HOW TO HANDLE THE STRESS OF BEING A NEW PARENT (Extremely Fussy Newborn) | Dr. Paul

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 21

  • @southernbelle2478
    @southernbelle2478 Рік тому +15

    Man I remember when I had my daughter. The dark nights holding her and rocking her and sobbing. Both my parents passed away and the babies father is not in her life wants nothing to do with us. I have no family they all live out of state or are to old to help or I don't have a relationship with and my friends live 50 miles away I literally had/have nobody. So many nights I wanted to end myself and though about it every single night. I still don't know how I made it tbh.

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 Рік тому +1

      Never lose yourself... life is surely tough and unpredictable but it doesn't mean that we r allowed to become losers... good times will come ... u need to have faith ... u r doing great ... u will become even better ... don't lose hope
      God bless

    • @cindyreinhart9552
      @cindyreinhart9552 Рік тому

      Oh honey pot it means you are here for a reason. My child...she came out of the womb pissed off. Hard, just hang on. God bless you Southernbelle24.

    • @KRushMissions
      @KRushMissions Рік тому

      Praying for u & your baby❤

  • @dnasjajones4938
    @dnasjajones4938 Рік тому +14

    Dr. Paul will always be my fav pediatrician he’s so amazing with the kids and I love it❤

  • @WhereIsTheBourbon
    @WhereIsTheBourbon Рік тому +29

    It’s kind of a toxic thing to tell new dads that as soon as you hold your new baby that your world will change and everything is bliss. It really gaslights new dads into thinking something is wrong with them if they are struggling.

    • @cindyreinhart9552
      @cindyreinhart9552 Рік тому

      Well said Michael Myers!

    • @ThisBraveHeart
      @ThisBraveHeart Рік тому +4

      For moms as well. I had PPD with my first and for the longest time I felt like something was wrong with me

    • @thedevil1667
      @thedevil1667 Рік тому

      You don't have kids do u?

    • @00WatName00
      @00WatName00 11 місяців тому

      As mama doctor jones said, it’s ok to not instantly have that immediate connection with a newborn, you’re still in the midst of building a bond with them. This applies to both moms and dads, I believe

    • @aa3ali4
      @aa3ali4 11 місяців тому

      Good observation my friend , but do you think calling someone ( Doc ) a gaslighter is beneficial for the patient ? The vulnerabilities we face at any moment or experience in our life , require a trust , acceptance , support . Let's not try to label or judge people for their endeavors , especially when it comes to the source of support and trust . Acknowledging the hard situations we face as a normal process of parenting , gives so much relief for our vulnerabilities . Breaking the trust can break the patient . Thank you for your observations and remember : what's in the best intrest of patients , is all what matters .

  • @Martaa23
    @Martaa23 Рік тому +7

    Great advice! I would just add one small bit: Don't discard the extreme crying/fussiness as just colic that will eventually go away. My son is 8 months now and up to just a couple months ago he used to cry pretty much all day and night, if he was awake he was crying. We eventually found out he has pancreatic insufficiency, probably shwachman-diamond syndrome. The poor thing was in pain pretty much all the time and we had no clue why. I honestly believe I've developed some trauma myself from all the crying, it was enough to drive a person insane

  • @TeeshiaD
    @TeeshiaD Рік тому +4

    This man here is the real reason I will become a great pediatrician soon.
    Med school here I come

  • @valentinarodriguez8386
    @valentinarodriguez8386 Рік тому +3

    Great advise. I wish I had the support system when I had my kids.

  • @Sabouma28
    @Sabouma28 Рік тому +3

    I hope by now things are going much better for the young family

  • @liznichols4916
    @liznichols4916 Рік тому +4

    I had planned to have a mostly natural delivery and ended up with an emergency c-section after three days of labor. That child was so colicky and I've later learned very neurodivergent. We barely made it through the first 18m but we did. There is nothing wrong with feeling like you just can't anymore. The problem is not realizing that and getting help. It got better and my 13yo is the most amazing young man now. Still very much neurodivergent but such a good child.

  • @KRushMissions
    @KRushMissions Рік тому +1

    I know several moms that had PPD and it ended up needing IV Iron as they were depleted. Something to keep in mind. (Not a Dr or anything else, just putting it out there as PPD is so common!)

  • @ryans413
    @ryans413 11 місяців тому

    It’s good to have family around so they can help mom dad grandma or grandpa sister or brother. The first year with a new baby is the hardest and you’ll need the extra help. New parents need sleep they need to recharge it’s not healthy.

  • @JessicaTheEngineer
    @JessicaTheEngineer Рік тому +3

    TWO BEDROOMS PEOPLE! One with the baby and one for the parent catching up on sleep!

  • @venkat374
    @venkat374 Рік тому

    Sir good day, my 8 month old started pulling his left ear and hair above his ear all of a sudden..we have noticed that his lower teeth has started showing up..is this the reason sir

  • @tomthumb3994
    @tomthumb3994 Рік тому

    Luny doc got his license pulled lmaoooo