HOW A QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMAN WAITS PATIENTLY FOR A HUSBAND by RC Blakes

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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  9 місяців тому +426

    HAPPY NEW YEAR FAMILY! Thanks for all of the support through the years. Lisa and I love you all.

    • @rosalindhouser4007
      @rosalindhouser4007 9 місяців тому +4

      Happy New Year To You and your beautiful family ❤❤❤❤Love you guys

    • @GodsFav-s7p
      @GodsFav-s7p 9 місяців тому +2

      Happy New Year to you Pastor Blakes and your Family..Thank you for all that you do for us..May God continue to Bless you and your family🙏🙏❤️

    • @holacomoestas_imERICA.520
      @holacomoestas_imERICA.520 9 місяців тому +2

      Many blessings to you and your queen throughout the year 🙏

    • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
      @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 9 місяців тому +1

      Happy New Year Bishop!

    • @KarenElizabethPalmer-vd5dx
      @KarenElizabethPalmer-vd5dx 9 місяців тому +3

      Dear Pastor RC Blake's, Happy New Year & Best Wishes for First Lady Lisa Blake's and your Lovely, Beautiful and Bless Family. I Truly Believe 2024, this is my Year Indeed that my Heavenly Father sends the Right King for me. I/We Appreciate all your Phenomenal Teaching which is a Gift that keeps on giving. To God Be The Glory for the things, the technically teaching Pastor RC Blake's Jr. have exceeding done.

  • @Flavy_ao
    @Flavy_ao 9 місяців тому +341

    1. She must realise the difference between purpose and desire 17:54
    2. Marry purpose and desire will nolonger dominate your emotions
    3. She rehearses the consequences of compromising
    her virtue.
    4. She elevates spiritually to overcome the challenges of the flesh
    5. She turns a deaf ear to cultural retoric that creates urgency
    6. She's able to wait patiently for her king because she embraces the art of the wisdom of self love and self discovery.

    • @crystalgrose
      @crystalgrose 9 місяців тому +5

      Thank You So Much ♥️

    • @profmj7630
      @profmj7630 9 місяців тому

      Thanks so much

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 9 місяців тому

      *consequences

    • @Carla-hq6yp
      @Carla-hq6yp 9 місяців тому

      What if purpose and desire are one and the same?

    • @JesFos
      @JesFos 9 місяців тому +1

      Good. Im on the path 🙏🏼

  • @ebbygal1111
    @ebbygal1111 9 місяців тому +91

    I've been having a ball while I wait for the right person. Taking care of myself, my spiritually, health, working on my purpose, and enjoying life. God sends you the right man when you're busy enjoying your life that he's blessed us with. I always remind myself that the right man is icing on the cake.
    Get busy ladies and love on yourself. Love attracts good love. ❤❤

  • @originalyiskah
    @originalyiskah 9 місяців тому +151

    High morals, high values, high standards, strong biblical boundaries & extremely healthy habits is my blueprint. 💯💯💯

    • @suebaybee
      @suebaybee 9 місяців тому +2

      Yas. Now that's what you call living.

    • @dorothymatthews6690
      @dorothymatthews6690 9 місяців тому

      Amen!

    • @TheDevineFempress
      @TheDevineFempress 6 місяців тому +1

      Likewise… and like my understanding my love and interest “grows” you only fall into TRAPS.. not “love”

  • @theinnerpeacepodcast
    @theinnerpeacepodcast 8 місяців тому +12

    As a women who looks forward to marriage but still finds value in her current single life, I would say that you should stop “waiting” for a husband and start “living your life” don’t make your entire existence about finding your husband. It keeps you in the mindset of a needy woman. Dig deep and deal with what parts of you that lead you to believe that marriage will make you happier than you are right now. That’s deception. A husband and a marriage is a blessing but nothing is greater than the peace you find when you fully surrender to God and start enjoying your life right where you are. Get in the gym, get in your word, stay focused on your passion like RC said.

  • @missextraordinary7172
    @missextraordinary7172 9 місяців тому +26

    I am a 44 year old single black woman. I never had a father figure in my life and never knew how important one was until I started listening to you. Thank you, so much for doing God’s Will!

    • @kyrianjoseph1403
      @kyrianjoseph1403 9 місяців тому +1

      Don’t feel bad , I had one in my life and he’s the reason for most of my traumas.

  • @tracypat9619
    @tracypat9619 9 місяців тому +72

    This is so true. Stay strong my sisters. I am married been with him 7 years now but treated so terribly, disrespected savagely. We are separated but still connect with each other from time to time. I know I should let go and fighting to do that, but I’m struggling. Please listen to this carefully! The pain isn’t worth it for the sake of a certificate with the Devil. You willnot get a marriage; however, you will get everything hell can throw at you! Although I was treated terribly I still believe there are good men out there, we just have to ask for the wisdom of God and discernment.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 9 місяців тому +17

      May the good Lord free you from this man in peace. Lord help Tracy be set Free from a man who is toxic and poisonous towards her. Please deliver her now. In Jesus name Amen

    • @Faith-FN
      @Faith-FN 9 місяців тому

      Read the bible daily.Inspire him to love you.Action love,regardless..but ptotect your mind too❤❤❤❤not easy.may Grace locate you

  • @RashekaWalters
    @RashekaWalters 9 місяців тому +91

    Now this is how to kick the new year off RIGHT!!! Along with fasting, prayer, and RC that’s all I need

    • @Omnipresenc
      @Omnipresenc 9 місяців тому

      Yes

    • @mrsrkcarter
      @mrsrkcarter 9 місяців тому

      Yes I’ve been in consecration for two weeks I am ready

  • @talawoods25
    @talawoods25 9 місяців тому +99

    "It was her self love that trained me how to love her on that level" RC Blakes
    Bishop, you helped me become the very woman you have described. I am QUEEN conscious. Thank you for all you've poured into the Lord's daughters. God bless you and your beautiful wife always. Happy New Year‼️✨️

  • @believing984
    @believing984 9 місяців тому +20

    I'm 56 and soooo happy being by myself I don't desire to be in a relationship. I wake with a smile and Say... GOOD MORNING ABBA. GOOD MORNING HOLY SPIRIT. GUARDIAN ANGELS. And Do the same thing at night. To meeee it DOESN'T need to get better than that ❤🎉❤

    • @BelleMaria267
      @BelleMaria267 9 місяців тому +1

      Right there with you! 56 and at peace and growing closer to God every day!!

  • @rolivhuwasadiki4397
    @rolivhuwasadiki4397 9 місяців тому +14

    "When you are mastering your individuality, you are not desperate for pairing",,,now that is power right there😇💯❣💫

  • @nourhanebn69
    @nourhanebn69 9 місяців тому +42

    I'm a Muslim and I love your content so much,God bless you how you teach us how to wait for or godly husband and protect ourselves in the main time ❤❤

    • @memenugud8536
      @memenugud8536 9 місяців тому +2

      Me 2 ❤ I love his teaching so much

    • @sadadevries5875
      @sadadevries5875 9 місяців тому +2

      Same ! It’s very relatable

  • @chandrahutto7732
    @chandrahutto7732 9 місяців тому +95

    This message is good!
    I love how Bishop has a heart for single women to help us be whole and happy before we marry. Eventhough he's married he cares about God's daughters. He has a lot of wisdom and personal experience to share with all women. I love his teaching ♥️

  • @edytadelfel249
    @edytadelfel249 9 місяців тому +27

    It’s been 5 years since starting my journey to My Queen Conscious Mindset and I have gained so much self respect that those messages are resonating so well.
    Always so grateful or such wisdom❤❤❤Blessings

  • @chandrahutto7732
    @chandrahutto7732 9 місяців тому +20

    I'm waiting for my King and I've been celibate for over 7 years praise God in my wait! I'm a wife by faith!

    • @sekhmetra4100
      @sekhmetra4100 9 місяців тому

      I been celibate for three years now it's difficult with raising children but it's the treatment after those needs are met the tears on pillow the rejection is unbearable I decided never again to just wait give my previous jewels to a king in the meantime just be amazing souls living inlove of self💯

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 9 місяців тому

      Congrats I'm 8 years. 🎉. We are wives. I won't have it no other way.

    • @taniathomas7353
      @taniathomas7353 6 місяців тому +1

      I’m 4 months celibate!

  • @angelamitchell5566
    @angelamitchell5566 9 місяців тому +21

    "When purpose is not know, abuse is inevitable." ~Miles Monroe
    LORD HAVE MERCY!!!
    When you don't know your purpose as a woman, many times you will abuse yourself. WHEW Pastor!!!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 9 місяців тому

      Women received the same godly purpose of dominion as men.

  • @angelamitchell5566
    @angelamitchell5566 9 місяців тому +16

    WOW!! When you're already married, you're not desperate to be married!!!
    PASTOR!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    You need to marry your purpose!! 💥 BOOM 💥

  • @Gracefull777
    @Gracefull777 9 місяців тому +51

    I am so grateful to discover this man but listening to him hurts me in an inexplicable way. These are things I should have known, things I should have been taught. I am 40 years old now learning the basics of authentic womanhood.

    • @Nitadeniseinspires
      @Nitadeniseinspires 9 місяців тому +15

      I’m 40 as well sis! Let’s learn together. Sending hugs!🥰

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 9 місяців тому +13

      I been listening to him since 2019 and I'm now 45 your not alone. I felt that way when I found him too.. Each year it got easier.😊

    • @vaclinciapounds8859
      @vaclinciapounds8859 9 місяців тому +3

      I'm 43 and im right there with you!! I have learned a lot from Bishop Blakes, and his insight has helped me in so many ways. I am grateful and thankful for his teachings. ❤️ 🙏🏽

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes me too. I mean why did this apparently so loving God take so long to bring this message to US? 😢

    • @shawndadarden7218
      @shawndadarden7218 9 місяців тому +4

      I’m 52! Same ❤

  • @vickeyprince3701
    @vickeyprince3701 9 місяців тому +43

    Let’s hit that like button !! This message is so much needed and RC Blakes is such a profound voice in society today !!!

  • @allthingsashanda
    @allthingsashanda 9 місяців тому +37

    Exactly what my Spirit needed, thank you Pastor! This is such a powerful message I didn’t realize I needed. You are the Spiritual Father who teaches us how to become the women that God has ordained us to be. Thank you for repositioning and realigning me. Cheers to 2024 Queens! 🥂

  • @JoshuaEdward12
    @JoshuaEdward12 9 місяців тому +46

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 9 місяців тому +1

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back.

    • @JoshuaEdward12
      @JoshuaEdward12 9 місяців тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 9 місяців тому

      Her name is *Shelly renee white* , and she is a great spiritual counsellor who can bring back your ex.

    • @JoshuaEdward12
      @JoshuaEdward12 9 місяців тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @JosieLaBord
      @JosieLaBord 9 місяців тому

      🙏🏾

  • @molina260
    @molina260 9 місяців тому +18

    This message came at the right time. I’ve been feeling down lately while I patiently wait for my King, but I’m grateful of the word of God given by you through this message has given me strength. God bless you Pastor Blakes 🙏🏻🙌🏼

  • @EWambereGlobal
    @EWambereGlobal 9 місяців тому +2

    You're the voice needed in this generation. No cultural pressure 🙅🏾‍♀️

  • @talkswithjas7959
    @talkswithjas7959 9 місяців тому +10

    This is so on time! I’m definitely tired of waiting for my husband. It’s hard because I tried abstaining for a long time even when everyone else around me was out there and they ended up meeting their person and here I am still waiting. I told a friend that I feel like with all of my dating it’s like I want a burger with all of the toppings, but I’ve been settling for just a slice of cheese. I deleted my dating apps and I’m going to just focus on myself this year and pray that I run into my husband, but if not I’m just going to continue to live for me because I’m tired of getting my hopes up.

    • @nahoga
      @nahoga 9 місяців тому +2

      Prayers❤

    • @latashaperry783
      @latashaperry783 9 місяців тому +2

      I did the exact thing deleted the dating apps they weren't serving any purpose for me. Focusing on me and God right now. When the time is right God will align me with my husband, only God sent🙏

  • @chandrahutto7732
    @chandrahutto7732 9 місяців тому +16

    Thank you so much Bishop R.C Blakes for helping single sisters to learn how to be Queen conscience woman and know how to patiently wait on a proven husband

  • @MsAmazonAmazing
    @MsAmazonAmazing 9 місяців тому +17

    Right on time!! Minister Blake. Thank you for all you do to keep us Queens encouraged 🙏🏾

  • @anncharles210
    @anncharles210 9 місяців тому +22

    Happy New Year, everyone! My daughter says, "Mom,one of your favorite pastors is on ." We both listened to you on the podcast, and you were amazing . Thank you and Lady Lisa for being such a wonderful light in this season of life. Many blessings to everyone in this new year.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 9 місяців тому +8

    Premarital sex affects men too, but in different ways. My ex from college days became quite promiscuous & never married. He's in his 60s now. He's like the walking dead. Completely shut down and bitter. In God's economy there's no double standard. Everyone suffers from fornication. As far as the younger generation..they're being bamboozled by the devil. Keep speaking truth, Pastor!

  • @gold-in-melanin7488
    @gold-in-melanin7488 9 місяців тому +1

    I am truly great to God for you and this message to we single women. I think it says a lot when a man encourages us ro not become desperate for a husband but rather prepare ourselves for that moment and also live our lives and not be dominated with worries about not being married.

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 9 місяців тому +3

    Please keep giving me the advice. I appreciate it. Your wisdom has brought me far, and I will continue to look forward to your guidance. Some women love to be lost without a real man's perspective because they want to choose the bedroom over using their brains..!!

  • @DrChalicecom
    @DrChalicecom 9 місяців тому +26

    Happy New Year Bishop Blakes, Lady Lisa Blakes, and everyone! What a timely discussion! Can't wait! I am so grateful for Bishop Blakes ministry. This UA-cam channel has enlightened me, increased my wisdom, and helped guide me in making better dating decisions. We appreciate you Bishop!

  • @ashajeremiahqw8775
    @ashajeremiahqw8775 10 місяців тому +15

    New year but been single for a while and I can’t keep carrying waters in my house alone

    • @tamikamcdaniel4161
      @tamikamcdaniel4161 9 місяців тому +8

      IKTR. Especially that Costco water. 💦 it gotta weigh at least 50lbs. 😂😂😂

    • @godsgirl724
      @godsgirl724 9 місяців тому +7

      LISTEN!!! I hear you! That’s why I take a few bottles out of the case at a time ‘cause I’m not carrying a case of water up a flight a stairs; not happening. 😂

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 9 місяців тому

      😂

  • @thecateyedoracle5087
    @thecateyedoracle5087 8 місяців тому +1

    Protect this man at all costs 💙

  • @artistcreatorallymamii
    @artistcreatorallymamii 9 місяців тому +6

    Im in the season of self love & rediscovery of Jesus Christ 👍🏽✨💕

  • @princessleuci2602
    @princessleuci2602 9 місяців тому +19

    🙏🏾❤️ Amen, Minister Blakes. May God continue to richly bless and keep you and Mrs. Blakes. I’m so blessed to listen to your messages. Thank you. 🙏🏾

  • @angelamitchell5566
    @angelamitchell5566 9 місяців тому +5

    Sometimes GOD holds your desires up because you're not walking in your purpose!! WHEW!! 💥 BOOM 💥 Now that will preach Pastor!!!

  • @tinalawson3060
    @tinalawson3060 9 місяців тому +3

    Patiently is the key word 🎯 As you said God willing he blesses us with our hearts desires and if not so be it! I’m 53 and wasted most of my life on un fulfilled relationships. My purpose now is God first, not myself or anyone else. If God sees a husband in my future that’s wonderful but at the end of the day “thy will be done Lord “ not mine. Thank u so much for this episode 🙏🏼🎉

  • @atlantafoodstar
    @atlantafoodstar 9 місяців тому +2

    1. She must realize difference between purpose and desire.
    2. Marry Purpose and desire wont dominate.
    3. She rehearsals the consequences of compromise.
    4. She elevates spiritually so she wont fall into sin of the flesh..
    5. She turns deaf ear to cultural/ human/wordly urgency. Oh, you getting old. Etc.
    6. She is able to wait because she embraces wisdom of self love and self discovery. Empowers women to be there authentic self to attract the right partner.

  • @angelamitchell5566
    @angelamitchell5566 9 місяців тому +9

    If you can't be happy as a single, you will NEVER be happy in a marriage!
    Speak Pastor!!!

  • @urdice7317
    @urdice7317 9 місяців тому +3

    What a timely message ! It helps to keep the focus. " Marry purpose and desire will no longer dominate your emotions" ....wow....I am holding on to that word ...what a blessing ! Thank you, pastor RC Blakes. Cannot wait to see you all in Atlanta!

  • @realtalkmaryjaeenterprise3767
    @realtalkmaryjaeenterprise3767 9 місяців тому +1

    Purpose carries the gift of fulfillment!

  • @macareuxmoine
    @macareuxmoine 9 місяців тому +6

    This has been balm to my soul! Thank you for this wonderful start into 2024! Your fatherly wisdom is just so healing! All the best!
    PS: is there anywhere where I can listen to the Queenology music, a playlist or so? Music just lets the message sink in on another level! Thank you!

  • @bernittamosoro4619
    @bernittamosoro4619 9 місяців тому +4

    Needed to hear this, especially at the start of 2024 🙏
    Thankyou Pastor Blake's ❤❤

  • @danettacollins33
    @danettacollins33 9 місяців тому +10

    Thanks you Lord for confirming my waiting period❤

  • @louisalaufa9858
    @louisalaufa9858 9 місяців тому +7

    Happy new year and greetings all the way from Papua New Guinea. I have been following RC Blakes Jr ministry for the last 3 years and I thank God for the wisdom and guidance that is being shared with women all over the world. May God continue to bless this ministry to branch out to the south pacific where women need exposure to Queenology.

  • @QueenConsciousShay2445
    @QueenConsciousShay2445 9 місяців тому +2

    “A woman will not find a husband in the middle of a bed”🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯

  • @deborahnafula6005
    @deborahnafula6005 9 місяців тому +2

    Right timing!...this is all i need.I’m waiting patiently for my king.Thanks Pastor RC...i’m truly a queen.I know fully my value as a woman and child of God.

  • @JoannA-sweetly
    @JoannA-sweetly 9 місяців тому +1

    Unshakable! Friends, family, culture, time clock - non of that trash! Focus on God! Thank you Bishop. 💯🎉💕👏🏾

  • @reneeholley1891
    @reneeholley1891 9 місяців тому +5

    Happy New Year To the Blake’s 🎉thank you for always teaching us Queens how to be our Authentic Self. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @patriciabarclay8521
    @patriciabarclay8521 9 місяців тому +7

    Happy New Year Bishop good word I'm not perfect, but I am a Queen conscious woman. I'm up in age and I've learned from my past mistakes which enables me now to be a wise woman. Waiting patiently, but expecting, anticipating this event with my king.

  • @Thefemininerhythm
    @Thefemininerhythm 9 місяців тому +5

    Pastor, This is such an amazing message! One that is also on my heart. I live a very nomadic life but am a believer and hold firm to my purpose and virtues. Time and time again I am consistently having to assert my boundaries and viewpoint and am frequently laughed at but I know it is God's will! I would prefer to marry my purpose and God and never find a husband if he is not my God ordained King and we are unequally yoked. I just pray many more women and men raise up in this generation to be examples for the next generation ❤

  • @KayOvercoming
    @KayOvercoming 9 місяців тому

    Sometimes God will hold your desires up because you’re not walking in your purpose. I had to come back just to hear that and the fact that I landed exactly at the timeframe of the video lets me know. I needed to hear it again.

  • @loisthomas5465
    @loisthomas5465 9 місяців тому +5

    You're welcome my Bishop, we love and appreciate you both. Happy New Year. 🙏🏼💙❤🙏🏼💙❤

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama8950 9 місяців тому

    I saw that broadcast. You were a bright light. I’m shocked by today’s lack of moral standard’s. The advice by popular social channels is lacking in insight. God bless you and your wife! ✝️❤️

  • @Handleitt1
    @Handleitt1 9 місяців тому +1

    Purpose over desire. This is it. This is gold. It also reminds me of the saying/belief “It is selfish to marry for love” women should marry for A,B,C, ect. Women should date and marry for purpose. Thank you ❤

  • @BecomingaQueen
    @BecomingaQueen 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for helping me become a Queen. It truly made me realise my value, believe it and now men tell me “ you can have any men in the room” - it is true, I have maximised my beauty and my inner beauty as well and became irresistible.
    Still no husband in sight which is sad, but maximising your value and approaching the dating market from the one up position is priceless 🌹👑🌹

  • @jackieheath3748
    @jackieheath3748 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank You for covering this conversation. This waiting journey is not for the weak. Maybe getting clarity and walking into my purpose is my answer of what to do now/next. Thank you for your continued pouring into us. You are Greatly appreciated.

  • @karenoyama8950
    @karenoyama8950 9 місяців тому

    You are the perfect person to advise women! Your success is proof of such.

  • @nenelavv26
    @nenelavv26 9 місяців тому +3

    Love this ! Just right on time , & also been reading the book you mentioned, Purpose driven life ❤️❤️ thank you for this

  • @MysticButterfly22
    @MysticButterfly22 9 місяців тому +2

    This was a beautiful way to start the new year! Thanks for a great msg! I received this msg as a single woman and at this stage in life.❤

  • @chalmapittman2946
    @chalmapittman2946 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for caring for us ladies enough to sow into us.

  • @angelamitchell5566
    @angelamitchell5566 9 місяців тому +1

    Purpose will gift you with fulfillment, the thing everyone in the world is searching for!!

  • @ileneyoung7404
    @ileneyoung7404 9 місяців тому +5

    Happy New Year! Bishop to you and your family. Yes, purpose over desire. I have implemented this into my life at present practice. I am a woman of 60 years now, still working on oneself. It's not easy, but honestly, it is worth the wait. I only wish I knew earlier in life what I know now. Protecting my virtue always.

  • @Royal_Priesthood717
    @Royal_Priesthood717 9 місяців тому +1

    The intro song is everything, I always put up the volume for it, lifts my spirit all the time ,❤ thank you lord for this channel🙌🏽

  • @sarahgirlsoaps
    @sarahgirlsoaps 8 місяців тому

    I watch HI as well. I love a lot of the guests that they have on. Well, the ones that align with your message. I was happy to you sharing your message on there.

  • @stephonrobertson6774
    @stephonrobertson6774 9 місяців тому +1

    Tnk for the word, happy new year

  • @edna5531
    @edna5531 9 місяців тому

    You are the best. You speak nothing but truthful honesty and the reality that most of know but don’t want to admit. Thank you

  • @jaywatson6261
    @jaywatson6261 9 місяців тому +1

    Happy New Year! This video presentation/teaching is very timely. I'm a Christian single lady in my 60's and retired from a mainstream job. I now run my own tutoring business + I have a variety of interests/hobbies. Yet recently, particularly during this holiday season, I've been feeling the pressure of not being in a relationship and/or married. The last relationship was with a 'Christian' man, who unfortunately turned out to be a narcissist. Cutting a long story short. I've been on a long journey of self healing and self discovery. As we now move into 2024, I've prayed to the Lord God for His heavenly wisdom to refocus and solely concentrate on my purpose. It's not easy as I see other older (50's/60's) female Christian friends who have met and one has got married due to going on dating apps., an area I don't want to pursue. Thanks again Bishop R.C. Blakes for putting things into perspective. May God continue to bless and prosper you in your ministry, particularly Queenology. I'm slowly working through your programme. Ultimately, I'll soldier on, developing and working on my purpose in the way I believe God would want me to 🙏🏾

  • @iamchanel_b
    @iamchanel_b 9 місяців тому +1

    Bishop this was so good! Right on time for the beginning of the year, I surely needed this.

  • @jessicascreenwritingservices
    @jessicascreenwritingservices 9 місяців тому +9

    Thank you Minister Blakes. I recently let go of a therapist because she was trying to convince me to shoot my shot at a man and she even implied that if I don’t do that then I’m not a confident woman. It’s insane the amount of cultural pressures that are out here. Grateful for voices like yours and Tony Gaskins 🙏🏾

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 9 місяців тому

      I think that can work for other people but DEFINITELY does not fair well for Black women. People make recommendations without considering cultural/ ethnic contexts.

    • @lhill80
      @lhill80 9 місяців тому

      I am glad you let go of the therapist and hope that you found another one. If you are a Christian, then a Christ-centered therapist that is culturally sensitive and competent may be a better fit for you! Much success to you queen!!! 👸🏽 ❤
      L. Hill
      Betterhelp Therapist

  • @landrat3481
    @landrat3481 8 місяців тому

    Message received 💞 Thank you Pastor RC Blakes Jr & may GOD Bless you & your family🙌☝️

  • @Tha-Fyrefly.
    @Tha-Fyrefly. 9 місяців тому +1

    🎉Happy 2024 Loves! 💚 Wishing U Much Prosperity And Success! Growth! 🥰

  • @niarenaspeaks
    @niarenaspeaks 9 місяців тому +6

    This was a good one and right on time. I was feeling down today, but this was exactly the reminder I needed. Thank you! Happy New Year Bishop and Mrs. Lisa! 🎉❤

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Bishop! This was so good! I will not compromise anymore. Been abstinent 10 years now and will continue to do so until God brings me a husband, if thats his will for me. Lastly, when i was seeking a relationship, the Lord told me to focus on developing my gifts and talents. Now, i understand that revelation.

  • @Shakiyahdixon
    @Shakiyahdixon 9 місяців тому

    GLORY BE TO GOD MR. MRS BLAKES HOPE YOU AND THE FAMILY BE BLESSED TO SEE MANY MORE YEARS TO COME🙇🏾‍♀️🫶🏾

  • @joannpotts819
    @joannpotts819 9 місяців тому

    Bishop this was DEEP! Thank you.

  • @reginamemoriesforever-vc8ql
    @reginamemoriesforever-vc8ql 9 місяців тому

    Dear RCB, you changed my life! God bless you always! ❤

  • @LeH-qk3ff
    @LeH-qk3ff 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for this good words of encouragement this word was right on time amen

  • @beuneeklyfe7644
    @beuneeklyfe7644 9 місяців тому +3

    Abba you know the desires of my heart and you know what I need before I know that I need it. I surrender all to you. I decrease so that you can increase. Your Will ,Your way🙌💯❗

  • @dianaguisado
    @dianaguisado 3 місяці тому

    Happy Birthday Bishop RC Blakes🎉 God Bless you and Lady Lisa!!! 🤍Thank you so much for this ministry !!

  • @Rachel_K
    @Rachel_K 10 місяців тому +5

    I’m ready🔥

  • @authorangielynn
    @authorangielynn 2 місяці тому

    Listen here...I can testify that marrying purpose will make you wonder whether or not a relationship can fit in your life ❤ Whereas before you wanted nothing more than a relationship... PREACH 😊

  • @scorpiored3871
    @scorpiored3871 9 місяців тому +10

    Elevation in God does help temptation by praying and reading the Bible!Great message! Thank you Bishop Blakes!❤

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 9 місяців тому +11

    Praise God for this sermon...I have been divorced for almost 21years now..yes i do want to remarried..right now i want to wait for the Lord because of my passed mistakes in dating, and because of my passed mistakes i decided to save myself for my mateif i was to marry again. I am a Proud God Fearing Sulvant woman and sister's I am truly grateful for that.. because I truly luv myself..Thank u Bishop for this semon

  • @doriskomla8301
    @doriskomla8301 9 місяців тому

    Happy New Year, Papa! I affectionately refer to you as such because that's exactly who you've been in my life. I've been under your teaching for six years, and when I reflect on the person I used to be compared to who I am now, I'm truly grateful. While I wait for the Lord to bring my King into my life, I'm thankful that my testimony is that I am living my best life yet. I hope that someday you'll bring Queenology to Ghana or I'll have the opportunity to attend one of the Queenology conferences.

  • @nics2709
    @nics2709 9 місяців тому

    This video should go viral. Thank you ☮️

  • @lifesjoyz4724
    @lifesjoyz4724 9 місяців тому +3

    Happy new season everyone. Look at God because I was going to contact Bishop about this very topic. 🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
    God bless you Bishop I believe God is speaking to me through you. 🙏🏾

  • @santbr
    @santbr 9 місяців тому

    I feel so blessed and enlightened after listening to this. Thank you pastor for being a wise human father for me, one I never had.
    I turned my life around a few months ago and since then I have been married to purpose. I will never walk in lust again and I pray every night for my King.
    I am a Queen conscious woman.

  • @hillytmj
    @hillytmj 9 місяців тому

    This is an excellent word!

  • @confessionsofbeingfabulous
    @confessionsofbeingfabulous 9 місяців тому

    “Sometimes you gotta renew your wedding vows to purpose”. LOVE that 🩷🩷

  • @karenhill3917
    @karenhill3917 9 місяців тому

    One of my favorite hours of the week. When I hear that theme song followed by your voice I smile. I always know I'm in for a great message.

  • @Reclusive_Butterfly
    @Reclusive_Butterfly 9 місяців тому

    🙏🏾🦋amen 💯. The Blakes ministry is much needed in an era where there are so many false persons spreading toxicity and lies and not from a faith-based point.

  • @UYLhealth
    @UYLhealth 9 місяців тому

    This was such an important topic! You are such a blessing to women and this world! Queens rising!!🙌🏻👸🏻👸🏽👸🏿⬆️🎉

  • @TheHSoko
    @TheHSoko 9 місяців тому

    Such a great discussion! 👑 life purpose over desire…. Love this!

  • @gchrisfairbanks5390
    @gchrisfairbanks5390 9 місяців тому

    What a beautiful prayer~ Thank you R.C.Blakes 🎊

  • @sharonjames5625
    @sharonjames5625 9 місяців тому +3

    Happy Blessed New Year, Bishop and Lisa. Thank you all for sharing and encouraging us as single women young and older.💜🙏🏽😊👋🏾

  • @sherrigammon5030
    @sherrigammon5030 9 місяців тому +3

    Yes, I can't wait to hear this message. God bless.

  • @nyashakurasha7699
    @nyashakurasha7699 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Paps. I will be still.

  • @tammyrichmond6709
    @tammyrichmond6709 9 місяців тому +6

    Happy New Year everyone, I wish i could be on live but i have to work til 10p, I will check it out tonight after work. I am so hungry for the message pastor RC Blakes. God Bless us All

  • @ldub4563
    @ldub4563 9 місяців тому

    ....currently in progress
    TY Pastor Blakes for the advise as per usual