refreshing and heartwarming to see you live authentically to yourself, you seem happier, you seem more relaxed and comfortable and I'm so so happy I've stuck around this long to see you get to this point!
I always watch your videos with a sense of delight. To be able to relate to someone really does help. I’ll never understand all the criticism and abuse people give you because all I see is a strong independent woman trying to change her life for the better of herself and others. I met you once at summer in the city London and remember speaking specifically about change and how I thought you hadn’t well I was wrong because you have Emma but only for the better every time I watch you or listen to your music I see another part of your talents shine. I know I’ll never get the chance to sit there and say thank you in person for giving me that someone that helps, that someone who has shaped me and been part of the reason why I am person I am today. So again thank you Emma! I wish you every success from now and into the future because if it wasn’t for you I certainly wouldn’t be able to sit here and be proud of who I am. Take care and stay safe through these strange times Matt x
Your message of the song really resonates with me! I don’t feel great right now, but I have rich parents who love me so, as soon as I complain on any level I get shamed.
I've loved growing up as a human with you. Crying sounds like it's about a lot of feelings very similar to ones I've experienced so I can't wait to hear!!
i first found your videos years ago through Dan. and i want you to know that i was so glad he introduced me to you. you’re amazing and will forever be one of my favourite creators. i was only ever curious because i hoped you too were still friends and learning that you are makes me so happy. and you don’t owe your audience anything. you two are both amazing individuals and whatever you make i’ll always support the both of you. just know Emma that you’re awesome and are brilliant all by yourself. P.S. Dirt is a bop
This was so nice! I can rarely sit through Q&A’s from anyone. But you have such a sincere and heartfelt energy in this video, it pulled me in and I watched the whole thing, and honestly, you’ve had this energy in a lot of your recent videos. I’ve been watching you probably since around 2014, and I ALWAYS really liked you, I’ve always found you really cool and genuine. I remember watching a video you made about liking your body because it gets you from A to B, and another you made about appearances (it was a collab video where you intentionally weren’t wearing makeup) and they just blew my mind haha. They really influenced how I perceive myself, even though I still of course struggle a lot, I always have that mentality in the back of my mind, that my body deserves respect because it’s MY body, it’s doing it’s job for me, I can’t waste my life hating it. Anyway, you’ve always been cool, you’ve always been thoughtful and likeable, but it’s really clear that you’ve matured over the years (as have I, growing up watching you) and you’ve just become probably the most sincere and self-reflecting UA-camr I watch. I don’t know how to word this in a way that doesn’t sound corny lol but I really respect your heart and you as a person. Anyway it’s good to see you back with another video 😊
You're a great person, and I'm glad you're enjoying people like your music. I get the feeling of worrying no one is paying attention to your new songs as much as old? I think with you, your music is SO vast and hits loads of different sub-genres so a lot of people can enjoy certain aspects of your music? I feel with you, every album is different and has different themes so there will be fans who only like certain songs, while others will see all your songs as great. I've been here for quite a lot of years, I was a 16-18 year old (I can't remember, it was roughly around either the end of my gcses or beginning of my A levels) when I first discovered you through, Ironically, my friend who watched Dan? He was a huge fan, and told me about this female youtuber who dyed their hair a lot, and how I'd like that youtuber's sarcasm and sass. That youtuber? It was you. I'm now 23 and still here, still watching your videos and sometimes interacting on your videos to let you know how proud I am for you and how lovely it is to grow with you and watch you find your comfort! Thanks for sticking around, Emma. Seriously. Loving your videos, this one had a peaceful vibe, looking forward to listening to Crying because I have a feeling it'll be relatable as heck and a good bop! Especially for car trips and summertime. Stay safe, lovely!
I really am so proud of how much you've grown, Emma! I've been here since the days of those silly Social Media Dating videos and a few earlier things. I've seen you go through all sorts of things, and I admit I left/unsubbed when you were going through your bitterness callouts and excessive snark. But something drew me back to your channel within the last year or two. And you've improved SO much. I'm so happy for you. I just hope you're honestly in a happy place yourself- mentally, emotionally. You seem to be doing way better, and I'm really hopeful you are. I'm so happy you've continued making music, too. My favorite song will always be "Perfect", though. I listen to that when I feel inadequate, ugly, unwanted, and judged. It always helps me feel better. (Also I too miss the sense of a strong friendly community like UA-cam was back then. Shame that it's gone to shit though. Now it's all about who can be the smartassiest bastard in the comments, or who can dish the most drama. Ugh.)
It’s really great to see you do well in a “normal” way. Not flexing nothing over the top amazing just ‘i’m in a good place i’m doing well’. Absence of exorbitance is hard to find online these days! Love your music excited for the new songs🎉
The change in youtube is kinda the UK UA-cam version vs the US youtube, in the Uk media it’s very collaborative (for the most part) and then in the US Hollywood has-beens start fake drama with each other to try stay relevant, so us youtubers started doing that and eventually it infected uk UA-cam creator community
This was a genuinely good video. It has a real person feel that is so good to see. When you smile, we can feel it. And when you talk about things that bothered you, we can feel how hurt you are. One thing I love about you (other than the music of course) is you are aware your faults and are constantly improving. You've had a lot of hard times but, you're still here. Beautiful, happy, and doing what you love. We love you for that.
Emma I'm an old fan, and seeing u today compared to ur old content you seem so much more YOU! You seem like you are more self aware, genuine and just altogether happier and more content. I admit as an older fan I didn't take much notice of all your music but I have crying pre saved as I believe this could be your time to shine. Wishing you all the best xx
Glad to hear you're doing better. I've struggled with mental health issues myself, and hearing you being so honest is inspiring. Also I was watching you before I even knew who Dan was, for the record! 😂 Saw you play live in Leeds in 2014 (you smashed it, by the way) 😁
Thanks for the video Emma, re: your background dilemma from last time, I think it's really cool with the light bar, instruments, books and lens blur. All creates a really cool cosy vibe! I hope you're able to continue to enjoy your success. You deserve it.
I've been watching you since I was in high school and then stopped as i was getting married/ had a child and I seen you pop back up on my Home page and just want to give you some encouragement and let you know I am loving these types of "Sit Down" talk videos because it feels like a good catch up with you! I don't get alot of adult conversation lately so these type of videos are keeping me going! Thank you for the content!! Ps Dirt on you was my anthem for 2018, still love it to this day!
Can I just say, I love how much Emma has grown over the past few years. I've watched her since she was with Luke, and tbh I think this is the best shes been so far. She seems happier and more content, and that makes me happy. So I hope that Emma continues this path and stays true to herself.
I'm a bit drunk, so I apologize for misspellings, but Emma .... as a young woman with severe ADHD (now aged 23)... I have admired you for years. Sure, I loved the videos with Dan, but I adored you and him separately, as well as together. To me, you have always come across as honest and down to earth, and many of your songs have hit me where it hurts... in a good way!! You have helped me learn that my "crazy" feelings are often actually quite rational, and I adore you to this day... even if I keep your vids on as background noise while I game. you have ALWAYS inspired me, since I came across you, over 5 years ago.. and I love you now, too. I usually never comment on videos, but I love you so I feel compelled to tell you how I feel even though you won't see it. You are one of the people who inspired my life, and I deeply admire you. It's through you and other creators that I wanted to become a creator myself... and I became a Twitch Streamer a few months ago!! Emma Blackery, please never stop creating. I will always love you.
When I first moved out I'd recently been given a ukulele. I was super homesick and I played 'your own shoes' on repeat, it kept me going. I love you and creations so much ❤ keep your chin up 😊
My partner is from the Midlands and used to casually take the piss out of how Southern I sounded, so I think I just slowly started adapting his accent to avoid being roasted 😂 I'm really prone to adjusting my accent to the situation I'm in.
@@emmablackery I...I think this answers the question I had? "You sound a lot like one of my coworkers. Is that because of some accent I don't know about?" I'm not totally sure what "Midlands" covers, but I think(????) that matches? I have learned from comments, and my world is shattered. D: :D
Loving the long hair. Been watching it grow since it was shaved off. Very hyped for crying still obsessed with all the old stuff. Wolves is a particular favourite of mine.
Your maturity and change of opinions on things is very impressive. I’ve been following you for years and I’ve enjoyed everything you’ve put out. I’m sorry you’ve gotten so much grief for things, but your perseverance is an honorable trait to have. Glad you’re not so hard on yourself now. ❤️
You know what I appreciate most about you is your honest about your faults and are willing to correct them. Too many times people are really stuck in their ways and refuse to change their way of thinking. However, you have grown and its really impressive to see. This was a really awesome video and I hope you do more in the future.
That's such a good point on how you felt towards The Promise and how the lightbulb moment happened to actually accept it. I often say people are lying or just saying things to be nice, when they say something I've done is good and they like it. But in reality yeah, should just accept that it makes someone happy and it's something I did which gives that feeling. Heh. I give it a few hours and I'll forget that again though :D
As a viewer I actually do miss that sense of community in youtube! And also you are so right its now become about tearing down instead of building up, something i didn’t even notice until you said it here!
7:32 I remember making a "where is Dan" type comment like 6 years ago where you responded with something along the lines of "this makes me want to never make videos with him again" and I deleted the comment immediately and I want to say I am very sorry :(
i love that your music always fits a mood. go the distance when you’re in love, the promise when you’re in your feelings, dirt when you’re feeling like a bad bitch, etc
I also liked your occasional collabs with Barshens, before they stopped making new content. I'm one of the many who found you through Dan, who I found through Ashens. ^_^ Love you, Emma!✌️❤️☺️
I'm not gonna lie and say I've watched every video of yours religiously over the years but I've been here since 2012 I think and it's wonderful to see how you've grown (both as a channel/'brand' and personally)! I'm really glad you're in a place where things are relatively stable and you're able to make music and content that you enjoy.
Just stumbled on this video, haven’t seen any videos from Emma in years and honestly it felt great to see that she’s doing her own thing and how she wants to do it. Good on ya Emma
It's good to hear from you, one thing people like me forget is that when you don't post for ages it doesn't mean you've dropped off the earth, it just means you're wrapped up in different things. Remember Emma, Keep on truckin!😅
Villains is a very cleverly written album, if you listen to it once or just one song you probably won't even grasp the real meaning behind it. It happened to me, I didn't even like it all that much when it launched but when I paid close attention to the album, lyrics and the feeling you meant to deliver it became my favourite album ever. I believe most people don't really understad pop music all that well.
i honestly can't remember how i discovered you, but i'm so happy that i did! your content has always been something i could look forward to, even during the toughest times in my life. ad for that i am incredibly grateful. it's also been wonderful seeing you evolve as a person. so ty for being you
I first heard your music, then checked your channel because I loved it so much. You create art, I hope you don't need strangers on the internet like me to realize how valid you are
I feel like I've grown with you ms. Emma...I started watching you when I was 16 and was just an angsty teenage now I'm 25 and watching you grow and mature really helped me as well...you are just a lovely wonderful person and I'm glad I found your channel
I discovered you when I was 12 in 2014 and it's so nice to see how you've evolved. My favorite video from you was how to get kicked out of a hotel and as time went on and I grew and changed, I appreciated that your content still kept me entertained. Yeah I know as you grow up you get boring hah hah whatever but I felt like there was never a time in my life that I didn't look up to you because your videos and your persona matured with me lol. Ty emma
The growth you’ve had these past many years is inspiring, no one is perfect, we are human after all. I’m so happy to see you again! Always believing in you, and always rocking on with you!
Please don’t beat yourself up for crying Emma, it’s good to cry and don’t be mad at yourself for having emotions, you’re human and honestly at times I feel like you just need to give yourself a break 💕💕 your true fans love you and we love supporting you and I’m pretty sure I’ll always love the music you bring out so...yeah, thank you for always being you!
I think artists tend to want their fans to like their newest and latest work more as opposed to their old work because, in your mind you've already moved on from it, your style has evolved and anything current you feel like "well this is much better than my old stuff, I made so many mistakes with that or I could have done that better" etc. I speak from experience because I'm a professional photographer I have an MFA in advertising photography and I've done many fine art projects as well...I had this one body of work I did when I was in college that was a total hit. It was something I really enjoyed working on at the time but eventually I moved on from that because it got old to me obviously. I couldn't just keep doing that same thing over and over. But I still had many people years later only bring up that one series and how much they loved it but they really had nothing to say about what I was working on at the time. I don't know that it really bothers me, I do feel proud of it and I'm pretty pleased that people still think about it. I could see how something like that may make someone feel like their ideas since haven't been any good, but personally my creative mind works in cycles...or something, that's the best way to describe it...I have been really busy the last several years building a business and I will continue to be busy running it for awhile because I'm simply trying to get money to fund my future creative projects, and I'm never in a hurry to force myself to be creative that just doesn't work for me. I think my best ideas come from life experience anyway..so what I'm trying to say is I don't feel bad about it because I know I will be creating many pieces of art throughout my life and I hope different pieces speak to different people..if someone will remember me for that one project I did forever ago I think that's cool. Love ya Emma! I loved Blossom and I'm looking forward to Crying!
I'm not the type that comments on a video, and even tho I don't have much to say about it, I'll tell that you are the only "vlogger" type youtuber that I'm subscribed to/watch any video, and that has been the case for... 4 years, maybe even more. Discovered you back in... Hell, I don't know, 2012? Something like that. And I feel that I stuck in because of the friendship sense that I get from the videos. I know that you don't know me, but I've been watching you for so long and you are still the same person that I though you were that I kinda miss you when I don't watch a video of yours for a long time. And that's why I've pre-save Crying. Don't get me wrong, it's just that I'm more of a Heavy Metal person, but hey, I always give your stuff a try. I'm not dying because I chose to support a person that genuinely make content that I enjoy. And hey! As you've said, it's free! Have a good one, Emma. I hope everything goes with you when Crying drops!
There has honestly never been a song of yours that I didn’t love, and there most certainly never will be. I loved dirt and I just know I’ll absolutely love crying!
You seem so much more content in yourself, like you've really come into your own over the last couple years. I hope you're proud of how far you've come (assuming the contentment being portrayed is real and not just a mask 💖) also Crying is my favourite one of your songs yet!
Please be sure to pre-save Crying here! You can win handwritten lyrics and personalised thank-you videos! ffm.to/crying-eb
It's out on Friday March 12th, I hope you love it!
Yayy so excited!!! 😁💙
*PRE-PRE-SAVED!!!!!!*
YES SIS DO THE PROMO
YOU HEARD IT HERE FIRST FOLKS!
EMMA HATES EVERYONE!
ESPECIALLY YOU! 😆🤣😆🤣
Love you Emma! Even with the crap upload schedule.
I wanted to presave it, but wasn't comfortable handing over complete control of my spotify account to whoever feature.fm is
I proper miss 2014 yt feeling like a community :'((( kinda felt like i had that weird bit of belonging too even just as a fan. shame it got fucked over by youtube being how it's ended up and, er, the fun few months of "who's going to be your next fav who turns out to be a sex offender"
2009-2014 UA-cam was just levels above anything we have now
That is sadly what ruined the 2010-2014 UK UA-cam scene :(
It's actually you who introduced me to Dan, and I'm very thankful to both of you for years of content.
Honestly I feel like Emma should be proud of the versatility she’s shown in her music over the years, singer/songwriter/ independent styled music, more punk styled, pop, covers. She can do a lot with a sound that’s quite unique in tone, vibrato, flexibility in the vocal chords. She’s pretty great 😊
I’d wondered why I fell out of love with UA-cam as both a youtuber and a consumer, you hit the nail on the head. It’s way too dark and toxic, barely any overall community. Drama just runs it. It’s so unwelcoming :(
I literally found you because of Nerdcubed. However, I stayed for your content and you alone. Anything with Dan after was a bonus. I've even seen you perform live and yes i'm also a huge fan of The Promise. I also love your other music because you are that talented. You look like you are glowing right now and feel you are much happier compared to a few years ago. Stay strong.
Realy guys? Could'a sworn Emma already answered that question about Dan YEARS ago.
I have, many times! I guess not everybody has seen the multiple times I've answered it 😂
@@emmablackery Or they forgot
honestly I kinda like that she addresses it in every Ask Emma, it's like oh good they're still friends after all these years, they just don't talk about it publicly
@@mrtoastgshost I agree with that. I don't really care if Emma makes more videos with Dan, I didn't subscribe to this channel for those videos, but their chemistry and apparent friendship in the older videos makes me hope they're still friends with each other.
i forgor 😭
People didn't like Dirt?? That thing is still an absolute bop. I love it. Every time it comes on I'm instantly in a dance mood.
About the dirt question.
You’ve made such a wide range of songs that you’re always going to face negative criticism from someone depending on what sound you have, some of that is going to be brutal (especially with younger fans). But take pride that each song you’ve made has made multiple people happy (like the answer where you talked about The Promise), it shows that your writing is versatile.
Also I hope you’re doing okay.
that hairstyle looks so cool on you!
Thank you!
As a fellow resident of the Midlands I love that Emma has become fully naturalised and now says "laff" rather than "larf".
Emma Daddery is an absolute icon, enough is said 😌
don’t forget the iconic little sister phoebe and little brother travis. little legends
@@liamross340 yes omg
I'm still searching for a HP Sauce shirt. I desperately need one of those in my life.
@@TheTrooper115 gotta look saucy
Emma! I love the new look you've got going on. The eyeshadow is sick!
"Crying. Its like nothing I've ever done before"
YES. I've been waiting for the Prog Rock epic
That would be pretty amazing actually! She should do it!
firstly, your makeup and overall style in this vid is STUNNING!!! secondly, this video is amazing, i love how you conduct yourself and how you phrase your answers, you can tell that they are well thought out!! crying is pre-saved and ready for my ears, and i’m glad that your dad is doing well, hopefully you can see your family again soon! i know i’m looking forward to hugging my nan again! hope you’re well and good and safe emma, have a lovely night xxxx :)
The first question really hits me hard. I've been on UA-cam since day one. Yourself Emma and people like Philip DeFranco have been apart of my life for years and it's been difficult to see this site change from the glory days, to where it is today. I miss the golden years. It was such a better platform to be on and interact with others. While I love the huge amount of content available, but YT has become less genuine and more corporate.
"Ive Been Worse" and "Your Own Shoes" came out around a time when I was kicked out of my house and on my own for the first time. They both massively helped me cope with the change. I still listen to "Ive Been Worse" when im going through a hard time.
Loved Blossom! Can't wait for 'Crying' !
Thank you so much!
I love a good q+a but I just think it’s worth recognizing the huge double standard that women have to be as polite as possible no matter what while men being blunt is just seen as assertive or whatever. so I’m just here to say that grumpy Emma is valid too
Thank you!
This! Honestly prefer bluntness regardless of gender as it makes life much easier when you know people's true feelings/intentions. There's always a way to be kind, assertive and honest without putting others down or hiding the truth ^^;
i agree, as someone who can also be blunt, i find someone like Emma who’s not always trying to be super polite really freshing!
You seem the happiest you've ever been and honestly I love this look on you. I love you 🥺🥰
I've had a few struggles over the past couple of years but I think I've come out the other side a lot more mature and level-headed. It's nice to know that I don't have to be zany and over the top to show people I'm happy.
@@emmablackery absolutely!! And it shows, that you've really started to love yourself 🥰 You're amazing and I feel really proud of you 😍
There's a lot of looks and styles that don't suit people. Yet to see one Emma can't pull off!
@@TCTurner true!! I meant that I love the look of happiness but her current style is definitely a favourite of mine too!
I feel like you might be interested to know I actually found NerdCubed through you! Been watching both of you for a long time, and I love you both, together and independently!
I miss 2014 UA-cam it was a totally different time that cannot be described to any one person. I remember I used to sit on UA-cam for hours on end however now I just go on here occasionally and it’s sad. I’ve started coming on UA-cam more often but social media at the moment is toxic, it’s always about who is arguing with who, I use social media as an escape from my pretty shit life so seeing people arguing it isn’t nice. You’re one person who I’ve always turned to with your music such as (I know you hate it sorry) the promise and I still cry every time I hear it. Self help 101 especially the self harming one became my way of coping and knowing I am wanted (probably pathetic I know) I’ve never met you, for some reason you’re the only UA-camr I haven’t met which I hope to one day change.
Got here because of Dan, staying because of Emma
I'm the other way. I found Emma first and Dan followed like the lost puppy he is.
same dude. the explanation totally makes sense and i always cringed with the comments that came out from people. Emma Totally did the right thing, i miss their dynamic but not at the expense of emmas own content or wellbeing.
Same found emma through dan now emma is my favourite youtuber
I remember beings fans of both of them, and then having them hang out together was the coolest thing! Still think they’re both wonderful people
I found Emma through a REACT video (I think it was a DHMIS REACT video)
I don't mind you and dan not making videos together anymore i'm just glad you haven't fallen out cause you seemed like really good friends
Love the honesty and yeah UA-cam has really changed. I don't often watch any of the UA-camrs I used to watch a lot anymore, just watching sims videos and booktubers now haha. Also the Google+ song always makes me laugh. Keep doing what you're doing music wise, you're amazing!
When i found "The Promise" I was in a deep dark abyss in my life. I didn't want to leave the house, and i hardly slept. The song meant a great deal to me. Thank you for that song, Emma. Now, I'm in a stable job, a lovely dog and have my own appartment that i share with the love of my life. I'm still struggling from time to time with depressive thoughts, but you really helped me more than you can imagine.
‘Dirt’ and ‘Cute Without Ya’ both came out at a time when I needed a song like those. They really helped me when I was going through a tough patch in my life. I would sing them to practice in my vocal lessons. People have nothing better to do than hate on things that are good because they’re disappointed with their own lives. As difficult as it is to not acknowledge hate comments, I really hope they don’t get you down again cause there are far more people who love your work more than the people who don’t. You only see the one’s who don’t because they’re typically far more noisy than those of us who love and support you. ❤️ I look forward to hearing your new single! Take care of yourself
Emma - I just want to say how much I really look up to you and how much I really relied on your videos back in the day. I remember those times around 2015-2018 feeling the most depressed and lonely I've ever been. Every upload from the you, dodie, evan and luke got me through it. It is really sad because as you discussed friends drifting apart I often feel as though I drifted from those UA-camrs who helped me back in the day, it's really odd how strong a connection you can have with someone you've never met. I still rewatch all the old stuff now and again and get that sense of nostalgia. I think it's really amazing that you're doing all of these new things and doing things your way and it really inspires me to pursue what I want in life rather than what is 'expected' of me, if that makes sense. I am now in a situation where my problems from 2016 seem so small, and I've truly been at rock bottom and never want to be there again. And still, here in 2021 one of your videos gives me hope and makes me feel safe. I guess those connections really stuck with me because this truly made me feel something I don't feel much of these days. Thank you so much Emma, I truly mean that.
Dirt is my favourite song of yours, don’t understand much of the criticism.
I think people felt the lyrics referenced internet sayings a bit too much, I was just trying to make a light-hearted, fun piece of music. And also the video was rightfully roasted 😂
@@emmablackery When Dirt comes up in my playlist, I get more animated than any other time of the day. I seriously turn into one of those girls who sings as loud as she can out the open window on the motorway.
The acoustic version was great, and the video looked fun.
I love dirt too, I also think that was a cool video. People take things too seriously lol.
I love dirt too hehe
oh mann i remember feeling that kind of community vibe as a viewer back in 2014, i'm 23 now and still watching! This was such a nice video, Can't wait for your new song
All that stuff with you and Dan is how I saw how toxic shipping real life people is, it not only feeds the notion that a guy and gal can’t just be friends and HAVE to be banging, like you said it really messes with their mental state and I just want my favorite content creators like yous guys to be happy making videos.
Though it does make me feel better that you guys are still friends and just don’t collab anymore.
I haven't finished the video yet but this nearly made me cry already. I've known you since I was a kid in middle school and now I'm in college and all the way your videos have made me happy and nostalgic. You hold a special place in lots of people's hearts, of course including me, for the joy you carry and for how much you've developed, it's really inspiring. You are a part of UA-cam that's so refreshing because it doesn't feed off drama or fighting and I love that you brought that to light as it should come to view more. I love you so much Emma and I'm so glad I grew up with you in my life.
I found you because of your collaborations with Dan and I'm really glad those videos exist but I subbed to you for your content. I may not love all your songs but iI can appreciate the passion you put into them. You're incredibly funny and I think the way you're so open and honest about things is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story with us along with your music and other content. Stay awesome and be good to yourself.
Seeing the personal growth in Emma is one of the most inspiring things to me. I started watching when I was 13 or 14 and though I'm not a consistent yt viewer I always found myself coming back to this channel. I wanted to see how Emma was and what she was doing. For some reason I just connected with it and thought if Emma is doing well and is happy I will be too, even if it's tough rn. Other than that I am so excited for the new album! Villains helped me through on of the hardest times in my life and still holds a special place in my heart and I can't wait to hear what comes out with next💕
omg, i can’t believe i’ve been watching for eight years. so cool to see you grow!
I first found you through your Google Plus song - I was an avid user then, and being 10 years old wanted to see who was bullying my favourite platform. I thought you were completely wrong about everything and so decided to check out some other videos to confirm that I was right. Instead, I discovered one of my favourite creators of all time. I admit I stopped watching as often lately, but this video reminded me of why I fell in love with your comtent in the first place. It's really nice to see that you're still the same amazing person you've always been, and at the same time how much you've grown. I remember pre-ordering 'Feel Good 101' when it first came out and I was so excited to read it - honestly, that book was something really special and it got me through a lot, thank you so much for writing it. As for my favourite song of yours, I love them all but Icarus is the one I always inevitably end up adding to all my Spotify playlists. I'm glad you're still doing youtube, and I'm glad you're doing well. Thank you for being an such an important part of my tween years
Thank you so much!
I love how diverse you are in interest, style, music genre, etc! And not as a ploy to be more Diverse TM or anything like that, but it's just who you are. I admired that about you in 2012, and I still admire that about you today. It's also wonderful to see your growth over the last few years. The 20s are so incredibly tumultuous for everyone under the sun (am 22 right now! haha), and that difficulty would've only been intensified being all public. Personally I can't stand the slandering of people's mistakes I see here (actually teared up seeing the ridiculous titles of the videos made """exposing""" you and how awful that must be to be on the receiving end of), it's not like we're all humans just trying to figure out the the insanity of life. Honestly I think you have so much courage and you are a wonderful inspiration to me.
Emma, I found you when you and Dan did your first collab. I remember looking over your channel and I became a fan immediately! You're one of the few UA-camrs who's charisma captivated me. Your videos are so personable and real! Yes, nerdcubed was the first UA-camr I followed closely, and I'm grateful I found someone super down to earth and sweet like you! Thank you for always keeping it real, even through the rough days of UA-cam! Much love, Emma ❤️ I hope you're doing well~
For the record, and I know I’ve told you hundreds of times on Instagram and Twitter probably. While “Sucks To Be You” is my ultimate favourite song of yours, I still get super hyped for anything and everything you put out. I love watching you evolve and grow with every new EP/Album you release. You’ve come a long way since “Go The Distance” which was the song that really pulled my attention to your music in the first place.
And as someone who used to be in a band; We had this one song called “Let It Die” that I cringe at every time I remember it now. I thought the lyrics were dumb and it was written when I was in a shitty place emotionally. But I have people tell me all the time that it was the one song our band put out that they truly looked forward to at every show. So yeah, it might make me cringe, but that song made others happy, and that’s what matters at the end of the day.
I just have to say, having watched your stuff and seen your evolution as a content creator and an artist over the years, I'm just really psyched that you're so happy and confident in yourself and what you're doing now. Honestly, it's really great to see that, although you've struggled and hit rough spots and made mistakes, you've come out the other side wiser and better for it, and that's just so rad.
Daniel this is so kind. Thank you so much and thank you for supporting me for so many years. I'm a lot more level-headed and honest with myself about my faults than I used to be. I think I'm heading in the right direction.
@@emmablackery Oh, absolutely! You've definitely become more self-aware and I feel like you've been able to catch yourself a lot more before you fall into those old traps of getting into deep beef/drama/what-have-you with other people and creating conflict -- just realizing that it's not worth it and it's only going to drag you down in the long run.
I think I've said this to you before, but even if other people can't or won't see how much you've grown and change and still cling to some old perception of you, that's their prerogative, and the only thing you can really do is just to keep improving and growing as a person for your own sake, not because you're trying to change anyone's perceptions, but just because it's what's best for you as a person. And for what it's worth, I think you've done a pretty good job of that.
It's past midnight and I can't do a poetic speech but:
- I've been following you since 2013
- I enjoy your music a lot, especially the My Arms Are Open EP
- I'm proud of how far you've come and I'm looking forward to your future projects
Hey Emma ... It's been a minute since I last checked in on your account due to life and my own ADHD but seeing this video is nice although I want to comment on your song the promise
I remember when you released that song I had just come out of a really dark place and was looking for something to anchor me into a positive mindset as I've struggled with depression since age 5
The promise gave me a better understanding of myself and those that love me and the repercussions of me ... Unaliving myself
I now at 26 (27 in May) play the promise alongside songs written by the likes of linkin park, a day to remember, NF, and papa roach .... Your song that you disliked for so long ... Has saved my life countless times
Regardless of how you feel about it today ... Thank you for writing and releasing it lord knows that if it saved me it's saved a lot of other people I can't not sing along every time and the fact that in the song you note that we may have never met but you still want the best for me ... I can't tell you how much that meant and still means to me every time I'm low .... I listen to you sing and you restore my faith in humanity and you remind me of why I'm still here so .. thank you so very much for every dark time in my life being the voice that sat in the dark with me singing whilst I cried and giving me no judgement but only love it may have seemed like a silly song to you but to me it's been a reason to keep living
first question hit hard, been here since like 2013
Fun story I actually discovered Dan through you. His collaborations were a nice addition to the channel but addition only. I've loved your content throughout the years and its been a joy watching you mature and grow and change as I myself have grown and matured and changed. I think your videos have been in my life longer than any of my friends
I wish more UA-camrs would be so upfront and honest. The change in attitude toward your older music makes me so happy as someone who still jams to songs like “Sucks to Be You.” I’m excited to hear your new music when it launches this Friday. :) Have a great launch week!
Hi Emma, sounds like your in a good place and have good perspective on things. I'm so glad that the haircut is listed here as a good memory of better times as I remember the day rather differently, I remember the stress you had backstage in part due to the youtube community. In fact one of the reasons I'm not pictured in this hug is that I didn't want my support to be seen as me using your statues for exposure and know that my friendship was for you and not the cameras instead i was in the crowd watching with the audience (which was a bonus for me as the gig you played before this might not have been the finest vocally(there is a reason bands don't spend 3 days talking non stop before a performance) but the passion and emotion was the stuff of ledgends and I was so proud. ). I'm also pretty sure I was the second person to hug you once you got back to the green room so you knew I cared. (for those reading this wasn't a request from Emma or even something I discussed with her so I may have miss read things)
Also I can confirm everything about the nerd cubed situation was true, Me and Dan both see you as a little sister but its hard to get Dan to even talk to family unless you have a project with him (I'm half convinced dad cubed only started so Steve could get Dan to keep calling once Dan moved out (in the interest of honest of this video and my other comments that last sentence was completely a joke))
stay safe
Wot
I have tons of favs from Emma's catalogue, but I think the one that has stuck with me the most is Nothing Without You. It was so fun, so well sung, and I loved the lyrical subversion. Can't wait for the new single and album!!
Hey, that's me, I showed up from the era of her NerdCubed collabs, but stayed because Emma is cool. Kinda miss her regular gaming videos though 😂
hahahaha BirdyBoots isn't a channel, it's a state of mind 🙏🏻
@@emmablackery Birdyboots. Now that is quite a throwback there.
This was really refreshing, sure the more in your face and blunt content makes for easier watching. But the sincerity of this was awesome, so brave and to lay out exactly how you feel instead of hiding behind humor like many of us do was really awe-inspiring. :D you kick butt!
You've been making me laugh since I was 12. Your videos and music have seen me through my toughest years, and you even sent me the nicest and most needed comment to me when I was at the peak of my struggles and hopelessly asked the creator I relied on for help, not expecting her to reply. You told me life would get so much better, and you were right. My current relationship formed from a mutual respect and liking of your music, and it's the best, most positive relationship for my mental health so far. I'm so glad to be here to see you feel comfortable enough to answer questions honestly. You deserve credit for showing everyone how we shouldn't be afraid to grow into more positive people. Thank you for so many wonderful years!
I sincerely appreciate this video. I know it might have been a bit of a struggle as these questions have rather nuanced answers, but your observation of the prompt (to try and answer the questions happily,) and the honesty in your voice made this video truly special. I think it's becoming a more commonly-held wish amongst the UA-cam audience, but I watch a list of creators on here because of who they allow themselves to be in videos. I like to think that they allow themselves to be as authentic as possible, and so I'm pretty sure I'm here on UA-cam mostly because I appreciate the person on the other side of the internet connection, and less because their regularly scheduled programming is increasingly more engaging. Emma, you're one of those people that I appreciate, and I love that I've gotten to grow with you and learn from you. It's been a wild ride, but I'm so glad I've been here since the beginning. You're a valued individual to me, and to a great many other people. 💜
I've been a long time fan of yours from way back in the 50 shades of grey days, and I feel like these most recent videos of yours feel a lot more like your true self and it's so refreshing and heartwarming to see you live authentically to yourself, you seem happier, you seem more relaxed and comfortable and I'm so so happy I've stuck around this long to see you get to this point!
I am absolutely LOVING your new look! and it's great to hear you talk about these things as well as your insights on looking back on your past work.
I always watch your videos with a sense of delight. To be able to relate to someone really does help. I’ll never understand all the criticism and abuse people give you because all I see is a strong independent woman trying to change her life for the better of herself and others. I met you once at summer in the city London and remember speaking specifically about change and how I thought you hadn’t well I was wrong because you have Emma but only for the better every time I watch you or listen to your music I see another part of your talents shine. I know I’ll never get the chance to sit there and say thank you in person for giving me that someone that helps, that someone who has shaped me and been part of the reason why I am person I am today. So again thank you Emma! I wish you every success from now and into the future because if it wasn’t for you I certainly wouldn’t be able to sit here and be proud of who I am.
Take care and stay safe through these strange times
Matt x
Your message of the song really resonates with me! I don’t feel great right now, but I have rich parents who love me so, as soon as I complain on any level I get shamed.
I've loved growing up as a human with you. Crying sounds like it's about a lot of feelings very similar to ones I've experienced so I can't wait to hear!!
i first found your videos years ago through Dan. and i want you to know that i was so glad he introduced me to you. you’re amazing and will forever be one of my favourite creators. i was only ever curious because i hoped you too were still friends and learning that you are makes me so happy. and you don’t owe your audience anything. you two are both amazing individuals and whatever you make i’ll always support the both of you. just know Emma that you’re awesome and are brilliant all by yourself.
P.S. Dirt is a bop
This was so nice! I can rarely sit through Q&A’s from anyone. But you have such a sincere and heartfelt energy in this video, it pulled me in and I watched the whole thing, and honestly, you’ve had this energy in a lot of your recent videos. I’ve been watching you probably since around 2014, and I ALWAYS really liked you, I’ve always found you really cool and genuine. I remember watching a video you made about liking your body because it gets you from A to B, and another you made about appearances (it was a collab video where you intentionally weren’t wearing makeup) and they just blew my mind haha. They really influenced how I perceive myself, even though I still of course struggle a lot, I always have that mentality in the back of my mind, that my body deserves respect because it’s MY body, it’s doing it’s job for me, I can’t waste my life hating it. Anyway, you’ve always been cool, you’ve always been thoughtful and likeable, but it’s really clear that you’ve matured over the years (as have I, growing up watching you) and you’ve just become probably the most sincere and self-reflecting UA-camr I watch. I don’t know how to word this in a way that doesn’t sound corny lol but I really respect your heart and you as a person. Anyway it’s good to see you back with another video 😊
This comment means the world to me. Thank you for making my night. 🖤
You're a great person, and I'm glad you're enjoying people like your music. I get the feeling of worrying no one is paying attention to your new songs as much as old? I think with you, your music is SO vast and hits loads of different sub-genres so a lot of people can enjoy certain aspects of your music? I feel with you, every album is different and has different themes so there will be fans who only like certain songs, while others will see all your songs as great. I've been here for quite a lot of years, I was a 16-18 year old (I can't remember, it was roughly around either the end of my gcses or beginning of my A levels) when I first discovered you through, Ironically, my friend who watched Dan? He was a huge fan, and told me about this female youtuber who dyed their hair a lot, and how I'd like that youtuber's sarcasm and sass. That youtuber? It was you. I'm now 23 and still here, still watching your videos and sometimes interacting on your videos to let you know how proud I am for you and how lovely it is to grow with you and watch you find your comfort!
Thanks for sticking around, Emma. Seriously. Loving your videos, this one had a peaceful vibe, looking forward to listening to Crying because I have a feeling it'll be relatable as heck and a good bop! Especially for car trips and summertime.
Stay safe, lovely!
I really am so proud of how much you've grown, Emma! I've been here since the days of those silly Social Media Dating videos and a few earlier things. I've seen you go through all sorts of things, and I admit I left/unsubbed when you were going through your bitterness callouts and excessive snark. But something drew me back to your channel within the last year or two. And you've improved SO much. I'm so happy for you. I just hope you're honestly in a happy place yourself- mentally, emotionally. You seem to be doing way better, and I'm really hopeful you are. I'm so happy you've continued making music, too. My favorite song will always be "Perfect", though. I listen to that when I feel inadequate, ugly, unwanted, and judged. It always helps me feel better. (Also I too miss the sense of a strong friendly community like UA-cam was back then. Shame that it's gone to shit though. Now it's all about who can be the smartassiest bastard in the comments, or who can dish the most drama. Ugh.)
Thank you so so much. Thank you for coming back and giving me another chance. 🖤
i was literally just watching ask emma 13 and i get this notification
It’s really great to see you do well in a “normal” way. Not flexing nothing over the top amazing just ‘i’m in a good place i’m doing well’. Absence of exorbitance is hard to find online these days! Love your music excited for the new songs🎉
The change in youtube is kinda the UK UA-cam version vs the US youtube, in the Uk media it’s very collaborative (for the most part) and then in the US Hollywood has-beens start fake drama with each other to try stay relevant, so us youtubers started doing that and eventually it infected uk UA-cam creator community
This was a genuinely good video. It has a real person feel that is so good to see. When you smile, we can feel it. And when you talk about things that bothered you, we can feel how hurt you are. One thing I love about you (other than the music of course) is you are aware your faults and are constantly improving. You've had a lot of hard times but, you're still here. Beautiful, happy, and doing what you love. We love you for that.
Emma I'm an old fan, and seeing u today compared to ur old content you seem so much more YOU! You seem like you are more self aware, genuine and just altogether happier and more content. I admit as an older fan I didn't take much notice of all your music but I have crying pre saved as I believe this could be your time to shine. Wishing you all the best xx
Glad to hear you're doing better. I've struggled with mental health issues myself, and hearing you being so honest is inspiring.
Also I was watching you before I even knew who Dan was, for the record! 😂 Saw you play live in Leeds in 2014 (you smashed it, by the way) 😁
Thanks for the video Emma, re: your background dilemma from last time, I think it's really cool with the light bar, instruments, books and lens blur. All creates a really cool cosy vibe! I hope you're able to continue to enjoy your success. You deserve it.
I've been watching you since I was in high school and then stopped as i was getting married/ had a child and I seen you pop back up on my Home page and just want to give you some encouragement and let you know I am loving these types of "Sit Down" talk videos because it feels like a good catch up with you! I don't get alot of adult conversation lately so these type of videos are keeping me going! Thank you for the content!! Ps Dirt on you was my anthem for 2018, still love it to this day!
Thank you so much Shannon! It's amazing how much has changed over the past eight years! Thank you for still being here 🖤
Can I just say, I love how much Emma has grown over the past few years. I've watched her since she was with Luke, and tbh I think this is the best shes been so far. She seems happier and more content, and that makes me happy. So I hope that Emma continues this path and stays true to herself.
I'm a bit drunk, so I apologize for misspellings, but Emma .... as a young woman with severe ADHD (now aged 23)... I have admired you for years.
Sure, I loved the videos with Dan, but I adored you and him separately, as well as together.
To me, you have always come across as honest and down to earth, and many of your songs have hit me where it hurts... in a good way!! You have helped me learn that my "crazy" feelings are often actually quite rational, and I adore you to this day... even if I keep your vids on as background noise while I game.
you have ALWAYS inspired me, since I came across you, over 5 years ago.. and I love you now, too.
I usually never comment on videos, but I love you so I feel compelled to tell you how I feel even though you won't see it. You are one of the people who inspired my life, and I deeply admire you.
It's through you and other creators that I wanted to become a creator myself... and I became a Twitch Streamer a few months ago!!
Emma Blackery, please never stop creating. I will always love you.
Idk what anyone else is talking about... I don’t wear hats is CLEARLY your best song 😂😂😂
I’m dying to hear this new album. Villains is one of my all-time favorites and I’m so excited to see you add another album to your name
When I first moved out I'd recently been given a ukulele. I was super homesick and I played 'your own shoes' on repeat, it kept me going. I love you and creations so much ❤ keep your chin up 😊
Just curious, how did you accent change within the last couple of years?
My partner is from the Midlands and used to casually take the piss out of how Southern I sounded, so I think I just slowly started adapting his accent to avoid being roasted 😂 I'm really prone to adjusting my accent to the situation I'm in.
@@emmablackery aye big up the midlands 🤣
@@emmablackery I...I think this answers the question I had? "You sound a lot like one of my coworkers. Is that because of some accent I don't know about?" I'm not totally sure what "Midlands" covers, but I think(????) that matches?
I have learned from comments, and my world is shattered. D:
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Loving the long hair. Been watching it grow since it was shaved off. Very hyped for crying still obsessed with all the old stuff. Wolves is a particular favourite of mine.
Your maturity and change of opinions on things is very impressive. I’ve been following you for years and I’ve enjoyed everything you’ve put out. I’m sorry you’ve gotten so much grief for things, but your perseverance is an honorable trait to have. Glad you’re not so hard on yourself now. ❤️
Thank you so so much. That means a lot to me.
Hey Emma! Just wanted to say that I love and appreciate you and everything you do! Thank you for being authentic and honest 💖
You know what I appreciate most about you is your honest about your faults and are willing to correct them. Too many times people are really stuck in their ways and refuse to change their way of thinking. However, you have grown and its really impressive to see. This was a really awesome video and I hope you do more in the future.
Thank you so much!
That's such a good point on how you felt towards The Promise and how the lightbulb moment happened to actually accept it. I often say people are lying or just saying things to be nice, when they say something I've done is good and they like it. But in reality yeah, should just accept that it makes someone happy and it's something I did which gives that feeling. Heh.
I give it a few hours and I'll forget that again though :D
8:50 still here :D still wishing ya the best. happy to see your still making stuff and taking care of your self.
As a viewer I actually do miss that sense of community in youtube! And also you are so right its now become about tearing down instead of building up, something i didn’t even notice until you said it here!
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I remember making a "where is Dan" type comment like 6 years ago where you responded with something along the lines of "this makes me want to never make videos with him again" and I deleted the comment immediately and I want to say I am very sorry :(
It’s all good man
"Honest truth" and "blunt" are synonyms.
"Honset truth" and "nice" are often antonyms.
i love that your music always fits a mood. go the distance when you’re in love, the promise when you’re in your feelings, dirt when you’re feeling like a bad bitch, etc
I also liked your occasional collabs with Barshens, before they stopped making new content. I'm one of the many who found you through Dan, who I found through Ashens. ^_^ Love you, Emma!✌️❤️☺️
I'm not gonna lie and say I've watched every video of yours religiously over the years but I've been here since 2012 I think and it's wonderful to see how you've grown (both as a channel/'brand' and personally)! I'm really glad you're in a place where things are relatively stable and you're able to make music and content that you enjoy.
Just stumbled on this video, haven’t seen any videos from Emma in years and honestly it felt great to see that she’s doing her own thing and how she wants to do it. Good on ya Emma
It's good to hear from you, one thing people like me forget is that when you don't post for ages it doesn't mean you've dropped off the earth, it just means you're wrapped up in different things. Remember Emma, Keep on truckin!😅
Villains is a very cleverly written album, if you listen to it once or just one song you probably won't even grasp the real meaning behind it. It happened to me, I didn't even like it all that much when it launched but when I paid close attention to the album, lyrics and the feeling you meant to deliver it became my favourite album ever.
I believe most people don't really understad pop music all that well.
It was actually through you that I found Dan and started to get into watching his channel, I’m a long time Emma Blackery fan and always will be!
i honestly can't remember how i discovered you, but i'm so happy that i did! your content has always been something i could look forward to, even during the toughest times in my life. ad for that i am incredibly grateful. it's also been wonderful seeing you evolve as a person. so ty for being you
I first heard your music, then checked your channel because I loved it so much. You create art, I hope you don't need strangers on the internet like me to realize how valid you are
I feel like I've grown with you ms. Emma...I started watching you when I was 16 and was just an angsty teenage now I'm 25 and watching you grow and mature really helped me as well...you are just a lovely wonderful person and I'm glad I found your channel
I discovered you when I was 12 in 2014 and it's so nice to see how you've evolved. My favorite video from you was how to get kicked out of a hotel and as time went on and I grew and changed, I appreciated that your content still kept me entertained. Yeah I know as you grow up you get boring hah hah whatever but I felt like there was never a time in my life that I didn't look up to you because your videos and your persona matured with me lol. Ty emma
The growth you’ve had these past many years is inspiring, no one is perfect, we are human after all. I’m so happy to see you again! Always believing in you, and always rocking on with you!
Please don’t beat yourself up for crying Emma, it’s good to cry and don’t be mad at yourself for having emotions, you’re human and honestly at times I feel like you just need to give yourself a break 💕💕 your true fans love you and we love supporting you and I’m pretty sure I’ll always love the music you bring out so...yeah, thank you for always being you!
I think artists tend to want their fans to like their newest and latest work more as opposed to their old work because, in your mind you've already moved on from it, your style has evolved and anything current you feel like "well this is much better than my old stuff, I made so many mistakes with that or I could have done that better" etc. I speak from experience because I'm a professional photographer I have an MFA in advertising photography and I've done many fine art projects as well...I had this one body of work I did when I was in college that was a total hit. It was something I really enjoyed working on at the time but eventually I moved on from that because it got old to me obviously. I couldn't just keep doing that same thing over and over. But I still had many people years later only bring up that one series and how much they loved it but they really had nothing to say about what I was working on at the time. I don't know that it really bothers me, I do feel proud of it and I'm pretty pleased that people still think about it. I could see how something like that may make someone feel like their ideas since haven't been any good, but personally my creative mind works in cycles...or something, that's the best way to describe it...I have been really busy the last several years building a business and I will continue to be busy running it for awhile because I'm simply trying to get money to fund my future creative projects, and I'm never in a hurry to force myself to be creative that just doesn't work for me. I think my best ideas come from life experience anyway..so what I'm trying to say is I don't feel bad about it because I know I will be creating many pieces of art throughout my life and I hope different pieces speak to different people..if someone will remember me for that one project I did forever ago I think that's cool. Love ya Emma! I loved Blossom and I'm looking forward to Crying!
I'm not the type that comments on a video, and even tho I don't have much to say about it, I'll tell that you are the only "vlogger" type youtuber that I'm subscribed to/watch any video, and that has been the case for... 4 years, maybe even more. Discovered you back in... Hell, I don't know, 2012? Something like that. And I feel that I stuck in because of the friendship sense that I get from the videos. I know that you don't know me, but I've been watching you for so long and you are still the same person that I though you were that I kinda miss you when I don't watch a video of yours for a long time. And that's why I've pre-save Crying.
Don't get me wrong, it's just that I'm more of a Heavy Metal person, but hey, I always give your stuff a try. I'm not dying because I chose to support a person that genuinely make content that I enjoy. And hey! As you've said, it's free!
Have a good one, Emma. I hope everything goes with you when Crying drops!
There has honestly never been a song of yours that I didn’t love, and there most certainly never will be. I loved dirt and I just know I’ll absolutely love crying!
You seem so much more content in yourself, like you've really come into your own over the last couple years. I hope you're proud of how far you've come (assuming the contentment being portrayed is real and not just a mask 💖) also Crying is my favourite one of your songs yet!