Are Women More Attracted To Older Men?

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  • Опубліковано 22 лип 2024
  • Historically Women Have Always Dealt With Older Men; Is That For Love Or Security?
    According to the rule, you divide your age by two and then add seven to calculate the "socially acceptable" minimum age for a partner. For example, if you're 32, you can date someone as young as 23 while remaining in the realm of "socially acceptable," according to the calculation.
    #loveisreal
    #oldermendating
    #cougar
    #sugarbabies

КОМЕНТАРІ • 488

  • @carljohnson1334
    @carljohnson1334 3 роки тому +166

    They need older and mature people on this panel

    • @PuddinTane270
      @PuddinTane270 3 роки тому +10

      Yes I just said that… a lot of the discussions are immature

    • @keithdavid1544
      @keithdavid1544 3 роки тому +3

      The women I know tells me all the time they want to be the youngest in the relationship

    • @ItsTheExperience
      @ItsTheExperience 3 роки тому +1

      absoloutely!!!!!!!

    • @rayb1091
      @rayb1091 2 роки тому

      Yeah they went to the extreme on older men. Should of brought in a older man to see his side. I wonder if Rico will feel the same way if he's single at age 40. Me being 43, I don't date under 35. But I'm not an high value man and don’t want more children. But I believe women should go for older man when they are ready to get married. Maybe not 10 year older, but women(girls) mature 1 to 3 years faster men(boys).

    • @erichill3128
      @erichill3128 2 роки тому

      And you can tell by looking at these younger dudes they look immature but they will grow out of it and the dudes are asking a mature question even built woman with the green hair is answering in amateur away why can't she's just saved I like older men they turn her on

  • @GinaJyneen
    @GinaJyneen 3 роки тому +250

    They need hosts with a wider variety of ages. This panel is all 20s

    • @TheGr8-1
      @TheGr8-1 3 роки тому +45

      Word. And honestly, they don’t know $hit. You can hear it in their arguments.

    • @GinaJyneen
      @GinaJyneen 3 роки тому +7

      @@TheGr8-1 💯💯💯

    • @radzakinz
      @radzakinz 3 роки тому +3

      Spot on!

    • @kayawalters1326
      @kayawalters1326 3 роки тому +6

      Rico make more sense really the men the girl in the green hair just said she gone get married but just Play stepmother like older men want babies she need to listen to Kevin Samuels

    • @ldmaze517
      @ldmaze517 3 роки тому +9

      @@kayawalters1326 - Rico is very immature in has way, especially when it comes to responsibilities. Kaya it was kind of hard to understand what you just wrote. But this panel should be diversified when it comes to age.

  • @TomikaKelly
    @TomikaKelly 3 роки тому +110

    It feels like Danny values father-like figure qualities in her romantic partner. My dad was the one who set me up in life, passed down a house to me, helped me start my own businesses, helped me with my credit and taught me how to save, and invested life and financial literacy skills into me, not my partner. I was already a ready made package when I got into a relationship.

    • @amanda_the_alpha
      @amanda_the_alpha 3 роки тому +6

      Same father financially and mother showed me my femininity and supportive nature to a partner who provides that

    • @ngpdreamteam2k4
      @ngpdreamteam2k4 3 роки тому +2

      Do you guys split the bills 50/50 with your partners? Also does you or your partners have a higher income?

    • @amanda_the_alpha
      @amanda_the_alpha 3 роки тому +1

      @@ngpdreamteam2k4 no we don’t , financially is 65/35%; I make about $3k more annually but I have student
      Loans. So when it comes down to it he has more money coming in than I do (net)

    • @ngpdreamteam2k4
      @ngpdreamteam2k4 3 роки тому

      @@amanda_the_alpha so you pay 65 and he pays 35? That’s different. You guys got a unique arrangement

    • @amanda_the_alpha
      @amanda_the_alpha 3 роки тому

      @@ngpdreamteam2k4 no I’m 35%

  • @kama6196
    @kama6196 3 роки тому +55

    Thing is to most women security is very important. Irrespective of age, they want that security with a man.

    • @Flyzel....
      @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому +12

      Facts! Younger men don't primarily provide that. They still are growing too and are on average not mentally stable.

    • @mannarmylie4195
      @mannarmylie4195 3 роки тому +7

      @@Flyzel.... Correct. As a young man i was too busy building ME to provide stability for someone else. At that age all i had for women was hard D and conversation. And i really wasnt interested in talking much..🤔

  • @jayhartRIC
    @jayhartRIC 3 роки тому +98

    The dudes definitely were in their feelings on this one. On average, older guys are more secure. They moreso focusing on the exception.

    • @TheGr8-1
      @TheGr8-1 3 роки тому +4

      Very.

    • @dr7912
      @dr7912 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly.

    • @locks4
      @locks4 3 роки тому +3

      @See - A Lay Tray ===== aka Mr Research ahhh you caught that

    • @lilnunu28
      @lilnunu28 3 роки тому +6

      Very. They’re speaking for older men which is weird.. yall arent even 30+ yallselves

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 3 роки тому +2

      These boys don't realie they hopefully will become older men someday.

  • @andinoayala4254
    @andinoayala4254 3 роки тому +24

    These young dudes seem jealous of older dudes. Their line of questioning and reasoning is proving the young ladies point. I was like that when I was younger. Life is a hellova' teacher.

  • @shantiseb9157
    @shantiseb9157 3 роки тому +80

    This was all over the place. Here’s my take.
    Women value security and safety and men value youthfulness, cooperation, and an opportunity to leave behind a legacy. Both genders will have a better chance at providing what the other needs during the prime age of 25-29 for women and 29-35 for men. That’s where you get the gap and that’s why women are better off dating older.
    There are always exceptions to the rule. Some men are forced to mature sooner and some women mature at a slower rate. And some people at any age are just not good for you.

    • @Lkmsundastood
      @Lkmsundastood 3 роки тому +3

      Point blank

    • @lucrativetaxpayer
      @lucrativetaxpayer 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you

    • @euleralbino2925
      @euleralbino2925 3 роки тому +1

      Spot on

    • @Starr0581
      @Starr0581 3 роки тому

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @sonderexpeditions
      @sonderexpeditions 3 роки тому +4

      Actually women aren't better off with gaps. Studies show a marriage is more successful the smaller the age gap. Even a 5 year gap increases chance of divorce by 18%. The average age gap in the USA is 2.3 years. Most people show the vast majority of their life accomplishments by 35, and highest earners in the country if you look at careers and age of starting, is mid to late 20s. If a woman values stability that much, marry a man on the right path in his 20s like whether he graduated university or trade school, are his skills valuable in the market place. If you're looking for white collar men, majority are established late 20s, early 30s (if medicine).

  • @Wegetbusy
    @Wegetbusy 3 роки тому +63

    That’s cap older men ain’t asking for kids and rushing situations

    • @FOXTHEFIERCE
      @FOXTHEFIERCE 3 роки тому +7

      Right !! Older men don’t even want to get married 🤣 they’ve been already.. usually and learned their lesson.

  • @Flyzel....
    @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому +35

    Rico sounding real insecure and in his feelings when he is speaking. He is the youngest man on the show and he is showing his age and immaturity. Cmon bruh!

    • @c276blem
      @c276blem 3 роки тому +1

      Shut the fuck up old man

    • @Flyzel....
      @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому +21

      @@c276blem You must be his boyfriend or president of his fan club since you all in your feelings lol

    • @williamstaats7146
      @williamstaats7146 3 роки тому +2

      😂

    • @Daniii27
      @Daniii27 2 роки тому

      @@Flyzel.... LMAO

    • @donmagik6250
      @donmagik6250 2 роки тому

      Facts!

  • @mickyfingaz
    @mickyfingaz 3 роки тому +22

    People in their twenties think that people older than them are all decrepit and old fashioned and not hip to what's going on. That's the arrogance of being in your twenties, thinking that just because you're an adult that you know everything and that everything someone does requires your opinion.

    • @Flyzel....
      @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому +3

      Super facts

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 3 роки тому +2

      Lack of vision and basic ignorance. Rico is going to be embarassed when he sees this in a few years in his 30's like 'damn I was dumb & self-absorbed...'.

    • @devg___21158
      @devg___21158 2 роки тому +1

      It’s the other way around people that’s older swear y’all then seen it and all and don’t even be over 40 yet

    • @ntwpodcast4100
      @ntwpodcast4100 2 роки тому +3

      @@devg___21158 You must be in your 20s.

    • @DC...
      @DC... 2 роки тому

      Someone once said *" A 21 year old is a 3yo adult"*

  • @moquamami8541
    @moquamami8541 3 роки тому +49

    Rico so mad they don’t want to date him cos he’s younger lmaooo. If insecure and overly emotional was a person smh

    • @Flyzel....
      @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому

      Facts

    • @6688ya
      @6688ya 3 роки тому +7

      I'm guessing when he is his mid 30s he will be looking for girls in their 20s ,

    • @benitymccall9043
      @benitymccall9043 3 роки тому +2

      Him down stairs 😂😂

    • @Mayo2014
      @Mayo2014 3 роки тому +4

      Uhhh I doubt he want that loud mouth green bowl cut hair chick … he’s just trying to understand lol

    • @fismithe297
      @fismithe297 3 роки тому +2

      For sure! Women want security and maturity and a lot of younger men cannot provide that...

  • @livinmabestlife
    @livinmabestlife 3 роки тому +28

    Dating older doesnt mean that person is emotionally mature and finaincially stable

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 3 роки тому +4

      True. But in general with age comes more maturity & financial stability from experience. Do you know more now than you did 5 years ago?

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife 3 роки тому +1

      @@reimourrpower9357 everyone's experience is different and lifestyle situations. You can be younger with lots of life experience. You can be older and broke or struggling. It varies.

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife 3 роки тому +1

      @@reimourrpower9357 i feel like a person has to be willing to change and grow. There are so many older people who are "stuck in their ways" and havent matured emotionally or mentally..

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 2 роки тому +1

      @@livinmabestlife I agree to a point. In the context of the conversation, Danny Duces and women in general notice that MOST (not all) the older men they meet are more mature by default of their experiences. If you are as immature at 35 as you were at 25, then you definitely have self-examination to do and women very likely will notice that arrested development.

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 2 роки тому +3

      @@livinmabestlife Some seem to be taking the idea of women wanting mature older men as a slight towards younger men when they shouldn't. If a younger man is solid, mature and balanced at 25 years old, shouldn't he be even *more* together at 35? That comes from age & experience. And no not every 'elder' is mature & solid but best believe they likely were not more solid when they were younger unless they are de-evolving. Don't be like Rico, mad that *some* women like mature older men than him right now.

  • @ericperry72
    @ericperry72 3 роки тому +36

    What's funny is these dudes in their feelings about this but in a few years they will be benefiting from this lol. Get out your feelings its always been that way.

    • @pinacollado18
      @pinacollado18 3 роки тому +8

      Yup....I'm loving being 39 and still getting young girls in their mid 20's. Sorry ladies that's one benefit of being an older, stable and childless man 🤷🏾‍♂️. Life is sweet

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 роки тому +1

      @@pinacollado18 is it really most of them if they look half decent won’t actually want u tho or a real future with you if u not atleast a 6 figure earner. Nothin u said was impressive bro a lot dudes in the 20s get a lot of ass too and we don’t have to provide “security”

    • @kiuk_kiks
      @kiuk_kiks 2 роки тому

      @@HOODTROPHY2x
      I agree. Most men isn’t heir 40s are broke anyway. They don’t have a disposable income. Yeah, they’re usually better off than they were in their 20s, but they’re not rich, the vast majority of them.

  • @asiahoke6510
    @asiahoke6510 3 роки тому +87

    Danny just wants a sugar daddy lol!

  • @taylormadeism
    @taylormadeism 3 роки тому +20

    He keep thinking that its about what he got and what he can get, but its about where your head is at. When we get older our mind is just in a different space. That's when we transition from physical and material, into mental. Thats why younger women are attracted to older guys, its a mental thing and they dont realize it, because remember they are young also so they don't understand either, it just draws them in.

    • @mightywisdom88
      @mightywisdom88 3 роки тому +2

      You said it G! Facts!

    • @taylormadeism
      @taylormadeism 3 роки тому +7

      @@mightywisdom88 And he getting salty about it. What he doing right there is prime example of what seperates a yong mind and a older mind.

  • @King-ru9ve
    @King-ru9ve 3 роки тому +55

    Rico saying just because he’s old doesn’t mean he’s stable. True! The average man is only making $40k a year

    • @kingkunta07
      @kingkunta07 3 роки тому +7

      Stability is having a stable income, stable address and so on. Most older men 35 + are stable , that is the point.

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 3 роки тому +4

      Stability isn't just your income. It's what you do with it. The guy making 40k a year with 3 to 6 months of living expenses saved. Little to no debt, good credit, retirement accounts set up, and has maintained that income for 2 or more years.
      Is more stable than the guy making 100k a year. But his money fluctuates, little to no savings, bad credit, lives beyond his means, in heavy debt etc

    • @King-ru9ve
      @King-ru9ve 3 роки тому +4

      @40k per year you make $800 a week. That’s nothing. Compared to a 100k guy that makes over $2k every single week. These women don’t have to accept the scraps your bringing home if they can be with another man and get what they need in Entirety. No female in the animal kingdom is going for scraps and a male that can barely provide; they prefer the whole carcass bro. Stop shaming them for not wanting your bare minimum effort to provide. Average dudes want women to reject the milk & honey for scraps & dry bones. Hell no; how about you work harder to provide more as a man. Minimum effort gets minimal out come which to y’all would be terrible mate selection. Do more get more.

    • @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149
      @bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149 3 роки тому +4

      @@King-ru9ve You don't know me bruh. I'm simply explaining the difference between high earner vs stability. You know how many 6 or 7 figures dudes blew their money and have nothing to show for it years later? Yet you acting like what I said has no merit.
      What you said is also valid. But again. High income alone is only half of it. The other half of stability is what you do with that income. If the 100k dude is spending as fast as he gets it. That's not stability. Because if anything happens that distrupts his cash flow. Party's over.

    • @sonderexpeditions
      @sonderexpeditions 3 роки тому +3

      So true, I work in tech and the 22 year olds are stable. Almost everyone around me has retirement accounts investing in HSA/401k/Roths, emergency savings, no debt, their own apartment and car with stable income. It depends on your social circle. If you work in Tech, finance, Operations, or healthcare, your social network has a lot more stable people who are young. Half of my social circle is Asian/White, and they're pretty much all stable by 27/28 because they chose STEM fields.

  • @menaakua5893
    @menaakua5893 3 роки тому +66

    Rocco is always in his feelings with things he doesn’t agree with . If you’re apart of a panel like this you need to be open minded

    • @Flyzel....
      @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому +16

      Thats where his immaturity is at thus why women want a older man. Younger men are on average too immature

  • @nickalton
    @nickalton 3 роки тому +20

    I actually think Danny is smart. She only saying that the “average” man her age not mature and wise enough for her. That’s been her experience so you gotta respect it. There’s very mature well put together men her age but in her circle that’s not what she’s encountered. Some women like younger men and that’s Ok too!

    • @Mayo2014
      @Mayo2014 3 роки тому +5

      What’s mature to her ?? Being secure and Paying HER RENT AND DOING WHAT SHE WANTS … that’s maturity? Wow

    • @futureofta8686
      @futureofta8686 2 роки тому

      Yea you were tricked. It's the DOLLARS she talking about. She just didn't want to outright say that used a bunch of code words lol

    • @darnell607
      @darnell607 2 роки тому +1

      Danny just wants to be taken care of like alot of women..

    • @futureofta8686
      @futureofta8686 2 роки тому +1

      @@darnell607 it's the entitlement with no humility for me.

  • @rodericksampson4272
    @rodericksampson4272 3 роки тому +16

    I think Danny is thinking of the word maturity

    • @reihannahherring8605
      @reihannahherring8605 2 роки тому

      I honestly agree with Danny here most older men go with younger women anyway

  • @ShowMeSomeL0ve
    @ShowMeSomeL0ve 3 роки тому +22

    Lol Rico was on demon time at the end

    • @dagangstah
      @dagangstah 3 роки тому

      facts LOL

    • @Flyzel....
      @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому +7

      He showed his immaturity at the end and proved thevladies point about younger men

    • @deidremitchell8269
      @deidremitchell8269 3 роки тому +3

      @@Flyzel.... facts

    • @shoptalk7415
      @shoptalk7415 3 роки тому +1

      @@Flyzel.... huh? bruh them ladies is basically looking for the bag over tru love! they basically are saying they don't believe in themselves enuff and want a man to just give it to them...

  • @Vandeezcreations
    @Vandeezcreations 3 роки тому +10

    I get Danny’s point but what I felt like Oliver was hinting on the control aspects of dating mature men. Like men do like control and when they do provide for you financially sometimes they pay you to shut up or just deal with what they want you to.

  • @bamagrl26
    @bamagrl26 3 роки тому +5

    You all needed to have older adults who have life experience on this panel to provide a better perspective. Because just because you are an older man or woman doesn't mean you have your ish together.

  • @tiancole8763
    @tiancole8763 3 роки тому +30

    Danny did not tell women to date older Rico ... she just stated why she doesn’t like dating her age group .

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 3 роки тому +14

      It feels like he's feeling insecure because he doesnt fit the bill in this situation.

    • @rogerbarrett5776
      @rogerbarrett5776 3 роки тому +9

      Yes she did.she clearly stated that she believe women should date older men because to her they have their shit together. Weren’t you listening the podcast keenly?

    • @tiancole8763
      @tiancole8763 3 роки тому +5

      @@rogerbarrett5776 and then she corrected it as to her own perception of what SHE thinks

    • @Dologaming24
      @Dologaming24 3 роки тому

      That’s exactly what she said as soon as she opened her mouth...

    • @LowercaseKev
      @LowercaseKev 3 роки тому

      Yes she did. Just because she said in her view at the end does not negate that she said all women should date older men.

  • @keithdee44
    @keithdee44 3 роки тому +5

    *My chick is 1 yr older*
    I got her spiritual, credit and financials straight as well as life track stable and growing.

  • @MrTrav110594
    @MrTrav110594 2 роки тому +5

    Honestly I'm 27 and my GF is 23. She explained to me that she has learnt so much from me. Her career has advanced. Her finances are now flourishing. Dating someone that's already established can really be a game changer and generally that's someone who is older.

    • @kj3887
      @kj3887 2 роки тому +2

      Bruh that's really not a big age difference 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @MrTrav110594
      @MrTrav110594 2 роки тому

      @@kj3887 true true lmaooooo but stillllll

    • @kj3887
      @kj3887 2 роки тому +1

      @@MrTrav110594 They mean dating someone 10 years or older.

    • @Kagomegurl246
      @Kagomegurl246 2 роки тому +1

      @@kj3887 No Danny was talking about dating someone 3-5 years older than your age, and with dudes on the panel took issue with that which was weird.

    • @kj3887
      @kj3887 2 роки тому

      @@Kagomegurl246 She definitely wasn't talking about dating someone 3-5 years older. That's basically the same age. She was talking about dating older guys who are 10+ years older.

  • @hotrod9931
    @hotrod9931 3 роки тому +7

    How are they talking about older men and don’t have 1 older man on the panel! The young cat with the braids was too upset about older men taking down younger women! He obviously had a bad experience 🤔

    • @benitymccall9043
      @benitymccall9043 3 роки тому

      I agree with you, he will se how it's goes and the next 3years from now. I always look at the older guys an said to myself I got to get myself together.

  • @petermiller5144
    @petermiller5144 3 роки тому +12

    Danny just wanna spend someone money

  • @annadavis3641
    @annadavis3641 3 роки тому +5

    He got at Danny like he expect her to raise his kid like tf!!!

  • @quietstormdj1471
    @quietstormdj1471 3 роки тому +12

    Yo Rico is way off on this one. This is exactly what Danny is saying about younger dudes not being mature enough. Let's see if he still has that same message when he's a decade older. I bet his tone will be different about dating women in their 30's.

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 2 роки тому

      Exactly. It's illogical for Rico or any younger man to hate on older men being prefered by younger women when *you* will become an older man soon enough. That immaturity is why some young women prefer older men.

  • @jonellejoli7099
    @jonellejoli7099 3 роки тому +5

    Ricco getting tight at Danny preference just proves her point it's just certain things you don't gotta teach, him being more confident or mature Rico getting mad like that showed immaturity, insecurity Just date your preference

    • @shadowlee02
      @shadowlee02 2 роки тому

      No Danny simply made 0.sense and gave no reason outside of dingaling and money

  • @mr.crenshaw
    @mr.crenshaw 3 роки тому +13

    I could tell that the 2 young men would be triggered by this, but they’ll learn to appreciate the way women think once they get older. Men typically don’t hit their financial stride until mid 30s, which is why younger women are attracted to us (41 years old). The green-haired young lady is telling the truth. But I will give Rico credit for speaking the truth about the 26 year old dating a 40 year old man. Check in with her in 2 years, because she’s not marrying him, however with young women today, maybe her goal is to simply leverage her looks in order to gain short term monetary benefits, and the 40 year old gets access to her body. It’s an even trade, in my opinion.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 3 роки тому +3

      "Men typically don't hit their financial strides until mid 30s"
      The average salary for a man, particularly for a Black man, is around $40k a year. While there are some unicorns, the exceptions don't make the rule. The average mid 30s Black man might have more than the 20something, but not significantly more to where he is a more attractive option financially.

    • @mr.crenshaw
      @mr.crenshaw 3 роки тому

      @@TomikaKelly there’s no number attached to my statement of hitting their financial stride, however an average black man who makes 40k, still places him as a higher earner than the average black woman who makes 35k a year, so realistically, he would be in a better position to support her. Lastly, what is your definition of a unicorn?

    • @livefromthemotherland
      @livefromthemotherland 3 роки тому

      @@mr.crenshaw facts

    • @jayhartRIC
      @jayhartRIC 3 роки тому +1

      @@TomikaKelly That's how averages work lol. However if the that average was broken up by age group then the 20 years old would be making something in the $20-$30k range while the 40 years olds would be making something in the $60k range. But the average for men overall would be around $40k. A younger man making less as he gets older is the exception, not the rule.

    • @sonderexpeditions
      @sonderexpeditions 3 роки тому

      @@TomikaKelly 40k?....the average college grad makes 50k right out of school according to data......

  • @etcn96
    @etcn96 2 роки тому +2

    Women are always attracted to older men because men's prime doesn't usually kick in until their late 20s to early 30s where they're fully stable and settled where women's prime is in her 20s. Women are on a faster timeclock which is why women are usually always ready to take a relationship to the next level. Women are more desirable in their 20s where men are more desirable in their late 20s to early 30s.

  • @miya481
    @miya481 3 роки тому +10

    This is a good topic. I just turned 40. Do you know how many men w/i the 40-55 age range, still don't have themselves together? Do you know how many of them still live at home w/ their parents? I know a few. I also know almost 50 yr old men that are knee-deep in debt, barely getting by, no money in the bank, priorities messed up b/c they're moving like they're still in their teens and 20's. These men are capping for younger women to pull them, b/c they think younger women are gullible enough to think their older age equates to wisdom, stability and security. However, in reality, their world is quite unstable and fragile. Just because you're older, doesn't make you wiser and more responsible. We have to judge ppl by their maturity levels. Just saying....

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому

      How much money should a 40yr guy have n the bank?

    • @miya481
      @miya481 3 роки тому +1

      @@reese85 Well, that all depends on that 40 yr old guy's liabilities. Far example, lets say his mortgage is $2000 per month; his car note/insurance is 500 p/m; his other bills are 1000 per month, which totals about $3500 p/m. Some would say that he should have at least $10,500 in the bank. That would be 3 months of $3500 p/m saved up. Now, some ppl would even say you should have 6 months of your debt saved up, but I think 3 months of money saved up for monthly bills is fair. This will cover any emergencies or a loss of job for at least 3 months. But the reality is, a lot of us are living check-to-check and if we miss a check, then we're struggling and that's when ppl start getting evicted and losing their cars and homes. Also, this needs be applied to women also. When we get in our 40's, we are expected to be wiser and more financially responsible. Now, going back to the society's expectations of a man, you all are expected to provide for your women and children. So now, those are other liabilities and/or dependents that you are expected to financially support. So, you would need to add more money to your rainy day fund. Now these ladies want sugar daddies who have hundreds of thousands of dollars and millions in the bank. However, the average man don't have that.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому +2

      @@miya481 I like the way u broke down how money he should have in the bank! Imma add up all my expenses and do the same thing and start working on having that money put away n the bank! Thanks for knowledge

    • @miya481
      @miya481 3 роки тому

      @@reese85 No problem Reese! I'm glad to help! Also, you can start off slow to build. Start with 100+ bucks every week or every payday and try not to touch it even if you have to hide it in place that you can't easily get to. Before you know it, you'll have $2,000 easy. Take care brotha! 😉👍

  • @MrMakemusicmike
    @MrMakemusicmike 3 роки тому +5

    The men are big mad.
    I went to visit a female friend once, some younger dude came by to see her.
    He was big mad I was there, you know...the older guy.
    Lucky I didn't beat his ass.

  • @Whisperwarrior
    @Whisperwarrior 2 роки тому +2

    I get third person embarrassment when Danny speaks 🥴

  • @PuddinTane270
    @PuddinTane270 3 роки тому +17

    I would like to see a wider variety of host. For example; age and background wise. With age comes experience. Seems like most of the host are young. I’m not saying that they are not knowledgeable. I’m saying that it would be more beneficial to have host from different age groups and back grounds. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 3 роки тому

      At least have a mature guest for a subject like dating older. An elder brother who has dated older women or and elder sister who has dated older men in her youth would bring some valuable perspectives.

  • @jamesstovall1839
    @jamesstovall1839 3 роки тому +7

    I would love to see these young children 25 years from now. That would be very interesting because right now they are talking about what they think instead of what they know. Have not lived long enough to understand how life and relationship dynamics, especially in age differences change as they get older. Most of these women will no doubt date a man 10-15 years older after they reach the age of 35.

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 2 роки тому

      Check 'em in 5 years and you'll see a difference & more maturity.

  • @MacVee415
    @MacVee415 3 роки тому +4

    I can say, me dating someone who is 6-10 + years older than me is usually a no for me. My reason to it is, it reminds me of an older relative or sibling. It then puts me in a weird space of no that can be my father, uncle etc. ( now this is just me ) there’s men around my age who are mature and are wise and are stable. But of course everyone sees different.

  • @melchizedekzaval1837
    @melchizedekzaval1837 2 роки тому +2

    The young gentlemen seems uncomfortable by her preferring an older man. When a man is fully mature, he is not insecure of himself neither intimidated by another man or woman.. There is a difference between the two.

  • @ayo9703
    @ayo9703 2 роки тому +1

    When these guys are 40 plus and mega successful, they're gonna want a hot 25 yo. Not no chic that is the same age or a few years younger. That will never change.

  • @michaelwesleyii5079
    @michaelwesleyii5079 3 роки тому +7

    The important take away for Danny, is Security, Wisdom and Knowledge, and Maturity(Minimum)... even though she is saying age, from what I gather those are the main takeaway, because she has probably had certain unfavorable experiences from young dudes. If she so happened to run into a younger dude, that provided Security, Wisdom and Knowledge, and Maturity(Minimum), the question is would she accept or reject purely on age then?
    Edit:
    Leadership, I would include that as well.

    • @amirahannah4410
      @amirahannah4410 3 роки тому +4

      I don’t understand how the other panelist didn’t gather that Info from what she was saying. It seems like they weren’t listening to understand.

    • @michaelwesleyii5079
      @michaelwesleyii5079 3 роки тому +2

      @@amirahannah4410 yep, listening to find fault.
      I'm in my late twenties, I have no problem with what she said because that was experience growing up when I was young, the younger women typically went for older men, so I understand that to be the natural progression based on my experience... specifically my experience does not make the rule obviously.

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 2 роки тому +1

      @@amirahannah4410 Rico's narcissism made him feel vulnerable when Danny said she's attracted to older men. He places so much value on external & superfical qualities that serve him now that he can't fathom the power of experience, wisdom & maturity drawing women away from him. He needs to take notes because he will be an older mature man very soon (hopefully).

  • @DanyDarling22
    @DanyDarling22 2 роки тому +1

    Danni always speaks the truth. Smart women/men are attracted to maturity, leadership, great sex, & stability. ♒️ Gang gang The guys are right too though since more mature men may anticipate kids, etc sooner.

  • @bashmorningstar8305
    @bashmorningstar8305 3 роки тому +23

    Danny only likes older men for their money.

    • @reimourrpower9357
      @reimourrpower9357 2 роки тому

      Not just money. She needs an older man to lead her in a relationship. In my opinion it's actually 'wrong' but what she desires right now that likely will change as she matures herself.

  • @godisable8021
    @godisable8021 3 роки тому +2

    Now, these people are trying to convince me that maturity depends on age?

  • @annadavis3641
    @annadavis3641 3 роки тому

    That’s a blessing @ the cardi B modeling situation!!! #Yourdefpressure

  • @Snista
    @Snista 2 роки тому +3

    A secure younger man not gonna make a fuss or get in his feelings if a woman decides to date older. Rico is very insecure; you can tell. Danny need to learn to express her points better because she’s not giving depth.

  • @je39981
    @je39981 3 роки тому +4

    Wanting to get married around a certain time frame doesn't mean that person has to be older. A man can be 21-25 and if that's his desire in life to be married early-- once he's in a long-term relationship he can discuss his desires with his girlfriend. Being in your early 20s and marrying someone around your same age group doesn't mean the two wants to be girlfriend and boyfriend for 8+ years and engaged for 10+. Your partner being close in age doesn't mean it'll last or the two of you will be compatible. If that was the case then no one would be single. Every man in their 30s in this world isn't burnt out with baggage.

  • @geminitwin5525
    @geminitwin5525 Рік тому

    This panel is funny 😂 asf. Shawty with the green hair is hilarious.

  • @daghettogandhi8746
    @daghettogandhi8746 3 роки тому +1

    I like how the men conducted themselves in this one 💯

  • @larrybaskin7414
    @larrybaskin7414 2 роки тому

    This is a excellent debate.....it should be longer...

  • @donyakusa9187
    @donyakusa9187 3 роки тому +5

    Who in their right mind would want to marry these women? Can’t make this stuff up.

  • @reashabiggs2236
    @reashabiggs2236 3 роки тому +7

    Dating older is okay if it’s like 5-7 years and realistically speaking women should be with someone that will provide security , but her reason is because she coming from a broken point of view with daddy issues

  • @shomarimonroe150
    @shomarimonroe150 3 роки тому

    Great video

  • @samlovexo
    @samlovexo 3 роки тому +2

    Go Oliver 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @imanibathe
    @imanibathe 3 роки тому

    I love Danny honesty

  • @larandle
    @larandle 3 роки тому +2

    Older men are more seasoned and settled in their ways. They are past the street stages. They more knowledgeable and ready to provide.

  • @zhnaethebueaty
    @zhnaethebueaty 2 роки тому +2

    I understand what Danny was trying to say but she has hard time fully expressing and explaining her points fully… it has nothing to do without its about maturity and the mindset you can meet and 25 year old thats more secure than a 50 year old it just depends on the individual… y’all need to get me on the show fr lol I’ll let y’all really know the inside scoop of this relationship shit

  • @rodneywright4000
    @rodneywright4000 3 роки тому +2

    You young guys don’t worry about it. Watch how you change in your choice of women. Women mature sooner. Don’t put a limit on the age cap. Just wait and see

  • @yonilogan3016
    @yonilogan3016 3 роки тому +5

    They need older men they get to emotional when there not chosen within a scenario

  • @dreyward1177
    @dreyward1177 3 роки тому +1

    How they gonna have a discussion about dating older men but not have any older men on the panel ??? smh 😐

  • @antwainpatrick6669
    @antwainpatrick6669 2 роки тому +1

    Rico took that shit personal! Lolololol! Danny has a preference that SHE looks for....not asking for your approval of what she should have! Calm down dude! 😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @Etse-dj1wm
    @Etse-dj1wm 2 роки тому +1

    Older doesn’t always mean you got it together.

  • @electricmoxie6433
    @electricmoxie6433 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with Danny.

  • @DeSorboE21
    @DeSorboE21 2 роки тому +2

    I'm 24 and my husband is 37 we have 3 children and there's love peace security no issues. I don't think there's anything wrong with dating older you just have to be mentally and emotionally on the same level as them you can't still be childish and have child like thinking and acting.

  • @Sala916_
    @Sala916_ 2 роки тому +1

    At least they talking bout what other shows ain't. 😙

  • @dolcesweet5173
    @dolcesweet5173 3 роки тому +9

    I agree with Danny here. Women should date older. Men date off of appearance and women date off of security. The love comes after. And why is Rico always so damn emotional. You can tell he is in his feelings and "modeling"? Really? Why not get a trade. Rico is not even model material.

  • @erichill3128
    @erichill3128 2 роки тому

    I remember I was seeing this younger woman she was 25, and at that time I was 40, we became intimate the first thing she told me was she never dated an older guy, and she never had somebody to make love to her the way I did, she told me the fact that she loved how I kissed her from head to toe and was gentle in the lovemaking those were her words

  • @MrJrlemons3
    @MrJrlemons3 3 роки тому +1

    They're young. Give them time. Opinions will definitely change.

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 2 роки тому

    The older men i dated never wanted kids and to settle down , they only wanted to have fun. It was no different from dating a guy my own age. But now I'm 33

  • @alyjc1640
    @alyjc1640 3 роки тому +4

    You don't really need to date a much older man to learn from them.... You can get older mentors. While you date someone on the same wavelength as you.

  • @reimourrpower9357
    @reimourrpower9357 3 роки тому +2

    Rico played himself ha. First spinning unrelated story about Minaj's manager checking for him then mad about women dating older men. He's the reason women date mature men not insecure boys like him.

  • @347kimanib
    @347kimanib 3 роки тому +8

    Damn … Danny need a father .

    • @GregKingAtlanta
      @GregKingAtlanta 3 роки тому

      on god. health insurance and a roof over your head are things a father provides his children.. sad to see

  • @JayQuarius
    @JayQuarius 2 роки тому

    This is the one time I agree with Danny. She already told you that she isn't going to be cooperative with a man her age. Rico will be dating younger women when he is in his late 30s and 40s. The hot chicks back in high school were dating guys 4 or 5 years older or older than that. They had cars and money. We didn't. I understood that back then. That's the game...

  • @brandonwhitehead6745
    @brandonwhitehead6745 2 роки тому

    Sounds like Danny likes men like her father I respect that, s/o to her pops salute ✊🏾

  • @uniquelashpetals2807
    @uniquelashpetals2807 2 роки тому +2

    I can’t stand when a person can’t comprehend. They already thinking of there responds and not listen to the statement(Danny). Also the woman get so offensive after putting they business out there than start repeating their story a million times. This show gives me anxiety at least the men are articulate though 🤦🏽‍♀️ smh

    • @Kagomegurl246
      @Kagomegurl246 2 роки тому

      I think she got offended because of the way he worded it. He obviously does not agree with and Danny and the lighter hair lady had already spoken on her experiences and why that was bad. What she went through and whatever traumas/hardships she had to endure because she dated a man that was 20+ over. When Danny said date older she meant no more than 5 years, Rico took a situation that was completely different (20+ years and 5 years is a huge difference) to try and make a point, and was disrespectful while doing it. The lighter hair lady hadn't come at Rico at all but since Rico was heated he told Danny that she would end up like her. Like that was just rude and I get what he was trying to do but it should've been articulated better by him. Danny needs some help in articulating her point as well, bc if she was trying to convey that older men could offer more than financial stability, I didn't hear that.

    • @uniquelashpetals2807
      @uniquelashpetals2807 2 роки тому +1

      @@Kagomegurl246 thanks for your response but my point is that I don’t feel they are articulate or mature enough for this panel it’s pretty obvious but sad because they have great topics

    • @Kagomegurl246
      @Kagomegurl246 2 роки тому +1

      @@uniquelashpetals2807 I wholeheartedly agree

  • @kingc1198
    @kingc1198 3 роки тому

    Date whomever ya want regardless of age

  • @Peach-hl3hz
    @Peach-hl3hz 3 роки тому +5

    We need different men on this show atleast 1 more ..

  • @lifeoflimitlessvibez
    @lifeoflimitlessvibez 3 роки тому +2

    Woooo!!!!!! Brakes!!!! A classic modern woman wants "security" the easy way out. Pure gold digger. I pity someone who dates fake hair, fake lashes, fake long nails, fake boutang etc🤦‍♂️

  • @phoebe109.
    @phoebe109. 3 роки тому +3

    I want to date older and with the rushing to have kids etc I want kids and I want to be married before 30 and men my age don’t want that right now they want to enjoy their youth maybe but if I found a man my age who wanted those things then Yh I’d consider it but he’d still have to be a little older than me.
    (I’m very open to opinions if you’d like to reply but please don’t start an argument)

  • @Challyboy345
    @Challyboy345 2 роки тому +1

    Danny kept saying the same shit 😂

  • @Donkahanan
    @Donkahanan 3 роки тому +3

    I see why the views for this show is low the perspectives are bias and very materialistic but the culture promotes this mindset so they speaking based on what’s relative today’s culture

  • @gregoryjohnson2619
    @gregoryjohnson2619 2 роки тому +1

    The guys seem to be intimated by the fact that younger women date older guys for security.it has always been and will always be that way because most guys are not mature and have the bag in their twenties.

  • @redsnapper1759
    @redsnapper1759 2 роки тому

    Rico is right seen a lot of young girls go for old dudes then run back to the dudes their age once they found out the old dude didn’t have it like that

  • @biggmixxo
    @biggmixxo 2 роки тому

    As a older man, it's even easier for me to get young women or women as a whole. I always liked older women when I was younger. Older people r usually wiser.

  • @her8691
    @her8691 3 роки тому +3

    My man is 5 years younger then me and he is way better in so many ways then the guys my age so that's all cap if you just want an older man to pay your Bill's then say that

    • @bkandy7165
      @bkandy7165 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly.... financial stability, character, career and life goals, maturity, morals, values, ethics mean more.

  • @zakarihauodewale2380
    @zakarihauodewale2380 3 роки тому +1

    Starting to feel bad for Barb

  • @chitownstorminnormin4154
    @chitownstorminnormin4154 2 роки тому

    Men and women must.align to be good together!!!!

  • @tiffanydavis172
    @tiffanydavis172 2 роки тому

    Young Men, She is not saying that You really need more mature women and men on your incredible show... I would love to add...

  • @annadavis3641
    @annadavis3641 3 роки тому

    It’s about the men that the man came up under too @ sis on the right side!! Facts to your point too!!

  • @deardallasitsnola3435
    @deardallasitsnola3435 2 роки тому

    Dani is right ....men date younger consistently so I don't get why that's so hard to understand

  • @jujujo2203
    @jujujo2203 2 роки тому +2

    These men are in their feelings because they are young. The ladies are just saying their opinion. Nothing is wrong with that. You date what's good for you at that present time in your life period. Yes being older doesn't mean they have it together. And let's be real men takes longer to mature than woman so that's why most of the time women date older.

  • @hefdotcom2151
    @hefdotcom2151 3 роки тому +1

    Great episode. This page isn’t getting the attention it deserves

  • @bigghoww
    @bigghoww 2 роки тому

    Dudes on the panel were salty. But they will understand when they grow up 🤣

  • @Christian900
    @Christian900 3 роки тому

    Dating Spontaneously

  • @theconfessionsofahebrewisr2975
    @theconfessionsofahebrewisr2975 2 роки тому

    I agree with the girl with the green hair. Dating older men,....you dont have to say/ask for anything. They just know

  • @713jb5
    @713jb5 2 роки тому

    Green hair gon be a lonely af 😂🤣

  • @BenjiClips614
    @BenjiClips614 2 роки тому +1

    Modern women are attractive to money for the most part.. it’s hard finding genuine people nowadays..

  • @Nene-hl4bn
    @Nene-hl4bn 3 роки тому

    Rico is mfn touched lmao.

  • @carljohnson1334
    @carljohnson1334 3 роки тому +10

    The men on that panel dress like little boys. I see why they are on the defensive. No real women would take them seriously from a eye point of view.

    • @andrewwalker6986
      @andrewwalker6986 3 роки тому +3

      Lol now that u Mention it you right

    • @Flyzel....
      @Flyzel.... 3 роки тому +2

      Yes! No dis but there are hardly no men on this panel with wisdom and true life experience.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому

      How should a men dress?

    • @carljohnson1334
      @carljohnson1334 3 роки тому

      @@reese85 feel sorry you had to ask that.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому

      @@carljohnson1334 says a dude wearing a white t-shirt n hat lol! How u gunna say they dress like little boys when half ur outfit looks just like there’s

  • @tyi6630
    @tyi6630 3 роки тому

    Rico had point there new generation making money early in there stability. Rico just made another point about kids.