Addiction - don’t let the bear catch you | Steve Gill | TEDxStanleyPark

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  • @pauldebruyn4389
    @pauldebruyn4389 3 роки тому +28

    I can totally relate to how I felt in to addiction that started at age 14 and only ended at age 40.
    I have been sober 8 years(2013 till current).
    I founded something to love more. My family. Now I strive to stay sober after praying "God help me, I can not do this on my own".
    Seven day's in rehab I had a incounter with God. I made a promise I will never drink alcohol again.
    Now it's my life commitment not to brake that promise.
    I pray for everyone known and unknown on this path to everlasting recovery. God bless.

  • @A.O.K-Jamie
    @A.O.K-Jamie 3 роки тому +9

    Can't get enough of this video. I wish there were more. Your way that you deliver blows my mind still to this day. He is the first person to move me with a differnt story he told my class. First time I cried in 10 years it was a joyful cry behind the centre in the field for once I was happy to be alone.

  • @kieshadobie8143
    @kieshadobie8143 2 роки тому +3

    This really made sense to my conscience.. ty girl blessings to everyone that is suffering and ty those choosing not to suffer....

  • @amparowalsh
    @amparowalsh 3 роки тому +2

    You are a blessing …. Thank you for your brave testimony and you work

  • @charlottehanna3860
    @charlottehanna3860 4 роки тому +4

    Steve Gill. I've been running as fast as I can for 56 years. I hope that I won the race! "That six years old days", both parents were addicts. I forgive my mother. My dad, not so much.

  • @joyputnam7714
    @joyputnam7714 6 років тому +7

    You are so inspiring Steve. I'm so grateful you keep choosing recovery, because you are powerfully impacting so many people.

    • @PorshaOnAJourney
      @PorshaOnAJourney 5 років тому

      Hey I started my channel to help others struggling with addiction and recovery like I was. Please feel free to check it out. Thanks in advance 😘

  • @GabrielSantos_28
    @GabrielSantos_28 7 років тому +22

    THAT'S MY COACH RIGHT THERE BABY!!!!
    STEVE GILL!!!

  • @MT-tx7bu
    @MT-tx7bu 5 років тому +12

    Addiction is a shame train and once on that train, the path a head gets unclear. I can see where it would be important to find purpose, but to also understand that no matter what the purpose is, it's important, more important than drinking.

    • @PorshaOnAJourney
      @PorshaOnAJourney 5 років тому

      Hey I started my channel to help others struggling with addiction and recovery like I was. Please feel free to check it out. Thanks in advance 😘

  • @jacquelineway
    @jacquelineway 7 років тому +4

    Thank you Steve for sharing your story. Be honest about your addiction it will truly inspire so many.

  • @davidschofield7351
    @davidschofield7351 4 роки тому +11

    One of my big issues being an addict is I'll feel a need to drink before doing something difficult. Even when I accomplished the task at hand, instead of people around me respecting my accomplishment, they pitied or despised me because I got drunk first.

    • @iBangGOODMusic
      @iBangGOODMusic 4 роки тому +1

      Man I feel the same way about weed

    • @KneelBeforeZod.
      @KneelBeforeZod. Рік тому

      They pitied you because you are pitiable. They despised you because you are despicable.
      Now go get yourself a drink.

  • @proudrosemom
    @proudrosemom 5 років тому +11

    Amazingly I had many bear dreams in my early months of recovery. Powerful

  • @MattONeillRealEstate
    @MattONeillRealEstate 5 років тому +4

    This is powerful. Steve Gill is an inspiration to the world, and to me

  • @ehbaboo
    @ehbaboo 7 років тому +6

    Personal, passionate and powerful!

  • @gw593
    @gw593 2 роки тому +3

    Jeez I can really relate to the cookie jar story..I was that kid. Constantly. 2 years sober now tho.

  • @maddyv4840
    @maddyv4840 6 років тому +9

    I have a fiend who is battling addiction, but he is in denial so I feel a little helpless. What can I do on my end to help?I am so glad that you are recovered. God Bless You!

    • @dadsandsons
      @dadsandsons 6 років тому +1

      Maddy V give him a book on recovery and/or take him to a 12 Step meeting

    • @maddyv4840
      @maddyv4840 6 років тому

      sundip ghedia, Thank you. I will. Bless you.

    • @dadsandsons
      @dadsandsons 6 років тому

      Check out Recovery by Rami Shapiro

    • @mcsorley78
      @mcsorley78 6 років тому +15

      if you want to truly help him, them simply show love for him whether he is using or not. Tell him you will love him regardless and do so. Show affection for him either way, and just support him and his actions in any way that you can. Addicts tend to use drugs to fill a void, to essentially replace love. When we are loved our bodies release Oxycontin, which makes us feel amazing, this happens in both the giver and receiver of love. Honestly if you show him unconditional love no matter if he is using or not, you will see a massive step in recovery. Addiction has nothing to do with free will, it isn't a sickness, it isn't a dependence, it is essentially a coping mechanism for the lack of love, whether it's due to lack of self esteem, parents not caring for them in the present or past, lack of a relationship, love them no matter what and they will use the substance less and less. The more a person feels the need to stop the use of a drug yet uses it anyway (addiction) the less they eventually love themselves, which is what spirals out of control, you need to be the love for them that they lack for themselves. This is coming from a current addict who is trying to recovery, honestly give my advice a go. I promise/can almost guarantee significant results.

    • @PorshaOnAJourney
      @PorshaOnAJourney 5 років тому +1

      Hey I started my channel to help others struggling with addiction and recovery like I was. Please feel free to check it out. Thanks in advance 😘

  • @hairbydh8059
    @hairbydh8059 6 років тому +8

    Incredible🙏
    Five years sobriety🙏 and you put so much into words...what would be the cost? Thankyou, for the reminder and those words🙏

  • @ericdewitt8142
    @ericdewitt8142 3 роки тому +5

    I can relate. I'm off to rehab soon

  • @brettmaletic7337
    @brettmaletic7337 7 років тому +6

    Way to go, Steve! Keep it up, brother.

  • @chabella123
    @chabella123 2 роки тому +2

    He has alot of significant points. In the end of the day you can't help an addict who does not want to work on their recovery. Alot of what he is saying sounds like AA. call it what you want to call it.

  • @DaylinBoucher
    @DaylinBoucher 7 років тому +6

    Well done man. I am happy your doing what you love and are passionate about. Your awesome 😆

  • @bordercollie1140
    @bordercollie1140 Рік тому +3

    I think that basically deep down that all human beings are selfish and the people who try to deny this are the most dangerous. If you want to get clear of any addiction it has to be for yourself, because if you're doing it for anyone else then you're doomed to failure. Accept your selfishness and then you can move forward.

  • @gailoleagaonthemove
    @gailoleagaonthemove Рік тому +1

    I love your approach to helping those who are addicted. I am not addicted but have loved ones who are. Are you available by phone?

  • @Lost-n-fount
    @Lost-n-fount 3 роки тому +3

    I wish I could get the help I need . I know I have a problem and need help. I listen to these to try and stay sober. Any positive comments or help would wonderful

    • @stephansnow7777
      @stephansnow7777 3 роки тому +2

      Never give up my friend. You rock!

    • @rowanfrancis9011
      @rowanfrancis9011 3 роки тому +1

      Pray

    • @KJoe28
      @KJoe28 2 роки тому

      Never give up. You’re worth it. Sending love and hugs

  • @melissajhaynes
    @melissajhaynes 7 років тому +4

    Steve, was such a pleasure to meet you and hear your heartfelt message

    • @PorshaOnAJourney
      @PorshaOnAJourney 5 років тому

      Hey I started my channel to help others struggling with addiction and recovery like I was. Please feel free to check it out. Thanks in advance 😘

  • @lorizigler9084
    @lorizigler9084 7 років тому +4

    thank you for sharing! love you!

  • @cedarcove9728
    @cedarcove9728 4 роки тому +14

    OPPOSITE OF ADDICTION IS CONNECTION

    • @ratabahbinteqamarrbq4660
      @ratabahbinteqamarrbq4660 3 роки тому

      Nop bro don't believe what one person's opinion says ,believe in thousand years of experienced psychology and neuroscience

    • @mauricioBrunsMd
      @mauricioBrunsMd 3 роки тому

      So I have a “conected adiction “to alcohol? Thanks for the great comment

    • @brookedraper9296
      @brookedraper9296 2 роки тому

      Yes! I agree, the opposite of addiction is true connection!

  • @asha36636
    @asha36636 3 роки тому +3

    Mind blowing

  • @jc8258
    @jc8258 3 роки тому +3

    12th January 2021 8:54 p. m.

  • @robertmurdock8164
    @robertmurdock8164 2 роки тому +3

    The true nature of addiction is something that is intensely felt when it becomes chronic Everything becomes blurred and your own perceptions are the only ones that matter When the stigma and shame becomes intense one loses his or hers self esteem and sense of self worth Even today I find it difficult to look back because it’s hard to deal with When the thought of ones real condition becomes conscious a person can never be the same Recovery isn’t a celebration no it’s like climbing a mountain that you never scale but it’s one step and one day at a time

  • @chikaobichukwu1430
    @chikaobichukwu1430 4 роки тому +2

    This is powerful. Have learnt a lot from it. Inspiring

  • @Nithion
    @Nithion 3 роки тому +3

    i feel like ted talks are subtle way to flex

  • @jaredapplehans3692
    @jaredapplehans3692 3 роки тому +5

    There is no adrenaline rush going into addiction!! And its not a choice!!! I didn't wake up one day and say "hmm, I feel like loosing all my friends. Pushing away all my family. Spending all my money. Selling my cars and all my stuff. Loosing my job. And ultimately going down the path towards death for the next 3 years!" This really makes me mad!

    • @eddiespagetti8395
      @eddiespagetti8395 3 роки тому +1

      Your a victim of 12 step brainwash. Or just blind. You had CHOICE all along. Grow up take responsibility. Stop the nonsense excuse how bad you lost everything.. we all have lost. Now sober and clean we CHOOSE to never use again. Your a victim of you believe you have.a disease. Ya jackass disease coward disease. Man up and stop make excuse for your behaviour. Using drugs has ALLWAYS been a choice. I see you still choose to be a victim , so chances are you relapse in and out of 12 step groups ?? I am right. Grow up and think for yourself because using and addiction is allways a choice. Such a cop out. Your a victim of disease ya sure

    • @rowanfrancis9011
      @rowanfrancis9011 3 роки тому +1

      Hmmm 🙏

    • @eustab.anas-mann9510
      @eustab.anas-mann9510 2 роки тому +2

      He makes it seem so easy. *Just go to rehab bro, just find your motivation to stop using bro. Just stop doing drugs bro*

  • @christiancamargo5871
    @christiancamargo5871 2 роки тому

    I hate this sickness. I dont want it. I hope this time is for good. My fam needs me.i need them

  • @georgehenry4435
    @georgehenry4435 3 роки тому +1

    Just got out of rehab

  • @SunShine-yk9ge
    @SunShine-yk9ge 5 років тому +1

    Thanks

  • @BUGZYLUCKS
    @BUGZYLUCKS 2 роки тому

    thx

  • @notoriouslyfamousmusic7270
    @notoriouslyfamousmusic7270 5 років тому +4

    Yeah man but some people need something else. I didn’t find anything in this video. I wish I would’ve but I didn’t...

    • @brooksdejour22
      @brooksdejour22 4 роки тому

      Looking for self esteem recovery and found this... keep searching brother

  • @rowanfrancis9011
    @rowanfrancis9011 3 роки тому +3

    Day 1

  • @TTolland
    @TTolland 3 роки тому +10

    Not everyone has the luxury of being sent to rehab and this guy couldn’t be more unrelatable, how much more can one person be “Horray for me!”

    • @jatee8242
      @jatee8242 3 роки тому +5

      Eh I mean everyone struggles bro. Dude is still a human. ✌🏼

    • @QuinnStone
      @QuinnStone 3 роки тому +1

      You totally missed the message bro 🤦

    • @azblondi2730
      @azblondi2730 3 роки тому +4

      I thought the same thing..super happy he is doing good, successful, etc. But, sometimes, a person who is big into their own ego, that needs it to be feed, just means he possibly replaced his addiction to substances to his addiction to acceptance, popularity, being praised, adored by others, etc. Hope he keeps doing well. He does have great ideas, but it just feels weird to listen to if you have ever dealt with narcissism.

    • @QuinnStone
      @QuinnStone 3 роки тому

      @@azblondi2730 I think y’all are missing the message here. And isn’t everyone switching addictions for other addictions? Working out, school, work, hobbies… don’t forget that habits/ addictions mean the exact same thing. If this guys addiction is sharing his story and how he stays sober so others can see it’s possible… than my only thought is that maybe this message wasn’t meant for you, and that’s ok. Not everyone is on the same level or same path. That’s not saying one is better than the other, we’re all just on different journeys. 🥰

    • @bordercollie1140
      @bordercollie1140 Рік тому

      I agree with the oc. I'm not knocking the guy but nearly his whole message was about how well he'd done and his achievements. I think he's replaced one addiction for another, validation and praise. I found him very egotistical and a fragile one at that.

  • @Phuqmang
    @Phuqmang 7 років тому +1

    Good job Steve.

  • @terranhealer
    @terranhealer 3 роки тому +1

    A sobering thought: this is the garden of Eden, and there is a snake in the garden, and Cain is my brother - or am I Cain?

  • @lurocc
    @lurocc 7 років тому +4

    Great lessons...Jay didn't die in vain

  • @JD-iu2xh
    @JD-iu2xh 3 роки тому +7

    This was the biggest self congratulatory Ted Talk I've ever heard. It's truly cringe worthy, the guy is hilarious.

  • @francisgallant1479
    @francisgallant1479 6 років тому

    Exactly!

  • @ilikepasta99
    @ilikepasta99 3 роки тому +3

    Dude I can garentee u your addiction did not begin when you snuck a few cookies as a toddler.

  • @BasedJew
    @BasedJew Рік тому +1

    He shouldn’t have had his old best friend as his client as it’s bad practice

  • @tarawasinger
    @tarawasinger 2 роки тому

    🔥

  • @downbntout
    @downbntout 2 роки тому +1

    I knew cookies were a gateway drug!

    • @downbntout
      @downbntout 2 роки тому

      (truer for me than you know)

  • @maxjulien7353
    @maxjulien7353 3 роки тому

    I want a joint

  • @benjobonto7085
    @benjobonto7085 4 роки тому

    Nice👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @vincentdublino7136
    @vincentdublino7136 6 років тому +6

    Same old Rehab mbo,jbo

    • @dondressel4802
      @dondressel4802 6 років тому +5

      Shiawasenaneko maybe so but at least he’s trying to make a change

  • @danieldonascimentoaraujo3221
    @danieldonascimentoaraujo3221 5 років тому

    deferente

  • @TheSpicyPotatoe
    @TheSpicyPotatoe 5 років тому +5

    who else feels like they swallowed a red pill?😂

    • @PorshaOnAJourney
      @PorshaOnAJourney 5 років тому +1

      I suffered for so long and now I'm recovering. I started a channel to help others also struggling. I also am hosting a waistbead giveaway on my channel RIGHT NOW. I would love for you to visit my channel and tell me what you think. Thanks in advance😘

    • @aliqureshi2494
      @aliqureshi2494 5 років тому +1

      @@PorshaOnAJourney ok

    • @aliqureshi2494
      @aliqureshi2494 5 років тому

      @@PorshaOnAJourney tomorrow is my first day at hospital for recovery for 15 days inpatient care.

    • @PorshaOnAJourney
      @PorshaOnAJourney 5 років тому +2

      @@aliqureshi2494 I am so proud of you. This road to recovery is no easy thing but now, being on the other side, I can see why it was so necessary and the best thing to ever happen to me. If you ever need someone to just talk to all of my link are in the description of each of my videos. Stay strong hun.

    • @aliqureshi2494
      @aliqureshi2494 5 років тому

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  • @gho6239
    @gho6239 7 років тому +3

    Big ups bro..get at me if u ever wanna talk

    • @PorshaOnAJourney
      @PorshaOnAJourney 5 років тому

      Hey I started my channel to help others struggling with addiction and recovery like I was. Please feel free to check it out. Thanks in advance 😘

  • @chriswinter7561
    @chriswinter7561 3 роки тому +3

    Not the best Talk about recovery...

  • @goletest
    @goletest 7 років тому +4

    Just take intermittent fasting twice a week, all the addictions gonna flee.

  • @luisbustillos8057
    @luisbustillos8057 3 роки тому

    Poo no m lo

  • @miaminotorious
    @miaminotorious 4 роки тому

    This ηίɡɡα from Canada 🇨🇦 lmao