I so agree, inlaws was a deep.issue for me and still.is. this principle u set was what God says leave and cleave. Winlos keep teaching, there is call.right there, young ppl or marriage need this . Use ur marriage as a teaching tool to help others and you will be continually bless
Oh my God, I did the opposite of what you did. It has worked for me. After getting married, they joined our family. After realizing that now people are un-Managible, we agreed not to bring any in our home, just supporting them from their home. We are happily enjoying our marriage. admirable . Thanks Guys for good lessons, reward from heaven 👏
Love this content. Healthy boundaries are key to successful and healthy relationships too. I like the way you present your talks with all grace and boldness. God bless you.
This is the best thing to do actually But the issue is some Men or women will believe you want to distant them from their families..... It's about understanding shaa and changed mindset
What about handicapped parent inlaw (eg bad sight), how do you go about living with such? Is it advisable to rotate her stay with other inlaws or stay with a particular inlaw?
Hmm that discipline no balance, though marriage no be one formula. If it's my village you the woman has to reach your home and think we'll. Wat kind principles are you building that I will not come to the house that me and my brother have been suffering to make him come marry you.
Brother I understand what you are saying.... However there is wisdom in their principle. Many family members feel entitled and might want to dictate how you run your marriage. Your marriage is your responsibility and family shouldn't interfere at all. Getting to know your spouse more without family members getting involved will help your marriage grow and give it more stability. That's what I understood from why they took that approach.
You have to deal with it bro. When he takes a woman as wife, he reserves the right to determine how he wants to build his home with his wife, as well as the right to exclusivity. Or you didn't hear the vows where he said 'to the exclusion of others?'
Oga that be trash Are you telln me that avoiding your family will make you not to have issues with ur partner. Though every family has there own mentality, me when my brother finished his marriage ceremony, after Sunday service, I took my bag and went back to school, with out asking for transport money as usual. He called me later and asked the reason for that I laughed it over. His servant told me later that because of wat I did; that our brother in-law who was there got notice of wat I did and also left without bothering them. It's wat ppl that has sense should do, not wat you should implement as a law.
I so agree, inlaws was a deep.issue for me and still.is. this principle u set was what God says leave and cleave. Winlos keep teaching, there is call.right there, young ppl or marriage need this . Use ur marriage as a teaching tool to help others and you will be continually bless
Thank you for sharing your secrets.
I see you value your wife and relationship with her.
That is a very strong quality for a Nigerian man.
Thank you for your wisdom. I have been married for 24 years. Since we established boundaries, we still have to keep them.
Oh my God, I did the opposite of what you did. It has worked for me. After getting married, they joined our family. After realizing that now people are un-Managible, we agreed not to bring any in our home, just supporting them from their home. We are happily enjoying our marriage. admirable . Thanks Guys for good lessons, reward from heaven 👏
Wow!!!
This is a timely message for me at this time.
God bless you Winlos!
I'll need more of this. God bless you richly
Wisdom for not allowing them to come.
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This definitely has to be shared. blessings 💕
Love this content. Healthy boundaries are key to successful and healthy relationships too. I like the way you present your talks with all grace and boldness. God bless you.
God bless The Winlos... I have learned a lot from these videos.
Wao. Love to see more content like this. Stay blessed Winlos.
This is the best thing to do actually
But the issue is some Men or women will believe you want to distant them from their families.....
It's about understanding shaa and changed mindset
I love you guys both. Thanks for yielding to God.
Waow thanks for sharing, I learnt a lot. It was really a blessing
You gazs are the best ❤ in teaching God bless your family
Wow, a blessing indeed, more Grace sir/ ma
THE WINLOS....... GOD BLESS YOU
Wow. I can relate indeed. May our good Lord continue to keep you 🤗. Share more of these please
The young couples will learn alot from this 👌
Its too short
I need more of this
Thank you for sharing. God bless your marriage
Hayaya🔥🔥🔥
Always learning the Winlos 🥰🤩😁
Love from a far....learned the hard way!
Very Great .
Enlightening
Wowow God bless you all
Thank you so much🙏🏻
My mum use to call five times a day too....
Thank you Sir and Ma
Help me lord as I wait for my husband
Sir I'm blessed and relieved. I'm just worried for nothing.
Thanks
This is great
Hmm!
Wisdom.
Wow beautiful 😍
This is nice
I love you guys 💓💓
How do you know your spouse
They have a video on that, here ua-cam.com/video/T17-7zuHnEM/v-deo.html
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What about handicapped parent inlaw (eg bad sight), how do you go about living with such? Is it advisable to rotate her stay with other inlaws or stay with a particular inlaw?
Uhmmm, serious question
Nice
I saw both of you last night in my dream . Marital problem I saw . I saw court . I saw judge . I saw divorce being discourse and debated . This I saw
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Their opinion is a cheap commodity.
First here
Hmm that discipline no balance, though marriage no be one formula.
If it's my village you the woman has to reach your home and think we'll.
Wat kind principles are you building that I will not come to the house that me and my brother have been suffering to make him come marry you.
Brother I understand what you are saying....
However there is wisdom in their principle. Many family members feel entitled and might want to dictate how you run your marriage. Your marriage is your responsibility and family shouldn't interfere at all. Getting to know your spouse more without family members getting involved will help your marriage grow and give it more stability. That's what I understood from why they took that approach.
You have to deal with it bro.
When he takes a woman as wife, he reserves the right to determine how he wants to build his home with his wife, as well as the right to exclusivity.
Or you didn't hear the vows where he said 'to the exclusion of others?'
Oga that be trash
Are you telln me that avoiding your family will make you not to have issues with ur partner.
Though every family has there own mentality, me when my brother finished his marriage ceremony, after Sunday service, I took my bag and went back to school, with out asking for transport money as usual. He called me later and asked the reason for that I laughed it over. His servant told me later that because of wat I did; that our brother in-law who was there got notice of wat I did and also left without bothering them. It's wat ppl that has sense should do, not wat you should implement as a law.
Even before I left Nigeria, they will beg me to come and visit them.
It was easy for me because my brother already made self dependent.
Well you dont marry to Join a family, you marry to start your own family