How to be smart and confident

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  • Опубліковано 17 гру 2024

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  • @galinamyagkova3610
    @galinamyagkova3610 Рік тому +1177

    Im 43 , and im still learning how to love myself and to be confident 😅

    • @Hajer._216
      @Hajer._216 Рік тому +145

      Why not ? It‘s better then living the rest of your life insecure it’s never to Kate to love your self and appreciate your self ❤️

    • @ella4175
      @ella4175 Рік тому +47

      You’re inspiring and confident 💖💖

    • @Onwaytou
      @Onwaytou Рік тому +41

      The age doesn't matter at all ,any person deserves to be happy and confident at any age . You are an amazing person for trying and still willing to learn. Keep going!💞

    • @malakbenslimane9723
      @malakbenslimane9723 Рік тому +5

      @@stupidheadbandomg me tooo💋🔥

    • @TaraMae212
      @TaraMae212 Рік тому +4

      Same..

  • @qianwu2089
    @qianwu2089 Рік тому +308

    1 watch your mouth
    2 let people be
    3 do not let anybody take credit for you
    4 hold your own [do not show your insecurities]
    5 show grace in your behavior
    6 earn your respect
    7 focus on inside [self-worth]

    • @karengalvan8699
      @karengalvan8699 Рік тому +3

      also to be strong is to let it go '' amen ''

    • @denismelvin222
      @denismelvin222 9 місяців тому +2

      Stand on your own two feet!
      🐾 Keep away from the riff-raff!

    • @akifaiqbal
      @akifaiqbal 5 місяців тому

      You're a queen 👑

  • @theshih-tzudad4068
    @theshih-tzudad4068 10 місяців тому +13

    I am 54 and still learning how to be a better person. this video makes a lot of sense.

  • @manyatasambyal6073
    @manyatasambyal6073 Рік тому +94

    i usually don't comment but everything that you said is pure gold.sometimes its hard to realise what's actually going wrong and i feel blessed to have come across a person like you.lots of love and support from my side.

  • @enzogalante5986
    @enzogalante5986 Рік тому +45

    Wow, what a majestic lady; beauty, femininity, elegance, style, class, confidence, charisma, intelegence, knowledge, wisdom.

  • @steveyantis
    @steveyantis Рік тому +238

    I approve this message 😊
    What a role model for our young people. Listen up and level up.

  • @zhiyipeng-dz8vu
    @zhiyipeng-dz8vu Рік тому +8

    Video Summary:
    The video discusses the importance of being mindful of what we say and how we talk about ourselves and others, as it can have a significant impact on our relationships and self-worth. It emphasizes the need to develop a strong sense of self and set boundaries in order to demand respect from others. The speaker also highlights the importance of focusing on inner healing and self-fulfillment in order to build true confidence.
    - 00:00 The power of your words reflects who you are and smart people judge others based on how they talk about themselves and others.
    - 02:32 Surround yourself with people who uplift you and take no credit for your success, while being aware of those who may use your insecurities against you.
    - 05:06 Small actions that we may not be aware of can have a deep impact on someone else's life, as illustrated by a story of a man who lost respect due to a woman humiliating him in front of others.
    - 07:42 Communicate your preferences, desires, needs, and deal breakers in a relationship to establish boundaries and demand respect.
    - 10:14 To be smart and confident, focus on your inner self and work on healing and self-worth.
    - 12:48 Building a strong relationship with oneself through self-reflection and personal growth leads to confidence and self-respect.
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  • @louis.sela04
    @louis.sela04 Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much!!! Work on myself everyday is the best thing i could do! So happy to not try to fit in. Pride yourself on your willingness to improve

  • @Nat_nat512
    @Nat_nat512 Рік тому +2

    I' ve notice that many women who talk so mature and now they are so successful had experienced bullying and abuse behaviors. I'm so happy that from something so bad came out strong and powerful women! Go girl you can conquer the world!

  • @TheDragonforces
    @TheDragonforces Рік тому +173

    Can you please share your perspective on dealing with arguments? How to react when someone says something to hurt you or belittle you? How not to get angry and defend yourself? How to contain anger? I know it all comes to self worth but hearing your perspective helps a lot. Love your channel ❤

    • @Userr87660
      @Userr87660 Рік тому +34

      You can never lose your temper. You never let it get to you or affect you. You have to be really calm in these situations and keep your voice down and talk slowly. When you do that it makes you look powerful because they failed in triggering you, and that’s when they realise they have zero power over you.

    • @iamfree3260
      @iamfree3260 Рік тому +8

      They cnt hurt U if U kno who Ru

    • @rainxstormm
      @rainxstormm Рік тому +5

      Remind yourself to take deep breaths. You can first tell them how your feel and that what they said hurt you. let them explain their side and explain yours but Tell them that you deserve to be respected. You can then walk away and give them and yourself time to think. Then come back calm and continue the conversation. If they still don’t respect you then they aren’t the person for you

    • @maryambukhari7635
      @maryambukhari7635 Рік тому +2

      I want one on this too

    • @dunianns2716
      @dunianns2716 Рік тому

      There are very good books on psychology about it

  • @ellechan4378
    @ellechan4378 Рік тому +47

    self worth = confidence & respect

  • @Mikay944
    @Mikay944 Рік тому +15

    "Trying to go to level 3 when you haven't completed step 1", that hit hard.

  • @matthewcormier8744
    @matthewcormier8744 Рік тому +14

    Confidence is my trademark

  • @aesstheticfate2893
    @aesstheticfate2893 Рік тому +22

    I'm 18 years old and I really resonate with everything you say because I also want to grow into a fine lady and grow emotionally mature. People also tell me that I think too much and stuffs like that. However, what you said are just pure gold and I feel reassured to be in this journey. Its also amazing that a lot of like-minded women are in this community. Thank you for your message. You're a blessing and please continue blessing others!

  • @РадоцветаМиткова

    This video just showed up on the recommended list just at the right moment and says everything I didn't understand and have been wondering about.
    Thank you so much for the advices and the experience you share, keep on helping people, keep on the good job❤

  • @lailaniCleary
    @lailaniCleary Рік тому +3

    I needed to watch this because I get so angry at peoples actions and will use very foul inappropriate language . Recently I found out a friend was speaking bad on me, and I decided to remain silent and distance myself instead of cussing her out like my old self would’ve done, thank you for this video !❤

  • @GioHimonPro
    @GioHimonPro Рік тому +4

    Very good advice! Realized this only a month ago. Confidence only holds any merit when you can back it up with self worth!

  • @DilCardyn
    @DilCardyn Рік тому +3

    The transcript emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, respectful communication, and self-worth. It advises on maintaining dignity, setting boundaries, and prioritizing inner growth for genuine confidence and fulfillment.

  • @sadiasaeed3772
    @sadiasaeed3772 11 місяців тому +2

    She needs more reach fr !! There are other good motivator queens also exist ik but after wizard Liz I got the vibe from u !! ✨☀️

  • @SarraMahrouz
    @SarraMahrouz Рік тому +1

    Thank u girl😭😭 you made my day you remind me to focus and commit to healing again may god bless you

  • @whitelilies531
    @whitelilies531 2 місяці тому

    I'm Blessed to know this beautiful girl 💓 thank you baby

  • @lyrify7841
    @lyrify7841 10 місяців тому

    I realized how a person I know changed on me after opening up too much to her. She changed her work and joined the people I know. These people has told me their secrets and everything. When I saw her worried about the new environment, I started telling her everything she need to know including the secrets of my people. Not long after staying with them, I saw her change her perception on me. She stopped talking much even started not to show interest when I talk. This was the point when I realized I made a mistake and I was getting soo emotional being around her that I talked other peoples things. I am too late to change what happened but I learnt. Don't be emotional around the people you like to be with. I swear to you that I was never a person like this and I am little depressed when realizing what I have done.
    WATCH YOUR MOUTH IS THE REAL GOLD HERE!!!

  • @MaryumAziz-tc2oc
    @MaryumAziz-tc2oc Рік тому +2

    Its feel like this is the whole summary and the key point which we should learn in our life for ourselves

  • @Sunny47171
    @Sunny47171 8 місяців тому

    I rarely like videos on UA-cam and your video is one of them. The way you showed how to be confident as well as caring at the same time is just amazing. I just would say ' Thank You ' ✅

  • @eramaebarrios5340
    @eramaebarrios5340 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this. I am in my silver era with a new stage happening in my career that I finally achieved. Been praying for this for the last 4 years but now I am still doubting myself. Thanks to algorithms I stumbled upon this video and subscribed. Hope to have more of this.

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 Рік тому +31

    This girl is an inspiration ❤ good vibes to everybody here 🫶🏽✨💕

    • @ab-jc8nv
      @ab-jc8nv Рік тому

      Hi u do yoga?

    • @kflecha1
      @kflecha1 Рік тому

      @@ab-jc8nv no but I would like to learn

  • @loveethan3000
    @loveethan3000 Рік тому +18

    Always always speaking the truth that needs to be heard by all women. Thank you, Eleonora.

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  Рік тому +1

      Thank you My Dear 🙏

    • @Moses-tz9fv
      @Moses-tz9fv Рік тому

      @@oxaleonorahi 😊

    • @UdayYadav-vj8ri
      @UdayYadav-vj8ri 11 місяців тому

      ​@@oxaleonora will you marry me please I like you😊

  • @Ninamitchell101
    @Ninamitchell101 11 місяців тому

    Wow…this was very much well said. This help me realize exactly what my problem is. I’ve always knew that I have to fix myself internally and externally. BUT, this whole time I’ve been just so focused on the outside of myself. What others thinks, how do I look etc.. Always trying to come off as confident on the outside. Not evening realizing that when I’m alone I often feel like I’m not doing enough etc. So to completely ignore my internal feelings. I just stay busy . That’s my problem not addressing my internal feelings.

  • @ange1ove
    @ange1ove Рік тому +3

    Ahhhh my goodness! Always so wonderful to hear these beautiful words.
    I truly love and appreciate you.
    I’m sending loving energy your way.

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  Рік тому +2

      Thank you my Dear 🙏I appreciate your kind words

  • @sabasayyed9855
    @sabasayyed9855 9 місяців тому

    I needed you the most to deal with people surrounding me 🥺

  • @shawntelchinn84
    @shawntelchinn84 Рік тому +7

    Best video on the whole UA-cam!!!❤❤❤Thank you! This is literally the message I’ve been needing to hear for my entire adult life!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽I really appreciate you for this message!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @jaywessy
      @jaywessy Рік тому

      Liz The Wizard is also not bad at all...😉😏
      ua-cam.com/video/D3JQJ-U12Y0/v-deo.htmlsi=FfWynVwGGyeIJxuz

    • @oxaleonora
      @oxaleonora  Рік тому +1

      Thank you!🤍

  • @diannoorhayati
    @diannoorhayati Рік тому +1

    This entire video is so eye opening omg thank you Sis

  • @momotaro0410
    @momotaro0410 11 місяців тому +1

    Very true. That is why I am always look like a loser. I let people walk over me and disrespect me.

  • @11DarkAcademia
    @11DarkAcademia Рік тому +2

    Authentic content. Great personality. I love the vibes and the teachings. Much gratitude and love 🤍

  • @KK-tv5kh
    @KK-tv5kh Рік тому +3

    I am currently job hunting. And I always fail at my interview. Whenever they ask me about my past, I feel negative. I am afraid of being confident on myself. Watching your video, I learned to watch over my mouth so that others will embrace me to their team. I find it hard but I will definetly step over my burden.

    • @Muslim_5709
      @Muslim_5709 Рік тому

      you should study about islam these will change your life. And you will be successful in
      your life

  • @Maggietheebaddie1948
    @Maggietheebaddie1948 Рік тому +11

    This is such a beautiful message ❤

  • @karengalvan8699
    @karengalvan8699 Рік тому

    yes ! we need to work ourselves , and be wise with money , relationship with any one

  • @antonija2974
    @antonija2974 Рік тому +3

    I have been loving your videos, every single word that has come out of your mouth has been the pure truth. Keep up with the good work ;)

  • @aureliacairo4424
    @aureliacairo4424 Рік тому +15

    Love that I came across this vid the first day of my senior year of college! We have got to stay sharp and authentic to ourselves as we work towards our goals 💛

  • @mariana_z
    @mariana_z Рік тому +4

    About confidence. I always want to have it. But,I haven't. And now I understand why. Thank you for this video. You're the best. I love youuuu❤❤😘😘

  • @lilianaszo
    @lilianaszo Рік тому +5

    Everything you said is so valuable

  • @gabrielcarvajal5666
    @gabrielcarvajal5666 Рік тому

    I've been working on my goals for a while but how you said, I felt empty when I was on my own because I was trying to fill the expectations of other who don't really care of me

  • @dikshakatake467
    @dikshakatake467 Рік тому +10

    I am loving your videos girl!
    Never before I would wait for someone to post videos, just so good, pure and definitely has the potential to change the world for good!
    I am on the journey of discovering my self worth, would love to hear some more of your thoughts on how can I do it better.

    • @ab-jc8nv
      @ab-jc8nv Рік тому +1

      Hi u do meditation?

  • @freyaakotharri1292
    @freyaakotharri1292 Рік тому

    i am still 16 and i would say i have not experienced much in life but till now whatever i have its been soo intense always and being an empath made me really question about alot of things in life and those little incidents that i experienced have made me a much better person in life . I started or rather i would i was guided by spirits arround me to focus on myself internally and since then every aspect of my life has changed for better good 🧿and since then whenever this topic comes up and i realise that what i did for myself was the best for me i feel soo proud and soo happy for myself and its the best feeling in this world I BET YOU , and i would love to see every human experience this feeling.Sending love and blessings to everyone 💖🧿

  • @Abdurrahman02Sarip
    @Abdurrahman02Sarip 8 місяців тому

    So happy to stumbled on this channel.

  • @aminuumar2522
    @aminuumar2522 Рік тому +4

    Quite educative and inspiring. I fall in love with your channel and your videos are really amazing!

  • @madisonfox_
    @madisonfox_ Рік тому +1

    you’re amazing. thank you for all the amazing information and mindsets you have and share. hope you’re doing good 🤍

  • @wiseriverhealing
    @wiseriverhealing Рік тому

    Your content and delivery are much appreciated. Thanks so much for sharing.

  • @diyorasoyibjonova7108
    @diyorasoyibjonova7108 Рік тому +2

    Awww thank you💗 love this video so much🌻❤️

  • @gabriellasuarez3287
    @gabriellasuarez3287 Рік тому +1

    Thank you!! Good luck 🤞 ❤

  • @iamfree3260
    @iamfree3260 Рік тому +4

    I guess we just gotta love ourselves for when we r nice and not nice and with makeup or not makeup or filters lol?!
    I think we tend to be the ppl we admire the most. I admired the ppl who loved me and didn't judge me though. IV been that person before
    But I'm in a phase where ppl who look distorted or are arrogant repels me and I can't seem to help it but I also feel mean because it feels like not unconditional love. But maybe it is a good thing to get away from those frequencies. But overall I wanna be stronger than anyone's frequencies

  • @karlaperez6376
    @karlaperez6376 Рік тому

    You are such a blessing for sharing this perspective , thank you

  • @amandeepsandhu6368
    @amandeepsandhu6368 11 місяців тому

    This is such a beautiful message ❤

  • @zaijw
    @zaijw Рік тому

    Literally, the video helped me in a way. The words are sweet, logical, and understandable. I loved your channel very much

  • @nazhazidani862
    @nazhazidani862 10 місяців тому

    I like the way how you treat this subject, you are amaizing

  • @sharonqui
    @sharonqui 11 місяців тому

    I’m so happy that I found your channel 💕

  • @honey_xoxo_
    @honey_xoxo_ Рік тому +2

    Okey but I'm an introvert with lots of mental disorders and trauma caused by my own parents , they treat me like animals and don't leave a chance to insult in front of relatives and are very toxic . Now I'm always helpless in front of others cuz I'm always scared and anxious of every little thing and nobody(friends) stays after they had their therapy time with me as I have a humorous and funny personality (not a people pleaser, I love delivering jokes) in front of who don't know my truth but I can't fake it for long , it's very energy sucking. I don't tell people what I'm going through cus that makes me uncomfortable and anxious.

  • @دروسالمحاسبةوالمراجعة
    @دروسالمحاسبةوالمراجعة 10 місяців тому

    yes, I absolutely agree with you. if you watch a mouth of any body and hear what he/she tacks , you will create your opinion about her/his self.... thanks for this video.

  • @obakeng_k
    @obakeng_k Рік тому

    You - you are just a fantastic, wise and centred woman. May you be blessed by the Most High

  • @rigzinangmo6460
    @rigzinangmo6460 7 місяців тому

    So satisfying thank you 💕🫶

  • @prettygirlwhispers
    @prettygirlwhispers 9 місяців тому

    Yes, I totally agree with you. Love your content.

  • @UroojFatima-y4s
    @UroojFatima-y4s 10 місяців тому

    Well said how u realistically represent.

  • @fifi-kt5ig
    @fifi-kt5ig 11 місяців тому

    What a lovely speech
    keep going

  • @katarinacestmoi
    @katarinacestmoi Рік тому +2

    Love this! Thank you!

  • @flores2629
    @flores2629 Рік тому +3

    Thank you, Eleonora🌹 We are together in this process.

  • @emmamicheletti6013
    @emmamicheletti6013 Рік тому

    thank you so much for your words, you've really helped me

  • @DionysusAlexanderChrist
    @DionysusAlexanderChrist Рік тому

    Eleonora is extremely attractive and her voice is honey never the less she has great advice.

  • @dododo2710
    @dododo2710 Рік тому

    Goddd I love your videos girl, everything here was soooo true and beautiful. Literally tysm, it just opened my eyes.

  • @ariannabradley6742
    @ariannabradley6742 Рік тому +1

    Wow, this has me fanning tears…thank you🙏

  • @whoisholloway
    @whoisholloway 9 місяців тому +1

    Great perspective!

  • @elovery5974
    @elovery5974 Рік тому +1

    Love your videos so much! You are a real role model! I wish that young girls that are lost see you’re videos! They are so inspiring and they really help!!!

  • @mariannasantorinaiou3535
    @mariannasantorinaiou3535 Рік тому

    I completely agree beautifu!!!
    Thank you . God bless you❤🙏💯👍🥰

  • @SleepyGrassyMountain-fe1mz
    @SleepyGrassyMountain-fe1mz 11 місяців тому

    Ur video is very beneficial I see ur video I am 18 I am confident still I see ur video bcoz I love to see ur video ❤

  • @MyEnglishChannel
    @MyEnglishChannel 11 місяців тому

    Nice video 👍thanks for your wonderful video on how to start loving ourselves, to always guard our mouth when socializing with people, and to act gracefully.. 👏💪♥️

  • @alsnafiehmohammed1622
    @alsnafiehmohammed1622 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Eleonora 💕✨

  • @JuveriyaRockzz
    @JuveriyaRockzz 7 місяців тому

    Thank you, lots of love from India

  • @parrotmithii
    @parrotmithii 11 місяців тому

    I am loving your videos girl!

  • @karimkaryab7332
    @karimkaryab7332 Рік тому

    You are really out standing , keep it up.

  • @dala3564
    @dala3564 10 місяців тому

    you made great points. I appreciate it)

  • @toobarehman8416
    @toobarehman8416 Рік тому

    Omg this is by far the best video on confidence I've ever watched❤❤❤

  • @vanshipatel4832
    @vanshipatel4832 Рік тому

    The video was really helpful moreover you really seem like a very good hearted person 😃

  • @999sk09
    @999sk09 9 місяців тому

    I agree 👍👍leadership thinkinG👌👌👌A CLASS VIDEO 👏👏Marvellous video 👍👍

  • @deshirax621
    @deshirax621 Рік тому

    First Albanian queen i See talking about stuff like this on this platform 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

  • @WatchingDicas
    @WatchingDicas 11 місяців тому

    I loved listening to you, Eleonora !!! I am from Brazil.

  • @isv3ellv
    @isv3ellv Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video, it helped me further! ♡

  • @dearayuna
    @dearayuna Рік тому +1

    Insightful speaks I think. Thank you

  • @rachelrosendo
    @rachelrosendo Рік тому +15

    I love this so much! Well said sister. ❤

  • @Fruzsi888
    @Fruzsi888 Рік тому

    Eleonora I never saw a chanel like yours in youtube you're miracle❤

  • @feliciazhang2852
    @feliciazhang2852 Рік тому

    thank you so much for sharing❤ ily! it helps so much

  • @BenediktusRivaldo
    @BenediktusRivaldo Рік тому

    Untuk dapat di kenang orang kita dapat memberi kasih dan harapan yg positif dan di rindukan orng banyak❤❤❤

  • @glamourdreamgirl634
    @glamourdreamgirl634 Рік тому

    I am currently job hurting but you can giving confidence then helpful in my future growth they are all the tips which share ❤

  • @morozovamusic
    @morozovamusic Рік тому +2

    Thank you!!! That was very helpful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @roseariesnguyen1581
    @roseariesnguyen1581 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing Eleonora ❤

  • @Greenrivers14
    @Greenrivers14 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video!

  • @BenediktusRivaldo
    @BenediktusRivaldo Рік тому

    Bicara ekonomi mengatur keungan dan guna uang yg sesungguhnya ❤❤❤

  • @bianbde1683
    @bianbde1683 11 місяців тому

    Sister I love your videos! I have anxiety that affects me in all parts of my life. Maybe some life experiences when I was a kid made me like that.

  • @Nocturnal_Lorena
    @Nocturnal_Lorena Рік тому

    Thank you sis! 🌸🤍

  • @sara9181
    @sara9181 Рік тому

    Thankyou so much for this deep insight!

  • @happymeta4822
    @happymeta4822 11 місяців тому

    you are just amazing because I'm not a good English speaker but your English into easy to understand just amazing the way you speak English thanks for those

  • @Comingintoglory
    @Comingintoglory Рік тому

    I love u so much!!!!! Thank you!!! I love watching and listening to ur videos!!! Ur amazing