Honestly I have carried the shame of poverty due to my dad’s wrong financial choices and this makes me resent him so much,had to take over some financial responsibilities as a result. As an adult I am trying to do better but eeeeiii the embarassment for me is real,especially when someone asks me where my folks live😢 I feel shame and sometimes I lie even though I nolonger live with them😂 Clearly I need THERAPY!!!!!!!!!
There was a time in my life when i was shameful because i was an orphan. All my friends had parents and mine had died at such a young age. It was a struggle for me as a teenager, but as i got older, i overcame it. I just do not want to be asked what they died of because that is also another shameful thing. They died of aids and i felt like i was being judged because of the stigma around aids.
I am like Murugi about public crying. I have ever cried in a Matatu in NBi. I could see how it was making the men around me uncomfortable.Btw I cried ikaisha. Got out went home. Matatu za Chai road. It breaks my heart seeing women crying. Bt I don't feel the same about men crying and I need to work on that.
This thing of being ashamed to tell something happened to me yesterday. I send a message to my boda guy to bring me fresh tilapia fish,I think he didn’t read it well and he brought me smoked fish khai when I saw the package I was like oh my oh my🤦♀️ I jst took it and said thank you,I didn’t tell him anything. Imagine i had to change all my plan for the day,changed my baby’s meal,started looking for tomatoes cause I didn’t have any. To make the matter worse that day I was craving fried fish and chips,I cried to release the anger 😂😂😂😂 but all in all today I am okay and life goes on🤗
I love you guys so much, your vibe and energy is top notch, and I’m always excited to see a new video ….🥰🥰 y’all are a power house!!! Let me now watch the video 😃😃
Murugi's mum on podcast, I would listen to it. I used to listen to her on Hope FM some years back. I think it was her, I can't remember - she used to answer life dilemma questions.
There are times i bought things i didn't even like because i didn't want to seem rude. I used to go to a restaurant and the food was great but it didn't tickle my taste buds that day. I didn't even then to pack it as take away since i was going for drinks later. The waiter came and asked if i the food was the problem and in that instance i was like a deer in headlights. I was praising everything: the waiter, the ambience, their service, dang i almost praised the roof and i had to smile so hard and leave a tip. The people pleaser in me went to weird lengths. But now i have no problem walking away
Some level of embarrassment is good, just a bit of it, it will help you to some degree, like shame around coming from poor background is kinda good if only it's pushing you to create better. But don't entirely be like it's hiding, I mean you could hide from everyone else but inner, mid circle.
Bring the singing back,😭😭😭
PLEASE
Yeeeeees
Ziii we've been through this wachana na singing
Honestly I have carried the shame of poverty due to my dad’s wrong financial choices and this makes me resent him so much,had to take over some financial responsibilities as a result. As an adult I am trying to do better but eeeeiii the embarassment for me is real,especially when someone asks me where my folks live😢 I feel shame and sometimes I lie even though I nolonger live with them😂 Clearly I need THERAPY!!!!!!!!!
Gal I feel you
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My life literally changed to whoever introduced me here thank you...am addicted
There was a time in my life when i was shameful because i was an orphan. All my friends had parents and mine had died at such a young age. It was a struggle for me as a teenager, but as i got older, i overcame it. I just do not want to be asked what they died of because that is also another shameful thing. They died of aids and i felt like i was being judged because of the stigma around aids.
I am like Murugi about public crying. I have ever cried in a Matatu in NBi. I could see how it was making the men around me uncomfortable.Btw I cried ikaisha. Got out went home. Matatu za Chai road. It breaks my heart seeing women crying. Bt I don't feel the same about men crying and I need to work on that.
Why do you need to feel sorry for men crying. Let them cry
Murugi your smile is heavenly 🎉Lydia you look good the outfit damn😊❤
And here I am who cried for days bcz my son is graduating….i cry too much over anything. Not me almost crying bcz you’ve said that word so many times
Wednesday is finally here😊😊🎉
Hey Queen Lyd, Queen Murugi and all in betweeners❤❤❤❤
Hello hello 😍
Not murugi's priceless expression on Lydia's view of taking out a wedgie 😂😂😂💔💔
Heaven sent episode fr. You've mentioned like 3 major things I'm embarrassed about and have been battling this week. Thank you ❤
Thank you, our leader, Queen Lydia ❤. Proudly single in the 30s 😅
My doctor said l need medication because l am addicted to your podcast
😂smoooth
This thing of being ashamed to tell something happened to me yesterday. I send a message to my boda guy to bring me fresh tilapia fish,I think he didn’t read it well and he brought me smoked fish khai when I saw the package I was like oh my oh my🤦♀️ I jst took it and said thank you,I didn’t tell him anything. Imagine i had to change all my plan for the day,changed my baby’s meal,started looking for tomatoes cause I didn’t have any. To make the matter worse that day I was craving fried fish and chips,I cried to release the anger 😂😂😂😂 but all in all today I am okay and life goes on🤗
Woiye. Ungemshow tu arudiashe. But glad you're good.
It's Definitely TMIIII 🎤🎶❤❤😅
I love you guys so much, your vibe and energy is top notch, and I’m always excited to see a new video ….🥰🥰 y’all are a power house!!! Let me now watch the video 😃😃
Murugi the crying in a matatu happened to me on my way home after my first heartbreak when I was 20.I totally get those who cry😂😂😂
I did just last year 😢😢😅😅
Murugi's mum on podcast, I would listen to it. I used to listen to her on Hope FM some years back. I think it was her, I can't remember - she used to answer life dilemma questions.
Lydia's hair❤️
Tuning in from México City. Loving it.....
man, i love this podcast and therapy is the shit
I love the conversation it's very relatable we need to normalize this things
Time for my favourite podcast and airpods🥰
You know it ! 🤪
Lol Murugi really be struggling with the concept of men crying
There are times i bought things i didn't even like because i didn't want to seem rude. I used to go to a restaurant and the food was great but it didn't tickle my taste buds that day. I didn't even then to pack it as take away since i was going for drinks later. The waiter came and asked if i the food was the problem and in that instance i was like a deer in headlights. I was praising everything: the waiter, the ambience, their service, dang i almost praised the roof and i had to smile so hard and leave a tip. The people pleaser in me went to weird lengths. But now i have no problem walking away
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Not the roof 😂😂
Not the roof!!!!😂
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I love you both! 😂❤
When murugi said "you wear a thong so you're in a perpetual wedge: 🤣🤣🤣
I really enjoyed this episode
🎉🎉❤❤we love you ladies
Love you right back ❤️
Some level of embarrassment is good, just a bit of it, it will help you to some degree, like shame around coming from poor background is kinda good if only it's pushing you to create better. But don't entirely be like it's hiding, I mean you could hide from everyone else but inner, mid circle.
Saying No to someone or something for the fear of being judged 😁i screamt when i conquered that
It's liberating 😂
Google Podcast does not exist anymore 😞
Locked in ❤!
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My all time favorite gals ❤❤❤
Yaaaaaaaass ...day made ❤❤❤
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Am so ashamed to say I have been watching TMI and I haven't subscribed 😢Anyway I did now
Fav pod❤
I've pooped my pants in public. Just about to board the sgr too lol 😂😂😂 Lydia please I'm sorry 😂😂😂
A glance or eye contact ...now you have to buy...if not, INSULTS🤦🏿
Iam with Lydia on emotional vulnerability.
Whoop whoop❤
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😂😂😂 swallow got me
A human who is not dead 💀 😂😂😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
So true on 30 year old single men.,😂😂
I will never fart or pull out a wedgie in public.
Thought I was the only one who kisses my bestie on the mouth, like peck
lol, so Lydia has smelt a dead person to know difference 😢
Joan Joan 😂😂
I'm too early 😂❤
As you should be 😍😍
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