Q&A (debt, future, family, failure) | Rachel Southard
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Rachel, as a finance guy, I'm going to give you some advice about your loans. Actually, they are a bit less than I expected which is awesome. I know you won't make a lot of money in residency, but you will after that. My advice would be to continue to live off of the amount you were in residency for 5 years and use that time to get those loans paid off. You'll be what, like 35/36 then, and have no debt and a great salary. Then it will be easy to build wealth, and don't underestimate the improved mental state you will have when those loans are paid off.
Thank you so much for sharing this
Rachel, I “delayed” a lot of my life by serving in the Navy. One day you’ll look back and realize you didn’t delay a thing, and you lived a good life that helped you get to where you want to be.
I’m a proud father of two boys. As a former medic in the military, and now firefighter, and knowing the very basics of medicine, I was blown away by both of my wife’s OBGYN’s. You are going into such a great profession! I’ve never been more humbled than watching a team of women, OBGYN and nurses, save my boys each time with shoulder dystocia’s. Wow. Thank you for what you do.
Hey Tyler! Thank you so much for your service and thank you for sharing this with me 🙂 I’m very excited for this field!
Thank you for being so honest about your loans. Its honestly stomach dropping. If so many doctors weren't in debt, perhaps more of them would specialize in primary care and support a single payer healthcare system.
Rachel, OF COURSE YOU'RE GOING TO MATCH!!!
40 likes on this comment!!! 🥹😭 thanks for having faith in me
Failure is a tool! It's a lesson in how to do things differently. We need to normalize it as a necessary step in improvement.
Exactly what I said. But people use “failure” as a label and often feel defeated by the word.
Love these kinds of videos, so excited can’t wait! ❤️❤️❤️
love the video! questions and answers to them were very interesting.
the most relatable video, thanks for sharing
i love when you let us connect with you😭❤️makes me appreciate you that much more!!! our queen red ant ❤
ty, I am only in high school but your bit about failure really resonated with me! 🙂
I really enjoyed this Q&A. Your answers to some of the Qs like body imaging and seeing how others are living their life and we are only studying were amazing and felt so warm❤️❤️ thank you so much!
What a fantastic video. I loved hearing about what's going on in your life. Super excited to hear more about residency!
Love hearing your thoughts 😊
I can see you encouraging and rejoicing with a mom in labor!
omg first question was meeeee :) fangirling a little hehe thank you for answering!
This video made me so happy! I loved hearing you answer all these questions and share so much encouragement❤️
Awesome to hear you’ve got all your apps in! You’ll do great in the match!
Love that body mindset ! As long as you know you’re eating healthy and your body is healthy,that’s enough🤍
I liked that you shared how your parents understand when you don't have time to share with them n the only way you could share the time you have at hand is by calling them. I think most people in med school need that support. I wish mine would understand me like yours do
I didn’t know I needed this video until I watched it. Thank you for sharing! ❤️
I’m a 3rd year law student and find your videos so inspiring!
i've been watching you since i was a freshman in high school (actually... i could've been a sophomore i don't remember o.o) and now i'm a freshman in college... thank you for inspiring all of us and just being so honest and cool through everything
Such great advice ur giving. I dealt with burnout a few times in my 36+ years. Because I love to learn new things I would seek out and work in a different nursing environment. For me it was great. The people I met and worked with impacted my life with each change and the learning never stopped. Sometimes people have trouble recognizing when they need to make some changes and they remain stuck. Life is too short to be unhappy. Evaluate what is causing it and don’t be afraid of change. It can be great.
Yes I am not in a medical or paramedical profession but have found your videos and story compelling/inspiring. It was especially nice to see you in person here in NYC, however briefly. Keep rocking and be well!!
I‘m still so astounded that it is so „normal“ for students in other countries to be in debt that amount. I‘m so grateful in Germany we’re in debt (usually) not more than 10.000€ if our parents couldn’t afford to pay us. Studying in itself is free…
I wish for the future that more and more countries educate for free! Especially in jobs that are serving the public. Really can’t take that for granted.
I think Germany has a much higher tax rate tho don't know how much of an impact that would have
Love this video a lot ❤
So so excited
I've been watching you for awhile and you always inspire me to do the best, and since you mentioned not all of your watchers are medical students i'm one of those haha i'm a pharmacy student : D
Rooting for you and your future!! Wish you all the best Rachel!
A lot of good advice, thanks Rachel! I'm now in the process of choosing the school I'm going to next years for nursing. It's both scary and exciting😬 The quote about the grass will definitely help me in many situations. Love u!
I am an architect student and I love watching your videos ❤️
Continue to deep dive into medicine Rachel. You are not missing anything that can’t be done when you are an MD. That MD makes everything sweeter! No problem! Drive on! 👍🏾
I love you Rachel you have such great personnality
Rachel... first, I'm from Brazil and I want to thank you, because I have been watching you for so long and you became like my close friend (at least you don't know about that lol) and my diary pillow of motivation! I'm in the process to get in at med school and your job here is a such important part of my journey, believe that! Thank you so much... and I would like have you a question: if you didn't get pass MCAT, will you try again? I'm living this now... thinking about my age (23). xoxo
You are amazing!!
I'm a first year nursing student in the UK, been watching you since your first year at med school, maybe a bit before that. Love your content and how real you are. I find your videos to be inspirational and have helped me in my own studies up to now 😊 got my Herd hoodie just before I started at Uni, and I am sure it makes me more studious when I wear it! Sending love across the pond! Wishing you all the luck with your residency interviews xxx
Yaaaayyy new video ❤️❤️❤️
Until recently, I regretfully subscribed to the stupid pre-med taboo that medicine vloggers are ‘cringy’. But I’ve been guilty-pleasure watching your content for a while now and you really make some great points in this video - In fact, even kinda makes me want to vlog my M1 year. I consider myself a creative person and I think video editing is a great outlet for self-expression.
I absolutely LOVED this video Rachel! Thank you for being so vulnerable and open with us. I admire your kindness and self awareness so much ❤. I’m so so happy that I decided to follow your journey! The part about Kim Kardashian made laugh so hard 😂😂
I literally said out loud "YAY!" when you mentioned veterinary! love it!
Yay for our vets 🥰
love the honesty!! you're so genuine, please never change
Josh!!♥️
Really feeling for you in this time. I am a PGY3 OBGYN and am interviewing our next set of incoming interns right now. I think back to the anxiety I had during that time and know you are feeling a lot of these things right now. I was in a similar life place when I was in your shoes. In residency, I was able to date and meet my now husband and we are now planning our family! It is possible!
Hi Dr. Dunmire!
Thank you for your reassuring words. I’m hoping that part of my life falls into place at some point. If not…at least I’ll be an OBGYN. 😌
I’m a medical student in India and I watch your vlogs as I relate to a lot of your experiences. In India, the non government backed medical colleges are extremely expensive and since my family is just a simple middle class one, they barely pay off my tuition fees as well. And that’s really been hard on my conscience to the point where I regret not doing well enough in my entrance exams to get into a government funded medical school (which is practically free of tuition fees). But when I saw how upfront you were about your debts I realised that I wasn’t alone. You’re absolutely right. Our passion and our dreams are more important than money and no amount of money could replace the amazing careers we’re gonna have. So thank you for letting me know that I’m not a financial burden on my parents.
Not me over here shook that Rachel is 5’4 😂 You seem tall in videos!
You will match well! Have faith, you are knocking it out of the park.
Let’s hope so! Thank you
I can't believe its been 4 years!! I remember watching your first vlogs when I was in undergrad nursing school and now here I am applying to DNP
Yay! Congratulations!
I wish I knew how people push through when they have a burnout cuz I think we need it
This was great! I love the straight forward genetics in offspring comment 😂 after taking the courses you can’t help but look at it that way. Precisely how I think of it!
Hey Rachel, I started watching your videos when you first started med school and while I was 1 year in into premed. Thanks for making the videos, they have been very helpful for me as I have started going through this journey. I recently got accepted to medical school!
Yay! Congratulations 🥹
You will be able to find the love of your life and have a family eventually. Enjoy residency and everything will fall into place. There’s no time table for love.
Hi Rachel ! I’m a physical therapist and have mad respect for physicians. I think you’re doing awesome and you’re a strong woman who is such a blessing to patients and everyone on this channel. Keep up the good work! If you need me alleviate neck or back pain, let me know. Take care and stay strong !
i love you rachel southard
love you Rachel!! I'm currently rewatchig all your videos from the beginning and maybe a week ago i watched the one where you took a "speciality" quiz and i smiled to myself because the quiz put OBGYN near the bottom in your results 😂 BUT little did they know hehe ;) you're so inspiring and i loved hearing you talk about body image. I recently read a paper for a class in which it said that "women themselves will not be able to take back control over their bodies only by resisting the enormous power of fashion, cosmetic and diet industries. Everday social relations and conventions and relationships with health care professionals must also change". As a future doctor yourself, having you open this conversation is beyond important ❤ You embody the whole spectrum of what a doctor should be and any residency program should feel BEYOND lucky+proud+excited to have a public figure like yourself who also has such a positive impact on future medical professionals (and humans) part of their program! I'm glad you chose to include your youtube life in your application...❤ all the best girl!! xo
Wow thank you Sara. This comment got me a bit emotional ♥️
It was really heartening to hear someone I follow and respect talk about possibly single parenting in the future. I really want kids but have no partner or potential future partner right now, and I'll do it on my own if I have to.
🥹♥️it’s doable! People do it. So can we.
Now that im a senior in highschool im getting straight As and im actually considering becoming a doctor now because my friend encouraged me and i feel like it’s gonna be worth it and im super excited because i want to be put in a position where im able to help people
there are more careers paths that can help people that don't require medicine tho, i don't think your only reason to go into medicine should be getting straight As
@@isidoooora who said it was? Sorry, i dont see the point of this comment
I wish you good luck.
Rachel! How are you making any source of income during medical school? I know being a medical student is full time, but how do you make money to pay for living and housing besides via UA-cam?
If we start from a place of caring and see results it proves that care is valuable. if we know the value of our efforts the effort becomes rewarding. The more value we find in the middle the more flexible we are and the more we can achieve. I think part of the cinderella energy is an abundance of finding joy in the process and I think it’s one of the things this channel teaches. Where there’s an imbalance, we can teach each other new ways to love where we are or help each other toward the love and joys that make things easier and let us know we’re seen. Everything in life is a process. The more we can help each other in that the better it all becomes for all of us. We owe that to each other and ourselves.
Thank you, always,for your really insightful comments ♥️
Your advice really helped me see things differently thank you Rachel! 💕
My name is also Rachel hehe😅🤣
Just a couple of comments about your video. As for body weight and standards, in college I was very active and eating healthy. I am 5'7" and was 165 pounds-- overweight by the tables, however my doctor ordered me not to lose any more weight. That was the lowest I could go and still be healthy. So I applaud your attitude towards healthy eating and not being stressed by numbers!
As for what a future partner might do...I know there are doctor/doctor matches. However, my niece is a family practice D.O. Her husband does primary child care--he works flexible hours--so that she is available to take her call days.
Thank you for the comment Julie!!
BMI is such a poor standard to go by to determine if someone is “overweight” and such. Just cause it doesn’t account for hardly anything. Thanks for sharing!
That sounds like a perfect match :) we’ll see what life has in store for me.
Hi Rachel, did you only apply OB or two other specialities ranking wise top three? I heard you pick like three specialities from.
I love you racheelll
With my second baby, the O.B I had was delivering her first baby. My daughter was 8.4 lbs. My other 2 kids were over 9 pounds lol. I birthed toddlers I swear. 🤣
You are going to make an amazing O.B and I'd be absolutely comfortable and happy to have you deliver my child. You have such a warm presence. I've been watching since your first week in medical school video. Been amazing to watch you kick this journeys butt.
Life will fall into place, a partner, kids, marriage whatever it may be will come to you. People may be traveling now and enjoying life, but one day you'll be able todo anything you want in life and travel, but you are prepping to bring life into the world. Now that's amazing.
😭😭🥹 this comment had me in tears. Thank you Brittany
When you mentioned PAs watching.. yep that’s me. I’m the PA :p
As far as loans.. I’m very thankful my grandparents were able to pay for my tuition. My PA school tuition for 27 months was about 90k. I have 53k in loans (about 50k principal) from living expenses. So I would say PAs without kids or anything.. probably 150k in loans after graduation. Compared to average salary for PAs is maybe around 120k now.
20:00 which is PERFECT for gymnastics
Yasss!
Hi Rachel, how did you get your community college paid for? Thank you would love to know.
She was engaged ??!?
“ I want to see what my genes are like” that’s some wholesome sh@t. Hope you find someone soon
i really appreciated your perspective on being appreciative of your body being a vessel and how you see people who aren’t healthy who wish they would have a healthy body, because I’m one of those people. As a crohn’s patient, my body is always changing and literally never completely healthy, and there are days where I would give anything to be back in the healthy body that i had just two years ago. sometimes it’s good to just recognize your body as the thing that gets you around, and for all the cool things it does to keep you alive. 🫶🏽
I Can not lie i am so curious about your personnel life 😅and i know it is your absolutely right to not share it. It just that i feel so close to you that i get curious 🙈😍😘❤️
In the building waiting from Barbados 😎😎😎
Dense Tank Bodies unite!!! hahaha I have always had a high BMI for my height, even at my thinnest!
Heck yes!! Loud and proud :)
What medical school did you go to? Sorry I’m new
i would not say that the government getting involved in stuent loans made the price of medical school much higher. In most civilized countries, the government is extremely involved with college tuition and they do not have that problem. In civilized countries, the citizen do not go bankrupt for having a medical emergency.
Are taxes really higher in those countries? in the USA i pay 28% federal 9 % state 7% fica maxing out my 401k 20% , max out Roth IRA plus healthcare ( $6000 out of pocket ). That is very comparable(even more) to the highest-taxed countries with a lot fewer benefits.
my edit: i am really glad the government paid for your bachelor. You made good use of it. The world will have a great OB because of it. We all win.
Hi Rachel, what camera do you use now days to record your youtube videos and what camera lenses do you use.
P.S. I love your videos
Hi! I'm using an EOD m50 with a 11-22mm lens (i believe it is).
Girl this is coming from the nicest place. You really need to chill
Thank you Kay
I burst out laughing hearing the Cinderella and her cleaning comparison...
I'm not from the USA so I'm just wondering how long will it take for you to pay off this debt? Can you buy a house meanwhile after you graduated?
Plus, with this amount of debt, you have no choice but go on and make sure you make it to be a doctor... that's very stressful...
in the building watching from barbados😎😎😎
Rachel you just popped up on a Huel ad and it caught me off guard lol
HA no way!
y'all should like the video for the algorithm
An Angel has commented ^^^^hahah love you
watched this as a podcast (i guess i listened to it then haha)
Love that!
Can someone please tell me what's the name of the song in the end of the video??? I've been here for a year and I still don't know 🤡
open.spotify.com/track/3pJx41rplvkjfRy1aLjzy3?si=1tUDxuIJQpanhYRxn3MPPg
Hi! Silent subscriber but felt compelled to comment. I’m a stay at home mom a few credits away from my associates degree lol! Nowhere near a doctor but my life dream is to be an l&d nurse- I know that’s what I am meant to do. I have watched you for years and you inspire me! As someone in a totally different period of life, I love watching your videos and am looking forward to the day I can learn a fraction of what you have.
Keep moving forward Anna! You’re doin the thing!
I heard some hospitals will pay your loans! I think you'll make a great obgyn!
Its crazy for me how much you have to pay for your education and future. In Germany it’s for free. But on the other hand I think your education is way better
was laberst du Mensch. Ich studiere Medizin in Deutschland und ich kann sagen hier ist es viel besser als in Amerika oder was auch immer.
It’s not free. But ofc the education is not so expensive.
Was ist denn deiner Meinung nach viel
besser als in Amerika?
Why do you think it's not free?
@@niklas541 College is never free
Rachel omg today a fellow premed at my school asked me this afternoon what kind of doctor I wanted to be. So I told her I wanted to be a surgeon. And she goes well do you want to be a mom? I said yes I do. She told me I better rethink that because I can't be both. She goes I use to want to be a surgeon too but not anymore bc of that. I said not very confidentially bc I was so taken a back and a little hurt from the unsupport I'm going to be both. She goes well you will be rich so you can afford a nanny to raise your kids basically. I just can't get that out of my head that really got to me. I know I shouldn't let people get in my head but that really hurt. I just wanted to share with another fellow female future doctor because dang I was so surprised she would say something like that. No I have doubts I haven't had before. Do you have any advice for how deal with naysayers? That's my first time sharing that with someone else in person and to experience them saying that hurts. I know it won't be the last time I hear that though.
Hello, I wasn’t there so I have no idea how that discussion went with that doctor. But I don’t think she was primarily telling you that just to discourage you. As a pre-med I work with several surgeons, and done many shadowing experiences with them. I can tell you that a majority of surgeons have such crazy long schedules that they just don’t have kids. The ones I met that do, either have a nanny OR told me they missed many important parts of their kids lives growing up. I’m not telling you this to discourage you either, but if you want to have kids & be a surgeon, you have to be aware of what kind of surgeon you want to be, how much time it will take out of a typical day, and whether or not that will effect your parenting style if you choose to become a parent.
I'm sure you definitely can be a surgeon and still have a family. Surgery hours are very grueling but still possible, it just depends on what kind of surgeon you want to be and the scheduling for it. Neurosurgeons have it hard but I'm sure other types of surgeons are able to make it manageable so I say go for it if that's your passion. I've seen people be surgery attendings/residents and still have time to go out and have fun with friends and family.
Hi there! I’m not in medical school.. I decided to go the PA route because I have three kids. That being said I think the comment is only valid depending on your current situation and which surgical specialty. For example. For 7 years I was a single mom so going to medical school to become a surgeon(what I originally wanted to do) wasn’t an option. Once I got married, had another kid, I was older I really had to calculate not only the money but the time and dedication it would take for me to pursue a medical degree. In the end it just didn’t work logically and I realized I can be a PA and still find my way without losing my dream of going into medicine❤️ so don’t let it discourage you. I will say being a mom comes first for me. No job would ever take precedent. So if being a mom is one of your purposes maybe just take a long look at specialties and see which surgical specialty is more forgiving in terms of time. This is so long but I hope this helps you ☺️
Uh this is hateful, you are seen as a machine and not a person who have wants and needs. Hopefully someday this will change for hospital workers in the meantime; I hope you go and succeed so when a woman goes the same path as you, you can help her out.
Depends on what type of surgeon...cosmetic 9-5, ortho doing knee scopes 9-5....
You could also go dentistry route for oral maxillofacial surgery.
When I was in college Americans would come to Ireland to study medicine to get their degree.
I was over 10 pounds when I was born , forgot the exact number.. I don't think it was all muscle though 😁
OMG HAHA
You don't look 5'4 or 5''5...you look atleast 5'8 or 6'0...
No way!! Really!?
@@RachelSouthard Yes!
Surgical Tech Students watching you :)
Any other non-med students that are subscribers here? I’m a finance girly lol
Lol, I'm HR!
Culinary student !
I graduated uni 5 years ago and I’m in marketing !
I once delivered an almost 5 kg baby. He was biiig 😅
😨😨
@@RachelSouthard and can I also just say - that if I am right about just around 9 pounds being around 4 kg - that is not seen as a very big baby where I am from? At term that’s a pretty common weight 😅
19:50 not me over here thinking for the past FOUR YEARS that Rachel is like 5'9" or 5'10" and she's actually 5'4" (or 5'5" on a good day lol) ... I don't think I'll ever fully believe that unless I meet her in person which likely won't happen but sending much love from Michigan!
😂😂NO WAY YOU THINK IM THAT TALL!!!HOW!!
@@RachelSouthard IDK BUT IVE BEEN BAMBOOZLED FOR FOUR YEARS! You've always given off tall-girl vibes with your confidence and you most definitely have a 5'10" personality
Can I get a shout out! Doc, you said NETFLIX SERIES, I called it lol.
LMAOOO s/o to you!
A Surgical technologist is watching and you are inspiring me:)
I was today years old when I found out you use to be engaged 👁👄👁
same! Do we know to who?
We don’t know who 😅
Girl, you’re fasho dating someone. It’s okay to admit it 🤪
Nooooo I just keep getting asked those questions haha
She literally wants to get married to a man just to have kids. And she said it's not necessary she's a real G. I admire that
“Being pimped” uhhh that term forsure has to change 🙃 that’s forsure cringey having to listen to
It’s not bad.
Hey...I just wanted to tell you guys that Jesus loves you so much. He let Himself die on the cross as punishment for OUR sins, so that we wouldn't have to do it ourselves. Then God rose Him up from the dead to symbolize that fact that we have received forgiveness for our sins and now have new life. You can tap into God's kindness and love, even right now, by believing in Jesus and what He's done for us all, and by turning your heart from sin, to the love of Christ :)
Bruh no one cares. Stop posting this shit on all her vids. Get a life
Nothing like UA-cam comment evangelists.
no thanks
Hang on MAM does that say 306.618 or 306,618?!
300k ! oof !
She's living our future
300k fam I wish I were kidding.