Why Do Men Get FriendZoned 🚫
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- Опубліковано 15 жов 2024
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It’s funny how women (in general) say that the ideal relationship they would like to be in, is rooted in friendship, yet, they never consider the men in the “FRIEND-zone” 🤔
Very true 👌🏾
Because what women say and do don't match
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Because that man has not made his intentions clear.
You can't be pretending to be a friend if your actual intentions are to date🙄
Women and men put people in the friend zone when they are not attracted to them. If they were they would entertain the possibility of a romantic relationship
@@brownstar45 in that context, you are correct.
At a certain point, a dude has to step up and let a woman know his interest. If he's orbiting for 5 years, she may not even know he's interested romantically. Go for what you want, or you may miss your blessing.
Oliver explained a damn good friend 😂 but females ain't attracted to that. Females like Dominance, Confidence and Leadership. She ain't attracted to no man following her all over the place...Orbit 🤣🤣🤣
And they can expect that same energy in their soon to be doomed marriages
Oliver is 1000% correct What these women fail miserably to realize is that Oliver is not saying that he intentionally orbits or pretends to be their friends just to get the P, He is saying that he values them way more than the guy that just wants the P but is often put in the friendzone for that very same reason, while the dude that literally doesn't give a sh*t about them is the one that gets chosen. Even if Oliver were to meet a woman and let her know from the get go that he is interested and wants to be with her, as soon as he starts treating them with value and invests time into them, he is automatically put in the friendzone for being too nice. That's all the dude was trying to say.
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Which is so sad because these are the men women need
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Yep and it was my situation when i was 19-22. I was in great shape kept myself up and everything. When I showed that I care more about them and that I wasn't about sex and was a genuine good dude I was friend zoned and told I was too nice or they only see me as a friend. If I Pivot and tried ghosting them and gave them little attention like the dudes they wanted they all the sudden saw the value in me. Lots of young girls are confused.
Its simple if a woman say no to date you just move on its simple dont get caugth up with the 'lets be friends' crap
When a women says, "Lets be Friends." Translation: I am not sexually attracted to you & I probably never will. However, I welcome all of the attention, finances, time, and resources you are giving me without having to give you anything in return.
@@CallMeStedman spot on mate.
@@CallMeStedman 💯
Cut they asses off. Save your time and money. I recently dealt with this with a female a few days ago and I cut her off immediately and now she’s mad 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Facts. Guys really put they self in the friend zone by chasing a woman that dont want them. Keep it player and keep it moving to a woman who is feeling you.
The problem with courting is we try to be the best version of ourselves so we can get some ass or a relationship. But when ur building a friendship and getting to know them, ur not trying to be this perfect representation of urself because ur not trying to get anything out of the other person. U can have those hard conversations with a friend cause there's no fear of "if I tell her this she won't let me fuck" "If I tell him this he won't see me as a woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with" either we gotta have those tough conversations off the rip in the "courting" phase or start fucking the people who genuinely know u for u lol
Bruh though it's old this was the absolute truth
If a man wants a relationship, he needs to say that. If he just wants sex, he needs to say that. Period. Be intentional with whatever it is that you’re saying you want.
I felt every piece of that back rub from Danny. I feel your pain Oliver.......I feel your pain 😭😂😂😂
Um...the ladies got it twisted. Your man SHOULD be your best friend
If 75% of what you talk about is who you're having sex with, you need other things to fulfill your life. With that kind of thinking, do you even talk to your girlfriend? Isn't she also your friend?
We are doomed as a race with this smash mentality no one ever discusses commitment. Single women raising their children alone and the black man has stepped out.
That's just what guys talk about its not that deep
@@nerdfitness5435 So what do married men talk about? How well they smashed their wives of the last 15 years.
he young, that's what alot of young men do
@@TomikaKelly hell no, you talk about your goals and obstacles in the way of your goals or maybe some side pussy
I like the way how Oliver thinks. He's very mature.
That's the friend zone mindset
He is more sensible but women have a lack sense most of the time hence in this video.
Mature simp but yes mature
He is what the women want because they get a benefit. He is selling himself short because he isn't reaping any benefits. The big question is why didn't the women agree to the other guy who said men can't be friends with attractive women????? Hence the reason modern men need to adapt and not give women nonsexual attention.
@@chrisisslick she already friendzoned him and they aint even met lmfaooooo
What Oliver was probably tryna say way 9 times out of 10 the guy that is put in the friendzone already making it known that he wanted before he was put in the friendzone that he was interested in the women...meaning he probably tried to talk to her in the beginning and for whatever reason whether her bring in a relationship at the time or her wanting to play the field or what ever it was she was not interested in him at the time so he gets friendzone because he then sits their and wait for the possibility that he will get his turn with her especially knowing that he never wanted to be her friend from the beginning
Amanda put the true definition of what puts men in a friend zone ! Good ish ! But !! When Rico said now @rico is now a hunter I bout died laughing !!! Lmmfao
Im cool wit girls but i dont have females friends
No female besties. Especially when I have a woman……………….because she’ll be that
At the end of the day a man can't get mad by being in a woman's "friend zone" because he put himself there from the jump. If you as a man see a woman you're interested in show her you're interested in her and if she doesn't reciprocate then just keep it moving.
The problem is these guys do not keep it moving. Lots of these guys did make it known they were interested but, the woman hits them with the "I don't want to ruin our friendship" card. They should of kept it moving at that point instead of hoping one day she changes her mind. It's no woman that special to go through that for 5-10 years lol.
Treat a woman like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan.
Women are funny. I learned over time like many guys that phrase, "Nice guys finish last". We find out that it truly applies in our younger years and not as much in our older years. I had to adapt and create an alter ego after being actually told, i was too nice by 2 different females. I was like, "How can you be too F'in nice!??? 😂🤣 I looked at it of just being a gentleman. It amazed me how well my alter ego worked, mainly not showing that I cared and so catering. Having more of a player attitude even if you weren't one. I eventually had to find a balance so I could remain who I am. Nice guys usually don't start winning until after 30. #TRUESTORY
Yeah. At the end of the day, you gotta be BOTH the nice guy and bad boy. Its just about find the right BALANCE to pull it off correctly
Real talk: If she doesn’t find you attractive…you’re getting friend-zoned cause no woman is gonna turn down and give another woman the chance to “take” a man that she is actively interested in. PERIOD.
that's why there is no point in being friends with women
You can be friends with a woman that you’re NOT interested in romantically or sexually. Like if you view her a family or you’ve known her since childhood
So Niggas want to get mad at the woman because they don't pick the so-called good guy who waits around. In my opinion, at the end of the day closed mouths don't get fed. To get what you want, you to need to be verbal about it. Not playing the hinting game. She can't read your mind. And that doesn't it make her blind. In my opinion, A man can be everything a woman wishes for butif she’s not attracted to you it will not work, it doesn’t matter who you are or how good you treat her. Unless of course, she is a gold digger or simply just a user.
In my opinion telling women who desires real love and a real relationship to go for the guys they friend-zoned is a setup. What your doing is fucking yourself in the end because all she’s going to do is eventually cheat on you with the bad boy anyway.
So I respect the fact that “some” women have that power to do that but, don’t abuse it because they care about their friend's feelings.
Aye Rico, I understand where you coming from. But, from a different standpoint. Dude, you sound real hurt about this topic and attacking the women for it. I'm not a big fan of that homie. If you were once Oliver at one point in time but, it didn't play out for you. Put you're Pride aside and just say that. No need to play the bad boy card to protect yourself.
If deep inside your really a sweetheart.
Keep it real next time Rico.
(FYI) for those of you who might be confused I am responding to the first half of this video that’s from Instagram.
So please watch the video from Instagram first then read my comment.
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You are absolutely correct! Closed mouths don't get fed. Plus if the person is not attractive to you, it doesn't matter how "nice " they are. Who wants a pity relationship?
Exactly.
That simp shit I can't get with
Girl said it less than 2 minutes in
She values "friendship" more than relationship
And the only reason why they're friends is because she chose not to get with him.
And then a few minutes later she says that she be smashing her homeboys
So everyone that raised their hand about insecurities need to put their hand in their ass
😂😂😂😭😭 that girl is all over the place.
I have a lot of female friends. Some women I am friend with because they weren’t attracted to me or Vice versa. In a lot case she is attractive, but the headache that come with her isn’t worth sleeping with her. She is either toxic in relationships or she is full of drama all the time. I am good.
Men can't be afraid of rejection if a woman doesn't want you must have abundance mentality. Friend zone is for guys who have false hope of they can get with the female one day.
She makes it out like because the man who was being her friend, she owes him a shot; It's really that because he was ur friend, he's *YOUR* best shot if u want a real, substantial, lasting relationship. He's doing *YOU* the favor.
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Video topic: ladies what is putting in work to be in a relationship?
because it doesn’t seem like the women on the panel understand themselves and how men think🤦🏾♂️
To Oliver’s point, a fair percentage of the time guys like that which he used in his description DID let the woman know that they want to be with her, the woman just wasn’t attracted to him from a visual standpoint or because something about his personality doesn’t do it for her and she discredits his advances and efforts even though she knows why is her friend and that he is orbiting. I say this because most women are not naive yet they make blow the reality of the situation off and try to play like they are.
And this is why when I’m in the friendzone, I don’t talk to them again bc if u attracted to me u would put me in another zone other than the friendzone
The direct approach is the best approach when dealing with women in any aspect. If she's not receptive of your demands then just keep it moving. No harm no foul on your part, on to the next.
The most disrespectful thing a woman can do to a man is friendzone him.
Nah. The most disrespectful thing a man can do his allow himself to be friendzoned. I am not just being friends with a girl I am attracted to.
so she should just fuck a dude she’s not into….what is wrong with telling a guy u not into him like that, I don’t think women be like I want to be friends with u, most guys just don’t cut the women off a d agreeing only to hope one day it will happen, I never pushed the let’s be friends on my male friends they just still stuck around
@@OMoore76 Would you be friends with a girl, you are not attracted to?
Once again I’m rockin wit Rico
I wouldn’t even be on here anymore if I was Oliver lol
By and large women don't have guy friends. They have guys that they THINK are their friends, but they're not. A friendship is a two-way street, and women just don't put forth the effort to be a true friend. What do friends do for each other? If he says:
- "You wanna go out?" They go out. She's expecting him to pay.
- "I need to talk to someone." She may talk to you, but if you start talking about any troubles you're having, you best believe that's going to make you look lesser in her eyes, and she WILL bring any weaknesses up to you again. Not to mention, she's usually not going to offer any solutions to the problem.
- "I'm in trouble. I had something come up and I need to borrow some money." If she even has any money and is willing to loan it to you, no matter how short a time period it is before you pay her back, or how understandable the situation may be why you weren't prepared for the expense - she's never going to forget that and will always think less of you for it.
No matter how often the roles may be reversed where she's asking the same exact things, even if it's 10x more often, she shows that sense of entitlement and expects the man to jump when she asks for help. Regardless of how many times she has some excuse for why she couldn't help him when he needed it.
And let that man get a come up: he wins the lottery, gets an inheritance, starts hitting the gym, and all of a sudden she's now interested in him. And God help that man if he ever gets a good woman as a GF, because women are fine with putting men in the friendzone, but a man getting in a relationship means the woman is now getting put in HIS friendzone and they see that as a rejection - regardless of how many times they may have turned him down. Women will keep a man as their friend because they want those resources, attention, and validation - they just don't want HIM, but they also don't want any OTHER woman to have him because they know they'll lose those resources/attention/validation. Women WANT men to orbit so they have access to all those things, but they want that man to always be available just in case THEY need something.
Big ups to Oliver. Dudes won't say it but at some point we've all been there and it is something to be said about somehow u can confide in ? I'm assuming being able to confide in your mate is of high importance maybe I'm wrong though. Oliver sounds like he makes himself available for that. Not every guy does. A few things I didn't hear from the women that makes Oliver putting it out there the way he did a shinning example for men of what not to do and possibly a bigger example of how women have the tendency to absolutely fuck themselves over. I didn't hear them say they can get the benefits they get from Oliver in another man... Or 5 month man and let's keep it a buck..5 week man if that. I also never heard them say they agree with the sentiment that men can't be friends with attractive women. The way they jumped on Oliver surely that would have to be their thought resolution. But u never heard them agree to that one ....I wonder why? So going forward fellas don't give women Nonsexual attention. Serves u no purpose.
LMAOO shorty violated him if I was Oliver I wouldn't even be on here no more
@8:00 Yes, Oliver that’s why men are friend-zoned.
Rico is talking facts no straight male can be friends with a female and not think of them watery guts 💦
Plus women know this also because I can guarantee you that their men don't have a bunch of "female friends" orbiting around. That man will have a fight every night if he did.
I feel sorry for oliver but at least he has finally learnt that women dont date their 'friends'. At least till they run out of options of course 😂😂😂
Exactly, only when the wall is approaching or after the wall has totally collapsed on them. The friend zone is a woman's saving grace aka safety net aka the event horizon before the inevitable which is lesbianism.
Feel like they need an interpreter, I don't fully agree with anyone, but I understand what they meant to say
Oliver was trying to say that, the women complain that they haven't found a someone who puts in enough effort , but someone in the friend zone has most probably put in the most effort, but they wouldn't even be considered, even though most things they do is what a partner in a relationship would do.
Then Rico seems to have a warped reality and hasn't experienced the value of a female perspective on situations, if you're always thinking I need to sleep with her then I personally think some maturing is needed, also we're adults, we can't always chat to each other, some of us prefer not to chat too much,but we'll always be there when you need us, that's still a friend, although I don't think you need to surround yourself with too many female friends, because then you are setting yourself up for more trouble (the extreme is the problem, moderation is okay)
At the end of the day the women just need to say that they don't find those people relationship attractive, maybe it's because people in the friend zone usually seem extra submissive to them,who knows, I think there is more than one variable for this.
But this was an interesting topic 👌🏾
Yeah, it's VERY immature to say that any female you are socially connected to is an automatic sexual "conquest." One of my besties is a straight Black man and we talk about every and anything. Our conversations span across so much more than sex, like family, child rearing, helping out our parents, career advancement.
Also, I've friendzoned aggressive men just as I have with passive men. It really is about whether there is overall compatibility or not.
Women love men who other women want so if u have women chasing u your chances of being friendzoned are slim to none,and to all my bros in the friendzone ask them to hook u up with one of her girls "since we just friends" and watch her reaction more times than not they're not gonna do it because then you won't be available to be her emotional doormat/uncompensated handyman and God forbid she hooks you up and you make her friend happy ,especially in the bedroom lol, she gonna be big mad and watch how more attractive you start to look to her and watch her and her friend stop being friends all of a sudden😂😂💯
totally agree
Oliver was speaking what a lot of men feel and women should pick up him. He's saying why not get with the guy who is showing through actions that he's the right one for you instead of just telling you? But Oliver, if your listening, good and attractive are two different things. Who throws a water drinking party? But if you say, "I got bottles. Turn up!" People will come. But yet, if their water is cut off, they may freak out. You shouldn't just be good to a women in order to win her. You have to do things that are attractive to her, attractive meaning what makes her gravitate towards you, in more ways than one.
At the end of the day, you gotta be BOTH the nice guy and bad boy. Its just about find the right BALANCE to pull it off correctly
Dani face when shorty called out Oliver 💀
The only person you should be friends with, is your partner. 💯. Unless you're single. Once you get in a relationship, you shouldn't be talking to your so called "friends"
Oliver get no oooo cheeks lmaoo
I love the raw talk 😼
This is why my gf can’t even be my friend like that if u get too “friendly” with any woman u loose points in the respect category.
Most women treat their males friends as a fan and trust me I'll never be fanned out over a woman. I'm married and I told my wife there's 2 things I wouldn't do which is worship her or become a fan. Those are beta male simp qualities.
This whole video showed why I stopped spending money on females I'm not f****** LOL
Whoa did we just get some information there sounds like this was kind of hitting home for somebody
@15:39 you hear a loud bang that sounded like glass shattering. That was Oliver's heart after he heard Amanda's comments.
At the end they proved Rico’s point. Never place yourself in that “friend” position or they’ll use it to not be with you
There’s no such thing as the friend zone. You’re either friends with a woman or you’re trying to sleep with her. If the only reason you’re friends with her is because you’re waiting to have sex, you’re not her friend. You’re just a dude playing a role looking for an opportunity. That’s not what a friend is. I don’t know why we feel somehow entitled to a woman because we’re “a nice guy.” If there’s no chemistry for her or mutual attraction either be a friend to the woman or leave her alone.
Rico on point on this one, Oliver 🤔🤦♀️
I'm sorry but I have to disagree with you on that one. Neither Oliver or Rico is on point. Don't get me wrong they have a very good point of perspective about this topic. But, in my, opinion the ladies have a better insight. 🤷🏽♂️
@@kevinnivek5022 I agree with what you said about the ladies
My Dad always told me that men don’t have “girl” friends. Men don’t need “girl” friends. They are only on the sidelines waiting to get in the game.
Poor Oliver
I feel sad for the dude who said he can't have female friends because all the ones that come in his circle he hit. That's real messed up.
Rico is RP aware
It's Easy to control your self when there is no opportunity of even getting it. so I hear what Oliver is saying but if you’re a guy that doesn’t even have the opportunity and you know you don’t have the opportunity that real life realization hit you hard so hard you can’t even deny your place in her life and the only place that you WILL have in her life is as a friend
the friend zone is a sub bench for when she breaks up with her current man, women know men don't want to be friends
Where the hell can you go to hear out the rest of the conversation this is it and it cuts off this was getting good
Friend definition=== a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations:
oliver off wit this bcuz if a bad chick that's ya friend ever gives u the opportunity then any guy gonna beat! facts I do have female friends but like Rico I have fyked
I understand where Oliver is coming from but I disagree
that only is right for the woman, not for us guys.
Think about Love & Basketball when Sanaa always loved Omar Epps since they were lil kids but Omar ain’t like Her back like that until they got older, Sanaa was in the friend zone but she was still orbiting around him, eventually they got married , point is ;
you can’t expect pussy or a relationship from a female friend that you haven’t express your feelings to
Not true . They were boyfriend/ girlfriend for 5 mins, then actually dated in college.
@@curtis75black Yeah I was going to say that lol. Terrible example. He liked her from the jump and they dated off and on throughout the movie. He just had to get his mind right before he made her his wife.
I love how they don’t address how long it takes for guys to open up to women. Like if they were friends for like 2 years or more, it does take that long for guys to open up and tell the women they’re friends with how they feel.
FRIEND
* Is someone who is present, expecially in difficultyes= Friend
* Is someone who is ok to have fun
* Is someone OK to have FUN
* Friendship between male and female is impossible
* Just when there are situations of costriction= school, work...
* Even there Nature shows that can happend something
* A man say
- With a girl friendship must be short
- Otherwise someone else is gonna fuxx her= it is not important who makes her hot, the important thing is who is gonna fuxx her
* Friendship is possible when u go out with other couples... but TODAY FRIEND, TOMMORROW MY ENEMY
* In this case it doesnt matter the meaning, but how u say things, even if are the same
* Cuz their personality is obstinate... expecially in cruelty in every situation or feelings= cruel in bed, cure them outside in little ditail (too much experience make her at least bisexual= she put it into ur axx)
* TRANSLATED= U MUST BE a bitch for a female bitch= she become a whore= u become deumanized
How come episodes only be 15 mins where can we watch full episodes.
The full episodes are up. Most say full episode
Yes, Amanda is on point, go straight for the killing man, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah, if I value the friendship more than I like the person, friend all day, especially if I don't foresee it going to the end that I would like.
I would never be a friend of any attractive woman as a single man.
Dont care what nobody says, Oliver not a simp he's mature. Keep it 100, if you a good dude more than likely you will be the guy that most women aren't ready for at the time. The moms will love you because they see who you re but the daughters mentally not there. Later in life they'll realize your wrth. Right person, wrong time. It's not a bad thing because when you take solace in it, you won't be getting into a lot of bad relationships, you keep growing mentally and financially..and they always come back when they finally "notice". I don't understand why ppl think being friend zoned is a bad thing, you aren't blocking your blessings they are. Most
This is more of a reason for a guy to keep it moving if the woman he's interested in isn't being receptive of his energy. His second move shouldn't be I know she ain't feeling me in that sense so let me befriend her and I'll get through that way. Once you go that route you will play yourself so you can't get mad at her for permanently sidelining you.
its been by stages with me: used to accept frienships, then i had a no female friends policyfor YEARS i didnt see the utility, i was just banging the women i wanted. But there is a LEVEL of women you can only reach easily through other women. S these days i have a limited list of like 10 girls max i call my friends.I hang out with them and they bring me other girls automatically, but by no means can i consider them real "friends". Im closer to the girls im intimate with .
Guys like Oliver get over looked because he knows you really ain't shit but he still loves you for who you are. None the less he'd make the best partner
He's the type that'll be friend zoned for 10+ years with a woman and rescues her from the streets become instant step daddy to her kids and say yeah I finally got her after chasing her for 10+ years. Man it hurts my heart to see guys tell their story on how they got with their woman.
I been experimenting with approaches with women. You get friendzone when you DONT bring sexual energy. If you never come at her and a sexual way. You will get friendzoned. Stop being a good guy, be aggressive and come with sexual tension. That's the sole difference. A friend do the same sht a lover do except bring sexual energy. Also a Friend will be more soft and open too. Something women say they want out of a man but really don't. Be more closed off and mysterious bring that energy and you shall get the cheeks
I'm not attracted to that at all. When a man brings that energy, I recognize the game and I cut him off immediately, no questions asked.
@@sbusisiweshaba1715 I doubt, not if he doing it right. Sexual tension is literally the difference between a lover and friend. A man never bring up your beauty or attraction and does nothing your male friends don't do. He'll just be the next friend.
@@shadowlee02 I have studied men's psychology and the manipulation tricks they do, so I would recognize it pretty quickly. This trick works on men too, when you're a nice girl (who's too available, too caring...), men take you for granted or they lose interest, they find you boring, be mysterious and their busy chasing you and moving mountains to impress you.
@@shadowlee02 There is one thing I haven't figured out though, maybe you can give me an answer. How does a man know on the first day, that he has met their future wife? I have heard some even know in 20 minutes.
@@sbusisiweshaba1715 you never truly know. It's just a beauty thing and first meeting personality, honestly. When both those appeal to a man's ideal wife type. He gets love struck. There's a lot of beautiful women even women more beautiful. But its a look a woman has that make a man mind go "I could wake up to her everyday." It's a thought that doesn't trigger often
If I like you I like you, if I don't then I just don't. It will never fn change period. No matter what happens. Get a makeover or win the lottery and I will never be into you. I have a 23 year old friendship with a friend. We never had sex but he has interest in me and he said it will never change. I said idgaf it will never happen lol. It's called chemistry and there is NONE between us🤷♀️
Give him a shot at the title!
I’ve been put in the friendzone one time. I feel like I was put in the friendzone because I wasn’t aggressive enough with my attentions, and I was tryna be Mr. Gentleman n be perfect instead of
1. Be myself
2. Let my attentions know from jump how I feel about her
3. 50/50 gentleman n Asshole
4. Never made the first move. Being to passive.
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From that day forward. I’ve never been put in the friend-zone again. 💯. Thank me later
I hate being friend zoned! I don’t have female friends that I tried to have sex with!
That is pure disrespect to let someone smash after 5 months then the guy they been knowing you and you know he wants you for 5 years. That’s why we are fucked up because we think we can find better when the love of our life is right in front of our face 😔
The only way it works is if the guy friend zone the female. Those are the best man woman friendships. Only when I friend zone her...that means I don't have attraction to her...
I feel like people are not realizing you can find someone attractive without being attracted to them two people can be attractive and be friends and not be sexually or romantically attracted to them ...
is there something going on with Oliver and Amanda bcuz shyt got real!!! real quick lol
Why don’t y’all do. Why men friend zone women? Cause we friend zone women too. Come on man this is kinda one sided.
These foolish women just ain't getting it ... men are telling you from their own point of view and you choose to speak for men...
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Oliver better not forget Amanda's words
Nah what Oliver described is a real life friend to me!! I won't want to be with that man
I agree with Oliver
Most men don't understand attention is currency. That's why a woman will in some cases just string guys a long.
Oliver Brother Amanda was correct about friendzone Oliver you explain perfect and Amanda gave you the right answer regarding what Nikki you be upfront and let that women that you want her another sometime Men take Oliver approach because fear of rejection however Oliver what Amanda said is not universal it can come down to culture beliefs
Also I feel what people dont talk about women dont know how to be friends for guys they friend zone for doing things for them or be there for them the same way they are for them
Women aren't stupid. They know which of their "friends" want them romantically. They just aren't attracted to him and that's why he is friend zoned. It's funny how they can use his like for them to get his time and attention, but when he tries to get aggressive and come out of the friend zone they want to say you aren't my friend, because you are just waiting for your turn to get the 🐈
Oliver a real one
Only time u can have a female friend as a man ….if the woman is Entrepreneur and you talk about money and business
don’t let females waste time your time make sure you’re putting in the time to build yourself
Lmao that guy got salty af
I understand Amanda you might think man should have friend but how YOU hear/say things are different for men here's an example: Girl says: "Oh David yea he's just my friend. I hang out with him and his four older brothers on the weekend." What I hear is: "OH yea David yea he's just my Boy-"friend" and his brothers they turn me out while my Husband is on business trip. I know it might not make sense but Black woman cheat as well just like Jada did. Peace
Ok I think like this a guy should say we should be friends first and then maybe later on we could build this relationship into something more simplereeeee
I think people need to listen to TONY GASKINS on this topic because people are confused and Tony will break it down perfectly for lost souls lol
Exactly… nailed it.
Oliver right
Wow that ending got ummmm real 😬😬😬
Men go in trying to get the girl and end up being befriended due to them not being direct with what they want or in some constant cases they are direct but the female insist on having friendship. Men end thinking this is a power move to work from the inside to get her but he is just setting himself for disappointment.
But not all the times
Or she's already with someone else, so she can't be dating him or any other guys in the friendzone.
Part 2?
😂 Danny makes me laugh…
Yo, a lot of women won't say it: But I had a homegirl put me on game that a lot of men get friendzoned cuz the woman feels like she'd fuck it up or that she's not good enuff.
In fact, my wife said the same thing about me. It's true shit
This is facts. I have girl friends tell me this all the time. 'I'm not together enough for him, I'm not ready for a man who's not gonna tolerate my lack of growth." Happens more often than people think.
Hmmm you might have to break this down
@@JROC4LYFE808 in what way?
@@vendeezel so your saying the reason woman friendzone you is because she thinks she isn’t good enough ?
@@JROC4LYFE808 SOMETIMES. Not always. There's no way 2 really know except if she tells u later or u know ur own value.
But 2 get on some psychoanalyst shit, why else would women opt 2 keep dealing with men who generally hold no value beyond some good sex and some fun time, yet constantly complain that "Men ain't shit"?
They're protecting themselves from having 2 be accountable 2 a man who's NOT fucked up. She knows she wouldn't be able 2 blame HIM if the relationship fails so she takes men who she knows are lesser than her so when the relationship fails, she can always blame HIM.
In that sense, it's nothing 2 even take personally. If u get friendzoned, u probably dodged a bullet. We all got growing up 2 do. They're doing u a favor 2 not put u thru whatever drama they do in their lack of maturity or, MAYBE, they just don't feel u like that. That's okay, too. Just don't wait around 4 it 2 change.
at 15:22 she gave him the real, he is probably not being flirty enough
This segment proves some women crave attention from men they friendzone, dont get finessed fellas 🤣
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Most of these women will use "friendship" to drain you out of your resources. Even women use other women in the name of "friendship". That's why every other month you gotta hear your woman complain about how her "friend" ain't shit. Don't get sucked into the friend zone fellas it's a graveyard.