How to Survive the Holidays in Early Sobriety - 10 Tips to Prevent Relapse

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @DRKJFOSTER
    @DRKJFOSTER  4 роки тому +4

    Was this video helpful? Do you have any other tips on how to survive the holidays? What was your favorite tip?

    • @laurenawal33
      @laurenawal33 4 роки тому +1

      I love all of the tips especially finding an out of town meeting. I have a weird situation where I live in London but travel home to the US quite frequently, where I'll be for Christmas, and for some odd reason jetlag can trigger my cravings! Thank you, What an amazing suggestion!

    • @TellYourStory
      @TellYourStory 2 роки тому

      Super helpful info. I found personally, that instead of avoiding family I needed to open a chain of dialogue. Part of my recovery was learning to communicate on a healthy level. When I was open and honest about my drinking and sobriety with family, I found I didn’t have to hide from or avoid my worst vices! Vulnerability breeds strength! Be honest and open about the changes you are going through, and those that truly care for you will follow suit and respect your growth!

  • @tequeshaharris4794
    @tequeshaharris4794 9 місяців тому +2

    2023 me and my husband, 1st holiday season sober after 13 year. Need all the tips I can get. Week are one week sober so far. We are trying to quit alcohol.

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  9 місяців тому +1

      Congratulations and good luck. It's hard but it's SO worth it!!

  • @Hear2Help
    @Hear2Help 9 місяців тому +1

    Im sharing this video with my recovery group today, thank you!!!

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  9 місяців тому

      Wonderful! I hope it was helpful.

  • @HoraceGold333
    @HoraceGold333 3 роки тому +3

    Hitting my first holiday season sober and really needed this. Thank you

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  3 роки тому

      So glad to know you found it helpful. Happy Thanksgiving!

  • @Animations69480
    @Animations69480 11 місяців тому +1

    Really love you what a blessing you are

  • @ivabritton1241
    @ivabritton1241 9 місяців тому +1

    Video info super helpful and well laid out

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  9 місяців тому

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @chauntawells456
    @chauntawells456 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! I work at an outpatient treatment program, and I shared this video to my relapse prevention group. Great Tips for the Holiday seasons and the group enjoyed it.

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  Рік тому

      I'm so glad you found it helpful ☺ I just finished filmimlng a tips video for parties and family gatherings that will post on Friday 👍

  • @francisco3881
    @francisco3881 9 місяців тому +1

    My sobriety journey has only just begun, I been sober now for one month 🎉 but I am very anxious about the Christmas and New years celebrations as this will be a true challenge as been surround by family and friends will be difficult not to drink.. But will have non-alcholic drinks ready for me.. Thank you for advice

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  9 місяців тому

      Congratulations on your month of sobriety. It's to be expected that the holidays will be difficult. It sounds like you have a good plan in place. I hope you have some sober supports as well.

  • @annfontes318
    @annfontes318 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you this video is very helpful definitely while trying to be sober

  • @maryann3063
    @maryann3063 4 роки тому +1

    So important to do all these self care tips and setting up an action plan ! Your life serenity and sobriety depends on it !

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  4 роки тому

      Yes, ACTION PLAN!! So Important! Thans, Mary 💜

  • @danafrost526
    @danafrost526 2 роки тому +1

    This will be very helpful, not just for me but others. I have been clean and sober for five years. But what I do is gather all the information I can get, and share what I think is useful, like this. I am also in several addiction groups that I share their, engage with other members, and also give folks all the information I can give them about how to get help though people that run these groups, I do it to help folks and myself.

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  2 роки тому

      Hi Dana - Congrats on your 5 years! I'm glad you are finding the information useful. Happy Holiday!

  • @TellYourStory
    @TellYourStory 2 роки тому +1

    Extremely great info! So glad some one else is sharing free info on recovery!

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks! Good luck with your channel.

  • @laurenawal33
    @laurenawal33 4 роки тому +2

    This is an amazing video and so important! I'm so happy you did this as I'm terrified of Christmas this year. I decided last year Christmas week to stop a 20+ a day pill addiction. Christmas day was when the physical and mental withdrawls were absolute agony. Worst day of my life and I ruined my loves ones day. I'm afraid I'll relive it again. I do travel so I have a hotel as an "out." I give my utmost respect to recovering alcoholics since alcohol is everywhere, legal and accepted. You are one heck of a strong woman in so many ways!

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  4 роки тому +1

      You are always so kind, Lauren. Thank you. Definitely good to have a plan for Christmas day since it will bring back difficult memories, and based on the intense physical and emotional experience, you may even experience automatic physical responses lingering in your central nervous system. Nothing you can't get through, but best to be prepared and lean into it as a part of the healing process. Just remember, like with anything that builds you stronger... no pain, no gain 💪 you can do this!! 💜 Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family 🦃

    • @laurenawal33
      @laurenawal33 4 роки тому

      @@DRKJFOSTER Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family as well!

  • @cindyl9606
    @cindyl9606 4 роки тому +2

    ty for all info u offer us this time of the yr is the worse for me in general so tapering n holidays this yr may be bad

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  4 роки тому +1

      You can do it, Cindy! Every day that you make it through without picking up, you get stronger!! It's good that you are expecting it to be challenging because you are being realistic. Be prepared with every resource and tool you have. Thanks for watching and I'm glad you are finding the videos helpful 💜 thanks too for commenting and helping me to get to know you and helping others who are going through the same struggle!

  • @kingfurious8525
    @kingfurious8525 4 роки тому +1

    Hi dr foster
    I had already planned on solitary confinement for this chistmas, I just wanted to say tomorrow will be 28 days with out a cigarette or anything else and the Half way mark on my patch system and doing great you made me a believer in meditation, thank you

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  4 роки тому

      Thanks awesome news, Harold! Congratulations!! And yes, meditation is where it's at!! #1 defense against PAWS and best overall coping skill for anyone and everyone 💜 Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family 🦃

  • @BerniceTaylorFitness
    @BerniceTaylorFitness 4 роки тому +1

    Such an important topic. Thanks for bringing it up during this time!

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  4 роки тому

      Thank you for watching 💜

  • @jamieswirsky3865
    @jamieswirsky3865 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for an amazing video! I just shared it with my entire group therapy group in preparation for the holidays!!! 🖤🖤🖤

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  3 роки тому

      So glad you found it helpful!

  • @shellybrann7342
    @shellybrann7342 3 роки тому +1

    Outstanding video! Thank you very much!!!

    • @DRKJFOSTER
      @DRKJFOSTER  3 роки тому

      Glad you liked it!

    • @shellybrann7342
      @shellybrann7342 3 роки тому

      @@DRKJFOSTER I am a new SUDPT so it gave me some ideas for a class I want to teach to my relapse prevention group. I hope that is ok?

  • @denisrath1080
    @denisrath1080 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you this video is very useful

  • @howardburks1597
    @howardburks1597 9 місяців тому +1

    I've been doing good Aug. 2022

  • @stacyshock286
    @stacyshock286 3 роки тому +2

    You can throw the 4th of July in there too

  • @gretas6679
    @gretas6679 4 роки тому +1

    💙