I’m her best friend and have been there through it all! -minus the high school years. If you missed that he is a master manipulator/narcissist then you may believe the text message at the end! My friend is spreading awareness in hopes that women will not continue to fall for the BS! It’s easy to say couldn’t be me but when LOVE hits yah, you find yourself doing things you swear you wouldn’t in the name of love. Don’t judge my friend y’all, she is brave enough to share her story for the betterment of other women! So many more have been down similar paths but are too ashamed to share their experiences!!!
sorry to hear that bout your friend. I can see the manipulative tactics in that text, just with him using the nickname “doc” when it’s known he’s not a doctor. These type of people are infuriating. I’m wishing shareza all the best, its good she has a positive outlook.
So sorry to hear this happened to her. You part right though! Love can be tricky. So, much so we ignore the signs. They are there but we overlook them. I’m to the point I will have you investigated. God bless her & you for being a true friend.🙏🏽❤️🤗
So sorry to hear this happened to her. You part right though! Love can be tricky. So, much so we ignore the signs. They are there but we overlook them. I’m to the point I will have you investigated. God bless her & you for being a true friend.🙏🏽❤️🤗
So sorry to hear this happened to her. You part right though! Love can be tricky. So, much so we ignore the signs. They are there but we overlook them. I’m to the point I will have you investigated. God bless her & you for being a true friend.🙏🏽❤️🤗
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No sir no ma'am, if my children are adults and he did not raise or adopt them then my kids will keep their fathers last name, that is so arrogant and controling and he might even deep down inside be jealous that he did not father those children. That would be a red flag for me.
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She was preyed on and don’t be fooled some of these characters are literally watching social media working on their next victim. They are going as far as to doing background checks and reviewing resumes trust me . I pray she gets her justice .
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A huge narcissistic clue that comes straight from their mouth,”I want my marriage”. Not, “I want you”. You are just an object to them. It’s imperative that we pay attention to words in relationships.
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@@sandyfenelonask questions, background checks, std checks, vet these people out here, don’t ignore even the smallest red flags. Flaws and red flags are different
The state I currently live in ( Maryland) allows you free access to civil /federal/child support/divorce cases. Also many careers, specifically health care fields requiring licenses. You can easily search via google. If you find something crazy just secretly walk away, don't confront the person..they can get dangerous! @@sandyfenelon
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Sis is both a victim and a volunteer. She had to ignore so many red flags to end up where she is. Did she never see this man going to a hospital or office to treat patients? Why would you marry a man without meeting his children? Why would you go through with the wedding even after you caught him I'm several lies. Clearly dude is a monster, but on some level, she was ok with it. You can be willing to see no evil and hear no evil and then be shocked when you are faced with the truth you have worked so hard to avoid.
Because it's the same mind & mentality that allowed him to come INto her and buy love. She's literally programmed to ignore her own sense of dignity and self regard...she was doing this BEFORE she married him. Let's talk about how she got there #SHADEROOM. She still need intervention.
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I would’ve REALLY liked for the woman to tell her story versus Thembi. Nothing worse than a non listening interviewer. Overtalked her, told her entire story for her. Where is Justin investigates ?
Discernment !!!! and it’s not about what they say or their actions. It’s about the spirit they have on them that you should be able to feel nonetheless best of luck.
That’s basically insinuating she wasn’t in prayer about the situation. Sometimes “God,” Yahuah allows us to go through the storm. It’s great when people share their stories for us to learn from them, it’s better when it’s without judgment. Or the typical “That would never happen to me.”
Yikes. This is why you gotta REALLY get to know people the signs show how they talk & how they move will show you their real character & from there you run. Don’t sleep with the enemy.
You could warn these women about the men they're in love with all day but at the end of the day that drug called love does something to the brain and they have to wake up themselves. I have had love and was stupid for it and luckily I was a teen and 20s, now on 30s never again, especially with money lol
When women are seeking love, they do not want to hear anything about their better half. When it comes to relationships, I do not get involved, even my best friend. As a woman, sorry to say, a lot of us do not want to hear or hinder the truth about or better even if we know in our hearts In this last days time. Single life and giving your life to your heavenly father is the best relationship right now. Women, let's start loving ourselves more than any man can love us. God bless!
Dorian Wilkerson had to have had those two youngest kids when we were dating in Atlanta, I was told similar stories from him, I left finding out he was a con, I'm sorry you and your girls had to go through all of this!!! Put his face out there!!! He is very great charmer, everyone l knew loved him 2.
I love that she was able to tell her story no matter how bad or silly or judgmental she knew people would be towards her ❤ thank you for this your story may help me or someone I know 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 blessings to you and your family
This is a sad story , thank goodness she is doing better!!!!! He is a scammer, But she didn’t use google or run a background check etc but it’s a learning lesson no one is perfect!
That text at the end sounds fabricated ….like something he created to make it seem like she knew all along. Im usually skeptical of these stories but she seems truthful in this interview. I hope she learned her lesson and continue to persevere!
To have someone manipulate you like this and still say “I will love again”and I’m open to love says a great deal about her faith as well as therapy and where she is in the healing process! Heading to buy the book and support you ASAP hunny! God Bless!
It is something so wicked about these maipulative men to me. That feeling she had that something was not right was definitley God warning her. I experienced that the man presented this perfect person to me, but something felt so wrong. One thing I love about God he heals us after such pain and abuse!
he would of got left the day he asked me to cook and not cater for a funeral ! it's tacky and looks like he wanted to take advantage. there was a lot of red flags here ! I hope she gets the love she deserves.
To place blame on her loved ones is just ridiculous anytime someone tries to tell you something ain’t right then they are jealous or hating on your happiness so no wonder they kept their true feelings to themselves as a grown woman I can’t blame no one but my damn self for my mistakes especially when she seen the red flags but chose to ignore them the best thing I can say is be accountable for your own actions and listen to your gut
I believe everything that woman said. For the simple fact this seems to be the new norm with these men. They purposely go after women who are doing well. But I will say she needs to take some blame for herself. The first trap is always the men that come forward talking about they've been liking you since high school, girl. That's always a trap. Usually those are the men that's not doing well for themselves since high school and has been tracking you and trolling you and looking at your life and what you're doing. Second, the moment you found out this man had kids and he didn't love you enough to tell you. That was deceit all the way that was the setup. That was the trap, and he knew how to pull you in. Then only for you to find out. He had not 4, not 6, but 8 kids. And you still marry him? I'm sorry you got some blame for yourself. And like you said , lastly , i'm glad you finally saw that this was all a financial setup. I say find the victims look for the other women
What ever you want to hear, they will tell you. Whatever you want in a man, they are that. All of they until they feel they got you in a position you will not leave or get out of. They also think you are going to be so embarrassed that you will not let them go. It can turn ugly when you walk away.
Y'all gotta be very careful with these dudes out here in GA they look good talk good but nothing is ever what it seems. This dude right here is a whole lot of.……. But yea be careful!! 😘
Men are so strange, he must’ve known she was hurrying off somewhere. Cuz what if she would’ve been like ,“sure I’d love to meet your sister.” Then the jig would’ve been up right then and there. But I guess this was her fate.
I dated a narcissist at a time when I was not mentally ready. I didn’t have money and was manipulated like this. Some people be so good at being bad, they make it look good. And if there is a God then there definitely is a devil. The dev is good at what he does, but what can make him more powerful, is no moral compass. He grows with every person he breaks down. So if God IS able to get you out of the fog and give you clarity that you KNOW YOU NEED to get your out YOU BETTER GET OUT!!!!! There can not be good without evil!!!
First of all, Thanks to this Sister for spreading awareness and sharing her story. Now, I don’t know what took her so long to see his manipulation. There are a lot of gaps in this interview and I know we don’t have time for the entire story BUT, the person conducting the interview should have rounded the context to include more details into his history and how he managed to cover all of his lies. They should take more notes from 48hrs and other investigative reporting interviews. This could be a great segment if it was structured correctly. I’m looking forward to the growth and future content. Edit…also, ask questions that guide the interview to paint a full picture. Paint the story as if it’s a blank canvas and we’re here to absorb. Create a narrative.
That woman’s words came back to bite her in the ass. He’s using her own words (text response to another woman) against her. Hyper-independent women are the ideal target for these scammers. They know those women will do whatever to have the title of a wife - even if it means being his Olivia Pope…… all for the image. Ladies Kevin Samuels tried to warn ya never lead with accomplishments and title. A real man won’t care about all of that. Take your time and get to know a man. Haste makes waste. Invest $20 in a thorough background search. Verify everything. Be slow to hire and quick to fire. There are men out here using women with no remorse. If he wants you allow him to invest into you…. Not the other way around. And put God first. Don’t involve him after the fact.
I wish the interviewer would have had the text messages prior to the interview. If they’re genuine, the book is just a way to make coin off of her. stupidity.
Wait a minute. So she saw red flags and proceeded with the relationship. But she doesn't want to sit in "blame" alone, so she decides to say about her circle, "If you see something, say something"? Everyone has their own issues. How about if YOU see something, you act accordingly.
God will put you through it sometime to bring you back stronger…look at JOB…the book and her testimony might save hundreds if not thousands of women and quadruple what she lost!❤🙏🏾
@@marya3823 hmmm. Maybe God put Job through all that misery hoping he would ignore the red flags and turn from his faith in him to restore all that was lost. Job wanted all the smoke the devil was bringing huh..maybe? 😀😒 guess you’ve never experienced having your faith tested by God…it’s not to destroy you it’s to strengthen your connection to him and he will multiply all you think you sacrificed…all you think you lost..as long as you don’t turn from him… we all can say I would never until you’re out there nevering… leave it to God to outwit the devil in disguise..they only get exposed in due time…you can’t understand hurt, pain, foolishness, trickery, etc UNTIL IT HAPPENS…once is enough for some people to see a situation coming a mile away..certain characteristics of people like this (not only men) don’t change. Usually you can’t spot the red flags or that gut feeling that you can’t understand until it’s over and everything makes sense… everything is divinely orchestrated even when it hurts there is purpose behind it…
A man once told me women be desperate and i see how he seen it just by this lady..no lie.. they will tell u they will give u the world if ur gulliable enough😂too each their own good luck next time if u go do it again..i learned id rather be alone.
Some people are so narcissistic to it's literal criminal. I will never forget me thinking that I found a decent individual which thinking back IDK how or why I think it was just an older family member telling me things that they thought him or thought he was. I found out fast what kinda man he really was first off he was 30 yrs older than me. He thinks everyone wants him think he's better than everyone and so predictable. I remember I was gonna get a brand new car off the lot and he had something against it and he had the nerve to say don't call him if i can't make the payment. I was like hold up u don't have me in a house ur not doing much for me and your 30 yrs my Sr I might as well deal with a man younger than me if I wanted to deal with what your offering. This is what took the cake someone called me and told me he was a sex offender i looked it up and he was the worst kind of sex offender there is forcible rape of a juvenile I will never forget. I said i bet if I was to confront him with this information he's gonna say oh they lied on me because I don't want them and low and behold that's exactly what he said. Im not lying at all when I say that he's not even an attractive man he's not handsome at all he doesn't have height he doesn't have a nice body or anything he's not appealing at all I was just messing with him out of gratitude thats it. I never liked him because he looked down of everyone and he's a walking predator literally. I will never forget when he calls me and we talk i was running an errand and he knew that I wasn't home. I finally got home and when I pulled up I saw a black charger at first i forgot about his other car then it clicked in ny sister and I was like oh ok it's him. I will never forget now we always keep the hall light on and this particular night we walked in and all of the lights were out I mean it was pitch black he was between my daughter who was about 9 at the time and my niece who was maybe like 15 he had all of the lights out sitting between the both of them watching a movie on his cell phone this is all before we knew that he was a sex offender. But it all made sense in the end we put it all together because I didn't even look my age at the moment i looked like a little girl and he stalked me he thought i blocked him and started popping up at our house. Oh the reason he qaa in his sports cqr was to try nd impress our daughters i mean he was a real predator.
Ok Shareza, I see what happened here. You knew all along but thought you were more special than the other women. Thought he changed for you. I’m not judging because most of us have been there. However, if you knew, then this smear campaign is invalid. But go off and make that bag!!!
Women don't fall for the "Tell me" lie. You tell them then "She Jealous!" you don't tell "You should've told me" Lies! Let them figure it out for themselves. They ain't gonna leave anyways. So don't waste your time. I hate this happened to her best wishes.
Exactly! You live, eat, sleep and hang out with him, I see him in passing. Any thing I observe, so have you at a more frequent pace. You are CHOOSING to ignore it for what ever reason.
I’m her best friend and have been there through it all! -minus the high school years. If you missed that he is a master manipulator/narcissist then you may believe the text message at the end! My friend is spreading awareness in hopes that women will not continue to fall for the BS! It’s easy to say couldn’t be me but when LOVE hits yah, you find yourself doing things you swear you wouldn’t in the name of love. Don’t judge my friend y’all, she is brave enough to share her story for the betterment of other women! So many more have been down similar paths but are too ashamed to share their experiences!!!
sorry to hear that bout your friend. I can see the manipulative tactics in that text, just with him using the nickname “doc” when it’s known he’s not a doctor. These type of people are infuriating. I’m wishing shareza all the best, its good she has a positive outlook.
Wow he’s a real piece of work
So sorry to hear this happened to her. You part right though! Love can be tricky. So, much so we ignore the signs. They are there but we overlook them. I’m to the point I will have you investigated.
God bless her & you for being a true friend.🙏🏽❤️🤗
So sorry to hear this happened to her. You part right though! Love can be tricky. So, much so we ignore the signs. They are there but we overlook them. I’m to the point I will have you investigated.
God bless her & you for being a true friend.🙏🏽❤️🤗
So sorry to hear this happened to her. You part right though! Love can be tricky. So, much so we ignore the signs. They are there but we overlook them. I’m to the point I will have you investigated.
God bless her & you for being a true friend.🙏🏽❤️🤗
Narcissistic don’t move on they just find the next victim
And try they best to still cause chaos in your life.
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Bingo 💯
Period..
I lost friends by being honest to them.. they always side with their man
ALWAYS
Yes!! So I completely understand why no one said anything. Some women will even go back and tell the man who and what the person told them.
Yep and you jealous is what they say. Don't fall for that lie ladies.
@@SameScriptDifferentCast it’s never jealousy. They just be dick drunk and naive lol
Same here !!!
9:25 no. Some people like being blind and when you tell them the truth, it ruins the friendship
Absolutely
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I’m stuck on her adult daughter changing their last names… that man didn’t raise them, why on earth was that even a thing?!
Right?!🤔 That was weird!
Right
That’s wild
If my kids didn’t come from that man they are never taking his name
That's exactly what Steve Harvey's wife did! Gave her adult children his last name, even though they had a relationship with their fathers
No sir no ma'am, if my children are adults and he did not raise or adopt them then my kids will keep their fathers last name, that is so arrogant and controling and he might even deep down inside be jealous that he did not father those children. That would be a red flag for me.
He conned me too in Georgia through my Sister in law. I can't wait to see this man under the jail. It's just a matter of time
Who is he?
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Wow!!! What's his name? So we all can watch out 👀
Great host. But she almost did the interview q&a herself. Really wanted to hear the womans story from the woman lol
Right, the host didn’t let her answer questions and continuously cut her off.
right ! she told HER story for her.
Exactly and it's so annoying.
Yea, I hope she’s reading the comments and improves…because I really wanted to hear the lady tell her own story
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She was preyed on and don’t be fooled some of these characters are literally watching social media working on their next victim. They are going as far as to doing background checks and reviewing resumes trust me .
I pray she gets her justice .
I agree!
I agree, I've been there but after 3 years I walked and kept walking
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Lying about kids is a mistake? She ignored the red flags
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A huge narcissistic clue that comes straight from their mouth,”I want my marriage”. Not, “I want you”. You are just an object to them. It’s imperative that we pay attention to words in relationships.
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We’re too old to not investigate and research people
How do you we do that?
@@sandyfenelonask questions, background checks, std checks, vet these people out here, don’t ignore even the smallest red flags. Flaws and red flags are different
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He *LET* her see that text. He wanted her to see it so she would divorce him. He was done-done.
Sis is both a victim and a volunteer. She had to ignore so many red flags to end up where she is. Did she never see this man going to a hospital or office to treat patients? Why would you marry a man without meeting his children? Why would you go through with the wedding even after you caught him I'm several lies. Clearly dude is a monster, but on some level, she was ok with it. You can be willing to see no evil and hear no evil and then be shocked when you are faced with the truth you have worked so hard to avoid.
This woman is such an amazing person. She’s not even trying to bash this man that scammed her. God bless her heart
Because it's the same mind & mentality that allowed him to come INto her and buy love. She's literally programmed to ignore her own sense of dignity and self regard...she was doing this BEFORE she married him. Let's talk about how she got there #SHADEROOM.
She still need intervention.
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I would’ve REALLY liked for the woman to tell her story versus Thembi. Nothing worse than a non listening interviewer. Overtalked her, told her entire story for her. Where is Justin investigates ?
I agree 💯
Omg I was thinking the same thing! The interviewer did a very poor job. I was a bit annoyed honestly
YUP
Not the where is @justin investigates 😂😂😂😂
Yes, the story seemed all over the place.
Discernment !!!! and it’s not about what they say or their actions. It’s about the spirit they have on them that you should be able to feel nonetheless best of luck.
FACTS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I do not care how Good he is,if you put Prayer on him, GOD would have revealed all.
That’s basically insinuating she wasn’t in prayer about the situation. Sometimes “God,” Yahuah allows us to go through the storm. It’s great when people share their stories for us to learn from them, it’s better when it’s without judgment. Or the typical “That would never happen to me.”
Amen. I have prayed to God and when I say he would reveal everything!!!!
That part 💯
💯 % Facts! These swindlers may be smart , but my God is smarter!
@@ms.laladythat was not God’s will for that lady to go through that.
Yikes. This is why you gotta REALLY get to know people the signs show how they talk & how they move will show you their real character & from there you run. Don’t sleep with the enemy.
You could warn these women about the men they're in love with all day but at the end of the day that drug called love does something to the brain and they have to wake up themselves. I have had love and was stupid for it and luckily I was a teen and 20s, now on 30s never again, especially with money lol
This!!! 💯
When women are seeking love, they do not want to hear anything about their better half. When it comes to relationships, I do not get involved, even my best friend. As a woman, sorry to say, a lot of us do not want to hear or hinder the truth about or better even if we know in our hearts
In this last days time. Single life and giving your life to your heavenly father is the best relationship right now. Women, let's start loving ourselves more than any man can love us. God bless!
Love don't hurt, lust does.
The first thing I’m going to do is search that record! I have kids I gotta know that background baby
All. These things should be revealed before marriage. Collect the data that includes criminal records, credit checks etc
Why the host telling the story tho
Cuz it’s in a book and I guess she already read the book and was asking questions from it. Go get the book for the full story 😊
Yeah she’s annoying
That blonde hair is ridiculous!! 🙄
She was desperate for Love.
She was never desperate for anything sorry you got that wrong
No one is desperate every living being on earth needs and requires it she no different and neither are you
Dorian Wilkerson had to have had those two youngest kids when we were dating in Atlanta, I was told similar stories from him, I left finding out he was a con, I'm sorry you and your girls had to go through all of this!!! Put his face out there!!! He is very great charmer, everyone l knew loved him 2.
Sis that's his name?
Never Offer A Man Anything
In My Experience Conversations Can Be Condescending And Made Up!
I Need To Meet Your Kids,Your Family!
Nope I never offer man anything
She was desperate for a man, too many red flags, he wasn’t adding to her life she was a sugar momma!
The whole family was
The whole family was
SB: y’all legs stayed crossed the whole time and didn’t fall asleep? 😲😁👏🏾
On he a professional, you can tell by his statement‼️💯💯💯
I love that she was able to tell her story no matter how bad or silly or judgmental she knew people would be towards her ❤ thank you for this your story may help me or someone I know 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 blessings to you and your family
This is a sad story , thank goodness she is doing better!!!!! He is a scammer, But she didn’t use google or run a background check etc but it’s a learning lesson no one is perfect!
I’m sorry this happened to her, but ain’t no way
I absolutely love this interviewer. She does a great job every time.
Usually, the ones doing all the bragging are the scammers. True professionals do not have time for all the scamming, social media 🙄 and so on
That text at the end sounds fabricated ….like something he created to make it seem like she knew all along. Im usually skeptical of these stories but she seems truthful in this interview. I hope she learned her lesson and continue to persevere!
I trust her statements because she uses her name..dosen't hide behind it like him.
To have someone manipulate you like this and still say “I will love again”and I’m open to love says a great deal about her faith as well as therapy and where she is in the healing process! Heading to buy the book and support you ASAP hunny! God Bless!
Y’all Shirley Strawberry is going through this now with her scamming husband Ernesto. This is ridiculous!!!
I love how positive she is. God will give you all that you deserve ❤
When is the Lifetime/Tubi movie?
It is something so wicked about these maipulative men to me. That feeling she had that something was not right was definitley God warning her. I experienced that the man presented this perfect person to me, but something felt so wrong. One thing I love about God he heals us after such pain and abuse!
Thank God you got out alive..this could of gone many different ways
Show his face!!!
Type in her name you’ll see his face.
Thanks for sharing your story sis!
he would of got left the day he asked me to cook and not cater for a funeral ! it's tacky and looks like he wanted to take advantage. there was a lot of red flags here ! I hope she gets the love she deserves.
To place blame on her loved ones is just ridiculous anytime someone tries to tell you something ain’t right then they are jealous or hating on your happiness so no wonder they kept their true feelings to themselves as a grown woman I can’t blame no one but my damn self for my mistakes especially when she seen the red flags but chose to ignore them the best thing I can say is be accountable for your own actions and listen to your gut
They need to post a pic of him
Background check. Private investigator.
I believe everything that woman said. For the simple fact this seems to be the new norm with these men. They purposely go after women who are doing well. But I will say she needs to take some blame for herself. The first trap is always the men that come forward talking about they've been liking you since high school, girl. That's always a trap. Usually those are the men that's not doing well for themselves since high school and has been tracking you and trolling you and looking at your life and what you're doing. Second, the moment you found out this man had kids and he didn't love you enough to tell you. That was deceit all the way that was the setup. That was the trap, and he knew how to pull you in. Then only for you to find out. He had not 4, not 6, but 8 kids. And you still marry him? I'm sorry you got some blame for yourself. And like you said , lastly , i'm glad you finally saw that this was all a financial setup. I say find the victims look for the other women
What ever you want to hear, they will tell you. Whatever you want in a man, they are that.
All of they until they feel they got you in a position you will not leave or get out of.
They also think you are going to be so embarrassed that you will not let them go. It can turn ugly when you walk away.
Y'all gotta be very careful with these dudes out here in GA they look good talk good but nothing is ever what it seems. This dude right here is a whole lot of.……. But yea be careful!! 😘
Shirly Strawberry 🍓 2024
I can’t get over her text at the end! She knew the whole time! I’m not sorry for her.
She just wanted that ring. Marriage hype
I believe this information was after the fact
You assume it was from her... You just allowed that man to munipulate you too.
@@kimberlygoree3213Exactly.
@MzMarleyMonroe, Do you see how easy it can be? He just worked you over!🤣😂😂🤣😂
I wake up every day & Thank god I’m single. I was once trapped in a abusive, victimizing relationship.
Men are so strange, he must’ve known she was hurrying off somewhere. Cuz what if she would’ve been like ,“sure I’d love to meet your sister.” Then the jig would’ve been up right then and there. But I guess this was her fate.
Thank you for sharing.
Even if they would’ve told her something she probably wouldn’t have left him cus like she said she was happy.
I dated a narcissist at a time when I was not mentally ready. I didn’t have money and was manipulated like this. Some people be so good at being bad, they make it look good. And if there is a God then there definitely is a devil. The dev is good at what he does, but what can make him more powerful, is no moral compass. He grows with every person he breaks down. So if God IS able to get you out of the fog and give you clarity that you KNOW YOU NEED to get your out YOU BETTER GET OUT!!!!! There can not be good without evil!!!
Too bad he can’t really get exposed. The photo being blurred and name withheld just means he’ll do it again.
lol thought she was going to marry up., it’s Karma. Changed her kids last name shows how miserable she once was
Yes that a was a bit much especially since her kids were grown at that point. Desperate 😮
Great questions and interviewer!!
Wow she’s stunning, I hate the fact that someone so beautiful and sweet had to go through that, I wish her nothing but the best
Ooh he’s good. She’s telling the truth!!!…ladies be careful a man should not be worrying bout what’s in your account. If so he’s a fraud.
First of all, Thanks to this Sister for spreading awareness and sharing her story.
Now, I don’t know what took her so long to see his manipulation. There are a lot of gaps in this interview and I know we don’t have time for the entire story BUT, the person conducting the interview should have rounded the context to include more details into his history and how he managed to cover all of his lies.
They should take more notes from 48hrs and other investigative reporting interviews. This could be a great segment if it was structured correctly. I’m looking forward to the growth and future content.
Edit…also, ask questions that guide the interview to paint a full picture. Paint the story as if it’s a blank canvas and we’re here to absorb. Create a narrative.
That woman’s words came back to bite her in the ass. He’s using her own words (text response to another woman) against her. Hyper-independent women are the ideal target for these scammers. They know those women will do whatever to have the title of a wife - even if it means being his Olivia Pope…… all for the image. Ladies Kevin Samuels tried to warn ya never lead with accomplishments and title. A real man won’t care about all of that. Take your time and get to know a man. Haste makes waste. Invest $20 in a thorough background search. Verify everything. Be slow to hire and quick to fire. There are men out here using women with no remorse. If he wants you allow him to invest into you…. Not the other way around. And put God first. Don’t involve him after the fact.
Girl you seen the red flags ! Tryna blame ya friends is crazy lol
U right 💯 💯💯
&& I bet the first wife knows all about it toooo😩😩😩😩😩 listen , LADIESSS STAY MEAN STAND ON BUISNESS & if he say you naggin then guess what dip on out
Why is his face not out in public?
Looked it up and his name is Darion wilkenson. It's on another yt video
@@Unmask123I searched on YT nothing is coming up?
This is why you gotta run a background check within the first 2 weeks of dating , stop takin ppls words as truth !
TSR needs to contact this lady and get her response to the text message that he submitted at the end.
6 year old and 4 month old??? Huh
God bless and continue to protect and cover this beautiful woman. 🙏🏿
Sad please ppl pray for discernment do a thorough investigation on ppl before u marry them please please please
Amen 🙏🏾 shocked but love her story keep ya head up sis !!
How you go for a doctor with no certificate or nothing to show
Exactly 😂. She was a director of a clinic before they got married so she is no newbie.
I wish the interviewer would have had the text messages prior to the interview. If they’re genuine, the book is just a way to make coin off of her. stupidity.
Wait a minute. So she saw red flags and proceeded with the relationship. But she doesn't want to sit in "blame" alone, so she decides to say about her circle, "If you see something, say something"? Everyone has their own issues. How about if YOU see something, you act accordingly.
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Right? How am I responsible for your bad choice in men? Why am I obligated to point out things to you THAT YOU CLEARLY SEE BUT IS CHOOSING TO IGNORE?
I would NOT mess with a man who MOVES away from HIS children!!! reddest flag
I'm not feeling her because she's not taking any accountability at all 🙅🏾♀️
Exactly because they both ran a crooked plastic surgery clinic together she knew more than she is stating.
she’s not
So he did or did he just say a lot of BS... How can you take accountability when you think everything is above board
Exactly. Thats what i said too
She was way to desperate I’m sorry
Agree
We need to know his birthday Sis…for educational purposes 😅❤ Thank you for sharing your story!
Im willing to bet my life he’s a Libra or at least a cardinal sign
I’m glad she shared, cause wow.
God will put you through it sometime to bring you back stronger…look at JOB…the book and her testimony might save hundreds if not thousands of women and quadruple what she lost!❤🙏🏾
God did not put her thru it. She ignored red flags.
@@marya3823 hmmm. Maybe God put Job through all that misery hoping he would ignore the red flags and turn from his faith in him to restore all that was lost. Job wanted all the smoke the devil was bringing huh..maybe? 😀😒 guess you’ve never experienced having your faith tested by God…it’s not to destroy you it’s to strengthen your connection to him and he will multiply all you think you sacrificed…all you think you lost..as long as you don’t turn from him… we all can say I would never until you’re out there nevering… leave it to God to outwit the devil in disguise..they only get exposed in due time…you can’t understand hurt, pain, foolishness, trickery, etc UNTIL IT HAPPENS…once is enough for some people to see a situation coming a mile away..certain characteristics of people like this (not only men) don’t change. Usually you can’t spot the red flags or that gut feeling that you can’t understand until it’s over and everything makes sense… everything is divinely orchestrated even when it hurts there is purpose behind it…
@@marya3823Well majority of us ignored the red flags including myself !!!
A man once told me women be desperate and i see how he seen it just by this lady..no lie.. they will tell u they will give u the world if ur gulliable enough😂too each their own good luck next time if u go do it again..i learned id rather be alone.
How do you get married and not do a background check or anything?
I pray that she takes the time to heal those places that attract narcissistic men.
It's called Pick me, I want to be married and have a man so bad, I'm just going to ignore all red flags...🤦🏾♀️
Someone had to say it! Because that's really the truth!!
I feel like the reporter was being very insensitive and almost if not laughed smh it could happen to anybody
I left a message under the best friend's comment expressing major support house but somehow it was completely deleted
I’m loving the new hair on the host I’m used to the braids but this is 🔥🔥🔥
His response is so narcissistic that it is sickening .
This is wrapped in the lack of self love and pride. I google all of my boyfriends.
I'm sorry that this happened to you. I pray that you heart heals and that you receive double for your trouble. 🙏
Some people are so narcissistic to it's literal criminal. I will never forget me thinking that I found a decent individual which thinking back IDK how or why I think it was just an older family member telling me things that they thought him or thought he was. I found out fast what kinda man he really was first off he was 30 yrs older than me. He thinks everyone wants him think he's better than everyone and so predictable. I remember I was gonna get a brand new car off the lot and he had something against it and he had the nerve to say don't call him if i can't make the payment. I was like hold up u don't have me in a house ur not doing much for me and your 30 yrs my Sr I might as well deal with a man younger than me if I wanted to deal with what your offering. This is what took the cake someone called me and told me he was a sex offender i looked it up and he was the worst kind of sex offender there is forcible rape of a juvenile I will never forget. I said i bet if I was to confront him with this information he's gonna say oh they lied on me because I don't want them and low and behold that's exactly what he said. Im not lying at all when I say that he's not even an attractive man he's not handsome at all he doesn't have height he doesn't have a nice body or anything he's not appealing at all I was just messing with him out of gratitude thats it. I never liked him because he looked down of everyone and he's a walking predator literally. I will never forget when he calls me and we talk i was running an errand and he knew that I wasn't home. I finally got home and when I pulled up I saw a black charger at first i forgot about his other car then it clicked in ny sister and I was like oh ok it's him. I will never forget now we always keep the hall light on and this particular night we walked in and all of the lights were out I mean it was pitch black he was between my daughter who was about 9 at the time and my niece who was maybe like 15 he had all of the lights out sitting between the both of them watching a movie on his cell phone this is all before we knew that he was a sex offender. But it all made sense in the end we put it all together because I didn't even look my age at the moment i looked like a little girl and he stalked me he thought i blocked him and started popping up at our house. Oh the reason he qaa in his sports cqr was to try nd impress our daughters i mean he was a real predator.
Legal wife is the first wife.Omg.
I wish you gave her the chance to tell her own story... Rather you tell us... And then you question her...
Why are you protecting his identity. Uncover his face. Let us all know and be safe
I agree
Just type her name, and you'll see his face in a lot of their pics.
Ok Shareza, I see what happened here. You knew all along but thought you were more special than the other women. Thought he changed for you. I’m not judging because most of us have been there. However, if you knew, then this smear campaign is invalid. But go off and make that bag!!!
This interviewer is terrible. Talk wayyy too much
And that blonde hair 👎😂🤣
Their were so many red flags they could have covered the Veterans Memorial 🤷🤷🤷
Women don't fall for the "Tell me" lie. You tell them then "She Jealous!" you don't tell "You should've told me" Lies! Let them figure it out for themselves. They ain't gonna leave anyways. So don't waste your time. I hate this happened to her best wishes.
Exactly! You live, eat, sleep and hang out with him, I see him in passing. Any thing I observe, so have you at a more frequent pace. You are CHOOSING to ignore it for what ever reason.
She looks like Brooke from basketball wives. Praying she can heal completely and don't give up on love.
This is Sad