Hello Monty, I started watching Philippine UA-cam videos when I was 49 years old. I added a few UA-camrs on My Facebook and right away I got about 200 Filipinas sending Me friend requests. Most of Them were Scammers trying to get money from Me. But about five of Them were very nice Ladies. One Beautiful Young Lady always was just Happy to talk online as a Friend and never asked Me for anything. I talked to many Ladies for about five years. But I kept talking to Lucy on and off this whole time too. Finally I figured out that I was looking for Lucy this whole time but I always thought that She was to Young and Beautiful for Me. Fast forward to August 2022 . Lucy was My online Girlfriend for about 14 months now. I went to the Philippines to Meet Lucy in Mindanao. We got Engaged during My visit with the permission of Her Parents. In June 2023, We met again in Cebu and traveled together from Cebu to Bohol and then back to Mindanao. I am now 56 years old and Lucy is 31 years old. I am working on Her K1 Visa now to bring her to America. Take care.
Having a child, if the expat can afford it financially and otherwise, is a good way to solidify a relationship, especially if the man hasn't had the opportunity before to build a family, because the child(ren) will be your closest family in the future, as you take care of them now, they will hopefully do the same for you, instead of relying on strangers to take care of you, not necessarily full-time, but just having someone that you share DNA with to be there when you need them.
Solid advice from an experienced expat. What I've learned about the Philippines so far has been from watching UA-cam I realise it's not the same as living there but it's a good start. I think the biggest lesson is to Know what you are looking for Take your time and don't make hasty decisions Remember you are in another country as a guest. Be respectful. That gives you a solid foundation.
Great advice Mr. Monty, for anyone anywhere in the world. You just made me understand my own wife after 28 years of marriage. My wife must have Filipina in here blood 🤣 because I've never understood why the kids and her family always come before me. 🤣Yep, I must have a Filipina and didn't even know it. 🤠
I am 60 and my Filipina girlfriend is 20 years younger than me at 39. I have visited her twice in person and things have been going seemingly well for the past two years. I will have to continue working in the USA while my kids are growing up. Movie night sounds like fun, as long as there is a variety of good movies from different genres. If Tagalog, hopefully with English subtitles. I am learning Tagalog and Ilocanos. But, I have a long way to go to be comfortable speaking at the conversation level. I know the basic words.
😂 they talk over the movie so it really doesn’t matter what language it’s in 🤣😂 I know English and Spanish and so many words are in Spanish it makes it easier to understand Tagalog but it’s a little different and the accent is confusing as well 😊
It's nice of you to have a very understanding mind, my marriage failed because my ex was very narrow minded ... anyways, i support your channel by playing all your videos and go do my chores around the house while your videos are playing
Hey Monty. Great video and you make many good points. I make it a rule I don't send money to some I just met online. Another thing guys should be doing is video calls to see if the person matches the pictures on their FB or what they sent you. A lot of guys talk to guys and send pics of pretty girls but won't do a video call so you can see who you are talking too. I have been chatting to girls from the Philippines for 20 + years online and heard so many stories. They don't always come out and ask for money but hint with little stories and then once you offer to send money then they always ask. Sadly the bads one make it bad for the good ones who want a serious relationship and are willing to share everything together.
Very good advice! Im coming in December for 2 months and my rule is no online dating. To each their own, but i want to meet ladies the old fashioned way seeing them doing their day to day activities in normal life. Is it "harder" to do it that way, yes. But if im going to be with someone the rest of my life the last thing i want to do is find her the "easy way". Thanks again for another great video 👍👍
Monty you're a man of great knowledge 👏. You're giving great advice on relationships as a older man, men need these advice and information about what you're sharing. I enjoy listening to your videos and am so happy for you and your wife. May God continues to cover you and bless you and your family.
Monty you are right it only makes sense :) I always told my American wife that she can do what she likes as far as going out with her friends and family. After all we always trust each other. You should never marry anyone that you do not trust :)
Just found out I wasn't subscribing yet. I thought I had been a subscriber for ages! I immediately corrected that, as I like your videos. You know what worries me most about large age gap relationships, Monty? The thought that there's going to be a day when things don't go well anymore in the bedroom (could be because of heart problems, pulmonary problems, diabetes, ... thinks that you can get when you are getting old). If at that time you are with a woman in her 30s or 40s, can you expect her to stay faithful? I don't think so! They have their needs, just like we did when we were their age. I think about that a lot. I mean: right now things are still working, but what about in 10 years time? Maybe you can shed a light on that aspect of large age gap relationships.
I know a guy 83 who has a 3 year old. Blue pills work and when they don’t you can give yourself injections 😊 my dad told me when I was a kid that the first sign of getting old is chasing after women and you forgot why 😂
Great video Monty. Some of the things I would of never thought of. I’m not going to lie. I’ve been scammed and heard many of excuses. But I hope i learned from my mistakes. Not sure how the men do it over there cause to me all them women over there are very beautiful. Thank you. Enjoyed the video
Monty, you know I think The Philippines is one of the few places in the world where the 'Nice Guy' finishes first, in the long run. Thats not everything I got from the video, but your point about being nice got me to thinking. I could tell you a bunch of things about my Filipina also. But don't want to drone on.
Hi Monty, i am very lonely here in South Africa 🇿🇦 i am looking forward to come to the Philippines 🇵🇭 i can't just find someone suitable here. I'm thankful for all the good advice. I am surely going to put them in practice 😊
Another good video. You and Aragel have a special, beautiful snd inspiring relationship. Im happy for you. And a beautiful daughter. You are looking better and better, my friend.
You know that my girl is always with her family, works every job she can find. But its not enough and I do help her out. Remember its there culture to take care of there family. My girl is 36 years old now and you know me also. My girl has never been married. :)
You understand the family dynamic here Steve. I know you also have a good relationship with your lady and have trust in her, without trust you really have nothing. Thank you so much for watching Brother 😊
Great great wisdom you shared with us. I will go with no online communication with anyone, travel around and get to know the Phillipines and SE Asia and then after dating women see where I want to live and start relationship.
Both of you are the luckiest couple in the Philippines Monte! Not only is your wife the most beautiful girl over there, but she has the most beautiful heart and mind in the world!!! Very good advice Monte. Thanks for another interesting and informative video!!!
You're very luck my friend with your wife she knows the hardship in life.she so industrious and knows the in and out of being a married status though she's so young .
You are correct Joe. It’s much better here I believe to retire. I send you a message on Facebook messenger. I hope all is well and thank you for your help brother 😊💛
A lot of common sense really. I don't have any negative comments about your age gap. Works for both of you then GREAT. I "think" I will be more drawn to an older woman, but will see when I am there. Husband being #3 is likely to be hard for many men. But children are first for any mother, with family she has lived so closely with just makes sense to me. Thanks Monty, enjoyed as always.
wise one you are Monty. i landed in manila 2 days ago, I have some wandering to do, see family & old friends. I hope to be in Dumagete by the end of month to renew visa. I would love to meet you and pick your brain and share your friendship. Keep the faith, Michael
@@crewfamilyphilippines So far so good. I actually feel better health wise than I did in the USA. I still need to get out and exercise more. Still hoping to meet "Miss Right" not "Miss Right Now"!!🤣🤣🤣. Seeing you and your family together and hearing your story always gives me hope that I'm headed in the right direction. God Bless you and your beautiful family!!
I met my pinay wife on a dating site. She was working in Singapore. We talked everyday. Later that year, she went home to the Phils for Christmas. I flew to Davao and she brought her entire family, some100 miles, to greet me. After Christmas, we flew to Singapore and I stayed until the end ofJan. We planned to get married, but Covid put that on hold. We still message on Viber and use Whatsapp to talk 2-3 times a day. We got married in Valencia City in Aug of 2022. Since then I went to Singapore in 2023 and the Pinas for this past Christmas to be with her and family. We are waiting for her US Visa. Meanwhile, after we meet in France this summer, we will live in Davao until her visa comes. We have been a couple for over 5 years. She will be 35 this Feb and I am 79.
When you go to meet the filipina you have been chatting with, and then you leave her to go back home, if she is very sad to the point where she even cries because you are leaving her, then you’ll know without a doubt she really loves you. She is the one you can trust.
You know when I saw your vlog I knew there was a chance for me to have a family. I never had children because I was always too busy. This the name of the song Cat in the Cradle. I plan to retire to to the Philippines next year. Your vlog ment a lot.
Yes sir I see her posting of her being out. So you totally understand what I’m talking about. Thank you so much for watching. It took me a week to make that video. Good thing I have two of those blue shirts 😂 I hope everything thing is good with you and your family. I seen a video of you mopping the kitchen floor. Good man I have always been that way share in the house chores
Good advice. I so not will not associate with expats as have so many of that type of men in the states. When I started learning tagalog. Found it sure helped . I always spent time in gyms and do here. I did woodworking so rented a shop for that and store our motorcycles. Wife's parents live over 2 hours from Cebu City in the province and they love it. She is 40 no children 31yeare younger than myself. We spend time at the beach or in mountains even skinny dipping in a lake and camping there. We met on a dating site 2 half years before we met. That one thing there was no money involved. Neither of us have children. She wants a baby which we discussed and great for me.
Hey Monty great info..I agree you will never be number one..my friend says he is after her family the kids the dog the fleas on the dog then him ..ha ha ha
Great informative video thanks ! But for now my finances don't allow me to have a wife here I have a partner who comes to visit me for a vacation once every two weeks. I help her financially but only as little as I can I see that she is not happy with this, she would like more but I hope she understands that I’m just strapped for money because of the war in my country
Yes Sir, it seems like it has gone out the window. Just like romance when my ex wife left and went with her new man. He called me a few months later and said that she was complaining that he wasn’t romantic and he said that he would pay me to tell how to be romantic with her. I told him if you’re in your 50s and don’t know how to be romantic then you’re probably not going to learn now and I’m definitely not going to teach you 😂🤣
• Security is one of the most important things to most women. Even more so to Filipinas. That's one reason younger girls prefer older men. Most younger Filipinos act like butterflies and girls are sick of it. • Yes, most Filipinas want a family. But, one of the biggest reasons they want children is old age security. These women live in extended families. So, they have been brought up with the notion that children will take care of oldie parents. And, most do. We used to be like that in the US, but now we get sent off to die in nursing homes, etc. I like the extended family way.
I'm happy that you have such a wonderful life and family over there. My question is what happens to your wife and child when you pass away, financially how are they able to support themselves?
G'day Monty, firstly i hope your health is holding up. Nice video, also very informative info. Appreciate your thoughts & opinions very much. Although I'm sub your channel I did not watch many, though what I have viewed is very good. Thanks the video, hope the the family is well, regards to your beautiful wife and daughter. BTW I'm meeting my LDR this Xmas, after a long ldr we will finally meet soon. Cheers 🍻 brother, take care, stay safe.😊😉
Hi Glen, thank you very much for watching 😊 I’m very happy that you will be able to meet up with your lady soon 💛 we are all doing well and I hope everything is good in your world
@@glennhiggins5425 I’m glad that you’re doing well Glenn, nice to meet another guy from Australia. The best chili in Dumaguete is made by Chris who is Australian at Big Billy’s
Great advise Monty. Everything you said is so true. Hope you and yours are doing great. Any update on you Social Security? I do hope you are having some luck with it. Take care.
No luck yet. Paul has a call into his guy at the embassy here. He’s on vacation. Hopefully as soon as he gets back we can figure it out. I’m nervous September is my birthday month ☹️
Greetings, you are truly a blessed man. A great wife and a beautiful child. Question, have you planned for your wife future after you leave this earth? Please share your plan, if OK. Also, I know you recently got SSI, if OK, please share how much you are getting to better appreciate you financial situation in the Philippines and with a new family. Many thanks and take care.
Hi Monty, Great video, thanks for the constructive video on developing a relationship with fillipina Curious if you can recommend a budget hotel or accomodation in dumagette as I get in tomorrow Saturday for the first time in dumagette, perhaps if you have some free time, I'd like to meet you for coffee or a drink Thanks Eamonn
It's gave and take maybe it work Maybe not it depends on the young lady and y say about the airport meeting i understand you never know even if she had a suitcase it might work as well is it might not all depends on both of you but when a forginer comes to phlippines and end seeing all kind of beautiful young flipina then his mind goes in over drive he start thinking vow all these Beatiful flipinoes but you are right with everything u say it s gospel truth you are talking from experience I love you and your wife blogs you gave a beautiful family take good care of them and they take care of you
Thank you very much for watching and your insightful comment David. Also thank you for the kind words Sir. I hope that all is well in your world Brother 💛
Thank you Chris. My ex is from Honduras and she was a nightmare and I didn’t take the first replacement. I was single for 12 years while I searched for a good lady. I wasn’t going to go through another mess 😊
I appreciate your thoughts ..your a older guy. I’m in a more modern middle class City relationship..the older perspective with a province girl is at odds with modern relationships..and I count filapino’s in that statement. Your in the archetypal older guy …Provençal relationship …good luck to everyone …I’m of the opinion we are part of a crew ..look after all …if you have the opportunity.
,,,GOOD ADVICE,,, (01) SLOW DOWN,,, (02) HELP BUT DO NOT OVERSPEND,,, (03) DO NOT PAY EVERYTHING FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY, UNLESS YOU HAVE MILLIONS OF EXTRA SPARE PESOS TO GIVE AWAY FOR FREE,,,
Hello Monty, I started watching Philippine UA-cam videos when I was 49 years old. I added a few UA-camrs on My Facebook and right away I got about 200 Filipinas sending Me friend requests. Most of Them were Scammers trying to get money from Me. But about five of Them were very nice Ladies. One Beautiful Young Lady always was just Happy to talk online as a Friend and never asked Me for anything. I talked to many Ladies for about five years. But I kept talking to Lucy on and off this whole time too. Finally I figured out that I was looking for Lucy this whole time but I always thought that She was to Young and Beautiful for Me. Fast forward to August 2022 . Lucy was My online Girlfriend for about 14 months now. I went to the Philippines to Meet Lucy in Mindanao. We got Engaged during My visit with the permission of Her Parents. In June 2023, We met again in Cebu and traveled together from Cebu to Bohol and then back to Mindanao. I am now 56 years old and Lucy is 31 years old. I am working on Her K1 Visa now to bring her to America. Take care.
Hi George, that’s an awesome story. I’m so happy that it worked out for you both 😊💛 thank you very much for watching and commenting Sir
Catfished.
Don't bring them to USA. The other filipina who already live in USA will corrupt her, find her new boyfriend.
@@jasonjames4254 Seriously.... the odds are so against him, doubly so once she's Americanized. Bad idea.
Having a child, if the expat can afford it financially and otherwise, is a good way to solidify a relationship, especially if the man hasn't had the opportunity before to build a family, because the child(ren) will be your closest family in the future, as you take care of them now, they will hopefully do the same for you, instead of relying on strangers to take care of you, not necessarily full-time, but just having someone that you share DNA with to be there when you need them.
I agree with you 100%. Thank you very much for watching and your insightful comment. I hope that everything is going well in your world 😊
Solid advice from an experienced expat.
What I've learned about the Philippines so far has been from watching UA-cam I realise it's not the same as living there but it's a good start.
I think the biggest lesson is to
Know what you are looking for
Take your time and don't make hasty decisions
Remember you are in another country as a guest. Be respectful.
That gives you a solid foundation.
Excellent Steve 👍🏻 Thank you very much for watching.
Great advice Mr. Monty, for anyone anywhere in the world.
You just made me understand my own wife after 28 years of marriage. My wife must have Filipina in here blood 🤣 because I've never understood why the kids and her family always come before me. 🤣Yep, I must have a Filipina and didn't even know it. 🤠
Thank you for watching Eddie, I believe in any culture kids and grandkids always come first. I hope that all is going well with you Brother 😊
I am 60 and my Filipina girlfriend is 20 years younger than me at 39. I have visited her twice in person and things have been going seemingly well for the past two years. I will have to continue working in the USA while my kids are growing up.
Movie night sounds like fun, as long as there is a variety of good movies from different genres. If Tagalog, hopefully with English subtitles. I am learning Tagalog and Ilocanos. But, I have a long way to go to be comfortable speaking at the conversation level. I know the basic words.
😂 they talk over the movie so it really doesn’t matter what language it’s in 🤣😂 I know English and Spanish and so many words are in Spanish it makes it easier to understand Tagalog but it’s a little different and the accent is confusing as well 😊
@@crewfamilyphilippines Knowing Spanish would make it easier. I read that about 20% of Tagalog words come from Spanish.
It's nice of you to have a very understanding mind, my marriage failed because my ex was very narrow minded ... anyways, i support your channel by playing all your videos and go do my chores around the house while your videos are playing
Thank you so much that is very sweet of you 😊
Good man, sweet wife, darling daughter. You share great info. You are intuitive and sensitive to her needs which helps build great relationships.
Thank you very much for watching and your kind words 😊
You're a great man. Thanks for loving and respecting the culture your wife...my kababayan! GOD BLESS.
Thank you God Bless you as well ❤️
Hey Monty. Great video and you make many good points. I make it a rule I don't send money to some I just met online. Another thing guys should be doing is video calls to see if the person matches the pictures on their FB or what they sent you. A lot of guys talk to guys and send pics of pretty girls but won't do a video call so you can see who you are talking too. I have been chatting to girls from the Philippines for 20 + years online and heard so many stories. They don't always come out and ask for money but hint with little stories and then once you offer to send money then they always ask. Sadly the bads one make it bad for the good ones who want a serious relationship and are willing to share everything together.
Thank you very much for watching Brian, You make some very good points. Hopefully many people will read it because it will help them tremendously 😊💛
Very good advice! Im coming in December for 2 months and my rule is no online dating. To each their own, but i want to meet ladies the old fashioned way seeing them doing their day to day activities in normal life. Is it "harder" to do it that way, yes. But if im going to be with someone the rest of my life the last thing i want to do is find her the "easy way". Thanks again for another great video 👍👍
You’re a very smart man with a good plan Sir. Thank you so much for watching
Sir, as a young man, you dropped a lot of wisdom on me. She’s helped me be the man I always wanted to. She is the best.
That’s awesome Alex. I’m glad you both are happy 😊
You’re wife is beautiful and her character shows she’s beautiful inside too ❤
You’re correct Lizan 😊
@@crewfamilyphilippines my name is Liza Nomura
@@crewfamilyphilippines Liza
Monty you're a man of great knowledge 👏. You're giving great advice on relationships as a older man, men need these advice and information about what you're sharing. I enjoy listening to your videos and am so happy for you and your wife. May God continues to cover you and bless you and your family.
Thank you Mauvelette, God bless you as well 💛
I do agree. Very inspiring ❤
Thank you Raquel 😊
Monty you are right it only makes sense :) I always told my American wife that she can do what she likes as far as going out with her friends and family. After all we always trust each other. You should never marry anyone that you do not trust :)
I agree Steve. Thank you for watching and your insightful comment 😊
Just found out I wasn't subscribing yet. I thought I had been a subscriber for ages! I immediately corrected that, as I like your videos. You know what worries me most about large age gap relationships, Monty? The thought that there's going to be a day when things don't go well anymore in the bedroom (could be because of heart problems, pulmonary problems, diabetes, ... thinks that you can get when you are getting old). If at that time you are with a woman in her 30s or 40s, can you expect her to stay faithful? I don't think so! They have their needs, just like we did when we were their age. I think about that a lot. I mean: right now things are still working, but what about in 10 years time? Maybe you can shed a light on that aspect of large age gap relationships.
I know a guy 83 who has a 3 year old. Blue pills work and when they don’t you can give yourself injections 😊 my dad told me when I was a kid that the first sign of getting old is chasing after women and you forgot why 😂
Great video Monty. Some of the things I would of never thought of. I’m not going to lie. I’ve been scammed and heard many of excuses. But I hope i learned from my mistakes.
Not sure how the men do it over there cause to me all them women over there are very beautiful.
Thank you. Enjoyed the video
Yes it is hard not to be tempted. But it can happen in any country in the world as well 😊💛
Monty, you know I think The Philippines is one of the few places in the world where the 'Nice Guy' finishes first, in the long run. Thats not everything I got from the video, but your point about being nice got me to thinking. I could tell you a bunch of things about my Filipina also. But don't want to drone on.
I agree many parts of the world the nice finishes last. Thank you very much for watching and commenting Doug
Hi Monty, i am very lonely here in South Africa 🇿🇦 i am looking forward to come to the Philippines 🇵🇭 i can't just find someone suitable here. I'm thankful for all the good advice. I am surely going to put them in practice 😊
The best advice I can give you. Is taking slow there are some great women here and bad ones just like everywhere else 😊💛
Very good sound advice and knowledge passed down.
Thank you very much for watching John 😊
Another good video. You and Aragel have a special, beautiful snd inspiring relationship. Im happy for you. And a beautiful daughter. You are looking better and better, my friend.
Thank you very much Al. I hope that everything is going well in your world 😊
Watching again.
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Thank you very much Eric 💛
True love Monty with amazing love beautiful wife ❤ TRUST is a KEY in relationship 💯✅️⭐️🖐 God bless you Sir Monty and family 🙏
God bless you as well 💛
Hi Monty thanks for sharing all the great advice. You have a beautiful family god bless you. 🙏 Keep the great videos coming.😊
Thank you very much Herb 😊 God Bless you Sir 🙏🏻
Lots of good advice Monty. I enjoy watching you and your beautiful family..You are truly lucky to find such a good filipina.
Thank you very much for watching our videos Ducle. I agree that I’m truly blessed 😊
Good information shared Monty. Blessings to you Aragel and Faith.
God Bless you as well Troy. Thank you for watching 💛
I totally agree with you…
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You know that my girl is always with her family, works every job she can find. But its not enough and I do help her out. Remember its there culture to take care of there family. My girl is 36 years old now and you know me also. My girl has never been married. :)
You understand the family dynamic here Steve. I know you also have a good relationship with your lady and have trust in her, without trust you really have nothing. Thank you so much for watching Brother 😊
Ur Blessed Monty cuz u have a good heart and you understand our culture! No wonder u are loved and happy!👍💕
Thank you very much ❤️
Excellent advice. Thank you very much for this video. I will remember. Thank you.
Thank you very much for watching Sir 😊
This video is so full of good advice I stopped by to watch it twice. Hope you're doing better Monty. Peace and Love, B Goat
Thank you very much Billy Goat 💛
Thanks monty for letting me know about the money and family's
Thank you so much for watching Jeffrey 😊
spot on 100 % Life's good in the real world
Thank you very much for watching and commenting Dale 😊
Sounds like a lot of great advice, thank you. 👍👍👍
Thank you very much for watching and commenting Joe 😊💛
Monty, you are so right no matter the age of the Filipina😊
Thank you Steve 😊
Great great wisdom you shared with us. I will go with no online communication with anyone, travel around and get to know the Phillipines and SE Asia and then after dating women see where I want to live and start relationship.
Thank you very much for watching and commenting. You have a great plan Koufax 👍🏻
@@crewfamilyphilippines Thank you Monty. I appreciate every word of wisdom you share. I am a very good listener. 🙏🏼
@@koufax174 Thank you Brother 😊
Semoga berhasil dan menemukan apa yg diinginkan
Both of you are the luckiest couple in the Philippines Monte! Not only is your wife the most beautiful girl over there, but she has the most beautiful heart and mind in the world!!! Very good advice Monte. Thanks for another interesting and informative video!!!
Wow Tom I wish that we got comments like yours on every video. Thank you very much
Its good to see you making a video again Monty :)
Thank you Steven 😊
You're very luck my friend with your wife she knows the hardship in life.she so industrious and knows the in and out of being a married status though she's so young .
Thank you very much Nona
Glad to see you are doing well Monty!
Thank you Brother 😊
Smart words my kuya
Thank you so much for watching Mike. Take care Brother 😊
Your beautiful wife has an infectious smile !
Thank you Geoff 😊
Words of wisdom.. thanks, Monty 👍
Thank you Lane 😊
Great video 📹 Monty
Thank you very much Paul. 😊
God bless you and your beautiful family, Monty. You are seeking first the Kingdom of God; everything else shall be added on you!
Thank you Biff. God Bless you also 💛
Great informative video Monty. Elen agreed on many points you made. Keep up the good work.
Thank you both very much for watching, commenting and your kind words 😊
Sir Monty awesome advice for each of everyone in the media. You are amazing UA-cam channel and advice 💯✅️👍☝️
Thanks for watching 😊💛
Wise 👍🏻 A Filipina Mom (single), would be my choice, and stay in the Philipinnes. Filipinas seem happier with friends and family nearby.
You are correct Joe. It’s much better here I believe to retire. I send you a message on Facebook messenger. I hope all is well and thank you for your help brother 😊💛
A lot of common sense really. I don't have any negative comments about your age gap. Works for both of you then GREAT. I "think" I will be more drawn to an older woman, but will see when I am there. Husband being #3 is likely to be hard for many men. But children are first for any mother, with family she has lived so closely with just makes sense to me. Thanks Monty, enjoyed as always.
Thank you very much Daniel 😊
As always wishing you all the very best.@@crewfamilyphilippines
Thanks! I hope this helps you guys out !! God Bless
Thank you very very much Michael 💛😊
wise one you are Monty. i landed in manila 2 days ago, I have some wandering to do, see family & old friends. I hope to be in Dumagete by the end of month to renew visa. I would love to meet you and pick your brain and share your friendship. Keep the faith, Michael
I look forward to meeting you Michael. Be safe traveling
Another great informative video. Keep up the great work.
Thank you very much Sir. I hope that all is going well for you in the Philippines 😊
@@crewfamilyphilippines So far so good. I actually feel better health wise than I did in the USA. I still need to get out and exercise more. Still hoping to meet "Miss Right" not "Miss Right Now"!!🤣🤣🤣. Seeing you and your family together and hearing your story always gives me hope that I'm headed in the right direction. God Bless you and your beautiful family!!
I met my pinay wife on a dating site. She was working in Singapore. We talked everyday. Later that year, she went home to the Phils for Christmas. I flew to Davao and she brought her entire family, some100 miles, to greet me. After Christmas, we flew to Singapore and I stayed until the end ofJan. We planned to get married, but Covid put that on hold. We still message on Viber and use Whatsapp to talk 2-3 times a day. We got married in Valencia City in Aug of 2022. Since then I went to Singapore in 2023 and the Pinas for this past Christmas to be with her and family. We are waiting for her US Visa. Meanwhile, after we meet in France this summer, we will live in Davao until her visa comes. We have been a couple for over 5 years. She will be 35 this Feb and I am 79.
When you go to meet the filipina you have been chatting with, and then you leave her to go back home, if she is very sad to the point where she even cries because you are leaving her, then you’ll know without a doubt she really loves you. She is the one you can trust.
You are correct Gordon. Every time I go to America Aragel cries. Thank you for watching and your insightful comment 😊
Don’t mean to sound negative but crying is a common skill with many woman 🤷♂️
@@MoshiraMitanoagreed..crocodile tears..are the real?
Yes, my girlfriend always cries before I leave, too.
@@MoshiraMitano Yes , unfortunately they can turn it on and off like a spigot at will.
You know when I saw your vlog I knew there was a chance for me to have a family. I never had children because I was always too busy. This the name of the song Cat in the Cradle. I plan to retire to to the Philippines next year. Your vlog ment a lot.
I’m happy that it gave you an idea that you can still have a family. I love it here Brother ❤️
Good advice
Thank you Phil 😊
Good advice my friend
Thank you Carlos 😊 I hope all is well with you
So true understand
Thank you very much for watching and commenting Bernard 😊
Hey buddy, I'm glad to see you up and around. I'm like when Divina leaves me alone in the house. I'm a home body and she likes to get out.
Yes sir I see her posting of her being out. So you totally understand what I’m talking about. Thank you so much for watching. It took me a week to make that video. Good thing I have two of those blue shirts 😂 I hope everything thing is good with you and your family. I seen a video of you mopping the kitchen floor. Good man I have always been that way share in the house chores
Thanks!
Thanks for the great advice big brother you are a walking encyclopedia you are the best
Thank you so very much Michael ❤️
Good advice. I so not will not associate with expats as have so many of that type of men in the states. When I started learning tagalog. Found it sure helped . I always spent time in gyms and do here. I did woodworking so rented a shop for that and store our motorcycles. Wife's parents live over 2 hours from Cebu City in the province and they love it. She is 40 no children 31yeare younger than myself. We spend time at the beach or in mountains even skinny dipping in a lake and camping there.
We met on a dating site 2 half years before we met. That one thing there was no money involved. Neither of us have children. She wants a baby which we discussed and great for me.
That’s awesome thank you for the inspiring story Daniel 😊
That’s awesome thank you for the inspiring story Daniel 😊
Right on, Monty! 👍
Thank you very much for watching and commenting Noah 😊
You're looking great brother!
Thank you very much Brother 😊
Another great video Monty
Very good advice
Thank you very much for watching and commenting Sir
Hi Crew Family HRU'LL ? Luv watching yr live Chat video luv fm India ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you very much Maria. I hope that all is well with you in India 😊
God bless you both.
Thank you, Catalina 💛
Great video
Thank you very much Claude 😊
Your daughter must be smart and very intelligent, age gap brings smart kids in the world
Thank you, she is a smart happy little girl 😊
Some very good advice Monty
Thanks Mike I hope all is going well in Cebu
Another great video Monty.
Thank you Gary 😊
Hey Monty great info..I agree you will never be number one..my friend says he is after her family the kids the dog the fleas on the dog then him ..ha ha ha
😂 He’s correct. Thank you for watching Canada 🇨🇦 😊
At the end a lesson for all us settle in,boots on the ground
You got it Keith
Great informative video thanks !
But for now my finances don't allow me to have a wife here
I have a partner who comes to visit me for a vacation once every two weeks.
I help her financially but only as little as I can
I see that she is not happy with this, she would like more
but I hope she understands that I’m just strapped for money
because of the war in my country
Wow that’s a really rough situation that you’re in since you’re from the Ukraine. Hopefully she will understand and stick with you
@@crewfamilyphilippines Thank you for your kind words my friend!
Monty I remember when what you just preached was called "common sense". It iseems to be lacking everywhere now.😊
Yes Sir, it seems like it has gone out the window. Just like romance when my ex wife left and went with her new man. He called me a few months later and said that she was complaining that he wasn’t romantic and he said that he would pay me to tell how to be romantic with her. I told him if you’re in your 50s and don’t know how to be romantic then you’re probably not going to learn now and I’m definitely not going to teach you 😂🤣
• Security is one of the most important things to most women. Even more so to Filipinas. That's one reason younger girls prefer older men. Most younger Filipinos act like butterflies and girls are sick of it.
• Yes, most Filipinas want a family. But, one of the biggest reasons they want children is old age security. These women live in extended families. So, they have been brought up with the notion that children will take care of oldie parents. And, most do. We used to be like that in the US, but now we get sent off to die in nursing homes, etc. I like the extended family way.
Very good monty
Thank you very much Jeffrey 😊
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Hi to Ya Monty thanks for the great advice much appreciated, I🇮🇪😊
Thank you very much for watching James 😊
I'm happy that you have such a wonderful life and family over there. My question is what happens to your wife and child when you pass away, financially how are they able to support themselves?
Social Security for my daughter.
May God bless you more..✝️🙏😇
Thank you Mark 🙏🏻
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Thanks Monty
Thank you for watching Brother. I hope that you’re doing well sir
Hi Monty!! God bless y'all!!!!
Hey there Luis, God Bless you Brother
G'day Monty, firstly i hope your health is holding up.
Nice video, also very informative info.
Appreciate your thoughts & opinions very much.
Although I'm sub your channel I did not watch many, though what I have viewed is very good.
Thanks the video, hope the the family is well, regards to your beautiful wife and daughter.
BTW I'm meeting my LDR this Xmas, after a long ldr we will finally meet soon.
Cheers 🍻 brother, take care, stay safe.😊😉
Hi Glen, thank you very much for watching 😊 I’m very happy that you will be able to meet up with your lady soon 💛 we are all doing well and I hope everything is good in your world
@@crewfamilyphilippines all good here, cheers 🍻 Monty
Australia 🇦🇺 🪃
@@glennhiggins5425 I’m glad that you’re doing well Glenn, nice to meet another guy from Australia. The best chili in Dumaguete is made by Chris who is Australian at Big Billy’s
Some great advice Monty
Thank you very much for watching and commenting Dave 💛
you can't teach a rich women to live poor,, but you can teach a poor women to live rich,,
That is very true John. 👍🏻
Some good advice there.
Thank you very much for watching and commenting 😊
How you doing my friend hope you're over you're chest congestion 😊 glad to see your looking better
Thank you very much Jessie. 😊
@crewfamilyphilippines did that lagundi leaf helped I hope 😊
Nice one Monty, any news on lucky Jim? Best wishes to you and your family. 🙏🏻
They have moved into the house now but they are still working on it. We will do a video when it’s finished or close to it
Great advise Monty. Everything you said is so true. Hope you and yours are doing great. Any update on you Social Security? I do hope you are having some luck with it. Take care.
No luck yet. Paul has a call into his guy at the embassy here. He’s on vacation. Hopefully as soon as he gets back we can figure it out. I’m nervous September is my birthday month ☹️
Greetings, you are truly a blessed man. A great wife and a beautiful child. Question, have you planned for your wife future after you leave this earth? Please share your plan, if OK. Also, I know you recently got SSI, if OK, please share how much you are getting to better appreciate you financial situation in the Philippines and with a new family. Many thanks and take care.
I will be posting a video of our budget in around 9 hours from now
Hi Monty, another good video. Hope things are ok it’s been awhile since a new video Take care.
Thank you very much. I’m uploading a video now. Hopefully be out by 9 or 10 am today
@@crewfamilyphilippines Thanks Monty, always enjoy anything you put out. You deliver your content in such a refreshing way.
@@tombkk1322 Thank you Tom. I really appreciate that
Monty your so cool
Not really but thank you very much Bernie 💛
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That’s why I got a Filipina that’s older than me im not messing around with kids. Let me take that back young adults.
Good Move 😊
Hi Monty,
Great video, thanks for the constructive video on developing a relationship with fillipina
Curious if you can recommend a budget hotel or accomodation in dumagette as I get in tomorrow Saturday for the first time in dumagette, perhaps if you have some free time, I'd like to meet you for coffee or a drink
Thanks
Eamonn
I always stayed at the Go Hotel Eamonn. I could meet up another day tomorrow is full for me. Have safe travels brother
It's gave and take maybe it work Maybe not it depends on the young lady and y say about the airport meeting i understand you never know even if she had a suitcase it might work as well is it might not all depends on both of you but when a forginer comes to phlippines and end seeing all kind of beautiful young flipina then his mind goes in over drive he start thinking vow all these Beatiful flipinoes but you are right with everything u say it s gospel truth you are talking from experience I love you and your wife blogs you gave a beautiful family take good care of them and they take care of you
Thank you very much for watching and your insightful comment David. Also thank you for the kind words Sir. I hope that all is well in your world Brother 💛
Good one Monty
Thank you very much Danny
You're the exception, not the rule my man. You got very lucky. Too bad they don't all turn into a fairytale like yours. 😁
Thank you Chris. My ex is from Honduras and she was a nightmare and I didn’t take the first replacement. I was single for 12 years while I searched for a good lady. I wasn’t going to go through another mess 😊
I appreciate your thoughts ..your a older guy. I’m in a more modern middle class City relationship..the older perspective with a province girl is at odds with modern relationships..and I count filapino’s in that statement. Your in the archetypal older guy …Provençal relationship …good luck to everyone …I’m of the opinion we are part of a crew ..look after all …if you have the opportunity.
Hi Eric thank you for watching and your insightful message. I understand your point
,,,GOOD ADVICE,,, (01) SLOW DOWN,,, (02) HELP BUT DO NOT OVERSPEND,,, (03) DO NOT PAY EVERYTHING FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY, UNLESS YOU HAVE MILLIONS OF EXTRA SPARE PESOS TO GIVE AWAY FOR FREE,,,
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