I love being a stay at home mom and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I know how blessed I am, and yes I have freedom in it! I have worked and had children in the past because my first marriage fell apart and I was raising my kids on my own, so I know both worlds. To me, nothing compares to building my home, taking care of my children and being a blessing to my husband ❤️
Agree! Such important points. Homeschooling my own children has been the greatest gift and probably the greatest challenge I've endeavored in. I do feel the weight of the responsibility to educate and disciple my children full time. I have the greatest influence of anyone in the world in my children's lives, what I do with that influence literally changes lives. I can't think of a higher calling in a woman's life, especially when trying to do it in a godly manner.
😂that was harsh, should we leave that in, no take it out! 😂 That was such a learning moment and perfect example of a wife helping her husband! Men do talk in black and white which can sound harsh even when not meaning to be and women speak in the colors of the rainbow who can give meaning to a subject in a much more soothing manner. Kelli just complimented Scott in a very graceful way. But the key to any of this ever working is allowing the Holy Spirit to teach us what is fitting for God. If we don’t know/learn how to let him guide and teach us we can never come into the fullness God wants for our life.
hahaha we had a good laugh while editing it because of exactly what you said!!! And amen, to it not being out of our own strength but by the working of the Holy Spirit!
Hi guys, not sure if you’ll see my comment but I want to say thank you so much for speaking on these topics. I have been watching so many of your videos lately. I grew up in a liberal large metro area and also went to a liberal public university (like most colleges lol) and i have had to unlearn so much lately. Your videos are so helpful in this journey for me. I am 32, I was married at 27 and became a born again Christian right after marriage and now we have three children. I became my husband’s help meet when we got married (left my full time job for at a company and started working for his business we took over from my father) Like honestly I want to cry at how much grace God has given me at unlearning the ways of the world and learning His ways. I am so excited to teach my kids the right ways.
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony with this Amber! It is so encouraging to hear your alls journey with this! And I relate to sooo much of what you say about unlearning the ways of the world! God bless you and your family! And thank you for your encouragement to us!
Much respect to the both of you and knowing the harsh comments you have to deal with. I assume you'd have more respect for a comment that kindly disagrees with you. It's the emotional/angry comments that are hard to take seriously! By the way, Scott's hat is amazing. 😇
Everyone’s stories are so different, I waited on the Lord for a husband and continued in ministry as a single woman until I met him at 34. I’m 37 now, still no kids but was able to serve a lot of kids and raise up generations of spiritual children. I may be past my childbearing years soon but I still look darn good and everyone thinks I look in my 20s, including my husband! Gods plan for everyone looks different but I’m still encouraged by your testimony and am being nudged by the Holy Spirit to leave my full time job in a Christian school to make my new marriage more of the focus. I love those kids like crazy and love being there, but I still know deep down I want to be a homemaker and helpmeet more!
I think I'm more curious as to why people think a woman can either ONLY be a housewife/house mom, or only be in a cubicle. The problem with most people is that they work jobs that are not "careers" and aren't fulfilling, so it results in people feeling disengaged from a soul-sucking job. There are some stay-at-home moms OR SINGLE women that can create their own home-based businesses, create their own freelance careers, or have enough skill and talent to profit from a hobby or a possible passion. I think the problem for most people is the lack of work-life balance or a flexible income source. MOST people do not have a good work-life balance or a flexible/freelance career, so that's why a lot of would-be-cubicle housewives or stay-at-home moms would be miserable working for someone else, instead of working for themselves. I agree that if people want a family, they should get married and have kids at a much younger age, so that in 18 to 20 years, they can THEN go to college, get their degree, and focus on that strenuous career. But we don't live in a society that encourages that. I do think that it's good to have nuclear families, but I hate the world that we live in when ***some*** people are attacking others for wanting a family or not wanting a family.
Last year I had an conversation with the dental assistent. She said that if she would be staying at home with her kids, it would drive her crazy. And that she was happy with her parttime job.(Our country has the most parttime working moms of the world; it’s normal for mothers here to work just for 2 or 3 days a week) I said that every woman can make her own choice what to do in life. And that it would drive me crazy to sit in this building of concrete for 3 days a week. After the appointment (it was a very nice summerday that day) so I told her to have a nice day, and that I was going to the park with my kids, to enjoy the weather. 😊
I've been a stay at home mom for 10 years. I would never want to go back to working for someone else. I think this country went downhill after the mom/wife left the home to work all day.
This is amazing thank you guys for paying it forward with this message. Ppl are really confused at what our purpose of being on this planet is! I been married 13 years two kids and we are regular ppl and yes money is a factor but our source of happiness and what makes us laugh is family and not fleeting emotions.
That was harsh and I'm glad you left it in. That was a perfect example of being a helpmeet to your husband because we got to be blessed by the whole conversation. People don't know how to talk any more and are easily offended, but because of the mutual respect you did nothing but build each other, well done. I worked a full time job from the age of 15. At 30 got remarried, saved and a few years later got fired by my husband who I was working for because he didn't want me around harsh chemicals, out income plummeted. By this time I had been working full time for almost 20 years! I didn't even know what to do with myself, but God did. Now at 60 the only regret I have in my life I have is the time wasted before my wonderful husband fired me. Choose wisely dear daughters, blessings.
I am a 27 year career woman who has been to the top of organizations and back down again. In my heart of hearts, I know with certainty you are exactly right about the messages you present. Career women are often miserable. Their energies and efforts are divided. And they often end up with a lot of regret. I think you are an extremely talented woman whom I have come to admire. If I could end my life knowing half of what you do about managing a home economy, gardening, baking, cooking, etc. I would be thrilled to pieces. I appreciate your biblical worldview so very much!
When I was working in the medical field as a young mom I was so exhausted after a 12 hour shift trying to find an ounce of energy to pour into my son. I was a tired mom and not a very involved mom. It was a very sad time. I’m so thankful that my life no longer looks like that and I am able to be a homemaker. My husband and I have continued to grow our family and have found the joy in simple living. Gardening. Homeschooling. Homemade gifts. Minimal spending. We have less money but we have so much joy.
😂 glad yall left that truth in! It You know those times when you hear something & you're whole mood or perspective is altered? Just happened to me, thanks. It felt good to be reminded of things I've always believed in & finding my way back to joy in taking care of our home & family.
If being alive is good, then it must be good to make more people alive. If it is not a good thing to give other people the opportunity to experience life, then it must mean that being alive is not all that important, and that means that your own personal happiness isn't important either. This line of thought immediately brings you to the conclusion that motherhood is in the top rank of professions. These people think that this choice exists: Either women are valuable for their own sake, or they are supposed to make babies. But this is a false dichotomy. The real choice is both or neither. Either people are important for their own sake, and therefore you ought to make children, or people do not matter, and therefore making children doesn't matter either.
Not to mention people don’t normally think how men frequently waste their “talent” to provide for their families. for example, If a man is a really good musician, but can’t make enough money doing music he often times will leave his passion and pick up a more traditional job so that he can adequately provide. For some reason, I normally only hear complaining from one side of the aisle. Lol.
wasting talent you were given by the lord is rejecting his will for you my muslim woman friend is a banker/ economist why are so many christians bent on keeping women from working
God bless you Dana, that is a tough environment to be in these days! Trusting that God will give you mercy and grace for this season and praying for a way for you to be home as well!
Do you think there are not men who do not feel tied to his job or enjoy his job but men do not have a choose to stay at home like woman do. Where in the Bible does it say you can only work under your husband?
Why can’t a “competent” man run the household should the family so choose? What if that works for them? Are they to be exiled from the Christian faith? Why can’t the woman have a mission? Perhaps the husband wants to help her on her mission or her legacy. It’s just interesting to me because I see other Christian UA-camrs who preach equality amongst the genders in marriage, the woman works and still manages to be a mother, the father equally helps to raise the kids as a father should etc. So how can those Christians be squared with what you all propose? They claim to be living biblically just as you do. Just trying to make it make sense.
Hi Kailey! I bought Rosemary Gladstars course on the Art and Science of Herbology. It was a bit expensive (I also got it on sale), I knew absolutely nothing about herbs so this was a good place for me to start. Although now, knowing what I know, there are many free options! Or even books that are a great place to get started. Dawn Combs is a wealth of knowledge, she has several books which I love and are great starting points. "Heal Local" is my favorite. And this is her website sodafarm.com/. I've met her and she is just a wealth of knowledge! The Herbal Academy has a blog with lots of tips and advice and pretty graphics.
Another great video! The stay at home mom would make over $184,000.00 a year (in 2018) if she was paid for everything she does for her household. Cleaning, cooking, mending, gardening. nursing your sick, shopping, meal prep, errands, bill paying, managing schedules of the members of the household etc just to name a few. And she doens't have to go to college or into debt to accomplish this and when they are all grown, her reward is priceless. It is a honor to be a homemaker & a privilage to raise the next generation for the Lord! And then being a grandparent is the next step blessing!
I love being a stay at home mom and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I know how blessed I am, and yes I have freedom in it! I have worked and had children in the past because my first marriage fell apart and I was raising my kids on my own, so I know both worlds. To me, nothing compares to building my home, taking care of my children and being a blessing to my husband ❤️
Praise God, thank you so much for share your testimony with this. God bless you!
It sounds absurd if you think about it. How is a woman wasting her talent when homemaking IS her God given talent. Of not limited to.
Because like a man, a woman has talents and intelligence from rue then just cleaning bathrooms and changing diabers, but of course that alludes you
Agree! Such important points. Homeschooling my own children has been the greatest gift and probably the greatest challenge I've endeavored in. I do feel the weight of the responsibility to educate and disciple my children full time. I have the greatest influence of anyone in the world in my children's lives, what I do with that influence literally changes lives. I can't think of a higher calling in a woman's life, especially when trying to do it in a godly manner.
Praise God, thank you so much for sharing this Colleen!!
Staying at home is truly a gift. I have no desire to ever work out the home. I invest my time and energy to my home and my family.
😂that was harsh, should we leave that in, no take it out! 😂 That was such a learning moment and perfect example of a wife helping her husband! Men do talk in black and white which can sound harsh even when not meaning to be and women speak in the colors of the rainbow who can give meaning to a subject in a much more soothing manner. Kelli just complimented Scott in a very graceful way. But the key to any of this ever working is allowing the Holy Spirit to teach us what is fitting for God. If we don’t know/learn how to let him guide and teach us we can never come into the fullness God wants for our life.
hahaha we had a good laugh while editing it because of exactly what you said!!! And amen, to it not being out of our own strength but by the working of the Holy Spirit!
Hi guys, not sure if you’ll see my comment but I want to say thank you so much for speaking on these topics. I have been watching so many of your videos lately. I grew up in a liberal large metro area and also went to a liberal public university (like most colleges lol) and i have had to unlearn so much lately. Your videos are so helpful in this journey for me. I am 32, I was married at 27 and became a born again Christian right after marriage and now we have three children. I became my husband’s help meet when we got married (left my full time job for at a company and started working for his business we took over from my father) Like honestly I want to cry at how much grace God has given me at unlearning the ways of the world and learning His ways. I am so excited to teach my kids the right ways.
Thank you so much for sharing your testimony with this Amber! It is so encouraging to hear your alls journey with this! And I relate to sooo much of what you say about unlearning the ways of the world! God bless you and your family! And thank you for your encouragement to us!
Much respect to the both of you and knowing the harsh comments you have to deal with. I assume you'd have more respect for a comment that kindly disagrees with you. It's the emotional/angry comments that are hard to take seriously! By the way, Scott's hat is amazing. 😇
Yes, exactly!!
Everyone’s stories are so different, I waited on the Lord for a husband and continued in ministry as a single woman until I met him at 34. I’m 37 now, still no kids but was able to serve a lot of kids and raise up generations of spiritual children. I may be past my childbearing years soon but I still look darn good and everyone thinks I look in my 20s, including my husband! Gods plan for everyone looks different but I’m still encouraged by your testimony and am being nudged by the Holy Spirit to leave my full time job in a Christian school to make my new marriage more of the focus. I love those kids like crazy and love being there, but I still know deep down I want to be a homemaker and helpmeet more!
I think I'm more curious as to why people think a woman can either ONLY be a housewife/house mom, or only be in a cubicle. The problem with most people is that they work jobs that are not "careers" and aren't fulfilling, so it results in people feeling disengaged from a soul-sucking job. There are some stay-at-home moms OR SINGLE women that can create their own home-based businesses, create their own freelance careers, or have enough skill and talent to profit from a hobby or a possible passion.
I think the problem for most people is the lack of work-life balance or a flexible income source. MOST people do not have a good work-life balance or a flexible/freelance career, so that's why a lot of would-be-cubicle housewives or stay-at-home moms would be miserable working for someone else, instead of working for themselves.
I agree that if people want a family, they should get married and have kids at a much younger age, so that in 18 to 20 years, they can THEN go to college, get their degree, and focus on that strenuous career. But we don't live in a society that encourages that.
I do think that it's good to have nuclear families, but I hate the world that we live in when ***some*** people are attacking others for wanting a family or not wanting a family.
Last year I had an conversation with the dental assistent. She said that if she would be staying at home with her kids, it would drive her crazy. And that she was happy with her parttime job.(Our country has the most parttime working moms of the world; it’s normal for mothers here to work just for 2 or 3 days a week) I said that every woman can make her own choice what to do in life. And that it would drive me crazy to sit in this building of concrete for 3 days a week. After the appointment (it was a very nice summerday that day) so I told her to have a nice day, and that I was going to the park with my kids, to enjoy the weather. 😊
haha this made me laugh because I can picture the whole conversation, as you then leave to enjoy the beautiful day 😂
I've been a stay at home mom for 10 years. I would never want to go back to working for someone else. I think this country went downhill after the mom/wife left the home to work all day.
I agree! My oldest son once commented that “women are the glue that holds a society together.” He appreciated that I was home when they were small.
Yess, you are so right about that! Praise God for your testimony!
This is amazing thank you guys for paying it forward with this message.
Ppl are really confused at what our purpose of being on this planet is!
I been married 13 years two kids and we are regular ppl and yes money is a factor but our source of happiness and what makes us laugh is family and not fleeting emotions.
Amen!! God bless you!
That was harsh and I'm glad you left it in. That was a perfect example of being a helpmeet to your husband because we got to be blessed by the whole conversation. People don't know how to talk any more and are easily offended, but because of the mutual respect you did nothing but build each other, well done. I worked a full time job from the age of 15. At 30 got remarried, saved and a few years later got fired by my husband who I was working for because he didn't want me around harsh chemicals, out income plummeted. By this time I had been working full time for almost 20 years! I didn't even know what to do with myself, but God did. Now at 60 the only regret I have in my life I have is the time wasted before my wonderful husband fired me. Choose wisely dear daughters, blessings.
This is amazing! Thank you so much for sharing your testimony with this! And God bless you and your family!
I am a 27 year career woman who has been to the top of organizations and back down again. In my heart of hearts, I know with certainty you are exactly right about the messages you present. Career women are often miserable. Their energies and efforts are divided. And they often end up with a lot of regret. I think you are an extremely talented woman whom I have come to admire. If I could end my life knowing half of what you do about managing a home economy, gardening, baking, cooking, etc. I would be thrilled to pieces. I appreciate your biblical worldview so very much!
When I was working in the medical field as a young mom I was so exhausted after a 12 hour shift trying to find an ounce of energy to pour into my son. I was a tired mom and not a very involved mom. It was a very sad time. I’m so thankful that my life no longer looks like that and I am able to be a homemaker. My husband and I have continued to grow our family and have found the joy in simple living. Gardening. Homeschooling. Homemade gifts. Minimal spending. We have less money but we have so much joy.
😂 glad yall left that truth in! It
You know those times when you hear something & you're whole mood or perspective is altered?
Just happened to me, thanks. It felt good to be reminded of things I've always believed in & finding my way back to joy in taking care of our home & family.
haha thanks Kayce!
If being alive is good, then it must be good to make more people alive. If it is not a good thing to give other people the opportunity to experience life, then it must mean that being alive is not all that important, and that means that your own personal happiness isn't important either. This line of thought immediately brings you to the conclusion that motherhood is in the top rank of professions.
These people think that this choice exists: Either women are valuable for their own sake, or they are supposed to make babies. But this is a false dichotomy. The real choice is both or neither. Either people are important for their own sake, and therefore you ought to make children, or people do not matter, and therefore making children doesn't matter either.
Not to mention people don’t normally think how men frequently waste their “talent” to provide for their families. for example, If a man is a really good musician, but can’t make enough money doing music he often times will leave his passion and pick up a more traditional job so that he can adequately provide. For some reason, I normally only hear complaining from one side of the aisle. Lol.
Very good point!!
Because a man has the choice to use his talents to provide for his family.. Think about that
wasting talent you were given by the lord is rejecting his will for you my muslim woman friend is a banker/ economist why are so many christians bent on keeping women from working
So so good! Agreed. I never liked working, I couldn't wait to be a wife. Unfortunately that didn't happen. But if a young women wants that - do it!
I just want to be home so much!!! I’m a teacher and I love it, but I’m so so so over it.
God bless you Dana, that is a tough environment to be in these days! Trusting that God will give you mercy and grace for this season and praying for a way for you to be home as well!
Great video
Do you think there are not men who do not feel tied to his job or enjoy his job but men do not have a choose to stay at home like woman do. Where in the Bible does it say you can only work under your husband?
Why can’t a “competent” man run the household should the family so choose? What if that works for them? Are they to be exiled from the Christian faith? Why can’t the woman have a mission? Perhaps the husband wants to help her on her mission or her legacy. It’s just interesting to me because I see other Christian UA-camrs who preach equality amongst the genders in marriage, the woman works and still manages to be a mother, the father equally helps to raise the kids as a father should etc. So how can those Christians be squared with what you all propose? They claim to be living biblically just as you do. Just trying to make it make sense.
Hey Kelli! Where did/are you learning herbalism from?
Hi Kailey! I bought Rosemary Gladstars course on the Art and Science of Herbology. It was a bit expensive (I also got it on sale), I knew absolutely nothing about herbs so this was a good place for me to start. Although now, knowing what I know, there are many free options! Or even books that are a great place to get started.
Dawn Combs is a wealth of knowledge, she has several books which I love and are great starting points. "Heal Local" is my favorite. And this is her website sodafarm.com/. I've met her and she is just a wealth of knowledge!
The Herbal Academy has a blog with lots of tips and advice and pretty graphics.
@@ScottandKelli Thank you Kelli this is very helpful
Another great video! The stay at home mom would make over $184,000.00 a year (in 2018) if she was paid for everything she does for her household. Cleaning, cooking, mending, gardening. nursing your sick, shopping, meal prep, errands, bill paying, managing schedules of the members of the household etc just to name a few. And she doens't have to go to college or into debt to accomplish this and when they are all grown, her reward is priceless. It is a honor to be a homemaker & a privilage to raise the next generation for the Lord! And then being a grandparent is the next step blessing!