How to overcome emotional abuse forever (end psychological abuse)
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- Опубліковано 22 лип 2020
- How to overcome emotional abuse from the very root up. This video gives you clarity, perspective and direction towards complete liberation or healing from this psychological abuse.
My intention of this video is to give you perspective, clarity and direction, how to overcome emotional abuse, wether it’s childhood emotional abuse by parents, or emotional abuse by any kind of relationship, towards liberating the untouched, unharmed inspiration, that lies underneath, that you are actually born for.Apart from getting perspective and direction towards complete liberation from the very root up, in this video you will also get practical tips you can apply immediately at the surface already as well.
I have experienced both childhood trauma due to emotional abuse as emotional abuse in my partner relationships.I kept choosing for similar kind of neglect, emotional unavailable people, cold treatments and the crossing of my boundaries in my partner relationships, because most of the time, if we are not aware of it, we repeat the only the things we know, even if we feel it is not good for us.This experience, together with being laughed at for having been very skinny, made me feel very insecure and unworthy,
before I learned to transform this suffering into the independent fulfilling loving and abundant journey I want to take you on with me.
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The abusers are weak. Stay strong. Journaling is good. Gets rid of nightmares. We all have to take care of ourselves. Let them know if you don't have anything good to say. Don't say anything. You will never win. If need be go no contact. Don't ever fall into there traps. Do what you like to do everyday. Set goals. It's hard. You will survive. Take care of yourself. It's you life not there's. Enjoy life you only live once. Let your enemies go.
I appreciate it.
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Thanks made my night
Love you bro ty❤
Appreciate this ❤️
Combine being already depressed and having an inferiority complex with having had a toxic person in your life and it's a recipe for disaster. Thank you for sharing.
I wanna die everyday I just want peace and to make my videos
I have been in a verbally abusive relationship for 2 years now and felt hopeless, contemplating suicide. This video has given me inner strength to make a change for myself. Thank you I will listen to your other videos
I've been in this same situation for 9 years.. And I'm only 25 & feel so helpless
@@sjw4269 I've been in same for almost 10 years as well. Feels completely inescapable.
Me too I’m 26 and I’ve been in a mental abusive relationship for 8 Years!!
24 and living with an emotional abusive older brother my whole life he was emotional abusive to my mom and now he is doing it to me I’m so depressed he controls me to the point where he will yell at me if I ever say I’m moving out
Glad you're here.. I understand
Suicide Attempt last Wednesday, cut out my abuser in every capacity last thursday. I am already doing so much better, and hearing how common it is to face these things makes me feel less pathetic for letting myself become so miserable. Emotional Abuse is evil, and the journey to hapiness seems like a long and hard one, but I have hope.
It'll all be good, bro. Just takes time and acceptance. It's a rough world we live in.
Before you feel like you lost your mind, first be sure your not surrounded by narcissistic assholes. I'm proud of you for doing what you gotta do to get away from shit like that despite what happened weds. Been down that road myself so no judgement here. Shit can be impossible to deal with i know. But you made it thru to the otherside so just wanted to say i'm proud of you even if i dont know you. Best of luck for the road ahead bro. Life is hard enough as it is without people like that treating us the way they do.
I hope that you stay true to yourself and stay STRONG and stay away from your abuser. I wish I did
Stay strong bro
I know it’s been like eleven months, but I hope your doing better buddy. Keep striving for those important goals in life. I tend to say “I won’t let them get better before me” which could be seen as negative, but it helps me get through my day. I hope your living better man ❤
"...have we adopted abusive behaviors our selves..." brutal, honest. taking responsibility is the first step.
I’ve been mainly emotionally abused for over 20 years and this made so much sense and was freeing - thank you!
So how do we help kids who were trapped in this? Just now getting it. I got it from my mom and husband.
What I needed wasn't some internet guru, I needed some qualified therapy (qualified i.e., at least a doctorates in psychology, *not* a masters in social work) and a couple of college courses in logic because I was mentally primed to be gullible af and needed to learn how to critically think in order to stop being such an easy mark.
Forgiveness plays a big role in this. This has nothing to do with the abuser, he doesn't have to know about this. This is liberation, not victimhood! :)
Correct! It is about finding and experiencing liberation within ;-), independent of external circumstances, what freedom truly means.
Whom i should forgive?
@@zz-ic6vy Everyone....as hard as it maybe, it's more toxic to hold onto pain ❤️
Omg what an amazing comment, thankyou
I don't call that forgiveness, I call it indifference. Not caring at all for better or for worst. Letting go of any positive or negative feelings towards that person. Simply not acknowledging their existence.
Don't engage
Don't interact
Don't please
They just wanna see you suffer don't give them that satisfaction
Follow thru on your boudaries
Don't repeat yourself just leave the situation if u can
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Im someone who has trouble confronting other people when i didnt like what they do to me. I feel guilty if i knowingly hurt someone's feeling eventhough that people hurt me constantly. For me, i just leave the toxic environment.. But that doesnt resolve the hurt that i have
Me too.
U just explained my whole weakness about myself
Yes, we’re in the same boat!!
Wow yes, yes, yes! I’m 33 & in a week just realized all my problems of self doubt & insecurity! Better late than never.
This is hands down the best (and clearest) comprehensive video on the subject i've ever seen.
I appreciate the advice man I've been not looking this up for a while but I'm glad to have stumbled upon this video
What’s happened to us isn’t our fault but unfortunately it’s our responsibility to do the healing work. That can be frustrating.
Yep it’s like being rear ended or a hot & run. Not right & unnecessary but there are so many helpful tools & resources today thank goodness
I can't even put into words how helpful this Video is. Every point you made was so Spot on. Thank you, So Much!
Thank you Thom, @4:52 “Stop worrying about pleasing the person abusing you.”
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You are Amazing! Helped me so much! Going to watch your other videos
I was stressing out and going down that same mental path that I always do with family. See I am like Sesame Street different from the others and have always been made to feel really f’d up about that. But I remember listening to this video before and it came up again when I (for the 100th time) searched family trauma bs. I commented on how I felt suicidal and was over here crying and extremely frustrated. Then this time I really listened to what you ate saying and this time I instantly felt better and felt free from trying to be a part of all the BS I hate. And I deleted my post and am now writing this and watching the alpinist on Netflix. Like dude “F” being miserable for stuff that is out of my control and working on what is in my control. I’m 51 years young and am just starting the second half of my life. Do I really want to suffer the same mental trauma I did for the first 50 years? Nope!! I’m gonna listen to this video every day. I finally really get it and the links are awesome. I’m broke and on a fixed income. I am physically and mentally disabled, but I can paint really well. That’s what I love and what i am good at. My daughter hates me and doesn’t let me see my grandchildren that I am so in love with. But that is okay now. It’s all okay. I accept the things I cannot control and I am so tired of feeling depressed and sorry for myself. I’m gonna make the best of whatever comes my way now. Thank you for helping me with yo-yo unnecessary drama. It’s time to be free!!!!! 🤩🤩🤩🤪🤪🤪😋😋😋
this is the best explanation I have heard so far on UA-cam for what is actually going on with emotionally abusive relationships... a subconscious distraction from our own suffering. the part of merging with the other person and only feeling what they feel. I had gone through this myself but I have so far not heard anyone explain what it is. I thought it was the essence of love, like a pure love form. nope. just another form of mental illness it seems.
Hurt people hurt people.thought I had healed from stepfathers evil lessons. Some lession where learnt only after his death.witch opened many more locked doors.to rooms that he has created.i left that house threw those doors.keep your head up.your not alone.thank you
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Well spoken and clearly conveyed!! thank you for putting this message out there and sharing your healing energy 💞💗if I can share this with the people I know I will
Wow. I needed to hear this. Words of gold. They are abusing others to distract from addressing their own issues of unresolved fear, pain and abuse. I guess it’s like when people cut themselves? Wow.
Their words haunt me to this day.
I was friends with a man for 10 years. We were extremely close. When he had cancer, i brought him a card with the words to his favourite song and i gave him daily injections when nobody else was willing to. During the worse time of my life when i nearly died, his friend who was also my friend at the time, she compared me to an alcoholic wasting time at hospitals. She said I'd exaggerating my problems and she needed proof of my illness. When i ended contact with her, he encouraged me to have continued contact with her. He sent me absuive texts on her behalf which upset me to the point of me having a panick attack. He knew this but didn't care. He phoned her up when he was with me knowing i didn't want him to. When i ended it with him, he showed up at my work asking what he'd done wrong and how hurt he felt for me ending it all. He said I'd one day regret how i treated him. Then 12 months later, he texts asking if i wanted to hang out again. I never got any apologies. I've never been able to move past that
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Thank you so much for this!
You are welcome Maria!
I feel better and calmer. Like that mental pep talk of sanity I couldn't muster up from the soup in my brain. Thank you very much, for this is thorough enough I'm not looking to questions things, just heal and recover
I hope everyone has their bests days ahead
Excellent video on this topic!
Most videos explain what they are but Im so glad to see a how to do video.
Liked and subscribed 🙂 I'm too old to still be going through this. The change starts with me. Thanks for showing me that.
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So glad I found this video. Really helped me to get grounded, think clearly. Thank you. Abused all my life emotionally by family and then later physical by my x-partner.
You are welcome. Shifting focus from the abuser towards our self liberation from our unsolved emotions is the way to complete liberation. I suggest you to watch my 4 free videos regarding liberation from the very root up @ www.alive-academy.com ❤️💎🙏🍀 Enjoy your complete liberation process!
EXCELLENT explanation. This is was soo helpful. Thank you so much
im currently living with a physically abusive father and an emotionally abusive mother and i can't leave so im suffering everyday
Omg my heart breaks reading this I know the pain are you okay? 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Love to you my friend, I know how it feels
Another useful video! You read minds! ♥️ Thanks!
Thank you! I'm glad it serves you again! You are welcome ♥️
Wise man, wise advice. Keep it up brother!
i like your energy. I know you worked hard for this liberation. thank you for helping me ! :)
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Very beautifull, compact and easy explained, such a good lecture on this thematic, thank you very much
You are so smart thanks
Helpful. Thank you.
I've been in a nightmare relationship with someone who I know to be a legitimate psychopath mixed with other mental illnesses, I'm not just saying that out of hate. She is holding my daughter over my head and has pretty much destroyed me inside through gaslighting, verbal abuse, and everything short of actually hitting me... although she made a fist to do it once. I'm legitimately scared of her and I feel hopeless.
On the same boat brotha it’s the worse
Same here. Add also physical abuse on me and our daughter, cheating and a legal battle. I am not afraid of her anymore, but I definitely have a massive avoidance pattern. I cannot even stand the sound of her voice.
Excellent! Very wise and great work. Thank you for teaching and sharing!
Thank you!
This was great to watch and listen to ❤
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I really needed this explanation. Thank you. I will give this a try
Thank you!
well, i think this video is missing the part of emotional abuse that it goes further even if the victim is setting boundaries. the abuser will start using other ways to continue the abuse and is usually nor accepting boundaries.
U know I never thought I would be in an emotionally abusive relationship and I'm such a strong person naturally and know so much but I'm allowing this cycle that's so healthy to continue and it's making me feel helpless if it wasn't that I had people who love me and know I have a purpose in this world and I can't leave till I've completed my purpose at least by my own hand that's one thing that keeps me from making the worst decision I can make
thank you so much for helping me understand it better
You are so welcome!
Thank you!
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank you so much.
Thank you ! 🙏
You got a point. Maybe I wouldn't understand you 100% but today's event shifted me and my energy so I get you perfectly. I was with a very negative (alcohol abusing) person who wouldn't stop with his negative perspective about everything. I was affraid to critisize him or saying something different at first but then I went out from the living room, peacefully and with no shame because I couldn't stand it anymore.
And what happened? At some point, he came out and wanted to sit with me. When I saw that he lowered his ego and wanted to talk to me I grabed a chair and showed it to him so he felt welcome to sit with me. Then we spoke more peacefully and with more positivism.
I was very surprised that I achieved this state because this person suffers a lot, I know. But as you say Tom, I showed him the right way and he followed. It was an amazing experience and I felt powerful that I even made him to think and act differently without spending any extra energy.
Only respecting yourself will bring you peace. Thank you for another amazing video. 🌟
@vanjaxy9222 What a great thing you achieved 👏 This must be so insightful to you. I am so grateful I could be a small part of your journey 🙏
People can be monsters!! My ex wife had BPD and it was a living hell! It will take years to heal from the emotional and physical abuse. I'll never trust a person the same again. I will get past it!! I'm a survivor, not a victim.
Thanks Tom.
You are welcome George! Thanks for sharing your gratitude and support! ♥️
I just got out of a severely abusive friendship that lasted 6 years. It ended almost 3 months ago and hes already moving on, not that he really had much to move on from. He still stalks my socials and stuff, i know hes probably talking shit about me to people he knows but ive decided i just want clarity and a direction to move forward to. A big step was to get a job, play the games he made me hate, pick up art again and find healthier coping mechanisms that helped me. His cuts run deep but im stronger and i want to overcome it. Thank you for this video.
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This video is really sensible and great. Thank you very much for this video. I am very happy that I saw this video.
Mr. Tom can you please make a video about how to gain confidence as most of us don't have the confidence to do what we really love. Will be waiting for the video.
Thanks Samyak for sharing your supportive appreciation. I'm grateful it serves you this way! I will save your request and will make a video for you about how to gain confidence ;-)
@@alive-academy Thank you for your response.
Thank you 🙏
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I just got out of a narcissist relationship. I got so hurt and thought I would be better off dead. I come from a very hurtful trauma filled childhood. Now I keep choosing those who are not emotionally available and abusive
Great vid !! What do you think about the chakra's they are also known for liberation for anxiety etc.. maybe you could make a video about the physical effects of emotions??
Hi Abby, thanks for your comment and question. I will save your request and will make a video for you to answer your question properly ;-)
Thank you
You're welcome Willie!
My older sister does that to me a lot, she has OCD. I don't want to think that she's financially abusing me, but it's a little of both. I feel that I have the need to hide outside the house after I come home from work, and wait for her to go upstairs into her room after midnight; I had to do the same thing with my Dad when I was still in my parents place. But this is part of the reason why I feel so stuck..... as an adult. And such low income..... not being able to move on. But I never blame myself, I know it's them, not me. Part of the reason I got treated a certain why in the family, is because of my Art and Film goals, wanting to do big things. I always tried to build a life for myself, but the emotional abuse always put it to an end. Once I move out of my sister's place when I have the money..... I'm probably not gonna be going back home..... that's the mistake I made..... going back..... I shouldn't of let my sister manipulate be into staying
for me it's the opposite I'm the one with OCD and getting emotionally and verbally abused by my family it's just making my condition worse the only one who doesn't is my little sister😭
Bingo!!!🙏🦋🙏
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Very true
I was married for 10 years it was hell I couldn’t get out bed in the end i took a over dose i hated and loved him at the same tim
If an abuser is abusing you in any way and you don’t do anything about it (you just walk out of the situation for example), you just reinforced the bully’s behavior and they will repeat that behavior more often, you and others. They will delight in you leaving the situation and not having done anything about it, thats what they were hoping for, seeing some sign of weakness on your part. This makes them feel more powerful. From my experience, you have to fight fire with fire if you can. A bully wants to humiliate you in public, stand up for yourself and don’t allow it, be direct. This will teach the bully a lesson and let them know you have boundaries. If they keep doing it, keep defending yourself until you get proof of their actions, show the proof to an authority figure if there is one. Bullies are weak inside, they like picking on easy prey, therefore become a harder target if you frequently get picked on. This is more in regards to physical and emotional bullying as there are different forms of bullying. But regardless of the type of bullying, do something about it! Learn to set boundaries more, work out and get stronger, pick up a martial art, do something that will give you more confidence. If you do these things, I cant guarantee that you will never get bullied again, but I can guarantee that you will be better prepared to deal with these type of situations. I know its easier said than done, but it is possible. I have been there before and all it takes is a little effort on our parts.
They're like a wolf going after weak pry and that can just be a kind person.
@@jacquelineglitter4328 It can be the nice guy or the badass that becomes a threat to others, it’s a jungle out there.
Yes
I'm a survivor of emotional abuse
This is very absolute. I'm not sure it provides a chance for two people to learn and grow a relationship if the behaviours are unconscious.
I always attract abuse but have walked away many times but now my son who has mental health issues abuses me .
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My friend is stuck in an abusive situation at home. Its been so severe that she now lives with disabilities and chronic extreme pain.
They are killing her slowly.
We want to get her out but in her country (Pakistan) there is no safe place for her to go and be cared for.
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼
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Its your responsibility not abuse someone else. And dont go that way because og abuse. But if you are trapped in circumstances of emotional and physicsl abuse for over 40 years, and have done nothing but looking at your self to fix your self for 40 years, but your inviroment, a whole collective idea, is hooked on you, to "solve their problems" by useing you as garbage disposal, it is no longer your responsibility. Its not two sides of the same coin. I am forced and chained down to take the abuse. And I chose to stay human inspite of the fact ... When you become an abuser you have gone of the rail, you are the cause, you are the one repeating the patterns.
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Finding it hard. As im the abuser, understanding as i love the women i was with. She said she wanted to keep trying and had me on the run around and giving nothing back which emotionally damaged me as she knew how much i wanted her
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Well...I overcome school bullying, protect my mother from her insane brother (he was a drug addict, stoled our grandmother apartment after hijacked my mother car and crashed it)...but what if my state is abuser...how can I overcome it? I'm from Eastern Europe, you can guess which part, I just don't really wanna have Miheev treatment...but more than this...I'm afraid for the people, who were and are good to me.
Anyway, great video.
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omg i iust wanna leave i hate this i cant takeit anymore
I have emotional abused by my father he calls me animals name and says that I can't do anything he really wanted a son but I am a girl my big sister is very intelligent and I am not that much I get difficulty in reading so he calls me loser I sometimes get jealous of my sister because she is good in cooking,studying, everything possible and I am not due to that I sometimes get dreams to be dead I hope your video helps me
Thanks a lot I won't give up ☺
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I plese the abuser to forgive myself, i don't know why i did this i feel guilty who make me like this and i feel empathy towards that person and saying sorry again and again? She left me that's good for me but i feeling guilt because she abuse me and i always say sorry and i say to her to forgive me, 🥺🥺😭 It's two years how to heal
Both have bpd personality and I guess he has antisocial personality so it happen from both side unknowingly so what is good solution for abusive relationship. Because of this abusive he in prison done by fir by me. Now is this relationship will work later or no
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How to do deal when the abuser is your kids father?
I'm going through the same thing!
mum if u stalk my video and see this im going police when kids are not there on monday. i told my neighbor to tell clare am sorry if kids get taken but im suffering and im doing whats best for me im sorry clare i didn't do anything cus of the kids but im gonna end up sicker so am going to ok im sorry
I am sad and feel hopeless what should I do? My nephew who is only 5 years old who is emotionally and physically abuse by my brother in-law who is fuck up and have anger issue and put it on my 5 years old nephew. What is mess up is the brother in law is not even the my nephew dad like who the fuck are you to be abusive to another persons children. In fortunately my nephew get physically and emotionally abuse by his dad and my brother in-law, poor child. Now every time I visit him he does not look happy but instead a frightened look that he will get in trouble, even though he did not do anything. My 5 years old nephew is emotionally scared and would cry to me that he got beat and yell by.
It hurts when the abuser is your own father who always forces sucidial thoughts into your mind and tortures you like hell.💔
I'm currently dealing with that, My mom always make funny of me or my sister so I came here, I am hopeful this will work for me
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But how do we heal then? If we've left, then what? the shame and damaged confidence is still there.
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2:33 Or they want to have fun
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What if they are your parent and don’t let you walk away
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My mother grabbed my face and made me bleed before I could even begin to walk away.. I was in shock..
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How to get strength to get out of abusive relationship when your Christian Faith is at play.. thinking there’s still hope :(
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What if this person is your parent
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But if I set boundaries she will take half of everything iv earned and the kids and the government will pay her monthly. She can act anyway imaginable (a living nightmare) and I to put up with it..there is no recourse... what do I do?
No injustice will go on forever. Ask God to intervene or to guide you and believe that goodness will win somehow. If you are an atheist, even nature itself has a way of bringing balance into life.
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What if the abusive person in your life is your own mother?
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Sounds like this is what someone who suffered under the hands of a narcissist needs.
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I dont agree rhat we look for abusers. Many abusers are deceptive. In my experience a lot of men have not liked me having a voice as a woman
and the baby you made me abort is my angel the one who loves me you never loved me not once in my life bt i will make a better life for me just watch me
Fighting to not be abused is not abuse preventing someone from using their own phone while calling them a rat while also preventing them to get to help while you treat them like garbage call them a liar laugh in their face steal their kids and dog while trying to set them up and humiliate them in front of the whole world to make them look stupid as they desperate beg their family members for help that never show up that's fucking abuse
It is their fault tho......... my sister used to lock me in the basement man laugh at me and say she’d kill me and my mom in our sleep if I said anything ... how am I supposed to take responsibility for this!?
By seeking therapy.
you dont care im sat here suffering not one bit so am going thr police am not beig labelled a liar no
Please, I'm tired of these sick thugs like I was years ago! Have a nice day!
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im sorry but im doing whats best for me so i can get out of here hes driving me insane hes evil
you all have my number blocked so i toldmy neighbor to tell clare. bye and am sorry i gave u a chance to do right thing and u have left me to rot don't even care if i hurt myself but care if he does in jail. wow bye
Honestly, I have no idea what this guy is even taking about. Under your trauma is calm feelings? What does that even mean??
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im going the police with my evidence i cant cope anymore u are acting like im the issue and i have done nothing wrong
Bideo
A.) Even if I was remotely qualified it is *not* my responsibility to "heal" an abuser's sadism...or what'd you call it? Oh, "emotional pain." B.) Victims of abuse *are not* using them being abused to distract from the pain of being abused thus facilitating their own abuse. C.) Your way of gaslighting, blaming, and circular reasoning indicates to me that you are not only not qualified to help people heal their trauma, but that your hubris and mental health advice would exacerbate their trauma, dramatically. Hard pass, bro.