Know your CORE VALUES | Why identifying your core values will change your LIFE and RELATIONSHIPS
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- Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
- Know your CORE VALUES | Why identifying your core values will change your LIFE and RELATIONSHIPS
What are core values or personal values? What are your core values in your life? Discovering your core values is often a process and not something most of us immediately know without significant reflection and work. If you're not sure what your core values are, you are far from alone! In this video, I not only discuss why you need to know your core values and why you should get to know yourself better, but also provide core values examples and how to find your values and beliefs. Knowing your core values will improve your life at every level, particularly in how you aim to connect with others. So if unsure why knowing your core values is so important, then this video is for you! Identifying your core values will change your life and relationships for the better.
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I'm Ash Nord, your truth-bombing fairy godmother for everything love, dating and relationships. With so many idealistic, romanticised Hollywood messages about love out there, my mission is to be an honest, unfiltered source of information for individuals and couples seeking honest relationship advice and love lessons. No games, no manipulation tactics, no teachings about how to trick someone into liking you… so, if that’s what you’re looking for, I’m probably not your girl. My content is geared towards those wanting to learn more about REAL intimacy and togetherness with their partners or future partners. I have a psychological focus (I'm a psychology student) and a genuine passion for understanding how humans relate to and connect with one another. If you're into that type of thing, or would simply like to hear personal stories about my own life experiences and romantic relationships, then stick around! I got you.
DISCLAIMER: Please note everything stated in this video and all videos on my channel are purely my personal opinions and are for entertainment purposes only. I am not a qualified professional and as such my opinions should not be taken as psychological advice. - Навчання та стиль
Thank you for doing this vid, Ash. And for sharing your own experience with value work. You broke it down beautifully. Cannot wait to see the world evolve as more and more people do this work. Sending you love.
Aww thank you for watching! AND for writing the article, it was so inspiring! I’m with you, it’s so valuable and having this community full of so many insightful, introspective self-healers has really given me a lot of hope for the future. Thanks again ❤️
Hi! I do not have access to this article...is it somewhere on the web available? Thanks in advance fo responce.
I would love to be able to surround myself with actual people, not just walls. I am so lonely. And I think most people feel this way. In Slovakia, we can't even go out.
I totally hear you! I forget that there are still people all around the world still unable to leave their homes 😔 I understand that now may not be the time to get picky about who you spend your time with. Sometimes all we need is company! Hang in there ❤️
I just found your channel and I just want you to know that I express my condolences on the passing of your grandfather. COVID-19 has been a nightmare for all of us in many different ways but losing someone you love to it is truly horrible. Much love and support from New Jersey!
Thank you so much! I really appreciate the kind words and support ❤️ I totally agree, it’s been such a nightmare for all of us for so many different reasons. Hope you’re staying healthy and safe!!
Very great perspective and reasoning! I agree with this and am excited to learn more about myself and align my core values with my friendships, relationships, and family. Knowing what we want in life is an excellent step towards self-acceptance.
I love this :) Did you try R180? Revaluate180 is recommended because it focuses on aligning personal and organizational values with actions, using AI and proprietary analytics for in-depth insights.😇
Today I set up an appointment with my therapist to start helping me things like this! Starting really with learning how to set healthy boundaries that will in turn strengthen my core values. Then bam! You posted this! You have been a huge part of my self care and self love through a dark time in my life lately. Thank you from the bottom of my healing heart! 😭❤❤
That’s so amazing!! Good for you for taking the initiative to speak with a professional about it - it will be so valuable! I’m so happy to hear this message was timely for you 🥰❤️
ugh! your videos are very inspiring. love this human.
Aww you are so sweet!! Thank you so much 🥺❤️ I feel so honored and humbled. I love you back!
I'm so happy I found your videos I really connect with your messages.
I am so happy to find you , your channel believe me your all videos gave me so much strength to fight over my roughest thoughts after a breakup much love to you I appreciate all your efforts of making these videos your videos made me so comfortable inside while fighting those negative thoughts ❤
I’m so happy you found me too! And I’m so happy you have found comfort and meaning in my videos. That’s all I could ever hope to achieve with my content. Sending you lots of love and healing ❤️❤️
Thank you so much 🙏🏼
It’s so difficult to find someone to date that has those same values as me anymore. Like with ghosting. I don’t understand it at all. I was talking to this guy for the last month and he disappeared on me twice, and I’m the type of person to speak and ask why they disappeared? And he said that I mentioned something about myself that reminded him too much of his ex, and it made him emotionally shut down and he didn’t know what to say. I said well if you have an issue with something I said, why wouldn’t you just tell me? Rather than to just leave me guessing and wondering what the heck happened when I thought everything was going great? And he apologized but still ended us talking.
But it is a value difference that my way to communicate with people is to ACTUALLY communicate and not just ghost people. And there’s people who write to me on dating sites and I very politely tell them why I’m saying no to them from things from their profile. And they are so extremely thankful that someone wrote them back at all. Like one guy wrote to me and I said, it doesn’t look like we’re looking for the same things because you put in your profile that you don’t want children and I do. And he was so polite and grateful that I was honest and explained why I was saying no instead of just opening the message and saying nothing.
I couldn’t possibly love or resonate with this comment more! I am exactly the same. I have never, ever understood ghosting or how/why people can feel okay doing it. I recognise on an intellectual level that people don’t “owe” us their time or explanations, but from a purely compassionate/respect level, I don’t understand why people wouldn’t be willing to take a minute or so to explain.
As I explained in this video, that type of transparency is EVERYTHING to me. And I promise there are people out there who value it too (my fiancé is the same). But they can be hard to find unfortunately! But that is certainly not a value you should have to compromise on.
First, I want to say that I absolutely love your videos and they have helped me SO much throughout so many different challenges over the last little while. I am very grateful.
Second, a moment I also particularly appreciate is the unexpected way your fluffy cat sneaks and chills in the background every now and then. I always get excited to see the kitty and I'm hoping you could share his/her name? Please?
I’m so happy you are enjoying my videos and that you are finding them so helpful! ☺️ that warms my heart to hear.
Haha aww he’s such a cutie isn’t he! I actually have two cats, but the one who generally comes and joins me during filming is named Radley. But we all just call him Mouse 😝🥰
Hey nice to see your face again ✨
Sending you lots of love and support.
In regards of the topic you pointed out, damn.. This list will bring up so many demons and hidden situations we swallowed for so looong. But i think it's better to be done, cause it's a really intriguing thing to do.
Thanks for sharing it. It helps to understand ourselves, which is the most important thing ever that we don't pay so much attention to.
We focus our lives on others so we lose us so often, not knowing how to get back to whatever we thought we ever been. But I also think some Core Values can change over time.
Everything changes. Some, stays, some go. Isn't it.
Thanks again for doing this video, is really appreciated ❤️❤️❤️
Aww thank you so much! It feels so good to be back 🥰 thank you so much for your understanding and patience!!
Amazing to hear your thoughts and insights! You’re always so introspective. I certainly agree regarding certain core values perhaps changing over time. However, generally speaking, I feel like core values are usually fairly enduring. However certain ones may become less important over time while others may take over and vice versa 😊
@@AshleyNord absolutely and thanks! You're the one inspiring my introspective feedbacks ✨
Welcome back Ash... so happy to see you after a long time...🤗♥️
Thank you so much! I missed you guys so much, I’m very happy to be back 🥰
So happy to see you again Ash! Hope you feel so much better now. Take care of yourself always. All the best for you and all the people dear to your heart ❤️
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I'm trying to know mine but I can't pick any yet because I don't understand what the words mean fully
This is so helpful 💛
Travelling is a red flag for me it means they get around a lot
Hello, I was thinking about core values as strictly values so I find interesting that you list traveling. So in that case my could be honesty, respect and enjoying music. 😁
I have binge watched everything , I love you . So do you believe texting flirting is considered cheating for me yes, my current bf who I dumped days ago denies doing it and I saw it, looking for all ways to reach me through his friends, do you think I can find it in myself to trust him again or should I just let it go ?
I will point out a sentence that's really interesting to work on. You said from minute 12:00 that is nobodies job to make us feel energized...
I understand why I always felt so exhausted. I always tried to be that clown kinda person, even if inside I was empty and tired
Absolutely!! That makes total sense! It would be exhausting and incredible draining to assume the responsibility of feeling the need to be everyone’s entertainer ❤️
Love your videos!! when will you do a podcast because that would be amazing! much love xx
I second that! 😊
Aww I have definitely considered it! ☺️ Perhaps down the road as my channel (hopefully) continues to grow I will dip my toes into the podcast world!!
Hello Ash. You have a very meaningful videos that really struck my feelings. I am really learning a lot. I hope you could post a video advise about moving on with an Ex- but you guys have a child to share with. Please. Thank you.
I’m so happy to hear that you find my videos meaningful! This is such amazing feedback to hear ❤️ that’s all I could ever hope for when creating my content!
I have been considering covering this topic for a while now, but have been very cautious about it simply because it’s something I don’t have experience with given that I’m not a parent. So I am waiting until I feel I have gathered enough information from those who do have kids and are navigating coparenting until I cover this one ❤️ I recognize that it’s very complex and often has many layers, and I don’t want to speak out of turn!
Thank you for such a helpful video. I've seen so many that just mention core values but I couldn't quite understand it.
You’re so welcome! I’m so happy to hear that my explanation was able to provide you with some clarity. I feel like “core values” has become somewhat of a buzzword as of late and it can certainly be a confusing concept to wrap your head around!
I am not able to do this. I know the answers i think i should have but those are not me. I can say what a few of them aren't my core values but there are too many that seem to be of equal value.
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The link to the list is broken :/
Hey! Help me out please. My ex wants to stay friends with me but she is dating someone else and I haven't completely moved on from her. I still have feelings for her. So what should I do? Is being friends with her a good idea or keeping no contact would be a good idea?
Thanks for reaching out! To me, it sounds like you already know the answer to your own question here. You’ve clearly articulated that you are aware you have not moved on from her and that there is still unresolved emotions there for you. So in my opinion, I don’t see any benefit in having a friendship with your ex at this point - I think it would cause unnecessary pain for you.
Hi, Ash was wondering if you do counseling via phone or video?
Hello! At this stage I don’t do any type of private counseling - given that I’m not a qualified practitioner, I don’t think it would be ethical for me to do this. Hopefully when I finish my studies this will be something I can do! ❤️❤️
@@AshleyNord I think you're straight forward and clear with your message. I have a problem with ex and dont know what to do
Im in a love triangle rn. I like two guys. my bf and my ex. Im not sure what the right choice is.
I actually just did a video on having feelings for an ex while in a relationship 😊
@@AshleyNord yeah I saw It Lol perfect timing🖤 that video helped a lot
Ummm so let's say I have a core value of not eating meat but my partner doesn't share the same core value. How do we go about this?
You let people eat what they want. My core value is to let others do things that absolutely has nothing to do with me.
I miss you too
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