How to be smart and confident

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  • @galinamyagkova3610
    @galinamyagkova3610 Рік тому +1158

    Im 43 , and im still learning how to love myself and to be confident 😅

    • @Hajer._216
      @Hajer._216 Рік тому +143

      Why not ? It‘s better then living the rest of your life insecure it’s never to Kate to love your self and appreciate your self ❤️

    • @ella4175
      @ella4175 Рік тому +45

      You’re inspiring and confident 💖💖

    • @Onwaytou
      @Onwaytou Рік тому +40

      The age doesn't matter at all ,any person deserves to be happy and confident at any age . You are an amazing person for trying and still willing to learn. Keep going!💞

    • @malakbenslimane9723
      @malakbenslimane9723 Рік тому +5

      @@stupidheadbandomg me tooo💋🔥

    • @TaraMae212
      @TaraMae212 Рік тому +4

      Same..

  • @honey_xoxo_
    @honey_xoxo_ 11 місяців тому +2

    Okey but I'm an introvert with lots of mental disorders and trauma caused by my own parents , they treat me like animals and don't leave a chance to insult in front of relatives and are very toxic . Now I'm always helpless in front of others cuz I'm always scared and anxious of every little thing and nobody(friends) stays after they had their therapy time with me as I have a humorous and funny personality (not a people pleaser, I love delivering jokes) in front of who don't know my truth but I can't fake it for long , it's very energy sucking. I don't tell people what I'm going through cus that makes me uncomfortable and anxious.

  • @nazhazidani862
    @nazhazidani862 7 місяців тому

    I like the way how you treat this subject, you are amaizing

  • @wiseriverhealing
    @wiseriverhealing Рік тому

    Your content and delivery are much appreciated. Thanks so much for sharing.

  • @fatydecotouch9474
    @fatydecotouch9474 Рік тому

    Thank you so much about this video❤

  • @asq2719
    @asq2719 Рік тому +38

    found liz's sister lol

    • @vintxge_taetae
      @vintxge_taetae Рік тому +2

      Fr😭 but they are both amazing on their own ways

    • @houdamrabet603
      @houdamrabet603 Рік тому +1

      I love people who talk and give advices like liz and this woman

  • @Kalvinzo
    @Kalvinzo 6 місяців тому

    Good 👍

  • @zayedsharma6416
    @zayedsharma6416 Рік тому

    ❤ Fabulous words heartiest

  • @aguecgarcia4948
    @aguecgarcia4948 11 місяців тому

    Queen

  • @ayasarsour2860
    @ayasarsour2860 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @guiciski1200
    @guiciski1200 Рік тому

    I love this video. Thank you so much, you have helped me a lot💗

  • @wenberrr
    @wenberrr Рік тому

    you are a sign from universe I looked for

  • @qianwu2089
    @qianwu2089 Рік тому +296

    1 watch your mouth
    2 let people be
    3 do not let anybody take credit for you
    4 hold your own [do not show your insecurities]
    5 show grace in your behavior
    6 earn your respect
    7 focus on inside [self-worth]

    • @karengalvan8699
      @karengalvan8699 11 місяців тому +3

      also to be strong is to let it go '' amen ''

    • @denismelvin222
      @denismelvin222 7 місяців тому +2

      Stand on your own two feet!
      🐾 Keep away from the riff-raff!

    • @akifaiqbal
      @akifaiqbal 3 місяці тому

      You're a queen 👑

  • @steveyantis
    @steveyantis Рік тому +238

    I approve this message 😊
    What a role model for our young people. Listen up and level up.

  • @enzogalante5986
    @enzogalante5986 Рік тому +42

    Wow, what a majestic lady; beauty, femininity, elegance, style, class, confidence, charisma, intelegence, knowledge, wisdom.

  • @manyatasambyal6073
    @manyatasambyal6073 Рік тому +94

    i usually don't comment but everything that you said is pure gold.sometimes its hard to realise what's actually going wrong and i feel blessed to have come across a person like you.lots of love and support from my side.

  • @TheDragonforces
    @TheDragonforces Рік тому +175

    Can you please share your perspective on dealing with arguments? How to react when someone says something to hurt you or belittle you? How not to get angry and defend yourself? How to contain anger? I know it all comes to self worth but hearing your perspective helps a lot. Love your channel ❤

    • @ranetachowdhury
      @ranetachowdhury Рік тому +34

      You can never lose your temper. You never let it get to you or affect you. You have to be really calm in these situations and keep your voice down and talk slowly. When you do that it makes you look powerful because they failed in triggering you, and that’s when they realise they have zero power over you.

    • @iamfree3260
      @iamfree3260 Рік тому +8

      They cnt hurt U if U kno who Ru

    • @rainxstormm
      @rainxstormm Рік тому +5

      Remind yourself to take deep breaths. You can first tell them how your feel and that what they said hurt you. let them explain their side and explain yours but Tell them that you deserve to be respected. You can then walk away and give them and yourself time to think. Then come back calm and continue the conversation. If they still don’t respect you then they aren’t the person for you

    • @maryambukhari7635
      @maryambukhari7635 Рік тому +2

      I want one on this too

    • @dunianns2716
      @dunianns2716 Рік тому

      There are very good books on psychology about it

  • @theshih-tzudad4068
    @theshih-tzudad4068 7 місяців тому +11

    I am 54 and still learning how to be a better person. this video makes a lot of sense.

  • @ellechan4378
    @ellechan4378 Рік тому +44

    self worth = confidence & respect

  • @Mikay944
    @Mikay944 Рік тому +15

    "Trying to go to level 3 when you haven't completed step 1", that hit hard.

  • @zhiyipeng-dz8vu
    @zhiyipeng-dz8vu 10 місяців тому +8

    Video Summary:
    The video discusses the importance of being mindful of what we say and how we talk about ourselves and others, as it can have a significant impact on our relationships and self-worth. It emphasizes the need to develop a strong sense of self and set boundaries in order to demand respect from others. The speaker also highlights the importance of focusing on inner healing and self-fulfillment in order to build true confidence.
    - 00:00 The power of your words reflects who you are and smart people judge others based on how they talk about themselves and others.
    - 02:32 Surround yourself with people who uplift you and take no credit for your success, while being aware of those who may use your insecurities against you.
    - 05:06 Small actions that we may not be aware of can have a deep impact on someone else's life, as illustrated by a story of a man who lost respect due to a woman humiliating him in front of others.
    - 07:42 Communicate your preferences, desires, needs, and deal breakers in a relationship to establish boundaries and demand respect.
    - 10:14 To be smart and confident, focus on your inner self and work on healing and self-worth.
    - 12:48 Building a strong relationship with oneself through self-reflection and personal growth leads to confidence and self-respect.
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  • @iamfree3260
    @iamfree3260 Рік тому +2

    I wanna be someone who doesn't see ppls looks or judge build an opinion about someone because ppl but I guess we have to because ppls frequencies rub off on ppl.
    I don't kno ur vibes r abit strict....and not relaxed.....I'm not sure if I like it but I need that strict boundaries but I don't want that kind of voicevibe

  • @nothinggmuch8642
    @nothinggmuch8642 Рік тому +2

    copyright of wiz liz and u think u did something in your life?

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 Рік тому +31

    This girl is an inspiration ❤ good vibes to everybody here 🫶🏽✨💕

    • @ab-jc8nv
      @ab-jc8nv Рік тому

      Hi u do yoga?

    • @kflecha1
      @kflecha1 Рік тому

      @@ab-jc8nv no but I would like to learn

  • @matthewcormier8744
    @matthewcormier8744 Рік тому +14

    Confidence is my trademark

  • @AlexXoxoxoxoxo-km6wk
    @AlexXoxoxoxoxo-km6wk 11 місяців тому +1

    Proverbs 27:19 As the water reflects the face, so the heart reflects the person. (This is half of the actual verse which you should definitely read all the way).
    Matthew 12:34 for whatever is in your heart determines what you say.
    Seek Jesus Christ. He saves, you might feel empty or abandoned. But God can restore you, prosper you and heal you from your bondage.

  • @iamfree3260
    @iamfree3260 Рік тому +4

    I guess we just gotta love ourselves for when we r nice and not nice and with makeup or not makeup or filters lol?!
    =Self worth!!
    Do U have a filter on?
    I think we tend to be the ppl we admire the most. I admired the ppl who loved me and didn't judge me though. IV been that person before
    But I'm in a phase where ppl who look distorted or are arrogant repels me and I can't seem to help it but I also feel mean because it feels like not unconditional love. But maybe it is a good thing to get away from those frequencies. But overall I wanna be stronger than anyone's frequencies

  • @momotaro0410
    @momotaro0410 8 місяців тому +1

    Very true. That is why I am always look like a loser. I let people walk over me and disrespect me.

  • @loveethan3000
    @loveethan3000 Рік тому +18

    Always always speaking the truth that needs to be heard by all women. Thank you, Eleonora.

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  Рік тому +1

      Thank you My Dear 🙏

    • @Moses-tz9fv
      @Moses-tz9fv 10 місяців тому

      @@oxaleonorahi 😊

    • @UdayYadav-vj8ri
      @UdayYadav-vj8ri 8 місяців тому

      ​@@oxaleonora will you marry me please I like you😊

  • @louis.sela04
    @louis.sela04 Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much!!! Work on myself everyday is the best thing i could do! So happy to not try to fit in. Pride yourself on your willingness to improve

  • @РадоцветаМиткова

    This video just showed up on the recommended list just at the right moment and says everything I didn't understand and have been wondering about.
    Thank you so much for the advices and the experience you share, keep on helping people, keep on the good job❤

  • @zaainrajpoot9364
    @zaainrajpoot9364 7 місяців тому +1

    Superb performance 😍 love you u 🔥 baby Beautiful lovely sweet ♥

  • @mariana_z
    @mariana_z Рік тому +4

    About confidence. I always want to have it. But,I haven't. And now I understand why. Thank you for this video. You're the best. I love youuuu❤❤😘😘

  • @N77-s5k
    @N77-s5k 11 місяців тому +1

    Better than 100 Psychologists

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 Рік тому +11

    This is such a beautiful message ❤

  • @lilianaszo
    @lilianaszo Рік тому +5

    Everything you said is so valuable

  • @iamfree3260
    @iamfree3260 Рік тому +4

    I guess we just gotta love ourselves for when we r nice and not nice and with makeup or not makeup or filters lol?!
    I think we tend to be the ppl we admire the most. I admired the ppl who loved me and didn't judge me though. IV been that person before
    But I'm in a phase where ppl who look distorted or are arrogant repels me and I can't seem to help it but I also feel mean because it feels like not unconditional love. But maybe it is a good thing to get away from those frequencies. But overall I wanna be stronger than anyone's frequencies

  • @sadiasaeed3772
    @sadiasaeed3772 8 місяців тому +1

    She needs more reach fr !! There are other good motivator queens also exist ik but after wizard Liz I got the vibe from u !! ✨☀️

  • @lailaniCleary
    @lailaniCleary Рік тому +3

    I needed to watch this because I get so angry at peoples actions and will use very foul inappropriate language . Recently I found out a friend was speaking bad on me, and I decided to remain silent and distance myself instead of cussing her out like my old self would’ve done, thank you for this video !❤

  • @isobeljohnshoward
    @isobeljohnshoward Рік тому +1

    You are so freaking beautiful 😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥

  • @GioHimonPro
    @GioHimonPro Рік тому +4

    Very good advice! Realized this only a month ago. Confidence only holds any merit when you can back it up with self worth!

  • @دروسالمحاسبةوالمراجعة

    yes, I absolutely agree with you. if you watch a mouth of any body and hear what he/she tacks , you will create your opinion about her/his self.... thanks for this video.

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem Рік тому +3

    The transcript emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, respectful communication, and self-worth. It advises on maintaining dignity, setting boundaries, and prioritizing inner growth for genuine confidence and fulfillment.

  • @Nat_nat512
    @Nat_nat512 Рік тому +2

    I' ve notice that many women who talk so mature and now they are so successful had experienced bullying and abuse behaviors. I'm so happy that from something so bad came out strong and powerful women! Go girl you can conquer the world!

  • @antonija2974
    @antonija2974 Рік тому +3

    I have been loving your videos, every single word that has come out of your mouth has been the pure truth. Keep up with the good work ;)

  • @shawntelchinn84
    @shawntelchinn84 Рік тому +7

    Best video on the whole UA-cam!!!❤❤❤Thank you! This is literally the message I’ve been needing to hear for my entire adult life!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽I really appreciate you for this message!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @jaywessy
      @jaywessy Рік тому

      Liz The Wizard is also not bad at all...😉😏
      ua-cam.com/video/D3JQJ-U12Y0/v-deo.htmlsi=FfWynVwGGyeIJxuz

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  Рік тому +1

      Thank you!🤍

  • @セイレイ-d9x
    @セイレイ-d9x 11 місяців тому +1

    自然体で生きれるといいですね。

  • @charleslatman6123
    @charleslatman6123 Рік тому +2

    Our identity is in Jesus. We can not fix ourselves. Only Jesus can change us give us a new heart. Read John chapter 15... Romans chapter 6 to 8 . Jesus will change your life forever. Have that peace and joy you long for.😊

    • @daisykinika1644
      @daisykinika1644 Рік тому

      The Bible says life and death is in the power of the tongue and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof Proverbs 18:21.
      So take responsibility for your life say what you want, act on it “according to God’s word of course” and watch how God will amplify your actions, because at the end of the day “faith without works is dead” ✌️

  • @999sk09
    @999sk09 6 місяців тому

    I agree 👍👍leadership thinkinG👌👌👌A CLASS VIDEO 👏👏Marvellous video 👍👍

  • @SWISSMUSICFC
    @SWISSMUSICFC 5 місяців тому

    Smart isn’t a magic trick point1 for those thinking it’s shake or pill to take / and confidence in yourself BEGINS with a healthy Love For Yourself - it’s also Not A Magic Trick!

  • @kumuud-j1p
    @kumuud-j1p Рік тому

    I am currently pursuing MBAIB and I want a friend we are 12 girls in classroom and now it's been one year there and I find no friend but I have to be with girls who talk shit about others and about my self too they judge easily and I don't like it from the beginning but I am stuck who to be with even when I go out to be alone and enjoy my own company they hate my this step but when I am around them I don't feel special and they need me what should I do now?

  • @aminuumar2522
    @aminuumar2522 Рік тому +4

    Quite educative and inspiring. I fall in love with your channel and your videos are really amazing!

  • @aesstheticfate2893
    @aesstheticfate2893 9 місяців тому +22

    I'm 18 years old and I really resonate with everything you say because I also want to grow into a fine lady and grow emotionally mature. People also tell me that I think too much and stuffs like that. However, what you said are just pure gold and I feel reassured to be in this journey. Its also amazing that a lot of like-minded women are in this community. Thank you for your message. You're a blessing and please continue blessing others!

  • @deemansabri6966
    @deemansabri6966 6 місяців тому

    yes you are 2000 age so much smart for yourselfe , i know , but i'm surre we are can't do like you
    you are so much respect yourself but with out respect opposite 😂
    thank you you are right but that is harde for us
    that is right we aren't know love myselfe yet,
    but other thing life with you much harde
    you always doing bad pelan for around yourselfe
    i got faith even all of you have same habits

  • @Tron.wärs
    @Tron.wärs Рік тому

    Just think First with how i am and what He want to Talk to Me and you know Them For a Long Time I. You can akt Like that cause you know that people around you 🎉 Or why i feel so uncomfident you can think with good thinks i feel litilly good i know that or Something Like that cause you are shy and Don t build you Up really much that s that meaning but it s good what you know Something you can do with you voice if not so Strong you Fall negativ thats what I know

  • @user-kz1ys3og1n
    @user-kz1ys3og1n 11 місяців тому

    guys please help.. im so desperated
    it's so easy to talk about confidence but being the one is not that easy lol
    I don't even now if I am intro or extrovert, but one thing is sure i have no social skills. I hate being around people bcs i'm so cringe, i or just stay in silence or talk random shit that have no sense.
    People disrespect me, i see people around me becoming friends in very quick time while i ignore and am being ignored by my classmates for years...
    It makes me feel so dumb, sad and depressed. I do not go out of my house never .
    Of course, i grow up in a toxic family who made me like this. Literally my parents say to me that i am dumb and that i would never achieve anythng in my life... it destroys me

  • @happymeta4822
    @happymeta4822 8 місяців тому

    you are just amazing because I'm not a good English speaker but your English into easy to understand just amazing the way you speak English thanks for those

  • @dearayuna
    @dearayuna Рік тому +1

    Insightful speaks I think. Thank you

  • @kleom
    @kleom Рік тому +2

    amazing video thank u so much your tips are so unique🤍

  • @youtubedannie
    @youtubedannie Рік тому +3

    Hard truth. Thanks 💖

  • @РоманС-я4з
    @РоманС-я4з 6 місяців тому

    Please tell me what language does Eleanor speak? I need American English. British is not recommended.

  • @0.837
    @0.837 4 місяці тому

    I’m 18 and I feel so stupid like I wanna be a smart woman not academically but with people and also confident

  • @manfredbismark6688
    @manfredbismark6688 Рік тому

    Hello Eleonora. Some good tips, advice! Have a beautiful day. Bye. Rudi.

  • @marwanwajeeh2957
    @marwanwajeeh2957 Рік тому

    There is only way that make me smart and convedant,,,just when I ???? With you😉😉

  • @Honi-v7x
    @Honi-v7x 7 місяців тому

    I'm a 17 years old girl, and I always tried to fit in
    but now I just don't care,I just want to be calm

  • @theluck2912
    @theluck2912 8 місяців тому

    You're too young to understand 😅
    You have no idea
    There is a big different between respect and fighting everyone 😅

  • @karolyzagyva2916
    @karolyzagyva2916 Рік тому

    Ezek korlátoznak mer nem vagyok zsidó 😮😮😢

  • @whoisholloway
    @whoisholloway 6 місяців тому +1

    Great perspective!

  • @Unegaufreaunutella
    @Unegaufreaunutella Рік тому

    hi,im thirteen and im from Paris,i really enjoyed your video.i discovered you in this video. You said all the terms😘

  • @diyorasoyibjonova7108
    @diyorasoyibjonova7108 Рік тому +2

    Awww thank you💗 love this video so much🌻❤️

  • @rossyrojas9582
    @rossyrojas9582 10 місяців тому

    omg, it's a good video, You can practice your reading and learn important tips, so interesting ☁️

  • @MaryumAziz-tc2oc
    @MaryumAziz-tc2oc Рік тому +2

    Its feel like this is the whole summary and the key point which we should learn in our life for ourselves

  • @ange1ove
    @ange1ove Рік тому +3

    Ahhhh my goodness! Always so wonderful to hear these beautiful words.
    I truly love and appreciate you.
    I’m sending loving energy your way.

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  Рік тому +2

      Thank you my Dear 🙏I appreciate your kind words

  • @mararozsa3756
    @mararozsa3756 Рік тому

    Did you still these from me by making a video???smart ukranian girl

  • @eramaebarrios5340
    @eramaebarrios5340 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this. I am in my silver era with a new stage happening in my career that I finally achieved. Been praying for this for the last 4 years but now I am still doubting myself. Thanks to algorithms I stumbled upon this video and subscribed. Hope to have more of this.

  • @flores2629
    @flores2629 Рік тому +3

    Thank you, Eleonora🌹 We are together in this process.

  • @KK-tv5kh
    @KK-tv5kh Рік тому +3

    I am currently job hunting. And I always fail at my interview. Whenever they ask me about my past, I feel negative. I am afraid of being confident on myself. Watching your video, I learned to watch over my mouth so that others will embrace me to their team. I find it hard but I will definetly step over my burden.

    • @Muslim_5709
      @Muslim_5709 Рік тому

      you should study about islam these will change your life. And you will be successful in
      your life

  • @elhoucein7172
    @elhoucein7172 6 місяців тому

    don't gave a person more than his or her worth ,deal wth people as they're deallig you .

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 Рік тому +1

    Good advice

  • @barrymohammed8420
    @barrymohammed8420 6 місяців тому

    Jesus is Lord......U Just need to have God and u good ....power in your tongue

  • @ΑχιλλεαςΡετσης
    @ΑχιλλεαςΡετσης 5 місяців тому

    I am respectful and I love the girls ❤ and my name is Achilleas

  • @11DarkAcademia
    @11DarkAcademia 10 місяців тому +2

    Authentic content. Great personality. I love the vibes and the teachings. Much gratitude and love 🤍

  • @BenediktusRivaldo
    @BenediktusRivaldo 9 місяців тому

    Keika kita merumuskan sesuatu bisakah rumusan itu menjadi nyata❤❤❤

  • @Captain_america11
    @Captain_america11 9 місяців тому

    Oooo be confident by watch your videos wow'ss funny😂🤣🤘

  • @rachelrosendo
    @rachelrosendo Рік тому +15

    I love this so much! Well said sister. ❤

  • @Mr.Abdulaziz_Amerika
    @Mr.Abdulaziz_Amerika 8 місяців тому

    You are very beautiful girl, because you are english teacher 😅😊

  • @РоманС-я4з
    @РоманС-я4з 6 місяців тому

    Оф хую эим ту би.) -Для русского уха подозрительная фраза.))

  • @hasslinemohamed6961
    @hasslinemohamed6961 Рік тому

    kau sendiri pun tak confident, nak ajar orang pulak

  • @shahramkarimi1573
    @shahramkarimi1573 Рік тому

    You didn't mentioned any examples to make easier to understand

  • @Arjuna266
    @Arjuna266 7 місяців тому

    I can only fully agree with what is being said here 👌💪

  • @yoonari9840
    @yoonari9840 9 місяців тому

    Focus on your inner self and know your self-worth.

  • @trendingnairobi
    @trendingnairobi Рік тому

    I like the content am watching from Kenya 😊 you look good

  • @JuveriyaRockzz
    @JuveriyaRockzz 5 місяців тому

    Thank you, lots of love from India

  • @ovidiu100
    @ovidiu100 8 місяців тому

    negative vibes in your speech, that's how the ego speaks

  • @adrielerosa7537
    @adrielerosa7537 8 місяців тому

    😊 Eu quero que você tenha consciência do poder da sua boca

  • @SarraMahrouz
    @SarraMahrouz 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank u girl😭😭 you made my day you remind me to focus and commit to healing again may god bless you

  • @rafiqrr898
    @rafiqrr898 Рік тому +2

    👍❤️❤️ ur words

  • @vanshkhyani8840
    @vanshkhyani8840 Рік тому

    Exactly honey bun sugar crumbs.

  • @morozovamusic
    @morozovamusic Рік тому +2

    Thank you!!! That was very helpful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheMeghajoshi
    @TheMeghajoshi 11 місяців тому

    How u know this or learned about insecurities