What Is The Cognitive Attitude Of The Nemesis Function? | Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph

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  • @SilicateOverlord
    @SilicateOverlord 5 років тому +178

    This is s a c r e d k n o w l e g e

  • @swampy2008
    @swampy2008 4 роки тому +240

    16:22 ISTP, INTP
    27:50 ESTJ, ENTJ
    29:00 ESFJ, ENFJ
    29:47 ENFP, ENTP
    31:32 ISFP, INFP
    33:43 ISTJ, ISFJ
    36:34 INTJ, INFJ
    43:02 ESTP, ESFP

  • @ShadowQuik
    @ShadowQuik 5 років тому +153

    I find it unfortunate that jungian psychology and stuff doesn’t seem to be taken seriously anymore because it doesn’t conform to the “modern” approach to science. If only society didn’t push it away and saw its merit in allowing us to achieve more social harmony.
    To me, it’s not about how “scientifically sound” a theory is. It’s about listening to the theory, verifying its merit based on a quick scan of my personal experiences, observations in the world, and general intuition. Then if it stands up, I will accept the theory.
    You have person A who accepts the theory, actually applies it in his day to day life, and BENEFITS from it. Then you have person B who rejected the theory and misses out on all these benefits. Moral of the story, don’t be person B - always keep your ears open.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +28

      well siad

    • @LionhartM
      @LionhartM 5 років тому +7

      You're not wrong

    • @7dogguy
      @7dogguy 5 років тому +12

      siad

    • @iulianoprea6659
      @iulianoprea6659 5 років тому +1

      ShadowQuik You ENFJ are you not?

    • @bartnauwelaerts4283
      @bartnauwelaerts4283 4 роки тому +3

      Scientific validation doesn't work with 1 person A and 1 person B. You'd need a large group of people to test your theory and a second group to compare. For example, you take 100 people who are ENFJ according to your theory and convince them to follow your guidelines on how an ENFJ could improve themselves. You also take a second group of 100 people who are not ENFJ and let them follow the same guidelines. Afterwards, you compare the results. If the first group isn't doing significantly better, you can trash the theory.
      I'd love to see the results of such test because - while I'm convinced it's useful to identify personality types - I wonder for example why there would be 16 and not some other number. In my opinion, this "science" is currently at the level medicine was a 1000 years ago when the cure for fever was to let someone bleed.
      As soon as someone can produce undeniable and independently repeatable results, this science will be taken seriously. Until that time, it's all simply unproven theory.

  • @D3tyHuff
    @D3tyHuff 5 років тому +120

    Btw, 37:25 should be a meme. "You wanna trigger my Se demon?".

  • @hedgeearthridge6807
    @hedgeearthridge6807 5 років тому +144

    Just on the side note, that is a very interesting way to think about the Ego functions, like a family.
    Hero: the superhero father
    Parent: the responsible, caring mother
    Child: the innocent, enthusiastic, slightly naive kid
    Inferior: the loving baby, who needs tons of love and care

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +24

      yes

    • @antanowrites
      @antanowrites 4 роки тому +9

      Or the superhero mother and the responsible, caring father

    • @aaronrashid2075
      @aaronrashid2075 4 роки тому +1

      Who says the functions had to be opposite genders? Lol

    • @_linlin_
      @_linlin_ Рік тому

      @@77thFromChrist yeah the mother superhero works better and makes more sense

  • @euphli4267
    @euphli4267 5 років тому +142

    You should give yourself more credit since you're making something new, taking its own shape, after synthesizing all these other experts! If you're steering typology understanding towards a more accurate truth, there's a lot of people depending on your fine-tuning :D Although I appreciate all the citations of everyone's ideas, the way you put it together seems to have a lot of your unique insights, too.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +42

      ^^ well said. I am so thankful you are still with me, it gives me hope.

    • @lizsanchirico1893
      @lizsanchirico1893 5 років тому +6

      What a wonderful comment ❤

    • @damianalbert6441
      @damianalbert6441 3 роки тому +1

      Oh the synthesis is revelatory indeed

    • @Dannys.channel
      @Dannys.channel 2 роки тому +1

      So true, I’m glad you noticed that too!

    • @nethercords
      @nethercords 2 роки тому +1

      i fifth this comment

  • @dairdb
    @dairdb 6 років тому +52

    Trying to get an INTJ to like you and trust you is horrible...

    • @Sniegel
      @Sniegel 4 роки тому +6

      I understand. The INTJ must mature first.
      I apologize on behalf of other INTJs.

    • @Broadbeansy
      @Broadbeansy 4 роки тому +8

      Sniegel INTJ’s are suspicious of their surroundings by nature. The Ni dom is always looking at the hidden meanings, they’re not immature if they don’t trust immediately. You need to gain trust, it’s not just given.

    • @jacobwiren8142
      @jacobwiren8142 4 роки тому

      My trust is a precious thing and an awesome privilege, but I'll give it to you if you earn it. Perks include intense loyalty and access to my ESFP subconscious, which is very funny.

  • @meghans527
    @meghans527 5 років тому +38

    I love how you get so into the lecture and start yelling it's really engaging to listen to someone so clearly passionate about what they're talking about

  • @lizsanchirico1893
    @lizsanchirico1893 5 років тому +50

    I agree that developing the unconscious = maturity. You should totally do a lecture delineating how to get there, and how to make the most of it once you are. For example as an INFJ, when I'm in my ENFP shadow I write down all of my seemingly never ending notions, and then connect the dots & fully flesh them out once I'm back in my ego. Please never stop doing what you're doing or let anything derail you; I remember reading some of the vitriolic comments a while ago in response to your INFJ video & thinking "they're letting their reptilian brain take over & are missing the point entirely". I refuse to be one of those reactionary & immature INFJs. The reality is that so much of typology is pure common sense--what do well rounded, aspiring individuals strive to do every single day? The obvious answer is work on their weaknesses, fears, and insecurities. I suspect that this is why Jungian psych feels very much like everything coming together; at the heart of it, it's simply about becoming a fully integrated human being and the best possible version of yourself. Why on earth then, would anyone so adamantly rail against a tool that facilitates this kind of growth? It's beyond me. Anyway lol thanks for enduring the long comment & keep on keepin' on👍👍👍

    • @ac-jn1iq
      @ac-jn1iq 3 роки тому +2

      Immature INFJ’s have a tendency for hitler rage I’ve noticed lol

  • @uberchap6934
    @uberchap6934 5 років тому +59

    This is probably a very ENFP thing to say, but I can't wait for when you are famous and I can say I followed you before it was cool. 😎
    It's amazing you know all this stuff, how much did you learn from your mentors vs from the books you have read? How did your mentors figure this out and why didn't they share it, or did they? How do I get better a typing, I'm having trouble with my friends? Do I watch interviews of the people you have typed in your videos and try to work backwards and see the elements you described in your how to type videos? I've seen all your videos btw, this is also the second time I've ever made a comment on UA-cam and the first was recommending your channel lol.
    I'll ask the questions in discord as well so you don't have to answer here.
    I also have an identical twin brother, how would that affect the development of the four sides of the mind, we believe he is also an ENFP.
    Anyway, that's a lot but
    I'm trying to stay charitable 👍😁
    Keep typing!
    A loyal thought vampire :)

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +30

      Dope. I will answer all that in an autobiography.

    • @bethlanglois9361
      @bethlanglois9361 4 роки тому +1

      Lol loyal thought vampire 😂

  • @VokialShekou
    @VokialShekou 5 років тому +80

    I can imagine a cartoon series could be created based on these stories with the 8 functions inside of the human mind. Like in the animation movie 'Inside out', or figures, knights sitting around the round table, debating. It would be really educational and entertaining at the same time. And it would also reach a lot of people, also children. Easy to say as a bystander, I know.

  • @akondayeelicerio8554
    @akondayeelicerio8554 4 роки тому +28

    As an ENTP i’ve been able to use my functions to not only help my life, but the people around me too and its all because i can type them, talk to the right functions, and socially engineer them towards a better way of thinking. Thus giving themselves the tools to have a better life. And its all because of you so thank you so much☺️

  • @spoonsnaper
    @spoonsnaper 5 років тому +110

    “The Tangent is strong with this one” - Yoda

    • @dtrupl
      @dtrupl 5 років тому +17

      Actually "Strong with this one the tangent is" :D

    • @LionhartM
      @LionhartM 5 років тому +3

      Haha it took him 11.5 minutes into the video before he started talking about the actual topic, and he didn't start going through the types until 16:30.

    • @shadynail4723
      @shadynail4723 5 років тому

      @@arturkvieira what type

  • @scrillion6
    @scrillion6 5 років тому +29

    Me INFJ...my mother INTJ. Her guidance “Stephanie! Are you listening to me?! I swear to god you are always lost in the clouds! You need to get back to reality. Get out of lala land and listen to me! You must NEVER trust anyone. You must rely on yourself!” Then takes a long drag from her cigarette and picks up her 16 ounce glass of vodka tonic. Thus endith the lesson. Now I leave and go climb my favorite tree.

    • @Blackrazor_Daystar
      @Blackrazor_Daystar 5 років тому +14

      scrillion6 I'm INTJ and on behalf of us, I apologize for your childhood hurts.

    • @scrillion6
      @scrillion6 5 років тому +1

      💚

    • @malazforever8222
      @malazforever8222 4 роки тому +1

      @@Blackrazor_Daystar lol that's cute.

  • @katlauren9161
    @katlauren9161 5 років тому +34

    Whenever you yell at the camera I can't help but think that you would make a great charismatic dictator 😂😉
    Great lecture as always 👌

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +13

      one day I will get the camera to melt.

    • @katlauren9161
      @katlauren9161 5 років тому +1

      @@CSJoseph lol

  • @xandirkuro4790
    @xandirkuro4790 5 років тому +20

    The dope is strong in this one,
    ...
    "Master what happenned?"
    "A disturbance in the dope I see, wary we must be for the dopest season overdope us may"
    *gets ready for more #thedopest *

  • @arsj147
    @arsj147 5 років тому +60

    man please dont yell at the camera, i just wanna learn

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +53

      i just wnt to be able to melt metal with my voice

    • @salaheddinecherrak6386
      @salaheddinecherrak6386 4 роки тому +4

      C.S. Joseph. that would be cool 😂😂

    • @Mart-Bro
      @Mart-Bro 4 роки тому

      @@alex.does.comedy Very good point, well made

    • @williamcompitello2302
      @williamcompitello2302 3 роки тому

      Se demon, bruh.

    • @ac-jn1iq
      @ac-jn1iq 3 роки тому

      Not, I like it. It’s passion

  • @rebecca1326
    @rebecca1326 5 років тому +29

    I just want to say thank you for being so honest about the INFJ type. I literally teared up a few times but that's not a bad thing. I know just about everything that you say about INFJ's because I try to be as self aware as possible but to hear them out loud and to understand the damage that my flaws can do... it encourages me to stop hoping that I'm sufficiently covering up my flaws and actually fix them. Thank you.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +8

      you are most welcome

    • @13kiber
      @13kiber 4 роки тому +3

      Rebecca Hovland Yeah. His lectures can really touch a soft spot. and sometimes it can be a roller coaster of emotions (but mostly crying due to painful past experiences explained) - ESFJ here

  • @Percival2755
    @Percival2755 4 роки тому +8

    So Ne nemesis shows a list of potentially dark fates for Ni hero to avoid and it asks Se inferior to to look at what other people are doing so that Ni hero chooses a better future. Am I correct?

  • @david_oliveira71
    @david_oliveira71 5 років тому +21

    14:45 How to use the Nemesis function.
    (It carries a person's worry, a person's concern, it carries a person's confrontrational attitude.)
    16:22 ISTP, INTP Te Nemesis
    29:02 ESFJ, ENFJ Fi Nemesis
    Thank you Mr Joseph. Very grateful for your Input!!

  • @juliblum4353
    @juliblum4353 4 роки тому +9

    Chase: ENTPs and ENFPs intertwine people's futures.
    Also Chase: Suggests to Fe and Fi Heros to go to the exact same place to become mature.
    I see what you did there, buddy.

  • @morgangreen2601
    @morgangreen2601 5 років тому +65

    Your system is the most comprehensive and understandable one. 🧡

    • @Emily.J.
      @Emily.J. 4 роки тому +7

      Right?? Like finally all this mbti stuff makes sense

  • @thorfox3562
    @thorfox3562 Рік тому +8

    Like Carl Jung, one reading of anything he wrote is not enough, one listening to a C S Joseph talk is not enough, not even close. Listening multiple times is needed, the content is so deep. Unbelievably rich. Brilliant.

  • @dtrupl
    @dtrupl 5 років тому +17

    seriously cant wait for the critic function, great work as always man
    36:32 GOTTA LOVE MY PARANOIA LMAO, but seriously tho it's real and watching ur videos is helping me fight it big time, so...uhhh...thanks for that

  • @A.J.Breadman
    @A.J.Breadman 6 років тому +25

    His hair was just the start...

  • @ryanbrowne1094
    @ryanbrowne1094 5 років тому +15

    INTP here. I'm new to all this cognitive functions stuff and just been binge watching your vids for the past 2 weeks lol. Fascinating. Just subbed. It's like you've given me a new tool to hack away at my perception of the world and past interactions. Thanks to you I've come to understand and accept a number of personal things I'd like to mention, like why my brother and I see things completely differently and have often fallen out (I predict he's an ISFP) after listening to you I started to talk more on the moral side of things and his interest in cooking etc. and was surprised at his depth, we now tend to get on better. With my second brother he seems like an INTJ, I guess this explains why I tend to get on well with him and we would often spend long hours talking about abstract ideas like no-one else I know. There's also a 'friend' of mine who I've never quite understood. He seems to lack any logic or meaning in his actions and has really frustrated me when he starts talking about any subject I know something of; I've internally judged him as an empty-headed bleeding-heart liberal, so I think he's an ESFJ or P which I suppose would explain why we have zero in common.
    I'm unsure how 'solid' the whole mbti cognitive function science is, but it's definitely helped me better accept the way I think (stopped me thinking there's something wrong with me) and now helps me see beyond the differences I have with people I've interacted with. You've created so many light-bulb moments for me. Thanks. Look forward to your future vids

    • @thorfox3562
      @thorfox3562 Рік тому

      You won’t be disappointed, this is some of the best content not only on UA-cam but on the entire internet.
      -Hearing this a second time seeing the nemesis as being the gateway to the Shadow, i see a lot of ppl are in their shadows more than I realized I think, especially when under stress, ( considering Covid, and the economic loss of millions last few years) it also can make a fast typing of someone more challenging.

  • @generalpatton838
    @generalpatton838 5 років тому +9

    The Ne Nemesis is probably also saying "don't have kids out of wed-lock" or some unplanned pregnancy?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +1

      yeah, not recommended.

  • @sirbradfordofhousejones
    @sirbradfordofhousejones 4 роки тому +8

    My ENFJ mother-in-law is so amazing because she is very well-balanced with her Fe hero and Fi nemesis. She is an amazing host AND volunteers her time at basically everything possible. One of the most incredible people I’ve ever met.

  • @aliceedmunds4377
    @aliceedmunds4377 5 років тому +12

    Cheez, when Chase started with Ne, I literally coiled back as if being reprimanded to my room lol. Sjoe! His stuff is so informative ... but I always brace myself when he gets to us INFJs. (No - not making assumptions. I will assume you do like INFJs too.) Okay, I need a drink now (kidding) :D

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +7

      INFJs are dope!

  • @Rach-of3gu
    @Rach-of3gu Рік тому +4

    You made a good point about Se nemesis worrying about giving people space.
    I'm an ISTJ, and The mom of the first guy I dated yelled at my mom for having an intrusive daughter. I called a couple times during the relationship. One time I accidentally called her son when he was doing homework, and he apparently didn't like it. She said girls have no business reaching out to guys, and I had no business doing that. I have trouble with social norms, so I tried to learn from this, but this has really scarred me. I still feel I have the potential to be intrusive even though I always thought I've given people enough space. I've been talking to an ISTP for almost 15 years, and waiting for him to initiate doesn't work, and I feel like I'm going against the grain all this time.

  • @donells.6458
    @donells.6458 5 років тому +10

    26:52 Can someone explain “Te” nemesis for me and how to develop it? I can’t quite follow his explaination for it. I don’t understand “you might know what they are talking about” means.

    • @abrammills1005
      @abrammills1005 4 роки тому +2

      @Luther Simpson did this ever get resolved? I really want to know and it’s weird that he liked your comment.

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 3 роки тому

      @@abrammills1005 it isn't weird at all, he doing it every time.

  • @Maya_Ruinz
    @Maya_Ruinz 5 років тому +12

    As an ESFJ this series is literally a revelation. Ty for all the hardwork 😁

  • @akaboo69
    @akaboo69 5 років тому +9

    I must confess after watching your videos I did at one point in time wonder if you were an entj but I'm wrong you're way too damn opinionated so you're definitely ENTP and that's cool though you're being yourself and you have no filter which is cool you're just you know doing what you do and you're good at it man

    • @wearejungians
      @wearejungians 5 років тому

      Charles Benson gift and a curse LOL. Hard to keep to one topic when recording

  • @nutcracker2023
    @nutcracker2023 5 років тому +30

    Worry what people want me to do & Cannot remember any my own good experience in past but very good at remember my own bad experience are absolutely really really painful true about being an INTJ. 1,000xThanks, Joseph.

  • @chiltthruya1935
    @chiltthruya1935 5 років тому +7

    When you talk about Ne Nemesis (Im an INFJ) I was confused at first because Im not paranoid about others intentions, but then I realise that I do actually jump to conclusions by thinking everyone has good intentions behind their actions, and thats my form of Ne nemesis. I think.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +6

      watch season 16 episode 5

  • @blitz19113
    @blitz19113 4 роки тому +4

    As someone who has Ne Nemesis, I make correlations to a woman’s relationship with her family (esp. the father), her friends, mannersisms, behavior in some instances and induce that she will become a certain type of person in the future (possibly with me). I realize that I have severe trust issues that I have to work on. I tend to not leave any stone unturned.
    Even a tattoo in a woman has to mean something (I think her personality is dangerous). I tend to have rigid rules. INFJ’s aren’t too nice as people think. We also have flaws.

  • @paul2609
    @paul2609 5 років тому +10

    Wow you played Injustice Gods Among Us, nice.

  • @broadbandtogod
    @broadbandtogod 5 років тому +6

    36:32 INTJ

  • @cilentroleaf564
    @cilentroleaf564 6 років тому +41

    ESFJs and ENFJ's need to acknowledge individuality and respect people over social norms. That will help their Fi nemesis. ISFP's and INFP's need to see that social norms can actually help individuals...so quit being a wet blanket or critical of standard social protocols.

    • @chasingtheunknown3763
      @chasingtheunknown3763 5 років тому +13

      Balance, balance is always the key. :)

    • @dolfdervish8495
      @dolfdervish8495 5 років тому +3

      💯

    • @jilmil33
      @jilmil33 5 років тому +4

      Yeah i finally found that they r made for the benefit of ppl n not really rules after applying ESTJ to my INFP brain.

    • @chasingtheunknown3763
      @chasingtheunknown3763 5 років тому

      @@celebrity_rooster7488 balance also means being able to tiptoe between the two extremes.

    • @purple.spider1832
      @purple.spider1832 5 років тому +1

      But how socials protocols can help people ?

  • @kuttebulle
    @kuttebulle 5 років тому +7

    I keep having mental breakdowns watching your videos, but I keep coming back and I learn something new about myself and others everytime. It's addicting.

  • @orangenasa
    @orangenasa 5 років тому +6

    I get so frustrated with a certain INTJ all the time because he keeps assuming that I have bad intentions.
    If I prove him that I don't have bad intentions he just switches to other people and acts, just like you say, based on his assumptions about their intentions. It's so annoying and tiresome and I can't even count how often ive wanted to give up so far but he's still my best friend and I don't know how.
    ~ENTP btw

    • @rhuang9683
      @rhuang9683 5 років тому +6

      i'm an intj and you're literally describing me :'). I guess we just need validation/reassurance at times because we know what we're doing, but we are oftentimes skeptical of others intentions. I think this is because we're always so certain about ourselves but we feel insecure and fearful about other people because we can't foresee their actions, and are scared they would sabotage a plan, relationship, etc. that we foresaw for ourselves.

    • @tajmarie1329
      @tajmarie1329 5 років тому +1

      I'm an INTJ and crazy as it seems I did have one situation where my intentions were being questioned by another INTJ. I don't know what to say other than communicate with him. Somehow or some way, you would have to find out what is the issue from his point of view. Although I am still learning about cognitive functions myself, we are very much responding even though movement oriented. In other words, in most cases, we will only volunteer so much information that is requested. Therefore, you would have to dig down ask as many questions as possible to get to the bottom and find out the root cause.
      This may seem odd given that you are an informative type. However, I think this is very much necessary in order for both of you not to talk past one another. After all, even though there may be a general consensus that he believes you have bad intentions. What he believes is "that" very bad intention will probably be different from what you "think" that "he thinks" is that bad intention. Only thereafter will you find a resolution.

  • @hypershadw
    @hypershadw 5 років тому +8

    So what should an INTP with Te Nemesis do about worrying other people are stupid? I am very skeptical all the time about what people tell me, but I'm not exactly sure how that will help me grow as a person to utilize the Nemesis to my benefit. If I try to help others learn I usually am seen as a know it all prick. How do I get my hero ans nemesis to work together?

    • @Jess-yv7zc
      @Jess-yv7zc 5 років тому +9

      I'm also an INTP...I think one really big thing we have to do is stop taking stuff away from incompetent people and doing it for them (I am notorious for doing this to my co-workers). It's really, really hard to do bc our Ne sees everything that is going to go wrong with whatever someone else is doing/how they are doing it and Ti "knows" it's pretty much always right and whether or not we're better capable of finishing whatever their task is and so we just do it for them. I think when we're being skeptical (which for me is...almost always), we need to verify with the outer world whether or not the information that person is dispensing is accurate. That way we can certainly worry less around certain people and keep verifying around everyone else.

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +13

      teach others to think better without plowing or bulldozing them. Use finesse

    • @isaacsoffer8530
      @isaacsoffer8530 5 років тому +6

      As an INTP as well I would 100% agree with using finesse to combat our Inherent skepticism and worry that everyone else is stupid/wrong. I think the finesse for me has been is developing our inferior Fe. I've relegated my scepticism by utilizing Fe. I try to connect with the person and almost dig up more dirt into how they attained this information/knowledge and how that makes them feel. Their feelings can give clues into any biases that may be present and skewing their final "thinking" judgement. Basically I'm VERY skeptical if someone just says a random fact and I don't know that person well enough to gauge how their experience (logic) helped found their rational. So I basically use Fe to connect my Ti-logic to understand their Te-rational. Fe is our key to getting past our worry that other people are stupid, by realizing the situation and emotions that foundationally helped determine their Te decision.

    • @Zolluzione
      @Zolluzione 5 років тому

      @@isaacsoffer8530 Thanks for your insight Isaac

  • @borisvandruff7532
    @borisvandruff7532 5 років тому +3

    I’m an INFJ. Can confirm that I’ve got ALL the paranoia.
    Like I’m worried that other people want to ruin my future plans.

  • @andrewodysseus1990
    @andrewodysseus1990 5 років тому +3

    @csjoseph.life I have an idea for you. How can I get in touch with you so that I can HELP?
    I enjoy learning about enlightenment; your content adds a lot of value in that process. In Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, my instructor mentioned that my “white belt remains white until it is black” due to time, experience, wisdom (*regardless of blue, purple, and brown belt in between). There is a striking similarity between you and some of @jordonbpeterson s work
    As an ENTP you seem close already because I have a few close friends who are ENTP’s. Your creativity is starting a movement-that will grow if presented with philosophy early on.
    This is my first UA-cam comment of this nature if not ever, thank you for giving me the courage/self awareness to know how I can contribute!

  • @D3tyHuff
    @D3tyHuff 5 років тому +8

    What's the difference between being insecure about the experience one gives to other people (Se inferior) and being afraid of giving a bad experience to other people (Se Nemesis)?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +8

      worried* about giving a bad experience to others. Worry is assumed and not willing to aspire. Fear can be turned into faith.

    • @jtpavane7265
      @jtpavane7265 5 років тому +2

      @@CSJoseph So Se Nemesis will assume that they give other people bad experiences, thus motivating them to work to GIVE other people good experiences. Whereas Ne Nemesis will assume negative intent, which drives them to make swift judgments about other people based on little evidence. Ugh still confused though as to the difference between inferior and and nemesis Ne, since they seem somewhat interchangeable in certain situations. Would you please elaborate on this a bit more for me?

    • @nachiketpargaonkar8646
      @nachiketpargaonkar8646 5 років тому

      @@jtpavane7265
      Count me in for this differentiation too, this worry/fear line is pretty blurred for me too & I can't determine which aligns with me most of the times. For example, the closest I matched in this video was the INTJ worry, but when I look at other videos/tests/temperaments, INTJ as a guess comes pretty low for me.

  • @Afronautsays
    @Afronautsays 5 років тому +5

    37:00 INFJ made me feel this way, I knew she didn't understand me(INTP) and because of that I knew that she would take that misunderstanding and extrapolate it. She made me feel like I was always up to something nefarious.

  • @xandirkuro4790
    @xandirkuro4790 5 років тому +6

    It sounds a bit as if the Nemesis was someone cursed (by the demon) deciding to push the hero to the limits, so he can slay the demon!

  • @cilentroleaf564
    @cilentroleaf564 6 років тому +17

    Guess what? You're amazing.

  • @generalpatton838
    @generalpatton838 6 років тому +21

    I'm so damn socially paranoid (Ne) sometimes. I think people are rejecting me (Ne Nemesis) because I was rejected a couple times but being aware of this helps a lot. -INTJ

    • @antony74416
      @antony74416 5 років тому +4

      For me it manifests as the fear that someone is watching me or trying to kill me. That's why it takes me 10 minutes to cross the road, I always check behind my back etc. It's ridiculous and sometimes even pointless. I need to fix that issue

    • @Verichmond
      @Verichmond 5 років тому +1

      Yeah I’m constantly questioning people’s intentions and don’t know if they really are trustworthy and so I create my own fate in that I jeopardize the trust in my end (infj)

  • @Chronomatrix
    @Chronomatrix 5 років тому +8

    So well explained! You are a great teacher.

  • @porkchoppersgift5046
    @porkchoppersgift5046 5 років тому +6

    "they think in spreadsheets" XD

  • @Kibella2033
    @Kibella2033 5 років тому +4

    Thank you

  • @vannarubi4591
    @vannarubi4591 5 років тому +4

    clearly your subconscious is extremely developed bc youre the most affiliative entp ever lol love it

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +1

      it comes at great cost.

  • @yf66589
    @yf66589 Рік тому +1

    Very nice video thanks! Just something to add about Te nemesis for ISTP and INTP. I relate to what you said about Te nemesis, but can't we also say that those types are worried about not building anything real in the world from their knowledge? Especially for INTPs, isn't the role of the Te nemesis to challenge the Ti hero by saying "Ok, you think you're smart and you've build a big theory about that particular topic but, why don't you test it and actually make something real out of it? Why don't you show to others all what you know, make from it something useful and actually earn all the respect and status (very Te as you keep saying) you deserve from all this truth and understanding you have.

  • @RachelGerrard
    @RachelGerrard 3 роки тому +1

    Omg. My istp ex gets SO triggered if anyone talks about or believes things that don't make sense to him. He has to write people off as crazy or stupid to relieve his cognitive dissonance. I once questioned the moonlandings just to wind him up and he literally stormed out of the room because it nearly broke his brain 😂😂😂
    I've realised my Nemesis (Ni) made me finally be OK with leaving this relationship. Although I TRIED to leave it using my Fi (being all moral and concerned for him and "doing what is right") I kept going back because of my compassion for the other person and my Ne seeing future possibilities of it working and my Se demon being addicted to the sex 😂
    Finally, Te Child got tired of presenting evidence to Ne Hero and not being listened to, so Nemesis stepped in and said to Hero "you know that Te Child has enough data to prove he is no good for you. How about you stop listening to Fi and get angry about the fact that he has been using you?" So I did and I was finally free. Hero then took all the credit by telling itself "you knew this all along."

  • @akaboo69
    @akaboo69 5 років тому +3

    Fe nemesis people help me and I appreciate it but I'd rather help others. When your broke and limited on resources you feel like you can do so much. It stresses me out that I can't do much others at the moment

  • @POVofanENFP
    @POVofanENFP 26 днів тому

    20:05 - Nemesis will attack the Child/Inferior functions of the Hero to get them moving

  • @argent-kestrel90
    @argent-kestrel90 Місяць тому +1

    I do worry that I don't work hard enough so I push myself to rediculous levels at work. I never take holidays or take sick leave.
    Nostalgia is a big one too. I miss the past and long to change the past and not be so naive and trusting of others.
    I can relate to Ne Nemesis sometimes. I live with Post Traumatic Stress and live in a near permanent state or flight or fight mode. Primary fight mode as I can become hyper aggressive in defence.

  • @JR-ow8xg
    @JR-ow8xg 3 роки тому +3

    I loved this lecture! Something I’ve experience as an ENFJ is that Fi is like a little voice that keeps telling me “Oh so you’re going to ignore your own needs at the expense of the group” “Yes, keep doing whatever other people wants, I guess you don’t matter”

  • @UnrealTournamentPro
    @UnrealTournamentPro 6 років тому +7

    Do you think it is wise to tell a 60 year old INTJ about personality types?

  • @antanowrites
    @antanowrites 4 роки тому +2

    So @C.S. Joseph if your top ego function is your hero would you argue that human beings are inherently good? Its interesting to see how people have an inner conflict, but if you're in your hero most of the time (as far as I know) could you say that's because everyone wants to be a hero?

  • @moneyvsfinance
    @moneyvsfinance Рік тому +1

    Any currency that benefits from "tax-driven money demand," and thus becomes a monopoly, will screw over it's subjects in favor of the issuer. Tis the nature of monopolies.
    Tax-driven money demand: "The purpose of taxes is not to finance the government, but create demand for the currency."
    No taxes on private currencies.

  • @beingsomeone201
    @beingsomeone201 Рік тому +1

    I was saying stressfully this thing will be happening...
    Old people-- u worry so much
    Damage happened
    Me-- u worry so much 😕
    (The future event called from intj mastermind)
    I could nt do my ne ti then that i realized by now ... Cz its not gonna work (intj shadow told me before)
    Old people thought of me gandhi infj may be now 😕
    Ni (activates) te (seeing the all the data) fi(stress) se-- intj prediction for me
    Yes like a hero cz intj told me the future not told me how to handle it
    I got burned out and told others to handle it but those dumb peoples iq is so less than any middle age intj infjs
    I kind of known that before
    Its like doctor strange intj said one possibility and all the avengers called him mad situation...now he had to battle the avengers first while real danger is coming
    Yes angry intj didnt just attack me it attacked almost any one who didnt listen
    I think its so out of world for entp me
    (Cz of 2infj friends and one intj)

  • @cadencecaddie5551
    @cadencecaddie5551 5 років тому +16

    Never thought I'd be studying this much again xD Finished all ~160 of your videos today finally, it was amazing, I've learned so much and it already helped a lot! Thank you!

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +6

      Awesome!

    • @timothyo718
      @timothyo718 5 років тому +12

      Cadence Caddie
      Damn that is major dedication.

    • @chasingtheunknown3763
      @chasingtheunknown3763 5 років тому +7

      What's your type? lol I stopped for a while bc of info overload.

    • @cadencecaddie5551
      @cadencecaddie5551 5 років тому +5

      @@chasingtheunknown3763 ENFP :)

  • @Marwa-in7rz
    @Marwa-in7rz 4 роки тому +3

    Every time he talks about INFJs I just get attacked

  • @timeatancsa4016
    @timeatancsa4016 5 років тому +3

    Just so you know, you really made a landmark with this here on Earth, and as an INFP I totally understand what you envisioned, meaning it is all for the Better Good. I don't only understand, I absolutely agree, we need to help people feel better, feel comfortable, help them to be happy even if my motivation is more idealistic than rational. So keep up the good work, you've already helped me understand some issues I experienced with different types and gave me the knowledge never to let any of them down that way again. Thank you honestly! I just love this series!

  • @nir2594
    @nir2594 5 років тому +3

    27:47 ESTJ/ENTJ . I love your videos, but i wish there were time stamps for each type.

  • @malcolmmacinnis247
    @malcolmmacinnis247 5 років тому +5

    Interesting. I like how you really flesh out a topic

  • @christyrosecalvo6927
    @christyrosecalvo6927 4 роки тому +2

    Hahahahahahahahaha!!!! Laughing throughout the video when you explained how to use this function. So nemesis function goes like, "Told you so, but you don't want to listen."

  • @AlastorTheNPDemon
    @AlastorTheNPDemon 4 роки тому +2

    Yeah... I don't know so much about Ne paranoia, but I definitely have trust issues; or, maybe I'm compartmentalizing Ne paranoia under the stoic advice, "don't speculate others' intents because it's pointless and destructive," so I'm playing it safe and just keeping my distance in a way nobody has leverage over me. Oh damn, I am paranoid. LoL

  • @jadint1793
    @jadint1793 Рік тому +1

    I'm guilty😮‍💨😩-sincerely an infj🙏🏾

  • @jonathanmezzenga2501
    @jonathanmezzenga2501 5 років тому +4

    Chase,
    Just wanted to let you know you did a fantastic job on this video. You’re hard work is and will pay off if you continue this path. With how integrated you are I am hopeful you overcome any obstacle to come your way, even your liver problem ❤️ keep this up man

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +1

      much appreciated

  • @waicheungli1151
    @waicheungli1151 5 років тому +3

    I always suspected Ni creates Ne; Ti creates Te and vice versa.
    keep up the good work.
    how do we turn our critic into our wisdom?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +2

      learning through failure

  • @annhinz6326
    @annhinz6326 5 років тому +3

    I like all the examples, but by using your own type when on the Te nemesis, I didn't get a clear idea of how to deal with my Te.

  • @Rishiig
    @Rishiig 5 років тому +2

    Worth the wait. But dang, when I first got the notification, I was so excited. Then I clicked and literally lol-ed, “You bastard! You magnificent bastard!”

  • @danielmorales6151
    @danielmorales6151 5 років тому +2

    SE VS SI is funny. Nemesis will tell hero that something will happen and it happened to you and you know and theres nothing you can do to stop it so it can push hero to push harder lol personal experience

  • @sydneychuke1288
    @sydneychuke1288 5 років тому +3

    Have I told you that you remind me of myself when I'm my ENTP unconscious? So much....

  • @salomeyul
    @salomeyul 3 роки тому +4

    36:54 this one is particularly accurate for me, and INFJ recovering from going through a downward spiral of negativity after jumping to catastrophic conclusions, all of this last weekend. Thank you Chase. Your work is amazing,

  • @arroxas
    @arroxas 3 роки тому +2

    When it is infj, it is always looooonnnnggggg. 😄

  • @henkster6067
    @henkster6067 6 років тому +8

    Ag no!!! ☹ I want to watch it.... 😢

    • @henkster6067
      @henkster6067 6 років тому +1

      Chase, Are you seriously going to do This from now on?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  6 років тому +2

      @@henkster6067 no, only on certain episodes

  • @A1denPlay
    @A1denPlay 4 роки тому +3

    I feel sad that your videos are so low on views, definitely deserves more!

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  4 роки тому +1

      The lectures are a lot to stomach

  • @Retrogamer71
    @Retrogamer71 5 років тому +8

    6:40 shadow attracted to the ego.
    8:50. Interactive forces. Nemesis and Hero.
    10:35 transition
    11:50 use of nemesis

  • @sp8cetime
    @sp8cetime 5 років тому +7

    You, sir, are spot on. I am an INTJ ego and I remember my childhood ENTP mischief maker.

  • @sankalpbhardwaj1944
    @sankalpbhardwaj1944 5 років тому +3

    Love this Series!! Can't wait for the critical parent video... BTW, socionics considers the critic and the hero as of Same dimension I.e. As a 4D function claiming it(the critic) has heroic power(just like the hero function) but that power doesn't seem cool to the person hence is not valued by the user... Any thoughts on this??

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому

      I disagree with this.

  • @aomafura3374
    @aomafura3374 6 років тому +3

    Awww yeah!! I've been waiting for this!! This schedule system is really helpful!

  • @minok7374
    @minok7374 5 років тому +2

    ahaha! I totally agree with the paranoia of the INFJ. One thing I just noticed recently. 2 of my recent romantic relationships (actually I do not think they really have been real relationships, more like romantic attempts) ended up because my "guts" told me that the girl really did not like me and that she was just being kind respect and I was bothering her so I should leave her alone. I pulled away from her and she after a while came after me wanting a date, which made me realize that I had been irrationally paranoid, and had suffered for no reason before, totally by my fault.

  • @blitz19113
    @blitz19113 4 роки тому +2

    As someone who has Ne Nemesis, I make correlations to a woman’s relationship with her family (esp. the father), her friends, mannersisms, behavior in some instances and induce that she will become a certain type of person in the future (possibly with me). I realize that I have severe trust issues that I have to work on. I tend to not leave any stone unturned.

  • @Trillionphoenix
    @Trillionphoenix 4 роки тому +3

    Damn this guy knows wtf he's talking about 👍

  • @Xenomorph788
    @Xenomorph788 5 років тому +2

    That mini rant you made about INJ’s paranoia and decision making (based on said paranoia) hit me hard as an ENTP. Far out...! #truth!!!!!

  • @Kenoshachannel
    @Kenoshachannel 5 років тому +2

    Starting with all your uploads, I got too picky and kept on watching my type. But watching these other topics are enlightening and gives me aha moments - of course im still laughing realizing what my nemesis is indeed - but it is both an affirmation and increased knowledge for dealing with people moving forwards.
    Definitely comin back for more. And oh! Please keep on with the nerd and tv series references - adds fun.
    By the way, any chance you're doing a GOT character typing? If you havent already...😁😁😁

  • @sheepdog03
    @sheepdog03 2 роки тому +1

    Great video I need to rewatch this many times. Btw I don’t like the term “attitude” for the purpose here and here’s why. In Jungian psychology in my interpretation, attitude means which way a focus is facing, specifically inward or outward or intro/extroverted. I guess it can be used in more than one sense but the jungian use is so prominent that it seems to me a different term would be better.

  • @jovynabong9522
    @jovynabong9522 5 років тому +1

    Now I know my type. Nothing to have to research for. Paranoia or schizoid tendency is my nemesis so I can now continue with my life and erradicate second guessing. CSJ, you are an annoying raconteur but with so much to offer in this matter than others. I wish ENTP's are more in the field of teaching. It sucks that Si is always what the educational system put more importance to, to make people indoctrinated with the propaganda of some to make a complete zombie of the century (history for example)

  • @loxobole3800
    @loxobole3800 5 років тому +2

    i don't get the difference between the child and the nemesis, both are based on fear and worry ?

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  5 років тому +3

      one fear, and one worry or concern

  • @UNKINDLY7STDS
    @UNKINDLY7STDS 5 років тому +2

    Off topic question to help the youtube algorithm. Has any properly typed the characters of "Dune" fear is the mind killer.

    • @NatsGhost
      @NatsGhost 5 років тому

      I remember when I was reading it that as an INTP I identified wholly with the Thufir Hawat, and the other mentats in the first three books. I've been saving the rest of the series because I need to know it exists and that I'm yet to read it...no spoilers!

  • @pragnyan7770
    @pragnyan7770 5 років тому +2

    Oh the originals reference! Loved it and the lecture. And you've got another fan, my sister.

  • @coconutmilch2351
    @coconutmilch2351 5 років тому +1

    oh my fucking god about the Ne nemesis. i get paranoid about other people's intentions all the fucking time. just last week i started thinking that someone at work was plotting to get me fired and i was like OH HELL. NAW. YOU DON'T TAKE MY JOB AWAY FROM ME THIS IS THE DOPEST JOB I'VE EVER HAD!!! and i went nuts. i literally almost got physically sick. ALSO. if you try to convince me of other people's supposed "good" intentions i'm like "nah. not with those actions. there is no other way to interpret those actions except that they're fucking diabolical and want to get in my way"

  • @absinthesesotericadventure7631
    @absinthesesotericadventure7631 5 років тому +1

    I had to put myself in time out. I was also studying for a test and there was this like blanket of negativity in the chat. Anyway, I was never really one to box anyone in, and that is what I perceived was going on in chat. Anyway, I am old enough to know better. And I shouldn't have been procrastinating from my test (which I just passed, hooray!) You live, you learn, and people become quite predictable (and boring, because the just crapola is never different, or funny, or surprising). I appreciate your efforts in trying to make people take a different path, but sadly, seems they will be stubborn in remaining to pigeon hole themselves, and use their letters to justify their negative behavior, Rome wasn't built in a day, anyhow! Very interesting stuff :)

  • @thethethe7892
    @thethethe7892 5 років тому +2

    26:55 did you mean that Te nemesis worries that the other might *not* know what they're talking about? I'm kind of confused....

  • @mergyckaxxxxx
    @mergyckaxxxxx 5 років тому +3

    well good morning to me

  • @0halibut0
    @0halibut0 6 років тому +9

    Aww man...I was so ready for this video. I even had my notebook and pencil out.